Flirt Attract Seduce - Seduction Made Simple

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This book is dedicated to: Every boy/man on this planet that wishes to live a life of sexual abundance. Every person that along my journey my entire life that has taught me, influenced me or helped me shape myself into the man I am today. All the women I failed miserably with, thank you for helping to teach me. All the women I hooked up with along the way, thank you for helping to teach me. All the women I’ve had any type of sex with You, the reader . My future children. May this book teach you when you become of age. And especially to: Phoenix, my daughter. I’ll always love you

The purpose of this book is to avoid the frustration and pain that is involved with constantly not knowing what to do and losing women that you desire. I've been though the full gamut of the dating world. Completely clueless to knowing how to attract, seduce and date the women that I desire. They no longer get to chose me. I get to chose them. This took me years of trial and error. That's the knowledge, skills, mindsets and tools this book will provide you. One caveat though YOU must go and practice what I teach. Knowledge without experience is pointless. If you can not commit to yourself to do what it takes to get better, you might as well stop reading this book. Table of contents

Chapter 1: Knowing what works with women It's OK to be you Improve yourself as much as you possibly can Building an attractive lifestyle How you mind can improve your abilities in dating women The Big 5 Areas of Your Life to Self Improve and Why How understanding Alice in wonderland can improve your abilities with women How you feel inside, about yourself and your life Mastering your mind to attract women What to do if you realize in your mind that your life sucks Dating skills improvement plan

Chapter 2: Communicating With Women And Groups And Building A Personality That Is Attractive To Women Presuppositions are your enemy More enemies- Neediness and Insecurity Going out - Fix your sticking points. Starting point for learning how to become better with women -Skill 1: Vibing -Easy exercises for this -Skill 2: Teasing -Skill

3: Qualification

-Placing Qualifications

Building Rapport -Deep

rapport

-Wide rapport

Comfort -1.

Social

-2.

Spatial

-3. Touch -4.

Sexual

-5. Emotional

Emotional Connection -1. Vulnerability -2. Reciprocity

Emotional connection formulas Honesty Screening Attributes Frames

Solidify the frame you desire Prepare for success

Chapter 3: Tools for when picking up women Things you can talk about to attract and seduce a woman

Sexual Priming -Types

of responses

Instant make outs -Here

are the keys

-Couple

of tips so you can weed out women

Social tornado

Chapter 4: Picking up women Online -There are 3 types of guys -Your profile --Quick example of mine -Your pictures -Messages

Day Time How to approach during the day -Victoria's secret example

Night Time at a bar -Being a social dynamo

General Principles for Bars/Clubs When running the entity Timelines Instant dates

Chapter 5: More Essential Tools Going for the number Texting My original text stack to get girls on dates

What to do if the date is days away What to do if she's a very busy girl

Beating sexual resistance and sexual escalation Chapter 6: Other things you need to know Same night sex strategy -4

types of SNS'

Order of how my progression was till I started just focusing on SNS

Dealing with logistics -Questions

to ask for getting laid the same night

Picking places to meet women Picking bars/clubs Picking and engaging groups Denouncing a guy’s claim on a girl Types of guys you will have to deal with out at bars

Picking up without moving Bartenders, go-go dancers and the like Dive bars Busier bars and clubs Becoming a social dynamo and getting laid a lot in college About the author

Chapter 1: Knowing what works with women It's OK to be you To many men just don't get this. Your uniqueness and being willing to share it and being vulnerable is appealing. Here's an example of how an attractive woman on OkCupid contacted ME FIRST. "I just have to say that you may in fact be the most interesting person I've ever come across on this site. People who are who they are and make no apologies for it are fantastic!" All that's needed is being able to do what I said about, but showcase yourself in a positive light. I tell women all the time that I teach men how to attract and pick up women. It may sound funny and counter productive, but in fact it makes them more attracted to me because I've got the goods to back up what I said through my actions. It doesn't matter if your hobbies are playing xbox, reading, doing calligraphy, taxidermy or anything else. Showcase those things in a positive light and share them. It gives you depth. A woman doesn't need to have the same hobbies. All this does is it shows that you have some kind of life. The worst kind of life you can have is no life. The best kind is one you are passionate about.

There is a better way though. If you have things you've kept on the shelf as "I'm interested in checking this hobby out someday" then stop wasting time and start doing the things that interest you. By doing so, this will make you more interesting. When you talk about the things that you are passionate about women will hear it in your voice. It's engaging and sucks them in. Part of the psychology behind this is because now you are a man of action that does and goes for the things he wants. This one single adaptation to your life will help you stand out among the sea of other men. We live in a world where people settle. The settle in their careers, they settle in their personal relationships and they settle when it comes to the things they do. People that do what they love have passion and enthusiasm in their lives. Other people sense it and in a funny way wish they had that passion and enthusiasm. It also has the advantage of making you magnetic and charismatic.

Improve yourself as much as you possibly can There is nothing sexier to a woman than this. It will also make you feel sexier and more confident. Improve all areas of your life. If you are fat, lose the weight and build some muscle. The most perfect piece of wisdom I ever heard about this I heard from Hypnotica. He told me that for the students he teaches that are overweight, he flips it and asks them if a woman was 60 lbs. overweight would they want to date that girl. Think about this and take an honest look at yourself. If you could see through the eyes of a woman, would you want to date you? If so, why? Be blunt with yourself. When it comes down to trying to get good in the dating realm sometimes people put the cart before the horse. They try to run before they learn to walk in a sense. Some people try to learn tactics to give themselves an edge without first taking a look at themselves first. In order for there to be any true satisfaction one must first love oneself, value their own opinion first and foremost and have their life in order. Without this, success will be shallow and meaningless. If this isn’t in place it needs to be built. Having this foundation is a key component. If you can’t say that you feel this way without 100% conviction then work on that first. I say this because I have lived it. At one point, all I was doing was chasing women. I didn’t build the relationships I wanted which ultimately had an impact on the way I felt about myself which had a direct correlation on my life and my abilities. This lead into sex just to have sex, the thrill of the chase, alcohol and drugs, but not targeting the things that would make me happy. Having a fun, attractive life will always automatically attract women and new friends into your life. It’ll make you happier which will positively affect all aspects of life. This works on the core first, treating

the condition and not just a symptom. Start from where you are at and build from there. If your social life isn’t what you want it to be or you are uncomfortable talking to people, work on that to start; worry about picking up women later. By doing this first it will make it easier for you than if you don’t handle this issue first. When dealing with people a lot of our limitations become imposed on us because of fear. Whether it is not going to talk to that cute girl you see across the bar, ending a date that was going well without trying for sex even though you want it or even as little as speaking your mind. Part of this is because we as people are worried about what others think of us and the fear of being rejected. Most people think this way, even women. This frame of mind robs our interactions of what truly could be. Remember we always get back when we give. The way to look at things is to focus on what you can do to improve or enrich this other person’s life. This works 2 fold. Once you no longer are trapped inside yourself in a sense, you will be acting more out of love, fun and curiosity and not focusing on yourself when you interact. The second is that others will appreciate you and it will be reflected back on you. Focus on a mindset that is more into giving than what you can get. This takes pressure and stress off things. First thing that one should do is take a personal inventory of one’s life and figure out where they are: All the good and all the bad. Knowing this is part of the process. Next figure out what you want out of your life, what your ideal self and lifestyle would be like. Start magnifying your strengths and focus on improving what needs to be improved. A big thing a lot of people avoid is taking risks. Whether it being introducing yourself to people you want to meet or wanting to kiss a girl, but chickening out in order to avoid rejection. Ultimately these things haunt you in the short run as well as the long run. The big thing they do is impede your progress. Building an attractive lifestyle This means socializing and building up a group or bunch of groups that are your core friends. Remember though to be selective in who you bring around you because YOU WILL BE JUDGED BY THE COMPANY YOU KEEP. Also get your shit together. This means your career, having hobbies that you like to do and be constantly evolving who you are. Sure partying is great, but no one wants to date someone that all they do is drink unless they are an alcoholic too. Be adventurous and try new things. This will build more depth in who you are. Along the way you will discover things that you like and things that you don't like. This is just trial and error. Start by picking something and sticking with it for a couple weeks to a month then figure out how you feel. If you like it, then keep it. If not, discard it.

Keep doing this process over and over. It'll bring more joy into your life, you'll build a more attractive life and along the way you will learn about who you are. All of that is powerful and makes you a more attractive male. How you mind can improve your abilities in dating women This part is a culmination of my past and recent events which caused me to take a cold hard look and save myself from a downward spiral. Your brain is an amazing tool, the only downside is that when you were born you weren’t given an instruction manual on how to operate it. On top of that, you were conditioned from birth by factors out of your control which left you wired in a certain way. Your entire life has been lead based on the parameters of this wiring. I say fuck that! Choose to rewire yourself the way you want to be. To feel the way you want to feel. It’s sad that most people have chosen to allow their emotional states to be dictated by the opinions of others. In this case what you are really doing is saying that your own opinions don’t mean shit compared to the opinions of strangers. This leads to neediness, lack of enjoyment of life, a never ending urge for people to like you and need to please the whims of others. Guess what my friend. YOU are living YOUR life not these other people you are randomly meeting. In your mind, the most important person in your world should be YOU. If you don't feel that way, then you are living a false life and there lies your problem. If you truly believe that your opinion of yourself is more important than what another person thinks of you some awesome things will begin to happen. 1. You wouldn’t fuck yourself up so much when talking to women and in other areas that are social in nature. 2. Your demeanor in what you present to the world would be different. 3. People would be responding to you different. 4. If that cute chick you are talking to gets disinterested and leaves, it won’t have that dagger to the heart affect on you. 5. Your anxiety levels will drop to the floor. 6. You won’t be seeking approval from others or trying to take value from them. Instead you will truly be interacting with people and connecting with them. This in it’s own is where magic starts happening. All these negative thoughts that may be going on in your head (ex. I’m not (fill in the blank) and that’s why girls don’t like me) well guess what: EVERYONE YOU ENCOUNTER THINKS THIS SAME WAY. That hot chick that you want to approach, but are afraid to has these thoughts too. She may feel like a shy, scared little girl inside. The point is you don’t know what is going on in a persons head so to already make a judgement against yourself or about them before you’ve even talked to them is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. Also along those lines, say you get rejected by some girl. You only see half the story and even that is jaded because it is what you have applied meaning to. You may be saying “I suck with women, once again here's another one that proves it to me”, but since you don’t know what’s going on in her head or her life you are missing out on something huge. Her dog could have just died, she just found out her dad has cancer, etc. and you just happened to come around at the wrong time and you accept another dagger to your heart. When you come to realize this as truth, an inner shift will occur and things that once caused you pain won’t affect you the same. Learn to master your mind. It can be your greatest ally or foe depending on you. It can make you

unbreakable or fragile, once again the choice is up to you. What I mean by this is your self talk. If you choose to moderate your mind, direct it to the positive and focus on the greatness that is you; it becomes like invisible armor. When you allow it to run amuck, falter and fall into negative patterns; it becomes like poison that you are unknowingly ingesting. Focus on you because ultimately THE ONLY THING YOU CAN CONTROL IS YOU. Reclaim the power that was rightfully given to you at birth. The Big 5 Areas of Your Life to Self Improve and Why I’ve been around the block for awhile and gone through a lot. • • • •

Sex junkie Alcoholic Drug user Asshole

and probably much more… What I’ve come to realize through this journey is that there are 5 areas of your life that you MUST keep balanced or happiness will be out of reach and you will look else where trying to obtain it. • • • • •

Spirituality Sexual life Mental Health Physical health Social life

Think of it like a pie. Each piece needs to be in alignment. If you focus too much on one then you neglect others. If any area suffers then they all suffer. Spiritual- If this is lacking it can affect all the rest. Know thy self Your sexual life- If you focus too much on this it can mess up social abilities because possibly all you are doing is just trying to get sex. You miss out on making friends and lose friends in the process. This can have a substantial impact on your mental health. • Examples: Viewing women only as sex objects, your entire identity revolving around getting laid, it no longer gratifies you and then it sinks in how much you’ve lost or missed out on. Mental heath- This is an obvious one. Happy or unhappy. It will affect your social life, sexual life, physical health and your spirituality. Why do you think so many people that got rich and famous either died from drugs or committed suicide. Physical health- This effects the way you see yourself. Which in turns affects how you feel. How you feel affects everything else. Your social life- Not having one or having one you enjoy leads to being unhappy. Being socially awkward definitely leads to not getting laid. Which affects mental health and the rest of the dominos fall. How understanding Alice in wonderland can improve your abilities with women You are alice. In the movie, Alice has forgot who she once was. This relates to you on this level. As a baby you were social, confident and asked for what you want. Through the years of social conditioning and life experiences we have forgot our true nature.

Part of what I teach is how to reconnect with that true nature of who you are. In wonderland, the impossible is possible. This is reality. Every one has their own version of what they think reality is. Some don't realize that they hold the keys and the power to reshape their reality to what they desire. Sometimes it takes just a shift in perspective. Sometimes it takes going up against personal beliefs and smashing them through life experience. We have all done this at different stages of our lives. The story is her journey to regaining her power and becoming the Alice she needs to be to succeed. This is your journey. It is about the same thing. Some behaviors may need to be unlearned, new mindsets adopted, a fresh perspective on things and taking action is what will be needed to transform you into a more naturally attractive male. This is vital! The reason for this is to get the root of the issues you are having with women. Clear those out and picking up women or getting girlfriends becomes effortless. The Jabberwocky is your demons and fears. This needs to be faced with courage and strength. Without overcoming these demons and fears I'm sad to say that you will keep repeating the same patterns in similar situations. Too many people don't face that last part and in a sense become their own self saboteur when it comes to becoming a better, more attractive version of themselves. How you feel inside, about yourself and your life The outside world really is a manifestation of what you think and your beliefs. The external world, your current reality is truly dictated by this. Most people live on autopilot in a negative "woe is me" state or they settle for where they are in life and basically skate through life and at the end regret the choices that they didn’t make. The first thing to do is to take charge of your life and stop making excuses or blaming other people. We live in patterns, they come from our subconscious and the thoughts we have. The only way to let go of them is you must take personal responsibility for the things that happen in your life. These are things you can control and change. By taking conscious action and eliminating the excuses this allows you to let go of the scapegoats you have. When it comes down to decisions or destiny, only you have the power to choose whether to take the wheel of the ship and steer it the course you desire or let life wisk you around in random directions like a leaf in the wind. I read a quote once that sums this up perfectly: “Those who make decisions and have concrete goals are masters of their fate.

Those that don’t are servants of their fate” –Unknown The choice in that is yours. You just have to make it. Sure it’s easier to blame others and make excuses because it protects our egos, but in the wondrous world that is life it ends up becoming a block. It blocks us from choosing to change our situations, to go for what we want and not what others want for us. Take an honest look at your life. • Pull out 3 pieces of paper • On one side of the first, write down EVERYTHING that you are grateful for. • On the other side write down EVERYTHING you want out of life. What’s important to you? What do you stand for? How you want to live your life? What are your goals? Fold this up, put it in your wallet and carry it with you. This is important because if you don’t know what you want then how can you even get it. On one side of the second piece of paper write down what brings you joy. Do more of that. On the other side write down want takes joy away from you. Do less of that. On the third piece of paper, write down what you are willing allow into your life. On the other side, write down what you are not willing to stand for in your life. Systematically weed out those things you do and people you deal with that don’t fall into the pile of “This is what I stand for and will put up with”. Trust me it’ll make you happier. Did you do the exercise? If not, DO IT. What you have done by completing this exercise is define how you are going to live- a code of how you will live your life. If you have mental illnesses, figure out if it’s something you were born with or it’s a degenerative disease that you have developed overtime. If it’s the second (or in some cases also the first), good chance it may be reversible. The human body is meant to regenerate itself so take a good hard look at what you are putting in your body. Your body is like a car. Example: If you put sugar in your gas tank instead of gas, you’d end up destroying your engine. What you put in your body is a direct reflection of what you get out of it. Here’s the big 3: • Air • Water • Food.

