Authentic King Manual

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Table of Contents

…................................................ Introduction................................................................1 My Story...............................................................................3 The Most Important Question.................................................5

Chapter One................................................................6 Introduction..........................................................................7 Who You Learn From.............................................................9 Teachability......................................................................... 14 You Don't Know...................................................................14 Becoming Teachable............................................................17 The Golden Rule..................................................................23 The Four Levels Of Learning.................................................29 Getting Good With Women Really Fast..................................32 Love Of The Game...............................................................33 Lose your Pimp Ego.............................................................34 Conclusion..........................................................................36

Chapter Two..............................................................38 Introduction........................................................................39 The Why.............................................................................39 What Is Reality.................................................................... 43 Who You Are.......................................................................44 The Higher Self...................................................................46 Emotional Guidance System.................................................49 Law Of Attraction.................................................................53 Vibrational Access................................................................55 Incremental Jumps..............................................................59 Inspired Action.................................................................... 62 Raising Your Vibration..........................................................65 Conclusion..........................................................................67

Chapter Three...........................................................68 Introduction........................................................................69 Women's Emotions..............................................................69 The Feminine Is Like A Mirror............................................... 70 Masculine Attraction Formula................................................73 Friends Finish Last...............................................................76

Girl Humour.........................................................................77 Women Are Prettier For A Reason.........................................79 Your World..........................................................................81 Conclusion..........................................................................82

Chapter Four.............................................................84 Introduction........................................................................85 Becoming A 5% Man...........................................................86 The Inner Game Of Opening................................................8 8 Entitlement.........................................................................88 Social Snapshotting.............................................................89 Parting The Seas.................................................................90 Rejection On The Approach..................................................92 Pickup Is Dirty.....................................................................93 Eradicate Reaction Seeking..................................................94 Go Direct............................................................................95 Token Resistance.................................................................96 Assuming Attraction...........................................................101 Stop Trying........................................................................103 What To Say......................................................................105 Give Up Results Seeking.....................................................109 Conclusion........................................................................110

Chapter Five............................................................112 Introduction......................................................................113 Express, Never Impress......................................................114 Honor Your Canvas............................................................ 115 The Self If Always Coming Through....................................116 Authenticity.......................................................................117 Your True Personality..........................................................119 Presence Is Sexy................................................................120 Girls Game........................................................................122 It's Okay To Fail.................................................................123 Let Go Of Logic................................................................. 125 Your Reality Is Dominant....................................................127 Comfort In Your Environment.............................................128 Clarity Of Intent.................................................................130 All Girls Are Equal Or Lesser Value......................................130 Abundance Vs Scarcity.......................................................131 The Role Of Money & Looks................................................132 Attraction & RAS................................................................133

Stop Caring About Impressing Girls.....................................135 Conclusion........................................................................137

Chapter Six.............................................................139 Introduction......................................................................140 Energy and Human Interaction...........................................141 Rejection From Girls...........................................................142 Always Be Learning............................................................142 Abundance Mentality..........................................................143 Self-Expressive Game Vs Lines............................................144 Getting Into State..............................................................145 Becoming A Closer.............................................................152 Annihilating Fear................................................................153 Talking To Girls..................................................................154 Befriending The Peer Group................................................157 Move Girls Around.............................................................158 Being Physical...................................................................159 Touch Touch Touch............................................................161 Tooling Dudes...................................................................162 How To Get Physical.......................................................... 162 Avoiding Being Weird.........................................................163 Escalate On A High Note....................................................166 Token Escalation Resistance...............................................166 Your Reality Is Dominant....................................................167 Nice Guys Finish Last.........................................................168 Stop Approval Seeking.......................................................169 Superficiality......................................................................170 Social Realities & Approaching Mixed Groups.......................170 Being Loud........................................................................171 Having No Agenda.............................................................172 Disarming Boyfriends.........................................................174 Going In Messy..................................................................174 The Illusion Of A “Perfect Pickup”........................................175 Social Conditioning............................................................176 Dance Floor Game.............................................................177 Conclusion........................................................................180

Chapter Seven.........................................................181 Get Sexual Fast.................................................................183 Sexual Not Horny...............................................................183 Becoming Playfully Sexual.................................................. 184

Girls Are Hornier Than Guys...............................................185 Pull The Trigger And Close The Deal....................................185 Two Paths.........................................................................186 Quit Wasting Time.............................................................189 Physically Leading Women..................................................189 Taking Doesn't Get You Laid...............................................190 Fuck Getting Approval........................................................ 191 How To Kiss A Girl.............................................................192 A Pimp's Vibe....................................................................194 Enjoying Sex Vs Ego Sex....................................................195 Push Your Boundaries........................................................198 Retention..........................................................................199 Ditch Porn.........................................................................203 Giving Her The Gift Of The Rush.........................................204 Escalation Rejection...........................................................205 Go First.............................................................................206 Being Unapologetic About Core Desires...............................207 Escalation Windows...........................................................208 Not “Getting” Pussy............................................................209 Last Minute Resistance.......................................................210 Conclusion........................................................................211

Chapter Eight..........................................................214 Introduction......................................................................215 Compare Yourself Only To You............................................216 Narcissism Is Sexy............................................................. 217 The Pure Effortless Expression Threshold............................218 Perfection Syndrome..........................................................218 Empty Your Cup.................................................................219 Taking Action.....................................................................220 Your Purpose.....................................................................221 Not Now = NEVER.............................................................223 Obstacles..........................................................................224 Commitment.....................................................................226 Taking Full Responsibility....................................................226 Fear..................................................................................227 Execute.............................................................................228 Do It Or Don't...................................................................228 Stop Caring What Others Think...........................................229 It's ALL About Belief...........................................................230 Keys To Building A Solid Identity.........................................234

Authenticity.......................................................................235 Boundaries........................................................................236 Focus On Your Good Qualities.............................................237 Short Term Pain, Long Term Gain........................................238 The Chode Compass..........................................................238 Conclusion........................................................................239

Chapter Nine...........................................................240 Introduction......................................................................241 Hot Girl Syndrome.............................................................242 A Natural's Instincts........................................................... 243 Not Taking Ownership........................................................246 You Are Enough.................................................................247 Glass Of Water...................................................................249 Pickup And Sex Is Not A Big Deal........................................250 It's All Practice...................................................................251 Living A Full Life................................................................252 Naturals Focus On The Positive........................................... 253 Own Who You Are.............................................................255 Core Confidence................................................................256 Becoming Present..............................................................256 Conclusion........................................................................259

Chapter Ten.............................................................261 Introduction......................................................................262 You Are Who Your Friends Are............................................263 Respect First, Popularity Second......................................... 264 Social Trees.......................................................................264 Preselection.......................................................................265 Social Snapshotting............................................................265 Value Comes First..............................................................266 Value, Time, & Energy........................................................268 Good Emotions..................................................................269 Social Win/Wins................................................................. 271 Value Calibration................................................................273 Breaking Into New Social Trees...........................................274 Adding On More Social Circles.............................................274 Explode Your Social Life.....................................................275 A Social Bond Deconstructed..............................................276 Social Tree Essentials.........................................................277 Don't Dethrone The King.................................................... 278

Befriend The Entire Group..................................................279 Social Buzz........................................................................280 Inviting People Out............................................................281 Become The Party Host......................................................281 Becoming Real...................................................................282 On Boundaries...................................................................283 Abundance Mindset............................................................284 Fuck Social Conditioning.....................................................284 Offering More Social Value..................................................286 Vibing 101.........................................................................287 Fuck People Pleasing..........................................................288 Social Presence..................................................................289 Offering More Social Value..................................................286 Vibing 101.........................................................................287 Conclusion........................................................................290

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INTRODUCTION Welcome to the Authentic Attraction System. Words cannot express how excited I am to finally be able to bring you this incredible wealth of value. I'm so stoked to be able to deeply impact your life in this unique and powerful way. You see, I have a theory: I truly believe all things happen for a reason and I just know that the Universe is giving you exactly what you need at this exact moment in time to go to the next level. I'm so excited to finally release this system (my life's work, Labour Of Love~) to the public. You are about to learn *very* scarily-effective techniques developed from interacting with virtually thousands of hot young women night after night in field. I've been going out 4-5 nights a week for the past 5 years to learn how to bed the hottest women on the planet, consistently, and now I'm bringing back the formula. You are going to find that after listening to these CDs and going through this manual that A LOT will begin to change for you, and I've done that VERY intentionally. Each segment is almost like a seed that becomes planted into your mind. You might give the materials one listen and then go “oh that's interesting...” but as time goes on you'll suddenly find yourself with more in your life than you ever dreamed possible. If you truly and honestly start applying and mastering these techniques and concepts, your whole life and identity around people, women especially, is going to transform virtually overnight. At the end of the day, it's all about RESULTS. I've specifically intended this course to trim the fat and get to the core of what magnetically attracts beautiful women, with consistency. All that I ask of you is to have an open mind and actually USE and APPLY what I am presenting to you here. Next, DO NOT SKIP AHEAD. The Authentic Attraction System has been set up in a very specific sequential way. It literally acts like a “Secret Code”, where you are not

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able to go on to the next level until you understand the previous. Each section builds and builds on the last, until at the end all of the concepts will CLICK together for you in a very powerful and profound way. This click may happen to you at anytime during these materials. You'll know it when you get it because bedding beautiful women will suddenly become VERY fun and VERY easy. Your friends will not understand how or why so many hot girls are flooding into your life. Again, DO NOT SKIP AHEAD. The way this system is set up is very specific, tailored to your unique development. I want you to think of it like we are growing a plant. The plant in this case will become your blossoming understanding of bedding sexy women. First, we need a solid foundation such as soil and a pot. Is that enough to grow a fully blossoming plant yet? No, obviously not. You can't skip ahead and grow a plant if you don't have a container first, so this step is essential, but it's still not enough. Next we will need seeds. Simply throwing a seed in an soil pot still will not produce results for you. You'll need nutrients. Then water. Then sunlight and lots of fresh air. Finally, after EACH crucial ingredient has been added, THEN (and only then) will the plant blossom and bear it's delicious fruit. Each piece of material is presented to you at just the right moment. You wont be able to go on to the next level until you understand the first key concepts. The beginning chapters (and Discs in the AAS) are intended to set the critical foundational elements. Once a perfect growth environment has been set up in the fertile soil of your mind, the rest acts as a growth factor so it all takes root. At the end, you'll get a massive reality cliiiiiiickk. Many guys have been reporting a lot of freaky things happening to them. Such as reaching “perma state” around Women and ending up attracting girls everywhere they go on autopilot. Each day I'm flooded with emails of guys telling me their stories how they lost their virginity THE VERY DAY they finished going through this system. Other guys tell me that girls just STARE at them everywhere they go and it's really freaky. It's a lot to deal with, this material is potent.

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My Story I've spent the last 5+ years going out in the field 4-5 nights a week in order to learn how to consistently pick up and bed hot “total 10” women. It's been a long hard road to get to the current level of proficiency I'm at, but every step of the way has been totally worth it. Back when I decided to get this area of my life handled, I literally forced myself to continually be surrounded by some of the best “naturals” on the planet in order to learn from and implement some of their wicked gaming styles into my own pickup arsenal. The more I went out with these guys and starting approaching lots & lots of girls, the more addicted to this unique hobby I became. Passion shortly swept in and before you know it I was going out as much as humanely possible. You couldn't keep me in the house or I'd go f#%*ing insane. Friday night would come (along with the adrenaline rush) and before you know it I'd be at the nearest venue hitting up the hottest women there, night after night after night. It was my personal Fight Club. I felt so alive, pushing through my fears and comfort zone and being rewarded with the prize of a hot new girl's pussy, night after night. I LOVE game and I LOVE Women. Picking up girls is my Labour of Love~ I've learned a lot during my journey. Each and every day I feel I'm getting better and better, closer to the Man I'm supposed to be, continually evolving & constantly growing. I try to keep an open mind about everything as much as I can so I'm continually learning. In terms of my current success level with women, aka the “Tanigble results”, I have an abundance of hot women regularly flooding into my life and I'm passionate about each and every one of them. Other guys would call these girls my “fuckbuddies” but to me they're special ;). I've pretty much got this area of my life HANDLED.

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Anyways, after years and years of being immersed in the field, that is to say continually forcing myself to engage with lots and lots of hot women 4-5 nights a week for nearly six years now, I developed a certain potent skillset at this. Pretty soon, getting laid for me was as easy as getting a drink of water. Other guys, after seeing me pulling hot girl after hot girl home almost each and every weekend, began to ask me for advice on “how exactly I'm doing it.” I don't have an ego. Whether that's a curse or a blessing I'm not sure... but I never saw myself as a “SUPER GREAT PICKUP MASTERMIND GURU” so I didn't realize or understand what I was doing in-field to bed all these gorgeous women could be so valuable (and transferred) to other guys. I didn't even REALIZE how wickedly awesome my concepts around picking up girls truly were, or that they could directly alter the results other men were getting. Eventually, after being continually asked for advice on how exactly I'm getting all this wild success with all these beautiful girls, I began teaching some basic concepts that took me years to learn, master, and develop for myself. Every time I taught a concept to a guy, I noticed when he would eagerly listen, apply, and get a RESULT, or, if he would just sit there staring blankly with his eyes glazing over. This was the very crude beginnings of what has a been lifelong mission of developing and continually refining the Authentic King Attraction System for consistently learning to bed (and fully enjoy) lots and lots of hot young women. Currently, guys I teach have reported ridiculous success. When I say ridiculous I mean ridiculous. I love hearing stories of guy's first threesomes or stripper pulls or whatever equally awesome result after completing this system for the first time. If you have a personal success story please email it to me at [email protected] This program is all about bringing your dreams into a bonafide reality. Even tough that tantalizing threesome is only going to be another fleeting Now moment, I'm going to show you how to get lots of them.

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The Most Important Question

“Why not the best?” That's right; why not the “total 10” hot supermodel girlfriend(s), the mansion of the beach, access to elite social circles and events? Why not the HIGHEST quality of everything in your (yes YOUR) life? This is the most important question you will ever ask yourself. Why? Because if you do not drill it deep down into your subconscious mind that you DO in fact deserve all the success (that will FOR SURE be flooding into your life with the application of the various techniques in this program), you will self-sabotage not only your interactions with gorgeous Women, but all crucial areas of your life. You wont take business risks or will be lazy about executing them because deep down you feel that you do not truly deserve to be rich. I want you to begin to focus your mind in a way to develop a sense of self entitlement that you DO deserve the highest quality of everything in your life. NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS. You've gotta know what your worth and you've got to have the balls to go out and get what you're worth. When you see a hot woman walking down the street instead of like most guys thinking of all the reasons why you don't deserve her, think of the reasons why you DO. Bottom-line man: You DESERVE it. Never forget that and ask yourself that question, daily. As soon as you get up in the morning.

“Why not the best?”

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INTRODUCTION I cannot stress the importance of this section enough. If you truly take the time to master the material in this one section, it will be worth the entire price of this program, and so much more. If applied correctly as intended, it is going to BLOW YOU AWAY how many incredible results you're going to be creating in your life in ALL areas. Again, please do not skip ahead. Remember, none of the other material will take root unless we first establish a solid foundation. The first thing I want to do is teach you some Secret Society concepts on the subject of learning and mastering. They originate from certain Secret Societies teachings to the highest ranked members of their elite organizations. Contrary to popular belief, some of these groups are dead-accurate in their “secrets” of manipulating the fabric of reality and getting precisely what they want out of life in a rich abundance. They understand on a very deep and profound level the laws of the universe and how to bend and tweak them to fit their will. People often ask me where I learned this material, I quickly assure my students it's 100% legit and comes from some very powerful mentors I have had the gift of having in my own life who've shared these incredible teachings with me. Bottom line, they work. All you have to do is start applying these concepts and you'll realize how potent and scarily results-producing this stuff is if you are to have any doubt of it's validity. Some of the concepts you're about to learn come from some of the greatest minds in terms of life success (and pickup) on the PLANET. Some are based from ground-breaking new studies & research. Others are ancient 3000-year-old laws of the Universe passed on from generation to generation throughout various elite organizations, religions, and traditions that have survived the test of time not only for their validity, but their sheer potency and power to influence

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drastic changes in your life, immediately. We live in a Universe that is of the law of cause and effect. Nothing “just happens.” Things happen just. Think Secret Societies... the rich happy wealthy guys who have got “life figured out” so to speak and basically run the planet. They know how the Universe works and make life bow down to them like their little bitch to their every whim. These guys live in utter abundance of cash, hot pussy, and all the richest most deeply-rewarding experiences life has to offer. I've had the extreme advantage in my own life to learn from one of these men, so on this disc a lot of the most potent concepts that will literally put you in the Matrix in terms of societal evolution will be presented to you here, in full. You now have access to the highest secret teachings on the planet that will produce incredible results for you in your own life as soon as you begin applying them. This stuff can be very isolating. As they say, it's lonely at the top. After fully understanding and implementing what you're about to learn here, it can feel like you're existing on a 'higher plane' than the regular dumbed-down masses of society. You will achieve far more in less time than you've ever imagined possible. Pretty soon those “dreams” you have will start to become your bona-fide reality. That is the purpose which forms the basis of this entire program. At the end of the day it's all about the RESULTS you will be getting. Also, It's important not to develop an ego and to develop compassion for other's who did not receive the benefit or gain the chance of getting to learn this material. I hope that after learning this stuff you will go on into your life and become a powerful mentor and leader to younger men, as well as make many positive changes in the world.

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Again, you're going to be BLOWN AWAY by the results the material on this first disc is going to net you in your life. In fact, due to the incredible wealth-generating potentialities of this material alone, it will be worth the price of the entire program, or much more. But we're only getting started here, I just want to lay a solid foundation so you're able to fully absorb and implement the rest of the program so you can see actual hot licking tasting sucking fucking RESULTS in your life. This is NOT going to be “just another pickup product” you throw under the bed to collect dust or that idly sits in a folder on your desktop, never to be opened or utilized again. I did not bust my ass for years creating and teaching this system refining it over half a decade to let the highly potent, results-producing material simply go to waste. That is why we are establishing this very important solid foundation. So enough's enough. Let's jump right in, King. Who Do You Learn From? The very first important training concept is, who do you learn from? Today we live in the information age. The “teacher ego” runs rampant. Each and every day more and more “gurus” are popping up and almost everybody now is a hot new author or is coming out with a hot new product. Some guys get off on teaching the big seminars. They feel like Rock Stars up there all mic'd on stage. But is the material they are presenting actually of high quality and actually results-producing?

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The very first concept they teach you in these Secret Societies and elite organizations is to first and foremost select the right teachers and mentors. Many people today want to become super wealthy, so they purchase books by Bill Gates or Donald Trump. But the problem is, these books weren't actually WRITTEN by Bill or Donald, they just okay'd the publication. They were written by ghost writers, containing no viable content whatsoever. If you wanted to learn how to build muscle, you wouldn't take advice from your 120 pound skinny-weakling little brother, nor would you diligently apply his teachings in your own muscle building career. It's sad, far too many people today are learning from all the wrong sources, struggling very hard honestly & diligently applying the material they are learning – but it's flawed from the get-go! These poor saps are starting off on the wrong foot and so in effect they GET NOT RESULTS! Another key example is the recent explosion of “how to make money” course materials. The problem is, the people putting out these products (And some of them are actually very good, don't get me wrong here..) do not know the fundamentals of how to truly make money. They're cheesy marketers essentially. They've put together some bullshit course on making money with all these action steps for people to take, but they only dime they've ever generated (and ever will make) is FROM THE REVENUE OF THEIR COURSE! Get it? They don't know how to make any “real” money, they just got lucky with some bullshit product that has a bunch of junk inside of it. So many people out there are wholeheartedly applying the concepts they're learning from this “money-making course”, and the sad thing is they'll never see a dime. It's like writing a book on “how to give women great orgasms” if you've never even touched a pussy!

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Again, who do you learn from? The first crucial piece. So then, who do you actually learn from? The first key when selecting a mentor or a teacher is to MAKE SURE they have the results to show for it in their own life. A wise man once said, “Listen not to a man's words, but to his actions.” When selecting a mentor (in ANY key area of your life) make certain that they are a living, breathing example of what you wish to become and that they have the results to show for it! Quit seriously listening to your pickup nerd-lair buddy about what attracts women when he has only slept with one girl in the past year. When it comes to picking up women, trying to learn this unique skillset, it is important to surround yourself and learn from guys who have been in the field for many many years and have interacted with virtually thousands of real live horny women and who also have slept with LOTS and LOTS of girls. Guys like me :) Haha, seriously though. I'm flattered if you want to learn from me. I've been a Nightclub DJ, and have had a taste of that whole socialite hollywood scene. In college I lived in the #2 rated college party town in the world. College is sick... each house party is like its own minivenue... if you get blown out you just go to the next house where there's a fresh clean new slate full of hot 18-23 year old girls who DONT KNOW YOU. It's like a video game, you just hit reset and game on. I've been out a lot, making this “bedding hot girls” stuff my damn-

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near obsession for literally the past 5 years straight, and growing. I'm addicted to women. I seriously need to enroll in Sex Addicts Anonymous. I haven't missed a single weekend of going out and socializing (or else I'll go absolute fucking INSANE), forcing myself to approach the hottest women in the venue and take my interactions with them as far as possible, night after night after night. I think the only times I don't go out are when I get sick, which is rare. I'm currently basking in silly abundance with lots of high self-esteem, high quality beautiful intelligent emotionally and physically healthy women. But the key difference is these girls REMAIN in my life. My “fuckbuddies.” They're not just one-night stands or temporary flings. It's a lifestyle, consistency-based thing. The heart of this product. Authentic lifestyle development where hot girls are regularly flooding into your life to enjoy, not just a bunch of flaky numbers or fleeting one-night stands and pointless makeouts. I think a lot of dudes out there are really looking to find a cool girl to spend a long time with, or several, and I'm fully confident my program will show you how to get there. I've done it all man. I've racked up numbers like a three-peckered owl, I've been in deeply satisfying long-term relationships with gorgeous women, and most importantly, I've had (and am having) lots and lots of hot naughty fun with these girls, living in utter ridiculous pussy abundance. So again, if you want to learn from me, I'm stoked. I have a ton of awesome shit I can show you that not only are the causes for the ridiculous success I'm having in my own life (specifically in terms of bedding naughty women), but other guys I have shown some of these time-tested potent concepts developed over a lifetime of my obsessive pickup career have gotten AWESOME results in-field from them as well.

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After taking some guys out (and NO I don't do bootcamps so please stop emailing me... <3), they call me the next day crying they're so fucking happy. When I started teaching this stuff to my friends, they began getting laid consistently. It's nuts. My favorite student is my buddy who has been paralyzed from the waist down (he's in a wheelchair) since he was a little boy. When I met him he was a virgin and going through severe depression, even contemplating suicide. He had all these bullshit limiting beliefs in his mind like, “hot women don't sleep with guys in wheelchairs.” So I took him out one night, and basically taught him everything you're about to learn here. Long story short, I SHATTERED his reality. After teaching him these concepts, he just suddenly hit state and his eyes lit up. He began GLOWING. Long story short, we went out that night and he got laid with a total honey, for the first time in his life. He called me up the next morning (I was lounging on the beach with some girlies at the time ;) ), fucking SHAKING and CRYING.. “OOHhmhmyyygoooddd mannn I lovveee you. ThaNKYOUTHANKYOUTHANKYOUTHANKYOU.” This emotionally rocked me. I hung up the phone, chills running up my spine, and literally started tearing up after this (yes in front of the girls, lol) realizing... holy fuck.. wow.. like, I can deeply, and I mean DEEPLY, impact and influence other guy's success in life in terms of bedding women. It was then I began teaching my unique in-field realizations and theories to more and more guy friends, and the results were the same. Pretty soon, in my inner-circle of friends we are all getting laid like Rock Stars. It was around this time I started my blog over on AuthenticKing.com – and for the next few years I began to teach, develop, and refine my unique system for learning how to attract and bed gorgeous women consistently in your life – now formerly known as the Authentic Attraction System. So again man, I really hope you choose to learn a thing or two from me. I think you will be very pleased to find your results with women will skyrocket after applying some of these time-tested techniques and concepts in field in your own experience. So let's dive right in.

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Teachability This is the most important section (without truly understanding this part, it's just going to be another CD set / program that collects dust. Useless knowledge in your mind.) Again, PLEASE DO NOT SKIP THIS. We will get to the “pickup lines” soon enough. ;) You Don't Know What You Don't Know You're an Idiot. Now, don't be getting all low self-esteem on me here lol! One of the first pieces they teach you in Secret Societies (so that the rest of the training will stick), is not that you're SO AWESOME and COOL and are SMARTER THAN REGULAR SOCIEITY, but in actuality do you know how dumb you are? “He who knows does not speak. He who speaks does not know.” -Lao Tzu I cannot drill this into your head enough man... You don't know what you don't know!!! There is SO MUCH out there you don't know!!! I recently went to an internet marketing seminar and the guestspeaker got up on stage and said, “Guys, do you know what the two most dangerous words in the English Dictionary are?” No one knew. “The two most dangerous words”, he continued, “are 'I Know' .” Most people in life walk around with these big egos thinking they know it all and they're so cool and awesome and skilled etc. Not that you don't want to feel good about yourself or anything, but the problem with this mindset is that THEY STOP BEING COACHABLE.

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If you're not learning and growing, you're dying. Most “regular” people never realize HOW MUCH is out there that they STILL DON'T KNOW, so they never feel the need to read books or most importantly, TO KEEP LEARNING. The most deadly ego is the “teacher ego” as they call it in the East. It's thinking you're a Master, when you're truly not. The BEST guys in ANY field are continually learning. They're the MOST teachable. They realize there is STILL SOOOO MUCH about their subject of expertise that they still don't know! A master pianist since 7 years of age, at age 80 is STILL learning SO MUCH about the piano and blowing his mind continually. Whenever you say, “I know” or “I know that!”, your mind *instantly* shuts down, you stop being teachable, and you cease to evolve. These old very wise masters are the ones who are the MOST teachable. They realize, even at their advanced level, there is still SO MUCH they don't know. Even the best guys out in field (take the money motherfuckers over at RSD for example) they have been in this game for 10+ years now, and are STILL blowing their mind coming to new in-field realizations and learning new things about picking up Women. You are ALWAYS getting better and better. Each and every night you go out and approach girls you will learn something new. EACH and EVERY single night. That is why in my teachings I stress the importance of field work. If you have a question, don't think about it, GO TRY IT on REAL LIVE WOMEN. So drop your “Master” ego, man. You've never “Got it” or “Know it” … you're ALWAYS “GETTING” IT! A recent book I read (written from a former elite society education specialist in America) discussed a very scary truth that from a young age, children are intentionally socially conditioned to despise learning and growing.

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Now.. the reasons for this are arguable, and the author believes this to be part of a mass-control campaign, keeping the government leaders at the top and ensuring the one's in control STAY in control. Whether there's some big conspiracy surrounding it or not is beyond the scope of this discussion, the fact remains: from a very early age, children are conditioned to negatively associate learning and growing with PAIN and STRUGGLE. I.e getting homework, having to write standards, being shoved down their throat boring complex concepts that will hold no real world applicability in their lives, being forced to read long boring textbooks on questionable subjects, ad nauseum. So, once they exit painful “school”, and after college (if they even make it that far) they will probably never read again, remaining dumb and complacent. Forced to rely on government or “Big Brother” as Chuck Palahniuk likes to call them, they become sheep feeding into and depending solely the system and evolved men in power. Secret Societies feel if they keep their minds closed down when they're younger, they will never continually learn and grow in their later years, gaining awareness to what's REALLY going on in the world.. which could potentially become a threat to these men's positions of power and agendas. Smart, capable and evolved leaders can cause rebellions, awareness campaigns, and all sorts of nasty that men of power don't want happening. Welcome to the real world, Neo. But conspiracies aside, you MUST realize there is still SO MUCH out there you don't know, and focus on learning and expanding your mind daily. Read constantly. Read read read. If you ever see a ferocious reader, you can either bet he is an elite society member or just a very smart, powerful Man with lots of results in his life. There's a catch phrase within these organizations. They constantly

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say “leaders are ALWAYS readers.” No exceptions. Society conditions us to believe that people who read a lot of books are “nerdy” or “weak” etc, when in fact the OPPOSITE is true. You're a nerd if you DON'T read because you are stuck at the same stagnant chode level of reality. You will NOT evolve, expand your mind and grow. By reading and constantly learning & therefore evolving, you gain new levels of awareness that will net you new abilities and proficiencies in virtually ALL areas of life. In other words, your success will skyrocket. Remember; YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW!!!! Open mind as much as possible to all that surrounds you. Understand that there is still SO MUCH out there for you to learn. Read daily, as much as you can. Continually ask yourself, “What don't I know?” Becoming Teachable When attempting to learn any new domain of knowledge or skill, it is crucial that you first “learn how to learn” before proceeding. None of this stuff is going to stick for you if you don't have a firm foundation. There are two core ingredients you must master when learning anything. The first, is Teachability Index. The teachability index exists on a scale from 0 to 10. At any given point in time, you are somewhere on this scale. 0 is having no teachability, remaining completely closed-minded. 10, the ideal position, is remaining fully immersed in the material, completely soaking it up and wholly engaged in learning. Right now, you're probably at a 10/10. You've just bought this

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incredible program – you're stoked! You're about to make all these wickedly powerful positive changes in your life and live in an abundance of hot horny beautiful women. You're fully-focused, present, and taking in every single word, glued to what I'm presenting to you here. You're excited and eager about learning. You're open-minded and ready. But.. In an hour from now, you might start getting hungry or tired. Your mind may start to wander. You will begin to start surfing the net or checking your email or texting on your phone or watching some YouTube vids. Your teachability just went down! Before you were at a 9 or even maybe a perfect 10/10, but now you're at maybe a 3/10 at best. Continually focus on your Teachable Index, know where you're at on the scale AT ALL TIMES. Whenever assimilating or applying any new information, make sure it is a 10/10. If it drops and you have trouble focusing for feel tired, TAKE A NAP. Another key piece to Teachability Index is just how dedicated to learning truly are you? Let's say a master was going to be giving a seminar on how to attract and create elite wealth in your life, and said he was charging $10,000 and it was going to be held in Antarctica, 99% of the guys reading/listening this wouldn't go. And that is why 99% of those guys will NEVER be successful. Men of power are men of ACTION and men of NO EXCUSES. A huge part of Teachability Index is how willing are you to give things up in your life, sacrifice, in order to learn this material (whatever the subject may be)? You must be willing to skip that favorite TV show, put down the phone for a minute, stop watching YouTube, sacrifice that amount of money or time it takes to travel to go learn, or whatever it takes!

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Guys who are truly successful in this game we call Life, are willing to sacrifice ANY amount of time or go ANY distance, even to the ends of the Earth in order to be successful and realize their dreams. They are fully DEDICATED to mastering whatever area they decide upon and let NOTHING stand in their way. Their teachability is a 10/10, in every sense of the word. The next crucial piece is your Willingness To Accept Change. This also exists on a scale from 0-10. 0/10 meaning you aren't willing to get your hands dirty and actually APPLY what you're learning (due to homeostasis as we'll delve into later), 10/10 being you have full faith in the teacher and are willing to make RADICAL changes in your behavior AND in your thinking. I'll say it again. RADICAL changes in both your behavior AND your thinking processes. A story was related to me about a Secret Society mentoring a younger member in these arts of abundant and successful living. The student was complaining about his current state of success in life. HE was basically saying things along the lines of, “I'm sick, fat, tired all the time.. I have no women in my life or many friends, my bank account is dry... my life SUCKS!” “So, you want things in your life to change?”, the mentor asks. “Yes! So badly!” “If you want things in your life to change, than you need to change things in your life.” That is one of the most profound statements you will ever hear in your entire life. There is incredible depth there. Read it a few times.

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The problem with most people is they continually beat their heads agains the wall, trying things that AREN'T WORKING over and over and over again. The very definition of insanity is “doing the same thing over again, expecting a different result.” You can start getting glimpses as to why I'm stressing the vast importance and incredible power of this first pre-requisite Foundations segment. So, now you've selected the right mentor. You're now learning from the right guy the right material. (This is very important.) Next, you've got a full Teachability Index.. it's 10/10. Notebook's out and ready, you're stoked and ready. Let's do this. Now, this is where most people reach a block. You have to understand this man has results in his life RADICALLY different than your own. So, the nature of his teachings are going to be RADICALLY DIFFERENT than what you're currently doing. Make sense? “If you want things in your life to change... you must be willing to change things in your life.” Homeostasis is a POWERFUL force embedded deep within the human psyche. Do not fool yourself, we are creatures of day-to-day HABIT. What you did yesterday is what you will do tomorrow and most likely the next day, with very few changes. Any energy expenditure outside of that is not only highly unlikely for the Average Joe, but seemingly unnecessary to your human survival system so you will encounter a lot of resistance. Why? One of the primary goals of human biology is Survival.

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If you've got your food, you've got your shelter, you're still alive and breathing, your body thinks “why the hell would I need to make all these drastic changes now?” Even if your current chode-ego or reality or level of success is nowhere near where you want it to be, the fact is, you are still ALIVE and BREATHING. Even though Bubba has got a homely-cave girl in there with him (she's not the sexiest cave girl), and some sub-par food, he's doing OKAY. He's got his food and his woman. From an evolutionary & survivability standpoint, he's doing just fine. If Bubba decides to step the fuck up and walk outside his cave to get access to hotter women or more delicious food, he can risk DEATH. Making any drastic changes in your life, even if they will deeply benefit you and produce the results you truly want, will be laden with extreme resistance. You might even find yourself getting tired or spacing out during this program. It is charged with High Energy. Do not fall back asleep on me! I am going to wake you up. T.I. 10/10!!! So, EVEN THOUGH making drastic changes is what is not only severely needed, but also deeply beneficial to you, your mind and body will STILL try to keep you the same old you in whatever ways it can. This psychological influence is very real and very persistent. Knowing is half the battle. A large part of this program is gaining awareness so that you can alter your behavior accordingly. My own personal story, back in the day when I was first getting into internet marketing, I was learning some material from this particular guy who was making a 7-figure income, annually. The guy was an internet marketing GOD. He lived in a hollywood hills mansion. In it, he was talking about headline writing. I remember he was telling me to do all these DRASTIC and WILD things (seemingly at the time) to modify my own copywriting, which I actually thought

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was pretty damn good. I figured my current copy was fine. In my head I'm thinking “Wtf, this is so ridiculous.. this isn't going to get me any sales! I'm not doing this shit!” I wasn't VERBALLY thinking that, but that was the general feeling I had about it. Then suddenly, like a flash of wisdom, it just hit me. Back to my mentor's training. “You must be willing to CHANGE things in your life.” OOOooooooooh. Instantly I was like, “Hello Teachability Index! Hello Willingness To Learn! Hi there Willingness To Accept Change!” Whereas before I was a 1/10, possibly even a 0/10... I now instantly jumped up to a 10/10. After all, this guy was making millions of dollars each and every year with his internet marketing, perhaps I should listen to him. He might know a thing or two ;) After applying his seemingly “radical” concepts, I was like “holy shit! It worked!” I made a KILLING on my first business thanks to his teachings, whereas before I was only making pennies. Honestly fully applying correctly what these masters are teaching you, and overcoming your own internal resistance and blocks to doing so will net you INCREDIBLE wealth in your life – in ALL key areas. As I said previously, if you take the time to master the material in this first chapter, it will be worth the entire price of this program. You will be BLOWN AWAY by how much awesome stuff you will be creating in your life. But we're just getting started here. ;) Learning this stuff can feel very isolating. It's like you literally exist in the Matrix.

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As they say, “It's lonely at the top.” For example, you can learn something, let's say something AWESOME, that you know FOR SURE will produce results to anyone who you teach it to... but when you go tell them about it, they'll get this glazed over look in their eyes and refuse to make any dramatic changes (“Naw man.. it *IS* money that gets hot girls...”), so they stay at the same shitty level, totally unconscious of their own internal homeostasis process and in effect get NO RESULTS in their life. This is the masses. This is not you, King. The Golden Rule Today we live in the “information age.” Value in the form of physical labour is now being replaced with value in the form of intellectual knowledge. At no time ever before in humanities history has there ever been the sheer amount of an incredible wealth of knowledge and resources available at your fingertips like there is today. You are bombarded with so much knowledge in every important area that it's becoming scarily overwhelming. The problem here is, KNOWLEDGE IS USELESS UNLESS APPLIED. “Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do.” -Bruce Lee So to remedy this, you must apply the basic concept of The Golden Rule. The Golden Rule is, for every 1 hour you spend immersed in and learning (10/10) any new material, to spend 2 hours in the field actually APPLYING IT.

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You must TAKE ACTION and actually DO what you're learning here, otherwise, it will just be a bunch of useless information in your head. You'll have an entertaining weekend listening to these discs and that's it. There will be no results or changes made in your life unless you actually APPLY what it is that you are learning here in the aforementioned golden ratio. The Golden Rule – 1:2, for ever one hour of learning, spend two hours applying. Experience is the best teacher. It's in those “A-Ha!” moments that you truly learn something. These moments RARELY come from listening to a Master speak, you MUST go experience and see for yourself what it is they are talking about to validate and integrate the new knowledge in YOUR OWN experience / reality. Remember earlier the headline example? The entire time the guy was telling me how awesome his headline technique was, but it only truly CLICKED for me in my reality when *I* experienced it on a first-hand personal level. When I saw it in my own reality, then I understood. “I hear and I forget. I see and I remember. I do and I understand.” -Confucius Have you ever had the experience of learning something someone told you, like, it finally clicking for you in your own reality in a sort of “A-Ha!” moment, and then you call up your friend and thank him and he says, “Dude, I've been telling you that for YEARS!” Again, information doesn't teach, your own experience does. There is incredible depth in this chapter. DO NOT move on until you fully understand and truly GET what I am talking about here. Another wise man once said, “To know and not to do is not to know.”

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A lot of people think they “know” something (remember teachability from earlier?), but in reality, they're not actually DOING it. Muscle building example.. “Oh, macro-nutrient ratios and calorie surplus? Dude I've KNOWN that for years, just give me the good stuff so I can bulk up!” ... he “knows” it, but he's not DOING it. TO “KNOW” AND NOT TO DO, IS NOT TO KNOW!!! Another example that makes me cringe, is when I'll take newer guys out with me in field. These are usually the “pickup nerds”, you know the type, the guy who has read every single book, has got The Game memorized front-to-back, knows ALL the routines gimmicks and concepts by heart. He's like a walking pickup encyclopedia! So, I'll begin coaching him. “Alright man, first things first. We need to get in state. So let's start doing some self-amusing shit. See those hot girls over there? Let's go try to get blown out by acting like TOTAL CHODES hahaha lol .. I'll go up and-” “WAIT... you're teaching me GETTING INTO STATE?!?!?! Wtf?!?! I already 'know' that!! Give me the good stuff!” … Really? You KNOW it? Then why aren't you DOING it? To know and not to do, is NOT TO KNOW. Same thing with my Law Of Attraction teachings... I'll be telling people about that and they'll be like, “Pshhhh... Law of Attraction? Dude, I've 'known' about that stuff for years! I've watched The Secret when I was 12.” Really? You “KNOW” it? Then what are your thoughts like on a day-to-day basis? Hmmm... Bottom line: If you're not DOING it, then YOU DON'T ”KNOW” IT.

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Never forget this. Master The Basics The next crucial Foundations concept. Before we get started, I'll let you in on a little secret. Most people in life (and elite organization members are keenly aware of this) think that there are all these “secret tactics” and “advanced techniques” & “tricks” in order to net them unheard-of levels of success & riches. The truth is, the majority of the time, having AWESOME success in any key area most often comes down to a flawless execution of the fundamentals. The Basics. Guys are looking for all these advanced muscle building techniques and “scientifically-advanced” supplements etc when the CORE of true muscle building remains in the time-tested realm of the absolute basics; get plenty of sleep, eat lots of quality calories, lift heavy and often, and keep your thoughts positive and focused on a solid selfimage (we'll get into this later on Law of Attraction and how your thoughts literally affect your cells.) But most guys can't accept that. They need the latest SUPER SUPPLEMENT, or ULTRA MICRO-LOADING HIGH INTENSITY ANABOLOC BOOSTER 9000 REP SCHEME, etfc. They read all these Muscle Mags with the “LATEST AND GREATEST BREAKTHROUGH SCIENTIFIC RESEARCH IN ANABOLIC EXTREME BITRI OVERLOADING DELUXE GAG ROUTINE 5000 TO OVERLOAD THE CENTRAL NERVOUS...” Yet they're still skinny.

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Jeffy (“jlaix”) from RSD, one of the iciest players I know, says that, and I quote, “Pickup is TEXTBOOK. It all comes down to the fundamentals.” There aren't all these shiny flashy spin moves and ultra rare superhuman techniques and tricks... it all comes down to a proper execution of, that's right!, The Basics. Master The Basics, the next essential Secret Society teaching. To the Average Joe, the “basics” are just too simple, or too boring! They don't believe that such a simple thing can net them so many hot rich abundant results. So they go on a life-long search for all these “advanced secret tactics” only to end up with less and less in their life. Here's another great story to further illustrate this point. There was once an eager martial artist who got word that one of his favorite skilled Martial Arts Masters was going to be IN HIS TOWN! So he contacted him and invited him to stay at his home. In return for his lodging and hospitality, he was hoping to receive some form of training from this legendary master. Dude arrives, they shoot the shit, small-talk, and then they begin training. The Master, with excitement, first tells the guy he “wants to show you how to throw a punch.” With a disappointed look, the man goes on to tell the Master that he already KNOWS a punch and wants to get to the juicy stuff. The Master shakes his head, and again says he really really wants to “show him a punch.”

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Again, the man says, “I know that! Come on!!! Show me some advanced stuff!!” The Master says he wants to demonstrate his punch first. He sets up a candle on a table, stands a few feet back, and then throws his punch. He controlled his AWESOME punch in such a way that it stopped just inches before the candle flame and IT WENT OUT! He was able to control the Chi (energy, prana, w/e you wanna call it) in his body so much so that he was able to focus it and literally FIRE IT outside of his knuckles. Can you imagine the impact of this blow? Imagine like Bruce Lee, who was famed for being able to kick or punch a man in such a way that literally sent him FLYING across the room. This is what the Master was demonstrating here. After this awesome demonstration, the man's eyes got as wide as saucers and he starts jumping up and down with excitement yelling “OH MY GOD!! I WANT TO LEARN THAT!! SHOW ME THAT!!” The Master calmly smiles and says, “See, that's what I've been trying to tell you. I want to show you how to throw a PUNCH.” It's not a punch... it's a PUNCH. The Master then goes on to tell the man, “At my temple we have a saying, 'to be a true master one must first be a master of the basics.' He then also tells him another saying they have, “I am not afraid of the 10,000 strikes you know but have practiced only once, but I am deftly afraid of the one strike you have practiced 10,000 times.” Again, it's not a punch... it's A PUNCH. To be a true master, you must first MASTER THE BASICS.

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Most dudes in pickup out there today are trying to learn all these fancy tricks and tactics and techniques, when what it really comes down to bedding hot women consistently is the BASICS. The fundamentals of game. You have NO USE studying advanced sexual techniques when you can't even fucking OPEN and TALK with a girl. Learn your first lessons before moving on... again, remember The Golden Rule - [1:2]. If you're at a cooking school, they're not going to give you a 3rd dish if you haven't mastered the 1st and 2nd Master the basics first before moving on, or else you're just spinning your wheels. The Four Levels Of Learning Unconscious Incompetence Conscious Incompetence Conscious Competence Unconscious Competence The first level, U.I., is when you not only don't even know it, but you're totally unaware of the fact that you don't even know it! For example, if I said “Did you know that a Frabeezle has thirteen Ventrikulars?” And you've never seen a “Frabeezle” before and have no idea wtf a “Ventrikular” was... in other words, you're totally in the dark. You're not walking around going “Gee golly gosh, I wonder what a Frabeezle is doing with all those Ventrikulars!”

