77 Secrets Of Seduction By Alexandra Fox

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Supporting EBooks After you've learned the Unforgettable Woman way of seduction, you'll be ready to take your new dating skills to the next level with these supporting eBook collections by Alexandra Fox: Crucial Stages In Love Every relationship goes through 4 distinct, crucial stages, and you'll need certain skills to properly grow the relationship from one stage to the next. Learn how to grow your relationship from casual dating to married life in this powerful new eBook collection! Click Here

How To Play Hard-To-Get Sick of always chasing men? Get the upper hand in your relationship by learning how to play hard-to-get -- and make THEM chase YOU! Everything you need to know about the chasing game is in this powerful eBook collection. Click here

Unmask The Male Mind This eBook collection is all about male psychology: Why men act, think, and feel the way they do, and how to react in a way that grows his love for you and strengthens your relationship. Click here

From Attraction To Love Did you know that most of the “bumps in the road” in a romantic relationship are caused by NOT knowing the difference between attraction and love? This eBook collection will show you the RIGHT way to move your relationship forward. Click here

Table of Contents Chapter 1: Men Don’t Really Know What they Want

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Secret 1: Targeted Action Results in a Targeted Outcome

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Secret 2: Attraction is a Learned Skill

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Secret 3: Most Men are Confused

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Secret 4: What He Says versus What He Means

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Secret 5: The Most Reliable Indicators of His Desires

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Chapter 2: His Logical Mind versus His Emotional Mind

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Secret 6: An Emotional Man is Much Easier to Deal with than a Logical Man

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Secret 7: How to Bypass His Logical Mind – Method #1

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Secret 8: How to Bypass His Logical Mind – Method #2

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Secret 9: How to Bypass His Logical Mind – Method #3

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Chapter 3: Discover His 3 Deepest Needs

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Secret 10: His First Deepest Need

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Secret 11: His Second Deepest Need

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Secret 12: His Third Deepest Need

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Chapter 4: 3 Cornerstones of Seduction

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Secret 13: Seduction is persuasion – Cornerstone One

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Secret 14: Pleasure versus Pain – Cornerstone Two

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Secret 15: Hard versus soft persuasion – Cornerstone Three

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Secret 16: The 90/10 Rule for Persuasion

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Chapter 5: Power Roles in Seduction

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Secret 17: Every Man has a Desired Power Role

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Secret 18: The Two Types of Power Roles Men Secretly Want to Play

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Chapter 6: The 3 Steps of Seduction

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Secret 19: Learn from the Masters

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Secret 20: Disarm the Object of Seduction (Step 1)

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Secret 21: Identify His Desired Power Role (Step 2)

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Secret 22: Identify Your Desired Power Role (Step 3)

Chapter 7: The Seduction Gradient

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Secret 23: Gauging His Seduction Gradient

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Secret 24: The Seductive Gradient Criterion

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Secret 25: For the Men on the Left Side of the Seductive Gradient…

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Secret 26: For the Men on the Right Side of the Seductive Gradient

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Chapter 8: Feminine Domination

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Secret 27: The Key to “Feminine Domination”

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Secret 28: How Can You Apply Feminine Domination?

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Chapter 9: Adjust Your Seduction Based on His Mood

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Secret 29: Seductive Strategies for a Stressed Man

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Secret 30: Seductive Strategies for a Bored Man

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Chapter 10: The Best Candidate for Seduction

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Secret 31: A Very Healthy Respect for Women

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Chapter 11: The 3 Stages of Love

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Secret 32: Stage 1 - Infatuation (1-6 Months)

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Secret 33: Stage 2 - Emotional Bonding Stage (6-12 Months)

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Secret 34: Stage 3 - Stabilization (One Year and After)

Chapter 12: 3 Stages of Seduction

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Secret 35: Stage One: Developing Interest

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Secret 36: Stage Two - Sexual Expression

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Secret 37: Stage Three - Getting The Commitment

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Secret 38: Take Your Time with Your Seduction

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Chapter 13: 3 Commitment Deal-breakers

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Secret 39: Comfort – The Enemy of Getting a Man to Commit

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Secret 40: Don't Move in with a Man and Relinquish Your Best Negotiating Position

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Secret 41: Watch Out for Speeding Tickets - Sex

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Chapter 14: Commitment Deal-Makers

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Secret 42: Motivate Him With Your Expectations

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Secret 43: Involvement with An Emotional Touch Leads to Commitment

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Secret 44: How to Use Tough Challenges to Build Deep Connections for Commitment

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Secret 45 Timing the Reward – The Secret to Avoid Being Taken for Granted

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Chapter 15: Set Up Love Deadlines Secret 46: Exclusivity and Commitment Deadlines

Chapter 16: Discover A Man's Ultimate Fantasy

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Secret 47: If You Won't Accommodate Him, Someone Else Will

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Secret 48: Don't Just Say NO Because You Think You Won't Like It. Give It A Chance!