Two of these you have complete control over and you can sort of control the third. Obviously, you can choose what you eat. I bring this up because of many reasons. A couple of them being, your general mood and overall energy. If either of these you feel you have low levels of; you may want to reconsider what you are putting in your body. Quick tip: If you are living a fast food type of diet, stop it. All it ends up doing in the long run is affecting you mentally, physically and lowers your energy levels. As for the water you drink. Did you know that a lot. tap water and bottled water is actually bad for you? I didn’t know until a little while ago.

Here’s 4 things about our drinking water. • Chlorine- kills bacteria (kills us slowly) • Fluoride- keeps the pipes from rusting. Sound great right. Not for your body or brain. • Lye- Tap water without it is actually undrinkable. Lye has a PH of 13-14, so it can balance out the acidity of our water so it can be drinkable. • Medications- Who know’s what chemical cocktails are floating around in are water because when hospitals have medications that are expired they flush them. Change what you put in your body and you change your life because you’ll definitely change the way you feel and give your body a fighting chance to heal itself in this acidic type of lifestyle we live in. As for air, really the only thing you can do is try avoid pollutants. It’s your call to smoke or work in a place like a sulfur mine. If you have past traumas especially things hidden, these will affect the way you are with the world. I would recommend finding someone that can help you with this to get your inner baggage cleared up.

Mastering your mind to attract women One day when I was just spending time with my daughter playing when I decided to put on youtube so she could listen and watch children’s nursery rhymes. Among them came: Row, Row, Row your boat. It was the inspiration of this. It showed a cat and a dog progressing down the winter and as each chorus ended, it would progress to a new stage of life. Spring for childhood Summer for adolescence Fall for adulthood Winter for old age What I found amazing in this, was the simplicity of it’s message

Row, row, row your boat, Gently down the stream. Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily, Life is but a dream. In my perception, here’s how I look at it:   • The first line describes you. You are the boat.   • The second line describes your journey through life. That there is no reason to rush things and stress out, but to go about it at your own comfortable pace.   • The third line describes that you should be happy. Think about that in your life. You’ve come so far in your journey, but are you truly happy with the things you do. Do you enjoy your job? Do you enjoy the social life you have? Do you enjoy the activities you do? Do you enjoy the sexual life you have? Do you enjoy your life? Do you enjoy the partner you are with? I could go on and on with questions, but you get the point. This is your life and there is no sense going about it feeling terrible. Exercise: Sit down with a notebook and explore your life. The big 5 are: spirituality, mental health, physical health, social life and sexual life. Be honest with yourself and ask yourself 3 questions for each: Am I happy with my….? If I was to rate how I feel about my…. from a scale of 1 to 10, what number would it be? What are some things I can do to improve my….?   • The final line represents that you are the master controlling your life even if you think you aren’t. Think about that. Your job: You choose to do it, but you don’t have to. If you are unhappy, there is no force out there saying you can’t change careers or stay in the same field and work for another company. Your body: If you are unhappy with the way you look, change that. Find a path that fits you. You don’t work out? Start. You eat a lot of junk food? Stop and come up with another meal strategy. You are unhappy: figure out whats going on here. Here are 3 exercises for this: • In your notebook, write down everything you can think of that makes you unhappy. Next for each one, write down the reasons that you do these things. Finally, eliminate the ones that are trivial and the ones you can give up starting now. • This one builds off of the last one. The things you are unhappy with write down two different things about each one: This situation, thing, person, job, etc… what about it could I choose to be happy about if I really wanted to be? If this truly makes me miserable: what could I do to replace it, make the situation better or stop it?   • Gratitude. What are you grateful for? Write this out and keep coming back to it. What am I grateful for and why? This helps show you the good things in your life that are currently there. We as people get so caught up in life and do things on autopilot that we forget the little things. •   Examples: Having the ability to walk, talk, hear, smell, taste, touch, tie your shoe, enjoy a sunset, possibly drink clean water, possibly eat organic food, have shelter, have a computer, read books, write out things, etc…Which brings me back to my original point. You control what you do in the next minute, the next 5 minutes, the next hour, the next day, the next week, the next month and

the next year.   Your dreams of where you want to be are your choice. The first thing you have to do is chose what you want and take daily action toward that goal. Maybe it will take you a month to get there, maybe a year; either way it’s daily action that will get you there. The reason I say daily action is that it keeps you focused. Second it takes what might feel overwhelming and breaks it down into many pieces that in that form seem manageable. Third it gets you moving constantly toward your goal. You have a choice in that too. Do you do things that you want and that are in the direction of your goal or do you skip days, possibly weeks or months and find yourself a year from now no closer to your goal. The choice is yours to make.

What to do if you realize in your mind that your life sucks This is going to go into the 80/20 principle. I didn’t come up with it, but it seems appropriate because it seems to affect everything in life. What it is, is that 20% of your efforts equate to 80% of you success. What this also means is that 20% of the things that you do equate to 80% of the joy you have in your life. If you think about it then 20% of what you do equates to 80% of your unhappiness. The beauty of this is that you can improve your life by minimizing the things that suck. Like stated above, it’s best to build a strategy to minimize them. Brainstorm and be completely honest with yourself. What you dislike, what you wish to fix, what you despise and what you just utterly hate doing. Examples of this include, but not limited to: Your job, your friends, your health, your girlfriend and the depth of your relationships with people. This can be used as well for those things that you like, love, that bring you joy and happiness. You can build a strategy to maximize these too. What I’ve found works for me and others is to set rules up. You have choice in your life. You don’t have to truly do things that suck. I know what you may be saying “But Ratisse I hate my job and I have to do it”. No you truly don’t have to. No one is putting a gun to your head. No one is making you do anything, you stay at your job because it provides some safety of income. In that scenario, figure out if it is the job you hate or the environment you are in. You have all the power to make a change in that if you wish to. I know it may be scary, but your happiness is worth it.

What you may not realize is that your actions, what you truly despise have a ripple effect on your life and your interactions with the world you live in. Every now and then you may have to do some things that suck, but that’s life. They shouldn’t control your life though and if they happen with regularity, just get rid of them. It may be uncomfortable and you may be scared, but over the long run in your life you will be thankful you did. There’s nothing worse than doing something that is in a sense poisoning you and going against the grain that is you. If you’re not building the life of your dreams, in reality it’s no one else’s fault but your own. You can derive so much satisfaction from just refusing to do the bullshit everyone else thinks you should do and choosing to go by the beat of your own drum. In reality, you get to set the rules about how people interact with you. If they decide not to play by those rules then part ways. You don’t have to be an asshole about it, but you can choose to say what you will not do. “I do not do (XYZ)” or “I don’t allow (XYZ) in my life”. No one is responsible for you and your life, but you. Your ideal life is your responsibility. Your time is your own and it’s your choice how you want to spend it. If you get stuck in a shitty situation, change it immediately. Don’t sell your life for what you don’t want. Put yourself first. Start today.

Dating skills improvement plan The purpose of your game plan obviously falls somewhere between this: You want to get you laid constantly by the type of women you want or to be able to catch that particular girl that strikes your fancy and for her to be your girlfriend. First thing you need to know is where you are. Be completely honest with yourself. No one else needs to know. Grab a sheet a paper and write down ALL the positive abilities you have under your belt when it comes to meeting new people, socializing, talking to decent looking chicks, talking to women that you are not sexually into, talking to hot women, talking to extremely hot women, talking with guys,

connecting with people, making friends, texting women and sexually escalating with women. This is important for numerous reasons. One being now you have a conscious knowledge of your strengths, these things you can work on as well and magnify to greater heights. On another sheet of paper, once again be brutally honest with yourself. Do not skip anything. This is a list of the qualities and abilities you feel you lack and need to improve on. Whether it be not even able to even hold a conversation with a random old lady you. I know it sounds silly, but people are people regardless of how you look at it. Congratulations! You now have a list of things that you need to work on. Your list may be short or it could be so long that it’s overwhelming. This is ok regardless. You will be systematically working on these aspects. Next rank them by importance and by a scale of basic to advanced. You do not want to skip steps here. Example: If you can’t even hold a conversation with a brand new woman for 5 minutes when you are sober- you should not be working on how to seal the deal. I’m not sure how long the process of getting to where you want will take you. For everyone it’s different and that is a process that you have to go through. Some you maybe be fresh into this. You may have some good experiences and be semi decent with women. You could take off like a rocket ship in 2 months. Once again this is based on the individual. When I got into this I was pretty decent with women when I had friends with me and was just having fun. Picking up chicks was just a natural occurrence. Four years ago in April of 2007, I made my first approach. I had decided to focus on getting this area of my life handled. I was scared shitless even after having lots of success before. When I came into the dating community, I had already slept with 44 women. I just didn’t know how I really did it. In my mind it was this: I drank alcohol, hung out with my social groups and just talked to new women. My problem was I had no conscious understanding of how I did it. So back to the story, my first night focusing on this I made 2 approaches. It took me 4 drinks and about 2 hours to work up the courage to approach my first group. I walked over to a group of people and opened one of the dudes in the group with something really stupid. He looked at me like I was nuts, cut me off and said “Why are you asking me this? Do you think I even give a shit?” I felt so fucking stupid. With terror running through my veins, I grabbed a drink and stood by the bar blankly staring off into space.

Luckily a guy and a girl were within 5 feet. I started the conversation the same way. I stumbled through it and it became a quick discussion between the three of us. I didn’t approach another group. I finished my drink, left the bar and drove home feeling defeated. The thing I had though was hope. I had faith in routines because I saw the correlation between my job and Mystery Method. They were almost mirrors on the routine side. I knew from experience in sales that I was going to feel weird and uncomfortable for a while. I kept at it and my average stayed the same for three months. I was banging a new girl once a month. At three months, my skills had magnified a bunch. Partially due to deciding to do a 30 day challenge where I was going out every night and talking to women during the day at places I visited regularly. Gas pumps, coffee shops and restaurants. I passed the 30 days and completed 57 days instead. That time was valuable because I learned from my mistakes as well as my successes. On that note remember, you will get out of this what you put into it. Meaning if you approach 10 women a week, don’t expect to get rockstar results anytime soon. I tell students all the time that while training yourself make sure to talk to 50 new women/groups per week. Trust me it adds up. By my sixth month in this journey, I was hands down the best seducer in Florida. I only got there because I decided that’s what I wanted. I was not going to settle for mediocrity. I wanted the abilities to be able to be dropped off in a city I never had been in and be able to go to a bar and to take home a pretty girl almost every time I went out. Within my first year in the journey I had slept with 70-ish more women. Think about that. I lost my virginity when I was 18. It took me 7 years to sleep with 44 women. Within one year I had evolved so fast that I completely crushed what I came in with and in a seventh of the time. I don’t bring this up to brag. I bring this up to motivate you and show you what is possible. This book you are reading right now is an accumulation of knowledge and skills I acquired over my entire life meeting and picking up women AND was able to turn into a way for others to mirror my process. I chose the life I wanted: I wanted to become one of THE BEST SEDUCERS ON THIS PLANET. Know it’s time for you to choose yours. Remember that exercise about what you wanted in life I had you do earlier in this book, if you haven’t done it: DO IT. Now take another sheet of paper out and sit down and think about what you want out of your dating life and the women you want.

What abilities are you going to have to grow within you to make these things happen? What things about your behavior are you going to have to eliminate to make these things possible? The process may be long and tedious, but if it’s what you truly want it. Trust me, it's worth it. I know from experience. Never in my wildest dreams when growing up did I think I would even have a fraction of the skill I possess. When I was younger I was shy and a loner. I had 5 actual friends and none of them went to my high school. I’ve been pretty low and social inept in this area, but I’m living proof that it can be improved. Side note: Even with everything this book has to teach you, you will only become as good as you desire to be. I can’t stress enough that you must always be pushing yourself. Becoming complacent will only turn into laziness and that becomes a backwards slide during your climb Going out You shouldn’t go out with the intention of getting laid. You should be going out to have fun and to improve your skills and weaknesses. • Every action should be judged on an overall (global purpose rather than the immediate effect.) When your current game plan is not getting you what you want, something needs to be tweaked or changed completely • What to change • To what to change to • How to cause that change Fix your sticking points Sticking points limit the entire system’s output. The system is the game plan. The output is getting laid, making friends, getting girlfriends, SNL's, etc. Therefore we have to stop focusing on getting laid/getting girlfriends and start focus on fixing what limits us. Here are the steps: • Journal about your experiences Write all the good and all the bad. You may not notice consciously what the issue is, but if you journal, read and reflect on your journal then you will start to notice patterns of what you are doing right and wrong. This enables you to fix these issues • Decide how to fix what limits you Now that you have identified what is holding you back then the next step is to explore possible solutions. Brainstorm as many possible solutions to what needs to get fixed. Also ask others that already have this current issue under control what they do. Pick one solution and commit to adapting that behavior/solution for a minimum of 10-30 interactions to see if that helps you fix the

issue. If it doesn’t, try another solution. This process is a continuous cycle. • Subordinate your game plan to the above solution Redesign your game plan to implement the potential fix to what limits you. Do not change anything else. This allows you to know if what you have implemented is working or not. If you try to re-haul everything all at once you will not know what is working and what is not. That’s very counter-productive. • Elevate what limits you With your redesigned game plan you will go out and start hunting for opportunities to eliminate that particular limitation. You will subordinate everything to work on that sticking point. That means is if you have to you’ll give up an opportunity to get laid for the opportunity to fix your issues. **I know that sucks, but it’s for your greater good** Think of it as working toward the bigger picture of what you want. There will come a time where you will break through that issue. • It’s a continuous process Go back to Step 1. Work on no more than 3 things that limit you at a time. This way no matter you will have a good opportunity of facing each one of them multiple times a night. Whether it is getting the courage to attempt to kiss a girl, hold a conversation for more than five minutes, talking to a group bigger that 3 people, talking to a group that has guys in it, etc. Chapter 3: Communicating With Women And Groups And Building A Personality That Is Attractive To Women Presuppositions are your enemy This tends to be a major hang up for guys. The way that society has treated us as individuals and the media has blown this out of proportion. Also we all come from different backgrounds where either someone in the past or events that have happened caused us to lose our true selves. For most of us our childhood innocence is gone. People walk around judging themselves as shy, ugly and unattractive because of this. This feeling of not being worthy of a woman because of your beliefs about yourself and that the beautiful woman across the bar or at the same grocery store wouldn’t be into you is just your mind sabotaging itself. We act in accordance to our past experiences and people pick up on these things. The silver lining in this is that those thoughts in your head are just that: thoughts. They aren’t the truth. Everyone, even those super attractive women, walks around with some sort of insecurity. On top of that any thoughts of “Oh she wouldn’t go for me because I’m (x)” is so untrue because you do not know what’s going on in her head. You could be her “perfect 10”, but by allowing your mind to be your enemy you eliminate yourself from the game from the bat. If you doubt me on this and you have female friends, sit down with them and ask them “In an ideal

world if you could change one thing about you, what would it be?”, the answers you will get will be shocking to you because you see her through your eyes, but she is telling you what see sees through her eyes. Each and every one of us is living in our own personal realities that no one else can truly see, but us. I’ll give you a good example of this. When I was 18, I thought I was shy, unattractive and that no one would want me. I thought that everyone else was on a higher level then myself. I didn’t have a book to help me with this nor did my parents. One day with I was at a mall with my best friend at the time, Patrick, we came across his ex-girlfriend and her hot Russian friend. I started chatting with the both of them and ended up later getting the Russian’s number. We spent the next week talking on the phone and it just seemed to click beautifully. I asked her out and to my surprise she said yes. On our first date, I just kept talking and talking. Eventually she made the first move and kissed me. A month into the relationship once again I wasn’t really making any moves. I was just in shock yet enjoying the fact that I was in the relationship. She once again made a move on me and asked if I wanted to have sex with her and that’s how I lost my virginity. After a couple more weeks I found myself still baffled how I pulled this off so I sat her down and asked her why she was with me. She started telling me all these attributes about myself that I didn’t even see. It was like I was blind and now I could see. In my mind, her reality of me and my reality of me clashed completely. I remember starring at myself in the mirror and questioning it. I came to the conclusion that only one of us was right and that maybe it was her. This alone shattered my beliefs about myself. I started acting differently and more positive traits came out of me. More enemies- Neediness and Insecurity These two things will completely destroy your success with women. If you ask any dating coach what are the keys to being attractive with women, I'm pretty sure every single one of them will say confidence is one of the keys. Being insecure sucks. First off it will kill your creativity, project itself as nervousness which people will be able to read and you will second guess yourself all the time. When you second guess yourself, you will miss all types of opportunities. Some examples: You don't even approach the women you want. You hesitate waiting for the perfect

moment to kiss her or ask for her number. This leads to some other guy will swoop in a end up with her instead of you. You'll miss out on opportunities to get laid. You'll miss out on opportunities to truly getting to know someone that could be your dream girl because you are afraid to ask the things you really want to ask her. This can be fixed in a variety of ways. Hypnosis can be used for this. My absolute favorite though is real world experience. You have to remember something about the people you meet or go on dates with. You may never see again in your life so start giving a fuck about what you think of you and not what you think may be going through their head. On the topic of neediness. Have you ever had an experience in your life where someone was being to needy with you? I'm pretty sure you have. It's annoying and it pushes people away. Many men make this mistake all the time and wonder what they are doing wrong in their dating life. Think of it like this. If a woman texted you 27 times in a row while your phone was off for 3 hours, what would you think of the situation? If you are like me, you would be like "You have got to be kidding me. WHAT. THE. FUCK." Think about the way you have been interacting with women and people in general. If you are doing either of these, stop it immediately. Chose to speak up and speak your mind. If someone doesn't like it, too bad. That is not your problem. That's an inner issue they have with it.