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That's why again, going back to one of the first essential basics;

You Don't Know What You Don't Know!!! There's SO MUCH out there you don't know, and you don't even know that you don't know about it! The next level of learning, C.I., is when you've gained some awareness that you don't know something. You are now Consciously Incompetent. This is a good thing, it means you are making progress. As a Man, it is critical that when at ANY time you gain some awareness in your life, like “Wow, I really do suck with women!' DO NOT shove this back down into your awareness because it's “too painful to look at”, this is the masses. This is not you, King. Whenever awareness comes up in your life, say THANK YOU AWARENESS. Congratulations, you just reached C.I. This step is an essential key to your own personal evolution. Next level, C.C., is when you now have the knowledge of what to do, but you the behavior isn't natural to you just yet – you have to think really hard about it and “go through the motions” in order to implement and grasp the newly learned concept at hand. You have to continually go out there and try it over and over again until you get it right and obtain the desired result. The last and final level, U.C., is when you've got it. It's second nature to you now. You've literally formed new synaptic connections and neuropathways that make that behavior or skill automatic. It's just like learning how to tie your shoe. C.C. is when you were a little kid all, “Now the two snakes fight... and one goes under the other... and...” you had to consciously implement, at the Conscious

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Competence level precisely what you were learning. But today, you just reach down Boom Boom Boom and tie your shoe. Done. There is no conscious thinking involved, it's on auto-pilot. Just like driving a car. Remember the first time you tried to learn how to drive? How scary was that shit?! My first experience involved a manual, stick-shift Ford Mustang. Ohhh man, not only was worried about getting hit by other cars, staying under the speed limit, steering correctly, but I ALSO had to learn how to shift gears and operate the clutch and not stall in the middle of rush hour traffic and... and... and... Talk about overwhelming! All of the aforementioned concepts were being implemented at the Conscious Competence level. Today, they're all on autopilot. U.C. I could be driving around, blasting music, texting, getting road head... Unconscious Competence. So, my program has been specifically designed in an almost “secret code” where you are not meant to move on and understand the next piece until you master the first basic piece. Each level builds upon the next, and the end it will EXPLODE. So how do you get to Unconscious Competence, in other words, become a TOTAL NATURAL around HOT “total 10” Women? The answer is to practice over and over and over again the technique at the Conscious Competence level (until the new neuropathways form in your brain) and then soon it will become automatic and will require no effort or thought. It's in the memory bank. Like riding a bike, you've got it for life. It's second nature to you now.

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You've hit the sweet spot, Unconscious Competence. Getting Good With Women Really Fast So before jumping head-first into this material, I want to help speed up your learning curve by showing you a specific approach that will tremendously boost your ability to learn how to bed women very fast. You are going to be learning many things in this program. You're going to be presented with A LOT of core material and it can feel very overwhelming to you when first learning this stuff. Below I have outlined some of the most important pieces when it comes to learning and implementing this stuff as quickly, deeply, and efficiently as possible so that you, too, can get really good with girls – FAST! The first thing you must do is implement only one single piece at a time. Remember, do not move on or skip any material UNTIL YOU HAVE MASTERED THE FIRST PIECE. Do not ignore this advice. Master The Basics. Here at the cooking school, we're not going to teach you a third dish if you still haven't mastered the first. There is NO USE studying advanced sexualization if you CAN'T EVEN OPEN A GIRL! Information overload is very common in today's times. Remember The Golden Rule [1:2], for every one hour of learning spend two hours out in the field APPLYING. Each night, head out with only one concept or Mission in your head and focus on NOTHING BUT THAT at the Conscious Competence level over and over again until you master it, then and ONLY THEN can you move on. You need to practice a single piece over and over again at the C.C. level so that your brain develops the proper synaptic

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connections and neuropathways, then it becomes second nature to you. Total Autopilot. So many guys go out each night having read 4000 eBooks, listened to 18 audio programs, and watched 3 DVD seminars... When they walk up to girls, their head EXPLODES. Information overload. Frozen in paralysis by analysis. By going out each night focusing on only one or two pieces, not only will you excel VERY fast due to laser-focus, but you will also actually be deeply internalizing and implementing these pieces into your core state of being. Meaning, you're gaining new levels of awareness and proficiency in the field that in three months looking back from going out and applying this stuff consistently, you will feel like an ENTIRELY different Man.. an Authentic King. The next important piece in order to get really good is to develop a BURNING DESIRE for your goals. How bad do you really want it? Is your Teachability Index really at a 10/10 on ALL levels? Are you willing to be the guy who is going out night after night risking social humiliation in order to learn and advance? To push past his temporary bad feelings and rocky emotional shores? Love Of The Game You've gotta have that love of the game, man. You will NEVER be good if you don't have that love. If you're out “gaming chicks” just to get laid, you will SUCK! You've gotta love women and LOVE life, because in actuality they're synonymous. “Champions aren't made in gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them: A desire, a dream, a vision. They have to have last-minute stamina, they have to be a little faster, they have to have the skill and the will. But the will must be stronger than the skill." -Muhammad Ali

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You have to be the guy who is willing to stay at the club opening sets after all the chodes have gone home and given up. LOVING all aspects of 'advanced pickup' and all of the subtle social dynamics at play in human interaction. Become damn-near obsessed with this stuff, like I am. Never be mentally lazy or stagnate about learning. Try new things constantly. Be the guy willing to push past his deepest darkest fears. The guy who gives that little bit extra because at the end of the day the difference between the good and the great is that little bit of extra effort. An inch. The inches that exist all around you. “Love Love Love, THAT is the soul of genius.” -Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart Lose Your Pimp Ego Approach this skillset like a baby learning how to walk. When a baby tries to walk, and he falls on his ass, he doesn't get all low-self esteem or beat himself up. He doesn't compare himself to the other walking kids with envy. He doesn't make an identity out of it, he just giggles and gets the fuck back up, dusts the dirt off, and tries again. He's a Divine Child and already “complete” and “whole”, so he's not making an identity out of his walking abilities. He's not worse than anyone else because he can't walk, and he's not better than anyone else when he can. Either “I'm the Shit” or “I suck”, is going to hurt you and ultimately blind and retard your progress at the end of the day. If you think you're super pimp who knows it all, you're going to close down your mind and stop learning thinking you've “Arrived” with women. You will never be great, because you'll stop evolving, learning, & growing. Remember, YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU STILL DON'T KNOW!!!

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Also, if you think you suck and get all down on yourself, you'll be like a baby who falls once and then sits there and cries for ten hours wallowing in his self-pity. It will take him YEARS to learn how to walk, because he's making a big deal out of failure. More on that on the Inner Game disc. The men in life who fail the most are the one's who succeed the most. ESPECIALLY when it comes to bedding hot women. The more you get rejected, the more you learn, the more hot girls you have moaning in your bed aching for you to fuck them. Remember that you're ALWAYS growing and evolving. Constantly. Go back and review your materials as much as you can. Each time you go through a book or review an “old” material, it will become like a BRAND NEW PRODUCT. Why? Because YOU'RE DIFFERENT. Each time you read a book or watch a DVD it's like a brand new program because you're accessing it from a completely higher level of awareness. A fresh new vantage point, so to speak. It is important that you listen to these discs and go through this manual again and again and again. Especially the Foundations Disc / Chapter. Each time will net you something more as you continually go out, reach new in-field realizations, and advance your pickup skillset. There is tremendous depth in this program. It literally took me five years to put together. Please do not underestimate what you are learning here. Also remember to Master The Basics. Some things you may be learning may seem too simple to produce AWESOME results, but the bottom-line is that they work. To every other guy, it's just a punch. But to you, it's A PUNCH. Lastly, STAY IN IT! Don't give up on your dreams. The funny paradox of life is, YOU PHYSICALLY CAN'T. Your Higher Self already expanded into what you asked for and is waiting for you to catch up with it.

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People that claim they have “given up on their dreams” are lying. They are simply ignoring the negative emotion that plagues their life, pretending it doesn't exist. But it does. They're miserable and dying. You CAN reach the level of success you want. The answers ARE out there. The higher levels of being DO exist, and you WILL reach them in due time. By the mere fact you are drawn to these words and this material, you're closer than you think. CONCLUSION When growing a plant, it needs many essential ingredients in order to flourish. If you begin with a pot filled with soil and nothing else and start to water it, nothing will happen. You must put in seeds. If you place the seeds in and keep it in your dark garage the entire time, all the watering in the world isn't going to make that plant grow. It needs sunlight. Just like a plant, none of the following material in this program is going to “take root” so to speak, UNLESS you first master the concepts you were taught in a specifically-designed sequential order. Again, it's like a cooking school.. I will not teach you dish #2 if you're still fumbling around with dish #1. Master The Basics before moving on. Each piece has been carefully created to install a new level of awareness in you. In effect, the next piece cannot be realized or benefited from unless you first have mastered the beginning piece. This is not a “Keyboard Jockey” manual. This is a product designed to be your best friend, coach, and mentor when consistently going out in the field talking to real live, hot and horny women. Each piece has been specifically designed to build upon the next. You will gain and incredible skill with women if you truly take the time to master and internalize each and every piece, going out night after night applying each one as described. Remember, Master The Basics!!!

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“You take the good things from every different discipline, use what works, and you throw the rest away.” -Bruce Lee Ultimately, this is just my map. My personality is different than yours. If what I'm presenting to you here resonates with you, great. Use it and benefit. If it's not, and after multiple attempts at honest implementation it's not seeming to work for you, ditch it. Take your reality for what is producing results in YOUR OWN reality. Your best teacher is your own unique experience and looking within yourself utilizing your own Emotional Guidance System (more on this later.) MISSION – Please see pg. 1 of the Authentic King Workbook.

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INTRODUCTION Many of the concepts you're about to learn here (I know, they're awesome), aren't from my own mind. I'm not pulling this stuff out of my ass. These very real, very potent concepts that are based from some of the most intelligent inspiring minds on planet Earth, today and in all of human History. Some of these principles are 3000 years old mentioned in humanity's most known religious texts such as the Holy Bible and Bhagavad Gita, various underground Occult texts etc. Others have roots in modern scientifically-advanced “New MetaPhysics” on the leading edge of human consciousness and discovery. And, of course, many of these potent concepts originate from deep within the chambers and libraries of elite Secret Societies themselves. It is literally information on how the Universe works, and how you can bend it to your will. So enough chit-chat, let's get started. Why? So, first thing, why learn this stuff? I mean, isn't spirituality for those Jesus Freaks or New Age woo woo wimps? I mean, we're learning to mack the bitches here... why are we learning about all this deep energetic and reality concepts? How will this help? There's a lot reasons. But let's talk about the coolest ones, in terms of picking up hot Women.

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First off, when you truly get this stuff down, especially this resistance to Life Force energy stuff, everywhere you go hot women will want to fuck your brains out. You are literally tapping into the ESSENCE OF LIFE here, don't underestimate that. You will look younger, sexy & healthy, glow with masculine vitality and power, and will feel fucking incredible. With consistency. Mastering energy, life energy especially (aka Sexual Energy), gives you some sort of strange power over women. They get really really horny around you and the sex is blistering hot. It's like when you're a kid going on vacation and you haven't jacked off in like over a week, so when you finally get back home to the computer and hit up the porn women COME ALIVE and are like 10x more enjoyable because your body is holding much more sexual life force energy. In reality, when you can get this stuff truly down, Women COME FUCKING ALIVE. It's like you can truly SEE them for the first time. They are so incredibly sexy, it's wild. You get SO ADDICTED to Women. Most chodes today are running on such low energy, they don't fuck women with passion (being able to fully satisfy her again over and over in bed), nor do they have any natural confidence that comes with going WITH the flow of life and the Universe. Think of animals in the wild, like the Alpha Lion, that motherfucker is living in total abundance of raw health and pussy. Why? Because he isn't resisting his true divine nature with all these bullshit thoughts and stifling behaviors. We will dive deep into this in a moment, so relax. But again man, women COME FUCKING ALIVE. They smell and feel and taste sooo fucking good. There's nothing like pulling a hot bitches hair as you fuck her hot dripping wet pussy deeper and deeper. I'm seriously addicted. I really need to go to a Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting.

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The next reason is that this shit ERADICATES fear. When you understand the reality & Nature of everything and realize we're all eternal, that there is no “death”, we just shed our current body and can incarnate into a new one if we so choose etc, you just start to view “reality” like a big joke. It becomes the waking lucid dream. Can you imagine being FEARLESS around ALL hot “total 10” Women? Think that will help you out when approaching girls? Exactly. A cool guy that can remain “normal” around a ridiculously hot woman (where most chodes just react and get all nervous) is a MASSIVE sign of pre-selection and gets her dripping wet (omg.. who is this guy?) FAST. Mastering this section will bring you to this new way of being. When you're fearless and natural around hot girls, you can just let go relax and actually HAVE FUN. Authentic Attraction~ The next reason is that, Women have A LOT of choice when it comes to men. They're approached by virtually hundreds of dudes each weekend. When you become an awesome guy who can just BLOW THEIR MIND in bed, both with your sexual skills AND with pillow-talk, that is very sexy and she will want to stick around for a long time. So many girls tell me shit all the time like, “OMG I just want to lick your brain!” They call me up all the time “just to talk”, and it's annoying as fuck.

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Having a cool world-view also boosts attraction because when you feel “at home in the world”, aka walking through the world with ease, women get DRIPPING wet for you. Why? Because think of the Alpha Caveman. That dude has got a harem of hot cavegirls, tons of food, a bunch of really tight friends that will kill anyone who tries to fuck with him or his girls. He's set. He's got everything he needs, so to him, life is just a big fun ride. He's happy all the time, relaxed and carefree, POSITIVE, etc. Now take the beta caveman. That dude is STRESSED OUT all the time, nervous, full of fear, walking around all desperate to get laid and survive & eat and shit etc. Basically, he's the epitome of everything women find REPULSIVE in Men. So, being relaxed, fearless, and having this cool positive world view where you feel so SAFE and RIGHT and WARM and SOCIAL and FRIENDLY and SEXUAL and PLAYFUL etc.. all these positive emotions you will learn how to feel on a consistent basis utilizing these advanced concepts, women will feel like they are walking on clouds around you dude. Whereas most guys make them feel nervous and closed down, you will light up her heart and make her feel naughty and fun, aching to fuck your brains out again and again. Women have a lot of choice when it comes to guys. Ever fuck a “10” only to find out it was just a one-night stand and she doesn't want anything to do with you ever again? This program is designed to make success with hot women a complete LIFESTYLE change. Meaning, consistency. Not only will you be sleeping with hot girls but they will also be STAYING in your life. The reason a lot of high quality girls flake on you is because you have no substance to you man. You have no depth to your being. That will change after this program.

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A big part of being an evolved masculine mature Man is to evolve and grow on ALL key levels of being a human – physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually to name a few. Developing these qualities are HIGHLY attractive to “total 10” hot, high self-esteem, intelligent, gorgeous, emotionally and physically healthy women. Plus, when you learn to stop resisting sexual Life Force energy, these hotties get turned on like you wouldn't believe. You really learn to unlock her full feminine and she will want to rip your fucking clothes off. Imagine your hottest sexual experience. Now multiply that by 20. What Is Reality? When first learning to master something, you must first understand exactly what it is that you are attempting to Master. So, in terms of Mastering Reality, what exactly is “reality” ? Well, first and foremost, everything is vibrational energy. It's all energy. As Napoleon Hill states in The Law Of Success, “The hardest piece of steel in the world, when zoomed in at the atomic-level, is nothing more than rapidly dancing vibrational & energetic particles.” Every single form on the planet (and in our Universe), whether that be glass of water, a bedsheet, a hot woman's left breast, or even your entire body is just vibrations in their various silly forms. “The only reality for me is absurdity.” -Frank Zappa

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Who Are You? So then, who and what are you, and what is your relationship to this world? Put quite simply, you are a Vibrational Interpreter. Everything you touch with your fingertips, see with your eyes, taste with your tongue, smell with your nose, and hear with your ears, is ALL vibrational translation. It's all vibrational interpretation. So, you, a human being aka “Human Consciousness” are a Vibrational Interpreter fundamentally, but you're so much more than that. "Is it not written in your law, I said, Ye are gods?” -Jesus Christ, Psalm 82:6 As Christ himself said (and no, I'm not Christian, I believe in many candles/teachers, One Light), we are all created “In His image” , meaning, YOU are literally GOD. We get so absorbed in this 'knock-on-wood' physical reality, that we don't realize that we are at the very core, infinite conscious powerful creators who have come forth in this magnificent environment to consciously co-create and play in the eternal dance and celebration of Life. Think of it like this... could you have been born with a different cellular structure in your nose, making it a slightly different shape? Yes. Entirely possible. Now... what about even more radical changes. Could you of been born a couple inches taller or shorter? Yup.

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Okay, what about hair and eye color, could they possibly of differed? Yeah, totally. You'd still be “You”, but looking slightly different. So.. you could of taken on all these different “forms” .. so now let me ask you this; could you of even been born a woman? Imagine you look down to feel a pussy and have two tits and your voice is way softer. Whoa! I know. But yes, it's entirely possible in the broad scope of things. So again.. who are you? You're infinite GOD consciousness, in His image, and all powerful creator who has come into this physical time space reality to create and immerse yourself in this unique magnificent co-creative physical playground to enjoy fun and pleasure and all the joys life has to offer, as well as to learn and grow and continually expand in the eternal unfoldment of the Universe and it's divine plan. You're in the current form of Divine Human Expression, enjoying the ride and the sweet GIFT OF LIFE. “Man is unlimited. We're all just bodies playing limited.” -Lester Levenson, founder of The Sedona Method. So, by being a human being, you're basically playing limited, constricted within the laws of the physical Universe. Most people are “under their own spell” as Neville Goddard puts it. They don't realize just how much power they truly wield nor do they believe in their own innate ability to morph and control their own lives, aka their “reality.” Others have done amazing things and even have left this realm (vanished into light) like Jesus, Buddha, and many others.

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Now, even beyond THAT (an infinite creator), you are even more! You see, being physically focused in this way, we tend to think we're just a flesh-blood-and-bone body and that's it. There is an older, wiser, more-powerful part of yourself inseparable from you. This is that of your eternal Higher Self, your Atman, Soul, Guardian Angel.. whatever you want to call it. All world religions & various traditions and esoteric material of human history and divine exploration have a different name for this. But what exactly is it? Your Higher Self So, whenever you think of a desire, all-that-is, aka GOD aka Source Energy aka Universal Intelligence, WHATEVER label you want to assign to it, immediately gives it you(your Higher Self becomes it.) Going a little bit deeper... in higher realms, or “astral planes”, thought results in manifestation much quicker. Like, you would picture a pink glass of lemonade on the table in front of you and BAM! There it is. So being a Human is also like a divine school, it's a big playground where we can evolve, learn, grow, and most importantly, create. Existing inside this physical time and space reality gives us the sweet buffer of time. You don't think a thought and then BOOM! There's the manifestation! No, it doesn't happen that fast. There is a buffer of time between repeated thought, and bonafide reality manifestation. But, the cool thing is, your Higher Self immediately becomes any new desire you ask for. Most of these “desires” have been unconscious since you were a small child. Like, if people were rude to you you asked for nicer experiences with others without even knowing it. When you saw a strong man walk by, you wanted bigger muscles.

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When you saw that shiny toy, you wished for more money. The very substance and flow of evolution, life, and the Universe is based in desire, the fulfillment of that desire (reaching a new vantage point of having “received” the desire) and then asking for more. Life Eternal~ It goes on and on and on, asking and joyfully receiving, then wanting more, then receiving more, then asking again, etc. This is the eternal expansion of the Universe. Every form of consciousness is asking & receiving, asking & receiving, asking & receiving. Even your cells in your body! When they are sick they wish to be well. When they are cut, they wish to heal back to balance of your Divne Human Blueprint (DNA)! Source Energy always supplying you with exactly what you want, every time. Your work is to come into “vibrational sync” with your Higher, expanded and already evolved Self. BUT, the thing is, just because your Higher Self has received and instantly became everything you have been asking for ever since you were a toddler.. consciously asking or otherwise (oftentimes desires are vibrationally formed without words), doesn't mean the lower YOU existing here in this physical environment instantly becomes it, too. Why is that? Well, remember how we talked about reality and how we are essentially “bodies playing limited” in this physical time space environment? In other words, if you want to enter into the game here and play, you've got to follow the rules. That's why you don't see a bunch of human beings flying or instantly materializing their thought forms into reality – it's just not possible yet within the minds and beliefs systems of the masses.

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Now, some “ascended masters” like Jesus to name the most popular one in the west (but there's virtually thousands of these secret prophets who are able to perform miracles walking around on Earth today... they just don't do it in public or feel the need to show off, and secret societies are well aware of this) can do amazing things and defy the Laws of Physics, but they are also able to leave their bodies at will, enter into higher realms, and even dematerialize their own physical body turning into pure light, or what the Tibetans call “Rainbow Body”, which many human masters have achieved in the Taoist tradition. That is why most of this material comes from these types of beings who have had multiple eyewitness accounts of demonstrating these “Siddhis” of great physical feats and spilling Divine Truth out through their tongues constantly (remember, who do you learn from? I think I'd like to learn from the guy who can look down at his hand and two seconds later a rose appears or who can levitate.) So, continuing, your Higher Self immediately receives and becomes in full, whatever desire you have birthed in the moment. Whether you ask Source Energy with your words or vibrationally, you're ALWAYS asking, and ALWAYS receiving. Literally every second you are asking. Whenever you know what you don't want, you immediately know (and your Higher Self instantly becomes) whatever it is that you DO want. This is the flow of life and the very substance of evolution. Problem is, in order to physically manifest your desires (aka feel them, see them, touch them, taste them, etfc), you must come into vibrational harmony with them. So how can you tell if you're in vibrational harmony (allowing) or not (resisting, dis-allowing) your desire? The answer is emotions.

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Emotional Guidance System So you now understand that your five senses are vibrational interpreters. They're pretty accurate most of the time, no? Well, the MOST reliable & profound vibrational interpreter you have is that of your emotions. Your Emotional Guidance System, to be more specific. Whenever you feel emotion, it is an indicator of how close in vibrational harmony you are with your Higher Self (remember, whom has already become everything you've ever asked for and is calling you forth to it, eternally.) Your emotions are an indicator of the gap between you and You. Whatever subject you are focused on, that is day to day, whatever desire you are focused on in the moment (what else do people think about all day?), depending on the thought you are thinking, your Emotional Guidance System will give you instantaneous feedback to help you determine how you are doing in terms of manifesting the focused desire. In other words, if you're not getting something you want in REALITY than I guarantee all along the way you are not getting something you want EMOTIONALLY. The higher the desire (the more faster the energy is flowing), and the closer you are in vibrational harmony with your Higher Self, the BETTER you feel. Think passions, ecstasy, joy, bliss, euphoria, excitement, fun, eagerness, etc. Now, the more you want it, and the more OFF TRACK you are to your desires (the more wacky thoughts you are thinking mis-creating in your experience with the manifestational power of thought) the WORSE you are going to feel. Words like depression, fear, anger, sadness, despair, hopelessness, boredom, frustration come to mind.

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The more you are resisting something, the worse you are going to feel. Your Higher Self is constantly (and will never cease to) call you forth to the larger, older, broader, wiser, expanded, more powerful evolved Higher part of you that has ALREADY BECOME what you've been asking for, consciously or otherwise. It is now trying to show you in EVERY moment how to get there (in vibrational harmony) via your Emotional Guidance System – it's direct channel of communication from your Higher Self to you, the lower self. “Thoughts literally become matter.” -Dr. Joe Dispenza So, the better you feel, the more closer you are vibrationally to your Higher Self. Keep those thoughts up with consistency and before you know it you will be able to SEE, TOUCH, TASTE, SMELL, HEAR a physical manifestation of that desire into your “Reality.” If you feel good, and I mean really good, like stoked; In whatever ways you are focused right now (what you focus on expands and grows) and whatever thoughts you are currently thinking are RIGHT ON TRACK IN SYNC in close vibrational harmony with your Higher Self. In other words, your Higher Self agrees with you and is basically jumping up and down saying “Keep thinking that! Keep thinking that! Keep focusing on that!” And pretty soon, whatever thought it is, in a relatively short period of time will physically MANIFEST in your experience if you continue to think the thought or focus in whatever way you were just focusing. You have come into full (or very near) vibrational harmony with your Higher Self, and you know because of how good you feel and what shows up in your physical “reality.” NOW … coming back to Planet Earth. ;)

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Let's say you're out with some friends chilling at the STK Lounge bar and you see a HOT HOT Woman giggling with her friends and you want to approach her. Badly. Now, if you're focused right, and on track and in tune with your Higher Self and your desires, than you're going to be ON FIRE. You'll see her soft smooth legs and get a rush of excitement and arousal. You will feel like the fucking man as you walk over to her. You will be feeling GOOD and CONFIDENT and RIGHT and IN CONTROL and SEXY and HIGH VALUE and all these mental labels guys have been putting on The Zone for years. The point is, your Higher Self is trying to show you, you are ON TRACK with your desires and acting in a way that is in alignment with your Higher Self, so it is rewarding you with positive emotions. What ends up happening? You bed the girl. Or at least have a really cool interaction and walk away with a solid phone number. Now, what if you see that girl and *instantly* like most guys, you think “Oh man oh man, she is so much hotter and cooler than me, a girl like that would NEVER go out with a guy like me, man I'm such a chode, oh God – I'm gonna be so nervous! She's going to think I'm acting so weird! What is wrong with me? Why can't I get laid!!!” ← for most guys, these thoughts AREN'T EVEN VERBAL. Remember, you're always asking the Universe, whether that be for good things or bad things, vibrationally, not just with your words. It's the images you hold in your mind's eye. Your focus is creating your reality. Most men aren't even aware of the shit they're focused on and/or thinking when they see Hot “Total 10” women.

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So, continuing.. upon thinking those thoughts, and since it is a HIGH desire with a flood of sexual life energy surging (let's be real, your Total 10 is fucking hot and you want her hot little body BAD), the more you resist this one, the WORSE you are going to feel. Some guys describe this emotionally sensation as fear, or nervousness, or depression, low self-esteem, or feel like they want to cry (beyond depression) etc. There is a-million-and-one labels guys put on negative emotions, but it all comes down to one thing; YOU ARE OUT OF VIBRATIONAL HARMONY WITH YOUR HIGHER SELF IN THAT MOMENT AND WITH YOUR CORE DESIRES! Your Higher Self is basically bitch slapping you with negative emotions, trying to tell you “wtf? Bro, this IS NOT you. Nervous? Wtf you're not going to be nervous. Not worthy? WTFH dude, you're going to BLOW HER MIND in bed! You're going to be the funnest guy she's met all week! Now go STEP to her and fuck her like a King, man!” <--- this is what it would say if it were using words, but it doesn't use words, it communicates to you in the form of EMOTIONAL GUIDANCE remember? So, emotion is your fast-track way to manifesting virtually ANYTHING you want in your experience. The better you feel, the closer you are, the worse you feel, the further you're off. This applies to ALL subjects and ALL desires. Nothing is more important than that you feel good. Prolonged negative emotion (feeling resistance) leads to disease and breakdown of the physical body, low energy levels and drive for life, and amplifies creating & attracting the WRONG “forms” in your life. Likewise, when you're in an ALLOWING state of pure-positive emotion and energy, ALL THAT YOU HAVE BEEN ASKING FOR can now make itself known to you in your experience.

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Law Of Attraction I can sum up Law of Attraction in three words; like attracts like. When you turn on a lightbulb, the reason light comes out of it and forms a gaseous “light cloud” if you want to think of it in that way in terms of it's physical nature, is because the light particles are LIKE each other, very similar vibrationally, so they ATTRACT each other and resonate in harmony with each other. So what you get, is a bunch of photons (light particles) dancing together in a condensed form all vibrating together held together by the Law Of Attraction, and that appears to you as a physical manifestation of light. Same thing with the red paint on your new car. Or the chlorophyll in a tree leaf out in your backyard. Or the air you're breathing in. Like attracts like and EVERY ATOM is held together in the Universe by this powerful physical Law, much like gravity. Whether you believe in it or not, it's always working. So you are essentially like a giant radio tower, constantly emitting a signal to the Universe that is attracting and creating very real things into your life. Not only other tangible “forms” like money, material objects, women, etc. But also intangible forms like other thoughts! Now, when learning to properly utilize your Emotional Guidance System (which is telling you in every moment what you are in the process of manifesting – again, each concept is meant to build upon the next), you can focus your mind in such a way that makes you feel consistently GOOD all the time, AMAZING things will begin to happen in your experience. The Universe, through Law Of Attraction, begins matching you up with like-frequency AWESOME vibrations. In other words, the gooder it gets the gooder it gets the gooder it gets. That is why the rich stay rich, and the poor stay poor.

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When you FEEL sick, you cannot attract vibrant health. When you FEEL poor, you cannot attract money in the form of actual money, or simply thoughtforms that lead to inspired profitable action or even attract other cooperative people into your experience who can help with Joint Venture opportunities, hire you for a project, etc. So again, in terms of actualizing your desires, ALL OF THEM, nothing is more important than that you feel good. Good meaning optimistic, hopeful, enthusiastic, expecting, appreciating, excited, or any other of the million different positive human emotions. When you get this stuff down, life becomes like a treasure-hunt. When you consistently learn to raise your vibration and make an honest effort to do so, the Universe begins matching you up with all sorts of positive awesome shit in whatever “form” it may be – friends calling you up to party or do something fun, new horny cool girls in your life that are waaayyy into you, money-making opportunities, more energy to go work out so you stay lean or you'll attract that muscle-building article in your email inbox that will show you new ways of eating that will pack on 20lb of lean muscle onto your frame... whatever it is! The “how” does not matter in terms of manifesting your desires, it will come FLOODING and RUSHING IN in whatever way it can, as long as you remain in vibrational harmony with it. Like attracts like. The better it gets... Your Higher Self knows no limits, but your lower earthly self does, and that's why those thoughts of limitation feel really bad to you. Again, most these desires will come FLOODING IN as long as you consistently remain feeling good, and most of them you have NO IDEA what they are because you weren't even conscious when you formed the desire and asked for them as your Higher Self instantly became them.

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Your Emotional Guidance system is unique to your soul and YOUR unique desires only. So stop giving a fuck about other's emotions or what they're thinking of you – they have their own higher Self to work towards coming in alignment with. That's why some millionaires are miserable and suicidal, and others are the happiest chaps on Earth. Everyone's desires (Higher Expanded Self) are completely different and their emotions respond accordingly. Vibrational Access Remember how you cannot receive a physical manifestation of anything you are out of vibrational harmony with? It's like oil and water. You just can't “blend” with your Higher Self if you are vibrationally different than it. Same goes for thoughtforms! You do not have vibrational access to SOLUTION-BASED, CLARITY, POWERFUL thoughts (that will allow you to act in a powerful solution-based way, i.e. ultra-confident and naturally attractive and relaxed around HOT women) when you are in a low vibration resistant mode being flooded with negative emotions in the form of guidance from your Higher Self. For example, when feeling TERROR standing next to a hot woman you are not thinking about how soft and warm her titties will feel or how good she fucking smells or how she shaves down there and 'you'd like to see it' (okay, Sex Addicts Anonymous... I know.. I'm signing up I promise.) - those thoughts are on two COMPLETELY different wavelengths. In other words, you do not have vibrational access to good-feeling fun yummy thought when you feel like shit and are feeling fear, anxiety, depression, unworthiness, ETC! Oil and water! They don't mix! You don't have vibrational access!!! So wtf is “Vibrational Access” anyways?

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When I was learning from a sound engineer, he began demonstrating the various frequencies of soundwaves. He started with a super low bass note. We could see the woofer moving in and out, producing the sound wave, but no one could physically HEAR the sound. As he cranked up the frequency, ahhh, there it was. A low pitched growl. NOW we could hear physically HEAR (vibrationally interpret) the soundwave because it came within range of the human ear. He continued to do this, the pitch got higher and higher (BEEEEEEEEEEP) until it began sounding like a mosquito radio, or a dog whistle. You know, that high-pitched ridiculously annoying squeal. Some dude to my right goes, “Where'd the sound go? I don't hear it!” I'm like “Wtf how can you NOT hear that? It's so fucking loud and annoying!” The teacher said he couldn't hear it either. Others in the room could, others couldn't. He then cranked it up even higher. Suddenly, the high pitched squeal became PERFECT silence. But, visibly you could still see the sound wafer pulsating, sending out soundwaves. But our physical human ears could not hear the high pitched frequency anymore – it was now out of vibrational range. In other words, we lost vibrational access to it. Now, this doesn't mean that the sound wave disappeared or anything, it still exists somewhere in reality, but we are no longer able to vibrationally interpret it, in other words, to HEAR it. Can you guess where this is going? Your Higher Self *IS* a reality!!! You just can't see it, feel it, taste it, touch it, smell it, BECOME IT because you are our of vibrational harmony with it. Oil and water.

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Same goes for vibrational interpretations with your eyes in terms of the light spectrum. Think infrared or ultraviolet light. You can't physically SEE these finer refined energetic vibrations because you don't have VIBRATIONAL ACCESS to them. That's why some people can see auras surrounding people and other people can't. Doesn't mean the girl saying “Susy, your aura looks very blue today – what's up?” is crazy, in HER REALITY she is literally seeing (translating vibration with her eyes) things that most people can't normally see. Same goes for thought forms, they're just more complex forms of vibrational makeup that aren't just solely limited to sound and light, they include the entire spectrum of human consciousness. In other words, think of thought forms as vivid 3-dimensional mind movies or images with sound, touch, taste, smell, sight, and emotion attached. Aka your SOLUTION, CLARITY, POWER, ABILITY, INSPIRATION etc. This is why, whenever you feel sad, the powerful Law of Attraction is yielding to you all the sad thoughts, memories, and things in your environment. Your whole world is dark, depressing and hopeless. All you can think or speak about is depressing sad dark lower-vibration bullshit. Your inability and unworthiness and lack of power. On the other hand, that is why when you feel HAPPY suddenly you're straight up Money in the club. You have all this hilarious shit to talk about. You think thoughts like “Wtf was I so concerned about? Where did all my problems go! I'm the Shit! Im Awesome! Hot girls LOVE me. I'm the MAN. I've ALWAYS been like this...” Now when you see a hot girl, you see SOLUTION and CLARITY. Whereas before in that lower frequency state of fear, anxiety, or depression you would see a hot girl and only be able to think of thought or actions/behaviors along the lines of some bullshit idea.

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“Fuck I'm gonna be nervous or tense, I'm going to do THIS weird tick or THAT one.. she isn't gonna like me.. I'll run out of things to say...” etc. But NOW by being in that higher mode of being and gaining NEW VIBRATIONAL ACCESS to these higher fluffier lighter feeling thought forms(thoughts are held together by the Law Of Attraction too, they're physical things!), you see that dime and you think, “Fuuuuckkkk. Just LOOK at those soft legs and that short mini-skirt. I can see her hot ass hanging out. I wonder if she has panties on... Holy shit this girl must taste incredible. She's fucking MINE tonight.” You then go right up with full confidence and spin her around or start playfully teasing in her in some self-amusing fun sexual way that pumps your own state, and then by law the feminine reacts to you like a mirror (next disc, relax.) and so she begins feeling these positive fun & naughty emotions from you so she will literally not want to leave you alone for the rest of the night and isn't this the best run-on sentence ever? Sneak Preview: This is why walking up to Hot Girls with ease is so outside of most guys realities. They're like “What, you can't just WALK UP to her and make out with her.. wtf!” In other words, they don't have vibrational access to these higher thoughtforms of clarity or power/ability that “getting into state” in a club (aka feeling really good and on fucking fire in The Zone) will bring you. These higher realities exist, but they're not anywhere near them in terms of vibrational access, so they “don't think it's possible” because they physically cannot see it happening in their minds-eye first. And as a side-note, once you can see something happening in your mind (vibrational access) you are literally SECONDS away from it happening in your “reality.” Most things. Other things take repeated thoughts and focus to bring them into full manifestional fruition.

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Incremental Jumps So then, how do you rise up the vibrational scale and gain access to more satisfying thoughts and forms in your life (aka cooler likeminded friends, more money in your bank acct, hot women moaning on your bed, fun experiences, inspired action, etc?) The answer is to make incremental jumps. In fact it is the ONLY way.

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You see, when you're feeling down, or even slightly bored (still a form of negative emotion, albeit a very subtle one), you don't have vibrational access to those lighter, fluffier thoughtforms and ideas just yet. So what can you do? You must reach for a thought that feels a little better. Relief is the work. Remember, it's ALL About emotions. The name of the game is feeling as good as you can (aka raising your vibration.. coming into full vibrational harmony with your Higher Self in all key areas of focus.) And how you do that is by reaching for the thought that feels just a little bit better and then focusing on this for 15 seconds. Why 15 seconds? What's so special about this time? It has now been scientifically proven that when you hold a “pure” thought for 15 seconds, once you reach that time a like-frequency thought will join it due to the Law Of Attraction matching these things up. Remember, like attracts like. Oil and water molecules. Once this happens, if the thought was one that felt better, you have now reached a new point of attraction. Everything in your experience has now become uplifted and better things are now making their way to you FIRST in the form of improved emotions, SECOND in the form of improved thoughts and ideas (hope), and THIRD in the form of bonafide PHYSICAL REALITY MANIFESTATION. Also, since you just moved slightly up the vibrational scale that means some NEW thought or idea you did not have access to before, has now just come in vibrational range. So it is now easier to reach for an EVEN BETTER feeling thought.

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Just like when feeling sad you don't have vibrational access to any fun thoughts that truly make you feel happy (your whole life and future seems dark & hopeless), the same applies for when you raise up the scale. Meaning, when you (after 15 seconds of “pure” focus) changing your point of attraction and incrementally move up the vibrational scale feeling just a little bit better about whatever subject it is you are focusing upon, you now are OUT vibrational range of the lower-vibration thoughts. Oil and water. Get it? You literally can't THINK OF that depressing weird shit anymore when you get out of range. It's like, have you ever been telling someone something and then BANG! You totally forget what you were talking about, “It's on the tip of my tongue!” you say. THIS is exactly what vibrational access is like. You just “forget” about all your problems, or your old weird behavior patterns that are unattractive to girls (that feel like shit to you because they are WAY out of harmony with WhoYou-Really-Are.) These negative thoughtforms / behaviors / manifestations become like the aforementioned high frequency soundwave example. They appear invisible to you. Why? Because you CAN'T PHYSICALLY TRANSLATE THEM ANYMORE!!! You literally cannot access them (like you cannot see ultraviolet light or hear a 16 Hz dog whistle) when you take the time to incrementally raise your point of attraction. How? Simply by making incremental jumps by focusing for 15 seconds on “pure” thoughts that make you feel better and better. Pretty soon you begin attracting more and more awesome thoughts that become your point of focus, which become your Created Reality.

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Inspired Action Now let's talk more about manifesting bonafide reality utilizing everything you have been learning here. It's now time to come full circle with this. So, this isn't just all mind games. It's not just some pie-in-the-sky feelgood woo-woo newagey shit. Let's talk about how raising your vibration will actual MANIFEST hardcore physical knock-on-wood things in your reality. A lot of this stuff to a newbie can seem like you're just sitting in your room meditating all day all “Ommmmmmmmmmmmm Auuuummmmmmmmmm millionaire NOW.... Ommmmmmmm … hot bitches on my bed tonight Auuuuummm Ommm OMMMMmmmm” Lol, no. The men who are the most successful in this life have WORKED THEIR ASSES OFF. They take the MOST action. It's MUCH more than just mental la la happy happy joy joy pretend time. The guys who are the best with women and have the hottest girls in their life on a consistent basis are the one's who have approached the MOST girls. NOT A SINGLE ONE sat in their room all, “Ommmm Aummmm come to me wealthy life... aummmmmmm.” These powerful successful men have taken MASSIVE ACTION in their lives and have got the MASSIVE RESULTS to show for it. But...

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There's a difference between these certain men and the “regular society folk” who struggle their ass off and barely ever attain any awesome lasting hot results. The difference? They're utilizing the power of Inspired Action. In other words, they're going WITH the flow of the energy of their desires and the Universe to manifest whatever it is they have asked for in the fastest, funnest (key: good-feeling emotions let you know just how on track you are) Higher Self inspired action-based way. These men don't “work” a single day in their life, yet to an untrained struggling outsider it looks like they are going through extreme vigorous workouts in the gym, busting their ass on a day-to-day basis getting up extremely early and slaving away at their business dreams, or facing their fears when it comes time to approach the total 10 Women in the club, night after night after night. The truth is, these men are STOKED, in every sense of the word, throughout their “work” and for all that they do. They CAN'T WAIT to hit the gym and LOVE working out. They never feel more alive or full of energy. They feel PASSION and EXCITIEMENT when they're “working” on their easy cashflow projects. A millionaire recently told me when he got his first business idea (key: inspired thought form given to him by the Law Of Attraction a la vibrational access... more on this later) he was fucking shaking with excitement and couldn't even sleep that night. Like, he HAD to ACT on this new idea that seemed to pop out of nowhere, NOW!!!

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When true players approach Hot Women, they're not scared.. they're feeling EXCITEMENT to talk to and eventually fuck and fully enjoy a horny hot girl. All these wealthy men I have read autobiographies about, or have had the unique gift of being able to observe and be mentored by them, ALL have this unanimously in common. They never “work” a day in their entire lives! They feel extreme positive emotion like passion, joy, fun, excitement, eagerness, etc surrounding their physical actions. The actions they take are NEVER a struggle, to them they are effortless and fun and produce 10x more results than the struggling masses. Remember, anytime you are feeling extreme negative emotion, it's your higher Self trying to show you in the form of Emotional Guidance that your current actions and behaviors and thinking are WAYYY off course to manifesting what it is that you are truly wanting in your personal reality. So, let's break it down further. You now understand how vibrational access & your Emotional Guidance System works. So now, I want you to think of these new, better & higher thought forms in terms of being both your CLARITY and SOLUTIONS to your problems or asking. "The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them" -Albert Einstein Thoughts precede action. You are inspired to act from the thoughts you continually tend to think, whether these are negative or positive.

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That is why you are inclined towards beneficial behavior and actions when feeling confident and good, just as you are inclined toward detrimental behavior when feeling insecure and bad. If you could first SEE in your mind what it truly is to feel confident and be in THE ZONE around hot girls, and then see in effect how attracted they become to you, you would be like this all the time around them and live in total pussy abundance! But it's not that simple. Again, you do not have vibrational access to these new thought forms, to this new CLARITY or SOLUTION you have been looking for. (And it does not matter what the subject is.) So, when doing this right, when you raise your vibration, you now will have access to these newer better-feeling thoughts, which will directly lead to the CORRECT inspired action that will produce the RESULTS for you in the easiest, fastest, quickest way possible. Your Higher Self has already lighten up a path to it's manifestation and is now calling you hastily to it in the form of your Emotional Guidance. Raising Your Vibration When you still your mind, you stop thought. When you stop thought, you stop resistance. When you stop resistance, your vibration naturally rises. This is the art of meditation. It is a way to feel really really good by releasing resistance, and coming into close vibrational harmony with your Higher Self. The thing is, when you do this, these deep states of blissful meditation in that high vibration mode of being will yield to you AMAZING thoughts. They will suddenly just pop into your awareness, like a flash of insight. All geniuses report this. Whatever it is you've been asking for, the solution will be shown. You'll see yourself being the fucking MAN around hot Women, or you'll get this grand idea of a business plan pop into your mind.

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It's extremely hard to describe this phenomena in words, but the closest word-equivalent to what happens is that “thoughtforms will pop into your mind seemingly out of nowhere” as you reach these new better-feeling levels of reality that are in closer vibrational harmony with all that you have become. Einstein said one night in deep meditation a new formula suddenly popped into his mind (aka he just gained vibrational access to what he's been asking for), and it took him the next 3 years to write it out and fully explain it to other people on a chalkboard. A simple little 10 second thoughtform, showed him everything. His clarity. His solution. Something very similar happened to me for my first business. Suddenly I just BANG! got the idea, and it took me the next 6 months to actually execute this inspired thoughtform via inspired action, which netted me EXACTLY what I was asking for from the Universe in the quickest way possible; money in my bank account. I didn't “work” a single day during that 6 months. Some nights I couldn’t even sleep I was so damn excited – I'd be up till 4 A.M. “working” on the project. My emotions were soaring the whole time. It was ALL inspired action in the fullest sense of the word. The “how” will come in the form of an inspired thoughtform once you get in vibrational harmony with your desires and STOP RESISTING THEM. Follow your Emotional Guidance. I just remained in that reality of “already having the money” key: FEELING good, relaxed about money, excited, eager, rich and happy etc And then I let the Universe fill in the vibrational gaps and show me HOW it was going to come in in the form of inspired thought, following in inspired action.

