Erotic Hypnosis And Seduction

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Erotic Hypnosis and Seduction Eroticism has been the long practices in seduction. Various well known seductress have use eroticism in seduction which involves the use of eye, voice, body movement, chant, enchantment, and incense, perfume, acts, letters, images and symbols. As these are parameters in seduction. To begin explaining erotic hypnosis and seduction we would take a look at Sigmund Freud analysis of psychosexual development where He categorizes the Anal, Phallic, Libido, Genital and oral which play an essential part in our sexual development. To duly define eroticism in a centered context, it is not necessarily the BDSM, Social deviance, fetish or Lolita as most sociologist and sexologist drafted from the novel of Lolita, it is more of intense passion in seduction. See it as using your passionate will of your mind to please, persuade and appeal an individual for desires. In holistic healing, psychotherapy, neurolinguistics programming, (NLP), Sex Therapy etc, erotic seduction and hypnosis is an alternative therapy from healing mind, neurosis, sexual repression, disorders and sexual abuse victim.

Erotic hypnosis is an alternative technique in self-discipline, pleasure and cultural practices, Erotic hypnosis have also been used for pleasure, discipline in self-development and in institutionalization. In fact most members of social deviance group, personality development and cultural groups carry out intense and extreme erotic seduction practices. In this context we would see various erotic hypnosis for pleasure, therapy and discipline. These techniques have been used on myself only and thereby any practices and pleasure has been verified and derived and consciously thought out before practicing.

To begin I will digress into shame and guilt, psychosis and neurosis a little. This is because our belief system, values and norms are rounded around ID, Ego and Super Ego. ID explains our inner desire, drives, wills, Ego explains what society expects from us. And Super Ego is the decision and negotiation that occur within the ID and Ego. In erotic hypnosis, Shame and guilt are the motivators for drive and will. Therefore as you begin exploring erotic seduction and a sense and feeling of shame and guilt begins that is the open door to a better erotic hypnosis, although at the initial stage, you might begin with that shameful paranoia which discourages thoughts, imagination and mockery, or that guilt and gut feeling called psychosis which give you this high of I am becoming this individual practicing this practices, that gut feeling of realization might bring intense guilt, but this is the beginning and entrance to erotic hypnosis. The process you begin exploiting erotic hypnosis (hypnotics) and seduction you will begin to receive selfconfidence, heighten self-esteem, better social relations in friendship, romantic relationship and in your sex live. Erotic Hypnosis helps to accept the world in a different perspective, build your emotional intelligence, endurance skills and tolerance. It is almost the same principle of self-discipline in yoga, holistic healing and wellness therapy. Most individuals with sexual disorder such as attraction disorders, arousals disorder and sexual anxiety can use erotic hypnosis and seduction as an alternative therapy. Let dive into my practice of erotic hypnosis and seduction. You will begin to see that in general term erotic does not imply intense passion, lust, fiery desire, or red and black magic, it means using your mind, imagination and visualization to desire, persuade and appeal. You have to be able to control you own thought, imagination, fantasy and dreams with this you can become and expert and use erotic hypnotics anywhere.

A simple practice to achieve is a still and clear mind; to begin with breathing exercise. Breathing exercises are very essential in calming your mind, relaxing tension and muscles. It also aids to access your emotional, mental and subjective world. To begin sit in calm place, ventilated, where you won’t be disturbed. Relax your arms, legs and eyes/ gaze have an object of concentration then begin with an inhale and exhale from your stomach through your lung to your nostril, repeat this as much as you can once you begin to feel presence of cool/ warm sensation around you then you have access into your subjective world. Second is self-hypnosis. Self-hypnotics practice is good because it helps in visualization and aid clear thinking and imagination. With self-hypnosis it just a step to create a subjective, emotional and mental world with your mind. Self-hypnosis is very good to combat stress, anxiety. It is mostly called psychoanalysis in psychology and psychotherapy as this helps you understand your thoughts, imagination, dreams and fantasy. Why is this important in seduction and eroticism? This is because you need to know how your mind work, be in control of your own imagination and fantasy as erotic hypnosis deals with actualization of your subjective dreams fantasy in the real world. Just like, I have a nudist fantasy and I always wish to have a massage in a nudist beach with a nude masseurs, this has been created in my mind through my ability to imagine and the fact that I love the idea and I accept the idea without guilt and shame is what hypnosis is as my mind has been hypnotized by imagination to have a nudist masseurs for my massage session and this is done with my mind. In psychotherapy where the therapist and the client become co-subject where you have to share your dream and imagination at this phase you begin to realize that once I being narrating my fantasy of a nude beach with a nude masseurs, the therapist and the client will exist in the same psychical environment, for the therapist listening, it might not necessary be the same exact experience , but in his psychic environment, the therapist begin to create the replication of

