Femdom Training: How To Train Your Husband?

Femdom Training

How to train your husband?

If Your Husband Does Not Want Femdom Relationship. Our step by step training here, will convert even the most vanilla of males to a femdom relationship if you follow this to the letter. This may sound hard but I will tell you right now that it is a lot easier to switch your husband into a submissive than it is to train a woman to become a dominant. This comprehensive guide will explore on how to start from scratch, and what targets to set at each step. By the end of this guide, your husband will be under your complete control, and will do everything to please you. This is the kind of relationship that most women desire. Regardless of your man’s sex drive, whether little, large, vanilla, or kinky, the key to getting him to conform to a femdom relationship starts with one thing.

Husband Training Step 1: Chastity. If you man lacks sexual interest, there is a high probability that it is easier for him to masturbate than it is for him to invest the time and energy into you having a great sexual relationship. Practically any essentially strong marriage or relationship will benefit from male chastity. Your partner will be more complacent and more focused on your needs. Keeping him locked up is nonnegotiable. His orgasms are yours to give, not something that he has a right to by default. You have full right to control his orgasms, and sooner you make him understand that, the sooner you can start his training.

It is a common place observation that men tend to be sexually wanton. Left to their own devices, even married men will look for other available women, wanting to spread their “seed” as widely as possible. Sex is quick, often brutal, and focused on a single goal – ejaculation. Ejaculation leaves men depleted and often out of sorts. They lose their focus on their partner or the image that prompted their masturbatory fantasy. The biological and emotional signals seem to be for the male to leave after ejaculation and begin searching for his next sex partner. No wonder women are so often dissatisfied with their male partners.

Femdom relationships require the male to overcome this biological predisposition and the cultural conditioning that reinforces it. Femdom relationships require the male to find ultimate pleasure in his partner’s pleasure, rather than subordinating her pleasure to his own. In such relationship, a man is letting controlling his sexual desires in exchange for pleasuring his woman. This reorientation is a profound challenge for a male, one that no doubt accounts for the low (but growing) percentage of femdom relationships. A program of chastity is the best way for men to reorient themselves so they are suitable for a strong female in a femdom relationship. By chastity, it is meant that the male in a relationship does not have an orgasm unless it is in the presence and with the permission of his partner. Some women and their partners prefer that the man maintain chastity through self-discipline. Others prefer the idea of using a cage to enforce their chastity. There is no one right way to practice chastity, but due to societal reconditioning of men growing up in a patriarchal society, the best method would be to enforce it. Tell him it’s not a debate, and that’s something he has to do. Ultimately most agree that a man who practices chastity is expressing profound respect for their partner and women generally. Many speak of their chastity as being a gift of their sex and their sexual energy to their female superior and the superior sex of which she is a part.

For a man who is used to unrestricted masturbation, chastity is a profound challenge. Yet, chastity is a challenge well worth undertaking because it can help lead to a transformation of a man’s relationship with his partner. Almost every account of a chastity regimen notes that the man becomes much more attentive to the needs of his partner, serving her better both sexually and in a myriad of other ways that are pleasing to her. The many religious traditions that use chastity/abstinence as a key element of their spiritual practice and service orientation are definitely onto something.

Resolve to restrict his orgasms to situations where he has first given you ample pleasure in some way, be it sexual or otherwise. If his need to masturbate is simply too overwhelming, as is often the case, encourage/command him to practice masturbating to the edge of orgasm and then stop. In all femdom relationships the male must be asked to provide sexual service to his partner without his penis while missing his own orgasm, a profound mental and physical challenge. Ultimately, it is for you to decide how to best introduce chastity into your relationship. What is important to understand, however, is that chastity is one great way to keep your submissive man feeling and expressing his submissiveness to you. What you need to do is to confront him, and ask him in an open and understanding way of how many times he masturbates in a week? Tell him that it does not matter to you, but you are curious. He is either going to be honest with you, or he will lie. At this point it does not matter. If he says 5 times a week, or he says none, your response is going to be the same.