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CONCLUSION Whatever it is that you are wanting, on ANY subject, the path to attaining it lies within the hidden key of listening to your Emotions. Honor your own intuitive Emotional Guidance System and become EXTREMELY sensitive to any negative emotion present within your body. Know what this means. Know what your Higher Self is trying to tell you about the thought you are currently thinking, the belief you are currently holding, or the way you are focusing / remembering / projecting in to the future inside of your own mind. Your Higher Self knows the fastest, quickest, BEST most satisfying deeply fulfilling and rewarding way to getting you right in vibrational harmony (blending) with all your desires. The guys who are sleeping with the most girls all do this Emotional Incremental Jumping thing naturally. They have conditioned themselves to feel as AWESOME AS THEY CAN around hot women. What you feel she feels, and hot sex ensues. Stop resisting, start allowing. You emotions will tell you which direction your heading. The better you feel, the closer in the vicinity of your desires manifesting you are. The worse you feel, the further away you are from your Higher Self. Now go mold the clay that is your reality. MISSION – Please see pg. 2 of the Authentic King Workbook.

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INTRODUCTION We're diving deep into female psyche here, so get your Teachability Up and your pencil & paper ready. Since a very young age, I've been surrounding myself with shitload of women. I even lived with five girls in college for a while. Not the best experience (god do chicks get friggin' annoying sometimes) but I learned A LOT. We're talking hot 21-year-old college girls, bringing home guys and squealing and girl-talking in front of the mirror almost every single night. I have learned too much, and there's no going back now. Mwahahaha. Just kidding. But yeah, understanding a lot of this stuff really can give you some pretty strange powers over Women when you know how they are and what they respond to. Women's Emotions By default, Women respond to and intuitively listen to their emotions much more powerfully than men. Where most guys will 'feel' sort of awkward in an interaction, he will 9/10 tough it out and stick in. Girls won't. At the first whiff of weirdness or bad vibes they will run off to go feel better somewhere else, drawing State from their environment. It is the feminine way. Hot chicks are like little stimulation bunnies, running from guy to guy, friend to friend, drawing energy (State) from their external environments.

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Men respond to logic and tend to suppress emotional guidance. Women are more in tune with their emotional guidance systems so they are more prone to frolic around like little stimulation bunnies, seeking out what feels best to them in their environment. The Feminine Is Like A Mirror The feminine (hot Women) respond to their environment much like a mirror. That is why they draw state from outside of themselves, i.e. they go to night clubs with loud music, flashing lights, alcohol and giggling gaggles of their girlfriends where they tend to dance for hours and hours and hours. Ever see a group of hot chicks all jumping up and down like circus animals around each other shrieking with joy and laughter? This is the dynamic at play here. Chicks respond to each other. How her friends are feeling she tends to feel. If one girl is pissed off at some guy or thinks he is creepy, they ALL think he is creepy. If one girl is tired and wants to go home, she drags her friend home with her, even though she was having a good time. Guess what dude, YOU are her environment. What you feel she feels. Your state directly influences hers. That's why as a man you must dictate the energy of the interaction and not look to her for reasons to feel good, but draw state from within. Deep Masculine Polarity. If you want her to feel warm & sexual, you must FIRST feel warm & sexual, and by natural law she follows. This is what it means to LEAD, and why the feminine LOVE it. Women's feelings are much more chaotic, fluctuating, and not logically-based & clear like Men's tend to be. In other words, women don't make sense.

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Guys see HIGHLY emotional women (the hottest most feminine ones) as “crazy”, because they can be pissed off one minute, happy the next. Highly aroused one second, turned off and not wanting sex anymore the next. Remember, Girls aren't “crazy” - they're just feminine. That is why a true player NEVER takes any woman seriously. When she's pissed off he thinks it's FUNNY. When she's turned on and then decides to “take the pussy away” and push him off acting turned off and disinterested in sex – he just DOESN'T CARE. This is masculine polarity, that deeply turns the feminine on (aka she will get dripping wet for you), girls NEED that grounding point of deep masculine energy. More on this masculine/feminine polarity dynamic later. Your gift to a girl is to light up her heart, not taking her bullshit fluctuating moods so seriously. When she's mad at you, walk over to her smiling from ear to ear and tickle her. Or throw her up against the wall and makeout with her, penetrating her to the depths of love with your all-pervading masculine dominance, FORCING her open into love. Lead her to bliss~ The #1 reported sexual encounter Women fantasize about is rape. Why is this? Deep down, they CRAVE that dominant man (loving of course) who cuts through her bullshit and penetrates forcefully through her resistance, fucking her open to GOD, ravaging her open into the depths of ecstatic love. Lastly, Women DO NOT respond to words. They are responding to the general vibe you project. That is why a cool, sexy, strong man can walk up and go, “Hi, I'm Kyle.” and she'll light up “Hiiiiii I'm Stacey!!!”, but the chodey nerd with bad body language and a weird vibe will walk up, “Hi. I'm Kyle.” and with a weird look she backturns him.

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Polarity If you want HOT girls to be turned on and need to fuck you NOW, TONIGHT, then develop your masculine core so the feminine core is polarized. She'll be helpless and totally submit to your every move. The divine masculine is the unchanging watcher, the pure presence who not only enjoys experiencing the feminine form, but also FORMING it in whatever way he sees fit. The divine feminine is the flow of constantly shifting form, the flow of love, light, and LIFE. These opposites attract each other and form the Dance Of Life. Think of strip club dynamics. The masculine guy sits there silently watching in ecstacy, as the feminine girl moves around posing in various forms and expressions of orgasmic delight (feminine ecstacy, aka she's 'getting off on how much you get off', as you'll learn later.) How To Polarize Hot Girls When you polarize a fully feminine girl (a “total 10), she will relax into her divine feminine. She will become very shy and compliant with you, shyly looking down submissively. Her body language will change as if to say, “do what you want with me.” When you get REALLY good at this, girls will giggle uncontrollably, touch you A LOT, and become MASSIVELY sexually attracted. They'll barely be able to even speak. And we're talking “total 10” intelligent, high self-esteem, GORGEOUS Women.

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So, how do we polarize these girls? It's simple. You must tap into your Masculine Polarity, aka your Masculine Core. Things like dominance, not reaction seeking [core confidence] i.e. being the lighthouse, she's the storm.. you're the oak tree and she's the squirrel, you're the lightbulb and she's the moth, etc. Women trust in a strong man his capacity to remain present through thick and thin, that unwavering deep masculine presence. The feminine gets swept up by the environment in the flow of form, she needs a grounding point to rely on. A really good quality feminine HOT woman will tolerate nothing less than your full consciousness. You must remain fully present with her. She wants every one of your senses penetrating her to the depths of love. She KNOWS that deep down her heart aches for a man to fully take her and ravage her, she craves to surrender fully in mind heart and body to the right man, an Authentic King. She'll get on your bed surrender to her feminine and basically say “do whatever you want with me” if you're the Right Man. The attraction formula for polarizing the hot babes and getting her all giggly and wanting to suck and fuck your dick is as follows; Unwavering Presence + Assuming Value/Not Trying To Impress + FULL POSITIVE ANTICIPATED RESPONSE. Unwavering Presence means not going inside your head to “try to think of things to say” or to “think of what happens next” in the interaction. Again, the feminine CRAVES masculine consciousness. The unwavering cocky masculine youthful presence of the silent unchanging watcher. Her grounding point.

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That is why when you get really good at this, when you're in The Zone and you walk up to a woman just playfully LOOKING at her and that's it, she will start uncontrollably laughing and become MASSIVELY attracted to you, totally polarized. Assuming Value automatically puts you in a mode of being “normal” around HOT total 10 Women where you stop trying. Girl's FREAK OUT at this. Chicks all the time ask me “OMG WHO ARE YOU?!?! HE'S SO COOL!! OMG UR SO BEAUTIFUL!! YOU'RE AMAZING!!! PLEASE TALK TO MY FRIENDS!!!” Why do they get like this? Place yourself in the reality of a hot girl. 95% of dudes out there are trying to impress girls and desperately think of cool things to say. As you will learn later, ANYTIME you think a single thought you stop being PRESENT in the moment and MISS whatever is happening in front of your own two eyes. What does the feminine crave and lust for? That's right – YOUR DEEP, UNWAVERING MASCULINE PRESENCE. So when you're off in your head trying to think of things to say or impress her or think and plan a step ahead, you are turning her off and the attraction goes down and down and down, fast. So, when you become the icy badass motherfucker who is just sitting there FULLY PRESENT WITH HER, not trying to impress her in any way, she literally doesn't know how to act. She feels like butterflies are fluttering in her stomach and in between her legs. Polarized. Going deeper... The guy who is “not trying” and can be fully present with a gorgeous woman (not going off in his mind trying to think of things to say) communicates MASSIVE pre-selection.

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Girls ask me all the time “Omg do you have a girlfriend?” or, “You're rich huh. I bet you're rich.” Preselection is huge for deep, primal, raw sexual attraction. Alpha guys who have a harem of hot women at home waiting for them in their beds and million dollars in the bank and all the friends in the world DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS GIRLS. They have everything they need. They're completely in the moment and NOT TRYING. Women instantly recognize this from a very deep primal survival instinct and will want to sleep with you ASAFP when they sense this vibe. In fact, they oftentimes can't even control themselves because you become SO RARE. Often, girls pull ME back to their place. Remember, masculine polarity is drawing state from within, NOT your external environment (that's a feminine [bitches] trait.) Many times really hot feminine girls will test you to see if you're a man or not. A Common “Total 10” Feminine Test: She will get all hardcore sexual with you right off the bat, like, grinding on your leg and rubbing your cock outside your jeans etc, then playfully “stripper-tease” push you away totally rejecting you out of the blue and then playfully WATCH to see how you'll react. Most guys, who aren't connecting to their masculine core (that polarizes the hot girls, remember?) will feel all bad and feel the LOSS. Then, the girl seeing this, smiles and goes “next! Thanks for playing :)” It's the guy who doesn't give a fuck, the guy who doesn’t change, that sits there amusingly watching her feminine wiles totally unaffected by her approval or dissaproval that TURNS HER ON and INTERESTS HER. Key Attitude: She blows you off you don't care you think its FUNNY. You're totally free from the outcome. Women are attracted to this, a strong guy with a sense of purpose and identity that ISN'T tied up in women's reactions to him.

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This is HIGHLY arousing to hot women who are surrounding by needy desperate losers all day & night who have their whole worlds shattered when she doesn't like him. Never retreat or flinch inside your head around HOT GIRLS. Be the unchanging divine masculine presence and watch what happens, how they respond to you, I think you'll find you like it :) The last piece, is having a Positively Anticipated Response. Confidence, the #1 most attractive quality women find most sexy in Men, can be defined as having a “positive expectation of a result.” So when you walk up to a girl and expect her to be TOTALLY into you, she more often than not will be because the feminine is like a mirror to her external reality remember? What you feel she feels. If you feel she's massively attracted to you and wants to fuck your brains out, she will. Friends Finish Last Fuck the friend zone, get sexual FROM THE GET-GO. A true man on purpose (divine masculine) TAKES what he wants. When you're not being sexual around her she feels it and knows it deep down that you're not a man who has the balls or status in the tribe to take and enjoy what you want... ie sex or FOOD (survival). Her genes scream to leave you. But if you're a guy who UNAPOLOGETICALLY goes after what he wants, ie escalating / talking sexual to her (and FOR her), she'll get dripping wet. Assume value and a positive response. Since as a Man the feminine is reacting to YOU and YOUR REALITY, your experience must be > ALL OTHERS. You must have a dominant reality. This is how you do CRAZY shit in the club, because you're only focused on your reality, not giving a fuck about anyone else's.

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You're CENTERED IN YOUR OWN REALITY, not shattered like a fragmented piece of glass thinking about everyone else's reality (perception) of you. So when you see that hottie you want surrounded by 5 muscle-head steroid abusing scary looking buff dudes, you just DGAF (Don't Give A Fuck) and walk right and up and start flirting with her. ALL Alpha masculine motherfuckin' cool dudes do this time & time again because they're NOT socially “pinging” caring about what others think or whether or not they will approve of their actions. “Oh, you're her boyfriend? Shit man sorry, I thought you guys were holding hands because you were her retarded little brother or something...” Stop giving a fuck. The ship is going down man, you're in Free Fall... every friend you will ever have will die someday. Every girl you will ever fuck will die. Every piece of shit you ever owned, including your body, will decay and turn to dust. You're in Free Fall... no relationships, no money, no self, no job, STOP CLINGING to worldly form shit. Be like Tyler Durden and just “fuck it”. Do what you want and wear what and behave how you want cuz' life is short. Take her. Girl Humor In my experience, women tend to find two things VERY funny. This is a powerful concept you can implement in field, tonight, to watch your results soar. The first, is that of roleplaying. We talked about how the feminine is like a mirror. That girls react to their environment and bask in the energy of their surroundings that pumps their own state.

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Just looks at a girl's room... it's got lots of soft teddy bears that make her feel all warm and tingly inside, many pictures of her and her friends all smiling and happy together, lots of colorful objects. What's in a guy's room... a bed, a computer, some dirty clothes on the floor, perhaps a bookshelf, maybe some poster of some hot bitch and that's it. Very simple, very plain. If a girl's room (her environment) is dirty, SHE will feel dirty. Women respond to their environment and draw state from it, remember that. So you, yes YOU, are her environment. If she is feminine she is reacting to you by natural law. Reacting is feminine, remember that. Back to chick humour... Women react to a man's reality so when you “roleplay” her by being your girlfriend of 5 years, she MUST by law of nature react to that and go along. And what's more, she LOVES this game. Chicks find this shit HILLARIOUS and get really into it, giggling like crazy. Something I do A LOT in field is go up to some hottie acting all playfully pissed off at her like, “What the fuck do you think you're doing? The kids have been worried SICK, rent's past due, dinner's getting cold... look at you, out drunk at a bar hanging all over these guys.. what am I gonna do with you? We're getting the divorce this is the last straw.” And she'll LIGHT UP hit me on the arm shrieking, “Nooooo. You were always the one bad in bed with your little cock!” Then I'll go “Yeah sure, like the time I made you cum like 9 times. Harddd.”

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Roleplays dude. They're fun. Be creative, you can come up with a lot and girls eat this stuff up like candy. Others examples are; she can be your assistant/secretary for the night, your social science research partner, your secret undercover drink getter girl (“go make some guy buy me a drink, act like he's buying it for you!”), your bratty little sister, ETC. The next thing females find super funny is that of social dynamics and social hierarchies. When you can make jokes about social roles other people are in, it sub-communicates that you are “keyed-in” and you “get it”, so you're essentially one of the cool kids. You exist on top of the social food chain, so to speak. When I'm talking to cute girls I always make jokes about them being creepy stalkers leering on hot guys all night at the bar or horny nerds with no friends, or I'll talk about how it's sad that most guys care what other girl's are thinking of him and they can't just BE THEMSELVES around hot women and chill and be REAL... etc etc etc. Bringing humor into something implies you UNDERSTAND IT. Women Are Prettier For A Reason Key Click: WOMEN ARE TURNED ON BY A MAN'S BEHAVIORS, A MAN IS TURNED ON BY A WOMAN'S LOOKS. I cannot drill that deep into your head enough man. Feminine energy wants to be KNOWN, it wants to be SEEN, RAVAGED, EXPERIENCED. It's light, radiance, beauty, captivating enticing sexy form. So, by the way of Nature, a woman WILL be “prettier” and more “good-looking” than you. Guys that think it's good looks that get girls are sadly mistaken. That's feminine energy, a bitches trait.

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What women say they want and what they actually respond to in between their legs is completely different. Some of my buddies waayyy back in high school were some pretty busted ass motherfuckers, one even looked like a cave troll complete with oversized ears and a deviated septum nose and flaming red hair. But guess what? That dude was one of the most baddass iciest players I know to this very day. He fucked all the hottest girls on campus (and later in college.) Everywhere I saw this dude women just FLOCKED to him. Like, I was really jealous of him growing up. But to prove a point, he was COOL, he was DOMINANT, he was CONFIDENT, etc etc etc. This guy did not care what others thought, and he threw the hottest parties. Everyone loved him, he was one of the coolest guys on campus and has fucked nearly 100 women in his lifetime. The point is, the girl on your arm is SUPPOSED to be “better-looking” than you man! Again, that's feminine energy. Light. Radiance. I don't care what I look like, I care what SHE looks like. When you act form the core, tapping into your true dominant masculine polarity ie being DIRECT, leading her.. core confidence, basically EVERYTHING we will dive into extreme depth in this program.. you are like the equivalency of a girl TOTAL 10 hot super model walking around in a sea of ugly fatties. 99.9% of men out there are total pussies and don't lead because society tells them to sit down and shut the fuck up and not behave sexually around women because it's rude or wrong or impolite or whatever mommy told you, thus they are EXTREMELY unattractive to women, since they are getting turned on by a man's behavior not his looks. So when you tap into your CORE and LEAD women as they desire and CRAVE, you will get the stares and tons of lusty looks and fuck lots and lots of gorgeous women. Why? Because you stand out like a sore thumb.

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Remember. She gets off on how much you get off. Her feminine DESIRE [and role] is to turn you on. What is “beauty” anyways? It's just GENETIC man. Back in college I had this poster in the War Room (my den) of 5 very hot half-naked ladies. Time & time again when new guy friends would come by the pad, they would always pick out their dream girl. “Oh man HER she is a perfect 10 fuckkk she is SO HOT.” To me, that chick would be a 4.5 at BEST. He'd then call me crazy and ask which one I liked. I would point her out, my total 10 hottie that drives me wild with desire, and he'd laugh and go “Wtf? Dude she's a 4, she looks like a gorilla...” This would happen time and time again, different guys, different ratings, depending on their unique genetic makeup and body type. In other words, THE HOT GIRLS ARE FOR YOU. It's genetics man. What deeply sexually excites you, chances are she feels the exact same way about you. Your “Total 10” is another man's gorilla, and vice-versa. Your World Bring a girl into YOUR reality. Talk about what YOU think is cool or interesting. Remember, the feminine, even your LIFE, that is to say every “form” that surrounds you, is ALL feminine energy. Even your thoughts! You must shape and mold it ALL in a way that pleases you as is the role of the Divine Masculine. From vision to reality. THAT has been the leading masculine role of the world's greatest champions.

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Stop trying to fit into her reality or worry about what she likes. SHOW HER what YOU like. Girls can like you just for you man. Even if you're obsessed about microchips and computers, I guarantee if you bring that passion and start talking to hot chicks about computer chips they will giggle and get excited about it. Women are fun, they'll feel like little nerds too. If YOU believe in it and YOU think it's cool – it is. It comes from that belief in yourself. This is self-esteem and confidence 101. Traits women find irresistibly sexy in guys.

CONCLUSION Be a Man for her, totally tapped into your Masculine Core. If things get hectic she needs to feel that she can rely on you - a source of strength. A pillar. That way when she is around you she can relax and surrender into her full feminine which brings her deep joy and fulfillment. When you handle your own emotions and lead her from within your own core (Emotional Guidance System, aka Raw Instincts), she surrenders fully to you and blissfully follows your lead, totally polarized. “Do whatever you want to me, baby.” Live on your edge… lean into your fears and potential on a daily basis SO YOU GROW. SEEK CHALLENGE. Most guys run from and avoid the difficult situations that will bring them closer to their CORE MAN. Everyday push your comfort zone. Ask yourself everyday, where is your compass pointed - chode or champion? Have Fun. Be Authentic. Be the person you're meant to be. There's NOTHING to fear and women are really really fun & enjoyable. Your mind is scary as fuck, silence it so the divine, infinite, all powerful unlimited YOU can come out.

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Never be scattered and keep present. Remember, the feminine CRAVES, LOVES, and NEEDS a Man's full unwavering presence. Be selective. It's YOUR world. That is why you must value things deeper than her looks i.e. her intelligence, compassion towards others, health, creativity, etc. Qualify her on these traits. The KEY line that gets girls feeling like OMFG WHO IS THIS GUY is.. “Yeah, there's a lot of hot girls around here, but there's hardly and COOL girls...” Anytime I've ever said this to women they drop their jaws at me and give me a look, “OMG dude seriously WHO ARE YOU?” Most guys are totally disconnected from their core. They act like little bitches, letting the girls dictate the energy of the interaction or how they feel about themselves. There is NO polarization when there's two girls chatting, there's ZERO sexual attraction. Become a Man for her. She craving it. MISSION – Please see pg. 3 of the Authentic King Workbook.

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INTRODUCTION Mindsets, NOT tactics. This whole Authentic Attraction System has been designed to unlock the core natural inside of you that makes success with hot women effortless and truly a pure source of enjoyment and fun for you. I'm not here to hand you a bunch of bullshit surface-level tactics that may or may not resonate with your personality type and unique game style [Emotional Guidance~]. “Give a man a fish, feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish, feed him for a lifetime.” -Old Chinese Proverb When approaching women and trying things out in field, you must begin to think for yourself. Bonafide results DON'T LIE. No one is going to spoonfeed you your entire life or always give you the proverbial fish. Guys have gone out before you and figured out the key lessons forged from deep inside the field (and vaginas), but ultimately your own experience is the best teacher. You MUST think for yourself to figure out what's working. And, you only ever truly learn in your own experience when you get those “A-Ha!” moments... These discs and eBooks are PACKED full of tactics [fish] but they are used as examples to further illustrate the underlying key principles. Tactics from the right mindsets. When you get in The Zone, you just know exactly how to act and what to do or say. That is the golden sweet spot my program will lead you towards, Total Natural Game.

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Becoming a 5% Man 95% of men today either never approach women, or, when they do they are either (A) shit-scared and full of creepy weird vibez, or (B) shitfaced drunk slobbering all over themselves. You can verify this for yourself one night by making it your minimission to go out and just observe how other dudes behave in the club. They always do the same thing. Stand around talking with their chode buddies, go to the bar, drink drink drink, talk talk talk to their cockfarm (circle of guy friends), then go get more alcohol, go to the bathroom, and FINALLY after being wasted and numb to their environment they will go wreckingball approach chicks. Sometimes they get lucky with a pretty girl equally as drunk and have a sloppy numb fuck, othertimes they don't and go home with a $100 alcohol tab. Forget about “getting lucky” it's all about consistency. Plus, booze numbs you to the feminine. It drains your vitality and life force and boosts your estrogen levels. Trust me I know, college was crazy. I drank a lot back then. Sober fucks are much better, and you're sharper in-field. When you approach women in the right way (and hopefully sober), you will become a 5% man. By mastering your emotional guidance (so you replace fear or nervousness with excitement and cocky sexual playfulness and genuine FUN), you literally become the diamond in the rough. Girl's jaws will drop with the “OMG WHO IS THIS GUY NOT TRYING TO IMPRESS US. HE MUST BE A MILLIONAIRE OR A ROCK STAR” look (one of my favorite moments in-field hahaha.) When you learn to stop trying to impress, assume value, master your own emotions, and walk up and LEAD by dictating the energy of the interaction [Masculine] thus becoming the CAUSE of the interaction, not the effect... girls get super aroused because

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95% of men CAN'T INTERACT WITH GIRLS LIKE THIS. Remember, most guys are trying to impress by thinking of things to say (lacking that youthful masculinity cocky presence – review the Feminine Attraction Formula), feeling nervous, completely wasted and wreak of alcohol, feeling low value and unworthy like they need to somehow “create” attraction in women so they start “gaming” them with lines & tactics – which girls see RIGHT THROUGH this shit. Chicks complain to me all the time about these lame guys that attempt to approach them night after night after night. So when the King (the man you will become after going through this program) comes along, chicks literally FREAK OUT and don't know how to react. Most of them think you are like a celebrity or something and they try to sleep with you right away. Remember, 87% of what you're saying isn't coming out of your mouth. It's your vibe. Your bodylanguage. Females are responding to your SUBCOMMUNICAITONS and MICROBEHAVIORS. Nervously looking away for even just a second says a lot more about you than standing there playfully staring out her with strong deep unwavering presence and eye-contact. When you get these mindsets you are learning here down, and I mean DOWN, all your micro-behaviors will click perfectly into place. You will become a 5% man, and chicks will literally stare you down at clubs & bars getting wet with desire. It gets pretty weird and overwhelming having chicks drool at you everywhere you go when you learn to polarize them like that. You've been warned.

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The Inner Game Of Opening Key Click: Fun First, Pickup Later. Most guys see a group of girls with a hottie they want in it and immediately get the thought “I MUST GO PICK HER UP NOW.” They immediately begin putting all of this pressure on themselves feeling like they MUST GO PERFORM NOW. This is a horrible mindset to be in, especially for the approach. By saying to yourself and shifting your focus to Fun First, Pickup Later, you take off the pressure and begin to snap into the right frame of mind. You'll be way more natural and attractive when you approach with no anxiety-ridden hidden dancing monkey agenda. Entitlement You must feel like you deserve the hot girls and they are YOURS. You are walking up and CLAIMING THEM. A true woman wants a real man to claim her. Remember, submission is a feminine trait. The mindset shift you must have is that you are a cool fun guy to be around and you totally deserve hot women, they are LUCKY to be around you. Your amount of success in field is directly proportionate to how congruent and how much conviction you hold to this belief. Social Snapshotting Malcolm “Madmoney” Gladwell wrote an excellent book entitled, “Blink.” In it, he talks about how there exists a mechanism embedded within the human psyche that serves to “snapshot” other people constantly in our social environment, everywhere we go. The process basically goes like this...

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Say you see a guy walking down the street with an afro and pink sunglasses. Immediately your mind begins linking up past neuromemories and associations with afros. If your cool Dubstep buddy Jerome also had a fro and occasionally wore pink sunglasses, you will begin feeling affection for this stranger linking him up and projecting at him the qualities of your old time buddy Jerome. Same goes for a guy walking in a business suit. You see him and you automatically assume he's a “business guy” and probably rich and well established with some fancy job etc. The point is, you're not sitting there seeing the depth in that guy “Oh gee, I wonder who this is!” instead you snapshot him. Prejudgement. In modern times, this happens in social situations more than you're probably aware of. People are always snapshotting you. You could be the coolest guy in the world but if you walk into a venue surrounded by five nerds and you're dressed peacocked like Mystery, everyone's going to snapshot you as the weirdo or nerd. Even though you're fucking rad as hell and one of the coolest dudes there! In the same way, you could be the nerdiest guy in the world, walk into a party with five supermodels and everyone's going to think you're one of the coolest guys on the planet. Social snapshotting is powerful. People are doing it automatically and subconsciously all the time, so take note of the way you dress and who you hang out with because it says a lot, especially to girls. Now let's come full circle. So when you walk up all shaky weird and nervous, girls INSTANTLY assume you're a total fucking chode. They link up ALL the neuralassociations in their brains (past memories, experiences, other weird creepy guys they knew etc) and project these qualities onto YOU.

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You could be the coolest dude in the world, but if you're nervous for 10 seconds at the initial interaction, she is instantly snapshotting and categorizing you in the “weird creepy nervous guy” category with ALL the other guys that freaked her out in her past with bad vibes and is now processing you through that filter for the rest of the interaction. But, when you walk up with confidence purpose and conviction with that beaming knowing smile on your face, they snapshot you into the cool fun sexworthy guy category and begin to see you through that filter for the rest of the night. She will link you up with all the sexy, confident guys who have fucked her properly and deeply aroused her in the past. She lights up and her interest for you skyrockets. First impressions are powerful in the club. Remember that. Ever have a girl SUPER into you at first and then suddenly walk off? This is the dynamic at play, she liked and was turned on by you at first but as time went on she “got to know you” hahaha. Only half-joking here. ;) Think back to one of your friends, wasn't your first impression of that person ENTIRELY different than when you got to know them more? The problem with the club is there isn't enough time to show them the true holistic you so you have to get good at the snapshotting for same night lays. I had to learn this one the hard way, so capitalize on my wisdom. So.. how do we do this most-effectively? Parting The Seas When approaching Women in a night club (or any venue for that matter) you must GO IN HARD and STEP WITH PURPOSE.

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No pussyfooting around. Chicks can smell a creep lurker or a scared nervous chode MILES away and they are powerfully repelled by this bullshit. You must STEP to Women because, remember (key basic), they are social snapshotting you. Have full belief, feel good, assume value & attraction, STEP to these girls with full entitlement and PART THE SEAS. If you do this right you'll find girls get stunned and super shy, they start smiling and looking down and getting very submissive and compliant with you. Her friends subconsciously interpret this as a sign of obvious attraction and so they open up to you and are warm & friendly. APPROACH IS EVERYTHING. Remember, girls are always snapshotting you!!! The last guy who approached her like that fucked her to Heaven and back, so she thinks you're just like that guy. (And after studying this material, you will be ;)) This also stems from entitlement, and is why we discussed that approaching Basic earlier. When you feel like you deserve the girl, you go right for her playfully. No pussyfooting around. Women can smell a guy hovering around them too long, you wreak of chodeliness and fear. An alpha guy sees a hot girl he wants, he walks over to her and unapologetically takes it. So the #1 important piece to remember about approaching girls anywhere at anytime to to STEP with full conviction and entitlement. No stalling, so hovering, no creep lurking. PART THE SEAS.

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Rejection On The Approach Picking up Women is like playing a game of hardball. If you're not getting blown out enough man, you're not playing hard enough. Period. Remember, it's only the pussy chodes who are too scared to bruise their “perfect pimp egos” that NEVER approach women so they end up sleeping with like 5 girls their whole life (if any.) To learn and become a Master at any area in life, you must be willing to fail. A lot. Remember the baby learning to walk? Think of it like learning to play a song. What if you beat yourself up every time you messed up a note and then were too afraid to pick up the guitar again for “fear of missing a note and failing”? It would take you fucking 10 years to learn how to play a single song! There is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOUR INSTRUMENT, aka YOU. You've just been playing it wrong with some shitty bullshit inner beliefs and lack of emotional intelligence. (More on this in Inner Game.) Making mistakes is not only ESSENTIAL to your growth and development but it's INEVITABLE for the process of learning. You learn the most when you fail the hardest. The next time you try again, you're better because you're coming from a completely new level of wisdom and proficiency. Bottom Line: EXPECT IT. The BEST guys out in field who have been doing this shit for 10-15 years STILL get blown out each night they go out. The difference is they don't cry, get all down on themselves never to approach a girl

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again. They LAUGH and think it's FUNNY. All rejection is FUNNY. It's just a big feminine test to see if her little moods can affect you. Key Mindset: Women LIKE to be rude to guys. They get off on it because it makes them feel High Value and because it weeds out the wimps. Don't cry when she's rude to you, laugh and mean it because you're internally validated. Or act really hurt etc (three years of social therapy down the drain...), making a big joke out of her ridiculous behavior because in your reality women supplicate to you and worship the ground you walk on so it's so funny to finally meet a woman who is acting so silly like this. This makes you want to play with her more. That is the mindset. Pickup Is Dirty Next, there is NO perfect pickup. Pickup is dirty. Guys think it's going to be all smooth and golden like little horny cuddly warm bunnies playing in rainbow light fields of hummingbirds and puppy dogs in a chocolate kitten bath. NO dude. The club is messy. GIRLS are messy. Fuck, SEX is messy. You HAVE to get your hands dirty in the field. There is no other way. Sometimes you hit The Zone and do flawless pulls, but it's rarely like that (take it from the guy who lost his virginity before his father, I know these things.) A lot of the time you have to be able to be a man and deal with the fact that not every female on the planet isn't going to want to sleep with you. Boo-fucking-hoo.

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Her loss. True players see rejection from girls as authentically funny because remember, they're The Shit. (hahahaha she backturned me LOL what a dumbass.) A lot of naturals I know and have gone out with (that have slept with well over a hundred women at the age of 24) see girls that reject them as either (A) really dumb or (B) completely retarded. They think it's sad, like she's denying herself pleasure or a fun night or doesn't feel worthy of him or something. We'll get into the whole natural value-offering mindsets in depth on the Becoming A Natural chapter, but for now understand that your DICK is pure value to a hot woman. The mere fact you're a male that can make her feel INCREDIBLE and fill her up with joy, both literally and metaphorically, you begin to understand that you are like pure money. It's very much like walking up to a girl with $10,000 cash in your back pocket and handing it to her and she goes, “Wtf creep get away from me I don't want your dirty money.” LOL, again, her loss. Eradicate Reaction Seeking Next key mindset shift: FORGET about good-reactions. Even if you're the guy that is able to make the girls giggle and get AWESOME initial reactions and approval from girls, you're not going to get laid as much as the guy who gets blown out because he's burning his sets to the ground and approaching waayyyy more women than you. Do you want fleeting approval from women all night or do you want to get fucking LAID? In order to GET lots of girls you have to be willing to LOSE lots of girls. Push your interactions. Hard.

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All rejection is simply feedback; when you lose, don't lose the lesson. Remember social snapshotting? You have to differentiate yourself to the hot ones EARLY as they are approached by the hoards of chodes. Here is my field-tested opener for getting in state and showing that you're not like all the other boring stiff chodes in the club. Say, “Hi I'm ____ nice to meet you.” and as soon as she goes for your hand, 4th grader style take it away and say “Oh, got you!” this will crack the girl up and her bitch shield will melt instantly. There, take your tactic. But remember, it's the attitude UNDERNEATH the line that's causing the attraction. Always be asking yourself WHY? WHY does this work? It works because you're not taking her seriously like every other stiff boring loser, which sub-communicates you're probably hooking up with a lot of other hot women of her calibre. Preselection at it's finest. Go Direct Human beings are hard-wired [survival] to look for agendas of strangers. Back in tribe days if some weird dude came up you, you'll need to determine if he is a friend or a threat FAST. You need to figure out his agenda and whether or not he even has one. That's why guys sit there scheming inside their heads with these “Secret pickup agendas” turn girls off. They see right through this shit and it actually kind of freaks them out because it triggers that fight-or-flight survival mechanism. Think of some guy in mall who comes up to you with a clipboard but starts making small-talk... “oh it's such a beautiful day, how are you doing? I really like your shirt!” You're like WTF does this guy want?

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But if he was like, “Hey guys I'm selling this, are you interested?” You'd still tell him “no thanks” but it doesn't trigger your defense mechanism because he's being honest and upfront about his intentions. When you're unapologetic, upfront and honest about your core masculine desires, it is extremely sexy to the really feminine girls. Walk up feeling good, tell her she's hot. Period. Then just stay outside your head with your playful cocky masculine presence [polarity] just looking at her and see how she responds. I think you'll like it. ;) So, you should always go direct. State your reason for approach. And it DOESN'T always have to be sexual. You can go up and just be social. BUT ALWAYS TELL HER WHY YOU APPROACHED. “Hey you guys seem cool. I know like everyone here, I haven't met any of you yet – what's your names?” This warm approach, if you're not subcommunicating any bullshit with your micro-behaviors (like being nervous or someshit) will pop open the set almost always, without exception. Being friendly and warm and cool, wtf is there to reject about that? Token Resistance “Is that your line?” Women are approached each month by THOUSANDS of lameass guys so they begin to develop these knee-jerk reactions to any new guys approaching them.

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Awareness Exercise #1: Try this, in your bathroom, bedroom or kitchen move your trashcan somewhere else. In the next week watch as you go to toss something over in the spot where the original trashcan was by habit. This is how girls respond to a penis walking up to them BY DEFAULT, sometimes they don't even mean to do it. Awareness Exercise #2: Also try this, set your Dock (if on MAC) or your Start Menubar (if on PC) to auto-hide and place it on the other side. Watch over the next week as you'll go to open a program and then go “OH right it's over here!” That knee-jerk reaction is the same automated response many many hot Women have to dudes approaching them, because remember these are the 95% loser men. My own personal in-field story. I was out at a club up in San Francisco. I see these two hot little asians. I kind of have a thing for hot asians. These girls appear to be having a sub-par time, I decide to walk up and light up their hearts and be cool. I walk up, “Sup gurlz... I-” One of her friends interrupts me screaming, “SERIOUSLY FUCK OFF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU.” Having seen worse shit in my day, I kind of amusingly smile (drawing state from within.. core confidence.. masculine polarity etc, I DGAF women's reactions to me.) The girl gets a look on her face like she's actually kind of sorry and then nervously laughs, but I don't want to feel like I'm over-extending myself like a needy loser like, “OMG PLEASE LIKE ME I'M GONNA STAY HERE TALKING TO YOU GUYS.”

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So totally unreactive I walk off, way to be socially normal cool girls! NEXT. As I'm walking away looking for the next normal FUN chicks to approach, the friend of the girl who just screamed at me is running chasing after me. “Hey my friend is sorry and she really wanted to meet you, she had a really bad night. She thinks you're cute.” I ended up asking her for an apology, which she submissively gave, and ended up having a threesome with both chicks later that night back in their apartment. Fun times with hot asian chicks and cold asian food. The take-away lesson? Learn to recognize token-resistance. Girls are fucking weird sometimes man. Some chicks go out to blow off guys just for the validation. Part of being a Man (Masculine Polarity) is not giving a fuck whether a girl is in love with you or hates you. Know token resistance when you get it, and calibrate accordingly. It isn't the end of the interaction, it's just a filter to weed out the wimps from the real men who won't waste her time (her biological clock is ticking) and fuck her proper. More on this later. Another classic token resistance, ”I have a boyfriend.” 9 times out of 10 this is a TEST. Why is she all dolled up out at the club if she has a boyfriend? Girls that are happily fucked stay home and watch The Office with their borefriends. Don't be fooled. Most girls call guys they're currently hooking up or just casually seeing boyfriends even though they're really not. She's testing you dude.

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My personal rule is if the guy isn't physically THERE with her, then she's fair game and she's mine tonight. Token resistance is just a big test to see if you're a real man who is alpha and will lead her all the way to the bedroom. Lots of “fakealpha” guys approach her having learned how to DHV and Open, making them seem like a badass motherfucker who is going to fuck her so good (remember snapshotting) but he runs out of his “routines” and turns into a total fucking wimp later down the line. Remember, girls are responding to a man's BEHAVIOR. She needs a filter to see if you're a REAL MAN or not or if you're just being fake. She's not socially conditioned to say, “Look, are you gonna step up and fuck me tonight, or not?” but that's what she means from her feminine core with her little feminine token resistance!!! Personally man, I LOVE getting resistance right off the bat, it excites me because I go “Oh cool, a perfect opportunity to show her I'm not another chode of the night”, and I plow on through it. You'll find when you don't flinch when chicks disapprove of you right off the bat by being fully tapped into your masculine polarity (remember each piece is meant to build upon the next, Master The Basics), this actually AMPLIFIES the attraction, hardcore. Like before she kinda liked you, now she's going to be getting wet for you because you showed her you're a real man who doesn't have his reactions or self-esteem or worthiness tied up in her. This is because you draw state from within and have Core Confidence, aka Masculine Polarity. It's magnetically polarizing. You have to feel bad for girls, man. Imagine you're at a club and you see what appears to be a hot girl... she flirts with you, appears really sexy and then you decide to take her home.

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Once you get home you start making out hot and heavy, you're getting super turned on, you go to reach up her skirt and BAM! There's a penis. And what's more, this happens to you AGAIN and AGAIN every time you go out. You just REALY want to fuck a real live hot woman but every single one that approaches you eventually turns out to be a man later. So finally you're going to get so fed up with this shit that you begin to say to all seeming “hot women” that approach you, “Look, do you have a dick or not because if you have a dick then get the fuck away from me.” This is where most hot girls are at. Guys approach them acting all fly at first, but it's all an act because they read The Game and now know how to DHV or Open a girl with a tactic or routine (so they get snapshotted [Basic] as Alpha and sexy and she gets excited accordingly.) But later, back at her place (if they even get that far, lol) they turn out to be total chodes who don't escalate or they turn into nice guy wimps all worried about what she's thinking or afraid to be a man and lead her into bliss ecstasy etc and they stop acting from their core. They stop dictating the energy of the interaction. They start going inside their heads and stop being cockily present with her. In other words they become a totally pussy, taking on feminine characteristics, which is NOT polarizing. It's like the girl goes down to eagerly suck your cock only to suddenly find a vagina! This is why a lot of HOT girls walk around HIGHLY sexually frustrated. Just ask them.

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Girls just want to be bent over. And believe me, I've come to that conclusion from spending time and sleeping with A LOT of hot girls. When a woman finally finds a man who will unapologetically fuck her and give her a hot naughty fun ride of her life, again and again with no sexual hang-ups, AND you don't get all clingy and needy and possessive or weird, she will NOT let that value easily slip out of her life because you are so fucking rare. A 5% man. Girls can get really weird when you open them up GOD, fully utilizing your masculine gifts by fucking her to bliss. You open their hearts minds and bodies up like no man ever has before, they get really attached and clingy. It's sad and kind of gross. I had a girl virtually BEG me not to break up with her before. It's so sad and hard to do, almost like breaking a kitten's legs. But I'm teaching full gangster mode here. Calibrate accordingly. Oh, and you'll get a lot of referral customers too. Girls gossip when you're good in bed (Hint: follow your Emotional Guidance System in the bedroom and naturally fuck her like a King... more on this on the Sexual Escalation Mastery Disc.) Assuming Attraction This is KILLER for approaching girls, so pay attention. Get your teachability to 10/10! If you're going up looking for an opener or something cool to say, what is that assuming? Right - that you don't yet have attraction. Self fulfilling prophecy. If you walk up and start getting physical and sexually playful with a

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girl or go to make out with her right off the bat (when you're REALLY in The Zone this happens a lot), what is that assuming? It's assuming that you have attraction and comfort already. So instead of stepping up to girls with the mindset of like “oh these girls don't know me I have to generate attraction” ASSUME it from the get-go. You HAVE to step to a group of these girls and assume they all want you. What do most guys do? They start off on the wrong foot. They think they are at Level 1 and need to get to Level 2. And then as the interaction progresses eventually they will need to get to Level 3. Wrong wrong wrong! START at level 2, and when you get really good you can even start at level 3. Caveman deluxe. The mindset is because you are good enough as you are – a cool guy with a lot to offer, you truly feel that any girl will be into you if she gives you a chance. This is the natural mindset. All naturals who have great success with women automatically assume value and attraction and they know if they talk to girls in time they will eventually hook up. Why? Because they're The Shit. A perfect example is look at Vincent Chase from the TV Show Entourage. The way he talks to girls is so cool, so natural, so effortless, so laidback. He's fully ASSUMING any hot girl he talks to will be totally into him, and as a self-fulfilling prophecy (and the feminine being a mirror reacting to a man's reality), she submits to this and falls for him.

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Think of the difference between walking up trying to get her to like you or waling up ASSUMING she already likes you and then getting physical from the start. The former is what a chode does, the latter is what a PIMP does. Stop Trying “Be yourself around girls.” The guy who is not trying so hard, who is self-amused, outcome independent, in the moment having fun, communicates A LOT. He's preselected. Not “too cool for school”, he's just acting NORMAL. It's not some big ego trip, he just knows he's okay just as he is and attractive to hot women, warts and all. Being successful with girls is WHO YOU ARE not something you “do”, when you BAM! see a hot girl are you like, “oh shit I need to go DO something to get her attracted?” NO. It's WHO YOU ARE. Value and Attraction are ASSUMED from the get-go. You don't need to “do” something to create it, because remember, you're The Shit. You don't feel the need to try because you have 5 hot girls waiting for you at home in your bed. You're thinking, Oh a hot girl. BAM. “Hey.” Having no agenda: Sex naturally happens as a guy talks to a girl, but you're not seeking it desperately from the get-go. Girls can sense this creepy needy vibe and will backturn you fast if you're carrying it. The KEY is to not be looking for approval or good reactions or even caring about SEX from the get-go. You want NOTHING from them other than to share the love / the party. This is offering value. This is HIGH VALUE because it communicates non-neediness. You're just there having fun and can walk away at any moment with or without their approval, you're having fun and it'd be a loss if YOU leave.

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Women Are People Too I know, shocker right? Bottom line: Don't be weird. You're not approaching “targets” “obstacles” “HB9s” or “bitches”, you're approaching PEOPLE. Humans. People like to talk to other PEOPLE not social scripted robots or weird creepy nerds with their stealth seduction tactics. Just like you (gasp!) girls want to have fun in the club and meet another interesting person who doesn't take themselves so seriously and has their own thing going on. Just like you (actually more) they deeply enjoy hot fun naughty healthy sticky sex. They might have ego projections towards men, or be in a fight with their best friend or their mother might have just been diagnosed with cancer and given 2 months to live... if you did everything right (walked up with a warm, friendly social vibe and were cool) and she still blows you off... its HER issue man. Take the $10,000 dollar example from earlier. Plus, when you really get this stuff down the tables turn. You become a hot guy, a 'total 10' in HER eyes (gasp! Hot girls DO feel that gutlevel sexual attraction impulse to go ride guys, omg wow! ;) ... she might have and ego projection [all men are ______ ] or she might even have a self-sabotaging tendency such as not feeling worthy and thus fuck up the interaction by pretending to not like you or roll her eyes or someshit. YOU NEVER KNOW what's going in the feminine world man. Girls are crazy, illogical, and non-linear, so stop taking ownership of her crap. You can ONLY control what's underneath your skin and that's IT.

