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Live Training Session #3:

Seduction Cycles

Rapport Cycling (A Brief Recap) 1. Topic 2. Opening Question 3. Perspective 4. Challenge 5. Definition

YOU NEED TO MAKE A CONNECTION IF YOU WANT TO SEDUCE HER (Though it doesn’t have to be a mega-strong connection)

The Main Difference Between Rapport Cycling & Seduction Cycling Is The Map

Your Seduction Cycle Must Be: • Going For What Turns YOU On • Turn Her On • Give Her Directions For How To Reciprocate

SEDUCTION IS AN EXCHANGE Do It Like A Man!

RAPPORT IS NOT JUST A PHASE… It’s A Necessary Process For You To Turn Things Sexual

THE GOAL IS TO BE IN YOUR NATURAL STATE DOING THIS. You Will Find Your Natural Path After This Lesson!

When You Cycle, You Will Be: • Direct • Deliberate • Challenging A Woman

On Discovering What She Truly Wants

You Don’t Have To Have Rapport First.. “Connection”, “Seduction”, & other great acts of humanity happen in an instant. You must be able to see them and act on them.

2 Goals For Seduction Cycles

1. Push Sexual Urges 2. Allow Her To Feel Like A Woman

The Best Seducers Get Sexual Quickly While Making Women Feel Good About it Being a sexual man in your natural state is dependent upon how comfortable you can make her feel with her femininity and sexuality.

The Seduction Cycling Structure • Topic: Have a clear sexual topic…what you want and •

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you will get from it Challenge & Escalate: Start off saying directly what you want, challenge her sexuality, & move in a clear direction (Start As Soon As You “Feel It”) Comfort & Define Her Sexuality: Once she feels her sexual urges, she will become aroused and conflicted. You need to comfort it, relax it, & define it. Challenge & Escalate (Again) Comfort & Define (Again) Elicit: This is where she reciprocates. If she has nothing invested in the interaction, she won’t feel anything for you

A Few Things… • Don’t Quit (Most Guys Drop Off At This Point)

• This Can All Be Done With Any Form Of Stimulation (Not

Just The Examples Below) • Meet Her Where She Is: • Some Environments Require A More Physical Approach • Younger Women May Not Understand The Depth Of They’re

Sexuality • Waitress: Get Her Number • Club: Try To Pull Her Outside

The Psychology Of Seduction

Seduction has a direct relationship with acknowledging and managing her sexual fears.

EXAMPLE 1 Topic: What turns her on sexually & why she hasn’t felt it

EXAMPLE 1 Goal: To get her aroused and get her body wanting a sexual experience with you

EXAMPLE 1 Challenge & Escalate: “You know what I want to know about you…What turns you on?”

EXAMPLE 1 Comfort Defining: “Why does that make you uncomfortable? It shouldn’t it is simply my attempt at seeing you. You are simply someone I want to know more about because I can tell there is a lot more than you show. That is fine if it scares you.”

EXAMPLE 1 Challenge & Escalate: “Why do you keep yourself from that? What makes you feel good, comfortable and like a beautiful woman?”

EXAMPLE 1 Comfort Defining: “Why is it you need to feel afraid of expressing yourself? I am asking you because I respect what you might say.”

EXAMPLE 1 Elicit: “What about what you are feeling now makes you feel good?”

EXAMPLE 2 Topic: How much she likes men and for men to be aroused by her

EXAMPLE 2 Goal: To admit this and also let her have the opportunity to try to arouse you

EXAMPLE 2 Challenge & Escalate: “Why is it that women don’t like admitting that they like it when men like them?”

EXAMPLE 2 Comfort Defining: “Well, I am not saying that guys should hit on women in bad ways, but when a guy actually surprises you, most women like that. I would say it is even better when it is someone who doesn’t fit your checklist”

EXAMPLE 2 Challenge & Escalate: “What is the hottest thing about a guy liking you? How he shows it or chases you?” (Most likely she will tell a personality trait or a fantasy of how a guy chased her)

EXAMPLE 2 Comfort Defining: “That’s interesting, but there is a difference when a guy does something or you like something he does but there comes that moment where you feel completed by him”

EXAMPLE 2 Challenge & Escalate: “Like for instance, when was the last time you could tell a guy was getting all aroused just by talking to you? What did you like about that?”

