Things To Know About Yourself And The Others

Important Things to Know About Yourself & Others by William Anthony, C.Ht, NLP 1. All relationship issues can be solved by focusing on, and maintaining, the proper mental and emotional state. 2. In general, you are attracted to people that appear to have qualities you're lacking, while simultaneously demonstrating that they are similar to you. 3. Your external world is an accurate reflection of your internal world. 4. People respond more powerfully to your non-verbal signals, than what you say. 5. People respond to what you think about yourself. 6. In general, when doing any persuasion or seduction, only talk and think about things and feelings that you want people to associate with you. 7. Always go into trance with a purpose, or you may find that you will come out of trance with a lack of purpose. 8. See it before you do it. 9. Do it as if you've already done it. 10. Whenever you hypnotize someone, you must always hypnotize yourself first. 11. If you have hidden intentions, there is no 100% reliable way to hide these thoughts from others 12. For many people, becoming psychic requires an identity change 13. The best psychic defense is to not take the person seriously at all - have a sense of humor! 14. The most compelling and powerful way to communicate is to speak so that you are convincing yourself as you are speaking. 15. If you take a deep breath before speaking, your voice will come out much more pleasing. 16. You can please some of the people some of the time, but you can't please all of the people on the internet! 17. You attract the type of person that reinforces your identity. For example, if you're unhappy with who you are, you'll attract someone that will make you even more unhappy. 18. Love yourself, and you'll be a person that people will want to be with. 19. Learn to laugh, loudly and as often as possible 20. In all interpersonal dealings, think win/win 21. In general, when doing psychic influence, bring them to you - do not go to them, or you will adopt their fears and anxieties. 22. Feelings of desperation or despair will hinder any psychic influence attempt. 23. One of the most critical parts of any psychic influence is the banishment. After you do it, forget it. 24. In order to manifest money, you must first manifest a feeling of security and abundance. 25. Manipulation: Are you concerned that what you are doing is manipulation? Then ask yourself, "How would I feel if someone was doing this to me?" 26. Every day, unenlightened people make decisions based not on what they want to achieve, but what they are used to makes them comfortable 27. You cannot achieve self-enlightenment solely from the Internet. You've got to get out and get to know people. 28. Only pathetically insecure people initiate power games. They do it to reinforce who they think they are. As they grow older, they will grow angrier, and more unhappy. 29. When watching movies, if you can sit thru and bear an onscreen character's embarrassment, you can better bear your own embarrassments. 30. When watching movies, between a conflict of two people, identify with the stronger character if you can feel their point of view. Never identify with the victim. Never. 31. If you are good at sleight-of-mouth (SOM), you'll be great at flirting. 32. A person cannot maintain any standard of morals when they has no ordinary means of living. - (Kenkò Hoshi, 14th century Japanese Buddhist spiritual leader) 33. Seriously hot women perceive any act of kindness from a man as a definite act of

manipulation. There is no exception to this rule, because she is correct. 34. There are many trainers in NLP, hypnosis, and self-help. You can usually trust those that promote their products over themselves. Any trainer that self-promotes by giving you a long and detailed history is probably giving you an inaccurate history. Any trainer that tell you a lot about himself and no definite examples of his techniques is a con artist (this includes almost all seduction gurus. Ross Jeffries is the real thing, however). 35. The effectiveness of a trainer's product is more important than the trainer. 36. There is no chemical solution to a spiritual problem. 37. Momentum is Everything. 38. Your inability to deal with the past is significantly less important than your ability to deal effectively with the future. 39. Fuck the past. 40. A pretty girl's worst fear is that she's boring. Her second worst fear is that you will bore her. 41. The one thing a pretty girl will not put up with is a guy that's boring. 42. Everybody has fucked-up parents. Everybody 43. Every night, before you go to bed, read a funny book. 44. All of the biography & "about" shows you see on cable channels A&E and the Biography Channel are done by contracted public relations firms. Keep in mind that what you see is not reality - it is "spin". This includes any show that pretends to be the "True Hollywood Story" - what you are seeing is fiction. 45. With few exceptions, believe nothing a Hollywood actor says about themselves. And always remember that Hollywood movies that proclaim to be "the true/real story" are works of fiction. 46. At all costs, avoid judgmental assholes. These are people that, with their words and tone of voice, try to make you feel bad about choices you make and constantly criticize you. These people are already poisoned, and want to spread their poison to you. 47. Whoever angers you, controls you. 48. People who lay guilt trips on others are totally and completely unsusceptible to guilt, even to the point of being indifferent if someone's life is in danger. 49. People know when they treat you badly. it will continue until you assert yourself. 50. To communicate effectively with people, you need to communicate at their conceptual level (lowest level is discussing minute details, highest level is discussing global concepts). Mis-matchers will attempt to change levels on you. 51. Your body and your mind are firmly intertwined. Ignore this at your own peril. 52. You can't "save" anybody. People can only save themselves. Dating Advice! by William Anthony, C.Ht, NLP 1. All relationship issues can be solved by focusing on, and maintaining, the proper mental and emotionally happy state. In other words, before she can feel something, YOU MUST GO THERE FIRST! 2. You cannot seduce without rapport. Rapport is the Core - always. 3. Don't ever be boring. Ever. 4. Plan ahead. Never count on luck or random chance to "make something happen" (see Rule #1) 5. Be funny, tell jokes. Learn to add a little laugh to your voice, because it will improve any situation. Trust me on this. 6. Guys: Do not wait for her to say or do "something" that will make you feel good. men must emotionally lead women. Men must be emotionally assertive. That means, you must feel it first, and then she will feel it. This is the first rule of seduction - some experts say this is the only rule of seduction. 7. Women need emotional content the way flowers need sunshine. 8. If you really want to be seen as a dating success, if you really want to be a sex magnet, if you really want to develop sexual charisma, you must first understand and

master this list, because they are universal, and always work !!! 9. In general, you are attracted to people that appear to have qualities you're lacking, while simultaneously demonstrating that they are similar to you. 10. Girls: If a "friend" asks your boy friend out, she is not your friend 11. Men: Encourage her do be her best. Women: encourage him to do his best. 12. Talk about relationships - how things and people relate to each other - even if it's only on their favorite TV show 13. Want to increase your physical attractiveness by ten times? Just smile. That's right even if it's a little smile. Never stop. 14. The source of most damaging mental issues you can have during a date is your inner dialog. Shutting down your inner dialog (using NLP Plus techniques) can boost your confidence in ways you can never imagine! 15. DO NOT EVER BE BORING. EVER! 16. There is no such thing as a "shy exhibitionist". 17. You can't "save" anybody.