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If you walked up warm, social, cool, NORMAL, w/e... and she still blows you off. It's HER issue man. I cannot stress that enough. You will feel REALLY bad if you ever try to influence other's reactions towards you because that is NOT POSSIBLE and a seriously shitty way to focus. Your inner Emotional Guidance will let you know in the form of extreme negative discord. Remember the natural mindset of pure value offering in the form of your dick? After you see GIRL AFTER GIRL AFTER GIRL AFTER GIRL cumming and moaning on your bed telling you you're so amazing and great, and you walk up to a new girl and she's like “Get away from me creep” it's almost LAUGHABLE. Like she's RETARDED or STUPID. You can make her feel incredible naughty & hot and she's throwing that masculine gift away hahaha. What To Say I see this fucking with so many guys out in the field it's not even funny. It's the whole “What do I talk about?!?!?!” or “WHAT DO I SAY NEXT?” problem. The remedy? Lower your conversational standard. I.e. don't try to impress the girl with fancy interesting stories or words. You can walk up and talk about monkies in the zoo and how cool they are or what you ate for breakfast and still get LOTS of attraction and giggles than if you had the BEST and COOLEST AWESOME MOST ENTERTAINING STORY EVER. Plus, as you'll learn later, talking gets you nowhere. Women respond on a deep primal raw sexual level to a dominant touchy physical guy.

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It's not the words she's responding to that's turning her on. Grok didn't walk up to cavegirl and ask if she would like to share a cup of tea with him. The problem with this is when you look for awesome things to say, you'll begin lying to over-exaggerate certain parts of your life to seem cool as a lame attempt to impress the girl. As a result, unconsciously you will begin to feel unworthy or inauthentic because “you're not being you” anymore. Then the girl can feel this lack of congruence, and it turns her off quick. She senses something weird about you. So trying to impress a girl with words is also bad because it sets up in your mind that you don't deserve the girl for WHO YOU ARE. It's not what you say, it's the sub-communicated VALUE underneath. If you went to lunch with Brad Pitt and he started talking about taking a piss this morning you would be GLUED to the guy not because of his words or conversational quality but the mere fact he has subcommunicated, assumed High Value. The next big piece for eradicating this “running out of things to say” disease, is to get in touch with your own Genuine Interest. Talk about subjects YOU LIKE. People are stuck in their own reality all the time, so it's high value to offer conversation about topics that interest YOU. I always talk to girls about books I've read and shit. Nothing boring, remember you're in a club, but the point is you're pulling her into YOUR cool reality and being authentic and expressive, an attractive high value quality most men will never embody. Examples: Sometimes I talk about secret societies or health stuff or meditation or a concert I went to or I ask girls for cooking tips because I'm starting a new cutting diet and need some lemon chicken or paleo salad recipes, etc. This shows CONGRUENCE, aka you being YOU, which shows a girl you're being authentic and hits a

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deep attraction switch inside of her. You're naturally not trying to impress or are trying too hard because what you're talking about REALLY excites you or interests you, which, as the feminine way reacts to her environment, she will begin to get excited and interested. AUTHENTIC ATTRACTION. The next important thing when talking to honeys in a Night Club is to follow the golden rule of NO NEGATIVE TOPICS. The key is to remember you're in a club. Keep it LIGHT and FUN and never boring or negative or disgusting. Don't be a social leech. It's Friday night. Have you ever gone out with those people that are talking about how fucked up work is and how sick they've been all week – it's like DUDE why did you even come out tonight? No one likes Debbie Downer, especially when people go out on Friday night to let loose, relax and have a good time and forget about the hectic problems of the workweek. Drop the bullshit. The reason you want to stay chill when it comes to talking to sensuous babes is because Women are extremely visual/feeling perceiving sensual creatures. No talking about death, politics, school or work (unless funny/interesting), or any disgusting bodily humour. Don't walk up to girls talking about whether they douche or not, nothing weird like that. Some more field-tested conversational topics include: Social Dynamics. Women find this shit SUPER interesting. This is a subtle way to show you have high value and you're one of the cool guys that “Gets it”, an example; “Hey do you guys ever notice how some people can't have fun? Like you see some guys all looking around all nervous and shit caring what other people think of him. I think that's so sad...” etc.

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Passion Sharing. Think of really positive topics that excite YOU in your life. Whatever it may be, talk about THAT STUFF with girls. That is why I am stressing Authenticity here, you have got to start living a cool lifestyle. This is easy to do when you get on your Path and discover your Purpose. More on that later. Always approach with topics YOU want to talk about. Like what you think about a girl's shoes or why guys wearing dresses isn't cool (“Have you girls seen Braveheart? Now those were fucking MEN.”) I even go up talking about psychological experiments like clubs are meant to make people feel inferior with the fancy red velvet lines and flashy lights so people get insecure and feel the need to chemically alter themselves with overpriced alcohol. Or I'll talk about my #1 passion in life, music. Just whatever YOU find interesting. If you're excited and interested about what topic you're invested in, or having FUN or whatever, the girls will too. Remember, the feminine is like a mirror and reacts to your reality. So keep it fun & cool and unapologetically draw her right into it. She'll thank you later. Key Mindset Shift: Still don't know what to say next? Just HAVE FUN and ask yourself WHAT DO I WANT? The key for MASSIVE ATTRACTION in a club is that the girls must feel you are relaxed and not trying to get a reaction out of them, they will then want to be around you. When you can authentically accomplish this your interactions with hot women will be taken to the next level. ALLOW THE WORDS TO COME. It's a Paradox, the more you still your mind, the more cooler shit you have to talk about.

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Think of it like a Magic 8 Ball. You walk up and shake it, see what pops up. If you're in a high frequency vibration, aka feeling GOOD and IN STATE and HAVING FUN etc, you will have plenty of amazing fun state-pumping shit to talk about, I promise. Your criterion for opening should be = WILL IT GET ME IN STATE?? IS IT FUN? Me: "Hey girls, what's the WORST pickup line you've ever heard?" Hotties: “OMG this one guy onetime....” Me: “FUCK I was going to use that exact same one!” Remember man, YOU ARE THE REASON SHE CAME OUT TONIGHT. Hours in mirror, makeup, dresses high heels.. for themselves? Give Up Results Seeking Don't be the guy who wants to be perfect RIGHT NOW and expects 100% awesome results. You will very rarely, if ever, approach a girl, get a makeout, approach the next girl, get a makeout, approach the next girl, take her home. It rarely EVER works like this in the field. The club is a CHAOTIC environment filled with unpredictable variables. You WILL get rejected and “fail” over and over again each night. The paradox here is to want to move forward and advance your skill set but at the same time stay positive and not be too hard on yourself if you get blown out all night, because you're always learning and growing. This mindset will keep you in a positive frame of mind that is attractive to people and especially women. The guys who fail with women are the guys who go out, don't get any results, and develop this bitter negative hate towards themselves or women and those are the guys who don't get very far in this game.

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Having unrealistic expectations like “every girl must like me” or “I must execute a flawless 100% perfect pickup every time or I don't deserve her or the lay.” Shit like that will create such disappointment and frustration in you it's not even funny. Stay away from those loser mindsets. Keep positive and know that even the beast champion guys fuck things up in their interactions with women. It's called being Human.

CONCLUSION Approaching Women is a lot like opening up a box of chocolates. Like our good friend Forest says, “You never know what you're gonna get.” Sometimes it's sweet and tasty, other times it's nasty and you'll want to spit that shit right out. The important thing is to begin to develop Core Confidence, which is NOT based on the external chaotic, unpredictable world and environment [the feminine]. Core Confidence is just a fancy way of saying Masculine Polarity. We went into that in depth above, but you really need to work on it. You must be coming from a place where you're tapping into your state and self-confidence & validation (self-worthiness) from WITHIN. Anything other than that is a bitch's trait. Feminine energy. It is NOT polarizing and she will NOT get wet for you. True alpha guys (and I've made it my mission to surround myself with these powerful men to learn from them) are the same whether they are in the V.I.P. Section in a club surrounded by giggling supermodels touching them, performing in front of 1000's of people,

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or taking a shit at home when noone's looking. They're the same guy whether they are getting a blowjob, or getting blown out. Real Men tapped into their deep Masculine Polarity, the most sexually attractive to HOT “total 10” Women, DO NOT base their sense of self worth on a woman's reactions to him. Period. Lastly, remember that the girls are always snapshotting you, so calibrate accordingly. Build up social momentum (more on this in the Club Game Chapter, so chill for now) and learn to approach lots and lots of live women. Oftentimes you will get a bad cookie, but that should pump your own state. Remember, rejection is FUNNY. When you get a bitchfest or a meanie, it's a lot like jumping in the cold water. No toesies shit. approach her and you SNAP into state. If she blows you off, OooOoOoh *shiver* that was cold!! Now you're ready for the next one to come alive and be AWAKE in the club, fearless. MISSION – Please see pg. 4 of the Authentic King Workbook.

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INTRODUCTION The main underlying theme: DO NOT ask for permission to do WHAT YOU WANT TO DO, in life AND with Women. She (the feminine) WANTS you to be free. She wants you to be unstifled. She wants you to soar. In the bedroom and out. She WANTS you to be “hot” to her, just as you want a girl to be really really “hot” to you. Imagine a girl afraid of being sexy or showing off her hot body to you moving around in a seductive sexy feminine dance... this is the equivalent of guys who act afraid of being confident around women and feel wrong about CLAIMING them. She WANTS you to be “hot” to her, that is to say, she wants you to be the divine masculine (the “hottest” guy to her feminine.) Raw Sexual Attraction~ The divine masculine consciousness IS free, and when you are in that unstifled free-feeling totally authentic expressive mode, you turn her on. Fast. Guitar story: When I was a little lad, I had one of my first guitars and I used to take it to this spot after school where all the older hot girls and “cool kids” used to hang out. I'd sit there and jam a lot. One day, it was pretty empty and no one was really around, so I started getting lost in a song. Before you know it, I was coming up with a sick melody/rhythm and I even started singing to it. Now, I'm no singer but I know the very basics haha. So anyways, I'm sitting there going ape shit basically on the guitar having a good fucking time, totally expressing myself and basically raping the instrument, with love.

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In the corner of my eye, I see this dazzling gorgeous honey coming towards me beaming and happy. Instantly I lock up and keep playing but I totally lost the rhythm and I stopped singing. I got really stifled, started to go inside my head thinking, feeling nervous and bad. She stops, looks at me playfully pissed off and goes, “Awwwwwwww! Why'd you stop :)” The feminine WANTS you to be free man. She wants you to fuck her with full expression and LOVE fucking her, totally acting through your own intentions and being AUTHENTIC with her. She knows you think she's sexy and want her hot little body. Why hide it? Express, Never Impress The first key mindset shift. Basic #1. The more you want to impress a woman, even subtly, the faster she loses interest. The secret is to not give a fuck and have fun for YOU, the less effort the better. When you try to impress a woman, it sub-communicates low value because you need to somehow SHOW her you're the shit instead of authentically BEING the shit. Remember the deep Masculine Polarity Formula? A huge component of that is to ASSUME VALUE. Think about WHY this works (don't just blindly let me spoonfeed you here), if you're living in a mansion and have ten million dollars in your checking account and have all the friends in the world and you just got done fucking 5 sexy gorgeous supermodels today that loved you and keep begging you to crawl back into bed with them, when you approach that girl at the club later, where is it coming from? Really reflect on that.

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Whenever a female detects you want her acceptance, you instantly lose all power in her eyes and she loses interest FAST. Expression > Impression. When you express yourself congruently and authentically, you wont feel like you're hiding anything or need to so you'll find its easier for you to begin to be physical and sexual with a girl because it's congruent. Touch her boob, and then when she scoffs at you you go “What!? I want to touch it”, do it again and she'll giggle. Honor Your Canvas There is incredible value in your personal values and preferences. Honor them. Variety is the spice of life. Imagine if white was the only color that existed. Life would SUCK! It would also be kind of hard to find your way around ;) Part of life is sifting through contrast to determine YOUR own path unique to you, your soul (your Higher Self), and you alone. Your Emotional Guidance System only responds to what you alone have asked for by sifting through life contrast & variety. That is why a guy who loves being a fat slob will have a friggin BLAST sitting at a 2week TV and potato-chip feasting marathon event, where you will be plagued with EXTREME negative emotion and want to get the fuck out of there, as soon as possible. That is, if you care about and value your health. So, again, you're not trying to impress these girls on ANY level. The value is ASSUMED. You're not “trying to get a girl to like you”, like so many guys are doing (95% guys.)

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You're not trying to fit into her reality because she is your CONTRAST, your environment, your job as a man is to see if YOU LIKE HER. This is the Buyer / Seller dynamic 101. “Screening.” Call it what you want, the core of this very attractive mode of being remains the same. The subtle dynamic is that she is trying to get with you and impress YOU. When you're talking to her you're seeing if she's cool and fits your desires or life canvas. YOU'RE SCREENING GIRLS. See what sports she's into, is she healthy, is she cool, does she have spiritual depth? Is she boring? Is she fun and sexually unstifled? Set the subtle tone of the conversation. Your life is YOUR CANVAS. It's all feminine energy and form and contrast, and it's your job as a man to paint it exactly how you want. Everything that surrounds your body is your canvas, the feminine life energy and Light of the world. It is your job as a masculine man to mold the clay in such a way that pleases you. You must become a man of standards. This sub-communicates high value because you have an abundance mindset and don't need women so you don't just “take anything home that comes your way”, this makes the girl deep down feel “special” and kills LMR (Last Minute Resistance, more on this on the Sexual Escalation Mastery disc and related Chapter.) The Self Is Always Coming Through A question was recently asked on RSDnation. The guy said, “Do any guys here actually ENJOY talking to Women?” I want to find that guy and applaud him. That is IT man. Remember, this is Authentic Attraction.

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I am leading you to a place where you actually have a ton of fun with girls and can fully enjoy them, in abundance. Inside the bedroom and out. You MUST realize that the self if always coming through. You can't hide. The feminine always knows where you are at and how you are feeling, how confident you are, etc at EVERY moment. You can't hide from her. You're like a glass wall. Women can tell when you're scheming or don't know what to say next or feel weird about escalating on her. This is why if you're a cool guy you can open with ANYTHING. You can walk up pretending to be all nervous and scared or tell the girls you are a virgin and they will giggle and giggle because the REAL you is obvious to them. That's why you can't learn a pickup line and then use it to consistently date supermodels. Authenticity, not bandages over old wounds. Authenticity Becoming authentic around hot “total 10” women is putting your REAL SELF on the line. There is no way around this if you want to date and fuck 10's consistently. Awareness Exercise #1: An exercise I recommend you do to get a feel for this is to approach girls one night thinking of random subjects and just talk about what you honestly feel about them. Say whatever you feel like saying, let your honest opinion be heard, not trying to get ANY approval. An example you can use is tap water. This gives you the natural click that “holy shit, girls can like me just for ME. I AM enough.” ← SOOO MUCH better than the agenda guy who walks

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up not being himself like “Hey girls, who lies more MEN OR WOMEN?” and it's like WTF what does this guy want? Being authentic with people is powerful, especially girls. They're very socially aware. The reason authenticity is powerful for attracting women is because most women RARELY ever get to meet a guy who expresses himself honestly and is genuine with him, coming from the whole “ I AM ENOUGH “ being not doing frame. Most guys are not themselves and have agendas and try to impress and all this shit to try to get inside her pants, leaving her unsatisfied and bored and lacking any real intimacy with a Man, something the feminine (the flow of Love) deeply craves. Awareness Exercise #2: Another exercise to get more comfortable with putting yourself on the line is to walk up and say something you normally would never say to girls that would not get you any approval or attraction whatsover. You'll be surprised, probably BLOWN AWAY, to find they're like hardcore into you. Example, if you have a belly or some extra fat down there, approach a group of hotties and lift up your shirt; “Hey you guys wanna see my abs? TOO BAD I DONT HAVE ANY!” ” or tell them “I drool in my sleep.” Women respond so well to this because they rarely, if ever in their whole lives, meet an authentic man who can just truly be himself and be REAL with them. Mindfuck I know. Is your Teachability high? “Just be yourself!” -Every girl on the planet ever.

And remember, the KEY of this exercise is it must be honest and authentic FOR YOU. The above examples were just examples.

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Being vs Doing: Being good with girls is about BEING good with girls, not trying or putting on a mask to “DO” attraction. You ARE attractive at the core. This stems from lifestyle development. You must begin authentically communicating with women, just like when telling a story. Never lying. You don't tell her the “routine” about your jealous ex-girlfriend if you don't fucking HAVE a jealous ex-girlfriend!!!! Now, a quick note on routines. Every natural I've ever went out and macked hoes with ALL used “routines”, but the difference is there's were REAL. Some funny thing would happen between him and a chick, and he would proceed to tell every single new girl the same story because it was HILLARIOUS and got a laugh out of the chicks every time. These “routines” are based on cool guy's real authentic life experiences. Your True Personality Who really are you at the CORE, man? When you're acting nervous or afraid... that's not you. We both know that. So think about your highest best self. THIS is the true you. You're close to it when you feel IN STATE, powerful, on top of the world, worthy, loving, unlimited, free, etc. All these words point to your best self. A woman can sense your deepest truth at any moment. Speak your mind. Freedom to be who you are and see reality for what it is. Not being a dick but not approval seeking either, “STUPID SHIRT DUDE” but people will respect you more if you're honest “ehh I don't really like it”, shows you have preferences and values, you become more REAL.

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Lastly, do not change your identity for a girl. Be YOU. Be yourself. Be the BEST you. Develop yourself to a powerful man who is truly on your path and success with women is AUTOMATIC. LET GO AND THEY START TO CHASE. Presence Is Sexy The feminine consciousness CRAVES masculine attention, unwavering presence. They get WET for this. Remember, she gets off on how much you get off. Her feminine job is to turn you the fuck on, and your masculine job is to just WATCH the orgasmic expression of her constantly shifting ecstatic loving flowing feminine form. Think strip club dynamics. This is the dance of human sexuality. That is why FEELING GOOD IN YOUR OWN BODY not thinking a step ahead is KEY to deeply arouse Women. Thinking fucks you up with girls. Presence is like that youthful masculinity edge of cockiness. Girls are responding to that unwavering presence. I nearly fucked my friend's mom onetime (she was hot, MILF fasho) after reading Tolle on the beach. She lived in a beach house with her new boyfriend and my friend invited me over to surf and chill etc for the weekend. Anyways, I'm down by the beach reading some good old Tolle and my mind starts to still as I watch the waves rolling in and out. When you stop thought, you stop resistance. When you stop resistance, your vibration naturally rises. When your vibration rises, you get in state. When you get in state, you feel REALLY REALLY good, your thoughts get better and your point-of-attraction improves. So, here I am, sitting on the beach TOTALLY present and practically raging in state by just BEING. The “joy of being” as Tolle would call it.

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So, dudes mom comes out and starts talking to me. Almost as soon as I look at her she gets in this weird trance acting like a little girl again or something, it's like I just CALMED her down and LIT HER UP at the same time. She started smiling and WOULD NOT LEAVE ME ALONE talking about all these random subjects just to make it not seem weird that she was out uncontrollably wanting to be near me. What's more, I could tell she was feeling like she was now in the warm end of the pool. She didn't want to leave. She felt my grounding masculine energy and was loving and basking in it. The feminine... energy leeches lol (literally, semen?) Oh well, they're like mirrors, what you feel she feels.. it is the feminine way~ That's why when you get REALLY good at tapping into your Masculine Core, you can be in a chilled out relaxed good-feeling mode.. walk up to a girl on a dancefloor, and just callllmmmm her down and talk to her like it's normal. It's pretty freaky, and she follows your lead. Again, an energetic mirror. When you feel good, she feels good. When you feel nervous & closed down she feels nervous and closed down. When you feel horny, she feels horny. When you feel attractive, she feels attractive. So, back to being present with hot girls. Your consciousness must match her feminine energy. DO NOT FLINCH INTO YOUR MIND. Stay with the sexual tension, seeing the depth of her femininity. Truly listening to her, not scrambling in your mind for more words to come. Allow the words to rise, THEY WILL with a relaxed mind... actually you'll find they will be 10x funnier and wittier because you're not scrambling for things to say. STAND THE SEXUAL TENSION. The more you enjoy it the more your capacity builds for doing so. Key Click: Women trust you when you trust yourself.

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It must be IN YOUR REALITY that girls are massively attracted to you wherever you go. It's OLD NEWS and you're unphased by it. Back in the day I used to get massive sexual attraction from girls and then I'd get all weird and go inside my head and I realized on the outside that subtle shift they sense is MASSIVE low value because it's basically showing them that I'm not preselected. Like, “Oh, women don't like me or get this hot around me so I don't know what to do or how to handle it.” You need to act like this shit happens all the time... “yupppp another horny one. Great.” this drives girls CRAZY. Act nonchalant when girls escalate on you and watch them get fucking wild. Remember, Masculine Polarity. Master that Basic before moving on... Girl Game Key Mindset Shift: Girl's GAME guys too!!! Remember, I lived with 5 girls. They ALWAYS said shit like, "Omg how do I get a hot guy to like me." They read Cosmopolitan and learn to tease guys and challenge them and ignore them in the clubs and not call them back right away so they don't look desperate and all this shit. Far too many guys cannot piece it into their reality that, yes, girls ARE gaming you dude! They want to get laid as badly as you do, if not more! Be a challenge. The feminine wants to play the game of TRYING to get you attracted to her. She wants to get into your RAS. That's why takeaways are great. Saying stuff like, “Yeah you're really hot and sexy and cool and smart... it sucks I'm not attracted to you ;)” works like a charm. Keep her on her toes, swinging somewhere between validated and rejected.

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If a woman feels too much rejection she will get either really hurt and feel like crying, or she'll get REALLY PISSED. If she feels too much validation than she has you in the palm of your hand and you're not fun or a mysterious challenge anymore. The last Fundamental click... You ARE attractive. Girls are gaming YOU! It's Okay To Fail So many dudes I take out are TERRIFIED of getting rejected from girls, so they tippy-toe around their entire interactions with them trying to “play it safe” to avoid this oh-so-feared “rejection.” They fear and feel SO BAD about getting “rejected” inside their heads that even if it doesn't, it might as well be actually happening in reality! Sparring Example: The first time I went boxing with a friend I was nervous as fuck. I have never been hit before, and this dude was yolked. Being in the ring, eye to eye with that dude, the fear of GETTING HIT at any moment and not knowing what that was going to feel like was crippling. It's all I could think about. Thing is, if you don't get hit in the face the first time you box you wont punch as hard or be as nimble or fast on your feet because you are so focused on NOT getting hit that you're scared and paralyzed by that potential outcome. But, if you engage in sparring and ACTUALLY GET HIT then you're like OH that's it? HAHAHAAHAH. And now you can focus on what MATTERS in the match, the proper defense, the correct stance, footwork, and moves. SAME APPLIES TO PICKUP. Be open and welcome to “failing” (feedback) with girls, in the most worst possible imaginable ways. Besides, once it happens you wont be so scared anymore. “Oh, she doesn't like me? Lol, big deal. NEXT.”

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There isn't a single guy on the planet who is now good with girls that hasn't has his fair share of having made big fat ugly mistakes with women, so stop being so afraid to bruise your ego. Remember, to GET lots of girls you have to be willing to LOSE lots of girls. Feel good on your own independently of girls reactions to you = not a black sucking hole of neediness having your sense of self-esteem tied up in what she thinks of you. Yuck! Talk about unattractive needy little boy. Meditate practically calm… DON'T CARE. Not seeking self-esteem ANYWHERE outside of yourself. You know who the fuck you are and how much High Value you hold. These girls don't know you. Women NEVER reject you, as in the core of who you really are, they just reject your approach. All people are COOL [divine children] some just can't socially communicate it. This is where social intelligence comes into play. Lastly, the most successful men fail the most. All “failure” or “rejection” is simply FEEDBACK. A momentary vibrational indicator (if you’re so inclined), a snapshot in a fleeting moment in time. Thomas Edison was famous for celebrating his 10,000 ways NOT to make a lightbulb. The unsuccessful dudes are the ones too scared to bruise their spotless little pimp egos so they never expand, learn, and grow. Pickup is MESSY. You must get your hands dirty in the field! TO GET LOTS OF GIRLS, YOU HAVE TO LOSE LOTS OF GIRLS!!! It's just that simple.

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Let Go Of Logic Another paradox: Man's most powerful survival tool is utterly useless when attracting women. Women are hard-wired to respond EMOTIONALLY to things, not logically. You will never “convince” a woman to feel attraction or want to sleep with you. That's why guys who are always trying to figure out why a girl is acting all bitchy or hurt or whatever get NOWHERE. Women's emotions are irrational and non-linear. The feminine is the random chaotic unpredictable flow of nature and life, it's the masculine's job to ground that energy and move it in whatever way desired, sometimes FOR HER SAKE! Women despise men who allow them to lead the energy of the interaction. Have you ever seen a guy who bought a woman EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTED for her birthday yet she still got mad at him? Logically that would of pleased her right? Or the woman that is acting all bitchy and the guy is like “BABY what did I do, why do you always act like this, you're being ridiculous!” the truth is SHE DOESNT EVEN KNOW herself why she is acting mad, her feminine core is demanding love. What the guy needs to do in that situation is light up her heart by not taking her seriously... he can walk up to her smiling lift her arms above her head and hug her, or tickle her, or just grab her and start making out with her telling her to lovingly shut the fuck up as he pulls her panties down and fucks her open in love, etc. At a David Deida seminar he said something along these lines, that a Man's job is to penetrate through a woman's resistance and know what's best for her and lead her to that warm gooey state of being. Again, FOR HER SAKE. As soon as he got done saying this, ALL the ladies in the audience went “Ahhhhhhhh...” in this dreamy way fanning themselves off. Prince charming. They love this shit, and respond very POWERFULLY to it. Remember, rape fantasies.

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So you must ditch logic and begin to communicate EMOTIONALLY with women. They feel words and their emotions very powerfully. It's the difference between saying “Want to go to breakfast?” or, “Hey, I know this cool hole in the wall place downtown that serves these steamy buttermilk chocolate chip whipped cream pancakes. They're seriously so good, and they serve you mouth-watering warm blueberry crapes with marmalade. We have to go. The atmosphere is so laid-back and everyone there is warm & friendly.” That's why guys who know how to emotionally communicate to girls in conversation that is not linear or logical SUCCEED because they know how to pump girl's states. Example is walking up to a girl going “Woman, who are you!!!! You're nuts. You look like a bad girl. Look at that little dress I bet you stole it. Help this girl is trying to rape me, bouncers HELP!!” and she's giggling the entire time. VS the logical boring conversation “Oh hi, how are you? I'm Greg. Where are you from? Where did you go to school? How old are you?” ...BORING!!! Now, you CAN have logical conversations with girls you're more invested with like a fuckbuddy or long term girlfriend ie talking about work and stuff, but just remember where you go to meet the girls like in high energy places such as bars, clubs, parties etc, THE LAST THING they want (or are in) is a boring logic-based thinking mode. Get out of the mode of analyzing, trying to figure out her emotions or the situation or make sense of her spontaneous behavior, etc. Get in a fun mode first yourself so you just feel like spewing jibberish in a totally self-amusing way. Guys that can drop the mental weight and hit the club to let loose and relax and have FUN are highly attractive to giggling gaggles of gossiping girlies.

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When you walk up and don't even hit them with that “what's your name” bullshit, and instead walk up totally having a blast self-amused and being like; “Hey what do you think would be a better flavored condom, banana or blueberry. EWWW you're gross! Banana is way better. Hey girls, feel my ass.” RANDOM, emotionally-stimulating, non logical conversation is KEY. It sparks SO MUCH attraction because soooo many guys cannot do this. They walk up like “Hello, what is your name? Do you come here often? Who are your friends? Where are you from?” all calculated and logical and fucking BORING!!!! Club = Have fun. The cool people in the club are not worrying about what others are doing and having their own party, bringing the girls into it. They are dictating the energy of the venue, a wave of positivity and bringing others into their magnetic fun. Have your own authentic fun man. Pump your own state, go first, (all naturals are scarily-good at this) and then by law she reacts to you like a mirror and will start feeling REALLY GOOD herself and will NOT want to leave you alone! Same goes for escalating on her, YOU must FEEL SEXUAL FIRST and she quickly follows. More on this later.. Your Reality Is Dominant You will want to have the stronger reality and pull girls into it. Guys who go by their first-hand experience are highly attractive to Women. They lead women and others from within, trust themselves deeply, and honor their own truth and validity of their experience. A Woman is a guest in YOUR WORLD. It's YOUR reality. Your Canvas~

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Be inside your own reality not needing anything, self-amused and having fun totally fulfilled on your own, whether she leaves you or not you NEVER need her. You appreciate her, but your joy in life is NOT dependent on her and isn't lacking when she “takes the pussy away.” Think of your strength of reality as a muscle. With a strong reality you AUTOMOTICALLY pass shit tests from Women. They get off on this stuff because they are testing your strength, clarity, and sense of purpose and integrity as a Man. Think about it, a girl calls you gay. Classic shit test. “You're gay!” Dude, do you suck dicks in your reality? NO. You're NOT gay. A guy with a strong reality KNOWS who the fuck he is. He's not secondguessing himself. So he just thinks this shit is FUNNY. You must be UNREACTIVE when passing shit tests… not going inside your head all, "Is that true?" You just think they're all FUNNY. The KEY to passing ALL shit tests = Agree and Exaggerate. (i.e. “You're gay.” “Well, my boyfriend says I give really good blowjobs...”, or, “Are you going to buy me a drink!?” “Baby, I'm going to buy you 10,000 drinks.”) Comfort In Your Environment Being at ease and comfort in your environment is HUGE. THE CLUB IS YOUR HOME. Pretend you literally live upstairs, she's a guest giggling downstairs in your home. Comfort in your environment is a DEEP DEEP extremely high value indicator that makes girls get WET. Remember, relaxed and happy Alpha caveman vs stressed out beta.

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That is why when you find your “home in the universe” by studying spirituality you become highly attractive. So in other words once you get your relationship with “GOD” handled then you can mack on hot bitches. Have strong personal boundaries in regards to others and for her. Positive dominance, personal boundaries. Call girls out on their bullshit (Woman! Uncross your arms! Hey, put your phone away that's rude.), and inspire others to greatness (“What the fuck, why are you acting like this man? THIS IS NOT YOU. NOW GO APPROACH HER! NOW.”) All women are silently BEGGING to be lead… deeper… to be BENT OVER. Walls = boundaries / preferences (the way you mold the feminine) = super attractive. A woman's favorite word in the world is NO. Have strong personal boundaries in regards to others, your life, and for her (Positive Dominance.) Masculine consciousness is that grounded chillful strong unreactive center. Screen subtly. BE THE SELECTOR. It's Your Canvas. Draw state from within, never the environment. Feminine draws it from the environment. Bring state up FROM YOUR CORE… it comes from inside, masculine power, not based on external stimulation. Most guys speak to a girl and try to draw state from her reactions to him. BAD BAD BAD. This is called REACTION SEEKING… yuck!

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Clarity Of Intent You can't be existing inside two realities at once. You're either doing it or you're not. When you're with a Woman, you're either being confident or you're not. Not " I think I can… I think I can…" YOU DO IT. Fully aligned. Being CLEAR in what you're doing. When talking to a cute girl, you're either talking or listening to her. That's it. You're just talking to a cute girl. When touching her boob or going for the kiss, that's all your doing and all you're focused on in that moment. You take it piece by piece by piece, clear in your intentions about all of it. NEVER scattered. It's knowing what's best for her, and being a man and taking her to it [sexual pleasure] FOR HER SAKE! Man = Action, Woman = Reaction. All Girls Are Equal OR Lesser Value You are EQUAL in value, inherently. You're missing half. She needs your dick inside of her to feel whole. The problem is, if you perceive a girl is higher value, you will become stifled and contrived. You will feel like you need to “do” things in order to “create” attraction instead of already just ASSUMING IT. Let loose, stop caring, and have a fun time. Fun First, Pickup Later.

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Know that you DESERVE her. NEVER engage in subtle supplication trying to impress her in subtle ways. Obvious supplication is when guys do not feel good enough so they think they can logically “convince” women to feel attraction for them by showing them money or accolades like a cool job or buy them drinks etc. The thing is, this TURNS WOMEN OFF. It shows you feel you're not enough AS YOU ARE and you are putting her on the pussy goddess pedestal, which is bullshit. Women are just people too, not walking GODDESSES, lol give me a break. By being a man, it's arguable you actually have HIGHER VALUE than Women because your world and life path is more clear and precise. Your nature is that of being grounded, clear-minded, and certain. You're not one to get swept up by the chaos of the world. When things get tough, a strong man handles shit and molds the clay of contrasting life experience to uplift himself and his world. Think of great men in humanities past that have inspired radical change. Abraham Lincoln, Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr... Abundance vs Scarcity This is HUGE. Having an abundance mindset is everything. It's the difference between having either Outcome Dependence or Independence. The former being sexy, the latter being repulsive. If you know you can go out there and get a girl at any time, or you have a harem already, you act natural and fun and behave in a preselected High Value way that is HIGHLY attractive to women. You stop caring so much about what happens in the interaction and you let go and can actually have a blast.

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Always be acting through your own intentions. Be in your own reality HAVING FUN, doing what you want, teasing her and sexually escalating. Women aren't going anywhere, there are literally billions of them on the planet. Relax and have fun practicing on them :) Money & Looks Money doesn't mean shit for attraction unless she's a gold digger or using you. In fact being rich hurts you because you're instantly thrown into the provider category. She will suddenly not want to sleep with you the first night because she wants to be taken on expensive dinners and dates. She “wont be that kind of girl” around you if you seem to flaunt your cash. Again, back to the basics, it makes you seem low value like you're trying to impress her because you're not enough as you are. Nuff' said. The only way money helps you is that it gives you a sense of freedom and personal confidence + allows you to buy COOL stuff FOR YOU like clothing, sport & fitness equipment, concert tickets, motorcycles, whatever cool stuff you want to have and enjoy in your life. It just makes you a more attractive person and not boring when you mold your canvas in the way you want. Money means freedom. Now about looks. Looks don't mean jack shit, it's all about your vibe. When girls go “OMG he is SO HOT!” or “OMG that guy is so cute.” Men automatically are assuming Women are basing a guy's attractiveness on his looks. Well guess what man, that's a FEMININE TRAIT. Light, radiance, beauty. Being SEEN and KNOWN and CLAIMED. That's all feminine energy. This is why girls paint their nails and wear big hoop earrings and have glitter on their cleavage and wear sexy dresses and exotic perfumes and do up their hair and wear

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mascara and eye shadow and and AND... get it? They crave to be SEEN. Every detail of their bodies. Light, color, variety, the spice and flow of form and love. LIFE. Do you honestly care what every little detail or part of your body looks like to a woman? No. You care about how HERS looks. I don't really give a shit if I have chest hair or not, but I damn well do care whether or not she does. Bottom Line: Women are attracted by a man's behavior. They can't even verbalize what they respond to, but it's everything we are getting away at here. Fabio might as well have been born a woman, because he is very pretty. Attraction & RAS Have you ever been speaking to some girls and it's almost like they are pretending not to hear you or like they are ignoring you? The reason for this is due to two key components, Value and RAS. Due to the overwhelming contrasting life experience surrounding us at any given point in time, human beings have developed a system for focusing in on a part of reality that is most valuable to them in that moment. You don't need to understand what constitutes value for right now, just know that attention and focus (RAS) is based from value. The higher something of value has, the more it's in your RAS. What's RAS? RAS, or Reticular Activation System, is the focusing mechanism whereby it singles out objects of value in your environment, and blurs everything else out. Say you're out at lunch talking to a buddy and he's telling you about his day.

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Suddenly, a hot girl walks by. Like a little value magnet we human beings are, you instantly begin checking her out. You now just “defocused” your buddy, and probably can't even remember a singal word he just said for the last 5 seconds or however long your RAS was focused in on that girl. Try this now. Look around your environment, focus on everything that's black. Keep your RAS honed in on all the black objects. Everything black in your environment. Now, after doing this for a few seconds, close your eyes and pick a random color and try to think of all the, say, blue things you just saw. It's extremely difficult because your RAS was on all the black things. In fact, it's almost like those blue things DIDN'T EVEN EXIST IN YOUR REALITY ANYMORE! RAS is powerful. Some basics... (and these will give you hints at how you be wildly successful with girls.) Attraction = Value. Value = RAS. Man = Visual. Woman = Behavioral. Women respond to your dominance of your own reality, resourcefulness, decisiveness, positivity and general worldview. Reacting to YOUR values standards. Not caring about hers. “eww I dont like surfing...” “lol sucks for you, you're missing out.”

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Women draw state from their external environment. Men draw it from their core within. As a Man YOU are her environment! The feminine is like a mirror. What you feel, she feels. When you feel good, she feels good. When you feel playful, she feels playful. When you can chill, stay outside of your head and just self-amuse and enjoy the moment, it communicates SO MUCH value. Any time you go “into your head” to try to think of something to say it turns off the girl. Stay outside your head, you hold TONS of magnetic attraction. Every single concept you are learning in this program will show you how to get the hotties RAS's pulled in your direction and GLUED TO YOU all night. This is essentially what the “creepy sex stares” from women are that many guys report they get from girls after applying my stuff. It's kind of freaky, but just remember, you're just in their RAS's, hardcore. Stop Caring About Impressing Girls Even in subtle ways like, “Oh I need to be dominant now.” Remember, a huge part of the magical feminine attraction formula is ASSUMING VALUE and NOT TRYING TO IMPRESS HER. Do what you want and have fun. Follow your inner Emotional Guidance System always > your external reality (the Woman). This inner guidance is what Man calls his “instincts”. That's why animals like lions are so KING in the wild and fuck on a daily basis, they don't get in the way of their raw INSTINCTS and core desires. Instinct is simply following your Emotional Guidance System, as covered above.

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True unshakeable CORE CONFIDENCE doesn’t come from external pillars like looks, clothes, status, Money, success with girls... it comes from the deep joy and gratitude for BEING ALIVE. The Joy Of Being~. NOTHING can take this deep fundamental worth from you. Even if EVERYTHING is taken from you and you're left with rags on the beach. Tolle style, deep bliss on a park bench. (The Power Of Now reference.) You're ALIVE and ETERNAL man! Look at Vinny Chase from Entourage.. he's skinny, wears lame clothing (imo) but he's fucking COOL. He's got the easygoing Total Natural pimp vibe. He doesn't base his confidence on external pillars like big muscles and a perfect Scandinavian jawline or whatever society says is attractive, he sets HIS OWN STANDARDS. Even when he loses all his external pillars like money and status and has to move back to his home town Queens he is STILL the same happy funloving high self-esteem guy who parties just as hard with his friends and STILL hooks up with hot girls. You're in Free Fall, it's all impermanent form anyway. So fuck hot bitches and do what you want. Only insecure guys get their confidence from clothes and cars that doesn't last and is a shaky form of confidence in the first place. A lot of guys first learning to master this stuff see confident guys surrounded by hot girls who have lots of money and are very happy. They're like, “well sure, if I had all that money and those hot girls on my arm, I'd feel confident and happy too!” Unfortunately, Law of Attraction doesn't work like that. The REASON that guy's world melts and manifests around him AWESOME FORM is because he is happy and feels confident and the Universe responds accordingly. The key to manifesting great things in your life is to FEEL first, and the manifestation will follow with prolonged positive emotions.

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Guys trying this stuff out for the first time begin to feel hopeful about manifesting some more money, they begin to feel relief... joy... their Higher Self indicating to them they're well on the way and right on track, but then they start disbelieving and BANG! It stops coming in. Handle your spirituality. The world is a friendly place. Einstein “the most important question is 'Is the Universe a friendly place?' ” Self-fulfillment is sexy. It creates non-neediness when you are happy in your own full life. INCREDIBLY attractive. When you don't even CARE about getting girls because you're so happy and getting into a relationship is a stretch for you is when every girl in a 10 mile radius of you wants to be your girlfriend SO BAD. Trust me, it's annoying.

CONCLUSION Everything you are learning in this entire program will be creating magnet hot sexual attraction with the sexiest of girls, but let's delve into a few more important key pieces here. BE DECISISVE when you talk with horny Women. They love this shit. ”Get on my bed. HEY come here. Hey STOP THAT. TURN AROUND.” A really feminine girl LOVES being told what to do. Lead her to love. For her sake. “Take off your panties now, I wanna lick it.” That GLOW you feel when wearing your ideal outfit... that's you connecting to your inner self-esteem. You should feel like this ALL THE TIME. Don't RELY on your clothing / haircut / shoes. EXTERNAL PILLARS. Remember the true, deep, unshakeable Joy Of Being~ KILL neediness. For the girl and ego validation.

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Become a dominant badboy. When you want a girl to realize that you are more dominant than the other men in her life, it's a good idea to refer to them as a "nice guy" because women are not sexually attracted to nice guys, they are sexually attracted to dominant guys. Lastly, DONT LISTEN TO WOMEN. They don't know wtf they are talking about in terms of what they find attractive in Men. What they say they want and what they actually respond to are two different things. Guys who listen to women and then 'give them what they want' are poor saps who NEVER create attraction. Girls say stuff like, “Yeah I got really upset because he always gave me what I wanted...” MISSION – Please see pg. 5 of the Authentic King Workbook.

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INTRODUCTION Night Clubs are chaotic and crazy, but they're also a a lot of fun. Going out a lot becomes really addicting and can become a real source of problems in your financial life. Meaning, when you “get in state” you become seriously addicted to it. Addicted to girls, addicted to hot sex, addicted to the adrenaline rush of waiting in line at the club and approaching the HOTTEST Women there living life on the razor's edge... You feel so fucking alive, and the reward of pulling back and undressing a dime on your bed peeling off that sexy new pair of panties on a hot new girl... (S.A.A. I know. I'm signing up.) You can really start to shift priorities in your life. You might find yourself starting to go out nearly ALL THE TIME. This can be either a blessing or curse depending on where you're at in your personal evolution and your health. Calibrate accordingly. Attracting women during the day is a lot different than inside of a Night Club, it's a whole nother' ball game. Of course the underlying masculine feminine interaction & attraction dynamics still come into play, even more exaggerated inside of a Night Club, but there are many more important pieces you need to familiarize yourself with if you want to pull hot girls back to your place, and often.

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Energy and Human Interaction You have learned that Women (the feminine) act much like mirrors to people. This is especially obvious and exaggerated in party venues such as Bars & Night Clubs. When their friends are out having fun and giggling so are they. When one of their friends is pissed off at some guy then they ALL suddenly get pissed off at him. If one girl isn't have a good time and wants to go home she drags ALL of them away. When women are out in a high energy high emotional mode dancing for hours and hours and you walk up to them in a lower energy needy, tense, creepy, or weird vibe, they feel the LEECH and drainage of energy and get (by Law) that YUCK feeling and run off. So, how do we get in a fun-loving high energy AWESOME mode in the club? It's simple. You HAVE to become authentic and actually HAVE FUN yourself and get excited. Nobody wants to be around a leech. In order to suck a girl in and give her floods of good emotions and feelings you have to first feel them yourself. Note: Having a high energy in the club doesn't always mean bouncing off the fucking walls. It really depends on your own personality type and inner emotional guidance system unique to you and your soul. For some guys its running around high-fiving and dancing cavemanning girls left and right, for some guys its that lounge laid back chill sauntering vibe. Only you know. People will spit back at you what you spit at them, energetically. Be positive, friendly, cool, and sexually playful with girls and watch the attraction SOAR. Remember, the feminine is like a mirror.