Starting point for learning how to become better with women These are 3 basic skills that anyone learning how to become good with women and people in general need to have down first. I put them in order of importance because it’s like building a house. Without the foundation the structure is fragile and the walls can come down. **Everything past these first 3 should be learned AFTER getting these down.** Skill 1: Vibing This is an essential skill that everyone needs to learn. It’ll make the difference between needing routines and running out of things to say or being able to flow. It also will overflow into all areas of your life.

When talking to a woman she will give you all the information you need to know how to proceed, you just have to listen, understand and know what to do next. Most people are constantly in their head thinking trying to think of the next thing to tell her while at the same time not paying attention to the words that come out her mouth. All it really is: Is listening and responding. This allows you to be present in your interaction instead of in la-la land. Obviously this is a skill, but it is a skill that you can learn to develop. This skill not only helps in seduction; but in life, in jobs and with friends. I use it on a daily basis. I’m in sales. My job is to help them buy my product by seeing what their needs are and showing them how my product can meet those needs. When talking to people they communicate to me, through their actions and words, how to sell them. Women are the same way. Example: I could be talking about travel. Where I’ve been and where she has been. This has an infinite number of routes that it could flow to. Say she says she’s been in Ireland I can continue down that track instead of switch topics and bring up something fancy I thought of. I could go into how she liked the trip, if she had Sheppard’s pie, kissed the blarney stone, stayed out in a small village, did the normal tourist thing, learned a little Gaelic and so on. Women give you everything you need, it’s just a matter of seeing it, feeling, listening and using the information given. It may take some time to develop this sense, but you can do it. Once you have it down, it becomes autopilot like tying your shoes.

Easy exercises for this During your day to day interactions, get yourself on a topic and try to see how far you can take it. Start out small with continuing down that conversational path for a min. When this gets comfortable attempt to keep the conversation going for longer. Next try going down one conversation path, switch to another and have that one last a minute or so. Once that’s easy, keep going with that pattern. Over time you will feel a natural connection and flow with every one you talk to. Rinse and repeat this over and over. You want to be able to easily freestyle with any topic she brings your way. This exercise helps you get there. The reason for this is just so you can properly interact with people, make friends and later on be able to hold conversations with women without coming off weird.

Skill 2: Teasing This is part of the sauce in the recipe. This makes the difference between just being a friend and someone she’s interested in. This is a natural occurrence between men and women. This is one of my favorite ways to build attraction. The reason why is it's a game. It's like a flirtatious dance between a man and a woman. It stimulates a woman. Women are emotional creatures. If you interact with them and they feel nothing for you, it's pointless to pursue. She will have no desire to go on a date or get to know you better. When you interact, make it about them. Make it fun, light and playful. Also get them to emotionally connect with me, but that's a totally different topic. Remember back in kindergarden and 1st grade when boys and girls would tease each other and the other would come chasing. By teasing it maintains the fun between the two of you, builds attraction and builds sexual tension. Now I must clarify and say teasing is not being rude. It’s just poking fun. Simple examples so you get the feel of it are: “You and I would never get along. Not sure you could handle all this awesomeness.” “You seem innocent. That’s good because I’m a trouble maker. We can balance each other out.” “I should hire you as my live in maid. The pay sucks and I don’t offer free meals, but other than that it’s a great job.” Now I'm going to give you part of a recent text interaction so you understand what I mean…and no….teasing does not mean insulting the woman. Example: ME: Do you always pick up cute guys on okCupid? lol -Ratisse **Here I'm being playful and funny while roleplaying and flipping the frame as to SHE picked me up. A woman knows what I'm doing here. It's a lot different then the messages that she normally gets, caused intrigue, teases, helps me stand out among the crowd of other guys as well as starts it off on a playful note. All good things.** HER: No haha can't say that I do **Here she is playing along. That means I've hooked her and it's time to turn this interaction into a date via teasing, humor, general conversation and a game plan** ME: I guess I should feel special then. Lol Are you any good at pool? :) **Here I'm acknowledging and responding based on her reply as well as setting my self up for a tease as well as a future date plan.**

HER: Ha not really I get lucky sometimes but that's it Me: Perfect! Then I promise to only hustle you out of hug and candy. ;) **Once again a fun playful tease** Her: Candy… That's a bit harsh haha **Once again she's playing along and this type of communication is going to get me to that goal of her wanting to see me again**

There are a lot of things that can be done in person when meeting a woman, texting and on the date. It comes down to knowing what to do. By building this fun world that you can play in together it not only makes her comfortable with you, but will drive her to want to see you again. Understanding this and how to implement it is vital in your success with women. This is one of the keys to being successful with women. Get this down and you will be so much closer to mastering your attraction abilities with women. Once you get this down, you will notice a difference in your life. It will flow out of you on autopilot. Also it will come to your aid when you meet that woman that is your type down to the letter. Being armed with the tools to attract her will make you stand out and shine among the sea of men out there clamoring for the same women. Become the selector not the selected. Skill 3: Qualification This is super important because a woman wants to be wanted for who she is not just because of her looks. This makes the difference between the interaction going nowhere, a possible one night stand, a potential girlfriend, friends with benefits as well as other opportunities. When you qualify it should be on attributes and things that she does. Now I’m not saying that you should like everything she does. As a man you should have things you look for in a woman, you should screen women on those to sift through the sea of women out there in the world. Also inside qualification you can place qualifications on her and frame her in the image you desire. I want to give you an example of how you could relate to how a woman feels on a normal basis. Say I didn’t know that you were a millionaire. You and I hit it off as friends. You would feel I generally liked you as a person. Now let’s say that I knew you were a millionaire and you got the impression I did, you would feel like I

was only trying to be your friend to see what I could get out of your connections and money.

Placing Qualifications These can be cold reads or how you desire her to act. If you craft the image well, she will live up to your expectations. Reason this works is just social conditioning. Here’s a good example of what I mean: Think about this. Have you ever had it in your life where you act one way with one group of people and completely different with another group. That’s social conditioning at work. Examples of qualification and conditioning -"Do you have something in your life that you are passionate about beyond belief ... and please don't say watching TV (smirk)." **Here you are setting it up for her to give you a deep answer. The TV part is so she can’t cop out with a lame answer** -"What was something that made you want to go down that road in life?" ... Reward with "wow that's really cool. So few people can say ... " then add something like “Let me ask why is this road in your life important to you” **Here you are starting the foundation of being her cheerleader in a sense. This will then cause her to be more open to you- you are positive reinforcement**

Building Rapport I’m going to go over this briefly. There are two types of rapport. Both are important to every element of picking up chicks. This is what keeps the conversation going. Deep rapport This is connecting on a subject and taking it as far down as possible in conversation. Depending on the level of emotional comfort you have with her will determine the type and how deep of an answer you will get. This can lead to her telling you her deepest darkest secrets as well as other things that very few people in her life know about. This builds a deep bond with you. People that fall in love with each other natural do this. Deep rapport is where more intense bonding occurs, these are specific things you both have in common and are passionate about.

Example of this: This is what happens when scientists get together and they are discussing the meaning of life and trying to figure it out via mathematics. If we use an iceberg analogy, this is what’s under the surface of the water.

Wide rapport This is like a shotgun blast where all the pellets scatter. All this is connecting and scratching the surface of a variety of subjects. If you want to build wide rapport, just keep talking about a variety of subject. Some of these will resonate with who you are speaking with and can shift into deep rapport. Obviously you can’t just have one or the other. You need both. Wide rapport sets the foundation for deep rapport. This is how you build relationships. People start talking about subjects, find things in common with each other and this builds a level of comfort because you both are into the same stuff so therefore you are both like each other. A good way to think of this is to look at this as a superficial level. A good analogy of this is to think of an iceberg- this is the tip. The combination of time + wide rapport + deep rapport turns into an extremely deep level of comfort

Comfort There a lot of different levels and types of comfort. All these are affected by time and other factors like how much space there is in the “container” you both are in. By container I mean many things. Examples: being on a bus, in an elevator, in a bar, in a park. All of these are containers in one form or another. A lot of the rules regarding comfort and space are intuitively picked up. If you open yourself up to being present. You’ll be able to quickly learn, what’s acceptable and when it’s acceptable. These rules can change based on the present situation and environment. #1: Social Social has to do with you being there in presence. When you are dealing with a group of people they get a snapshot of you based off of your energy level (monotone, nervous, excited, comfortable in who you are, etc.) and how you communicate with them verbally and your subconscious behaviors. THIS IS THE FIRST THING YOU HAVE TO GET DOWN. That initial 30 seconds to a minute is crucial. It will set the foundation of how the interaction is going to go. People are like mirrors. What you show them reflects and they take on the same attitude. If the

feeling they get isn't a positive they will want you to go away. Most people come from a place of constantly thinking inside their head. The key to this is taking the pressure off yourself. People tend to be self absorbed so they are thinking things like "I hope this goes good. I hope they like me. I find her attractive and that scares me". I could go on and on about this, but I think you get the point. Everyone is stuck in there own heads. Most women you are going to talk to are thinking things like "I hope I look good, is my hair in place, I hope he's a cool guy, I hope I make a good impression, etc." For you this takes a change of perception. Instead of focusing on her beauty and trying to make a good impression, get out of your head by changing the way you think. You have yet to meet this girl so you don't even know if you would like her. By getting to fixated on the appearance and not a general curiosity about whether or not she even meets your standards, all you are doing is allowing your brain to make you anxious and it's shooting yourself in the foot. There are plenty of exercises that can be done to change this and become that guy that is comfortable approaching women. Have you ever noticed that you can't think about 2 things at the exact same time? If you don't believe it, try it. Try to think about being happy and sad at the same time. It's impossible. Sure we have a string of thoughts that come at us one after another, but thinking about to different things at the exact same time just isn't how we are wired. Here's the easiest way to get out of your head so those self sabotaging thought come in. Now just so you know this can be a crutch. I have other techniques that will train you to make it permanent. Next time you are going to go approach a woman, focus on your steps Put one foot in front of the other while counting them in your head. One you get to the group or the woman, take a deep breath and then say the first thing on your mind. What this does is keep you present, keeps you from worrying and when you open your mouth for the first time: What comes out is genuine and authentic. #2: Spatial This part is two-fold. This has to do with the comfort people have being close to each other. Whether it be in a bar or on the street. Whether it's the distance a group is comfortable being near another group or how close they are comfortable with you being near them. It's like there is an invisible bubble. The more comfortable a person is, the closer you can be to them. This barrier can be smashed instantly. I'm sure you felt it before. Someone gets to close and you want to move further away. The same thing happens to everyone. As for smashing through this, remember what I said earlier about people being like mirrors and that the initial 30 seconds to a minute is crucial. This is because they are feeling how you behave and are sizing you up from the moment they see you. If they see that multiple women are comfortable with you being close, they will be naturally more comfortable with how close you get.

If they haven't seen you interact with anyone yet, the easiest thing to do is this: Be that guy that is constantly moving and flowing in and out of their personal bubbles. What this does is condition them to realize that this is just the way you are. By doing this it also helps for when you touch them. A bog mistake that most men make is that they stand in one place and don't move. Their body language is like a statue. What this does is it makes the comfortability of touching them that much harder. In fact they may get creeped out and uncomfortable if you go from being a statue for 5 minutes and then go to touch. It sets off a trigger in their head because they don't know what you are doing. They may then move further away or tense up. All bad news. Don't be that guy. #3: Touch A big mistake that most men make is that spatially they are a statue. I'm sure that you have had experiences in your life like this where you had one impression of someone because they were being a statue and then out of nowhere they go to touch you. Feel uncomfortable and weird right? Exactly! The easiest way to nip this in the butt is to become that "touchy guy" from the very beginning. I'm not saying you have to be groping these people 24/7 with every word you speak. There is an art to this almost like a dance. You have to start off by being non threatening in your body language and be touching within the first 30 seconds. Also the way you touch has to be smooth and comforting. Being tense or grabby sends the wrong signals. It sends out the signals of being uncomfortable touching others or being creepy. On top of that, do not watch your hand when you go to touch. It signals to everyone else to watch your hand as well and puts the entire focus on what you are doing and not on what you are saying. This needs to be mastered otherwise it has a domino effect. They won't be comfortable with you touching, it can creep them out and any chance you may have had of getting the woman you are interested in's phone number and/or getting sexual will most likely get thrown in the garbage. #4: Sexual This is where touch comes into place and having understood and mastered what to do. Obviously if someone is not comfortable with you touching them there is no way you can get sexual with them. The body is always sending out cues. If you are touching a woman and you feel any tension in her muscles: That is a signal to stop doing exactly what you are doing. This starts out subconsciously. It's her communicating with you non-verbally that she is not ready for whatever you are doing. This is a process of escalation. You have to smoothly escalate or you may end up blowing the whole

thing. The worst thing that you can do when receiving these signals is to continue doing whatever you are doing. The reason why is that if you don't get the hint, her subconscious will communicate to her consciousness that she is uncomfortable and that will work against you. Once this happens, now you are in damage control. A great example of the way it naturally flows is couples in relationships. This varies from holding hands to kissing to sex to types of sex and everything in between. #5: Emotional This is where people really screw up. This has to do with how deeply you know someone. This can range from knowing they clerk at your local convenience store has a kid to knowing everything about a person- the good, the bad and all their secrets. If you can build this type of bond, it can grow and evolve time into relationships- whether they be monogamous or polygamous, friends with benefits, falling in love, to having children together on purpose to getting married as well as other variations. Ever wonder why a woman puts you in the dreaded friend zone? The reason for this is because you haven't created attraction and a deep emotional bond with her. The problem that most men have is they speak in the language of logic. Women speak in the language of feelings. They are emotional creatures. I'm sure you've heard the saying "Men are from mars and women are from venus." This is so true. By trying to communicate logically with a woman, it's like trying to speak english to a person that only knows chinese. Just like any other language this can be learned. Emotional Connection First build a bit of the first 3 of the 5 types of comfort before really diving deep into deep emotional connection. If you don’t and try to skip ahead, asking all these deep questions before building a solid foundation of comfort will cause the other person to get defensive. Another way to look at it is like this if a stranger asked to borrow your car would you let him or her? Why not? It comes down to trust in the other person.