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Secret 49: The Bedroom is the Place You Can't Afford to Be Selfish

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Secret 50: How to Find Out What His Fantasies/Fetishes Are?

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Chapter 17: The Key to Enticing a Man is Change, Change, And Change

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Secret 51: Secret 51: Visual Change

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Secret 52: Intellectual Change

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Chapter 18: Be a Woman of Value

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Secret 53: Financial Value

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Secret 54: Support Value

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Secret 55: Network Value

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Chapter 19: Create Jealousy in a Man to Get Him Back

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Secret 56: Step 1 - Agree with him

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Secret 57: Step 2 - Introduce Worthy Competition

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Secret 58: Step 3 - Analyze the Results

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Chapter 20: Play the Role of Victim

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Secret 59: How to Inspire a Man to Change

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Chapter 21: Stay Away from the Toxic 3

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Secret 60: The Power of Controlling Your Emotional Environment

Chapter 22: Little Battles versus Decisive Wars

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Secret 61: Distinguish Between Skirmishes and All-Out War

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Secret 62: The Art of Winning No Matter What He Chooses

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Chapter 23: Read Your Man Like A Book Secret 63: Male Psychology Decoded

Chapter 24: How to Create Your Love Safety Net for a Rainy Day

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Secret 64: Why Should You Have a Love Safety Net?

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Secret 65: 2 Ways to Put a Love Safety Net in Place

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Chapter 25: How to Cheat-Proof Your Relationship

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Secret 66: Forbidden Fruit #1 - Your Girlfriends and Your Boyfriend

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Secret 67: Forbidden Fruit #2 - Your Man and His Female Employees/Co- workers

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Secret 68: Forbidden Fruit #3 - Your Man and The Wives/Girlfriends of His Male Friends

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Chapter 26: Control Your Man's Psychological Environment

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Secret 69: Be the Most Influential Person In His Psyche

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Secret 70: Secret 70: 3-Step Attack Strategies

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Chapter 27: How to Create Psychological Discomfort in a Man Secret 71: Creating Psychological Discomfort

Chapter 28: The Power of Being Abnormally Optimistic

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Secret 72: Step 1 - Dream as Big as You Want

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Secret 73: Step 2 - Refuse to Listen to Any Negative Thoughts

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Secret 74: Step 3 - Break the Big Goals into Small, Achievable Steps

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Chapter 28: Become a True Seductress

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Secret 75: First Discover Your Authentic Self, Then Be A Chameleon

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Secret 76: Don't Take No For An Answer

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Chapter 29: Conclusion Secret 77: The New Journey Begins …

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A Final Word From The Author

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Bonus Report #1: Seductive Body Language

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Bonus Report #2: 100 Seductive Words

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Bonus Report #3: The Seductive Voice

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Chapter 1 Men Don’t Really Know What They Want Dear Friend, Let me start this letter by asking you a few questions. Please be honest when you answer them. Have you ever felt frustrated because the relationship is struck and going nowhere? Have you ever felt confused about what he's thinking and why he's not responding to you the way you'd like? Have you ever felt a lack of deep connection between you two? Doesn't it just kill you that when it comes to communicating with him, you have no idea what to say or what to do to get your desired outcome? Have you ever wondered how some women can get any man they like? They are never the best-looking, the smartest, or the most accomplished. But for whatever reason, they can get a man to do anything for them … without even lifting a finger. If so, you are not alone. For many years, I was confused about how www.unforgettablewoman.net

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attraction works. I had no idea what to do or what to say to get my desired outcome. It took me many painful trials and errors to finally figure out these must-know secrets that will help you transform your love life.

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Targeted Action Results in a Targeted Outcome To get your desired outcome in love, you need to execute the actions

that will result in that specific outcome. I used to believe that attracting a man was about being myself and having my fingers crossed, hoping for the best. The reality is that attracting a man is no different from getting a new client. In either case, both are looking for specific things that can satisfy their needs. And your actions indicate to them if you have those qualities that they're looking for.

Summary – Secret # 1: To get your desired outcome in love, you need to execute the actions that will result in that specific outcome. Target Mr. Right and show him you have the qualities he is looking for.