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Rejection From Girls The #1 Success Barrier all men face... Most guys are afraid to approach, afraid to sexually escalate, afraid to be bold or physical with girls etc for fear of rejection. They think they can go home and read 100 pickup books and watch 100 DVDs and then, and only then, become this pickup master who will never get rejected again. Hate to break it to you man but even the BEST guys on the fucking planet in terms of Pickup get blown out and rejected over and over and over again in the field EACH night. That's why they start to see it as FUNNY and just par for the course. Remember, if you're not getting rejected enough you're not playing hard enough. Go get your hands dirty in field! Your GOAL is to get girls to backturn you or walk off so you know that you've taken your interaction to the limit and don't waste time. Always Be Learning See girls as your social guinea pigs. “I'm going to try to escalate and see what happens.” This 'I'm always learning' attitude doesn't put a whole lot of pressure on you to be perfect. Next is that girls never reject YOU they only reject your behavior. No one, not even your mother or long term girlfriend knows who you really are. Only you do. No one can ever fully and truly reject you. All failure is simply feedback. Perfection syndrome runs rampant. You will never be “perfect.” You are always evolving, new desires are constantly being birthed. There

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will ALWAYS be a new vantage point of expansion calling you forth – this is the expansion of the Universe and the essence of the very eternalness of LIFE. You will NEVER arrive. You will never be a “perfect guy” in the field. You are ALWAYS getting better and better, constantly evolving. So enjoy the journey. This is YOUR LIFE. Abundance Mentality The more you are willing to lose girls, the more you will get girls. It's another newbie paradox, but a scarily effective one. In actuality there are tons (and I mean tons) of fish in the sea. But so many guys feel that just because the “found a girl that finally likes them” they get scared to lose her or mess things up. This mentality will fuck you up and paralyze you in fear. Your attitude MUST BE if she walks at any moment it's HER LOSS and there are 100 other fun-loving girls in this club who are open to men approaching them I can go talk to. In reality, there always is. Fundamental click: Getting girls is EASY! It's SIMPLE. Most guys can't accept this. They think they need to read thousands of hours of pickup books and DVD seminars to get good, not realizing they were all born pimps. DNA, very fact you're HERE and listening to this means your lineage / tribe of ancestors survived for millions of years. Game really is so simple man. I can distill the entire game into this one piece. See girl, still your mind, go talk to girl. You will KNOW what to do in the moment, and only then. Chances are, within a few minutes she will be all over you. If not, NEXT. You must begin trusting yourself. And above all HAVE FUN, lighten up, be easy and carefree, it's one of the most attractive traits to

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women. They HATE guys who take everything super seriously and see life as a struggle instead of an incredible adventure of fun. Self-Expressive Game vs Scripted Pickup Game. There is no structure for human interaction, only guidelines. You need to stop holding on to rigid ego structures that only exist in your mind and learn to handle your chaotic environment AS IT COMES TO YOU. That's why I emphasized Emotional Guidance AKA raw instinct so much early on because a guy who goes in with nothing to say who trusts his gut is extremely dynamic and flexible in field. He can fight on his feet and communicates confidence and high value and gasp you can actually have fun and be naturally expressive around girls. Authentic Attraction~ “Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless - like water. Now you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup, you put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, you put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.” -Bruce Lee

When I started looking INSIDE for the answers and emptied my mind of all the pickup theory and bullshit and stepped to these girls with 100% instinct aka emotional guidance, my results shot up. My hot, licking, sucking, tasting, fucking, sticky, results. The energy you give out, you get back. So when you walk up to chicks with a negative vibe of weirdness or confusion they will give you a bitchfest back. That is why you must begin trusting yourself. When you walk up open and warm and engaging, they engage you back. When you start being physical with them, the girls will start

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grabbing you etc. When you blast them with sexual state “Oh my god that is so hot I want to lick you!” they give you that sexual charge right back. Getting Into State “State”, or a ridiculously high vibration that can best be described as being “drunk in love” is the ideal state you want to get yourself into in a Night Club. Why? Couple reasons.. The first is because when you're in a high vibration, you no longer have access to the bullshit petty thoughts that concern you day to day. Instead of thinking “Oh man I'm gonna be nervous...” when you go to approach that hottie over there, you're like “FUCKKKK look at those sexy smooth legs. Her tits are fiinneee. Fuck I NEED to go talk to this girl bro, brb.” Go review Reality Mastery. Remember, you do not get vibrational access to good-feeling CONFIDENT clarity and solution-based thinking when you are resisting & feeling bad in a lower frequency state. Likewise, when you are raging in full positivity nimbus mode of golden love state in the club, EXTREMELY HAPPY, you don't have vibrational access to all the pretty bullshit that may or may not dominated your thinking in the past. Many guys report, “Where did all my problems go? Wtf I was worried about THAT shit?! Dude. I've ALWAYS been like this!!! I'm a King!!!”, their mental noise and incessant chatter sloowwwsss down and they begin to fully take in, appreciate, and enjoy the fun (and hot girls) in their environments. You now also have vibrational access to everything AWESOME in your environment. It's not just thoughts, either...

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Think of it like this. It's like going to Hawaii with a buddy. Say he's having a shitty time and in a low-frequency state, complaining and miserable. Even though he is in a BEAUTIFUL environment surrounded by pure awesome, his RAS is only physically capable of picking out and tuning in on like-vibration things. He is complaining about the humidity and hot sticky weather, or “My feet hurt. I'm starving that plane ride was so shitty (memory focus), ugh dude there's too many bugs here. When are we going to get to the damn hotel, I need a shower.” etc. But you on the other hand, being STOKED in a high frequency are honed-in on all the AWESOME because you are a vibrational match to it. You're smelling the unique scents in the air, seeing the fields of light in the sky, watching the hot girlies in bikinis running by giggling, seeing all the luscious fruits and palm trees, feeling the cool summer breeze on your face, checking out the sparkling water and beautiful clear blue hues of the ocean... etc. We'll get waaayy more into how cool guys and Total Naturals with women tend to be in this positively-focused delusionally awesome mode nearly all the time, and how bitter losers who never get laid tend to typically be negatively-focused most of the time. More on that [Vibrational Balance] later on Becoming A Natural. So, when you can get in State inside of a club or party environment, suddenly you now have vibrational access to everything AWESOME in your environment. When you're scared your thoughts are like, “Oh fuck she is too hot for me I'm afraid I need to approach. Oh shit look at those scary buff Jersey Shore steroid guys, I hope I don't get beat up. Oh man, the alcohol line is so long, damnit I need more money, damnit look at that good-looking rich guy that just walked past all confident... man I'm such a loser, girls wont like me.. I need to approach now and advance my skillset! I must get better at this!!!”

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Yuck dude. Talk about Chode Mode. Now, when you're in state, you have vibrational access (in BOTH your environment and own mind in the form of memories & future event projections) of all the ridiculous AWESOME in your environment. And there is A LOT of ridiculous awesome in a Night Club packed full of horny hot half-naked dolled up girls. Your thoughts are like; “Boobies! Boobies! Fuckkkkkk that chick is so hot ohmygod awesome. She looks really friendly. Boobies! Damn I'm ON tonight. My style is MONNEEEY. Haha look at that loser with that cutie, what a dork. She looks bored I'll probably go save her. OH FUCK I LOVE THIS SONG. WOOOOOO!!!!! OMFG there's that honey again, kay I'm approaching her now. Wowwww her hand feels so soft and warm. Lol she just looked down shyly, FUCK it's ON. Ohmyygodd this girl's lips. HUG TIME. Her tits feel incredible pressed against me like that. Shit, I'm starting to get a boner hahah. Kay I'm pulling this cutie to the dance floor with me. MORE BOOBIES! WOOOO!!!” Lol, like the Rebecca Black parody “FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN FUN” and how this is what girls are like in a club (Youtube if you don't know what I'm talking about).. well, it's funny because this is how YOU get when you're in state. It's full raging mode. STATE. So how to get in state? Well, again man, incremental jumps. If you're in utter fucking terror you're not going to be feeling so fly like a G6 anytime soon. Reach for the thoughts that feel better and better and better. Always be looking around at what's COOL or AWESOME in your environment. We'll get more deep into perma-STATE and how a Total Natural's experience of a hot girl (a la vibrational access) is MUCH different than regular guys (preview: chode is stuck worrying or fearful of approach, whereas the natural can't get that cute girl out of his head and LOOK AT THE TITS ON THAT BITCH!) It's the art of turning fear (resistance) into excitement / appreciation (allowing).

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This can be done by doing what I like to call the RAMPAGE OF APPRECIATION. What that basically is, is in every moment focus on “What is AWESOME about this moment right now?” Appreciation is very powerful. Appreciation is also know as love or unconditional acceptance, appreciating and loving something are the exactly same. Love is pure allowing of Life Force energy. You physically CANNOT resist something (negative emotions remember) when you are fully ALLOWING it. Hint: Hot girls. And when you're feeling AWESOME and SEXUAL and FUN and LOVING and COOL etc all these good positive emotions around a group of girls... the feminine acts like what class? That's right A MIRROR. She SHE FEELS WHAT YOU FEEL. When you can pump your own state utilizing this Rampage Of Appreciation and you go up feeling fucking AWESOME (no, not just “okay” or “sorta good”) then the girls are like OMFG WHO IS THIS GUY FILLING UP MY HEART WITH LOVE I FEEL SO HAPPY AND NAUGHTY AROUND HIM. NOOOO DONT GO!!!!! Another way to look at it is like an Upward Spiral, or THE SURGE OF POSITIVTY. Again, when you're appreciation (allowing) something, you can't fear it (resist it), and you can truly SEE it and EXPERIENCE it and ENJOY it for the first time (vibrational access.) When you're in state, and you're able to SEE for the first time all the awesome stuff in your environment.. dude, when you see a real live hot and horny woman, she comes fucking ALIVE. Remember inspired action? You literally WONT BE ABLE TO SIT STILL, the feeling is like you HAVE to go approach that hottie. You feel like a giddy little school girl on Christmas. Her clothes become the wrapping paper and her hot body is the gift.

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Remember the song of the Universe, it is Law Of Attraction. Like attracts like. The gooder it gets the gooder it gets the gooder it gets. Same goes for negative-thinking; the worse it gets the worse it gets the worse it gets. The rich get richer, the poor get poorer. When you're out having fun you start having A LOT OF FUN. That is why going out hitting up honeys can get SCARILY ADDICITNG. It's almost like nothing else in your life will ever feel that good. You can start to stop caring about your “responsibilities” because you just want to go out have a blast and fuck girls all the time following your Emotional Guidance. It can really start affecting your Mission and Career life. So, whenever you go out, I want you to think of it like you're on a ride and it's a spiral. The spiral is either going up or down. Downward is resistance, negative emotion-laden bullshit totally out of sync with Who You Really Are, the CORE you. Upward is awesome, a Rampage of Positivity and authentic FUN. Each night you go out you're headed in one direction. You're either starting to worry, fear stuff, think about bullshit, or you're thinking good-feeling thoughts like “Man this cab ride is sick. My buddies are so funny & cool hahaha this dude's hilarious we're gonna have such a kickass time tonight. Damn this night air is so warm and perfect. Ohh I'm getting an adrenaline rush FUCK I can't WAIT to hit the club. Warm summer night sex with a hot lady sounds alright to me. I can't wait to see how the girls dressed up for me tonight...” etc etc etc. Key: GOOD-FEELING thoughts only. Your Higher Self agrees with them and is letting you know you're right on track with your desired manifestations. Aka hot moaning naked girls in your bed.

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Getting Into State final pointers: It's like an immune shield. When you're in state it's almost like you enter into a whole new plane of reality. Where chodes (or your old lower-frequency self) would be sitting there stunned in fear in the corner, you are running around cavemanning girls left & right running circles around these dodes laughing. State sub-communicates HIGH VALUE, PRESELECTION (survival), and other alpha qualities. The caveman with all the food and hot cavebitches back at home in his little cave was stoked and relaxed all the time, NEVER trying. Chilled out and having fun, fully assuming value (go review the Masculine Polarity / Feminine Attraction Formula), the beta caveman was not. He was terrified of dying, nervous and stressed out all the time nerve-wracked with fear. Girls DID NOT sleep with him, in fact they ran away from this guy repulsed. So when you're in state, hot chicks assume you're getting lots and lots of sex, and they want you. Bad. Girls literally are getting wet for you when you're out at a club truly raging and having a killer time. Literally. More on this later... Resistance (negative emotions) hinders getting into state, stifles you, and ALLOWING it by appreciating and loving, authentically, unlocks it and frees you. You also have an incredibly addicting fun time and suck the girls into your party. It's not always bouncing off the fucking walls. Each guys “state” will be different because each guy has a different soul (Higher Self) and thus a unique Emotional Guidance System. Some dudes are the chilled out lounge vibes laidback cool kids, others are high energy bouncing off the walls making out with chicks left and right and jumping up & down on the dancefloor. Only you will know. Feel your way there.

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Can't say this enough, emotions SURPASS your intellect. When you find yourself in a good state it's like EVERYTHING falls into place and clicks for you. You know how to act, exactly what to say and talk about with these hot chicks. Everything that comes out of your mouth flows like golden smooth silk. Girls are all over you, it's awesome. Emotional Guidance IS everything. When you're excited, she's thrilled. When you're horny, she's horny. When you're scared and closed down, so is she. Learning how to hold your state in a crazy hectic club environment (the eternal stillness... deep peace and joy of BEING) Puts you in PERMA-STATE, you just have to quiet your mind, focus on awesome fun stuff so you stop resisting and its automatic. The default state of Man. Pure joy and appreciation! It really is just a matter of focus. Distracting yourself from what feels bad and focusing your mind on what feels good to you. Really good to you. Pretty soon Law Of Attraction just brings you more and more things to feel good about, and before you know it, all your “problems” are forgotten because you do not have Vibrational Access to that lower bullshit anymore. You become full of self-esteem, hot girls will want to fuck you stupid and mostly everyone will want to talk to and meet you. How? Appreciation. When you're appreciating or loving something there is NO RESISTANCE PRESENT and your vibration and emotions rise. A lot of it comes down to your focus in the moment. Say you have a big zit, but your favorite song is playing. You can't worry about the zit AND enjoy the amazing song at the same time. When you think about and focus on one, the other is forgotten and disappears (Vibrational Access.) Go out and have a fucking blast.

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Becoming A Closer Push your interactions to the very end. Nothing matters if you are not actually FUCKING these girls. Giggles, high fives, hugs, and even makeouts are all great – but what it comes down to at the end of the night is this; do you want her giggling at your cocky funny lines and that's it, or do you want to be licking and fucking her hot pussy? In other words, do you want useless approval from women or do you want to get fucking LAID? You must become a closer. Life is short, man. LEARN LEARN LEARN. Try everything you can on a girl. Push your interaction as far as you can go. Go in for the kiss, pull her back to your place, make out with her and GO FOR THE CLOSE. Always be closing the girls. Always be escalating as far as you can go. By now you should just think rejection is FUNNY and it should be pumping your state (bro let's go creep out girls lol, see how many we can get to run away from us...), so trying to get sexual with a lot of girls should be seen as pretty exciting now, NOT scary or any resistant bullshit like that. I cannot say this enough. Burn your interactions to the ground man!!! Escalate as much as possible on every girl you can. You must be learning constantly. Every single girl that “rejects” you, you learn something new and ALL your future interactions with hot girls are benefited from that point forward. When you lose in life, don't lose the lesson. Remember, it's all just simply vibrational feedback. Lastly, the golden rule is, 'if she's still standing there talking to you, she still wants you.”

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Most guys walk away WAY too soon, even when the girls are still into them. It's just not in their reality that, “Hey, a girl can actually like me just for me!” So many chicks are silently sitting there begging to be led, hoping this guy will become a man and make a move on them. That's why she's still talking to you, she likes you and is hoping you will step the fuck up be a man and escalate on her, FOR HER SAKE. Penetrate these girls open to bliss, man. They're aching for it. Annihilating Fear Fear is just a word. It's some weird form of negative emotion in your body, or rather, RESISTANCE. Same goes for nervousness. Whenever you feel fear, it is a very strong negative emotion. Which means whatever way you are currently focused or whatever thoughts you are thinking are WAYYYY off from your true Higher Self. You are literally getting bitch-slapped by negative emotions. The further off the thought from Who You Really Are is, the worse it's going to feel. What are you afraid of? Some girl is gonna be rude to you? Some 22year-old girls are going to backturn you and not want to talk to you? Who gives a shit. MOCK YOUR OWN FEAR. Remember, cannot be stated enough: Fear is just resistance to your Higher Self. Your Higher Self bitch slaps you with negative emotions in the form of inner guidance. “THIS IS NOT YOU”, it says. Curing Anxiety: Just do it, worst case scenarios rarely happen (your mind is more scary than reality, 9/10) presence is key. Follow emotional guidance. Appreciation and excitement vs anxiety and fear. Get in a High Vibration, raise up the emotional scale. This is discussed in depth in Reality Mastery.

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Worst case scenario is they just politely excuse themselves. If you get blown the fuck out its FUNNY and you'll have a great story to tell. So, when dealing with fear, you have to realize the Law Of Attraction is bringing you a whole truckload of shitty like-frequency fearful worrysome thoughts. You can't just magically make a quantum leap and feel amazing all of a sudden. You have to make incremental jumps, it's the only physical way. You focus on a better-feeling thought that's in vibrational range first. And, an improvement in your vibration (especially in these lower states) is NOT always amazing feeling happy fluffy and light. If you're feeling fucking TERROR an improvement might be feeling nervous or just a little bit scared or locked up. When you're feeling shaking nervous, it might be feeling anxious or uneasy. When you're feeling depressed, it might be feeling revengeful or angry. Not the greatest emotions in the world I know, but it is an improvement and it is better-feeling and you are well on your way up the vibrational scale to feeling relief and accessing your Power, Clarity, and Solution-based thinking. Go review the Incremental Jumps section on Reality Mastery for more on this. It will blow fear out of the fucking water. Remember, it's just like not being able to SEE infrared light or HEAR a 15 Hz dog whistle harmonic pitch... you wont be able to even THINK of any fearful or nerve-wracking shit once you master this. Become insanely sensitive to how you feel in every moment with every thought and memory. Talking To Girls So, enough theory. Let's get into some hardcore real-world practical tips and advice for approaching and bedding HOT WOMEN. Here are some key pointers for the first foundational skillset you must master, talking to girls.

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First and foremost: DO NOT ASK A LOT OF QUESTIONS. Just at first, or you get thrown into boring chode “next-guy-of-the-night” mode. Most guys do this because they don't know what to say or how to interact with girls so they resort to interview mode. Girls are REPELLED by this shit. They see this all the time, so when you become the guy who interacts carefree and differently you become the diamond in the rough. Eventually when you get good at keeping a high state you find girls doing this to you because THEY get nervous, then I say “HEY! Stop that. What is this 20 questions? Woman we're in a CLUB! Let's have some fun” The key dynamic is instead of trying to get vibes, GIVE THEM. Community lingo calls this “positive framing” instead of saying “where are you from” say, “You girls look like you're from the hood. Selling drugs must be a gnarly lifestyle huh?” Remember the masculine feminine dynamics, she reacts to YOUR REALITY. So tell girls they look like bad little girls who stalk guys and wont stop checking out your ass. Or, “OMG YOU GIRLS ARE SO HORNY I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS. STOPPIT YOU'RE ALL OVER ME THIS IS RIDUCLOUS.” I'll always say this kind of shit to girls. Another example; “You're a bad girl. “no im not” “YEAH RIGHT. I totally see it in you, you can't hide that side from me. I'm warning you I bring this out in women, you're totally helpless tonight.” And this now becomes her REALITY. Get it? The feminine is like a mirror who reacts to a man's reality. YOU dictate the energy and direction of the interaction. You are the CAUSE not the EFFECT. Keep shoving down her throat the state you want her to be in. “Hey you guys looked really friendly I wanted to come meet you.” then they fall into the frame you dominantly set and they begin to act SUPER friendly towards you.

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Start off with statements, never questions. Snapshotting, differentiate yourself EARLY. 95% men ask a lot of boring questions at first. This is not you, King. Remember to keep it LIGHT and FUN. Girls are highly visual, sensual & vibrant feeling creatures. When you talk about diarrhea they will feel like they're about to vomit and want nothing to do with you. Obvious I know, but you'd be surprised half the shit I've seen guys bring up when talking to girls. Don't say stupid shit. Now that you understand the Basic of making statements right off the bat [Positive Framing], you want to keep that going in your interaction. The key is to be BOLD and let her fill in the gaps. Speaking your mind and doing AND saying whatever the fuck you want around girls is highly attractive. Express yourself honestly and unapologetically. “You're hot.” Also be bold in actions. Instead of asking, take. Not “Excuse me madam would you like to accompany me to the dancefloor?” NO, with a naughty grin ,you grab her hand and LEAD her to the dancefloor without saying a word. Don't ask, take. Don't say “Ummm may I kiss you now?” JUST KISS HER. Take what you want. It's sexy and turns her on. She wants you to be free, remember. So what do you talk about? We already covered this but the key is to keep it self-amusing. LEAD, talk about what YOU want to talk about.

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If the girls start boring you with their female chatter cut them off and change the subject. Eventually when you get in state and are in this mode of AWESOME you will begin talking about your personal interests and turn-ons etc. Like-frequency cool things. You now have vibrational access to every funny, awesome, cool, fun EXCITING memory or experience you've ever had. When you get good at being self-expressive and physical with girls, they will interrogate YOU. It's almost like they wont be able to get enough from you because they have rarely met such a confident man before that make them feel so horny and good. Women LOVE feeling sexy and naughty and hot and relaxed and comfortable and good. POSITIVE EMOTIONS. Remember, the feminine pumps it's state from it's external environment, aka YOU. What you feel she feels. 99% of all the guys who approach them wreak of this needy desperate hidden agenda outcome leeching social vampire creepy vibe or are boring nice guy chatty chodes who don't give her a sexual rush only a badboy can give. Befriending The Peer Group. Dragaway girls happen when ALL the girls aren't having fun. Try and touch base with her peer group so she doesn't feel she looks like a slut and she's “off drunk with some random club guy”, when you isolate her, throughout the course of the night MAKE SURE you drag her back to her friends and chat for a little bit repeatedly. This avoids her from becoming paranoid and dropping out of state worrying too much about her image in front of her social circle or her friends coming and dragging her away.

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Peer group KEY: Cheerleaders, Not Cockblocks. Befriend them and then tell them how cute you think their friend is etc. If you're a cool social friendly charming guy, 9 times out of 10 they will be on your side to help her hook up with you. In my experience girls only cockblock you when you're a chode. Working to befriend the peer group pays off at the end of the night when you go to pull her home her peer group is more likely to let her go or even support that decision, otherwise she would feel like a slut or bad about what she is doing and not even go home with a quoteunquote “random club guy.” The goal is to get them to trust you. Being fun with them and bringing the girl back to their group occasionally throughout the night will do exactly that. At the end of the night when you go for the pull they will encourage her to go home with you rather than cockblock you. Cheerleaders, Not Cockblocks. Move Girls Around If a girl is to sleep with you for a same night lay, she must get the illusion that she has spent a lot of time with you. So you need to move her to the dancefloor, to the bar, outside for some fresh air and piggyback rides etc. You become a grounding point in her reality in the chaotic club environment. Also, she begins to unconsciously trust your LEAD. So at the end of the night when you're like “Hey let's go grab a taco!!!” or “Hey let's go back to my place and watch kenny powers.” she'll just naturally go right along with it because it's the next logical step and no big deal in her mind.

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Where most guys fuck up is when they don't lead her AT ALL in the club and then they don't befriend the peer group so when they go to pull she feels an extreme amount of hesitation about it due to (A) not trusting you leading her around and (B) she thinks she will look bad in front of her friends for going home with a random guy. But if she sees her peer group LOVING you she'll be about ready to tear your fucking clothes off, guilt-free. Being Physical THIS IS HUGE SO LISTEN UP! Make sure your teachability is at a 10/10. Women are highly emotional creatures, thats why they love the jerk guy and hate boring stiff chodey nice guys. Women LOVE excitement, they like to get a rush of adrenaline and feel naughty and hot. Being Physical with women will incite these exact emotions. When you start getting physical with girls you will see how quickly your attraction goes up. Being physical is the secret power you wield over Women. At first you may not be congruent with it so you'll get blown the fuck out, just laugh it off dude. You MUST go through this calibration phase to learn until you find the Sweet Spot. You'll find some girls will get really really attracted and start getting giggly and touchy back, others will be like WTF and run away, it all depends on your vibe which can only be discovered from time and practice out in the field. The keys are to be fully aligned and congruent, unapologetic, non-outcome dependent and HAVING FUN. Fun + Intent, if it's all fun you're nice dancing monkey guy, if it's all intent and no fun you're creepy rapist man.

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Getting physical will allow you to get laid FASTER. Get used to getting blown out, that's a good thing if you're playing this game right and approaching a ton of chicks each night. Why? As you go from group to group employing your physical leading you will find some girls instantly reject you, while others are ALL OVER YOU and massively attracted. These are the girls that no matter what you do they will be attracted to you. Most guys just go from set to set to set being chatty and politely ejecting, GETTING NOWHERE night after night only approaching 3-4 girls MAX. Not only does this hinder their skills from developing, but they also rarely ever get laid because they are just not approaching enough women. Once you start being edgier in your interactions and exit the “safe zone” the risk for blowout goes up but the risk for getting laid increases exponentially as well. When you can finally get over girls not liking you and can begin to authentically think it's FUNNY, you become dynamite in the club. The next reason you must get physical NOW with Women is because it sets up MASSIVE social proof. When you're physical with a chick it looks like you two are together and hitting it off and other girls in the room will begin eyeing you. To other guys it seems like you're cool and in state so they wont mess with you and to them those are your girls so most guys wont dare to approach. Dominance: I remember the first time I was going out trying this stuff, I thought that if I wasn't getting laid as much as I'd liked so there was definite room for improvement. I mean I was sick of the current results I was getting and if you guys will go review the most important first section you will learn that in order to change things in your life you must CHANGE THINGS IN YOUR LIFE. You need to not only behave and take action but also THINK in a different way to produce different results. So, I went out with the goal of being a raw caveman one night. I thought girls would be creeped out and run away. The first time I tried being more dominant I'll never forget it...

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I see this hottie standing alone, I just walked up with a really ballsy physical move by putting my arm around her right off the get-go. Half-expecting her to freak out she instead GIGGLED and LOVED IT and I ended up fucking her that night. Not only that, but just by being physical it created the most attraction with a woman I have ever been able to do before from talking or stupid pickup games. From thereon it was like being in the matrix because SO MANY guys are afraid of acting like this, but its what the girls are craving. Remember, Grok didn't cordially invite over miss cavelady for a delightful friendly daytime chat over a nice cup of tea. Touch Touch Touch FROM THE GET-GO get touchy with girls. It excites her hormones. It makes her feel sexy and naughty, and she will get all hot & bothered. Start off with light/playful social touching. Cool hand shakes. Hugs. Etc. Hug ALL the girls in the group right off the bat, ecstacy hug story (that's not a hug!) MELT INTO HER. Review this chapter's accompanying disc's audio material for the full story. You must begin to realize Women DESPISE the friend zone chats. Most guys don't know that deep down women are CRAVING for a cool dominant fun guy to physically lead them so they are afraid to use those tools, boring the hell out of the girl and failing to turn her on properly. Being physical with women hits a trigger deep inside their mating brain that makes them REALLY HORNY REALLY FAST. The feminine submits, the masculine takes. When you start tapping into your Higher Self and become loud, dominant, cool, and sexually playful & physically aggressive you'll find women's body language shifts as if to submissively say, “Do whatever you want to me.”

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Tooling Dudes Tooling guys via Asshole game. This can be used on guys to subtly out alpha them. I don't do this kind of shit anymore unless I really really want the girl because I think competing for girls is a waste of time, but you can be physical with dudes and they will become submissive. Key examples include firm handshakes at the beginning of the set, or putting your hand on his shoulder acting like you're best buds, hitting him on the back affirming his actions... to him you'll seem like a friend but to the girls you'll seem like the dominant male in the group, the new sexy genepool that just entered and they'll want to hook up FAST. Also, when you go in blasting high energy and start getting physical super quick with girls and they LOVE you for it, you'll see guys just totally chode out, full spectatormode and freeze up. Being physical with girls PLAYS THE GAME FOR YOU. A fully aligned positive energy-fueled grab of the hand leading her to the dancefloor or, a sexually playful hair pull will create more attraction in 5 seconds than 2 hours of complex scripted gaming and storytelling or any other bullshit community tactics. When in doubt, go caveman and listen to your dick not your head. How To Get Physical The player mindset shift: QUIT WALKING ON EGGSHELLS. Stop “playing it safe” in your interactions with hot girls. Waiting for signals from the women in order to THEN find permission to escalate on them will leave you talking to them all night and with very low if ANY attraction. The player mindset is ALWAYS ASSUME ITS ON and you're physical because that's what you feel like doing. Period. Simple, but a ton of rich depth there. Escalation creates attraction.

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Critical key: You must start off FAST and EARLY with being physical with girls so she has that primal mating drive switch turn on deep in her mind that you are a man who takes what he wants and you're different from all the other boring stiff scared chodes. Begin with friendly social touching, showing early that you are a physically confident guy and like to touch people. You need to be friendly and touchy at first and not come off as horniness right away. It should come natural to you, rewarding high fives cool hand shakes, hugging, sexual stories, etc. Avoiding Being Weird Most guys don't escalate on a girl fearing rejection or that they will look weird, if this is you I got news for you buddy (And this is after talking to virtually thousands of hot girls about this) you will look SUPER AWKWARD AND WEIRD if you're *not* warm and touchy and getting physical with these girls as early as possible. Girls HATE being bored to death by guys who are too out of touch with their instincts to get playful dominant and sexual early. Remember, it's what they're CRAVING from their feminine core. Another funny newbie paradox is that what most men think would be MORE awkward with women is actually LESS awkward. When first being introduced to girls I'll shake their hand and as I'm doing it start going in to kiss her all cheesy. Chicks CRACK UP at this. The more awkward, the LESS awkward. It's the guy standing like ten feet away from the girl all scared to be warm and friendly & touch her who CREEP girls out when they finally do decide to go in for the physical escalation. Remember to escalate EARLY and OFTEN.

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The blame is on you dude. A secret known by players today is that the girl will NEVER take fault for the sexual encounter. Even if she is sitting there DRIPPING WET she will 9/10 not escalate (I've verified this in my reality too many times to count.) It is up to you. From a very very young early age girls have it shoved down their throats being open and sexual and making moves on men is bad, even though they desperately want to. They read in Cosmo not to look “easy” around Men. When you get physical with a girl unapologetically she can relax into her full feminine and “blame” you for everything that happened, that way she wont feel she looked like a slut in front of her friends for going home with you in the first 10 minutes of meeting you. ;) Next important piece: Smile!!! when you truly smile and mean it it's amazing how much you can get away with when escalating on hot girls. I've playfully tapped girls boobs and smiled like a little kid who can't help himself and girls just giggle or pretend to be mad getting all hot and bothered sexually etc. Try this exercise, go look in the mirror at yourself and keep a straight over serious face and then go in to kiss yourself... creepy right? Now try this again with a smile first, then go in for the kiss. See the difference? You'll melt a girls heart and soften resistance if you smile right before your physical advances on her. Remember to keep it authentic though, don't fake a smile. Congruence is key. FEEL it. Being NOT Doing. Always smile before holding her hand, smile before putting your arm around her clawing her in, before hugging her or lifting her up etc.

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How to Avoid being Creepy Rapist Man So, you now understand that you need to be physically playful with hot girls. Escalation Creates Attraction~ But how do you avoid coming across as a creeper? The key is to believe in your actions yourself, remember the whole feminine mirror GO FIRST principle, if you feel like its totally normal and right to put your arm around her she will feel totally comfortable with letting you. Balance fun and intent. Too much fun and you wont get laid, too much intent and you'll freak girls out. Keep it light and fun and playfully sexual. NEVER SERIOUS SEXUAL. SERIOUS SEXUAL IS BAD! Also, stay close to your girl. Remember she's yours for the night. Move in close, not creepy close, but close enough so when you go to grab her or something it doesn't look all weird and creepy like you're overextending yourself over some long distance. Be dominant and impose your space on girls with your physical presence, they like it. The next key: NEVER LOOK TO THE GIRLS FOR PERMISSION FOR HOW YOU WANT TO ACT. This goes back to the whole following your Emotional Guidance aka raw instincts Basic. You're not asking her for permission to hug her, or to spin her, or to kiss her etc. You see, you want, you take. Don't ask her, tell her, or not even that, just TAKE and DO IT. Example... instead of saying “umm would you like to go dance with me now?” just with a naughty grin grab her hand and PULL HER TO THE DANCEFLOOR. Don't ask her to take her panties off, pull them off yourself.

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Escalate On A High Note Most guys just talk talk talk interview interview interview and bore the girl to death THEN go in for the kiss or use their newfound “spin move” tactic only to find the girls response WORSENS. The reason is these tactics are not a bandage, they are spice to a great meal that is your holistic game. Keep your interactions fun littered with high pure positive energy all around, and then escalating becomes natural and only adds to amplify the attraction and fun of the interaction. Token Escalation Resistance Most chodes can't handle this, to the player token resistance from girls is WELCOMED and ANTICIPATED as it is a great way to show them your strong male presence. Key: As with all rejection from women, you must think it's FUNNY. The sexy attitude is you're out having your own fun and her reactions to you are not going to take away from your fun. Gorgeous women find this self-reliant attitude VERY seductive. Remember, 95% of guys are out there caring about what she thinks of them and are CRUSHED when a girl doesn't like them because their entire sense of self and reality is tied up in a girl's fleeting reactions to him. Yuck! Talk about reactive. (feminine energy – a bitch's trait.) Next key: Expect resistance from hot girls when physically leading them. Expect her to say no, a lot. A pickup is MESSY. Do you want to be super ego shining glory perfect pickup man who doesn't get his hands dirty or stain his shirt or do you want to get fucking LAID?

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Close her, man! Always remember when being physical with girls to burn your sets to the ground. Take them as far as you can go. Your walkway limit should be if they SCREAM for you to fuckoff or if they want to call security or something or physically hit you. One time this chick even punched me in the face before, and I fucked her in the bathroom 10 minutes later. As you can see my personal gaming style is that I'm ruthless, full gangster, but you want to retain some sort of modicum of social intelligence. Calibration is key. Your Reality Is Dominant Remember how 95% guys see a girl backturn them and then they'll walk away all hurt and sad? Well, Total Naturals, that is to say the full PIMPS who are fucking lots and lots of Women see this is FUNNY. Why? Because in their reality women moan at their touch and tell them how amazing they are and practically worship the ground that they walk on. So, for a girl to not act interested is truly funny to them. You must begin to misinterpret her bad reactions like she's socially retarded. Whenever I go to spin a girl and she stops me or looks all weird at me, I'll look at her with an amused smile like “WTF, girls in my reality NEVER act like this” then as if to say ,”no it's like THIS” I'll immediately do it again. A great way to look at it is imagine if you went in to kiss a girl and she smiled and kissed you back and loved you for it, you do this on 999 different women in a row, each one smiles and kisses you back. On girl number 1000 th you go in for the kiss and she looks at you in terror and says FUCK OFF, YOURE WEIRD STOP... you'll be so thrown off you'll probably start cracking up because GIRLS DONT ACT LIKE THIS around you. This is social proof and a sign of preselection.

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Next important piece: Remaining unemotionally affected by both her good reactions and bad ones to you shows that you have a strong reality and don't base your sense of self worth or self esteem on external shaky pillars. She unconsciously begins to trust you and wants to get you reacting to her, aka sex. Nice Guys Finish Last Fuck approval seeking, ESPECIALLY in the Night Club. Girl's don't always have your best interest at heart, man. Remember Masculine Polarity. If they like you and are all touchy and giggly it's FUNNY. If they don't like you and backturn or tell you you're ugly fuck off it's FUNNY. If you care about a woman's approval of you or your actions she can take it and give it at will, totally owning you in a sort of pussy trance. Women DO NOT FEEL HORNY or any attraction for guys who tippy toe around them trying not to rock the boat. Forget about impressing her and behave in a way that you WANT from your core. The feminine wants you to be free. Act through your own intentions, be who you Are, and let the chips fall where they may. The key is to be your self, your Highest Self. If a girl is being rude, call her out on it. If you're feeling horny and she looks hot, fucking tell her. If you feel like kissing her DO IT, if she turns her head, LAUGH because you don't apologize for going after what you want in your life. You'll find that ANY time you give your power away to women or other people you are totally out of alignment with who you really are. People wont respect you and girls wont want to fuck you. So be yourself, speak your mind, be authentic and remember expression not impression. You express your self freely, your opinions likes dislikes and values, without giving a shit what other people are thinking or what their opinions of you are.

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Stop Approval Seeking Women are great at sniffing out a guy who needs their approval and they instantly lose all interest. Key: You must eradicate Outcome Dependence. Kill the part of you that wants good reactions from girls. YOU MUST BECOME INDIFFERENT. You must not care of girl's approval of you. Here's the way I see it that really helps me... everyone is dreaming their own dream. Yours is unique, it's the only one on the planet. There is NOONE ELSE LIKE YOU that has had the same thoughts and experiences, dreams goals and drives. So, someone that enters your reality for a couple of minutes or even a few days they have no idea who you really are. They're only seeing the scratch of the surface of the totality of you, so who gives a fuck of what their shallow interpretation opinion of you is, whether that be good or bad. BE YOUR TRUE SELF and let the chips fall where they may. NON reaction seeking. Not attached to the outcome. Abundance minded COOL guy. Not attached to any kind of result. Key: Act through your own intentions. Do you WANT to dance with a girl all night like entertainer man only to find she ran off at the end of the night? Do you WANT to buy some rude bitch you don't even know a drink? Do you WANT to fake that you don't like what the girl is talking about so you have to sit there and suffer listening to her bore you to death? Do you WANT to walk on eggshells and be afraid to tell her how fucking hot she looks? Eradicating a lot of these needy nice guy loser behaviors is just getting in contact with the core you and stop giving a fuck what anyone else thinks, which is an irresistible aphrodisiac for a hot “Total 10” woman because most guys tippy-toe around them and play it safe.

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Superficiality & Atomic Particles Clubs are designed to get in top of you and intimidate you so that you compensate by purchasing overpriced alcohol. The club is a business, and their owners are RICH. Trust me, I worked for one. Don't let makeup, hair, red ropes, fancy bouncers dressed up, or egoic club owners get on top of you. Even the sun will burn out someday, the entire earth will be consumed by the White Dwarf Star of the sun... all forms are impermanent and ultimately meaningless / a total joke. A sparkling dress, fancy exotic haircut, or flashing pretty lights are going to make you nervous? It's all just particles, vibration, and impermanent form. Enjoy it and don't grasp on to any of it or take anything so seriously. Even the club will turn to dust someday, as well as the hot girls inside of it. Social Realities & Approaching Mixed Groups To a newbie, the club may seem overwhelming and like its a ton of people having fun without you, but in actuality the average group size in a club is about four people. Think of it like mini social circles scattered all over the venue. So when you go out know that it's like a bunch of mini realities, you can just go talk to a bunch of different people in one night. If you fuck up and get blown out in one, there's a fresh new one waiting for you right over there. The key for having success when meeting new people and/or girls in a Night Club is to want NOTHING from the group. Become the warm end of the social pool. Offer value, not being a social leech. You're BRINGING THE PARTY and cool vibez. This is massive irresistible value. More on this later.

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Remember, people are like a mirror, especially feminine Women. If you feel weird about approaching a group of people they will feel weird too, if you act like it's no big deal and a perfectly normal fun thing to do, they will think the same. If you go up friendly and cool, 9/10 the group will be friendly and cool to you right back. Let go. Just like you, people go out to have fun and take a load off and socialize and meet new people. So when you start being fun and chatty, merge groups introducing girls to other guys etc, you become the life of the party and everyone will want to get to know you. Dealing With Other Guys: Any time you see a guy and girl together 9 times out of 10 it is a guy she JUST MET IN THE CLUB, just go up be cool and eclipse the chode. You're probably doing her a favor if she looks bored. You'll also find as soon as you approach that most guys don't want to deal with that so they just leave fast. Also, from an outsider's perspective it looks like you ALREADY KNOW HER. So her friends and other guys are extremely warm to your approach and let you guys pair off. Next important piece: Win over the friends at all costs. Don't you just hate the dragaway girl? To remedy this make sure they're ALL having fun. If she really likes you she'll stay when her friends leave to go dance or w/e, but they'll cockblock you from leaving with her at the end of the night if you didn't win them over. Being Loud This is crucial. When you're loud you naturally become more aggressive and expressive. You kick into awesome mode and begin to rampage in appreciation and start tapping into your core, your Higher Sexy Self.

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Dominant males with a sense of authority or entitlement talk loud naturally. Observe cool guys at the club, they're like, “GIRLS! GIRLS!!! OH MY GOD LOOK AT YOU. YOU ARE DRUNK!! YOU ARE DRUNK!!!” Whereas the chode goes up like “hi umm excuse me girls can I ask you a couple of questions?” ← stifled and quiet, see the difference? Notice this in yourself, when you feel like the man and are in state you'll find you naturally talk LOUD and UNAPOLOGETICALLY, but when you feel like a chode or super nervous / fearful you'll find people going “WHAT?” WHAT?” because they can't hear your stifledass words. VOCALLY PROJECT YOURSELF. You'll find girls giggle around you. GIGGLES AND ATTRACTION FROM GIRLS IS A RECOGNITION OF STATUS, NOT BEING FUNNY OR APPROVAL SEEKING. Awareness Exercise: Practice talking loudly AT girls and people everywhere you go for a month, make it your mission. Remember neuro-pathways and the Four Levels Of Learning, you must do this at the Conscious Competence level for a month before it becomes an automatic habit. Women get wet for a dominant alpha male, and his booming deep voice is just one of those aspects. Cool guys who fuck lots of women talk very loud and aren't afraid of imposing on other's airspace, nor do they fear BEING HEARD. No Agenda It is important to have fun in a club and not go out with all these missions of getting laid. Again, it's another newbie paradox. You'll want to get laid, but at the same time you must not give a shit.

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My natural surfer buddy who is AWESOME with girls always says, “The less I care about getting laid... the MORE I GET LAID!!!” Guys who go up to girls with all these “hidden pickup agendas” spook girls out. It fills them with anxiety because they don't know if you're about to stab them or rape them behind a dumpster. Be cool and uprfront with her man. Stop caring so much. LET GO. Just go up, have fun and hold not a single thought other than your clarity of intent in the moment. “OH, cute girl. I'm going to go talk to her.” ← that's IT. Clean focus. Avoid weird creepy pickup agendas. Your single agenda is to light up these girls hearts in a completely non-needy fashion and just to be yourself acting through your own intentions in the moment, HAVING FUN WITH THE GIRL. IF sex happens, cool. If not, no biggie. Remember, the less you care about getting laid, the MORE you get laid. Fun first, pickup later. Being authentic in this way FREES YOU to have fun in the club because you're not worried or feel like you're hiding anything or have to compensate or “game her now” or something. The chains are cast off and you embrace the honest fun in the moment. Example, something that gets me into state is sometimes I walk up to girls and say “I don't have anything to say. You just look hot and I wanted to approach you.” and then we both start cracking up, ITS ON. Pickup is a lot like playing a song. If you think a couple notes ahead you'll fuck up the note you're currently playing and the song will turn out shitty. It's also extremely similar to walking up a staircase. You'll only know what step to take next when AND ONLY WHEN you take the very first step, then the second, then the third one lights up. Most guys get to step #1 and freak out about #20.

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Disarming Boyfriends This is fucked up, but I'm revealing the entire Authentic King arsenal, morality aside, this is how you can steal a guy's girl. When you walk up with pure value offering positive cool vibe, like feeling optimistic and happy and not wanting anything from either of them, the guy immediately thinks “fuck if I get all defensive or jealous or mad at this cool guy my girlfriend will think I'm insecure so I better go along with it.” People find it really hard to be rude to genuinely happy cool positive friendly person. So the guy will either genuinely or pretend to like you, or he'll just sit there inside his head stunned as his girl is all over you talking to you enthusiastically. How I pull these girls is I eject on a high note, and later she either comes up to you or if she doesn't you go up to her when her BF is nowhere around and ask for her number under the false pretense of like wanting to exchange recipes or cooking tips or some innocent BS so she can rationalize that giving you her number behind her boyfriend's back is okay. It's all downhill from there man if you really want her, when you're hooking up just continually frame it like it's YOUR fault and look at what you're doing to her, so all the blame of the sex is on you. Eventually she'll start rationalizing and creating fights with the BF to feel good about what she's doing behind his back till they eventually break up and she's all yours. Use with caution, you've been warned. Go In Messy Do NOT tip-toe in the club. Go in MESSY. Sometimes you will have a whole group of girls SCREAMING at you as you drag their friend away. Sometimes you will be grinding between two hot sexy horny women who are totally LOVING you. Sometimes you will have a dude step in and tell you to fuck off.