If your best friend or a family member asked the same question how would you respond? Why? Once again, It comes down to trust in the other person. Hopefully that clears up my point. It’s the same when it comes to escalating with women whether socially, spatially, kinesthetically, sexually or emotionally. Trust and comfort need to be there. When using this pattern in a mutual exchange between you and her. You are going to take her through some of the deepest lows and highest highs of your life. For both the highest highs and lowest lows, always spin it so that because of the experience it made you a better person. It may sound counter-intuitive, but it works. **There are a couple reasons why this is important** 1. Vulnerability- This shows that you are a well-rounded human being. If you’ve been running all flash game **fun, happiness and teasing** this will ground you and see you in a different light. This can make the difference between her viewing you as a player or someone she truly wants to connect with. Example: “You know what, and I just had this happen recently, my dog died. I learned about it on facebook. I called my mom in the morning, Kelly died at like 11:25 am ... and I felt really bad because she was like my family, my sister, and this dog was always there for me. When I was growing up I didn’t have any brothers or sister I’d come home from a bad day a school and my dogs would be there for me. She was my baby, it like a piece of me is gone, but at the same time not gone... I don't know if you can relate. Do you have any animals? Do you even know what I mean?” 2. Reciprocity- Since you have paved the way and guided the conversation. She can relax now and be real with you. She can now feel comfortable talking about her life experiences- the good and the bad. **Always awesome to bring up how you are non-judgemental, I do this through stories** If she feels she can trust you and you aren’t going to judge her for anything, you may find yourself having the most intense deep conversations with her. In some cases types of conversations she’s never had before in her life. This is gold. If you've studied NLP then you'll remember about anchoring. Anchoring boiled down is the way you respond and the feeling that come up based on a peticular thing or situation.

When you are communicating with her all these good feelings that come up from sharing with you get linked to you. **Be warned: Women will develop very strong feelings for you** When find out about her stories and vulnerabilities. Never let her leave herself on a low. Once again with anchoring. If she associates you with negativity that's bad for you. The goal is you are looking to find her ideal self and nourish that part of her. ***Disclaimer: This can be used for good and bad. I’m just hoping that you, the reader, have the decency to not use this in any way, shape or form that is malicious to the mental health of others***

Emotional connection formulas When crafting stories to share with women this is how I found myself going about it. I analyzed my stories and broke it down to these two simple equations. –This is what I do. –This is why I do it. –This is why it’s important to me. –This is how it makes me feel. –Because of this experience I’m a better person OR –This is what happened to me. –This is what changed in me. –This is why that was important to me. –Because of this experience I’m a better person Honesty It's important to be honest and be true to your intentions. This takes being vulnerable. This is also your life. You should be upfront about your intentions and what you think of people. Not only will it help get you laid by being so bold, it will open doors for you as well as gain respect from others because you are being congruent with who you are. Example: If I think a woman is gorgeous, I'm going to go tell her in a unique way. It may have something to do with the energy she puts off or the way she moves, but I'm going to be genuine and tell her this. Even if in that circumstance she is not interested in me, the fact that I did so made her smile because I was genuine with her and it made me feel good because I didn't hold back and I took a risk. I would rather say something and get nowhere with it then live in "woulda shoulda coulda" land. That's where you beat yourself up for days because that woman is on your mind and you never got closure. A habit of not getting closure can create a negative pathway for your brain to take when meeting people. It can cause you to be unsure of yourself and completely freeze up with women.

The plus side of this is the courage it takes to be open like this. Most people avoid expressing their true selves and they miss out on opportunities because of it. One of my favorite things to do is to tell her about how I feel around her energy, the way she touches me and the way we interact. This direct honesty can bring a woman to tears in a good way. Women love to hear this stuff because it's giving them love. Everyone loves to be genuinely liked, loved and accepted for who they are. Few men have the balls to bare their hearts and be brutally honest. Be one of those men. Screening Attributes Every man should know what he wants in a woman. If you don’t go sit down with a piece of paper and come up with 10 things you want in a woman. When you screen women, you could be imbedding these in stories. You can frame her into these with you if you so desire. If you did an extremely amazing job connecting with her and you start screening her out, she may jump at the chance to prove that she has those attributes that you “think” she doesn’t have. Example: “Cindy, I love the way our conversation has been going and you seem like you’re a tremendous person. I’m definitely going to want you in my life even if just as a friend. It’s too bad you are not (attribute).” Frames In every interaction, there are frames constantly going on at work inside the meta-frame. In this case the interaction is the meta-fame. As a human being we are automatically slotted in a frame based on our behavior within the first 5 to 10 mins. After someone slots us by definition that person expects that in the future we will continue this type of behavior. Using this knowledge, we can consciously frame ourselves as well as other people. **Think labels- shy, outgoing, player, touchy feely, super sexual** Meta frames extend outward. Example. The interaction is the frame inside the group dynamic of a club. I’m just going to give you example of things I’ve used. You can create your own based on your life. I do believe in authenticity so you may want to practice with these, understand the frame work of some of them and create your own so you are 100% congruent with yourself.

When it comes down to setting a frame what you do within the first 5 minutes is crucial. In some examples, I’m applying a theme to her or to myself. In others, like sex not being a big deal, I’m putting my beliefs out there which in turn can cause her to accept my beliefs and from there our future actions can get filtered through those instead of what society says is right or wrong. Non-judgemental "When I was younger I used to think everyone was bitchy and had an agenda. I wouldn't take the time to get to know people because I was convinced that it was easy enough to judge a book by its cover ... then I realized that everyone ultimately acts for their own best interest, and my interest at the time was protecting this thin constructed identity where I was super comfortable with what I had. Which was ultimately nothing. Now I like to take the time to get to know someone’s soul. I no longer judge people for being who they are. For me, that type of genuine attitude is really hard to find. What makes you, you? (Her response) "That's really cool (tie back in what she said). I feel like we're connecting on a spiritual level, it’s refreshing."

No Consequences "Because of the experiences I’ve had growing up and the risks I wish I had taken. I’m sure you can relate with me on some level. I’ve learned to just do what I want to do, having fun, living life and operating without consequences."

She's Sexually Aggressive "OMG you are like a super sexual being. Are you like this with all of the boys you meet? Or am I just special? ;)" **The playfulness takes the pressure of the statement which in turn allows her to role play. This role play though can slip into her subconscious and then she may start projecting that and being that way with me**

How to Frame self: "When I meet someone I'm sexually attracted to ... I sometimes just can't help myself. It's like this power surge spreads through my body and I'm totally helpless to its effects."

Independent "I can tell, you're the type of girl that goes after exactly what she wants."

Passionate “Wow…From (some story she tells you) I can tell you are a passionate driving woman that…..”

Sex not being weird or a big deal "Sex is just sex. I find it sad society has thrown out these labels like player, slut, whore, pimp and stuff like that. It’s so stupid because we are all human beings. All human beings enjoy sex. It’s just a natural, beautiful occurrence ... like if we were a caveman and a cavewoman, do you think we'd give a shit whether our cave lover would was wearing a Gucci watch? Fuck no. We'd being staring deep into our partners soul, sharing and asking questions like what do you need right now, this is what I need now and then stopping at nothing to get it. All moments would be the best moments of our life because we'd be acting constantly in our own best interest and acting from the soul."

Solidify the frame you desire This is just shaping her in the image that you wish. You get to choose the attributes. Example: "You know. I just noticed you're really sarcastic just like me.. and I love me :)" **This cold read could be a complete cold read, but know it allows her to be sarcastic (the trait I picked). The end part is to make us like beings. Everyone wants to feel connection and a sense of being understood. This starts that foundation**

**Can be used during day game as well as during night game as well as in seduction**

Some things to do and remember when going out to pick up girls If you remember nothing of this list, but one thing. Let it be this: The first 30 seconds to a minute of any interaction dictate the way that others view you as. These behaviors become solidified more and more as time goes by. Example 1: If I come in and I’m all touchy feelly with everyone, that’s the perception of the type of person they will assume I naturally am. Then later in the future since it has been established I’m like this, people are more receptive to me touching them. Example 2: If I come in and I don’t touch anyone, shake hands and just keep my hands to myself, that’s the perception of the type of person they view me as. Then in the future if I go to touch someone, it may feel weird or creepy to them as well as them wondering what I’m doing. This goes further than just that. If you come in and you are super sexual from the start then that is what you’re automatically framed as in their mind. Same goes with the bad boy stereotype. If you have an edge to you where it’s in between sexual, confidence and swagger then there radiates an aura about you. Combined with being super social and talking to loads of people. It leads to the frame of you being a ladies man.

Prepare for success Before going out have a game plan in case you run into the opportunity to hook up.

Great places for sex: • Your place • In the venue • Outside the venue • In your car. Having your place clean, having a movie in your room as an excuse to go there, etc. The reason for this is preparation. Having a game plan is huge. It’s the difference between being the chess piece or being the person playing chess. This leaves you with strategy so you have a plan and something to shoot for when the occasion comes. Assume rapport when meeting people. Come from the state of mind that you expect your interactions to go well. If you assume rapport when trying to pick up girls your subconscious will cause you to act in accordance to this. If you expect your interactions will suck or that you’ll be nervous once again your subconscious will act in accordance. The choice is yours. Socialize. Don’t just approach the people you want to sleep with. This will eliminate a lot of the pressure. Talk to people with the desire to have the interaction for the sake of having the interaction. I’ll give you an example. When you are out picking up girls and that’s your main focus, it tends to ramp up the pressure. This leaves you to the emotional whims of highs and lows. When you’re having a shit night it starts a negative cycle inside. I’ve had it so bad before that I just left to go home. When you have no expectation and you are just socializing; if an interaction doesn’t go well you will be less likely to beat yourself up because of it. When getting to know people, focus on asking open ended questions instead of yes-no questions. This prevents turning the interaction into an interview. When you ask open ended questions it allows those you are talking to answer in detail about the subject instead.

Example: Their job. So you are a teacher, do you like what you do? - This leaves it very limited- (yes/no/a little) So you are a teacher, what is it about your job that you like? – (blah blah blah blah)

Take risks. When you see a girl you want to talk to act immediately. Approach her even if you don’t know what to say. This also is the same for kissing or any other sexual act. This makes a big difference between having dates with women instead of your hand. Journal about your experiences in detail so you can learn from them. When picking up girls this makes it strategic. If you can understand what you are doing right then you can focus on these strength and speed up your seduction attempts. Have set goals for each night you go out of what your actions are to be. Whether it being approaching 3 groups of people that have guys in it or attempting to try to kiss at least one girl. Make sure you have a predetermined plan and stick to following it. When picking up girls this keeps you focused on the skill set and the tasks at hand. Also it has a positive effect on your confidence when you start surpassing benchmarks. When you are relatively new set small goals.

Example: I will start a conversation with one new person a day. Build off of this. Don’t get too drunk. Too much alcohol can hinder abilities and cause you to forget details which can leave you unable to learn lessons from the experiences. Detach your identity from it. Treat rejection or bad reactions as reactions to the way you interacted and not a rejection to who you are. This helps keep you from labeling yourself as a failure when things don’t go well. Have a positive outlook and mindset to each interaction. Don’t bring previous baggage into new interactions. Treat each interaction as having a fresh start. This current girl hasn’t rejected you. If you bring baggage into the interaction all you are doing is sabotaging yourself.

Chapter 4: Tools for when picking up women Things you can talk about to attract and seduce a woman I wrote up a list awhile ago of some of the common themes and things that would come up in my conversations with women. In certain situations, some of the things I talked about and did were the clinchers in me getting laid. Let's just jump right into it.

1. I would build a connection with the woman through conversations involving the way I communicate my stories. My life story. Get into her life story. Morals. Connection with family and friends. 2. Déjà vu/Fate- Things happen for a reason. Example: Life story of how things came together. If I had the chance to change "x" I would have never met her. 3. I would sexually prime for kissing 4. I would talk about living in the moment. Today could be our last day. 5. I would find out her passions and dreams as well as relating my own through stories. 6. About acting on impulse. Listening to your gut/your heart and not your brain. Never steers me wrong. 7. How looks aren't important and attraction builds. 8. I would be talking about confidence and the importance of being non-needy socially. 9. That the number one important relationship is with ourselves. 10. About being a risk taker and how not being one leads to regret. 11. I would displaying comfortable dominance through touch. 12. The conversation would be a 90/10 ratio. You must lead that shit. 13. I'd be complimenting her on her personality and non physical attributes. 14. Telling her the reasons I dig her. 15. Talking about sex and sexuality. When talking to a woman at some point I bring up about full body orgasms and ask if she's every had one. Look at that list. Now think about your thoughts on these subjects. Then go out and talk to women about these subjects and your opinions of them and find out her opinions of them. I say this for many reasons. 1. Gets rid off the excuse of "Well I don't know what to talk about." 2. Now you can get a lot of experience talking to women. 3. If you didn't know how to really hold a conversation with women this can be like training wheels. Talk about this stuff until you have that ah-ha moment and understand really how to hold a conversation. It's like that quote. Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.

Sexual Priming I discovered this on accident. This was around my third month actively learning how to pick up women. There had been a post by a guy named “cierian” about an apocalypse opener. The way it went was this. It would start with “Hey how’s it going” The follow up was “What are you guys doing later?” Then the punch line was “That sounds like fun. Want to come home with me instead?” I decided to try it. It shocked the hell out of chicks, but immediately I noticed a pattern. See at this time I could read women’s sub-communications very well. I could see a yes or no based on the sub-communications that instantly came from her. I could tell whether or not she was attracted to me. This got me to think about the cause and effect. I decided to experiment. I started accusing women of looking at me like they wanted to make out with me. Some replied negatively, but others would say things like “How could you tell?” I knew I was onto something so I tweaked and experimented. The initial product of this gave birth to what I coined “Sexual Priming." “If you don’t stop looking at me like that I’m going to make out with you.” I started telling every woman I was into this line and noticed a pattern. There's only four different responses.

Types of responses Every response will slot into one of these four: • Passive acceptance- Her sub-communications tell you yes. Good examples of this: after your words; she licks her lips and says "That would be bad" in a seductive tone. She strokes your arm. She gives you those bedroom sex eyes, etc. • Active acceptance- Her words and/or sub-communications tell you yes. Good examples of this: She grabs you and starts making out with you. She tells you what are you waiting for. She moves herself so she is almost crotch to crotch with you as she's talking.

• Passive denial- Her sub-communications tell you no. Good examples of this: She moves away from you, her tonality changes to some variation of intensity of disgust; she shifts a bit, stops looking at you and starts talking to her friend again. • Active denial- A combination of passive denial signals on top of her telling you she isn't interested. All you are really looking for is passive or active acceptance to take its toll. This is an easy skill to learn. What it does is train you to notice from a woman's sub communications if she is into and ready to be kissed. This is great for if you are oblivious to her cues. It also tells you whether or not you are wasting your time trying to seduce the woman. It can be used for getting everything from kisses all the way to sex. To break it down. It is a verbal remark that based on feedback you receive allows you to know where you stand. It let's you know if it's even possible for you to attempt and succeed. This info is gathered by your senses. You will see and/or hear passive acceptance, active acceptance or non-acceptance by the woman. I've used it myself to get instant make outs, blow jobs, bathroom sex, car sex and being able to go back to my place or hers. Her feedback is crucial so pay attention to her sub-communications. Watch for any change in her facial expressions, tonality of voice, etc. She may be saying no with her words, but her sub-communications may say otherwise (tonality, eye contact, facial expressions) (ex. She says "we can't do that. **in a seductive voice**). Trust those signals. The formula is basic. If she continues a certain action then you are going to respond a certain way. Example: "If you don't stop looking at me like that, we're going to end up making out" Other examples • "If you don't stop arousing me like that I'm going to take my pants off so you can play with my dick" • "If you guess how old I am I'll make out with you" • While playing pool: "If you make this shot I'll make out with you.” If she hadn't been thinking of doing that with you now you've planted the seed. Remember: If you get passive/active denial, it will save you some time because this interaction isn't going anywhere sexual now.