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Attraction is a Learned Skill Being an attractive woman isn't something you're born with. If you

look at the top seductresses who have seduced some of the most powerful men in the world, you would notice that beauty is not their most important asset. A deep understanding of male psychology and how seduction works will serve you better than a pretty face. You may have heard of some of these legendary seductresses: Cleopatra, Wallis Simpson and the now infamous Camilla Parker-Bowles. These women were neither the smartest nor the most beautiful (please tell me you know someone who looks better than Camilla!). But there is one thing they know and understand better than 99.9% of women in this world – they know HOW TO INFLUENCE MEN. In other words, they know how to align men to their way of thinking and make them want to satisfy each and every one of their little wishes. They also make men fall so deeply in love that in the case of Wallis Simpson, King Edward VIII gave up his throne to spend his life with “the woman I love.” Imagine you want to become a successful account. You will have toe

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LEARN how to work with numbers. Right? To be a successful woman in the dating world, you need to LEARN the skills of attracting and keeping the man of your dreams.

Summary – Secret # 2: When it comes to attraction and seduction, beauty is not your most important assed. To be a successful woman in the dating world, you need to LEARN the skills of attracting and keeping the man of your dreams.

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Most Men are Confused Here's the reality: most men are confused. They can be the smartest

guys when it comes to work, but when it comes to what make them feel deep attraction for a woman, they're just as confused as we are sometimes. The thing is that most men don't know what they want. Take up the challenge (AND the responsibility) to figure out what he truly wants and then give it to him. Have you ever met a guy who told you something like this, “I like a nice, honest woman who doesn't play games and who truly cares about me.” Then, you see this exact same guy fall for a woman who play games and who doesn't care about him at all. Have you ever dated a guy who told you he liked a woman to act a certain way and when you did exactly as he asked, he got bored and lost interest? And how about this one? The guy would say that he loves you and wants to be with you, but he never makes time for you or dates you. If you have ever seen any of these inconsistencies between what he

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says and what he does, you've witnessed one of many examples of the fact that men are confused and they don't know what they want.

Summary – Secret # 3: Many men are simply confused and do not know what they want. Take up the challenge and the responsibility to find out what he wants and then give it to him.

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What He Says versus What He Means

One common mistake the majority of women make, is to believe what a man says he wants, is what he truly wants. So she modifies her behavior accordingly, in the hope that she will make herself desirable. This will never work. The reason is not because she's not smart. It's not because she's not working hard enough. The real reason is because she has the wrong source for her information. A man's words are the most unreliable source of information you can use to trigger desire and passion in him.

Summary – Secret # 4: A man's words are the most unreliable source of information you can use to trigger desire and passion in him. Don’t change your behavior on what he says.

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The Most Reliable Indicators of His Desires So, if a man's words can not be trusted, what could be trusted? What's

a reliable source of information? And how can you dig the information out.

Here is how: A man's past relationships will give you some of the most important information you need about understanding his hot buttons, attraction triggers, what works for him, and what doesn't. Although it's important that you know what didn't work out in those relationships, the most important information you need to dig out is what DID work in that relationship. What made her attractive in his eyes? A man is innately selfish and he won't waste his time on someone he is not attracted to. There must be something about her that attracts him; something that, despite everything else, made him want to stay with her. Once you find out what worked to attract him, you would have discovered the things he unconsciously is attracted to. From my experience, asking about his longest relationship will always give you a lot of information. Find out what made him want to have a www.unforgettablewoman.net

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relationship with her. What made him want to spend all that time with her? You may have to do an analysis here yourself, since most guys don't know what things attract them. No next up, we'll talk about the difference between a man' logic mind and his emotional mind. Knowing the difference is crucial.

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Titles In The Unforgettable Woman Library: The “Love 101” Collection

77 Secrets Of Love Alexandra's first and most successful eBook collection. Get the lowdown on the most basic and most important secrets of love and relationships. A must-read for anyone who wants to improve all areas of their love lives! Click here

From Attraction To Love Did you know that most of the “bumps in the road” in a romantic relationship are caused by NOT knowing the difference between attraction and love? This eBook collection will show you the RIGHT way to move your relationship forward. Click here

Crucial Stages In Love Every relationship goes through 4 distinct, crucial stages, and you'll need certain skills to properly grow the relationship from one stage to the next. Learn how to grow your relationship from casual dating to married life in this powerful new eBook collection! Click here

77 Secrets Of Seduction The "sequel" to 77 Secrets Of Love, this eBook collection goes deeper into the more specific, more intimate secrets about making a man love you. Learn how to get past his mind, and win his heart! Click here

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The “Dating Game” Collection

Irresistible Attraction Triggers Success in the dating game is all about one thing: Attraction. And this eBook collection delves into the most effective ways to trigger the three different kinds of attraction. Click here

How To Flirt With Men Flirting is a skill that is often misunderstood. It is not slutty, in fact it is a crucial part of relationships, whether you are meeting someone for the first time, or engaged to be married. Remind your man how sexy you are by learning how to flirt like an expert. Click here