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Other times you will get blown out like it's the Water World show at Universal Studios theme parks. Have the balls to look ugly and messy to others because Mr. Cool who goes in and posts against the bar with his drink in hand and impresses everybody, but talks to nobody, DOESNT GET LAID. A lot of “Mr. Cool” (and we've all been that guy) stems from perfectionist syndrome. It's when you are avoiding looking bad or making a mistake. The Illusion Of A “Perfect Pickup” News flash: You will NEVER be perfect right up until the day you die. Good enough is good enough. Don't look for the PERFECT FLAWLESS EXECUTION in any of your interactions with girls as it will never happen. We're all human. Even the best still get blown out and are miscalibrated sometimes. Just by going out there and trying stuff out, as rough as it may be at first, you will be ahead of the pack because most guys spend their whole lives paralyzed by fear of rejection from girls and they NEVER approach. So stop looking for perfection in your execution of these techniques. Just get out there and start applying your self. Even if you start applying the stuff I'm teaching you here half ass, you'll be 10x more attractive than most other needy boring confused chodes out there in the club and girls will LOVE YOU. The most important Club Game question: Do you want to be perfect and neat or do you want to get LAID? Pickup is MESSY and you will screw it up a lot.

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Social Conditioning You need to stop caring about what other people are thinking of you inside the club. Reacting to everyones behavior = CHODE MODE. This is known as Social Pinging. We'll get deep into this later in the program. Social conditioning is running your life. Think of your Middle Finger. Why is there that stigma attached to it? It's just a finger!!! It's because you have been Socially Conditioned from others to think it is bad, so that is now your current belief and you react accordingly. There are virtually thousands of these “social programs” running in your head right now that you're probably not even aware of, controlling your behavior. Ever see a movie of some guy being sexual with a girl and she slaps him? These subtle messages have been spoonfed to you since a very young age. When in reality, getting physical with girls makes them giggle and get MASSIVELY ATTRACTED and turned the fuck on. A truly successful alpha guy sees the world through his OWN eyes. Remember, YOUR experience is your best teacher. Results never lie. Stop looking to others for how to act / permission to have fun. Most people WILL be inside their head in the club, so if you're socially pinging trying to determine what's “acceptable behavior” by basing it on how the most people are acting around you, you will feel like it's wrong to act like a confident guy. Again, 95% of guys in the club are chodes, inside their head, and sitting there stifled. Women are waiting for a confident fun guy to make a move on them and lead them all the way to the bedroom, physically. One night I was in a club out of town raging with my buddies having

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a blast. This hot girl comes up touching me and says to me, super attracted, “I can tell you guys aren't from around here...” I'm like, “how?” “Because you guys are actually having fun. :)” Remember man, the feminine WANTS YOU TO BE FREE. Most guys CANNOT let go and have fun and BE THEMSELVES acting in alignment with their core around hot women. They're stifled, care what she or other people are thinking, and walk on eggshells. This bores girls to fucking death and DOES NOT turn them on. She does not get wet for you when you're being stifled and quiet in the corner. STEP UP. Dance Floor Game You don't have to be good on a dance floor but if you're a high energy guy like me than I can share a few key lessons I've learned over the years. (If you're not the dancefloor game type of guy then just wait until the girls trickle off the dancefloor and then go and approach.) Women get their states pumped externally via their environment. The dancefloor is a super high energy place. If you walk up with lower energy the girls will feel like you are SUCKING and DRAINING from their party so they will instantly reject you. So, to remedy this, you must pump YOURSELF FIRST to get into that high energy mode.

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The key mindset is to not give a fuck what others think and to be the epicenter of the wave of positive energy that is about to take over this fucking venue. Examples include jumping up and down clapping to the beat with your buddies or even alone assuming everyone around you is your friend. And pretty soon you'll get into state once you surrender to the environment and let the high energy carry you. From there you naturally approach girls to lead them into funny dance moves or bring the party. Remember the most important mindset shift about approaching and picking up women, that is “Fun First, Pickup Later.” Hit the dance floor and literally FORGET about picking up girls. Your only mission is fun and silly games. Remember women submit to your reality so you must make it fun for you first. Aim to be the guy having the most fun in the entire venue by just not giving a shit. The next dance floor gem is to NEVER go in hardcore grinding on girls in the club. The majority of them find this super repulsive at first. The key is to go NEAR the girl/girls you eventually want to be grinding hot and heavy with and just dance side by side with them. Slowly make your way in. Start off by looking over playfully cockily smiling at her, then eventually hip bumping. THEN move in and you guys can freak. Remember knee-jerk reactions. Most girls don't appreciate guys just running up and slapping their cock on them. Practicing approaching girls on the dancefloor is a GREAT WAY to build up a tough skin to rejection and immunity of women's emotions towards you. IF you can handle the chaotic crazy dancefloor, you can handle ANYTHING. When you walk into a mellow environment like a bookstore or even a party, it becomes like child's play now. The next tip is to dance with ALL the girls in the group, even for just a second or two. You seem like a really cool fun guy who isn't a

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creepy sex sniper stalker just leering one girl, you're a dude out to have a good time and bringing the party to all the ladies. Remember to always escalate. Start off kind of far form the girls dancing and having fun with a warm high energy approach, then as you move closer begin to do stuff like hip bumps, high fives, spins, hugs, lift up her hands above her head with a big smile etc. The problem with most guys is they seek external validation to have fun, ie they'll feel like a loser if they are on the dancefloor alone. Just remember, get excited and forget about outcome. Fun First, Pickup Later. The girls will be all over you when you truly stop caring and start having fun, authentically. Keep in mind that the key cold approach concepts still apply. Expect rejection as par for the course, especially on the dancefloor it's like 10x worse. WELCOME IT. Next, always part the seas. NEVER hover around the girls lurking like a creepy stalker who is terrified to approach. Girls can smell this a mile away and will literally run away from you when you do muster the courage to approach them. Also remember to go in and calibrate with with HIGH ENERGY, this can't be stressed enough. Low energy on the dancefloor means needy leech and is a big YUCK factor around the hotties. Lastly, STAY FUN. So many guys fuck this up. They get great at going in there high energy totally self amusing and not giving a fuck about outcome, SUPER attractive, yet they then feel their work is done and they just sit there idly. The girls begin to get weirded out because you're incongruent. You were once this cool awesome guy having fun on his own and now suddenly you're back to needy vampire sex leech man. So remember to STAY non-needy and having fun.

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The dance floor is where girls lose themselves. You can finger them, get jacked off, ensue hot easy makeouts, sometimes even fuck (where there's a will...) It's a great way to pull girls you have already approached to amp up and escalate on them with ease. Lead lead lead, have fun and watch the sparks fly.

CONCLUSION Good Nights vs Bad Nights: We're all human. Even Jesus got pissed off in the temple and whipped people. We all fall victim to our human emotions and sometimes fear, anxiety, self doubt, anger, confusion all that negative crippling shit can get the best of us. Some nights you'll go out, be enthusiastic happy dominant sexual and OWN it, other nights you'll go out and crash and burn and feel like an eternal chode to walk home crying, fucked up and alone. It's all part of the Journey and part of being Human. Enjoy the ride. The ups AND downs. Just remember man, brush it off, stay positive and remember tomorrow night is another night. It's poker man. You'll always get another hand. The girls aren't going anywhere. Relax. :) MISSION – Please see pg. 6 of the Authentic King Workbook.

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INTRODUCTION Sex is FUN. It is a key part of divine human expression. Enjoy it fully. Too many guys have weird sexual hangups. They feel wrong about expressing their natural desires in front of women or they feel it's “evil” and a “sin” to enjoy it from bullshit social conditioning. Throw out this mental garbage. Sex is MEANT to be fun and fully enjoyed. It is a gift, a divine dance of love and awesome. The very song of the Universe is; “hotter, sexier, funner, faster, and MORE.” So go out and enjoy your divine gift of sexuality FULLY with hot girls, and never be ashamed of your human nature. Embrace it. How would you feel if a girl was shy or nervous, possibly even scared about fingering her hot pussy in front of you, or showing you her tits? Lame I know. But this is how so many guys act. They can't LET GO and have a GOOD TIME around girls in a sexual way. God forbid she knows you actually want to act on your desires as a man and fuck her! Uhoh! (Sarcasm.) Throughout all of this I want you to to start getting in touch with your KILLER INSTINCTS. Why do you step up to Women? Why do you even want to talk to a hot girl in a club? Do you care about what book she read or what her favorite retail store is?

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Get Sexual Fast Without a sexual element to your interactions women will instantly categorize you as the nice guy boring friend orbiter chode. You know, the guy who buys her lots of dinners and gifts and doesn't sleep with her for months, if ever. You MUST be sexual with ALL Women fast, early, and often. Hot Women do not waste their time with the boring losers. Women's biological clocks are ticking and their mating brain is telling them to find a guy who will step up and fuck them, if you're not that guy then you have no chance, unless she wants to use you as a listening tampon or have you pay for all her bullshit. Sexual NOT Horny First CRUCIAL PIECE. So many guys fuck this up it's not even funny. The key mindset shift you need to have immediately, as in your interactions with women TONIGHT, is become sexual, NOT horny. Horniness implies desperation and you wreak of neediness. Being sexual implies confidence and masculine power and is HIGHLY attractive to women, being horny is not. Think mature masculine man leading her into ecstasy, NOT horny 12 year old staring at the porno mag desperately fumbling for the bottle of lube. At the first whiff a girl gets of any needy/desperate horny behavior she will instantly feel repulsed by you because you start to take on the vibe 99.9% of most desperate chodes have at the club. Remember, the hungry don't get fed.

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Becoming Playfully Sexual So how the hell do you be sexual without coming across as a needy desperate horny chode? The KEY is to be playfully sexual. I'll repeat myself. The KEY is be PLAYFULLY SEXUAL. A great real life example of this is Hank Moody from the show Californication.. he's very playfully sexual with Women and totally cool about it. It's sexuality without the unattractive needy counterpart that only serves to turn girls off, not get them wet for you. So some guys confuse this asking “should I walk up with sexual intent or not” well as you learned previously if you DON'T include a sexual element in your interactions with women you want you'll be thrown in the black hole known as the platonic nice guy friend zone. She will not get wet for you and will snapshot you as a boring nice guy. So it's all about balance. Just listen to your core, STAY AWAY from the needy clingy desperate I NEED TO GET LAID vibe. Act like you've already had your meal and are entertaining the idea of some tasty dessert. You will see the sexual attraction SKYROCKET in your sets with girls when you take on this non-needy subtle attitude. It's POWERFUL do no underestimate this crucial element. Implement this immediately. Remember, CHANGE THINGS IN YOUR LIFE to change the results! Girls Are Hornier Than Guys Key mindset shift: Girls are 10x more sexual than guys. Women walk around horny all the time and are OBSESSED with sex. You think you're horny? Multiply that by 10, that is what I'm talking about here. The reason guys never suspect this is because females CAN hide their arousal, guys can't. Half the time chicks in their everyday activities like during work or class are sitting there with soaking wet

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panties. I had a girl tell me onetime she loves getting off in class when she's bored. She'll just cross her legs and casually bop her knee up and down. Looks innocent right? Actually she's feeling the warm soft skin sliding across the inner-folds of her hot moistening pussy. She's literally sitting there stimulating herself and no one else can tell. Women are HIGHLY sensual and do little things like this ALL DAY LONG. Remember, they can hide their arousal and men cannot. Women LOVE feeling sexual tension and they create it with so many guys on a day-to-day basis. Women LOVE feeling that life-energy of being naughty, sexy, hot, and desired. Women are 10x hornier than men!!! And the funny thing is, most guys are total pussies and too afraid to fuck hot women, let alone a “perfect 10.” You can imagine why some of the HOTTEST women on the planet are some of the most sexually frustrated. Real pimps CAPITOLIZE on this. Women are horny freaks. But, as a man you have to be the one initiating the escalation. She's not going to do it for you. This rarely happens, unless a girl is really drunk or REALLY horny (even more than usual lol.) This whole program will unlock and polarize the deep wild raw feminine in all girls around you. They will basically want to tear your fucking clothes off, but a general rule-of-thumb is that you have got to go first. Lead lead lead! Yes, it DOES happen occasionally, but just don't count on it. Pull The Trigger And Close The Deal Nothing else matters unless you have the confidence to pull the trigger and actually FUCK these girls. All the phone numbers you get, giggles, touching, good reactions, fun conversations, grinding and dancing, even makeouts DON'T MEAN SHIT if you aren't pulling the trigger and actually fucking these girls.

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This whole section is set up to show you how to be a good end results getting guy. The funny paradox: 99% of guys out there are TERRIFIED of getting physical with girls, yet 99% of girls out there are ACHING for a guy to physically lead them to pleasure. No more boring chatty friend zone that kills her interest and leaves her despising you. Get Physical – FAST! Two Paths When first interacting with a Woman, she is seeing in you in one of two ways right from when she first lays eyes upon on you. She is either seeing you as a VERY REAL potential sexual partner (the Sexworthy cool guy) or she's seeing you as the boring nice guy wimpy friend, aka “the next guy of the night”, the 95% man. As soon as you begin interacting with her, you are heading in one direction. The longer you spend interacting with her, the further down one path you go.

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First Meeting You must set the tone of the interaction EARLY. I ALWAYS start of hugging girls right when I meet them.. “omg you're the most huggable chick I've ever seen”. I'll hug her and rub her back and say “omg you have the perfect body for hugs.. you're like a puzzle piece.” Or I'll say, “Wow! You're really warm you know that? That's good, that's a sign you're hot-blooded and filled with life. You have good oxygenation and blood circulation and that means you're really connected to the essence of life. People with cold hands and feet tend to be dull and boring and lack passion. Here let me feel your hands.” then I grab her hands as she giggles... “WOW these are warm. Okay you get another hug.” BAM! I'm basically ALL OVER these girls right from the get-go. When you start branching off the PHYSICAL path early, it makes all further escalation just NATURAL effortless and easy and FUN. Authentic Attraction~

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On the other hand, if you start off all boring platonic and chatty, and THEN you decide to escalate later down the line, it just feels foreign and weird and unnatural and the girl already categorized you as the next boring guy of the night who is too scared to touch or physically lead her. Two Paths. The further along down one path on the 'V' you get, the harder it is to jump back over to the other one. The girl will rarely ever see the nice boring chode guy as suddenly a sexworthy man when he's been acting like a chump for the past two and a half hours. More practical physical escalation examples: Always be hand shaking, high fiving, hugging, or saying cute things like “I'm sad girls, I need a kiss -and point to my cheek-”, or I'll move in close to her body and go “OMG IT *IS* YOU” and start smelling her deeply all over her neck and cleavage and go “OMG you smell so fucking good. What is that?” Or my all time favorite... anytime she says something cool and the interaction is going good I'll go “OMG THAT'S AWESOME IM SO TAKING YOU HOME WITH ME” go down and grab her legs and lift her up. It helps if you're physically strong, get in the squat rack, lol. After this I'll start walking away dragging her away from her friends totally (key) playful and JOKING. She'll probably be laughing and hitting your back. From hereon you can playfully smack her ass (& act unreactive when she scoffs at you), hug her then go in to kiss her, sexily nibble on her ears or blow hot air into them giving her goosebumps etc. It's all so easy when you establish the IT IS RIGHT TO GET PHYSICAL WITH YOU frame early so you develop warmth and comfort when you touch her. The idea here is you want to take your interactions with girls in the club from dull and boring platonic conversation that 95% of male chodes out there do night after night to sizzling, exciting, and sexually charged.

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Girls will be OBSESSED with you when you do this because so many guys care wayyyy too much about what they think and all hot girls are silently begging to be led by a strong man. Quit Wasting Time Life is short so don't waste time. Time is your most precious resource. You see, each time you go out, some girls will kinda like you, some girls will hate you, and some girls will be OBSESSED with you. Would you rather waste your time talking to some girl trying to use your verbal skills to find she blew you out and you wasted a whole 2 hours of your life and didn't get laid, or would you rather try to quickly kiss her or some other form of physical leading to find she was repulsed by it and then you NEXT! her and move on to a girl who is INTO IT and all over you from the get-go? Remember, the LESS physical you are, the MORE awkward. Courage and persistence and the ability to know what's best for her, aka LEADING her to pleasure are manly traits and hot women find very sexy and oftentimes irresistible. You'll find adopting these attitudes & behaviors creates a lot of attraction in females. It's almost overwhelming. Being bold is after all the highest form of attraction. Physically Leading Establish the LEADING FRAME early. This is crucial because when you go to pull her later or tell her to “take her panties off” it becomes just second nature, the next logical easy fun hot step for her to follow since you've already been leading her all night.

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You do this by leading the conversation first and foremost, taking charge, and moving her around physically. Subtle things like gently but firmly moving her arm away and saying, “That's a cool shirt, where'd you get it.” then “I think I'd dress you up in all black. Like a silky black. That'd be hot.” Etc. Don't get overly ridiculous with this. Just make sure you ARE leading in some way. Remember, calibration is key. Have some social acuity and intelligence, man! Don't lead her like a gorilla, but don't sit there quiet and shy like a nice guy wimp, either. Another thing I do is always grab a girl's hand and take her places. “It's too loud follow me.” expect a little resistance at first, they're just testing to see if you're a man or not. You MUST make the physical leading decisions for them. If you can become a guy who leads women physically and goes after what he wants with a fun persistence and doesn't give a shit about girl's emotions to you than you will get laid more than you could even possibly imagine. Talking Doesn't Get You Laid Physical leading is the quickest way to the bedroom and talking gets you nowhere. My buddy Brian is a fucking genius. He attends Harvard and has like a 4.2 GPA. He's athletic, good-looking, strong, and mentally sharp. He's a really cool intelligent guy who can blow you away with the most amazing intriguing stories, but (back in the day before I took him out with me and trained him up) he NEVER GOT LAID. I would see him out in field talking to a group of 3 hotties having them practically cooing and drooling and shrieking at his story,

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attraction through the roof. But then at the end of the night they just run off with some dumb-looking buff dude who just cavemans her in the corner and they start making out and we end up seeing them leave together. This happened AGAIN and AGAIN and AGAIN every time he went out. Why? Back to the basics... Girls are responding on a VERY PRIMAL level to the masculine core physically leading them. Remember, a girl responds to her emotions ALWAYS. Her feelings are the most important thing in the world. Talking doesn't turn girls on, unless it's a sexually-charged conversation. The quickest, fastest way to getting a girl hot and ready to sleep with you is to touch her. In all ways. A LOT. We covered that in extreme depth in the Club Game Chapter. Key Mindset Shift: You MUST MUST MUST begin getting physical with women or you will be left with a bunch of meaningless boring conversations that you never even wanted anyways. Stop wasting time. GET IN TOUCH WITH YOUR CORE INSTINCTS AND DESIRES and ACT ON THEM ACCORDINGLY! Fuck Getting Approval Most guys are scared to escalate on women because they fear rejection or they wont like them so instead they think if they can talk talk talk and get the girls to like them that way, they wont have to be a man and physically lead anymore because the girl will somehow be so attracted SHE will take responsibility for leading. This NEVER HAPPENS. You can get girls giggling and liking you all night with all the approval in the world and still NEVER get laid. You must not give a shit if the girl likes you or not and lead her like a man.

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Half the girls I fuck don't even like me. Like when we're back at my place she'll say “god you're such a pussy.” I'll look at her and go “shut the fuck up.” and pull her into me making out and then she'll go down on me gagging and spitting etc. Pickup is MESSY. It's a fuckin' warzone out there dude and part of being a man is getting what you want out of it. Lastly, always be leading her. Leading isn't just “get on my knees and blow me bitch”, it's the REALITY tone you set for all interactions. Leading with a COOL vibe, or simply looking at and relaxing her. How To Kiss A Girl A lot of guys ask me, “how do I go in for the kiss?” My answer, “It's simple. BY GOING FOR IT.” A lot of dudes aren't satisfied with this answer, but it's the best answer in the world and here's why: If you establish a warm & friendly socially touchy physically leading vibe (lol adjectives galore), kissing her is a breeze. You can do it within minutes, sometimes even seconds of meeting her. But the hands down BEST WAY way to go in for the kiss is to in a cocky way and just go for it. Just look at her with that knowing smile and GO FOR IT. If you don't have the balls or the reference experience to be fully congruent with this yet, you can use my training wheels. Mizu's Training Wheels: I start off by telling a girl, “Did you know there's 10,000 nerve-endings in the human ear? It's a pleasure center. Most people don't know this. Watch.” and then I'll start breathing hot air in her air, and then nibble it or suck on it gently. This will send goosebumps all over her and turn her on super quickly, SHE will probably go in for the kiss at that point. But right after that

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I'll just put my hands on her cheeks and kiss her. Easy. Remember to be physical the whole time, socially touching her A LOT so that this doesn't just come out of nowhere. If you've been rewarding her with hugs (You're from L.A.? OMG SICK, HUG TIME!) She'll be super warmed up and receptive to it. Guys only run into problems when they keep their distance, walk on eggshells, and talk and bore her all night THEN awkwardly go in for the kiss. She already feels so weird about it so when you do that it just SUCKS and fails (for BOTH of you.) But what if you go for it and she gives you the dreaded cheek? LICK IT. This will crack her up because it shows you think rejection is FUNNY and diffuses and tension or weird negative vibez that would have been created otherwise from most guys that take it personally or see these matters as the end of the Universe. This inspires a lot of attraction and then you can usually go for it again and she'll reciprocate. Remember, a lot of girls have learned to blow guys out to see if they are real men or not. If she walks off at the kiss, she would of walked away anyway 1 minute later. Remember, BURN YOUR SETS TO THE GROUND. A woman will always forgive you for being a man and going for it and being a little miscalibrated, but, a woman will not forgive you for not being a man and not going after what you want.

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Worse possible thing that can happen is she's not down and you'll have to try again later. 2 steps forward, 1 step back. When you escalate and get rejected, you didn't go from level 2 back to level 1, you went up to level 3 because you showed her you're a man. And when you're unreactive to her rejection (another feminine test), you show her you're a real Man who has that oh-so-sexy Masculine Polarity, which polarizes her and turns her on fast. You go from level 2 to level 4!!!! (Yes, even if you got the dreaded cheek you're still high value to her. LICK IT.) Being Non-Judgmental NEVER JUDGE A WOMAN ABOUT SEX. Pimp Secret: Guys that talk about how girls are “sluts” DONT GET LAID, or they fuck up their chances with the current girl(s) they're with. If a woman gets a whiff of this attitude of condemning other girl's naughty “slutty” sexual behavior she will be very unlikely to want to sleep and get “slutty” with you because she feels if she starts becoming sexually expressive early on you will be silently condemning that behavior. The solution? Use my field-tested AWESOME line. This gets girls so naughty and dripping wet so fast around me when we're back at my place it's not even funny. The line: “You know ______(girl name), society isn't fair, just because a woman is enjoying herself she's suddenly deemed a “slut” yet when a guy does it he's a “king” a “pimp”... stupidest shit I've ever heard.” <--- girls drool at this and give me the fuck-me eyes as soon as the words leave my mouth.

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95% guys (chodes) are the ones who are jealous of other guys getting laid so they sit there going around calling other women sluts. “Oh, she hooked up with you? Well duh, total slut bro.” Problem is, if a girl overhears you saying this, she wont get slutty for YOU. Also keep your fucking mouth shut. Women's reputation and social bonding in tribes is a HUGE survival instinct one of her strongest attributes. She might have been kicked out of the tribe and died if she cheated on the tribe leader or some other tribal-drama nonsense. Make it KNOWN that you NEVER touch and tell. You don't need the ego boost anyways, cool guys never do. This is why naturals are so attractive, they “naturally” do this so women find them safe to relax in their feminine around them, aka act like total horny little sluts. Enjoying Sex vs Ego Sex. Ready for a jaw-dropper? Most guys DONT LIKE or ENJOY Women or Sex! I know. It's crazy, but it's true. Since a very young age, every dude on the planet has been socially conditioned to feel like he is only truly a Man or Worthy or cool if he sleeps with a ridiculous amount of women. The more numbers, the greater the man. So, so many guys are out there trying to fill up this gaping hole in their self-esteem by trying to fill it with women by getting a bunch of notches on their belts. Problem is, that's like filling up a bucket with a hole in it.

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“Gaining power from conquering lots of women does not make a man strong. That leaves all the power in the hands of the women!” -David Shade Hate to break it to you man, but if you slept with one girl or you slept with 1000, you're still the same dude. Take it from a guy who has seen a lot of numbers: it doesn't change jack shit about you (minus the social experience and skills.) What I mean is, the CORE of you never changes. You're not “better” or “worse” if you sleep with 1 girl or 1000. It's all just more experience. So many guys out there are out “trying to get laid” not because they actually enjoy the feel or taste of a hot pussy or enjoy the sensation of peeling off a fresh new pair of panties on a new girl, but they're just in it for the satisfaction of their ego that they're “getting laid.” Most guys don't even enjoy talking to women!!!! They're just DESPERATE to fill up this gaping hole in their self-esteem by getting laid as fast as possible so they can now feel like a man and feel good about themselves. It's sad because these men in particular are missing the POINT of life... the experience! The journey. Savoring a beautiful woman and fully enjoying hot sex with her. Even when these guys do “finally get laid” they're STILL unhappy and just looking for the next amount of water to pour in their proverbial bucket with a hole in it. I did this shit for years. I went through some pretty dark times where I truly felt I was going insane and was contemplating suicide because I was hooking up with ALL THESE HOT GIRLS night after night, racking up my numbers, yet they were not satisfying me.

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For some reason I just continually felt empty inside and broken and almost like I couldn't fully enjoy it. All my friends thought I was fucking awesome, yet I felt like I was going fucking insane. This is every guys dream right? Like, I'd get done busting a nut all over some hot new girl's back, and then in the aftermath as she falls asleep next to me I'd literally sit there and feel like crying and shit contemplating the “meaning of it all” feeling all existential and shit. I quickly realized that all this shallow sex, this bodily pleasure and nothing else, WAS NOT SATISFYING ME. It was fucking fun sure, but I wanted so much more from life and Women. It was fun, but I realized drowning in a sea of pussy isn't exactly the best thing ever as newer guys might tend to think. Again, and I know we're getting deep here but you really need to hear this, even if you slept with one girl or you slept with 1000, you're still the same guy. Seriously contemplate that. Meditate on it even. Too many guys are getting into this game for the wrong reasons. They're not in it for the thrill of the pussy, but to massage their egos and feel better about themselves. “The Journey IS the Reward.” -Chinese Proverb Ultimately, it is YOUR experience. No one is going to hand you a million dollars when you wake up next to her. No one is going to give you a medal for fucking some girl at 4 in the morning. Even if you get backslaps from your boys and they're stoked for you, big fucking deal. What's the point? Pure enjoyment out of life FOR YOU! Learn to experience as much deep satisfaction and enjoyment from your sexual experiences with women as you possibly can.

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And better yet, learn to GIVE women these experiences... so many guys are out there just trying to nail girl after girl because that's what society says is cool, but they will soon find it's empty and can lead to a lot of dark times. Many players commonly report going through something similar to this. The key is to fuck a lot of women but for the RIGHT reasons. Not some little boy who is trying to enlarge his ego by racking up numbers, clinging to the form of the world that is all impermanent so he can feel better about himself. Instead, (and all cool guys have this) your desire to fuck lots and lots of women stems from your TRUE DESIRE to actually FUCK lots and lots of women. Pure enjoyment. You fuck lots of women because you LOVE women. It stems from a deep love and enjoyment of the feminine. All cool, normal, healthy guys have this mindset. They don't nail girls for revenge or to make themselves feel more whole or complete, they do it for the sheer PLEASURE and fun of the experience. Period. When most guys see a hot girl in a club they're not thinking “Oh my god look at her tits. Wow that ass, fuck she looks so sexy! Man I'd love to bust a nut while titty-fucking her on my bed tonight...” No, they're thinking, “Man my friends would think I'm so cool if I had that girl on my arm. Damn, I'd be badass if I nailed her. Girl numba' 57!” Push Your Boundaries Progressive Desensitization is an old psychology concept when you do something over and over that it just becomes the norm. Like, remember the very first time you went to a gym? How did it feel? Intimidating right? All these big buff dudes walking around effortlessly... you were practically in a daze. But, after a couple weeks you became like the guys just walking around. It became your home.

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You become used to it, or rather, you Progressively Desensitized your self to it. Another sweet example is people who have Arachnophobia (the fear of spiders.) What they do is start off by bringing a tarantula into the room inside of a glass cage with the person in the room. The person will FREAK OUT but they lock the door. After a while the person calms down. Next, they bring one out inside a barred cage so it can stick it's nasty little crawlers out. Shortly after that, they take it out of the cage as the person gets more and more used to and comfortable with it. Finally, they take it out of the cage. By this time, most of the people are literally holding the thing in their hand totally calm – it's their new little hairy harmless friend. When interacting with girls you must make a diligent effort to consistently move out of your comfort zone. Again, guys have been hearing that for years, but remember “To know and not to do is not to know.” Are you actually DOING this? “Let me see your pussy.” must become as normal and natural as saying “Hey, what's your name?” Be Bold and LEARN. Take a risk. You'll find she likes it. :) Retention Retention, or conserving your male life force energy (semen) is one of the oldest sacred practices for transmuting sexual energy into glowing radiant health, genius-level creativity, and overall increasing

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energy levels and uplifting your entire life experience. When I first started doing this all my lifts in the gym went up by 20lbs the first WEEK! As you learned previously Women & the Feminine is FORM. It's the World. It's light. The movement of love and life itself. So, most guys spend their thoughts and focus and desires on a woman's body from day-to-day. There's nothing wrong with that, unless it's all they are doing with their energy and mental focus. See, when you retain your sperm, your desire increases, but not just for Women and the feminine in it's physical form (a hot girl's body), but now you have a desire for ALL kinds of form. Meaning, you gain massive intelligence because you are now craving (and thinking about / focusing on) more knowledge, experiences, goals, the completion of projects, etc. The result? Enhanced intelligence and more depth to you being. This is because your attraction and desire to experience and engage with not only Women in their natural feminine physical form goes up, but your desire for LIFE goes up exponentially as well. This literally results in brilliance and genius-level consciousness. You'll notice great leaders in history who are highly intelligent have a very high sex drive, or that is to say, a very high desire for the feminine (form / engaging in the love of life itself.) The master of Taoist philosophy, Dr. Stephen Chang wrote: “When the average male ejaculates, he loses about one tablespoon of semen. According to scientific research, the nutritional value of this amount of semen is equal to that of two pieces of New York steak, ten eggs, six oranges, and two lemons combined. That includes proteins, vitamins, minerals, amino acids, everything… Ejaculation is often called ‘coming’. The precise word for it should be ‘going,’ because everything – the erection, vital energy, millions of live sperm, hormones, nutrients, even a little of the man’s personality

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goes away. It is a great sacrifice for the man, spirituality, mentally, and physically.” Every time you cum, you literally drain out vital hormones, nutrients, enzymes, energy, and LIFE FORCE. Think about it... your semen contains enough vital nuclear material to physically CREATE ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. It's kind of a big deal. You'll find when you stop jacking off and blowing your load carelessly all the time, you hormone count will go up (As well as your energy, intelligence, health, and passion for life.) When we talk about hormones, this means testosterone levels increase. The voice inside your head gets fucking FREAKY and scarily convincing when you don't ejaculate for extended periods of time. After two weeks of doing this shit I was literally about to tear every fucking hot girl's clothes off within a 10 mile radius off. Whereas before when I would see a hot girl and the chode dialogue in my head would be like “What should I say? I should go approach her. Man, I wonder what that dude standing near her will think...” total CHODE MODE, after 2 weeks it was like almost unbearable: “HOLY FUCK!!!!!! Just LOOK at that hottie's legs. Ohmygod so fucking smooth and sexy. Her tits look DIVINE. FUCK. I AM TALKING TO HER. NOW. RIGHT FUCKING NOW. GO! GO! GO! GO! GO! GO!” And before you know it she's giggling back at me as I'm talking about some random shit coming out of my mouth... no idea how I even approached her or wtf I am saying but it DOES NOT MATTER, SHE IS FUCKING HOT AND I WANT HER BAD. My dick starts leading me.

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Your primal brain literally starts taking you over. You become the fucking Man, unapologetically sexual and naturally escalating. Also, as a bonus, you truly SEE hot girls for the first time. Remember vibrational access? It's like this. When you have a bunch of sexual energy stored up and get REALLLYYY horny you start to access incredible depth in sexuality. Like, hot women come alive. I mean COME FUCKING ALIVE. I get chills it's so bad sometimes, like I can't even look away. They're just so goddam beautiful. Hint: What you feel she feels. Sometimes girls will just stare up at me with wide eyes drooling, totally polarized lol because that's how I'm feeling about her. But, you truly start seeing the DEPTH in females man. Like, they come FUCKING ALIVE. I cannot express it in any other way. The way she smells, tastes, her hot wet pussy and the way it feels as it slides up and down gripping your throbbing cock.. pulling her hair back and biting her neck as she moans and fully submits to you to be ravaged in mind, body, and spirit. Her soft submissive moans.. the way her whole body writhes in ecstasy in a sexy feminine love dance. Her hot ass and tits jiggling as you bounce her on your cock... Okay, I really need to enroll in Sex Addicts Anonymous. But seriously, the sexual experiences you have with girls when you conserve your semen is like the difference between fucking a blow-up doll and a REAL LIVE HOT GIRL. You just start to truly SEE and FEEL hot women, sexually.

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A lot of guys get this confused though thinking desire is somehow bad because desiring something implies you don't have it. Remember, the key to being an attractive sexy Masculine Mature Man is sexual NOT horny. You CAN feel horny, just don't seem desperate like it's the first girl you've ever had. That's why we covered that basic at the beginning of this chapter – remember, each piece is meant to build upon the next. When you feel sexual and aroused with a hot Woman after conserving semen, it's a different kind of horniness. It's not NEEDINESS from being a chode, it's pure DESIRE. There's a HUGE difference. It's like your best meal is enjoyed when you are starving or how water tastes the best when you're extremely thirsty. But imagine having no shortage of water or food. This is the mindset. Also ditch excessive porn. It desensitizes you to real world women and shallows you/conditions you to qualify a girl for just the surface level qualities. Bad bad bad! Ditch Porn Here's why: It gets hard to make eye contact with gorgeous women due to you thinking she's a sex object and that you're drooling at her. To be good with girls requires MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF SOCIAL REPETITION. Porn keeps you in a pattern with women going ”Next next next. Not hot enough. Next next next. Oh she's hot. *grabs dick*” So, in REALITY, you'll talk yourself out of the approach because you'll rationalize “oh those girls aren't hot enough” .. AS IF when the hot one comes you'll be totally ready to approach. Not jacking off to porn keeps you sensitive to REAL WORLD WOMEN, aka 7's and 8's, not total fucking 10's that take you 300 YouPorn videos to scroll through until you find them. When you approach “regular” girls and get good at

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interacting with them, when you finally do see the “Total 10” hottie you want, you've built a solid foundation and are super calibrated and you're ready to go, and pull her. It also conditions you to get good at APPROACHING WOMEN. Computers are fucking foreign. Men are not meant to be “rewarded” with the pleasure of a hot naked Woman's body unless we go step up to them and take it for ourselves in our own experience. Giving Her The Gift Of The Rush Sex is mutual value. Girls get just as much pleasure out of it as you do, if not more. A huge key natural click you need to have in your reality is that your dick is PURE VALUE for a girl. Your sexual escalation, that is to say making her feel hot and naughty, is PURE VALUE. It's that whole Go First principle. What if a girl did it to you? It's HOT. She feels the exact same way. Women are silently begging to be led and bent over by a physically dominant cool guy. Example: Say you're kicking it at the club, and suddenly out of nowhere a giggling honey in a short sexy skirt comes up to you. She playfully put her hand on your belly and slides it just above your crotch, STARING at your cock. She looks back up your face, licks her lips, giggles like the naughty girl she is, and then runs off. You're like FUCKKK!! Who WAS that girl?!?!?! She gave you a rush of naughty hot fun excitement and you WANT to go talk to her again.

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News flash guys, girls have sexual organs too. THEY FEEL THE SAME EXACT THING! You can give her the Gift Of The Rush. She can feel sexual pleasure just like you. That's why it's SO POWERFUL to tease hot girls with a good time. Sexually tease her frame: Maybe you'll LET her feel horny with you. Not slapping your dick at her face, but hinting at how she might possible get to taste your cock tonight. Get it? You can take this further and force her to feel pleasure. Girls love giving token resistance to be overcome by the masculine dominant stereotype as he forces her into submission and openness of her body and heart. A rape fantasy is a woman's favorite. Just remember, do it out of safety and love between two consenting adults and HAVE FUN! It's the masculine feminine playful dance of life at it's best :) Escalation Rejection Ignore reactions. Become immune to your girl's reactions and emotions. Take what you want FOR YOU and quit being apologetic about it. THE WORST WONT HAPPEN, rarely. I've been in the field a LONGGG time. The worst is that a girl will take your hand and move it off them, which you then think is FUNNY because you're not apologetic about your desires as a man. The reverse is true, when you're physically playful with girls they GIGGLE get horny and LIGHT UP! They want more and more. You REWARD them with your physical touch, it's like taking candy away from a baby when you stop. They just want more and more.

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Go First Women will NOT take responsibility for the escalation, even if she's dripping wet with desire. I had a girl onetime I was super chode with, finally I leaned in and kissed her, and she's like “OMFG IVE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU TO DO THAT ALL NIGHT” and as I went to finger her her panties were soaking wet.... she was super aroused the entire time we were back at my house but didn't make a single move!!!! Puzzle this into your own reality man. Imagine if you were talking to a hot girl the entire time with a raging boner. You're SO READY to just stick it inside her.. that's what she's feeling but it's up to you dude. Assume the best and tap that ho'! By taking the risk of the move first you show her you are a confident alpha male who goes after what he wants. PRESELECTION (a guy who confidently and expectantly escalates subcommunicates other girls he has escalated on have responded favorably so he gets laid all the time hitting the abundance alpha male leader switch in her brain, her sexual attraction for you immediately goes sky high) VS. a guy who is shaky and unconfident or unsure of what he is doing, who is not anticipating a positive result. Be unapologetic. Show girls you are a man who goes after what he wants without making any excuses. If she rejects you, too bad. You're still a man and you will not apologize for acting like one. Remember, all sexual escalation is PURE VALUE OFFERING. What if you had $10,000 cash in your pocket to hand to any lucky girl in the club, are you going to be nervous approaching her? Fuck no. Then why are you with your cock? Key Mindset: “How much pleasure will I allow her to feel right now?”

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The “she's dangerous” frame: It's like, UHOH we're both being drawn towards sex. This is getting out of control. Fuckkkkkkk. “Listen you seriously need to stop talking to me right now or I'm going to end up fucking you right on the bar over there.” This drives girls WILD. Lastly, remember that almost all Women walk around very sexually frustrated, most guys are “total pussys” - they WANT you to escalate. Remember, 5% of guys effortlessly sleep with ALL THE HOT WOMEN because the other 95% of males leave them sexually frustrated and pissed off, so when a guy comes by and even HALF-ASS escalates on her, she goes buck-fucking-wild. Women LOVE sex. Don't forget it. Being Unapologetic About Your Core Desires As A Man Escalating on girls must come from a high self-esteem place that is both completely natural and SHAME FREE. Think of it like a little boy reaching for a cookie on the table. He's not feeling bad if his hand misses it. He's not dealing with cookie-grab anxiety. He's thinking; “COOKIE. MINE.” Example: Escalate by kissing and she turns her head YOUR VALUE GOES THROUGH THE FUCKING ROOF, go “awwwww...” with a smile. Chodes have a girl turn away and go “Oh sorry sorry did I upset you? What can I do to make it up to you? I'm so sorry for my desires!!!” Getting rejected from escalating is HIGH VALUE, it shows as a man you go for what you want. When you escalate and get rejected you don't go from step 2 to step 1, you go from step 2 to step 3. It shows her you're a MAN.

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Escalation Windows This is something you must gain an intuitive sense for from inside the field, but I'll allude to it here so that you can gain some awareness about it. Basically, in your interactions with girls, you will suddenly feel her looking at you funny. Or there will be a brief pause in the interaction or a gap. Or maybe it will be subtle like she'll squeeze your hand really hard when you're making out as an indication to take thing further, whatever. The point is, these critical moments are Escalation Windows. There's a problem though. If you miss the window and don't jump through it within SECONDS if it coming up (and you'll know it), she will lose interest FAST. You just have to FEEL it, like you'll be talking and she'll kind of keep looking at you without saying anything and you get the gut feeling it's time to kiss her now. It stems from pure intuition. When these happen, have a pair and ESCALATE ON THE GIRL, or she's going to move on to some other fun masculine guy who will. Token resistance is also just anti-slut defense. When you break through it women become MUCH MORE attracted to you. Back in my choden days, I was making out hot & heavy with my very first girlfriend and went to take her panties off. As I began to pull them down she puts her hand on my arm to stop me and weakly goes, “nooo!” I'm like, “Oh alright.” I stop and keep making out with her. She then gets FUCKING PISSED and HITS ME and goes, “UGHHH YOU IDIOT!”

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Then looks all embarrassed and blushes and says, “Sorry! I didn't mean that!!!” and she started nervously laughing and blushing. Her feminine core was speaking to me earlier, and she covered it up socially. She WANTS a masculine man to press through her little “token resistance” and fuck her open. That's the feminine game, to put up resistance and to be overcome. Remember, when girls are fingering themselves they're fantasizing about rape or bondage fantasies. They deeply get off on this dynamic. Girls also don't want to look like sluts so they think you are seeing them in a better light if they don't act all “easy”. Remember, so many guys out there are condemning women's natural behavior calling them “sluts” and shit, so they think they need to act all “proper” around guys. It's her own form of supplication to you. She thinks you're thinking highly of her when she isn't being so “easy”, it's her way to GAME YOU. Remember that Basic? Girl's game guys! Not “Getting” Pussy, You're GIVING Dick. Experienced guys know what I'm talking about, but for all the newbies out there; after fucking lots and lots of girls it really starts to click for you, when you put your dick in them and watch as you penetrate them they tilt their head back and moan and their whole body writhes in ecstasy you realize truly how much girls LOVE dick. They love riding cock and they LOVE getting fucked. It's inherent value walking up, you can give her that gift. A dildo cannot pull hair. Retarded Sexualization: I do this a lot in my interactions with women. I'll give her a high five and go, “no...HARDER.” or if she's like “Yeah I really like to study in the library.” I'll go “Fuck, that's so HOT.” You're subtly making things that are normally not sexual HARDCORE SEXUAL in order to sexualize the situation and get her heading and thinking in that general direction.

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Last Minute Resistance So, you get a girl back to your place. You're making out on the couch. It's getting hot. It's on. Next thing you know, you're fingering her, she's dripping wet and moaning. You're hard. You go for the condom. She SNAPS out of state, “Oh nooo I don't sleep with guys unless they're boyfriends I love..” or some other nonsense. What do you do here? NOT what 95% men do... The key is to truly DGAF. Most chodes in this situation (who are desperate and horny... remember SEXUAL not horny/needy) will FREAK OUT or act all butthurt about it. Remember, being reactive is a bitch’s trait, feminine energy. Cool guys that live in total pussy abundance (who have probably fucked 2 girls earlier that day) just TRULY don't care or see it as a big deal when a girl doesn't want to feel good with them. It's her issue. So just act cool man. Tell her it's all good, “Want a glass of water?” When you're truly authentically cool about this, girls will FLIP. So many chicks tell me all the time (well, back in the day, rarely get LMR anymore these days..), “OMG you're not MAD?!?!?!” Again, so many other guys FREAK OUT and get all pissed off at her trying to logically “convince” her to have sex with them. “COME ON, DONT YOU THIK WE HAVE A CONNECTION. COME ON IM CLEAN I PROMISE, I REALLY LIKE YOU!! YOU'RE SPECIAL, I'LL CALL YOU TOMORROW I PROMISE!!” .. they just appear more and more

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desperate and needy which serves to TURN HER OFF and shut her down even more. Handing LMR: The guy who is truly laid-back and cool about it, is the guy that eventually gets it. Take two steps back, one step forward. Get up out of bed, go grab some water, come back and try again later. When she sees you didn't FREAK OUT like most men have in the past, she will feel much more safer with “giving it up to you” because you're now trustworthy.

CONCLUSION Always be touching girls. This will take care of so many “problems” you have in-field man it's not even funny. I've turned guys into full pimps just by teaching them some basic physical escalation tactics mentioned above. You will be BLOWN AWAY how much women respond to this stuff. Always be touching her. ALWAYS. Examples: “Awww Sarah!” Grab her arm. “Hey you know what” -hands on shoulders firmly- bla bla bla! Women get secretly SUPER turned on when you touch them, even socially. Remember, girls can hide their arousal. A particular story that comes to mind is the first time I was trying this physical dominance shit out to see how effective it was in field. Long story short, I pulled a girl back and she was SOAKING WET, when I commented she blushed and she said it was because of “what I was doing to her all night” which just consisted of the stuff I've shared with you on this chapter and accompanying disc; hugging, playful handshakes, picking her up a lot, playfully spanking her, etc.