EXAMPLE 2 Comfort Defining: “See why does that make you blush? There is nothing wrong with liking that. What is wrong with liking that you’re a woman and can make a man feel like a man?”

EXAMPLE 2 Challenge & Escalate: “You’re just afraid to admit that you can make a man’s dick hard just by talking to him…You like having that power.”

EXAMPLE 2 Comfort Defining: “Do you think that low of yourself that I see you in a disrespectful way because of this?”

EXAMPLE 2 Challenge & Escalate: “If I told you right now that I was turned on would it make you nervous?”

EXAMPLE 2 Comfort Defining: “I am not saying it was true, I am just seeing if you are comfortable with having the power that you have. Fear and shame only attract pain and insecurity.”

EXAMPLE 2 Elicit: “But tell me, what part of me would you like to see in me come out, if you were to get me turned on.”

EXAMPLE 2 Comfort Defining: “I can tell you what that would be from the look on your face. You would want to humble me a little bit.”

EXAMPLE 2 Challenge & Escalate: “See now I am starting to get turned on. I can feel this part of you. Do you want to know how I am turned on? What are you thinking about?”

EXAMPLE 2 Comfort Defining: “You know rather than feel bad you should feel beautiful right now.”

EXAMPLE 2 Elicit: “I can tell that you’re a little uncomfortable but also feeling good. Look at me and tell me you like me, just a little.”

EXAMPLE 2 At this point, if you are alone…escalate to sex. If not, cut the thread, and just relax and have fun.

EXAMPLE 3 Topic: Has she felt like a woman?

EXAMPLE 3 Goal: To let her know I can make her feel like a woman she has never felt before.

EXAMPLE 3 Challenge & Escalate: “When was the last time you felt like a woman?”

EXAMPLE 3 Comfort Defining: “Do you know what I mean by that? I am not just saying you’re a woman, that is obvious. Do you feel like how a woman is supposed to feel, someone who can attract what they want.”

EXAMPLE 3 Challenge & Escalate: “What do like about men. Like what is it you really want…so how come you don’t have that?”

EXAMPLE 3 Comfort Defining: “It is not a bad thing, it isn’t good for us to get what we want all the time. But when you feel something it is good to know how to act on it.”

EXAMPLE 3 Challenge & Escalate: “You haven’t really had someone make love to you for who you are, you always had to draw them in as someone else. You never had a guy make every part of you feel like you were beautiful. When was the last time you thought your pussy was the definition of a guy’s dick?”

EXAMPLE 3 Elicit: “How does that make you feel when I tell you I want you to feel like a woman?”

EXAMPLE 3 Challenge & Escalate: “If you had the opportunity to feel like your sexuality was completely defined you would take it rather than deny from the experience?”

EXAMPLE 3 Comfort Defining: “Our ways of rejecting ourselves from our true nature is always what keeps us from being free.”

EXAMPLE 3 Elicit: “We don’t need to do anything beyond talking, but do you know I could make you feel like you have never felt before?”

Assignment (Part 1) 1. Come up with one Topic of Seduction 2. Write about it in Paragraph Form 3. Write about the fears a woman may have associated

with it 4. Write about how she can feel good about your topic and her fears 5. Write out 1 Seduction Cycle – Cycling at least 5 times (Escalate/Challenge to Comfort/Define) 6. Either (1) do it infield at least 3 times, or (2) Survey 10 women about what you’ve written

Assignment (Part 2) Either: 1. Do a Seduction Cycle infield at least 3 times (preferred),

or 2. Survey 10 women about what you’ve written

Experience Will Give You The Best Results Some may be afraid and some will do more than asked. The only difference is the fear of taking a chance.