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You have been reading on the internet and that you wish to try an experiment with him, and if he participates, you will reward him with whatever wish he asks for. (Doesn’t matter at this point what that is, if you want to convert your relationship, you will have to do this) He will likely ask what this is before he states what it is that he wants. When he does, tell him you want to see what his behavior will be like if you put this on for 1 week. At this point produce the CB 6000 male chastity device. The reason we say this one, is because it comes with 3 different ring sizes, and spacers so that no matter what size he is, he will be locked up with no ability to cheat. You must already have this on hand before you confront him about his masturbation. This needs to go on one way or another at the time of your confrontation. Do not accept no for an answer. Find a way to be determined enough for him to do it. This is vital.

Once you have it on him, it must stay on for a full week, with no chance of taking it off. If it is uncomfortable, then you can take it off supervised, and wash him, or give him relief, but he is to be nowhere out of your site without the device on. Make him clear on agreeing to this when

you first put it on. Tell him you are about to make all his dreams come true if he does just this one single thing. During the week that it is on, it is very important for you to sexually tease him in all sorts of ways. Find reasons to play with his cock while it is locked up, and reward him in any way that you know he will like. The only thing you have to do in week 1, is reward him, and tease him and be completely kind and serving to him. Don’t worry, this is just a conditional phase that will change in later phases. Once you have him locked up and have done this for the first week proceed to step 2.

Husband Training Step 2: More Chastity, More Teasing Ok, so your first week of chastity on your husband is up. Now it’s time to evaluate. If your husband masturbates more than 3 times per week, this first week will become very evident in his behavior change to you. Regardless of anything, being locked up for a week, will be an eye opener for the both of you. You realize now, that your sex life is directly tied to his orgasms. It is time to reward him for his agreement. Give him whatever he asked for. Even if it is something that you have never done, like swallow, it is important to show him at this stage of the game, that his compliance will have huge payoffs. Once you have given him what he wants, tell him that you really enjoyed the week together, and if he remains a good boy and stays in the chastity for another week, you have other WONDERFUL surprises for him.

At this point, before you lock him up, give him the best sex you have ever had in your life. Drain him completely with 1-3 orgasms in this day depending on his age and his refractory period. Then lock him up again. Then let him know that you love him and you have read online on some ideas on how to spice things up around the house, and make his life better and more interesting in the bedroom. It is very likely that you will notice some enthusiasm from him by this point. Especially after a week of being locked up, and the most incredible sex of your life together. Tell him now that this is just the beginning of a new relationship, where you are going to dedicate your time and energy into pleasing him. Let him know though that there will need to be a few changes in the house, and that you will need him to start following a few orders of yours to make sure that your needs are being met. At this point, it is time to slowly introduce some household chores to him. To make it more interesting to him, have them perform some simple tasks like doing dishes in the nude. Ease him into more chores over the next few weeks, and always try and get him to do them in the nude. Introduce joking punishment when he hasn’t done something to your liking. At this point you will be introducing corporal punishment, but at this time, be sure to make it hurt. Make it fun. For instance, if he didn’t wipe the counters up properly and there are crumbs on the counter, show him what he missed, and have him clean it up, and after that, grab a wooden spoon or even your hand will suffice, and grab him by

the neck softly, but firmly, and push his head down over the counter. If he resists, tell him to go with it, that he will like it. Then lightly spank him and tell him that if he wants rewards for being a good boy, he must do a better job at cleaning than that. Spank him enough to turn him on, but not enough to hurt him. If he is not wearing the chastity at this point, which he should be, put it back on. If he is, tell him that this is a warning, but the next slip up you will tack on an extra day of chastity for his sloppy chores. Keep all of this fun, and just act enough the part to make it spicy. He doesn’t need to know that the relationship is changing from this point on just yet. It is likely that his ego will raise up during your attempt to dominate him. It is natural, because even if he likes it, he will feel the need to protect his manhood. Tease him constantly, by flaunting the key to his chastity cage, reminding him that you control him and his orgasms, and only way forward to his release is to please you.