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Last most important piece: KEEP IT CALIBRATED. Make it FEEL natural. Touch her because you WANT to touch her. Don't touch her because you feel you “need” to in order to build attraction or some other bullshit. Do it because it's from your CORE and you WANT to. This is what she will respond to most. Remember, what you feel she feels. If you feel RIGHT about escalating on her, she will feel RIGHT with letting you. Final Escalation Keys: Babies die without intimate touch, humans beings touching each other is NORMAL and COOL. Women LOVE getting physical contact from a masculine guy. But you have to be a cool, dominant fully-aligned unapologetic guy who escalates FOR HER SAKE. Lead her to the treasure room. She's a lost little girly who doesn't know what is best for her. Be a Man and SHOW HER. Lastly, always remember to get physical FAST and don't care whether or not she approves or not because you do not apologize for taking what you want out of life or for your core desires as a man. If she doesn't like you kissing her or taking off her panties w/e seriously consider that she is stupid (or possibly even retarded) because you're escalating FOR HER. The attitude is, “Come here bitch, I love you.” nooo.. we're not making love.. “Shut the fuck up.” -pulls her in closeRemember, you are escalating on these women FOR THEIR SAKE. Masculine dominance and it's duty is to fuck her open to GOD / love, and she surrenders her body and heart to you.

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Lastly, the feminine submits, the masculine TAKES and RAVAGES. Both get off in their roles, respectively. When in doubt, follow your Dick not your mind. It's your innate wisdom of the penis, consult your dick for what to do next. MISSION – Please see pg. 7 of the Authentic King Workbook.

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INTRODUCTION A huge benefit of developing tight inner game is walking through the world with total comfort and ease, wherever you go. Developing rock solid inner game feels a lot like dramatically expanding your comfort zone so much that things that seem to be a big stretch for you now will become child's play in the future. Imagine the club is your home as you walk downstairs from your bedroom to take a piss and are wondering “Who are all these strangers in my den dancing?” That's the vibe tight inner game will bring you, everywhere you go. Totally relaxed. The UNIVERSE is your home, and people are guests in your reality. ESPECIALLY hot girls. You must make your new comfort zone out at a night club talking to people and women regularly. A 5% man has rock-solid inner game. I read in some science magazine onetime that a 5-year study was done and 95% of the male population has an average of 6 sexual partners in their lifetime, and many men die virgins. Why? Because they never get past their own internal walls and blocks. Yet, some men are liberated from a young age and realize there are virtually no walls. They walk up to girls, pull them with ease and take them home and bed them. Again and again, night after night. These 5% of men are the one's who sleep with ALL THE WOMEN. So, what are these guys doing differently? How is it that some guys only sleep with a few chicks their whole lives, and then other guys have slept with like fucking HUNDREDS, literally. Threesome after threesome after threesome. So what's the difference? It's all about their own internal reality maps and self-imposed INTERNAL BLOCKS.

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These guys ARE NOT SUPERHEROES, they have two hands a dick and eyeballs just like you, they just don't limit or mentally cripple themselves and realize when they're unstifled women let them do whatever they want, so they focus their mind in such a way to remain in this state practically ALL THE TIME around the opposite sex. Compare Yourself Only To You The first killer piece. Life is a lot like running race. Everyone is trying to achieve their own unique life goals, desires and dreams running down their own path. At any point when you “peek over the wall” to see how the next guy is doing, or whether or not you are ahead of him in the race in some area, you LOSE MOMENTUM and immediately slow down. In other words, comparing yourself to others fucks up your own progress. True alpha guys never engage in these petty modes of thinking. They are always focused on how they can become better than they were yesterday. They compare themselves only to THEM and their own progress. Anything other than that is completely fucking useless. Emotional Guidance is UNIQUE to your soul. Your desires, preferences, and goals and no one else's. Imagine two different guys at a marijuana convention, one guy would be stoked, the other would be freaking out with boredom and annoyance. Not everyone's emotions respond to the same thing, again your unique perspective and desires are INCREDIBLY valuable because they add variety to the spice of life and enhance All-That-Is in the eternal unfolding expansion and evolution of the Universe.

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Narcissism Is Sexy When you truly like yourself you have fun easier, which draws people into your awesome reality and pumps girls full of positive emotions. Key Mindset Shift #1: YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT OBJECT IN YOUR REALITY. You are a GIFT to women. Opening their hearts and bodies to levels of joy and pleasure they've never imagined before. When you approach girls at a table tell them “SCOOT OVER AND MAKE ROOM” they're LUCKY to have you in their presence. If you say something sexual and she gives token resistance like the flick of an disapproving eye, truly find this FUNNY because she's throwing away the million dollars. Key Mindset Shift #2: You're the Shit, everything affirms this. Everything. Square peg in a circular hole, no reality outside of this fits. If a girl backturns you it was because you were too hot to handle. Cool men have this delusional sense of coolness. Even when their “reality” (just a vibrational indicator... a brief snapshot in time) is showing them they're not cool, they MAKE it mean they are fucking cool. It's always on. Even when she's rejecting you she still wants you, because you're The Shit. Pepé Le Pew style. Alpha men with tight inner game ignore the opinions of others. The only opinion they deeply value is their own. Imagine you live in a mansion with a harem, have billions of dollars and all the friends in the world, you decide to walk down the street and some guy comes up to you and goes, “Dude you're so lame, look at your clothes!” It becomes LAUGHABLE. Why? cuz' you're The Shit.

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The Pure Effortless Expression Threshold Solid inner game will consistently put you in a HIGHLY attractive state to women. I like to get all nerd with it and break these concepts down. I call it “The pure effortless expression threshold.” It's basically another potent form of NOT TRYING TO IMPRESS, which subcommunicates High Value and makes hot girls HORNY and WET. The vibe is like; Hey girls, why are you NOT talking to me?????? I'M THE SHIT! OF COURSE these girls are talking to me, cuz I'm fuckin' AWESOME. Total self amused mode. 100% expression, 0% care for impressing. You feel so free, you can walk up to chicks and say “hey, check out my man dance” and then do this gay little spin move and they'll start BUSTING UP. This is the golden point of your night when you hit true indifference to what others think of you and begin to have your own authentic fun. The feeling is like you almost can't contain it, because you are so awesome and must let the the girls in the venue know. Perfection Syndrome You will NEVER be perfect and “arrive” so stop trying to be 100% perfect. YOU are enough! Pickup is dirty. You can do it poorly but do it period. Guys try to be James Bond in the club and they don't realize not only is this unrealistic, but it's unhealthy. It's important to have goals but don't beat the fucking shit out of yourself if you're not flawless. The ego doesn't like this truth but the more mistakes you make with women, the faster you improve. The more you fail the more you learn, it's just that simple.

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Cracks in your old personality become lovable cute dorky quirks that girls think are adorable. “Awww he felt scared for a second, or insecure. He's a shy guy with a big dick.” When you start acting from your core and act in a way that is attractive... but if it's the other way around then girls are all WTF. Alright! This brings us to THE CHODE PARADOX. The chode paradox is to WANT to get laid, but at the same time totally release outcome of getting laid. Remember, the LESS you care about getting laid the MORE you get laid. When you chase results you look needy creepy tense calculate and desperate. No one wants to be around this negative guy on a Friday night. SO lighten the load, and go out to HAVE FUN and that's it. You'll find you'll get laid way more the less you give a damn. Any time you find yourself being stiff or tense or reaction seeking in your interaction repeat this mentally “Stop Trying.” that should put you in the right mood. Empty Your Cup A learned man once went to a Zen master to inquire about Zen. As the Zen master talked, the learned man would frequently interrupt him with remarks like "Oh yes, we have that too", and so forth. Finally the Zen master stopped talking and began to serve tea to the learned man; however he kept on pouring and the teacup overflowed. "Enough! No more can go into the cup!" the learned man interrupted. "Indeed, I see," answered the Zen master. "If you do not first empty your cup, how can you taste my cup of tea?" (Taken from Artist Of Life, by Bruce Lee) Your “knowledge” is a tiny drop in the massive sea of consciousness. The less you know, the more you know. Two ears, one mouth, use

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them proportionately. A wise man does not speak. Classic sayings. Guys who have the most pickup information finish last. They are trying to cram all these concepts at the girl in front of them completely ignoring their own intuitive guidance and resulting calibration that can only come IN THE MOMENT. Stilling your mind, feeling good with clean focus, and simply talking with lots and lots of girls will solve A LOT of your problems. You know deep down what to do. That's why my Authentic Attraction System isn't about spoonfeeding or hand-holding. I believe in self-empowerment. You must begin to walk into a situations with no “reality shields” or “mind maps” and learn to rely on nothing but your own naked awareness, this is another way to look at core confidence. Being dynamic on your own two feet. So ditch your knowledge. It holds you back. You will learn SO MUCH in field with just one night of going out to a club approaching hot girls with a still mind and relying on nothing but your own intuitive Emotional Guidance (dictated to you by your Higher Self) from moment to moment to moment. Follow your bliss~ Taking Action In life or in pickup, action is the name of the game. The guys that expand and grow, who learn the fastest and get the most out of their life have one thing in common: they take massive ACTION. THE NAME OF THE GAME IS ACTION. Men who take action are successful, men who don't are not. In life, finances or women, it's all about ACTION.

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Action produces transformation. If you will just GO OUT consistently and approach lots and lots of women & people, you'll find all your problems auto-correcting. The field is KING. It's fun! It's TORTURE staying locked up inside your mind and/or bedroom. Your Purpose “Without a conscious life-purpose a man is totally lost, drifting, adapting to events rather than creating events. Without knowing his life-purpose a man lives a weakened, impotent existence, perhaps eventually becoming even sexually impotent or prone to mechanical and disinterested sex The core of your life is your purpose. Everything in your life, from your diet to your career, must be aligned with your purpose if you are to act with coherence and integrity in the world. If you know your purpose, your deepest desire, then the secret of success is to discipline your life so that you support your deepest purpose and minimize distractions and detours. But if you don't know your deepest desire, then you can’t align your life to it. Everything in your life is dissociated from your core. You go to work, but since its not connected to your deepest purpose it is just a job, a way to earn money. You go through your daily round with your family and friends, but each moment is just another in a long string of moments, going nowhere, not inherently profound. Disconnected from your core, you feel weak. This empty feeling will undermine not only your 'erection' in the world, but your erection with your woman, too. However, when you know your true purpose, which is your core desire in life, each moment can become a full expression of your core desire. Every instant of career, every instant

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of intimacy, is filled with the power of your heart purpose. You are no longer just going through the motions at work and with your woman, but you are living the truth of your life, and giving the gifts of your life, moment by moment Such a life is complete unto itself in every instant. The superior man is not seeking for fulfillment through work and woman, because he is already full. For him, work and intimacy are opportunities to give his gifts, and be vanished in bliss of the giving. This is the Way of superior Man." (Excerpted from The Way of the Superior Man, by David Deida) I once heard some song lyrics, “I will NOT stand in reflection of someone else's dream.” I immediately sat bolt upright in my bed as this deeply resonated with me. A huge part of living a full life is getting your path and purpose, aka your MISSION. Your vision of the world, that your ideal dream is yours to create. If you don't you're just fueling someone else's vision and giving them a free life. If you work a job you're fueling your boss's dream. Stop being a beta bitch. It's time to step the fuck up and dominate YOUR life for YOU. If you don't know it, DISCOVER IT, NOW. A Man truly on his path is rare. 95% of guys are Chode society cubicles, women ACHING to find a guy with a spark of passion in his eyes. Girls tell me all the time when they look in a man's eyes it's like he's dead inside. That's why when girls find me, I'm so full of life it's friggin' ridiculous so they're all “omg who is this guy?!?!” The other people in your closest main social circle ultimately should support your mission. Find out what group/tribe of people you belong to and make the bonds accordingly.

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Develop a Burning Desire. It's your key to everything. Last important piece: DEFINE YOUR DREAM. A ship without a rudder can never leave the harbor. A zen arrow, must know what to hit. When you're truly on your path in life it grant you a sense of Entitlement. Your personal excellence shapes your behavior around Women. Visualize, DAILY. Not Now = NEVER Fuck the future, it never comes. Now is it. Look around your room right now. This is it, man. This is YOUR LIFE. This is all it's going to be, moment-to-moment to moment. Stop leap-frogging over the present moment or dwelling in some fantasy imaginary “great tomorrow” that will NEVER COME. One day you will be an old man looking back from on your deathbed. What was it all for? What was the point of this journey? It was for YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE. Your life is YOURS and no one else's so STOP GIVING A FUCK WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK! Run your own race, man! That's why I emphasized so much Enjoying Sex vs Ego Sex. At the end of the day, even if everybody thought you were cool, who gives a shit. Did YOU fully enjoy hooking up with those girls? Life is a journey, the journey IS the reward. Some nights you'll go out and a cutie will run up and grab you and you'll be flirting with her friends and they'll be all over you and you'r emotions are riding high

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and you have a blast and end up fucking both of them, other nights you'll go out and feel like a chode and start struggling through your sets knowing you suck getting blow out after blow out and walking home feeling like crying etc... ENJOY THE RIDE. ALL OF IT. Think the blowouts or the hot sex is FUNNY. Life is just a big buffet of experiences and it's all about the ride. The NOW moment. THIS MOMENT. Wherever you are, right here RIGHT NOW is the time to have fun and start living your dreams. Life is a journey, go out and enjoy it. In the east they call a day the rise and fall of 10,000 things. So quit clinging to things, or even some imaginary fantasy future that will just be another impermanent form when you “Get there”. The point is to enjoy it all RIGHT NOW!!! If you're procrastinating or putting off reading books, or working on your PURPOSE OR MISSION IN LIFE or approaching girls, whatever – you NEVER will. Not Now = NEVER. Obstacles Bottom Line: Never let anything get in your way. A key to being a strong, masculine guy is to just handle shit and bend reality for the better when shit gets tough. Whereas the feminine would break down and cry being totally absorbed by the energy of the situation, a Man has powerful innate-ability of clarity and logic to forcefully break open his world into love and bliss (or his woman) and fulfill his dreams. WHO AM I?!?!

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“For a Warrior, nothing is higher than the war against evil. The warrior confronted with such a war should be pleased, Arjuna, for it comes as an open gate to heaven. But if you do not participate in this battle against evil, you will incur sin, violating your dharma and your honor.” -Krishna, The Bhagavad Gita. All great men have seen incredible obstacles just before their greatest successful moment. Soichiro Honda, when his factory was destroyed after he invested his entire life and monetary means into it, he didn't complain once and just started over from the ground up. It's almost like some big Divine Joke – to test and see how truly dedicated you are to your purpose and MISSION. The Universe (and your Woman) needs to know you are not pussyfooting around and will stop at nothing to open her up into love, or in terms of worldly goals; actualize your dream. From mind fantasy to bonafide REALITY. This is your innate clarity as a Man. Your deep masculine gift to Women and the world. Make NO EXCUSES. Most guys let things stop them. If someone put a gun to your mom's head and said I'm going to pull the trigger if you don't approach ten girls tonight, you would damn well do it. No matter how messy it is, achieve your goal to the end. Rain or shine, make it happen. Girls will give token resistance or play hard to get etc challenging you (and so will the World) but you have to LEAD them into love and ecstasy aka HOT SEX or fun or whatever the moment calls for your masculine leadership.

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Commitment One of my wise teachers said that the West is, ”Knowledge of many, master of none.” People just dabble from shiny new thing to shiny new thing. With the invention of technology we have SO MUCH choice and resources at our fingertips. The problem is dabbling gets you NOWHERE. Begin to see the depth in things and truly take the time to master the essence of one thing before moving on. Remember, Master The Basics. Stop information seeking and start APPLYING. Chances are, you probably “KNOW” everything you need to know to be successful and have a blast for the next 8 lifetimes, you just need to start DOING and APPLYING what is now stored up inside your head. Taking Full Responsibility Blame nothing external, remember that's feminine energy (allowing her environment to dictate her actions and moods), aka Vicky – the victim mindset. Vicky the BITCH. Even a victim scenario like rape or torture is SELF-CREATED and attracted into your own life experience by repeated negative thoughts and fearful vibrations. Even when you feel and believe you are powerless, you are the God condemning himself or “Sleeping under your own spell” as Neville Goddard put it. You believe (continually think) you are powerless and weak? The Universe bows down and agrees. You are the creator of your own reality. What story or you telling yourself daily? Change it.

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Girls are not “bitches” or mean, YOU suck. A real Man can open up any woman's heart and have her cooing in his palm like puddy. Quit making excuses. ”The music is too loud.” “this club sucks” “the girls are cold and bitchy here” “those girl's aren't hot enough” BULLSHIT. Excuses Excuses Excuses. Anytime a buddy of mine gets blown out and is like “she was a bitch bro”, I always say, “was she the bitch bro, or were you?” Fear Fear is scarier than what you're actually afraid of. Boom there's a hot girl, you're nervous to approach. WHY? You think she wont like you or you'll act weird... That's just Resistance to your Higher Self. ANY TIME YOU FEEL NEGATIVE EMOTION YOU ARE FOCUSING ON THE SOMETHING YOU DO NOT WANT OR THE LACK OF IT. Without fear your sets will become liberated and you will begin tapping into your inner natural, that's why I emphasize so much spirituality work because when you attain higher levels of awareness you literally become fearless in all situations. Life becomes the lucid dream. Once you become proficient at walking up to women on a regular basis, you will see a massive increase in the results you will be getting. Be in the Now and realize all fear is an illusion.

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Anxiety stems from the WHAT IF mind virus. When you actually DO approach the set you'll find nothing bad happens. Make the move for the sake of the move. Like, go for her hand not thinking a single step ahead. OUTCOME INDEPENDENCE. NOT ATTACHED TO ANY OUTCOME FREES YOU. And if it does come true... You can always handle the worst. STAY IN YOUR NOW. Execute A lot of guys already KNOW what to do. They have all these dreams and fancy ideas, but will they bite the bullet and actually EXECUTE these ideas? Have you ever heard someone say “man I've got so many ideas, I could be a millionaire at any time...” Do or do not, there is no try. Why are you not executing? Is it a matter of not knowing when or how to do something? Is it a matter of being afraid? Have NO REGRETS. You never regret action, you regret inaction. Even if you get blown the fuck out AT LEAST YOU WENT IN. It's WORSE beating yourself up when you DON'T go in. Learn. Do It Or Don't Do or do not, there is no try. As humans, we have an INFINITE capacity for self-deception. What this means is our minds will rationalize so much bullshit to us. You have to learn to cut through the shit and truly monitor your behavior. We tend to think we are in control but most people are like robots each day acting out the same engrained behavior patterns.

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Get very conscious of self-deception in the form of rationalization and remember the key lesson here; if you're not doing it, you're not doing. What I mean is a lot of guys will go to a club and then begin rationalizing to themselves out of an approach like “I'll wait till the club gets more full” or “I think I'll just sit back and talk to my buddies and approach later when I'm more comfortable.” IF YOU'RE NOT DOING IT, YOU'RE NOT DOING IT. NOT NOW = NEVER. This pattern can be seen in all areas of life. People wont start that new diet until monday comes around. Or, they'll start reading 2 books a week starting next month... or or or... There's so many ways we rationalize our chodey behavior to ourselves to talk ourselves out of doing the most important action. Become keenly aware of this tendency in your self and squash it whenever it comes up in the moment by doing the thing, whatever it may be, no excuses. Stop Caring What Others Think Aim for expressing and being authentic, not a watered down version of you. Aka the “Social Chameleon.” When you put up a front and not be your true self around other people (or Women) just to get them to like you, you deprive yourself of authentic & genuine human interaction which is ESSENTIAL to developing a tight inner game. Shallow popularity trying to put an image of a cool guy to everyone you'll still feel alone. True friends. Be in your own reality, always. Your own inner guidance over others opinions / caring what people think and you'll become an inspiring leader. People who keep pinging off each other just become confused sheep.

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Locus of control: Peoples approval and opinions of you are OUTSIDE YOUR CONTROL In life don’t drain energy on shit you cannot control, waste of fucking time. Be who you want to be and no one can say shit because you're allowing them to be who they want to be. LEVELS OF REALITY & SELF PERMISSION. When you start getting good it's almost like you have climbed a latter and now see others operating in lower modes than you. Like, you'll walk into a party and be in the Matrix.. you can see the guys who care what people think of them stifled in the corner, you can see the cool guys too and they see you. Game recognizes game. Quality recognizes quality. It's ALL About Belief This may very well be the most important concept you will ever read. Please get your teachability to a 10/10 and your Willingness To Accept Change to an 11/10. In fact, if I were you, I would copy this little section right here into a word document, print it out, and read it daily. It's that important. Beliefs shape your world. Beliefs create your reality. If you think you can, you're right. If you think you can't – your right. Many new sciences are confirming that it is not the actual food that is placed in your body that has the most dramatic effect on your cells, rather, it is the BELIEF about what that food is going to do to you. You are GOD. You are an infinite creator in His image, who can be so under his own spell dreaming his own illusion, that you don't even realize you have put limitations on you. Your soul is creating a lesson. If you don't think you can build muscles, you can't and never will. If

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you don't think you can heal and influence your own eyesight PERMANENTLY, you won't and never I will. (I did, from 200/20 to 20/20. How? IT'S. ALL. ABOUT. BELIEF.) Get in CONSCIOUS touch with your core beliefs. Any word you utter becomes real. Remember the greatest Earth teachers, Jesus (Yeshua Ben Joseph) to be the most popular all said the same thing. “Behold God.” THIS. MOMENT. RIGHT. NOW. You are creating. All of it. It's all your creation. What you believe and think happens, does. Who you think you are, you Are. Reality cannot exist outside of your beliefs. Once you get this, and I mean TRULY deeply get this, it will become the most liberating day in your lifetime. You will truly wake up and GET who you really Are. "He that believeth on me," said Jesus, "the works that I do shall he do also; and greater works than these shall he do." "If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you." "For verily I say unto you, that whosoever shall say unto this mountain, Be thou removed, and be thou cast into the sea; and shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that those things which he saith shall come to pass; he shall have whatsoever he saith." "The kingdom of God is within you." Your true, and only power, remains in THIS moment. You CANNOT create outside of your beliefs.

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You can't heal your body if you think it's dematerializing or sickly. You cannot be immortal if you think you are aging and growing weaker and dying. You cannot build muscle if you don't THINK your muscles are growing or staying big. You cannot pick her up and have sex with her if you do not believe that you can and it WILL happen, tonight. If you think you have no power, and you don't create your own reality and body, you are right. You have none. The Universe bows down to your command. If you think there's no easy way out of your mental negative conditioning and crippling ego, you're right. Isn't that just another belief? If you think you are fat and can't lose weight or get a six pack, you wont. If you think you are poor and getting lots of money is hard and will never happen for you – you won't. There is really nothing else to say. It is truly that simple. STOP putting limits on yourself. STOP using your innate Divine creative in His image Godforce life power to cripple and create negative things in your life. Awaken and realize you are infinite. You. Create. Your. Own. Reality. NOW. And NOW. And NOW. And... Some of you might truly get it, some of you might not. Some may read these words and think, “Oh gee that's nice. Yeah... sure... whatever Mizu.” And go about their lives, sleeping under their own spell. But they didn't realize they just created another belief, and their reality bows down accordingly. You have no power? You're right! If you want a quantum jump, you can have it. Miracles are happening more and more everyday as people wake up to who they really are.

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"If you think you are beaten, you are; If you think you dare not, you don't; If you'd like to win, but you think you can't, It's almost a cinch you won't; If you think you'll lose, you've lost, For out in the world you'll find Success begins with a fellow's will— It's all in the state of mind. Full many a race is lost Ere even a race is run, And many a coward fails Ere even his work's begun. Think big, and your deeds will grow, Think small and you fall behind, Think that you can, and you will; It's all in the state of mind. If you think you are outclassed, you are; You've got to think high to rise; You've got to be sure of yourself before You can ever win a prize. Life's battle doesn't always go To the stronger or faster man; But sooner or later, the man who wins Is the fellow who thinks he can." -Anon Stop looking outside of yourself. Your true power is within. All great masters and teachers have ever pointed within you. Anything ANY other being on this planet can do, so can you. Let that inspire you. You can truly have, be, or do ANYTHING you want.

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If you believe you can. Keys To Building A Solid Identity No ego frees you, as you become unlimited, but... Ego has a function, so make it a LIBERATING ONE. Any time you assigning yourself a label or identity (ego) you limit yourself in some way. Who you think you are is powerful and influences your behavior and actions (and results) in a lot of ways. Beliefs are simply thoughts you keep thinking. For example, what if you woke up today with amnesia? Would any of your problems affect you? Nope. Why? Because all beliefs are just thoughts you keep thinking over and over again, and due to Law Of Attraction it's making it really hard to think differently. Repeated thoughts become your attraction set point, aka your beliefs, which then become knowings. Once a belief becomes a knowing, it becomes your REALITY. So, to establish a new identity continually focus on new “pure” affirmations. Key: they MUST feel good to you, then you know you're on track. You must practice these knew thoughts that will feel foreign at first until they become automatic and easy, which they will then become your new vibrational Set Point and will soon become repeated thoughts which become beliefs which become knowings which become your REALITY. Please see the mission in the workbook for more information. Nothing external in the world limits you, all blocks exist inside your head. YOU and you only liberate AND/OR cripple yourself. Develop an identity that is dynamic, becoming a man who can HANDLE SHIT. It's not all fantasy unicorns and rainbows out there. You MUST be able to fight on your two feet. On your toes, dynamic and engaging with the WORLD and REALITY, not

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your mind and it's illusions. Make sure you develop an identity that is freely sexual. This will help you out a ton when interacting with hot women. Positivity. Make this a huge part of your identity. No matter how bad the set was always ask yourself after “What did I do right?” No matter how small or insignificant. Whatever you focus on EXPANDS AND GROWS, whether that be beating yourself up or patting yourself on the back for approaching those bitchy looking dimes twirling their hair at the bar. You stepped the fuck up, something 95% of guys in that venue couldn't even do, and never will. Train your mind to seek only the goodfeeling positive memories and discard the rest. Beliefs by nature are typically delusional. Become the delusional cool positive guy. Authenticity The Self Is Always Coming Through. The face shows ALL. I've tried to explain this to a lot of different people in a lot of different ways, but the best metaphor I can come up with is this: You're like a glass wall. Your inside is like a mirror on the outside. The feminine, and socially aware people, can tell where you are at every moment. You can't hide. This is why if you're a cool guy you can open with ANYTHING. There is no quick fix or magic pill. You must become authentic. If you want an abundance of hot girls and cool friends in your life you MUST become a cool guy who is relaxed and normal around hot women.

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Think of it like this. If you want to be strong in the gym than you need to BE STRONG IN THE GYM. Sounds simple and obvious on the surface, but theres incredible depth there. “Something real can never be threatened” = the most important statement here. Imagine being authentically relaxed and cool around Women. Something real can never be threatened. There is nothing to fear when you develop a “pure” identity for yourself and keep your focus clean. Clarity Of Intent. If you want to be cool with girls eventually you are going to have to BE COOL WITH GIRLS. <--tremendous depth. Reread that, it's deep, profound wisdom. Boundaries Boundaries are essentially keeping in place walls that make sure your highest values never get compromised. Say for example you appreciate a clean house, and some girl comes over with muddy high heels on and starts trampling on your clean white carpet. An alpha guy calls her out on this and asks her to take her shoes off when she's in his pad. They're your boundaries. People respect you, and women desire you, when you have these firmly in place. Be cool about it though. Don't FREAK OUT at people, just make sure they know they're crossing one. Calibrate. Boundaries stem from having integrity. Really get in touch with who you are, and don't let girls or other people walk all over you.

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Key Mindset Shift: A boundary is only as a strong as you are willing to defend it. We will get much more into these when we move on to Social Circle Mastery. Focus On Your Good Qualities A huge piece of having rock solid inner game is to realize how fucked up our focus can be at times. Meaning, say you had an awesome night met some cute girls, went home and had a threesome. The next night, you go out, and some girls reject you in a very hurtful way. You then proceed get low self-esteem and feel bad about yourself. What's more, you can't get out of your mind those rude girls and how they weren't attracted to you. “Something must be wrong with me.” you think. Even though JUST LAST NIGHT you had an amazing time and were the man, while you are focused in a different shit reality, that experience might as well have never happened. Too often in life do we do this, overemphasize the petty bad things going wrong in our life when it is obvious that wellbeing is dominant. Most guys take the 'self-help' too far and end up trying to 'fix' themselves their entire lives. I'm here to tell you NOTHING IS WRONG. Nothing is broken. You're a Divine Being, your Emotional Guidance System is working properly. The fact you're depressed or pissed off or feeling fear half the time, if you are, is GOOD and means that your higher self is trying to communicate to you that you're not being the REAL you. That's why when you think thoughts like I'm broken or I need to fix myself you'll immediately start feeling bad because THIS IS NOT YOU. You are COOL and normal and all that stuff right now, you just probably picked up a lot of resistance or false beliefs on your trail.

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Remember, a belief is just a thought you keep thinking with a firm conviction. Raise your vibration, attract new thoughts, keep thinking these new thoughts on autopilot via the law of attraction and before you know it you've got new beliefs. New beliefs become new knowings, which then become your bonafide NEW REALITY. Aka lots of hot girls to enjoy night after night in your bedroom and a newfound cool solid identity that is in closer vibrational harmony with your Higher Self. You will be rewarded with a near constant state of deep satisfaction and joy. What naturals call “loving life” or “feeling normal” and what spiritual gurus call peace or love or nirvana, the highest human state. Short Term Pain, Long Term Gain Approaching girls is comfortable to NOT DO IT in the now, but in the long run you will learn so much from that single set and ALL your future sets will be benefited by that single approach, but the short term pleasure focused part of your brain tries to keep you avoiding painful stuff in the now. Become more long term focused. Another example is exercise. This isn't a fitness product, but the long term benefits of regular vigorous exercise are extraordinary. An hour a day will net you tremendous results, yet most people don't do it. The Chode Compass This is huge. Every single action you take RIGHT NOW as in TODAY is slowly pointing your compass at a destination. Every action you take today will reflect every single moment from now on in your lifetime. Each day are you pointed towards growth and King or stagnation and fearful Super chode?

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CONCLUSION There IS a better way of being and walking through life and ESPECIALLY of interacting with hot women. Level of mind problem solving. Learning, focus on the POSITIVE. 9 good approaches 1 bad one and you'll go I SUCK!!! Spread your wings and fuck what others think. Do what you want WHEN you want. Never take your self seriously, even when you chode out. Stop seeking who you are from other's opinions. Seize the day… this is your LIFE!!!!!!! Think for yourself. USE YOUR BRAIN. Ditch the guru. Your reality and experience is the best teacher. Others can only guide you. In the end man, you must realize you are a creator of your own reality. You really do have tremendous power, you just haven't been self-realized enough to understand the fullness of who you are. You really do dictate reality, whether you think you are or not. a little kid telling you you're not good and will never get girls, and you put your head down and cry... it's like this, a girl turns your back on you.. is that it? Are you done? Is that how its ALWAYS going to be? Allowing reality to be dictated to you is a BITCH'S TRAIT. It's what the feminine does. Shape your world~ MISSION – Please see pg. 8 of the Authentic King Workbook.

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INTRODUCTION The Key Mindset Shift: Becoming a total Natural, aka a guy who is irresistibly attractive around hot girls, is not about tactics and techniques. A natural is in align with his own raw instincts (Emotional Guidance) and acts how he wants to act. All natural are very self-reliant because they lead from their core and trust their own instincts and reality over anyone else's. Cool guys don't study pickup, they LIVE it. They don't bombard girls with lines and creepy tactics as a bandage over an old wounded identity or fake having a cool life style, they LIVE the cool lifestyle. When interacting with women it's totally authentic attraction building, they DON'T have a pickup agenda or are even “trying” to get her. “Every human being's essential nature is perfect and faultless, but after years of immersion in the world we easily forget our roots and take on a counterfeit nature.” -Lao Tzu Human beings were born like suns. Society fucks you up. Whether that be the teacher training you to follow THEIR emotional guidance and disregard your own, or the stupid buck-toothed bully on the school yard that conditioned you to feel inferior or low-value. Negative social input gets easily absorbed by young, open minds. As we grow older we begin to lose our worth. Our innate High Value. Natural confidence. Raging unshakeable worth and high self-esteem that is our birthright. Naturals are connected to this and have never lost touch with who they really Are.

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State should be Permanent. You were born stoked. A total natural around the opposite sex. Pulling girls hair on the playground, teasing them, putting sound down their shirts, etc. Thoughts cover up who you really are, and fuck you up when you interact with hot girls. Being good with women is being in the moment, attached to the very core essence of life – the very essence of your own blissful beingness. The joy of simply being~ Hot Girl Syndrome A big part of being a natural is seeing the depth in women. Knowing they are people too. Cool guys understand that girls are JUST girls. People. They're not goddesses. They piss, fart, take shits, have bad breath, get insecure, feel fear... all that normal human stuff. Naturals appreciate superficial beauty, but they're truly seeing the depth and connecting with who she really is rather than seeing her as a walking sex object. HE appreciates a hot pair of tits, but he's seeing the girl behind them as well. Subtly thinking just because a girl is more prettier than you she somehow has higher value. Men value looks, women typically don't. They're not judging you by your physical appearance, so YES a girl will be “hotter” than you on a superficial level. This is OKAY. Women see men as attractive from their core behaviors. Looks don't mean shit, and naturals know this. What is beauty? Remember another man's 10 is another man's gorilla. This goes back to social conditioning, or rather, looking outside of yourself pinging to others to determine what you should find valuable

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or attractive. Society dictates standards of beauty. Naturals see right through this shit. A close buddy of mine (who has slept with around 200 women last I asked) calls hot “Total 10” women Clowns. Hahaha get it? “Clowns” because they put a bunch of paint on their face since that's what the majority of Men and society says is attractive on her, so she responds accordingly (women HATE putting on makeup!) A natural is basing a woman's beauty on HIS OWN VALUES. Meaning, if this week everyone decided to think that a “total 10” girl in terms of looks was pink hair (and not big tits and a skinny waistline as it is currently), he would think this is RIDICULOUS. If this “total 10” with her pink hair came and sat down next to him he wouldn't feel nervous. In fact he would probably tease her about her weird hair. What, superficial shit is going to somehow intimidate you? But guys do this all the time with things like makeup, fancy haircuts, and big boobs. If YOU think that's attractive than perfect, you're basing beauty from your OWN preferences and values. This is the way of the Natural~ A Natural's Instincts Total Naturals with women rely heavily upon their own instincts, aka their Emotional Guidance Systems. If you think of Kings of the wild, like the alpha gorillas and lions, who basically lounge around all day, eat the surplus of delicious food, fuck all the hot females, and generally just CHILL, what do they have in common? That's right – TOTAL RAW INSTINCT.

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Instinct and Emotional Guidance are the exact same thing, but the human counterpart is more advanced because our desires are more evolved and complicated than just food, water, territory, and sex. This is why the wellbeing of animals is so great and they tend to be extraordinarily healthy than compared to humans in regular society – they don't have so much bullshit or negative thinking to focus on that deteriorates their physical and mental state of health. Do you ever see a depressed frog? What about an existential lion? Or a sad snake? The reason animals tend to be healthier & happier (and have A LOT more sex) is because they don't make excuses about acting on their RAW INSTINCTS and they do so unapologetically. When a lion sees a hot lioness giving him “the look”, he's not concerned what the other lions are thinking or whether or not she approves of his sexual nature. He steps the fuck up and fucks her proper. Now, I'm not trying to say you should turn into a total beast, but a large part of becoming a mature masculine evolved Man is to have the ability to tap into those raw, primal, killer instincts at will, when needed. She wants to know you can “let the beast out” so to speak and fuck her raw in the bedroom, which is the same part of yourself that can be let out when a psychopath jumps out from behind a dumpster to rape her and/or stab your tiny children. I heard some dude saying that a hot girl once told him, “If you can't stand up TO me, how can I ever expect you to stand up FOR me?” A large part of being a Total Natural and fucking lots and lots of horny and sexy women is unapologetically tapping into that primal core.

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So let's look at how potent relying on your instincts (aka Emotional Guidance) can be when you're in the field hitting up the honeys. You see a cool guy in state out at the bar. He walks up to this gorgeous girl BEAMING from ear to ear and spins her around and pulls him into her. She's smiling looking up at him submissively – MASSIVELY ATTRACTED. What the “Pickup Nerd” will do in this situation is jot down in his notes, “Interesting... very interesting.. okay so he basically SPUN her and she became attracted. This must be it... this “spin move” .. OKAY! I will now try this and the females will become attracted to ME!” So, chodey sees a girl and immediately begins to try it... BUT, he feels weird about doing it. But but but! He “saw the cool guy do it” so it MUST be attractive to girls right? Hint: He's looking outside of himself. So he goes up, tries it feeling weird and miscalibrated as fuck, tries it, and the girl FLEES IN TERROR. See, the reason it worked for the Natural is because that was him just acting in alignment with his own inner guidance. You'll be MILES AHEAD of these pickup nerds when you start acting in alignment with the core you. If another guy goes in and then tries to replicate this spin move, to him its not in alignment with his own game style so he feels weird and incongruent (Emotional Guidance) so he gets blown the fuck out, what you feel she feels. If instead he followed his own inner guidance in field and decided to go up with an opener that felt good TO HIM such as “hey girls check out my ass” that would open.

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This is the mindset of a natural, he is self-amusing and acting through his own intentions in sync with his own instincts aka Emotional Guidance and is not giving a fuck what anyone else is thinking or making excuses from acting on his raw, natural, fight or fuck desires. Not Taking Ownership Don't ever take ownership of other people's emotions, especially women. If someone is freaking out pissed off at you that is THEIR own issue and they're battling themselves. Buddhists say it's like throwing a hot coal at someone – you both get burned. That's why a true Natural pimp sees women's wild emotional reactions as truly FUNNY. If you walk up having a blast and she is acting all bitter and pissy, it's just hilarious that she can't let go and have fun. My own story: One night I poured juice on this little hotty at a Halloween party. She FREAKED THE FUCK OUT (surprise, surprise) and started screaming and cussing and hitting me. Now, whereas most chodes would get all nervous or act weird / get pissed back WHATEVER, I realized that was her own emotional guidance and had nothing to do with me. The community calls this “being unreactive”, which is highly sexy because women are VERY chaotic emotional creatures and they need that masculine grounding point. So, I smile, “What??? I'm making it rain in the club!!!” and I poured more on her... she starts hitting me FREAKING OUT; “Wow, you're like a little hot kettle! It's kind of sexy.” Then I just plow plow plow'd the conversation forward; “HEY so have you ever been down to Sonic, they have these killer lime fish tacos there.” pretty soon she's all giggly and flirty again and WONT LEAVE ME alone because I didn't chode out when things got messy or let her bullshit emotions affect mine, aka my positive state. I just thought it was silly how ridiculous she was being. It's only the chodes that get all pissy back or take her

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emotional state too seriously. When you get really good at listening to nothing outside of you but your own internal emotional guidance AKA RAW INSTINCT you're almost immune to rejection. You can approach the hottest group of girls in the club and they can all be bitchy to you and you just sit there truly amused like acting all hurt. Stop! You guys are so mean to me! “You're the mean one, here I think you need a hug.” Don't fucking touch me!!! “Whoa! That's not how you hug people.” Your friend is very feisty. RELENTLESS. Eventually they crack and will start being really nice to you, seeing you're not a little bitch who has his entire sense of self-worth and identity dependent on a girl's fleeting reactions to him. When they apologize like “sorry we've just had so many weird guys talking to us tonight.” I'll just be like “yeah it's cool I thought you girls were really funny.” :) Game on. Part of being a masculine man is being able to handle more than anything the feminine can ever dish out at you. As Hypnotica says, “The masculine destroyer must meet head on with the feminine destructress.” Open her heart to love and penetrate her to the depths of ravaging ecstasy, right through her token resistance. As David Shade the masterful sex coach says, “A woman is like a piece of candy. It's hard on the outside, but soft, sweet and chewy on the inside.” You Are Enough Naturals are deeply connected with their self-esteem and WORTH. They feel innate high value, entitlement, and confidence. All these signposts that are pointing to pretty much the same state of being; that raw, unshakeable innate happiness and sense of deservedness that comes from just being a DIVINE CHILD a part of this Universe.

