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Special Report #2: The “Magic Secrets” Of Meeting Women And Triggering Instant Attraction Whenever a man and a woman are in a room together, there’s an automatic, NATURAL sexual tension present between them. It’s literally “hard-wired” into us as a species... and it’s exactly why, to start succeeding big-time with women, all YOU have to do is learn exactly how to tap into this. That’s what this next Report in my new series is all about - including the “magic secrets” of triggering attraction in ANY woman, whether it’s online, in person, or anywhere for that matter. In the meantime: if you haven’t read my 1st SPECIAL REPORT, make sure to download and read it right now - it ties directly into a lot of what we’re going to discuss in this one. Now, let’s get started with a quick pop quiz… don’t worry, it’s short and painless... Here it is: Can you guess the first question that most men ask me about women and dating? Okay, time’s up… They ask: “What should I say when I first walk up to a woman?”

Seems like a sensible question. After all, if you can’t even start a conversation, how can you possibly get a woman to go out on a date with you? Right? Truth is, this question cuts to the core of what I want you to take away from this Report if nothing else. It’s simply this: Whenever a man asks me what he should say when he first approaches a woman, I know that he doesn’t quite “get it” yet when it comes to succeeding with women. And that’s totally okay. We all have to start somewhere. That in mind, here’s the first secret that I share with every guy who’s trying to get this part of his life handled right now: If you’re wondering what to SAY when you first approach a woman, you’re focusing on the completely wrong thing. Once you really understand what it takes to trigger powerful ATTRACTION in a woman… the kind that she feels absolutely helpless to ignore... then what you SAY to her isn’t all that important. I’m even going to tell you how to use one small, fairly meaningless word as a “pick-up line” and have it work like magic with women… that is, once you’re doing everything ELSE right to trigger and amplify her feelings of ATTRACTION. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves... Right now, all YOU need to focus on is avoiding the mistakes that almost every guy makes when it comes to igniting those feelings of attraction in the first place.

In our first Report, we learned about 2 powerful “mindsets” you must bring with you into EVERY interaction with a woman to make it happen. Now let’s learn about 2 more:

Attraction Mindset #3: You Don’t Have To Say Or Do Anything To Create Attraction Although it sounds a bit counterintuitive on the surface, here’s the truth behind this apparent contradiction: Think about it... you are living proof of millions of successful attractions that have come before you. Your parents, your grandparents, all the way back, it took millions of males and females getting together before you could exist. And guess what: Your ancestors didn’t need to learn pick-up lines to do it. To take this point even further: Reality is, most men actually sabotage their chances of success with women by trying to say and do too much. We overthink things that are supposed to happen naturally…there’s an instinctive “mating dance” that happens between men and women, and it involves a very specific series of steps that have evolved over millions of years. But here’s the cruel joke: Women are pre-programmed to know these steps.

They’re very tuned-in and sensitive to how it’s all supposed to go. They always know what step they’re on... and they’re very good at detecting whether YOU know, too. Problem is, most men have no clue. We’re tragically out of sync when it comes to this dance, so we end up sending a woman all of the wrong signals and making all the wrong moves every step of the way. Is it any wonder that, most of the time, a woman can’t even begin to feel attraction for us? On the other hand… When a man DOES know these steps, a woman can’t help but sit up and take notice... often to the point of having feelings of ATTRACTION before she’s consciously aware that it’s even happening. Here’s why:

If You Only Knew What It’s Like To Be An Attractive Woman... An attractive woman is approached all day long, over and over again, by men who all send her just one message: “I’ll do whatever you want if you’ll just give me some attention!” Take it from me... I used to be as painfully guilty of this as anybody. When I was younger and saw a beautiful woman, all I was thinking was: “I wonder how I can get her number. I wonder how I can get a date with her.” Naturally, I would then proceed to formulate brilliant things to say, like: “I’ll tell you what… I’ll take you anywhere you want to go if you’ll just agree to go out on one date with me.”

As you can imagine, most of the time all that I got in response was a polite, “No thanks.” If I were really lucky, maybe a woman would say, “Aw that’s so sweet...” right before she said, “No thanks.” And then, every once in a while, a woman would actually write down her number and give it to me. I would run home and try to call it… … and (shocker!) the number would be a fake. Point is: men believe we need to say something original and creative to get a woman to give us a second look. Even worse, in our desperation to impress, we all end up saying the same brilliant things… game-killing stuff just like I used to say. Or worst of all, we just freak out, blow up on the launch pad, and fail to even try.

These are the results (or lack of them) you’ll get every time if you keep coming into interactions with a woman thinking that you can “say” or “do” something so new and exciting that she will take notice and feel attraction. Newsflash: You can’t. And she won’t. That in mind, let’s move on to:

Attraction Mindset #4: Keep Your Power For YOU When I was first observing and learning from the guys who were true “naturals” at succeeding with women, I saw an interesting pattern develop:

These guys NEVER said or did anything with a woman that communicated to her that she was the one with the power. These guys would NEVER kiss up. They would never let a woman be the “leader.” These guys knew instinctively that all of this stuff only switched off the attraction… and, that once it’s “off,” attraction CANNOT be turned back on again. Instead, these guys went into every interaction with a mindset that was NOT about trying to impress a woman, and here’s why it worked: Attractive women are followed around all day by men who open doors for them... smile at them... buy them nice things... compliment them… all actions that says to a woman: “Oh great goddess, I will give you all the power if you’ll just give me a scrap of attention and approval.” Meanwhile, from her perspective: All SHE sees is one more guy (like the 99.9% of other guys) who’s tripping over himself to give his power away. Well guess what… This is actually a huge advantage for YOU. It’s your ultimate secret weapon. All you have to do is come across like that one-in-a-thousand guy who KEEPS his power and composure by not letting a woman lead him around, and you’ll have her FULL ATTENTION, guaranteed. In other words, to win this game, the ultimate magic secret is communicating that YOU are the one doing the selecting and that you're VERY selective.

All of your communications (whether it’s using words, gestures, voice tone, eye contact, or body language) must say that YOU are the one who’s in control of your life, your choices, your reality, and this situation. That you’ve got a lot of options and a lot to do. This one mindset alone will seismically change your dynamic - and your success - with women! Try it… start keeping your power for yourself and notice how differently women begin to respond to you. I guarantee that the results you get will blow your mind. Until then:

Here’s What’s Coming Up In My Next (And FINAL) Special Report You’re going to dive into the nuts and bolts of what it REALLY takes to create and amplify attraction, including: ● how to use the power of body language to get instant RESULTS with women ● how to do everything RIGHT to avoid rejection ● how to pass all of a woman tests (HINT: there are a LOT of them - they never stop!) As an added BONUS… I’m also going to reveal that one small word we talked about… one that ANY guy can use as a killer “pick-up” line and have it work like magic with women. But for now, like I said:

Focus on doing everything right to trigger and amplify ATTRACTION with a woman… including NOT saying or doing too much. Get out there and start using what you’ve learned in this SPECIAL REPORT - and look for my 3rd and FINAL “Dating And Attraction” Report coming up soon. In the meantime, here comes... Your Homework: 1. Think about the last time you were in a room with a woman you felt attracted to or wanted to ask out. What did you do and say… if anything at all? Really think about it - how much of your behavior was about trying to win her approval or impress her? 2. Take a moment and write out in detail what you did wrong… and how you SHOULD have handled the situation instead. Carry this note around with you as a reminder and a guide for how you’ll deal with the situation NEXT time. 3. Knowing what you now know about triggering attraction, come up with as many ways as you can think of for making a woman sit up and notice you (in a POSITIVE way)… all WITHOUT using any words at all.