Best option here: Make her a friend. Once again the equation of this broken down even simpler: If you continue doing "x" I'm going to do "y". Can be used during day time pickups too. Instant make outs I discovered this on a night when I was in a super packed meat market type club. There was barely any room to move. There was a constant flow of people shuffling around from one side to the other. I tried my normal game, but couldn’t get past my opening approach. This kept happening over and over so I decided to try something else. I opened sexually. “You look like you’re having fun. You’d have more fun if we were making out” It worked, but not how I hoped. I got a few rejections and a few make outs. The main problem was all these people shuffling around pushing each other forward to get to nowhere. I started to get pissed off and decided to try for instant make outs. Since I could already tell if a woman was attracted to me by her eye contact I decided to give it a go. As I walked forward I attempted to catch eye contact with women I was attracted to. Within a few minutes of this I finally locked onto a hot chicks gaze. We just starred at each other as we parted through the crowd and I walked toward her. The entire time our eyes were completely locked on the others. As I got within hugging range, I lifted my arm up and guided it to the back of her head as I went crotch to crotch with her. Instant make out without saying a word. **Key component: Do not break eye contact** I pulled her over to a pillar and kept making out. I found out her name. Make out. Found out something else out then I attempted to pull her out of the club Here I had to deal with 2 simple objections: The first was: “but I’m here with my friends.” I overcame that by using the noise of the environment as an excuse. “That’s ok. It’s really loud in here and we should talk. We’ll be back in I promise.” The follow up from her was: “I don’t have my coat.”

**In my mind her saying that she just said yes to going outside with me** The solution was to go to the coat check and get her coat. Outside my mind raced trying to figure out where I could fuck her. Hitting the main street was not an option. We went the opposite way down the alley. While this was happening I just kept her mind occupied with nonsense. “The reason why I brought you out here...was so we could talk...because inside it’s very loud...and in a loud environment...it’s hard to talk...so that’s why I brought you out here.” While this bullshit was coming out of my mouth I was actively scanning the area for any place. I saw an enclave so I pulled her there. Within seconds I had her against the wall next to a dumpster, was making out with her and feeling up every inch of her delicious body. She was cool with that so I undid my pants, pulled my cock out and placed her hand on it. She started jerking me off. Next I flipped us around with my back into the wall. I pulled away from making out with her as I lightly pushed down on her head. She immediately started giving me a blow job. After about 30 seconds, I switched us around again. Only this time, she was facing the wall while I behind her so I started fingering her She asks me if I have a condom. I put one on and had sex with her doggy style against the wall. After we were done we parted ways. She went back in the club. I grabbed a cab home. **Use your imagination on how you can apply this** Here are the keys: **Just duplicate the sequence.** -Rock solid confidence. Can not hesitate at any time while doing this. -Lock eye contact with a woman and don't break it. -Bee line straight to her. Nothing else around you matters. -Hand behind the head to test if she flinches or not. -If all goes well then kiss her.

**Here’s why it works** What this sub-communicates is you are a man that takes action. This world is yours. That locked eye contact builds massive sexual tension that grows the closer you get. Making out is a way to release it. You’re an extremely confident male and you are massively successful with women. This can also communicate that you are a man of great power. You also become a fantasy of hers. An amazing super confident man that just takes her and ravishes her. Couple of tips so you can weed out women -There are 2 types of yes' and 1 type of no in this. Yes type 1: You both lock eyes and that lock remains unbroken. Yes type 2: You both lock eyes and she looks a way then right back at you. She looks away then back again. This cycle continues until you are face to face. **This girl is just shy, but massively attracted to you** No: You both lock eyes, she looks away and never looks back. It's very simple to filter who is a yes and who is a no.

Social Tornado I discovered this accidentally while I was training a student. It was on an Adam Lyons 7day boot camp in Vegas. I’ll give you the story and then teach you how to apply it to bars/parties. My student for the night had invited 4 girls to come out that night. They showed up and I was pushing him to interact with more and more women. He would go back to them after talking to a few groups. First time I opened the group (he was already talking to them). I opened him first: “(Student’s name)!!! There you are! I’ve been looking all over for you. There are some really cool people you have to meet.” Immediately followed with:

“Hey girls, I’m Jared. Come on (Student’s name) let’s go!” I was positioned between him and one of the girls so I put my hand on his back and started pushing as I walked away from that group. After a few more groups he had wandered back to them. They were his safety net. I came back over. “(Student’s name)!!! Where’d you wander off to? I’ve got some important people for you to meet.” I turned to girls: “Hey Girls.” Once again I guided the student away. This repeated again. Again I did the same thing. After a few groups, he was back over there. **This whole dynamic built a tremendous amount of intrigue about the student** The next time I went over there I decided to stick around. “(Student’s name)!!!!” I could see the girls were not happy so I started talking to them. At first they were pissy with me, but I won them over. Over the course of the night I ended up making out with three of them at the same time. I started with one then got two of them to make out with each other and then I made out with both them. As that was happening I saw one of the others just looking so I waved her over and it turned into a 4-way kiss. The student did the same thing later. A funny thing had happen though. These girls thought I was amazing, but because of the way I had treated the student like I was his assistant something had happened. In their eyes he had higher value in the venue then I did. From this point he just chilled and watched. He’d be chatting with one then wave another over and start a one on one conversation with that one. The previous girl would come over to me and I’d end up juggling 2-3 of these girls at a time.

While this was happening I was being territorial. I was shooing away and dismissing every guy that tried to come in. End of the night we pulled all four girls to the hotel for an after party. I felt my work was done so I left the student with all these girls except one. I was holding her hand and talking non-stop all the way to the elevator. She asked a couple times "Aren’t we going to wait for our friends?" I told her I had to grab something from my room then we were going to meet them at the student’s room. I got her in my room, cracked open a couple beers and started chatting for a couple minutes. Once again I started making out with her, but this time we were already on the bed. From here I just escalated and got no resistance. After a couple rounds of sex she asked me if I had had any intention of going to the after party. I told her no. We fooled around some more and went to sleep. When I woke she was gone and had left her number on the nightstand. I went upstairs to Adam’s room to check on what was going on for seminar time and to wait to do some day time training. That’s when I learned that my student had taken to heart my “just go for it” attitude and had an orgy with the other 3 women. Here’s how this can help you: Go out with a buddy. Whichever one of you is better with women, play the role that I played. The one with weaker game with women play the role of my student from this example. Do exactly what was done in the above example. You’ll be surprised with the results. I’ve taught this to others to get it field tested to see if this was a fluke, something that only I could do or something that others could do and get similar results. I’m happy to say students have hit me up telling me about crazy adventures they’ve had because of just this. If they can do this so can you.

Chapter 5: Picking up women Online This one took me a lot of trial and error. This is perfect for the type of person that has a busy, busy, busy life. The guy that is shy on the approach. The guy that hates bars and clubs. I almost gave up on it because it was just such a pain in the ass. What I did one year was set up a fake profile of a chick so this way I could see what my competition was doing. Here's what I found out in my journey to get this handled. There are 3 types of guys 1. The guy that comments on her beauty or just says hi. -There are a lot of these so if your message doesn't catch her attention instantly, you've already shot yourself in the foot. 2. The very sexual guy -This guy is a moron because he's rude and it's a turn off for women on these dating sites. 3. The interesting, intriguing guy -These are a dime a dozen. Being this guy will get the woman interested in talking to you. This is important because if you can't talk to her then you can't interest her which then you can't get her number to get you on a date. Being this guy fixes that.

Your profile Too many people on the site have cookie cutter profiles. Your profile is a snapshot of who you are. If your snapshot sucks then it's next. Quick example of mine: This is my self summary.

"***IF I DON"T GET BACK TO YOU RIGHT AWAY, DON"T TAKE IT PERSONALLY. I'm building another business scheduled for launch at the end of this october. As well as finalization of ALL of it scheduled for November 11th. Yes...I sort of have no life at the moment because of it. If I go out on a date with you during that time, take it as a major compliment*** Example of my philosophy: http:// youtu.be/pt8VYOfr8To ****ALSO ANY GUYS THAT RUN INTO THIS PROFILE AND WANT TO BECOME A MORE ATTRACTIVE MALE. FEEL FREE TO MESSAGE ME. I"M A LIFE COACH. THAT INCLUDES DATING and not just business, etc...**** **I'm rarely on here** ***Catch my heart if you can***

So I guess I am the shy nerdy type. At my core. It's true. I didn't start dating till I was 18. My first real girlfriend kinda happened by accident. I am not that shy anymore... I'm into doing epic things and life has gotten pretty interesting since my humble video game nerd beginnings... actually I can't even begin to tell you how interesting it has gotten, but I guess 'The Secret' works. Kinda going on a blank of what else to write so I have decided to just make a list of random facts about me: 1. I'm a sucker for vampire stuff. No pun intended ;) 2. I consider myself a musician, but I didn't come to LA for a career. 3. When I was 6 years old, I had my first kiss. I mimicked what was on tv. Said word for word what was said and kissed my friend. 4. I've always wondered what it would be like to live in a van in South America (free rent lol) and just explore. 5. Coffee (black) 6. If I were to choose to be any animal, I'd be a dog. They smile, show some affection and do stupid shit. What a great way to earn your food and housing. :) 7. I've picked up and moved on the drop of a hat 6 times. 8. I'm a pro at Mario Kart 9. I once ate 42 chicken nuggets. The bucket of 50 for $10 seemed like a good idea at the time. 10. I can't even imagine a world without music. Thank god we don't have to worry about that. 11. I'm into mysticism, the power of crystals and other metaphysical things. Maybe it's just in my DNA. 12. I'm a bit out there. I'm pretty sure it's in a good way. 13. I'm polarizing. Either you love me or hate me. 14. I like helping others. That's why I'm a life coach. 15. I'm very random and spontaneous. 16. If you like me; you've got to earn me. I don't settle. 17. I'm not looking for someone to cage me up. I'm into others running wild with me. 18. I don't mess around too much on this site. 19. Attraction to me is peculiar. It's like my brain sees a person and my mind may completely change the persons appearance to me. It can get better or it can get worse visually. 20. I'm an international speaker. So I'm looking for something like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZb4QalPe_4 But if I don't find it here, I am not too concerned, 'cause I have already got a plan B, seen here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0bomkgXeDkE" What I've done in here is give her a peek into my life, some random facts, basically said that I'm busy, been honest with her, made myself a challenge and intriguing. Now you don't have to copy mine because it's not you, but you could model it. It helps in the long run because it's different and it's refreshing.

Your pictures This is where you want to put your best self forward. The main picture should be with you and a girl where it looks like she's having fun talking to you. This

allows the woman to see her self in that situation with you. The next should be a normal one of you. The next should be of you somewhere you've visited. **On mine I make the caption a challenge** "500 points if you can guess what I was doing. Get to 1000 and win a prize!" The next should be something silly. The next should be you on an adventure. My next one was with me and my dog. He's staring at the camera. Caption: "He says "Hi" " **Women love dogs** The next should be an older picture of you. It can show your personal growth as a person in a woman's eyes The next is something that makes them wonder what is going on in this picture. That curiosity could get her to message you first.

Messages Personally I believe in roleplaying of the bat and assuming that she will respond. It shows that you are playful and allows her to instantly have fun. It's so much refreshing than the typical "Hi. How are you? I wanted to message you". Those are boring. An attractive woman gets a lot of them every day. You have to stand out from the crowd or you are going to get nowhere with online dating.

Day Time If you’ve been studying seduction for a while and haven’t had really good results when it comes down to being outside of a club maybe I can steer you the right way. One of the things I’ve noticed is that there really isn’t anything out impressive out there when it comes to picking up during the day. People out there that study this just assume that night time tactics will work during the day. This is a

huge mistake. During the day being normal is huge. Being able to hold a conversation is huge. The time you spend doesn’t have to be a lot especially since most people are always on the go. 1-5 minutes is adequate. In every approach that goes well, finding out her time line is important if you wish to pursue an instant date. * Picking up women during the day is about confidence, banter, teasing, how comfortable you make her feel and the connection you build with her. Sexual framing also should come into play here. Building sexual tension and screening to see if she’s attracted to you is a must. What you have to remember is women get approached a very amount during the day compared to when they are at a bar. Let’s break this down a little bit first. Our society has turned itself into an anti-social society. What I mean by this is for the most part we have been trained to go about our days focusing on ourselves, our jobs, tv and other mindless hobbies. The downside of this is that the majority of people steer clear of unnatural human interaction (unnatural as is what isn’t already in their lives) whether it be to help others in need, approach that one woman they want or even as simple as making someone’s day by genuinely complimenting them. The mere act of being social and loving can make someone’s day. The mere act of approaching a woman and engaging in a conversation shows that you are confident. In the long run these two things are half the battle. Your first 30 seconds will make or break your interaction. If you start it off and it becomes like a job interview it’s pretty much destined to fail with a few exceptions. The biggest exception I’ve noticed is projecting a vibe of happiness, excitement and enthusiasm. During the day I focus on women that are by themselves for numerous reasons: • If she is with her friends the down side that can happen is that she may feel awkward and judged. • If her friends don’t like you, they can sabotage the interaction. • Getting an instant date is so much easier How to approach during the day There are multiple schools of thought here and you should use both. Which one you use depends on where you are at and how much time you have. If you have no time, go super direct and base it off of looks, charm and confidence. This approach is just a numbers game decided in a split second. If you have the time allow her to see your personality shine through before she gets to see the rest of your charms. If going indirect, you should start with some sort of question or something fun.

**Small caveat: I believe that indirect should transition into direct DURING the initial interaction.** If you are going with a question anything normal here works to start the conversation: Directions. Where she got a particular piece of jewelry. An opinion of some shirt you are contemplating buying. If you are going to go with something spontaneous and fun then the sky is the limit here. I’ve used all types of crazy shit calibrated based on the environment. Victoria's secret example I walk into Victoria’s secret. I ask one of the hot workers to help me. The theme is that I have a party to go to where the girls dress and guys and the guys dress as girls. Needless to say this is entertaining for her and the conversation moves forward. Either direction you go should be followed up with banter or a tease that is relevant to the scenario. This alleviates the pressure and brightens the mood. Remember the key to attracting a woman is being able to influence her emotions. Bringing fun her way as well as laughter is efficient at this. Then after this: • allow the conversation to flow between telling her about you through stories • baiting her into revealing about herself • banter and teasing. The banter and teasing is to keep the spark of the interaction going. This is like the secret sauce of a big mac that makes it not just a burger. When going for that all important number remember this one rule: Always go for it on a high note. If she is in a good mood you have a better chance of getting it. Another thing to do when going for the number to take the pressure off is saying something like “You have got to be one of the coolest people I’ve met today. We must be friends. What’s your number?” This is great also if you are scared of getting rejected. At the same time you are in a sense disqualifying yourself as a potential mate. A thought that might pop in her head: “Friends? Does he not find me physically attractive?” This is cool for later because she might start prying to see if you are into her. A woman chasing you sexually is never a bad thing if you find her attractive. Night Time at a bar Being a social dynamo **If I were to consider all this material in this book to computer programs and hardware, this is Mac OX for picking up in a bar**

This is an amazing way to get yourself into a super social mode. It also has a lot of benefits. By following this you literally become a one man wrecking ball to obstacles in your way. I’ll expand on this in a minute. Have you ever been in a bar an seen a guy that literally knows everyone there and everyone loves him? This turns you into that guy. Everything else that’s talked about in this book can be used in tandem with this, whether it being sexual priming, my quick example of a pickup and/or social tornado. By mastering these skills you level the playing field and put yourself in an entirely different league all together. Use this in every environment that allows you the freedom to flow around the place. Doesn't matter if it's a bar, after hours place or dance club. I do use this on the dance floor only in a different variation. Use this to get in good with the staff and security in a venue as well. This starts from on the street way before entering the club. It’s so simple that it’s ridiculous that it works so well. Here's the structure: OPEN and TALK to EVERYONE I’m going to do my best to explain the psychology of why I do this and why it works so well. When in a bar type of environment, you don’t truly know who knows who. The flip side of this is everyone else doesn’t know who knows who as well. This allows you to exploit general perception of events that are going on. Normally start off on the street and just briefly chat people up as they are passing by you. ”I hope you’re having a great night!" (High five them when they pass you too) Next when you get to the bar, you start chatting up the people that are in line with you. (If there is one) This can help dramatically later. Since you’ve built a relationship with these people, they are now base groups you can go talk to at any time in the night. (Provided they like you) Before getting inside the bar start chatting up the doorman while he’s checking out your ID. This is simple stuff.