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This is why Naturals never try to impress Women, instead they express who they are to her and can authentically have fun with her. The reason they do this is because they do not feel “lower” or “lesser” than the girl IN ANY WAY. They have no need to impress or show her they're The Shit because they already ARE The Shit! Being your best self around girls, the true self you believe in, will get you LAID. It takes a little vulnerability at first – putting your REAL self on the line. But after you do it, you will see women FREAK OUT because they have finally found and authentic Man. Even a nerd who REALLY believes in computers and technology can be sexy as fuck to hot girls if he talks about that stuff with passion and has a firm belief and conviction in himself in how rad he is and his own values. If YOU think it's cool, it is. My natural buddy plays WoW all the time and fucks hot bitches... he literally talks about WoW with girls about how its a big adventure game and he's so stoked about it and the girls giggle and get all into it with hm because HE'S excited and he pulls muthufuckin' ass yo. The dude is a massive pimp and he literally has threesomes with girls, and then sits there naked on his computer next to his bed playing WoW while two hot girls are eating each other out on his bed. He tells me stories like this all the time. Every time I go over there he has a new girl over and WoW is on in the background. This is his REALITY because he's The Shit. Now, I'm not saying go play WoW, I'm saying if YOU think it's cool, it is. It's a core unshakeable belief in yourself and your own values. Remember the Basic of Honor Your Canvas~

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Glass Of Water On a deep, primal genetic level you already are born with knowing how to pick up women and turn them on. Think of it like an alpha mating blueprint embedded inside your brain. The problem is YOU get in the way by thinking you need to go purchase So and so's ADVANCED SERIES or you haven't read those 10 new eBooks yet (just another guy following HIS own Emotional Guidance) so you're somehow lacking in potency when you hit the field etc... this is all a bullshit illusion. You are whole and complete NOW. Pickup is retardedly easy. “Pickup is retardedly easy.” -Mizu That's right, I just quoted myself. Most dating technology is designed to get you out of the way and let your natural instincts take over because picking up women in reality is stupidly SIMPLE but you make it overly complex or difficult or convince yourself you're not “ready” to do it now or somehow not whole or complete or able to NOW, which is al justl a big illusion. It all boils down to this: HAVE FUN. Think of it like this; there is a glass of water on the table and your goal is to drink it. What if I was like “alright man, I know you're going to have Cup Grab Anxiety, but you need to learn to conquer your fears okay? Remain outcome independent, just focus on the glass. You're going to move your arm in a 90 degree angle while at the same time extending your fingers. Now, you're in the next phase. Okay now you need to escalate by wrapping your hands around the

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glass and applying slight pressure so you don't lose the grip. But don't look for reactions from the water, just focus on your technique. Okay now lift, you need to extract the water off the table. Lift it off. Now close! Close! Close that bitch! Drink it! DRINK IT! Make sure you don't inhale while swallowing! Be sure your throat muscles properly send the water down into your stomach. Only pour in as much as needed at first so you don't spill water out of your mouth all over yourself. ….. It's like WTF just take water, drink water. Period. I see girl, I get girl. Why? 'Cuz I'm The Shit. Pickup And Sex Is NOT A Big Deal To a natural, he is having hot pussy in his experience all day long. He doesn't see sex as a big deal. Natural's don't feel the need to brag or feel any anxiety or any bullshit about sex because it's just such a normal part of their life. To them it's like drinking a glass of water. It requires no thought and they don't enhance their self esteem because they got a glass. They drink because they WANT to drink, period. Back in the day, I knew a dude who was hardcore into “The Game” … you know the type. He read every single book, had every routine DOWN, but he was rarely ever getting laid. He took this shit way too seriously. I remember telling him about some girl I just hooked up with (because he kept fuckin' asking “WHAT HAPPENED BOR?!?!?! WHAT HAPPENED?!?!? DID YOU GET HER?!?”) It was so weird to me how he was acting about my recent fun with

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this new girl: “Omg man you got a day 2 with that HB10 you met last night!?!?! DID YOU EXTRACT DID YOU EXTRACT” I'm like WTF I just went to grab a bagel with Sarah and then we went back to my place to chill and watch Entourage... So, to Naturals, sex is NOT A BIG DEAL. I cannot hammer this into your head enough man. We talked earlier about how it HAS to be in your reality that hot girls want to have sex with you and you must be totally unphased by it... this is the abundance world of the true natural. Chicks throw themselves at him with their hardcore up-in-your-face sexual energy ALL THE TIME. He's used to it, and totally unphased by it. This sub-communicates ridiculous preselection and as a result the hot girls will get uncontrollably wet for you. It's All Practice Natural guys don't put a lot of hardcore performance anxiety or pressure on themselves when they're interacting with a cute girl. They're just having FUN. Guys who suck with girls always feel like it's a performance, naturals just see it as a fun part of the night walking up meeting a cute girl whom he's curious about. There's no anxiety with girls because he lives in abundance. Playing and recording music is a great way to learn how to be good with women... When you're unstifled and not giving a fuck of outcome totally in the moment expressing yourself honestly you play your instrument GREAT and it flows. But as soon as you begin thinking even one

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single note ahead or how the song is going to turn out, you miss the moment in front of your face, drop the rhythm and fuck up. Same goes for picking up girls. Another great music-related analogy is when you first go to record a song. Same thing applies. If the red light is off and it's just a practice jam you tend to play naturally and flow great. But as soon as you go to record, if you're a newbie you'll get tense and stiff and stifled because now it quote-unquote “really counts” so there's all this perceived performance anxiety and pressure attached to it and the music loses feeling. Playing a song or playing a girl is very similar. Natural's don't feel like they have to do anything special or that talking to attractive girls takes any sort of effort. They just express themselves in a fun self-amusing way and go with their own chill flow of life, with or without her. Whether the recording button is on or off they're playing the same rad song. It's the chodes who sit in the corner all quiet with their drinks pressed up against their chest, the naturals are the ones jumping around joking and having fun with their buddies and/or girls. But the fun didn't start at the club, they were already having fun that entire day just enjoying their lives, so by the time they hit the club it's dynamite. Living A full Life Natural's live a complete life. They are typically, not always, but typically very fulfilled and live in total abundance. This brings us to the Buyer/Seller dynamic. All naturals I have ever went out with have this subtle vibe going on in their interactions with girls. Think of it like this, you live in a big mansion with 20 hot supermodels who you fuck all day and night and party with, you have all the friends in the world and 100 million dollars in your bank account... you walk down to the store and a girl approaches you and

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starts blabbing. Are you trying to impress her or game her? NO you're totally in BUYER mode, just curious. In fact, talking to her is almost like a waste of time for you unless she is demonstrating some sort of value from a criterion that is your own. You must bring her into your awesome full life of fun and enjoyment. She's secondary to your happiness, a way to blow of steam or to play in your life. The spice on the main course. The “weekend warrior” has very limited success. You can't play world of warcraft and jack off all week and then expect to somehow become this Money interesting awesome guy in the club come Friday night (unless you're my buddy back home.. haaaaa just kidding.) Naturals Focus On The Positive In terms of Vibrational Access, naturals are soaring high through life soaking the best it has to offer. If two guys approach a girl, one a chode and the other a Total Natural, the chode will have a COMPLETELY different experience (vibrational interpretation) of her than the Natural. In laymans terms: The chode will be thinking things like, “OH fuck, how do I not be nervous. Omg I am such a loser. Okay I need to DHV this girl, I MUST GAME HER. I MUST GET HER TO LIKE ME. Shit wtf is wrong with me, why do I always act like this?!?” The Total Natural's experience is something like this: “Oooh. She looks fun. WOW. Stunner. Fuck this chick is intoxicating. Ahmmygood her cleavage is so fucking hot. Look at her perfect soft tits. This chick is AWESOME, soooo full of life. Damn, I feel like the fucking Man around this girl. Look how turned on I'm making her feel.” etc. His experience is vibrationally-focused on the POSITIVE. In other words, he can actually SEE the girl and appreciate her fully. A key part of this

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is because he's totally being PRESENT with her. Remember, your consciousness MUST match her feminine energy. This is why oftentimes Naturals (guys who are scarily good with Women) have a delusional sense of coolness and oftentimes extreme Narcissism. It is because they are focused on the positive shit about EVERYTHING in their life, not just about girls. If you fuck up the whole night with the honeys, but there was a set where for 5 seconds you were in align with who you really are, aka your higher true alpha self, and got some attraction or had a good little interaction FOCUS ON NOTHING ELSE BUT THIS REALITY. A large part of being really good with women is cultivating the ability to focus your brain in a way that is borderline delusional. Don't try to be perfect overnight. Most guys go out feeling bad if they're not brad pitt in the club. Remember life is a journey, not a destination. The criterion for success is your own. If you're shaking nervous to approach a two set, hey man, that's where you are right now on your journey. There's nothing wrong with you, you just lack experience and a certain modicum of emotional control. So that very night when you man up and grab your balls and STEP up to those girls and they obviously backturn you or w/e walk away BEAMING because you APPROACHED. Now go do 10 more! To an outsider it looks like you failed but you didn't, your criterion for success is yours alone. Remember, you're running your own race and your Emotional Guidance (dictated by your Higher Self) is yours and yours alone.

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Own Who You Are Naturals aren't ashamed of who they are. They feel that girls can like them JUST FOR THEM. They don't need tactics or pickup lines or any external bullshit ego structures in order to feel attractive. All they feel they need is THEM, and that's it. In other words, THEY ARE ENOUGH. Do not try to be a clone of someone else. Dictate your own rad personality / style of clothing. Variety is COOL it's what makes life worth living. Imagine the Borg grey monotones, eating the same foods, working the same jobs all standing in line shuffling in a grey depressing world... what if like were like that? Honor Your Canvas~ By you having balls and being YOU is extremely valuable to people. Not everyone is going to like you when you authentically express yourself, but the one's who do truly like you will be true friends you will have till the day you die and you'll net incredible deep relationships with women. Your standards must hold higher value over other people's. You should NEVER trying to subtly impress others in any way. Even if you do end up achieving your chode goal of making a good impression on everyone in the club, you still are a dumb chode who lives up to other people's values and standards instead of his own. Approval or not, who gives a shit. Be how you want, wear what you wanna wear, and fuck like you wanna fuck.

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Core Confidence Anything anyone ever does is because they think they will feel better by doing it. They take action in order to feel good, or rather, to feel LOVE and JOY. Whether it's a guy doing a nervous tick or a guy building a fortune 500 company, every action or goal anyone ever takes is because they think they will feel better in the doing or having of it. Most people are scrambling outside of themselves clinging onto cars, clothes, women (ie good reactions / sex validation) to feel good about themselves. Love itself, that good feeling of worthiness, unlimited self-power, joy and gratitude to be alive, lasting happiness, naturals all have is your DEFAULT state. This is why meditation is great, the mind covers up who you really are. Deep stillness shows it to you. Remember, you're like a sun. Thoughts are the bullshit clouds, limited ego structures, covering up the depth and incredible magnitude (and blissful joy) of your True Self. Becoming Present When you become fully present, not only does the quality of your life experience go up ten-fold, but you begin to access the incredible worthiness, joy, and power of Who You Really Are that lays just behind thought. The ego's two favorite words are fantasy and fear. We are constantly leap-frogging over the present moment, to get to some “Great tomorrow” but remember, NOT NOW = NEVER, and even when that fantasy future finally does come, it will just be another fleeting moment that you will experience in the NOW.

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Where did my thoughts go? Why am I so happy and why am I not thinking anymore? Ego loss is when you're not “reaching” for that better-feeling outcome of hot sex, or the girl giggling / getting a good response etc... when you can just FEEL GOOD NOW and totally be unconditionally loving by being in the moment with a still mind AMAZING things will happen. You access infinite intelligence and become unlimited, able to act like a badass motherfucker in the field because you're totally present and 100% socially calibrated. You're also ridiculously in a High Vibrational State. Scientists took zen monk, did some brainwave testing, and concluded that he was the happiest person on the planet. He literally walks around in deep bliss and unshakeable joy what the ancient teachings from the East call “peace.” Fearlessness. Ever-new joy and passion for life and living. Nothing is forever, even clinging at future fantasy states, once you “get” those you'll just be like “okay what's next” it's ALL impermanent form so just embrace the present moment NOW because that's all there ever is. Stop seeking who you are or what to do from materials. Those are the spice to WHO YOU ARE. You KNOW at a deep unconscious level how to be highly attractive to women but you don't give yourself permission. YOUR BORN WITH IT. Like a squirrel who gathers nuts before his first winter, or birds knowing when and how and where to migrate, you KNOW how to act around women. This is why so much emphasis is placed on STILLING YOUR MIND and becoming PRESENT with the girl in set because you access a level of wisdom that is driven from your primal instinctual core. It's in your DNA. If I threw and apple at you you don't go “Oh gee golly gosh okay move hand out, open fingers now rotate palm to face

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apple to increase chances of gripping it okay now... “ NO. You just instinctively catch it. This is what we're getting away at here. Becoming present raises your vibration which makes you excited to talk to Women! Nervousness and fear is just resistance. When you can learn to truly CHILL OUT and be normal around hot girls your ability to inspire attraction soars and hot, filthy sex ensues. LIVE YOUR DREAM. This is your LIFE. Ultimately man, tomorrow never comes. Cut out all the bullshit in your life and start living the lifestyle you want, TODAY. Once you start connecting to your core desires, you adopt a “natural” worldview realizing how perfect God nature and the universe is it all becomes a chill easy ride of enjoyment. You begin walking through the world with ease. The Law Of Attraction creates for you a divine flow. Everything becomes like a downhill fun ride of smooth easy enjoyment and abundance. Remember, the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. The gooder it gets the gooder it gets the gooder it gets. The worse it gets...

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CONCLUSION The single most unanimous worldview all Naturals have, bar none, is that THE WORLD IS THEIR HOME. "I think the most important question facing humanity is, 'Is the universe a friendly place?'” -Albert Einstein Remember, what you feel she feels. If you feel weird about the beautiful dance of Life (the masculine feminine playing together) or fear death or some wrathful god or any other bullshit about existence, you become very unattractive to Women (and your Emotional Guidance is trying to bitchslap you with awareness that you are WAY OFF about your philosophy of life.) Life is SUPPOSED to be fun. It's a gift. All of it. Sex is a divine gift to be enjoyed – go revel in it! You are MEANT to live in total abundance. Hot women, money, freedom, joy, bliss, it's all the DEFAULT state of Man. That is why anything other than those feels freakishly bad to you. You are MEANT to satisfy ALL your dreams. The biggest dreams you can conceive of in your mind's eye are SUPPOSED to be your waking reality. Naturals don't resist. They are going WITH the flow of Life and the Universe. They see a hot Woman and ride her all the way to the bedroom, enjoying every moment of it. To them, having sex with gorgeous girls

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is not only effortless, but it's also deeply satisfying (mutual fun for BOTH of them.) So chill out a little more. Let in a lot more fun, and go enjoy your life – THIS now moment. That's what it's all about. MISSION – Please see pg. 9 of the Authentic King Workbook.

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INTRODUCTION Welcome to the basics of having a Rich Social Life. Social bonding is one of the most important areas in life. Your own life is like a complex machine filled with cogs. Each distinct area is of vast importance. Examples include your money and finances, love life, social life, your health... etc. If one of these proverbial “cogs” isn't turning correctly, it affects ALL the others. In other words, if one area is out of whack, your entire LIFE is negatively affected. Your success is ALL areas is undermined. If you want to win the race, you'll need to be firing on all 6 cylinders. I've studied all sorts of eastern philosophies and western psychology including various studies & essays (aka “western philosophy”) and each and every single one of them concluded a HUGE part of sustained happiness and mental health is having meaningful positive social relationships. It's part of being human. We are all social bonding creatures, we need and crave healthy interaction with others to be happy and mentally stable. It's just that simple. People with tight inner game have great social bonding abilities, period. If you're social life isn't where you want it to be and you feel a strong negative emotion when you're sitting alone on a Friday night, take that as a good very sign and realize your Guidance System is working and you're healthy and normal for wanting to go out and meet people and expand your social circle.

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You Are Who Your Friends Are You are the sum total average, in your success level, with the 5 people you hang around most. Have you guys ever met roommates who joke around like each other and laugh like each other and have all the subtle micro behaviors and speech patterns exactly like each other? This powerful dynamic is what's at play here. Whether we like it or not, we begin to naturally pick up other people's attitudes, ideas, behaviors, personality, beliefs, thoughts.. EVERYTHING the longer we're around them. Henry Ford, Thomas Edison, and Albert Einstein all concluded that the human mind both picks up on and transmits blocks of thought to and from other minds. So, at a very deep unconscious level you begin to pick up the beliefs and attitudes of those around you. You literally start to BECOME like those who you constantly surround yourself and associate with. This includes books as well. Don't spend major time with minor people. Petty chodes will try to convince you that you CAN'T do something. Hang around with the kinds of people who try to convince you why you CAN. And this isn't all about take take take. Become a value-giving guy, an uplifter in your OWN social circle to establish deeper more meaning and fulfilling human relationships. So, choose your friends wisely. Or at least the people you spend the most time with, because whether you are consciously aware of it or not, they are influencing you on a deep level.

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Respect First, Popularity Second. In my early days of high school nearly EVERYONE on campus liked me, but I was the clown. Meaning, I got plenty of approval from everyone - I was always high energy silly guy and people said I was fun to party with and liked me, but no one respected me. Anytime I was at a party or whatever they'd just be like “Hey man do crazy legs.... hey hey man do that Dave Chappel dance thing. HEY everyone come check this out this is hilarious, dude do that impersonation of Joel!!! Come on man DO IT!” and everyone would laugh their asses off and everyone would like and approve of me but no one truly RESPECTED me. So whenever my guy “friends” brought girls around, they lost interest quickly because they could see everyone was just playing me. Same goes for guys who hang around assholes who undercut them. Like the “natural buddy” who always kicks you down whenever you're around girls or whatever. These people are not true friends you want around when in your main social circle. When building one or starting a new one, always remember this key principle. Respect first, popularity second. This will save you a lot of frustration & stress later down the road when it comes to succeeding in life and with women. Social Trees The first main concept you must familiarize yourself with in order to have a wildly successful social life is that of Social Trees. Social trees are the natural hierarchies set up within human relationships.

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On average, every person has multiple trees in their life that they are a part of. In your own life you most likely have all sorts of trees you Tarzan from day-to-day. Your main tree, that is to say your main social circle, is the most important one you can build that will deeply benefit you all the days of your life. For most people this consists of close college buddies or co-workers. But ultimately, you will have many trees in your life. You might have your gym or yoga tree, your girlfriend's family / friend tree, your own family tree, your best buds college frat buddy tree, your career/work tree, your surfing tree, your pickup gaming nerd lair tree ETC. Each one of these trees offers you some sort of mutual value, or else it wouldn't be in place. Preselection & Social Snapshotting Next key. Talked about this in depth on the club game cd but I want to mention it here in terms of social relationships because it is CRUCIAL when building social bonds and a healthy main social tree. If you walk into a party surrounded by 10 hot girls, what are people snapshotting you as? If you walk into a party surrounded by 10 nerds, what are people snapshotting you as? It's an extremely shallow side of human nature, but it is what it is. You've got to learn the rules if you want to play The Game. When first meeting people when trying to build new social trees for yourself, people are ALWAYS snapshotting you for your value/status. We will get waaaaay more in-depth on this subject later in the “Breaking Into New Social Trees” segment of the material, but for now understand that your first impression says A LOT.

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In order to build up strong relationships with others, you will need lots of repeated positive experiences with them. The problem is, people wont even give you the time of day if your social snapshot is off or lacking in any way. No one is going to want to invite you out to all the hot events if you're coming across as “that guy”. It sucks because, you can be a cool awesome guy to be around, but if you're dressed like a nerd and coming across as a needy creep social leech – no one is going to want to hang around you or take your number seriously for hanging out and potentially adding you to their social tree. There are a few important factors to consider when establishing for yourself a cool social snapshot. Key factors include; your clothing, grooming, & hygiene habits, your initial personality (closed down and awkward vs warm open and friendly), but most importantly it all comes down to one thing... YOUR VALUE. So the next concept, what is value and what constitutes a solid social tree / alliance? Value Comes First Value comes 1st. It's all about value. Human beings are wired to seek out desirous relationships with others of higher or equal value, but NEVER lower. Think of all the reasons why you hang out with the people you currently hang out with. There are similar reasons why they hang out with YOU. People's RASs and even life goals are all tuned towards what has the highest perceived value to them in every single moment. No exceptions.

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To first become a master of social arts, you must fully know and understand the dynamics of situational value, and take it into consideration at all times. A lot of people can appear confident and really cool at certain times, like the High Value awesome people you will want to add into your main social tree later on, but in reality it's just an act. Take the Professor in the lecture hall. Up there on stage in front of all those young students he's rocking it. He appears so confident, so in control of his life. So much smarter, worthy, capable and higher value than you. But take that guy out to a night club and watch the tables turn. Suddenly HE is the one stifled and nervous like a low-value fearful chode. A dude you do not want to go out and pick up women with. As a side not, it is always good to have loose affiliations with people on your outer trees who bring you some kind situational of value. Examples in my own life are of my own lawyer or club promoter friends. They're really shallow asshole people that I wouldn't normally want in my main tree (to spend the most time with), but they offer me incredible value in terms of business success assistance, getting into hot clubs and opportunities for meeting LOTS and LOTS of hot “party girl” women (the funnest to fuck, imo.) I also know cool evolved people like Channelers and hot yoga girls and even buff gym rats. Each person offers me some sort of value. Know the dynamics of situational value and calibrate to it accordingly. Don't be fooled by a seemingly “high value alpha” guy when he's the owner of the bar. Learn to recognize authenticity and depth in others.

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(Note: there ARE a lot of REALLY COOL club owners and other High Situational Value people, just have the social awareness to recognize the difference.) Value, Time, & Energy Life is short. There is incredible subconscious biological pressure put on you to align with those who increase your own value as much as possible. Value is a very dynamic thing. It can change at different times. For example you might run into a legal rut in your business and have your whole financial world crashing down around you. You're out at a party and suddenly overhear some guy talking about how he was recently awarded being the 2nd best attorney in the city. You're now GLUED to the guy. He's just become the highest value guy in the room, someone you want to get into your social tree and FAST. Again, value is dynamic and everyone is responding to it in every moment whether they have the awareness & self-honesty to admit it to themselves or not. So what primarily constitutes value in social relationships? It's a few Key, very important, things. In terms of human evolution, the most common form of value is Survivability and Replication. Survivability is basically what keeps you alive (money[for a house and food etc], protection & loyalty, health etc.) Replication is sex. Plain and simple, hot dirty nasty sticky sweaty sex. Whatever helps you to pass your genes on (A POWERFUL driving force in the evolution of life and its species...)

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In other words, whatever helps you GET HOT GIRLS. If you have a cool friend that makes you look good (and thus attractive to the females), you find yourself wanting to be near him at the party. If you know a guy who fucks a lot of hot girls, you might find yourself tuning into what he is saying and tuning out everyone else around you (RAS), or wanting to get to know him more and learn from him or be like him etc. If you find out that super cute girl over there you've been wanting to meet all night is Jack's roommate, suddenly you and Jack are best buds. Whatever, or more accurately to say, WHOEVER increases your value in the realms of Survivability and Replication are the types of people your mind is putting pressure on you to go align with. This very powerful, very real driving force in human evolution is hijacking your own and other's behavior around you. Learn to recognize it, understand it, so then you can rise above it and learn to calibrate and manipulate these natural forces for your bidding. Welcome to the Social Matrix. :) Good Emotions Now, the above were primary examples of what constitutes value in most human relationships, but there are of course many more (and much more genuine reasons) that constitute High Value. A huuugggeee highly valuable entity to all people is GOOD EMOTIONS. When you think about it, it really all comes down to this.

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Think about it. If a guy is a total asshole to you, you probably don't care how “high value” he is. Bottom line: fuck that guy. Even if he DOES get girls and he IS alpha and shit, if he's treating you like dirt you're not going to align with people like that, unless you're a little bitch. Or what if a person comes up to you all fucked up with deep-set psychological issues like severe depression or anxiety or some horrible depressing disease that he constantly complains about. Just being around that guy makes you feel negativity yourself. Remember, others you surround yourself with rub off on you. Unless you're a therapist, healer, or doctor you probably don't want to spend much time around that person. Now again, this may be coming across as really shallow and I may be stepping on a few toes here, but I am not afraid to show you TRUTH. This IS what people, and if you'll take the time to notice YOU YOURSELF, are responding to, socially. All the time. Conscious or otherwise. Don't be like the people who sat there condemning pornography saying only “perverted old men” watched that stuff, and then when the internet comes out it has been empirically documented that 85% of ALL internet searches are of pornographic in nature, 65% which include a female audience! Wow, shocker, human nature is perverted! So, if you're the guy sitting there all “Fuck that! Everyone is my friend! Pshhh I don't care about value.” Go take a look at what you are responding to in your own life. I bet when creepy nerd comes up

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to you at the party wanting to hang, you are feeling that gut-feeling to ditch him, fast. Again, it's an ugly side of humanity but it is what it is. People are always aligning with the value. People go where the value is. Always. Note, a lot of human relations DO EXIST for purer reasons. It's not all about money and pussy, but that is a POWERFUL driving force and is the primary causality for most human long-term relationships. You might have a friend that actually LISTENS to you and actually cares about you. To you, that is High Value (why? Hint: good emotions), so you choose to be around that person a lot in your life. Remember the first basic, a human being is always trying to align their time & energy with others who bring them the highest value. Social Win/Wins A great way to have an abundant social life fast is to offer win/wins to people. Do not take what I am teaching you here the wrong way. I am NOT saying “go and create high value for others and bring every cool guy in your life tons of hot babes and business opportunities and GIVE VALUE GIVE VALUE GIVE VALUE GIVE GIVE GIVE!!!! MWAAHAHAHAHA!!!” Giving lots and lots of high value out to others without expecting anything in return is not only insufficient to build up healthy social bonds (remember Respect First, Popularity Second?), but also to build up a healthy business. I had a buddy who was the nicest dude ever. He would always supply us with tons of food & water whenever we were in his home, and was just straight up the most giving guy I knew.

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But people, and ESPECIALLY women walked all over him. It was really sad. No one respected him. He was the kind of guy that would give you his own warm jacket on an icy winter morning even though it left him shivering and turning all kinds of blue. “No man I'm fine! No No rake my jacket, I'm fine!” So the key when it comes to value exchange dynamics in any given human interaction is to ensure a proper win/win. Whenever you're giving value, expect something in return. Likewise, whenever you're GETTING lots of value, GIVE something back in return. If your cool friends get you or invite you in to exciting new places or they supply the booze and food all the time, GIVE IT BACK sometimes. HAVE FUN THINGS GOING ON and create cool events, always keep tabs on the latest parties concerts and events in your city. That way you're not always being the guy who is calling up all, “Hey what are you guys doing tonight?” A SOCIAL LEECH. The coolest guys I knew in college were the money motherfuckers who ALWAYS were doing the funnest coolest shit and inviting EVERYONE THEY KNEW out to it. Creating badass value for us all. They threw the hottest house parties. They constantly were introducing people to each other at parties, bringing hot women to their guy friends. And they all got laid like Rock Stars. So remember to keep it win/win. People wont respect you if you give to much without asking for anything in return, nor will they like you if you take take take and never give anything back.

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Value Calibration When it comes to offering value to others, it's not like you have to bring people incredible novelty ideas and lots of stimulation and incredible knowledge or top secret access to the Pentagon or any of that bullshit. Most of the time you just need to share genuine interest and care about what's going on in their life. Like “Hey man what happened with you and that girl last night?” or take the time to give a shit by remembering them talking about some test, “Hey dude how'd that test go?” Authentically care about them. Basic human needs, everyone wants a connection or someone that gives a shit. As the old adage goes; “To make a friend, you must first BE a friend.” Win/Wins are the soul of any healthy human relationship. Some of the deepest joy you will attain in life is directly proportionate to how much you give out. It's a paradox I know, but a solid truth nonetheless. Just don't expect people to respect you if you GIVE GIVE GIVE and don't expect to get your own needs met back. Lastly, don't get played. If your “friends” are using you all the time to meet all the women in your life or coming over trashing your house and eating all your food and never inviting you out to jack shit or introducing you to any hot girls, it's time to cut those low-value people out of your life and set up some win/wins. Step up and demand higher quality people or experiences and stop setting for less than your best. Remember (and deeply reflect upon) the Most Important Question [ch1]. Win/Wins and mutual enjoyment is the ideal relationship. Calibrate the value accordingly.

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Breaking Into New Social Trees and Adding On More Social Circles So now let's dive deep into the fundamental skills involved when it comes to breaking into new already established social trees (with all the hotties in it) or starting from scratch and creating & managing your own. First things first. Remember that it takes TIME and ENERGY to establish any new social relationships, and all people are always aligning to what holds the most value for them and their own life. So in effect most people aren’t' that open to a newbie breaking into their group unless they bring them a lot of value, mostly in the form of good emotions, which comes OVER TIME. It's hard to make people you just met out at the bar eager to get to meet you again. You don't have enough linear time to convey enough value to them just yet. In their minds, they have no reason to invite you out to their houseparty or kickback just yet... after all you're just another sausage to them. That's why when first meeting others and trying to break into any new social tree, asking for numbers or meetups right away requires a lot of compliance so most guys and girls are hesitant to give out their number to a stranger at first thinking you're going to be all needy and call them all the time. So the best way to keep them in contact so you can build on and breach that tree is to Facebook them. Yes, both girls and guys. A girl or guy that might not of given you a number to hang will always give you facebook because it's less perceived investment. Start a dialogue on facebook, and go from there.

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Note: This is just a general rule-of-thumb. You can still make friends, have a really solid connections and mutual fun with people the first night, and then exchange numbers and be invited out to their events. But again, this whole system is tailored for “10 Game”, meaning, the high value 'socialites' who have NO REASON to meet you. In other words, this is how to breach the elite social trees that hold the hottest girls at the hottest venues & “cool kids” parties. Trust me, I DJ'd in hollywood for years. I've been around these cats a lot. These guys are a different breed, they're already established. They need or want NOTHING. More on this later, so chill for now. Explode Your Social Life One of the EASIEST ways to meet a ton of people is by befriending girls. Yup, I said it, intentionally Friend Zone girls. Why? Ask yourself this... Who is it that most guys know? That's right: other guys! Who is it that most girls know more of? That's right! More girls! Girls are friends with and know lots of girls, guys are friends with and know lots of guys. So when you make a few female friends (by being cool, non-needy, and vibing well around her and not getting sexual or communicate any interest other than just hanging out framing her like she's your best friend from back in high school, like intentional friend zone so she wont cockblock you) she will introduce you to ALL her hot girl friends and try to hook them up with you quickly. She will talk you up as this “cool guy she just met” and all her hot girl friends will want to get to know you. ;)

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Remember, (all pieces meant to click together in this system) Social Snapshotting? Then at parties you invite these hot girls out to them (value) and when other cool guys see you with all these hot girls running up and hugging you etc, you will be snapshotted as really High Value cool alpha guy that everyone will be wanting to get to know and wondering about. Preselection at it's finest. From thereon out you can introduce other guys in the venue (new potential tree leaders) to your hot women. In effect man, you meet a lot of really cool people and will make tons of friends. Become the Party Host~ What Is Friendship? A social bond deconstructed. Friendship = Time + Common Interests and Goals + Shared Experience(s) littered with Good-feeling Positive Emotions. It's that simple. When you look at all your current friendships/relationships in your life, they contain ALL of the aforementioned elements. If even one piece is left out, the friendship either crumbles or no longer exists. Without time, there is no friendship. Without good-feeling emotions, there is no value and thus no relationship. Etc. That is why it is important to never ever force a relationship.

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You must mirror investment levels. If a guy is being all short and shit with you don't be like “HEY MAN HOW ARE YOU WHERE ARE YOU FROM WHAT DID YOU DO TODAY WANNA HANG OUT TONIGHT BRO? HUH BRO? BRO??? BRO!?!?!?!” Same goes with girls, if you're introduced to a chick and she's cold don't be reaching and extending yourself for the interaction or phone number right away. Keep it neutral rapport and only mirror her investment to you. This is another way people will respect you and want to get to know you better. If you're super eager and desperate to hang out with them all of a sudden, even though they've been acting nonchalant the whole time, you will come across exuding a needy desperate vibe and no one is going to want to be around you. Match their investment level and SLOWLY dial it up from there. Always remember Respect First, Popularity Second. I cannot drill that basic into your head enough. Learn to VIBE and give people good emotions WITHOUT letting them cross your boundaries or not expecting a Win/Win mutual relationship. Breaking Into New Social Tree Essentials First things first, you can only have as much value as the person who introduced you to the tree. That is key, so please understand this. However high up on the trunk that person's branch is, that is how others will perceive and judge you since you are being introduced THROUGH that person. Make sense?

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In other words, people only give you as much introductory value (with the guys AND girls) as they hold themselves within the circle. A perfect example is that movie Superbad when they go with some random guy to go meet his “cool friends” at a mentioned party. As soon as the guy walks through the door everyone gets really pissed off and is like “Yo, what the fuck are you doing here!? Who invited you?!” So in effect, the guys he brought along are seen at “that guy's” new friends. He has extreme low value in the social tree, and now they do too. Even though they might be really fun friendly cool social guys with 100 hot girls at home they're being snapshotted as low value. Remember, Social Snapshotting. It's a powerful force. Master that basic and don't move on until you understand it fully. Don't Dethrone The King Once you're in the group, get to know the social dynamics early, don't try to take over the king's throne right away. Usually if it's a normal group of people there will be some hot girls and one or two leader alpha guys who will 9/10 be dicks to you at first. The problem most guys have is thinking high value people are "Assholes/jerks" but this isn't true, they're just WELL ESTABLISHED. I had a buddy in college (hooked up with so many women) who used to scream at girls "get that fuckin' blanket off me!!!" and shit like that. Girls called him a jerk but he wasn't really, he was just not needing to impress anyone because he lived in an abundance of pussy. He was already established so he just acted how he wanted to act and didn't feel the need to step on any eggshells.

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In old community lingo they say stuff like “you must outalpha the leader to win over the girls” and that's bullshit. You do not have to be the top or the best super alpha.. that's nerd shit. Don't dry to dethrone the king of the group right away, let him hold court. Most guys are typically cool but they perceive you right away as a threat and inherently hate you. Have you ever been out having an ON night and are getting all the attention from the girls and feel like the man, then suddenly some new dude comes into your group and starts flirting with the girls? You immediately think fuck this guy and start feeling bad vibes towards him and begin hating him... even though he didn’t do anything wrong! Most guys are cool, they just feel like you're a threat and it's natural. I can't tell you how many times I've had to break into a new social tree and each time guys always tell me “Yeah man when I first met you I was like who the fuck is this guy... but now that I've gotten to know you you're really cool. Come down and drink with us later.” So the vibe is not you're at the tippy top of the triangle looking down as some supreme master who out alphas every cool guy in the room, the vibe is that you SHARE the power with these other badass motherfuckers. In the top triangle, not ON THE TOP. Befriend The Entire Group Befriend the WHOLE PEER GROUP so you're not relying or clinging onto one guy to get you in. Imagine if you just meed one person that invites you out and you only bond with them. What if he gets pissed off at you or stops seeing you as a value magnet? You're ostracized form that whole group that's what!

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Make an honest effort at slowly getting to know EVERYBODY in that group. Think of it like a spider web. The more strands you weave the stronger the web. You wont have to ever feel dependent on one person AND the chances of someone inviting you out increase exponentially. This creates Social Buzz in the group. Social Buzz Social Buzz is essentially gossip. Now, that can be good or it can be bad. This is how value is established without you ever being in the room, whether that be High Value or low. When apply the first Basic of befriending the entire peer group, people will begin to talk about you and bring you up in conversation. “Oh yeah man, Mizu was there did you see when that girl punched him? Hahaha. I heard they hooked up right after...” “Dude do you guys have Mizu's number?” “Hey, Mizu and I just grabbed some lunch. I gotta go study today...” After a while, people in that group are going to be like... WHO THE FUCK IS THIS MIZU GUY!?!?! Then the next time you show your face in the group, everyone will be curious about you (you're in their RAS) and your value goes up tremendously. This happens to groups of guys and girls. The key to creating high, positive, Social Buzz is to have good experiences with the people you are building the bonds up with. Share good emotions and value, and watch them talk you up. When you get really good at end game, such as hot sex and giving girls orgasms, they will tell ALL THEIR GIRLFRIENDS about you!

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I cannot tell you how many times I have had girls come up to me flirting hardcore with me at parties MASSIVELY ATTRACTED when I haven't even said a single word to them! Their friends talked me up a la Social Buzz. Master this Basic. Inviting People Out When inviting people out is is important to never invite the new person solely unless you're really hitting it off and having a killer time with them. Always invite out the entire GROUP first. Like, “Hey you guys should cruise over tomorrow night we're having a party.” The reason for this is that people get freaked out if you invite just them alone out, it puts way too much compliance and investment into the interaction and people are naturally inclined to flake on shit like this. Remember, TIME AND ENERGY and VALUE, human beings are wired at all times to seek the highest value activities and relationships, so for some strange new guy to be like “hey wanna go spend 4 hours with me tomorrow getting lunch or grabbing a beer” it's usually hard to say yes to this because they don't know how much value you offer yet. That's why getting facebook and going from there or inviting the whole group out to some fun event works best with establishing new trees. Become The Party Host Become the social warm end of the pool. You ultimately want to become a Party Host and mix as many people together as you can. If there's a girl you don't think is cute, remember, one of your new buddies might. (Another man's 10 is another man's gorilla.) Part of making me a fuckin' Money popular kid in college was just bringing so many of my guy friends pussy. The guys were happy, and

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the girls were happy too! I was introducing cool people to cool people and all the positive experiences these people were sharing were directly being blamed on ME! Once you utilize these powerful social tools (such as Friend Zoning girls to EXPLODE your social life), you will become an epicenter of a vast network of people. It gets to a point where you have to turn your phone off some nights because so many people won't stop fucking calling you. In college I rarely ever could even study! Be A Real Person It's cool to break down social dynamics and get all nerd with them like this, but when you go out remember to BE A REAL PERSON and don't try to micromanage everything in your head. You'll just come off as calculated and unnatural or like you're trying too hard. You don't have to sit there all “Okay who's the High Value person here, do I need to calibrate my Social Buzz generation right now? Am I mirroring investment levels??!?!” These are great, AWESOME social frameworks and tools to use, but DO NOT let them overwhelm you and your thinking proccesses. Learn to vibe well with others and, again, BE A REAL PERSON. People like connecting with other down to Earth people, not social calculating agenda-ridden robots. Be cool, man. On Boundaries When building a healthy social circle, or your Main Tree, respecting boundaries for yourself and those of other's is crucial. For example, you wouldn't have your friends come over and eat all your food, trash the place, pour water on and break your Wii and then laugh about it, destroy your bathroom and then leave... nor would you do that to

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your friend's place. Same goes for interactions. Like, if a friend makes some fucked up comment or joke that isn't banter or playful guy rapport / bonding etc, then you need to call them out on it. People with boundaries create healthy solid long-term relationships. Ultimately, with solid calibrated boundaries in place, people will respect you more and see you as High Value and a guy worth keeping in contact with. I had a buddy back in high school who when we were all one night chilling smoking hookah with some girls. I was a little tipsy, and I throw out some fucked up comment about him. It was typical guy rapport busting his balls shit, but I took it too far and I knew it. It actually came across as REALLY MEAN. As soon as it left my mouth I felt bad and wished I could take it back, but I couldn't. He just calmly looked at me, shook his head, and said “No cool man.” And didn't even skip a beat. THIS is the kind of boundary-enforcing you want to calibrate to. You're not FREAKING OUT at your friends, because no one will respect you they will not like you, but you ARE showing them you have healthy boundaries in place and they are crossing one. Keep it cool. Coolness is key~ Lastly, remember that boundaries are only as good as far as you're willing to defend them. If you say you don't like people talking down to you around girls, and you let your buddies do it all the time to you, those aren't “buddies.” Calmly pull them aside and tell them it's not cool when they pull that shit. If they respect you and are true friends worth having in your main circle then they will listen and respect you for it. Most guys just don't know what pushes your buttons. But, if they keep doing it, drop them. Life is too short to align with people that ultimately fuck up your social value and relationships.

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Abundance Mindset Having and abundance mindset is important with not only Women, but people in general. The primary reason is because an Abundance Mindset takes care of your subcommunications. When you have multiple trees your texting all the time, or multiple girls, you're not super worried about outcome in any single one of them, so you naturally appear more attractive and easygoing around others. Cool guys are a lot like hot girls. Don't smother them or not act like yourself, trying to impress them. If you get all needy or outcome dependent around a guy to hang out, he will get creeped out and never speak to you again. Fuck Social Conditioning 100 years ago there were Men being treated as slaves. A little before that people were accusing men and women and burning them alive (imagine that happening to you) at the stake, claiming them to be witches or demons. People are stupid. Hardly anyone thinks for themselves nowadays. No one looks within for the answers or for what is right in the world. Every body is living in their own dream of reality. Teachers, parents, etc are all dreaming their own dream trying to shove down your throat what their opinion of what is the right way to act, be, dress, behave is etc. What THEY feel is appropriate. They want you to please THEIR Emotional Guidance Systems and ignore your own. See the world through your own eyes. Question Everything.

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Since a child you are hardwired to obey and base your reality on your “superiors” for survival since they knew more. Problem is, there is never a modern ritual for Men that allows us to enter into manhood and have that psychological disconnect that says, “Oh, I'm a leader now. It is time to start living my path and leading others who are younger.” You must begin to truly understand that YOUR OWN REALITY is king over all others. No one is better than you inherently, people just have different experiences of things. Don't look to other people for how to behave. EVER. Dictate what you feel is attractive. You set your own standards. If society said girls with pink hair are the equivalent of italian supermodels, and one comes and sits down next to you you'd get nervous right? A guy who does what he wants and thinks for himself and is seeing the world through his own eyes would see the pink hair as ridiculous and probably bust on her for it. Value from a criterion that is your own, you were BORN in this environment to explore contrast to decipher preferences that belong to your soul and your soul only. Just because one guy likes big boobs on girls doesn't mean you need to too. Create a life by your OWN design, not the socially accepted deferred life plan. That is fucking boring and for total chodes. When you can become a guy who is truly on his path and then you bring a woman into your life it's like pure value offering and you're such a RARE GUY because most dudes out there react to what other people tell them how they should live their life or they do what everyone else is doing without stopping to question the futility of all of it (aka the school → college → job → retirement → Grave). I mean somedays I just spend my time with a girl in bed all day.

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Offering More Social Value A cool guy understands basic human needs – to bond, to be listened to, to not feel judged etc. Everyone is looking for a friend. You have value simply by the fact that you are a human being, Develop within yourself a rock solid identity and unshakeable selfesteem so that you don't leech or self-seek your identity from others. Never self-seek in others reactions to you. I.e. “Oh, does he like me? Does he think I'm cool? Who am I?!?!” When you get your identity down solid, and you can just chill and be REAL with people, you obtain a Full Cup that can then overflow. You will not be a social unattractive low value vampire. Not wanting anything from anybody totally independent and fulfilled on your own is highly attractive to people. A key component in creating a cool social High Value identity stems from sheer practice. You must be social and talk to and approach LOTS AND LOTS of people. MASSIVE social repetition is the ONLY way to get good. You can read and think and talk all you want about surfing but until you actually get up on the board you will never be good man. Lastly, the best way to make friends is to BE a friend and be authentically YOU. Everyone wants to meet cool unique people that share their own interests. VARIETY IS the essence of life. Imagine if you ate the same food and talked to the same people and did the same things day in and day out... how boring! By letting your soul come out (your true Higher Self) and expressing yourself freely, you're HIGHLY attractive to the right people (the kind of people you want in your life, aka true friends) and HIGHLY unattractive to the

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wrong kinds of people (the negative jealous haters) who you DON'T want in your life. “Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter.” -Dr. Suess Vibing 101 Emotional states are addicting / contagious. How you feel you generally make others feel, all sorts of community lingo for this... The LAW OF RESONANCE. The LAW OF STATE TRANSFERENCE, etc. That is why, social chatter = NO POINT. It's for FUN and POSITIVITY. Memories are state-dependent (Law Of Attraction) when you vibrate sad you only attract sad like-minded thoughts. That is the core essence of vibing with others. It is finding random, unrelated cool non-linear shit to talk about. Just go with the flow of the conversation, try not to throw too many non-sequiturs in there. Be a cool guy. Listening IS offering value. Leave your problems and negative BS at home, people don't want to hear your garbage or mental weight when they're out to have fun, relax, let off the load and just chill & vibe with people. Last key: You should authentically have fun when talking to others – enjoying the interaction without wanting anything back. It should feel effortless. It's Win/Win, remember?

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Fuck People Pleasing Trying to impress others and not being yourself is extremely unattractive and Low Value. No one will want to align with you if you are acting this way. One time, after doing a gig, we are all chilling in the aftermath of the party on a couch. It's me, a few girls, and this younger guy next to me, a total fanboy. He was like “OMG MAN! AMAZING SET!!! HOLY SHIT, BRO!” Then, he proceeded to tell me about how he just had a threesome the other night and all this crap, NOT because he authentically WANTED to tell me that from his own core, but because he was trying to impress me. I saw right through this shit, and all cool guys do. Whenever you're trying to impress other people or act cool or get them to like you, it will always backfire. Just be yourself man. I felt kinda bad for the dude, why did he have to qualify himself to me, it doesn't make him seem cool it makes him seem LESS cool because he has to try and show me that shit and qualify himself to me. It's such a subtle communication of lower value. Next, be opinionated. Have your own views, don't go along so easily with what everyone else is saying. Don't be so agreeable and nicey all the time. Now I'm not saying go around and shove what you think down everyone's throat, but don't bend your opinions either .. ie never pretend to like something if someone else is saying they like it if you truly don't. “I like that band too!” …do you? Don't take shit from anybody, especially girls. So many women treat guys like shit and they just sit there and take it. Always stand up for yourself and fuck what others think. It's your life. Lead it from Within~

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Social Presence Ever talk to someone and they get that glazed over look in their eye? They just went off in their head. Either in the past or the future. Intimacy with other people can ONLY happen in the present moment. That is why, when you go out to socialize, make sure you drop all your worries cares and concerns. Just be in the moment and have a fun time. Remember Be A Person. When you have value and let your true alpha cool guy self out you are ALWAYS in the moment enjoying yourself because you trust yourself. When you think you have no value you are inside your head grasping at future states trying to micromanage because you think you are inadequate and have no value and do not trust yourself in the moment, which makes you contrived, hard to communicate with, and unnatural. STRIVE TO BE OUTSIDE OF YOUR HEAD AND COMPLETELY IMMERSED IN THE MOMENT. Be the music. Be the girl. You ARE her. When you can become present with people you will find you true self comes out, aka self calibration, wit, “Genius” at everything you say or are doing. Thoughts are like glass, they fragment and shatter your groundedness, power, and richness of experience in the present moment. Meditation exercises help for uncovering the True You. Being present with people, and ESPECIALLY girls communicates High Value. When you're present with a woman it shows you trust yourself, you are SIMPLY TALKING TO A CUTE GIRL. Not thinking about “what does she think of me” or “What am I gonna say next?” or “What does that guy over there think of me?” or “Oh man I've banged this # of girls, I feel like a pimp now!” … NO.

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Be IN THE MOMENT. Most guys can't, you'll be like a fucking diamond in the rough when you can truly authentically do this, it's called CONNECTING with girls and they LOVE and CRAVE it. Being fully present with a girl = Rock Star attraction.

CONCLUSION I really want to see you stop sacrificing fun for the sake of clarity. Stop struggling so much. Get aligned with your pure positive energy of your Higher Self and start feeling like a giddy school girl who cant sit still in a club where you HAVE to go out tonight because you're SO ADDICTED to these cute horny hot girls. When standing in line to get into the club transform it from FEAR to EXCITEMENT. Ultimately, stop struggling so much and start doing the fun things soaking up what life has to offer daily. Make it your mission to have more fun. A little allowing goes a long way. Remember that you DO have power within you and you ARE creating your own reality/experience. Monitor your thoughts, as they literally become matter. Go out there and enjoy life in the present moment as much as you can. Stop worrying 10 years in the future. Focus on the 10 inches in front of your face! THAT is where LIFE is. Become present with Women and People, and soak up the richness that your Higher Self is trying to offer you. Let it guide you in the form of you emotional feedback for the best possible path for you to manifest all that you have been asking the Universe for. Enjoy it all man~ Have fun succeeding in life, Kings. This shit is easy. MISSION – Please see pg. 10 of the Authentic King Workbook.

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