the same dream. That is why most therapist like to be more detailed. In my dream analysis of the nudist fantasy of the nude beach, nude masseur. When I give you detailed description of the nudist fantasy you will begin to see that In my nudist fantasy, I am a nudist, an African descent, chocolate complexion, 5 ft tall. Athletic body, stocky legs , bubble butt, I walk into a beach, my beach description is an island with palm trees, blues, oceans, white sand, lots of corals, sea weeds, crabs, eels, the beach has dock and tent facing the beach , close to the tents are massage table , adorned in white robe, standing next to massage table is a nude masseuse with a raw pineapple fruit drink, waiting for the next client, in the tents there are table with drinks, the waiters are all nude, walking in and out waiting and attending to guests, the atmosphere is hot, windy and chilly the trees , leaves are in swift motion with the wind and its sounds create the natural mythopoetic ambient that welcomes and transcends you into this heaven on earth where everyone is free in self and in nature as I quickly arrive I received, ate and drank my pineapple fruit from a masseuse and began my massage session under the beautiful palm trees with chilly wind and sea breeze. As you read or listen to my description you begin to exist in the same psychical environment to fully understand and exist in the world I created. This is called interpsychical and intra-psychical. Inter-psychical is the world of the nude beach, the ocean, trees, infrastructure, the tent, people etc. Intra-psychical is the subjective feeling, perception I try to persuade inside the environment. Inter-psychical is also very phenomenal as it can also exist in the physical space you exist and in the objective and subjective world. The next step is to fully use these mind ability, breathing exercise and visualization to create an effective erotic hypnosis and seduction. In my own techniques which is categorize into 3

Body Include; Eyes, Lips, Ear Touch, feeling, movement and dummy trail, piercing, massage, dance BDSM. Eyes. The most important and essential organ for hypnosis is your eyes, your eyes are the door to your soul, It tells your emotions, feeling, shows desire. When you look at someone you really know how they feel, what they want. In erotic seduction, the eyes can tell when you have shame, guilt, pain and pleasure. Ability to read the eyes and its emotions will help you understand how to persuade, please, be an object of desire and subject for lust. The pupils and iris are the main part of the eyes which aid in hypnosis, once you begin to get in touch with someone, the iris begins move its dilator muscles to dilate the pupil. Most circus magician use this to take away your attention for few second and change a reaction for you to see, you master the art of seducing with the eyes you will begin to see how you can persuade and appeal to someone. In my own eyes techniques I use the general spiral hypnosis, clockwise and anticlockwise for my seduction, I use erecting eye lashes. The eye lashes help to show lust, desire and enchantment. Erecting/ Dilating you eye lashing is done in this manner use your chi energy and transfer this chi energy to your eyes, allow this flow through the lid, use that chi energy to create lust, desire, passion, rejection, intimacy as you do this it allows chi erect your lashes and therefore letting you begin your hypnosis. This is effective and useful for people with attraction disorder. Lips: Lips are part of the oral and also display erotic. In this instance, you don’t need to kiss, pout or lick the lips to hypnotize although this works quite well for some individual. Lips are very seductive. In fact it is very arousing. For my erotic techniques, the lips function like vulva which

expands and contract. But in this manner grows bigger. This is easier by letting the blood flow into your lower lips first and upper lips. This is seen with people with voluptuous lips. For women who apply lipsticks you can allow expansion of your lips and thereby creating this seductive shape of your lips shaded by lipstick. This is useful in attraction and in seducing as when with your partner, you direct their gaze to your lips and quickly give expansion and contraction, most time like a lip sync a small movement of the lower lips and afterwards the upper lips. Be cautious not to portray a pout, kiss which might be desperate or repulsive to the viewer and ruin your hypnosis.