"How’s your night going?" "Is it slamming in there yet?" Don’t walk in right away as you get your ID back. You should end up complimenting the bouncer on his sharp appearance, sick haircut and/or ask if he knows of any after-hours places. One thing that Adam Lyons has mentioned before which I believe is awesome: Asking if he’s thirsty or hungry and if he’d like you to get something for him. Trust me the doorman will remember you. This is wonderful later down the road because you know that VIP entrance (the velvet rope), if you start coming there on the regular and he’s at the door chances are you won’t have to wait in line. Make sure before you enter you introduce yourself and get his name. REMEMBER HIS NAME. As you enter the place do not let your momentum go to waste. Go start talking to the first group you see. The interaction doesn’t have to be anything fancy or for any amount of time. A simple compliment or a “Hey! You guys look like you are having a blast! (high five as walking by) works. Continue this pattern of short setting most of the room and having interactions lasting from seconds to minutes. If you give a compliment, give a genuine one that is tailored to them. Example: “Dude! I love your shoes bro. I don’t know if you planned it this way, but it’s the perfect accessory to your outfit. You have great taste!” Instead of “I like your outfit.” The power for that is in the details. It’s important to include the reason why you are complimenting them. This just takes having powers of observation. From an outsiders perspective it looks like you truly know these people. Keep a mental note of the people that responded relatively positive to you. Then go back to these individual groups. With some you may just chit chat with them. With others, you may throw out stuff you've pre prepared. The way you rock this is up to you. When you get great at reading people you can improv and free flow some of the other things talked

about in this book. As for running out of things, this is phenomenal because you can meet people that have things in common and play network matchmaker. You can bring up conversation topics you’ve been a part of with one group into another. Example of this: Say you are talking to group A. Bunch of topics come up. Next you are talking to group B. Now you can bring up those topics which will lead into other topics. Then you are talking to group C. You now have all this info to bring up at your discretion from the conversations with groups A and B. Hopefully you can see how this cycle can continue. This free flow of info coming at you as you interact with others gives you all the material and ammunition you need to keep your conversations going. This is a great way to make massive amounts of friends, get lots of chicks numbers and leaves you in an awesome position of being able to take someone home to bang. Within this you can run a jealousy plot line on numerous women you are interested in seducing. Just bring their groups together or just let them see you talking to other groups. That you and those groups are having fun. Obviously they will see you flirting with other women, but who cares. The more aggressive women will sometimes pounce on you and attempt to seduce you. You haven’t lived until you’ve had one of these women literally drag you into the bathroom to either blow you or fuck you. With this your imagination is your only limitation. As for the dance floor if you have been able to do what I have just mentioned, it’s a breeze. You just start have fun dancing. Flowing through the floor, spinning girls and dancing with some of the groups you’ve become super tight with.

General Principles for Bars/Clubs Treat the Venue as an Entity. Even though you may not realize this, but truly the bar is one giant group. People are constantly looking around, people watch and seeing where all the action is.

The use of this knowledge properly can have a drastic positive effect on your successes for that night. Also understanding this fully allows you to eliminate any behavior that would put you in a negative social light. Example: Two guys just chilling at the bar are worth approaching because you have no idea who they know at the moment or who the might have coming later. Let’s just say for this example that you chose to befriend them while they are by themselves. You see them an hour later and they have 8 hot women with them. When you approach them again you are already a friend. Instead of some random dude coming to hit on the women. They will introduce you to the ladies as some cool dude they know This scenario is ideal because it gives you instant access to the women without any obstacles immediately in the way. Things to remember: Approach everyone- Run the Entity. (social dynamo) Compliment everyone. Even those that you don’t find physically attractive. Find something to compliment them on. Remember fat/ugly chicks have hot friends

When running the entity The Approach High Fives are great here. Simple quick snippets about their energy or fashion are gold here. Example: "You guys look like you are the party!" (high five) Flow around the entity using high fives and mini sets to become the social guy. In the eyes of the masses what you are doing appears to be that you are just checking in with friends. It looks like you know everybody.

Examples of very simple small opens Example "Hey you guys look like you are the party I’m (your name). I've just seen my friends you will love them. I’ll intro you guys later." (Do intros later) Example “I've been running into a lot of douche-bags tonight, my friends (gesture to girls) over there are

having the hardest time finding some awesome people to talk to... you guys are cool right?” (response is always yes) "I'll have to intro you later" If you have friends there make sure to talk to your friends. The can be your home base group. (you can always return) The Approach: Sexual Elements Hold the high fives and turn them into hand hugs. Holding hands and starring into each other’s eyes while talking. Apocalypse style example: "If you and I do not have sex right now, the world is going to end" + transition with something positive The Transition Example Open: "You have by far the best makeup in this place, you could be an artist for the stars." Transition: "It’s always such a shame when you see people out and they have no sense of style... we'll be finding you a lot of new clients tonight. ;)" **That last part can turn into a role play**

Going direct from the open example “You know what I feel bad for you. You're fucking hot, but you know there is this problem. You get all dolled up go and want to meet people, but when you talk to guys the only thing on their mind is fucking you. They don’t take the time to get to know you and find the true beauty that is within you. Lame asses. That's why I'm glad I'm not a chick.” This let’s her know you understand hot women and the bullshit they deal with. Allows it to come out as a genuine compliment instead of just saying “Hey there. I think you’re hot." This works great on shot girls and bartenders.

Another variation of above: “You know, sometimes I feel sorry for really attractive girls. People just don't take the time to get to know the true beauty within you because they just want to bend you over and fuck you. I’m sure inside there are some really awesome and attractive qualities inside of you. The problem is those qualities are driven deep beneath the surface. Most people just don’t take the time to dig deep down and discover them” This has the same benefits of the last example.

Timelines

This is an essential part of having a game plan when picking up chicks. This varies by situation to situation and place to place. This is something that you have to intuitively think of. The time that you have to display your personality and put your best self forward needs to be catered to the current moment and the situation you face. I’ll give you some examples and then go deeper into detail. This is important during day game as much as it is important during night game. Example: Waitress at Hooters The timeline would be short so you needed to maximize your time. You know that she will come over once to introduce herself, once or twice to take your order, once to see how the food was, once to see if you needed anything else/if you’re ready for the check. In between each of these interactions, you have a bit of time to think about where you want to take the conversation next. Example: girl on the bus or train Your timeline will vary here tremendously. First thing you need to know is where she is getting off at. Obviously you need to be knowledgeable of the line and how long it is between stops. These two pieces of information give you a rough idea of how much time you have and how you should cater your game. Either supercharge it because of being pressed for time or keep it more at a relaxed pace. Example: bartender/shot girl Unless you plan on becoming a regular at the place you are visiting it is do or die with the time. You have to have maximum effect in a short amount of time. You definitely need to wow her and quick. Also the way you pick them up is different than picking up a normal chick in a bar. I’ll get into that in another chapter. This one is a crap shoot because that night you may have the opportunity to talk to her. Either way they will be short burst maybe two minutes max if the place isn’t super busy because remember it is their job to sell and make drinks. If it’s crazy busy at whatever place you are at expect 30 second windows or so with the shot girls and possibly less time with the bartenders. If there is a particular shot girl or bartender you wish to pursue, your best bet is to go on a night when you know the place isn’t going to be slammed. Example: girl walking in a mall Once again this is like the bus or train stops. You need to know a general blueprint of where businesses are in the mall and where she is going in relation to where the two of you are in the mall.

Instant dates These are great to have happen. The only reason that you are asking for a phone number is to be able to get ahold of her in the future to go on a date, so why not go on one right when you meet the girl. The easiest way to find out if this is possible is pretty basic. All you have to do is find out her timeline. Example Say you are walking through a mall doing some shopping and you come across a girl in the same store as you looking at some stuff. You approach her and you both get to flirting. At this point you find her attractive and would like to see her again so why wait. It’s as simple as finding out what her plans are for now and her day. If she has pretty much nada going on why not experience life and enjoy the now with her. Whether it be grabbing coffee, playing pool, shopping together or whatever else comes to your imagination. Dealing with dates There are a bunch of factors to think about when working one of these. Hopefully before meeting up with her your interaction in person and via the phone/text went fantastic. Having a fantastic first interaction alone will cut down on women flaking on you. I’m going to go over a couple things in relation to this. • Have beer/liquor already at your place. Food is nice too. • Have a game plan where you structure your dates. Will go into that in a second. • Have your date meet you for some activity that is close to your house. 5 minutes preferably. The closer the place, the easier it will be to bounce them back. If you the distance is the issue, try for car sex. When I was living in Orlando I was getting a lot of phone numbers. Realistically too many for me to handle so what I did was I would setup a date with anywhere between 1-3 women on a given day in 2 hour blocks. The reason for staggering these was to be time efficient. I would setup girl A for the 5 to 7pm block. Then girl B for the 7:30 to 9:30pm block and finally girl C for the 10-12pm block. I’d invite them all to the same pool hall. The reason for this was to build comfort during that time and get to know each other to see if the vibe was right. I would have it preplanned at home that some of the latest movies that were in theaters downloaded on my computer in my room.

I would spend the first hour just vibing, teasing, qualifying and sexually escalating lightly. At about the hour mark I would ask if she had seen “XYZ” movie (it was on my computer). If she said no, I’d ask her if she wants to grab a six pack, pizza and watch it. A lot of girls would come back to my house if I had done my job right. Immediately on arrival after leading her to my house I’d bring her right up to my room. This is where it got fun. I’d put the movie on and start coming onto her. If by the 2 hour marker, I either got laid or it looked like it might happen. I’d excuse myself to the bathroom, text the next date and push back our meet time by half an hour. If I hadn’t gotten laid by ten minutes to that pushed back time, I’d tell the girl I’m currently with that I had to go meet some friends and would schedule another date. As soon as she left I’d hop in my car and go to my next date. From here the cycle continued. This is just an example of what you can do. Couple things I want to address. For a first date keep it casual. Fuck dinner. Fuck going to a movie theater. These both have their own problems. Example: If you go out to dinner there is a problem with the waiter interrupting you, the table being in the way, no privacy and it’s harder to escalate. Example: If you go to a movie theater the problem here is you both end up in complete silence for 2 hours instead of being able to get to know each other. This is very counteractive in seducing a woman. When picking something to do, anything you like to do that’s interactive you should do it. It doesn’t matter if it’s bowling, pool, darts or any of a number of interactive activities. You are going to need to be able to socialize and allow your personality to shine. Chapter 6: More Essential Tools Going for the number If you have already attracted her this will be very easy. If she is on the fence, it's really easy too. 1. Hand her your phone and tell her to put her number in -This right here is you being a leader and assuming the "sale". As individuals most of us have learned

how to follow directions. This just taps into it. It's direct and acting like a real man that asks for what he wants. Now if she's hesitates it's very easy to overcome. Example: Her: "I don't normally give out my number to people I just met." Me: "I totally get that, I've had to change my number a few times because of stalkers. Don't worry I'm not going to be like the last guy you ran into that texted you 37 times in a row before you got a chance to respond. Maybe I should worry about you being my next text stalker. ;)" Here's why that works: She may have had bad experiences in her past. Though my words I have conveyed where she is coming from because I've been there and I understand what women go through. I conveyed my personality, made it humorous and flipped the frame on her. 2. Friend phone number exchange - This right here is slotting her as a "friend" in your eyes. That she is cool and you guys should hang out while at the same time eliminating yourself from her list of potential suitors. You end up throwing her in a situation that later on if she wants something with you she will pursue you and attempt to qualify herself to you the reasons you two should date. It also takes away her choice to be intimate with you. In psychology, the more you can't have something the more you want it. This makes you a challenge in her eyes. If the spark really isn't there, but she you are a great guy that she will introduce to her friends. Either way it is win-win for you. Example: "You are awesome! I can see us being really good friends. Here give me your number and next time I'm going out with friends I'll let you know. Feel free to come and bring whoever you want as long as they are cool" 3. The Facebook switch up -This has to do will going for a low investment way to get in touch with her. Everyone has Facebook. This though gets treated like a ninja and works in the way of a yes ladder in sales. Basically what a yes later means is the more a person says yes to other things the easier it is to get them to say yes when going for the close of the sale. Here's how this works. You tell her that you to should "at least be in touch" and then ask her if she has Facebook. Then you tell her that you two should exchange info. Take down her Facebook info then say something along the lines of. "I actually don't check my Facebook that often. Text is better. Here put in your number." (hand her your phone)

Since she already agreed to keep in touch. Agreed that Facebook is a good idea and gave you the info you have started to build that yes ladder. Now getting the number should be easier than if you just asked from the beginning.

With all of these they have their own proper time and place. If you really wanted to you could use all three of them in the interaction. These three ways to get a girls number will make it relatively easy to get pretty much any woman's number. Even if the girl is on a date right when you meet her. Remember social awareness will help you when determining what path to take. The level of attraction you've build will inform you as well. Finally, your confidence level and being bold will tell you as well the approach to take. If she’s been very flirtatious with you and sending positive signals, you can go the route of: “You seem to be very cool so far, but this could just be your bar persona. You should come hang out with the girls and I some time. What’s your number?”

Texting The most important part is being nonsensical and over-exaggerating things. If she is having fun she will respond. Example: "We should high jack a plane and fly to Antarctica. I hear it’s pretty warm there this time of year." Be unavailable. Don’t text back right away. Do not respond to everything she sends you. Get her chasing you a bit. With sufficient enough game she will be gaming you by asking you typical questions. Once this happens drop back and allow tension to overcome her via time. She will invest more via text. Avoid anything that doesn’t help you. Negative things just deflect them. Ignore messages that are received that are only smiley’s or lol’s. Use lots of teasing. It builds attraction and builds tension. Do not take it personal if she doesn't text back right away, she has a life. If she's extremely hot, she gets lots of attention. If you start freaking out and think you fucked up so you start sending text after text then you just lost. A very confident man that has a lot of extremely hot women in his life would not act like that so why should you.

If you do this, you will communicate to her that you are insecure. It says you don't have lots of hot women in your life and that she is special in your eyes like a rare jewel. Pace her. I can't stress this enough. Most guys that she gives a chance to fuck this stage up. By pace her I'm talking about the response time to reply. She texts an hour later than you shouldn’t instantly texting her back. Wait an hour as well. She needs to weed out guys. If you are treating her like you live the exact identical life as her. That women are chasing you for your attention and you just don't have the time to deal with all of them, she's going to automatically be curious about you and see you as an equal. If you are not getting responses back another good thing to do is not ask questions, but to make statements. Example: "Hey I don't know if this is your thing, but I'm planning on (something that's going on in your city in the future). Hit me up if you want info." What this does is 3 fold: • You are offering her value of some kind without expecting anything in return. • That this is something that you are doing regardless if she's into it. • Sounds like a mass text to everyone in your phone. First and foremost, your chances of getting a girl on a date via text depend on a couple things. The biggest one being: The first impression as well as how that whole interaction went. When I was starting out, I would hit girls really hard and really fast. Reason for this was so she'd remember me, I'd l get her intrigued in me and then I'd excuse myself. I'd go talk to other girls and sometimes I'd never go back to the ones I had talked to already. If the venue was small, they would see me talking to other chicks. They would seeing other women having fun with me and be wishing I'd come back over. All of this culminated to the mystery and mystique that I projected. There are a couple different ways to go about starting the initial text interaction. There were only two that I ever stuck with and I'll explain why. The first was I'd immediately text her, right in front of her as I got the number. Reason for this: It allowed me to stay in contact and have our own little communication bubble while I would be somewhere else in the venue talking to another group of people. This alone will lead to sex the same night. Also this enabled a lot of other things. A couple situations come to mind.