Signs He Loves You Some men are not as good as other to let you know how they feel. This eBook has my best techniques and tips on detecting the signs that he's in love with you. Click here

Get Him To Call You More If you're tired of always initiating communication with your man, it's time to turn the tables with this new eBook collection! Learn the communication skills that will make him love you more, and take a more responsible role in your relationship. Click here

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77 Secrets Of Dating Confidence A special eBook collection that's dedicated to boosting the single most attractive trait in the dating game: Confidence. Click here

77 Ways To Lose A Guy Most women fail in relationships because they subconsciously make "relationship-killing" mistakes. This eBook will teach you how to end your string of bad relationships, and build that ONE GOOD RELATIONSHIP that will change your life forever! Click here

The “Serious Relationship” Collection

77 Secrets Of Commitment A special eBook collection that's dedicated to the long-term: How to handle your relationship in a way that encourages your man to commit to you for the rest of his life. Click here

Make Him Put A Ring On It Especially-written for women who seem to be "always the bridesmaid, but never the bride." Strategies to become more marriage-ready, and to attract marriage-ready men into your life. Click here

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Play Hard-To-Get Sick of always chasing men? Get the upper hand in your relationship by learning how to play hard-to-get -- and make THEM chase YOU! Everything you need to know about the chasing game is in this powerful eBook collection. Click here

The Power Of Sex As a woman, you have an inner power to tap from that would not only propel you in life, but in love as well. Some call it an “Inner Goddess,” others call it feminine energy. It is real, it is powerful and learning how to tap into it will change who you are, what you can do, and how others perceive you. Click Here

The “Love Solutions” Collection

77 Secrets To Save Your Relationship This eBook collection is dedicated to women whose relationships are in trouble of a break-up, or have already broken up. Specific strategies to avoid, prevent, and heal break-ups. Click here

Why He Likes Her More Some women just have that edge that makes men flock to them. You may be one of them, but if you’re not, you owe it to yourself to learn the secrets these women know about how to be chased and won over by the best males on the dating scene. Learn how to be an unforgettable woman! Click here

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Friends With Benefits Some women prefer human contact with no strings attached, but most women want to have a real relationship with a real man and be in love. Being in a FWB relationship can be more complicated than you think. Learn how to manage this type of relationship and avoid getting your heart broken! Click here

Long-Distance Relationships A comprehensive guide about long-distance relationships: How to handle one, how to know if it will work out, and specific techniques that increase your chances of eventually settling down together. Click here

Oops, I Slept With Him Regardless of how unforgettable a woman is, we all make mistakes along the way in dating. The good news is, most of them are fixable. To learn how to turn your worst mistakes around, download this eBook. Click Here

The Breakup Cure Getting over a man and a broken heart is difficult. It hurts, and it makes you rethink yourself, your life, your priorities, and your future. With this eBook “The Breakup Cure” you will learn all the secrets to get through a breakup and come out the other side stronger. Click Here

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Get Over Mr. Wrong Is he right or wrong for you? Is it time to try again or move on? Getting over the wrong man is difficult if he owned your heart. Learn how to get back to the happy, relationship-ready unforgettable woman that you are. Click here

The “Male Psychology” Collection

Dating An Alpha Male Get to know the anatomy of the “alpha male” – who he is, what he's like, where he hangs out, and what he wants in the dating game. Learn how to earn the affections of some of the most desirable single men in the dating game today. Click here

Romantic Words For Men This eBook will show you the most effective ways to communicate with men. You will learn how to instantly create emotional connection and build attraction. Click here

Dating An Emotionally-Unavailable Man Does he tell you he loves you, but doesn't want to commit? Watch out -- he's a classic case of the emotionally-unavailable man! Here's how to date a commitment-phobic man, slowly opening him to the idea of spending the rest of his life with you. Click here

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Unmask The Male Mind This eBook collection is all about male psychology: Why men act, think, and feel the way they do, and how to react in a way that grows his love for you and strengthens your relationship. Click here

Outplaying The Player Getting your heart broken by a player is different than other heartbreaks. You usually feel like a fool for not seeing the red flags. Unfortunately some players are so good at the game that they can fool just about anyone. This book gives you all the information you need to beat him at his own game. Click Here

Mixed Signals Every woman who has ever been in a relationship or dating knows that the mixed signals transmitted by men can drive you crazy. They say one thing and do another. How do you figure out what he is trying to say? This eBook will help you learn to interpret what he is really saying so that you respond right. Click here

Escape The Friend Zone If you are in love with a man, but you find yourself stuck in the Friend Zone, it is usually heartbreaking. Sometimes you have to walk away, and sometimes you can get him to connect with your heart. This book offers the secrets that will help you plan your escape route into his heart, or onward toward Mr. Right! Click Here

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