Ear is also a sensitive part of human body. It is sensitive to sound, and touch. The ear is also very useful in erotic hypnosis and seduction as you use breath, air, and lick and dangle to show desire, lust and intensity. In auditory hypnosis the ear help to convey your voice/ sound into the body which interprete and decode these sounds into feeling. Therefore, having a whisper is always enchanting, and hypnotizing, a whisper with a dangle of the loops will get the subject for desire into pleasure. Body Movement: The body movement is also a technique in erotic hypnosis, as this involves

using your mind (psyche), muscles, body in depicting an act of your intended imagination in expectation and reception of a desired pleasure. This visualization of the mind has to be balance in psyche-somatic of mind and body balance. Most movements include, hypnotizing seductive appeal; belly dancing, strip dancing, nipple jiggling, navel plays, tip toes walk, swirl walk, slow dance, wheelbarrow, butterfly whirl, Spiral swirl walk, and dummy trails. Dummy trails are my own representation of seductive acting using yoga techniques/ positions, Kamasutra or general Hide and Seek pattern. Mostly of karma sutra in slow acting to seduce and enchant. When using yoga positions this is more seen in Tantra and sexual yoga. Which are more in healing, recovery, disciplines, institutional, rehab, Sex therapy, Neuro Linguistic programming. Dummy trailing are

very intense and required experts. When used in institutional make sure you understand the terms and agreement so that it doesn’t lead to sexual abuse and assault. Piercing are really intense and are for those members of social deviance group. Such as BDSM, body modification etc. To piercing in erotic hypnosis is not to intend bleeding, tear but to transfer, deep erotic pleasure to the skin. Just like using acupuncture, dummy needles. Use of erotic needles, pin, or other tools can help intensify seduction. When ready for piercing, apply oil on the skin and begin to apply touches on sensitive area. You can also use your finger nails in piercing, as this help you radiate heat in sensitive area. Massage is another body technique in erotic hypnosis; in fact, a pat by your friend, lover, and boss can signify hypnosis. But be careful for misinterpretation of intent to be seen as sexual harassment. That is why emotional intelligence is needed. Massage helps to relive stress, anxiety, tension, relaxation and reward. Therefore using massage is very vital. Whichever massage technique you use this is implied in erotic hypnosis and seduction.

Mental: In the second category includes storytelling, narration, psyching, visualization and imagination. As explained earlier in my nudist fantasy description you can see how I have used my imagination to create fantastical world as my environment for desire. Most time we create world, people, objects and things to heighten our desires. Psychically, in hypnosis, eroticism also visualize in god and goddess worship. In real sense, creating an archetype for your erotic pleasure, and birth into the

mental, or psychical world of the astral, as in the myth of the sex worship found in these gods and goddess worship of Golem, Erzuli, Ayizan, and Aphrodite, Guédé, Dambalo-Wedo, and

Aida-Wedo, in which your self-hypnotics is invocation and ascension into a realm or sphere in honor of your favorite gods and goddess for your worship and to fulfill that will for the work. In self-hypnotics, your imagination is creation of world or realism that fits your own reality. As you begin practicing self-hypnotics, you can enchant someone with your fantasy, dreams, imagination. Just like creating an invisible script writer or a narrator as writers call, "third person or writer voice". These are useful in understanding how your subjective world relates to you and using this in persuading and appealing. Tantra is also useful in mental as you are using both your mental or subjective abilities with your body to create a sensual and seductive movement using the mind to

center and into sync with the world around you, Tantra requires deep disciple, constant training to successfully apply Tantra in erotic hypnosis. Telepathy is also another technique in erotic hypnosis, using your mental abilities to communicate to the other person close to you. It is transferring of energies, thoughts, and visuals. In relationship, marriages and in twins you can see how they communicate telepathically without using words, or symbols but using emotions, feelings and thoughts, therefore I can be able to send you my desires, feelings and thought using my eyes, mind etc this requires practices and discipline to achieve this higher way of communication and used in erotic hypnosis. Reiki is another mental techniques and I have used this severally and received various feedback in the mental and physical thereby creating sync between mind and physical (psyche-somatic). Reiki is like telepathy but in a farther distance. These energies can help heal stress, anxiety, depression etc. I have used reiki with tantra to send sexual energies within my body and mind.

Auditory; Auditory hypnosis involves using words, sound to generate sound and imagination for visualization and an ambient environment of influence and perception for realism. This involves ambient environment, music and erotic moaning, breath, silence and auditory schizophrenic enchantment. Auditory works well with mental representation as you use the word to influence perception the receiver creates an imagination of your hypnotizing perceived representation. Tone, speech and using emotions such as in the case of hypnotic schizophrenic emotive empathy, in my own technique the vocal pitch and tone are in a range of crossfading, traveling on a wavelength between normal, slow, sensual and moaning for erotic hypnosis. I have also used breath, silent breath and loud breath, this work well in rhythmic wavelength which helps relaxation, orgasm, anxiety and hysteria. Music is also important in auditory hypnosis; sound effect and ambient effect, like, wind, rainfall, etc are also effective in auditory hypnotics. Having considered my techniques, why not try few of these remember to use your imagination and also have a safe word, limit as these can be compulsive and dangerous. Happy wellbeing and Wellness.

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