1. She is hanging out with her friends drinking, but no one is really giving her any attention so she's bored out of her mind. You basically come to her rescue via text so she can have a conversation with you while you hit on other women. 2. Some creepy guy won't leave her alone. She texts you and you swoop in like her shining knight and save her. 3. She invites you for food, to go back to her place or invites you to another bar she's off too. All good signs you might have sex with her tonight if you play your cards right. The second way you would want to go about texting, would be to wait till sometime the next day or the day after that. This builds that tension in her mind of "Is he going to call? Why hasn't he called yet?". This is great because the more she starts thinking of you the more invested she is into seeing you. I must stress once again this is why that first impression and interaction need to be awesome so you stand out in her mind instead of being just some other dude that night she gave her number to, in some cases this is just to shoo you away. If you go with option 2, Do not send a first text after the bars close, unless it's to throw it out there that there's an after party you are going to and you are inviting her and her friends to. With this I'll clear up two things. 1. If you text after the bars close and it can be read as a booty call. This can communicate a lot of things. 1. You just are interested in sex and couldn't find anyone else to go home with you. 2. You didn't have the balls to re-approach her so you are going the pain free route. Now let's focus on the "after party route". If you invite her to a party, but not her friends you CAN run into a couple of big issues: 1. She's with her friends she may want to leave them, but they aren't cool with it so she stays with them. They wonder why you are inviting her and not them. This can lead to them talking shit about you, bringing up that it sounds very sketchy, etc. 2. Her wondering why you only want her there and not her friends. This can lead into some dark thoughts in her mind about your intensions. If that happens, good luck with texting her in the future; most likely she will screen your calls/texts and not respond. You want to avoid all of that. Trust me I've lost my fair share due to this ONE mistake.

My original text stack to get girls on dates

This is my original text stack that I used to get massive amounts of dates. Took me some trial and error to iron out the kinks and make it streamlined and simplistic. It was ok though because I was getting a lot of numbers and I viewed it as a scientific process. Once I got it right, my percentage of dates from the numbers I got skyrocketed. The Next day (This text example could be spread out over 4 days as well as two. This is filtered through the rules stated above) Example 1: Me: Do you always hit on hot guys (something about me)? Lol Her response Me: I’m preggers. Our irresponsible (action- flirting, making out, touching, etc...) knocked me up. It up to you if you want to be in the baby’s life. I do EXPECT child support checks. No IOU's or food stamps. ;) Her response Me: (Response to her response then). Are you any good at pool? :) Her response Me: That’s perfect. I’ll try not to take too much of your money. I must warn you though I went pro in 1982. ;) **you can change this around a bit, 1982 was for teasing, that's the year I was born** Her response Me: I want to take you on a romantic date. You can have anything off the menu. We're going to McDonald's. I'll bring the candles. You bring the wine. That'll make it classy. ;) **Loads of variations off this, just use your imagination** Her response **I'm going to interject right now to tell you what I was doing here, I'm showing her that I'm a fun person and it just wasn't a persona brought about when I met her due to alcohol.** **I'm standing out from the norm ("so what do you do/like to do, etc... that can be brought up later, but remember this is about her you want her to associate you with fun.** Me: What’s your agenda like this week? Her response **Right here in one way or another you are skipping hassles and just finding out what her week is

like.** **This is important for one main reason. Last thing you want is to play the "How about this day?” game. This can suck because you can literally just keep hitting "I'm busy that day, doing (blank)". Now you are chasing down her schedule. Not Good** Me: “x” and “y” work for me. Which is better for you? **( X and Y are two days that she is free. I chose to set myself up and assume the "sale" if you will. This also gives her the "illusion" of free choice.)** Her response Me: Let’s get together at 8pm **This is assuming the close. If she says yes or offers another time that day, you have a date** Her response Me: Sounds good. Let's meet at (best scenario- a place near your house) **If that's not possibly because where you live don't fear I got you on this- See Car sex/Bathroom Sex** What to do if the date is days away Buy time till date by peppering other texts till the day of the date. See the text examples below if you need material. They are all things I've used. On the day of the date send a text saying that you've got some stuff going on and may be a few minutes late to where ever the date is being held. Reason for this is it reminds her she has a date with you. What to do if she's a very busy girl If you can't lock down a date and time or she has a bf, It's all good. Just keep going with the texting. Eventually if it's to happen it will. The longest I had gone was 2-3 months of texting every few days before I finally got the date, she no longer had a bf. I kept with it because she was a very hot stripper and I knew if I just didn't screw it up that it would be on, I just had to slow play it.** Also later on after a bond has been built deeper questions can be asked because compliance and a deal of comfort have been established. With efficient skill, you can build a very deep emotional bond via text. Very useful to be used on a girl that you briefly chatted (1-2 mins) before getting her number. More text examples Me: I just found myself singing my variation of a lady gaga song to some dogs.

Me: What in life do you find enjoyment in? Me: You can be my newest secret stalker. Me: You looked at me like a predator looks at its prey. ;) Me: Did you know that Jesus spelled backwards sounds like sausage? Me: I just had the most ridiculous thing happen to me at (place). This chick came up to hit on me. Turned out it was a tranny. Lol Me: If a schizophrenic threatens suicide is that a hostage situation? Lol Me: When we hang out, hopefully you don’t overdose on fun and excitement! Wouldn’t want to have to hold your hand in the hospital. ;) Me: I had the creepiest guy stalking me at (bar) yesterday! Makes me feel bad for you women. Lol Me: Am I going to have to bring a chaperone w when I see you…you’re not going to roofie me right? Lol Me: Today was phenomenal. Only way it could have been better is if I had been snowmobile racing midgets. Me: -1 pt for you. Get to +10 and win a prize. **this is a tease if you ask her to guess something and she gets it wrong** Me: If you had one wish, what would it be and why? Me: You just randomly popped into my head Me: do you have roommates? **this is if you haven't pre-screened for an SNL wherever you met her** Me: If I could teleport, just imagine the possibilities. Even just the basics- time, gas and travel. Quick text exchange example #1 Me: Let’s hijack a plane and go somewhere tropical like Antarctica. Lol Her response **From here there unlimited things to add- "We can race polar bears for fun! ;)" "We can snowboard using penguins strapped to our feet ;)" "Don't worry about bundling up, I hear it's pretty warm up there this time of year ;)" Just use your imagination** Me: We can use polar bear like horses and have races! Even better! Throwing a leash on penguins

so we can scuba jetski! Her response **if negative, like animal cruelty, etc....** Me: Relax they’ll love it. I’ll feed them fish. If people can do it w huskies then why can’t I w penguins? Her response Me: I'm sure I'll need 30 of them to propel me thru the water! lol

Quick text exchange example #2 Her: What do you do for work? Me: I'm self-employed. I get to make my own schedule. Her: Gigolo rite?!" Me: That's impressive. No one gets it right the first guess. I'll give you a discount because of that. ;) Her: How you like your new phone? I hear mixed reviews...btw I have a camera on my prehistoric razr Her: Do you accept link cards? Me: I accept payment in all forms whether it be gas, gift cards or someone’s first born. And yes I love my phone. The thing is up there w sex. lol **sarcasm the old school Razr is junk** Quick text exchange example #3 Me: Quick I'm thinking of a number between 1 and 10, what is it? :) Her: 3 Her: Usually I'd say 7 Me: That was close I was thinking of 5. It's too bad thou, if u had gotten it right u would have gotten a prize.... **another version is- "HOLY SHIT! You must be psychic! You deserve a prize." **She'll probably ask what the prize was** Me: It was going to be a romantic candlelit date at McDonalds. ; ) **Can also be used if she can't meet up for a date (before setting one- Just add- "That's too bad." at the beginning)**

Her: Is there a consolation prize? I should really be consoled after learning the life crushing reality of my psychic shortcomings....shit that's a cute prize. Her: U sure u weren't thinking 3? I think maybe u were...!" Me: U just want that prize. It would have been awesome. Anything of the menu for you...under $6 of course.... Her: Well I've never underestimated the romance of a chicken nugget. I'm glad to see I'm at least a 6-piece... Me: Ur worth the meal and an apple pie for dessert. I think they r still 2 for a dollar... Beating sexual resistance and sexual escalation This is it in a nutshell. Beat her sexual resistance to the punch by telling her "We aren't having sex tonight” What you are doing here is taking her right as a woman to choose to sleep with you. Remember, we covet what we can’t have. She might tell u "You’re right, we aren't having sex tonight." Reply with "The reason why is I’m selective and I don't know if I want to sleep with u yet". This steals the frame in your favor. Then throughout the escalation if she resists you playing with her boobs, touching her vagina, taking clothes off: Keep the frame up that you aren’t sleeping with her tonight. Continue escalation. You may have to get creative when you get resistance and bring up that it’s ok to play, but you two aren’t having sex. Get her to touch your penis while your pants are on. If she rubs or fondles you: Undo your pants and get her touching your bare cock. If she's cool with it then out comes the dick. Get her playing with it. Straddle her and thrust forward toward her mouth. See if she puts it in. If she does put it in her mouth, then awesome you’re getting a blow job at the very least.

While getting head stimulate her vagina and eventually go for taking off your pants. Get her turned on and start undoing her pants. If she lets you, start fingering her. Next shift to a position where you can be fingering her and be in between her legs. Try to pull her pants down a bit. If this works or she lets you take them off you can either go down on her or skip that and just go for sex. With all this, rinse and repeat till sex. Ultimate trump is you are celibate. Another option Slight caveat here: If you get an STD from what I’m about to bring up, I am not responsible. I’ve done this many, many times and have gotten lucky not to get one. While in between her legs, fingering her and/or going down on her you can either. • Pull the switch-a-roo, raw dog style (no condom). This is done by timing it. You come up and make out with her while you are fingering her (Distraction like a magician). As your dick is right by her vaginal entrance you guide it right on top off your hand that’s fingering her. Insert dick AS you pull out your fingers. By the time she realizes you both are fucking she may not care. If she does care and asks you to put a condom on. PUT A CONDOM ON and continue. • Same thing only with a condom. While eating her out and you have both hands at your disposal. Grab a condom open it. Put it on then pull the switch-a-roo!! Chapter 7: Other things you need to know Same night sex strategy Here's a quick overview. Best for this are lone wolfs, but you can improvise for bigger sets. It can be used in correlation with any style of game you are playing. 4 types of SNS' • In venue/Bathroom • Car Sex

• Outdoors • Her place/my place Steps: • Open and gauge response. • If it's positive, keep going. • If it's neutral/negative, give it 2 minutes of your time. • Tease and vibe for about a minute. • Then accuse her using sexual priming "If you don't stop looking at me we are going to end up making out". This is a ballsy approach to screen them out. Off of this gauge her reaction. Her subconscious response is always truth. • Positive- she kisses you, says something like "We wouldn't want that would we..."(in a seductive tone)= You kiss them right away. High probability of making out. • Neutral/shocked- deer in headlight look, stutters. = Place your hand behind her head, look her in the eyes as you go for the kiss slowly. If you get the head turn, kiss the cheek. Talk a couple minutes more. Try to make out again. If it's negative on the second time, she's checked of your list. Move on. Negative- volatile reaction. "No I don’t want to make out with you" (in a disgusted voice) = Thank you. Moving on to someone else to repeat the formula After you make out with her, it just cycles between making out, vibing, teasing, asking deeper questions about her (you want access to her soul- get her connecting with you on deeper level than she’s most likely never had), telling her deeper stories about yourself. As for bouncing that depends on what you’re planning on doing and time. This is why asking those screening questions and finding out her timeline is important. Car Sex If your car is close, say “come with me” and drag her outside the club/bar. This requires no hesitation. If this is too ballsy for you right now, role play. Make up a playful story about there being ninjas outside and it’s dangerous. That she looks tough and you are appointing her as your bodyguard. If objections come up handle them. Example: “I coat checked”= go with her to get her coat.

Walk her to your car and open a rear door expecting her to get in. (Same drill for a parking garage or any outdoor seduction) The opening of the door for her generates an automated response. We’ve been conditioned as such. Outdoors Similar to car sex, only your car isn't close or you didn't drive. Get her outside by some justification. "It's loud in here. Let's go outside and chat for a bit. Don't worry we will be going back in shortly" Find some place secluded like an enclave, by some cars parked in a parking lot or some bushes. Bathroom While making out and you have an erection, blame her for it, put her hand on it and tell her if she doesn't stop arousing you that you’re going to have to jerk off in the bathroom. You then ask if she wants to watch. If you get a verbal or non-verbal yes, pull her to the bathroom. Bouncing for food/ is a simple one. "Hey I'm hungry lets go get food from this place near by" If her friends are there, tell them: “You’re all welcome to come. Either way, don't worry we'll be back." Reason for this is so the friends don’t worry. 9 times out of 10, they don’t want to leave the bar because they are having fun there. Then just go to a place nearby. From here if you could be talking about movies, etc. that are back at your place. If she shows any positivity toward what you mentioned tell her “let’s go” and lead her to your car. or Instead of getting something to eat nearby, you can just keep talking to her non-stop while you walk to your car. Just be nonchalant about it and attempt to take her home. While talking to the chick before pulling her I screen for her logistics.

Order of how my progression was till I started just focusing on SNS If you are a bit of a novice with your abilities just focus on this evolution. • Short sets and get numbers.

• Texting • Setting Dates • Bouncing from dates • Sexually escalate at home While on dates great things to do and talk about: Childhood. Growing up. Building an emotional connection. Build sexual tension. Sexual priming to make out. Random stories via vibing (try to tie these in somehow- may have to wait for the right timing). Plant the seed to bounce back to my place. On my computer having movies in movie theater. (Now a days you can just google and find movies online) Focus on the above. Get good at that. The same night lays will come. Just add those to the mix. Next add breaking rapport and social circle bar action. Adam Lyons teaches breaking rapport. Tornado them into you. Build that buzz where they are curious and talking about you. Another fun thing to do with the social circle approach is find the person with the most people, highest status in the venue and befriend them. This is an automatic boost for you. If you make them your BFF, that will introduce you to all the people that they know there. All the girls you get numbers from. Filter them through a text funnel. Get enough numbers and you won't care who comes out the hopper.

Dealing with logistics Questions to ask for getting laid the same night • “Who are you here with?” - Let’s you know what category she is in and how to play it • If with friends: “Let me guess you got stuck being the DD” - This let’s you know if she drove or her friends, allows you to have a game plan. A girl that drove her friends with be harder to take home, but could be down for quick sex in the bathroom or your car • “Do you live with roommates? - Let’s you know which is best your place or hers. Last thing you want is to try to go home with her and she lives with her parents • “What do you have to do in the morning?” - Let’s you know her timetable. If she says she has to work at 7am, you better try to get her out of there by 11:30-12am. • “What’s your agenda for later?” - If she says “I don’t know, what are you doing later?” It’s on!

Picking places to meet women This is important. The first thing that you must decide is what type of women you are interested in and what your game plan is (find a gf, have lots of sex and constantly rotating women in and out of your life, etc.). Next is to put yourself in their shoes. Where would they go shopping? What type of hobbies they would be into? What would they do during the day? Where would they go at night? I’m going to give you a few examples: • If your dream girl is a health nut into spirituality and yoga, you would visit health food storestrader joe’s/whole foods, check out local yoga studios- maybe take a class, look into dog parks and other physical activities like local hiking trails. These are the women you wouldn’t find every weekend at the local bars/clubs. • If you’re into gothic girls find out what bars have goth/industrial nights and go to them • You want those girls that get all dolled up for attention and want to be seen for their beauty. These women are normally at the loudest, hottest bars/clubs. Start going to them. • You want a smart girl that’s down to earth then hang out at coffee shops, libraries and book stores. • Say you are into kinkier foreplay and role play, you might want to explore the BDSM scene, find out where conventions are and your neighborhood play places are. A good site to join to find out about this semi underground scene is www.fetlife.com. In any sense, to catch your prey you have to think like your prey. This goes deeper into what her lifestyle is like and how she is treated. With each place the way you interact needs to be proper fitting. For each type of environment the strategy and the game plan is different. The way you would interact with a woman at a club would be different than in a yoga studio. This goes hand in hand for all other places as well. For example at a yoga studio, during the day, online or at a Starbucks, you wouldn't be running into night time obstacles so there is no need to act like a social dynamo. You can just attract a woman through teasing, vining and emotionally connecting. In day time you have: • Malls • Grocery stores • Coffee shops • Bookstores • Gas stations

Of all these besides the gas station, it’s more productive to be laid back and build a connection with a woman to give her a reason to see you again. In these settings, I usually keep it low key when it comes to the number and start them off as friends. The gas stations are a different story because you’ve got places to go as does she, like ships passing in the night. Here wowing her with a quick deep connection is magical. Remember at gas stations, time is critical you usually have 2 to 5 minutes to get the job done. In any case of going for the number or trying to get laid, it is best to put out the best impression you can and build reasons why you should meet up again. Without building that connection and building those reasons why you should meet up again, your chances of seeing her again drastically go down.

Example Say you meet a girl in a bar. You guys laugh and joke for a few minutes, get her number and bounce back to her friends, but you haven’t built some sort of connection, what’s to separate you from the other 10 guys that night that make her laugh and get her number? Remember also when it comes down to text or phone time what reason does she have to answer you, in her mind you might be just some fun guy she met out of many. Think about it. Picking bars/clubs There are some guidelines for this, but first you need to figure out what type of girl you are after and where you can meet her. Your best bests are bars and places where you can move around and flow with ease. Also places where there are a row of bars next to each other are great because you can bounce back and forth through them all night. There are different types of venues at night as there are during the day. At night you’ve got: • Dive bars • Local more packed bars • Meat markets • Clubs • Super loud clubs. Each one of these is going to require a different strategy I’m going to break some of these down for you. Bars and not so loud venues you are going to have to rely on your social skills and the way you

present yourself with people. These venues it’s very easy to build attraction and jealousy where women fight for your attention a bit and then when they get you they feel like they won the prize over all those other guys there. In louder environments like clubs or meat markets, you are going to have to rely on your body language and sexual escalation. Since these places are loud, the easiest way you can communicate is through your non verbals. In these places by being dominant and sexually aggressive shows you are bold and have confidence about who you are. Both are very attractive qualities in the eyes of a woman. If you can become really good at picking up women in meat markets, clubs and super loud clubs then bars will be a piece of cake.

Picking and engaging groups Usually these break down to lone wolfs, groups of 2 or groups of 3. I know what you are saying now “But Ratisse I see groups where there’s 7, 8 or 9 people in them." From a strategic view point every set breaks down to what I mentioned. These may be constantly being fluid and changing. We will take a group of 5 for example, usually in this scenario there are in a sense two groups coexisting. There’s a conversation that 2 people are engaged in and a conversation that 3 people are engaged in. When you enter a group you become part of that equation. So 3 becomes 4, 4 becomes 5 and so on and so forth. At some point as long as you are accepted into the group it will split into separate conversations. You may start out talking to everyone so they get a feel for if you are alright or not. Then it might break down into a conversation between you and the girl you want to talk to or you and 2 other people. All of this can be used to your advantage. Now let’s get into the types of groups. You have your all girl groups, your all guy groups and a mixture of the two. We aren’t going to focus on the all guy ones for the sake of this book, but I’m going to break down the dynamics of each other one, their pros and cons. Mixed groups Pros • These women don’t get hit on as much because they are with males and most men are afraid of entering that scenario. • Good chance that one or all of the women drove separate.

• High probability that the guy(s) they are with aren’t dating them and just friends. • If the guys are dating one or a couple of the girls there usually are extras that are free game. • In this type of group, it’s easier to pick one off and leave with her to go get a drink or some food to get to know each other. Also it’s easier to break her off from the group and take her home. • Even if you don’t hit it off on a sexual level with the girls, you know that the guys AND the girls have access to more women that you can meet (make friends) Cons • You may run into that all the girls have boyfriends (move on or just make friends with them) • You have to get past that fear of dealing with being the outsider meeting a group with males in it (can be intimidating at first) • Guys may try to tool you (so what) • Guys may get jealous because they secretly pine for the one you are hitting on and try to sabotage your interaction Strategy in these groups • It is best to talk to one of the guys first. • Be friend him and wait till the girls chime in. This disarms the guy a bit and lets him know you are cool. • Be chill and respectful. • During the conversation find out how everyone knows each other (tells you who is available). • Remember in these groups the guys could be bored too and can welcome the fresh conversation. Also remember people are normally friendly unless you give them a reason not to be. That and they all have some sense of boredom and want some new excitement/adventure in their lives. For guys easy things to talk about are: sports, cars, girls, drinking, partying and money. It’s really easy to walk up to a guy and start up conversation. “Hey what’s up? How’s your night going? You guys local or just passing through? You guys have an agenda for later? What do you do for work?” Boom! Conversation started. From here when a topic comes up or the girls chime in, included them into the conversation to start integrating the group. All girl groups

These break down the same, but have slight differences. 2 girl groups In this type of group you have to juggle both of them. Keeping them both engaged. The last thing you want to do is just focus on one of the two because by doing that you are excluding one and as soon as she gets bored she’s going to pull her friend away. In this type of group it’s best to treat them both equally by teasing and flirting with both. This keeps the mystery up about who you are into. If both girls are into you this gets easy because neither one is going to end the interaction out of fear of her shooing you away when in reality she was the one that you were interested in. This can also play them both of each other, build jealousy, build attraction and have them both working to get your attention. A good way to number close these girls if they are both into you is to bring up that they are both super cool that that we should all hang in the future. Get both numbers. Bringing up that you may throw a little after hour’s party later and invite them doesn’t hurt either. If you do decide to go after one of them or one is not really feeling you, entertain them both, get a good vibe going with the one you like and use the same sort of way to get her number. Chat with them for a few more minutes and excuse yourself to go meet more people and so they can go back to girl time. Pros • You don’t have to worry about guys already there • If a random guy or your friend comes into talk you have a perfect opportunity to have 1 on 1 time with the girl of your choosing Cons • These girls probably drove together. Harder to get one of them to leave her friend and go home with you • If you do bring them both home sometimes you may get stuck babysitting and just hanging out with both, unless one is cool with you fucking her friend or you get a threesome

3+ all girl groups This starts out the same as a group of 2. Obviously you have to get past that barrier of being accepted, but after that it is easy to just start talking to the one you are interested in because the others with chat amongst themselves. This and the previous methods are a great way to build a better social life. The only difference is it’s in your best interests not to hook up with any of them until a later period of time like at a party or

some other social gathering. Since there are more people it’s easier to bring one girl with you to the bar to get drinks, to the bathroom or car for sex or leave for food or go to your place. Pros • Easier to snatch one from the herd • Most likely one of them drove by herself • Don’t have to worry about the friends getting bored, they can mingle with themselves Cons • If you are afraid of bigger groups this is going to take some time getting used to • If the friends don’t like you they can dismiss you or sabotage your interaction

Girl by herself (lone wolf) These women came out to get laid. They drove themselves or live close and walked. They need someone to come talk to them and they need to be entertained. They might be bored and looking for that shining knight to sweep them away for sex. These by far are the easiest groups to deal with. These girls by themselves can be used as pawns to get other women. Example Say you bring your new friend with you to meet new people and you walk into either a mixed group or a group of all women, this gives you lots of advantages. In a mixed group, it immediately disarms the guys. Also there is no need to start talking to the guys first. This is an easy entry. “(Her name) and I thought we’d come meet some new people, you guys looked cool.” From here you can get everyone talking to you and her. Then find out the situations between the guys and girls. Next build some attraction with one of the girls from the group. By coming in with a woman it shows that you must be cool and any defenses are down. In this you can build jealousy between the girl you brought in and another from the group. If you so desire you can pawn your “new friend” of to one of the guys from the group and focus on working one of the other girls. In an all-girl group, this action shows that you didn’t come over to hit on them. You can build jealousy between women and possibly trade up if you’d like. Pros • Easy to get to leave with you • Looking to get laid

• Can be your wing woman • Can be used to trade up • Can use the venue to your advantage to build massive attraction with the lone girl • Don’t have to worry about friend’s cock-blocking Cons • Other guys may have the same idea Denouncing a guy’s claim on a girl Group of 2- 1 guy 1 girl Pre-open the goal group. Open other groups. Get in good with a couple of girl groups. Reopen the goal set. Find out how they know each other. (She’s a beautiful girl so obviously he must be a cool guy.) “Reason I’m here is I’m here with my friends and the common theme that comes up is why they can’t meet any cool normal guys. Do you want to meet some of them?” -If yes, bring them to another group. To distraction group: “I’ve brought over some people that you just must meet.” Introduce them all. This allows you to hit on his friend. He’s denounced his claim on his friend by agreeing to meet the girls. The social proof from giving value to both groups magnifies your social value in the bar as well as in these groups.

Types of guys you will have to deal with out at bars • Player/natural/super natural- These guys may have some serious skill. • Boyfriend: Most likely not getting laid by that girl tonight. It is possible though. • Friends that like her/random douches in the bar: These guys can suck. They will try to sabotage you at every chance they get. • Brother/best friend: You need to make them really like you or your fucked. • Gay guys in the group - Make them your best friends. They can help you get laid by one of the girls!!! “Tiffany this guy is so cool. I wish he was gay. You should fuck him.” If the girls in the group don’t like you, you are fucked. If you can make them like you, they will be gossiping about you to the girl you want.

Makes her feel like she’s lucky and you are more of a prize. In this scenario if you decide to delay your seduction, you can get all their numbers and start picking them off one by one. This can also lead into other adventures like you’re hooking up with one girl and she brings you to a party where you meet another girl and you two hook up. The cycle can keep rolling this way.

Picking up without moving In a sports bar, position yourself right by where there is a constant stream of traffic. Great places: • By the stairs • Bathroom • Front door Call them over and vibe with them. You are bringing them into your world not going into theirs. Compliment them on something then introduce yourself. For the bathroom example it’s best to do this after they have gone.

Bartenders, go-go dancers and the like Little break down first. Trying to pick up one of these is different than your normal girl. • They are there to work. • If you come in there weak with what you bring to the table they aren’t going to remember your name 5 seconds after your interaction is over. • Since these women are hired for their beauty they get a barrage of men ordering from them and hitting on them all night. If you set your eyes on picking up one of these women you better bring your A-game and wow them. Picking one up is also different depending on what time of the day. During the day, peak hours, on the weekend- there are multiple plans of attack when it comes to this. One of my favorite teases (to be said before ordering your first drink): “I’m on to you….You flash your smile and bat your pretty little eyes in an attempt to milk men out of their precious little dollars. Your tricks won’t work on me. (wink)" **needs to be said in a playful tone**

Another favorite: (After ordering a few drinks from the same bartender) "OMG! It’s you again! Every time I come to order you’re here. It’s like you’re stalking me. Am I going to have to alert security? This is not acceptable! (wink)" **once again in a playful tone** Dive bars These are by far the easiest. Your best bet is to become a bit of a regular here so you both can establish a bit of rapport and get to know each other without the worry the massive overload of drink orders getting in the way. BECOME FRIENDS WITH ALL THE BARTENDERS. Remember bartenders still talk to each other, if their buzz is about you and it’s a good thing, your good as gold. Free drinks will come of this, you might end up banging one of them or even a few of them. This is by far the best way to allow the two of you to let your personalities shine and find out if theirs chemistry. Obviously don’t go 5 nights a week to the same bar or you risk looking like an alcoholic or stalker. Usually I will end up complimenting them in a unique way over the course of the interactions to see what type of response comes back my way. This way I can gauge if there is a mutual attraction or if I should slot her in the friend category. Slotting her in the friend category isn’t bad though because hot girl usually hang out with other hot girls and bartenders usually hang out with other girls in that industry as well so they can be your gatekeeper to possibilities with other hotties just by way of being friends with her. Be warned though if you do go after a particular bartender at your favorite dive bar and blow it, things can then suck from then on out- if that happens best to just stop going there. It’s along those same lines as blowing it with a chick you work with. Learn from my mistakes. Trust me. You especially don’t want to get banned. It sucks. I’m banned from one of my favorite places in the country due not to blowing it, but due to a weird dynamic that came about.

Busier bars and clubs There are a few different approaches that I use for these when solo. With these environments you have to keep in mind that your time frame to talk to them is very limited due to the onslaught of other people needing drinks.

You are looking at max being able to having an exchange of three things to say back and forth each time you order from the girl. First being when she takes your drink order. Second being when she takes your money. Third when she brings your change. This requires finesse and a game plan. If you have decent to hot female friends, this is your best approach: Set up camp with the girls right at the bar just hanging out chatting amongst yourselves. Make sure that the girls are having fun and laughing. The bartenders will notice this. What you have to your advantage here is the pre-selection that is provided by your friends being with you. When it comes time to order drinks, flirt with her a bit while semi paying her limited attention. This shows that you’re not eager to jump the gun and meeting good looking women is an everyday thing for you. Get your drinks. Rinse and repeat.

Becoming a social dynamo and getting laid a lot in college This takes some building, but the formula is easy. I've taught this to a number of people already and it has drastically impacted their lives. Best scenario for this is to be living in a dorm. If not, just adjust it so parties are at a friend’s dorm. Steps: • Build a small social circle and start throwing weekly parties at the dorm. • Go out of your way to just be social with random people on your campus, tell them about the upcoming party and get their contact info. • Send out a mass text reminding those people the day of your party. Include details. • Continue this process (Steps 1-3). Overtime your social circle will grow. You will develop a reputation and more people will want to hang out with you/women will come onto you. • Talk to your dorm neighbors and organize parties on the same night. Have the parties interlap so people can come and go between the two as they please. Doing this will turn you into a big man on campus.

About the author Growing up I had no brothers or sisters. Lived in a family where there was constant fighting and my parents never really took the time to teach me social skills. I was also embarrassed by this so I never asked for help.

I grew up in Arlington Heights, IL. Over the years of elementary school, junior high and high school I was pretty much a loner that thought he was ugly. I had become a person that only spoke if spoken to unless it was something necessary like info about the homework assignment, etc. My first real make out session was when I was 17. I thank my friend Patrick for that. We went to go visit this girl he had been talking to that was in Buffalo Grove at her cousin’s house. The parents just happened to not be there. While there I didn’t realize that the cousin was into me, Patrick had to tell me. By the way Patrick was 14. He and the girl he was into left the room to leave the cousin and I alone. I decided to make a move and it was glorious. We made out for what felt like eternity. I might have been able to have sex with her, but my inexperience definitely got the best of me. Forgot to mention this girl was in 6th grade and I was about to be a senior. My first blow job came a month or so later from some Indian chick right before senior year started. Once again it was because of Patrick. Some girl at the teen center thought I was cute and he told me. She was in 8th grade. We went for a walk and ended up at the recreation park building. We had already made out and for whatever reason I attempted to open the side door to find it was unlocked. We went to the basement where no one would find us. While making out I just decided to pull my dick out. I put her hand on it. She played with it while we made out. I was very aroused and told her to put it in her mouth. She complied. She had never given head before and I had never received it before. It felt amazing, but she didn’t know what she was doing. I grabbed her by the back of the head and just kept having her bob back and forth on my dick till I came. After she swallowed, she asked if she was going to have a baby now. Hilarious when I look back at it. I tried to pawn her off on Patrick because she wanted to now date me, but I was embarrassed to be a senior dating an 8th grader. Stupid mistake because I could have had fun. After that I was never the same. I wanted to have sex and so began my quest. Here I am 13 years later and I’ve slept with over 250 women. At one point, I was sleeping with 12 women on a regular basis and they knew about each other and that I was constantly meeting and sleeping with new womenI have spoken and taught men how to pick up women all around the world. I’ve been with every race. I will also admit that I have banged some fat girls, some slightly ugly girls (the type where it’s like well, I guess you’ll do), sexy ugly (hard to describe, but if you are honest with yourself you know what I mean), smoking hot women, models, strippers, mothers, dominatrixes, and everything in between. I say this not to impress you, but to inspire you and convey to you what is possible. I hope that the knowledge I’ve acquired over the years and streamlined benefits you and helps bring about the sexual abundance that you want and deserve.

I hope that the knowledge I’ve acquired over the years and streamlined benefits you and helps bring about the sexual abundance that you want and deserve. Your friend, Ratisse