Handling his ego is quite simple. Just follow these three rules: 1. Compliment him for compliance. Few examples:   

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” It’s great to see you let me have control. It shows you are a real man” “You are so sexy when you let me have control. You are turning me on!” “You are such a cool husband, not like other pathetic males who need to show their manhood like losers, you really have confidence in yourself” Only a real man would let me take control, I love you so much. You are a stud.

2. Know when his ego is rising up, ease and let go of your domination until next time. 3. After the act, he may try to dominate you back to prove his manhood. Let him be a bit dominant. The ego handling is just a temporary situation. He will feel less and less the need to show his manhood as time goes by, until it will disappear…. at this point you know you eliminated his ego when he is with you. And he will let himself submit to you easily.

Husband Training Step 3: Make him Swallow Do not advance to this step until you have completed all previous steps. For the next few weeks, you have to be delicate in transitioning your vanilla husband into your obedient houseboy. His ego will be the biggest enemy. Remember your training in the last step on how to handle his ego. Continue the chastity training each day, but in the beginning it is particularly powerful if you tease his cock daily as much as your own schedules permit. Take him out of chastity as often as you can, and suck, lick, and play with his cock a lot. Bring him to close to cumming, but do not let him cum at all. After continuous teasing for several days, it is perfect time to train him to clean his own mess.

First of all, it is actually a lot harder than it sounds. It is the entire power shift in the relationship with your husband. The whole point of forcing someone to swallow their own cum is making them do something degrading and humiliating that they wouldn't normally do, but at the same time, it is very beneficial as your husband will not make any mess. The most common approach is by command. Make him come on his or your hand or a shot glass or inside a condom. Then order him to lick it or swallow it clean. This is the first thing that comes to mind for most women, but is also the hardest to make someone follow through with.

This approach can work, but only if you are very strict. Speak sternly, imply urgency, and raise your voice. Since this is one of the hardest approaches, it can also take several tries. For example, tease your husband to the point of desperation, and then unlock him and make him come into a shot glass or a condom. Shot glass or condoms are essential, or too much of it will get stuck on the sides and be wasted. So after he came inside a condom, carefully take off that condom without dropping any cum, place it in his mouth, and tell him to suck it and swallow. Swallowing his own cum is very important for his training. His training cannot move ahead if he does not complete this part. Just remind him that he cannot cum at all, unless he agrees to eat his own cum. Explain to him, how is that not only hot for you, as it turns you on, but also completely benign, as he is basically swallowing something from his own body. Help him pass this mental block. Tease him, seduce him, even blackmail him if necessary, but in the end you have to make him swallow his own cum. If he still refuses, you have to go on the offense. Stop talking to him, threaten to break up your relationship, make him feel guilty, and remind him that he is responsible for all of it, because of a silly little thing that he is making into such a big deal. He should be stronger than that.

Again if he refuses hold his nose and pour it into his mouth. Let him breath but repeat the process to get him to swallow all of it.

This process takes a couple of tries before he will be able to swallow all of it without wasting a drop. However, if your husband refuses to do that, and you are unable to hold his nose or keep his mouth open, there is indeed a second approach that works for most women.

This second approach requires a little more preparation. This is generally forcing your husband to swallow his own load. The key to this approach is lack of options on your husband's behalf. Put him in a position where he can't say no. My favorite way to do this is the legs over the head trick. Have him lay on his back and lift his legs back over his head until his cock lines right up with his mouth What helps is having him lay such that when his feet go over his head they land on a wall or yourself behind him so he cannot unfold, then narrow the gap between his mouth and cock. When he's lined up make him come into his own mouth. This might actually take a couple tries before you get a good amount in there. Hold him in that awkward position by the balls, make sure you have a good grip so he knows he can't just lay back down. Tell him he has to swallow it, if he hesitates hold his nose with a free hand. He'll have to swallow to breath. Make sure he's secure and can't move, then make him come into a shot glass. Tell him to drink it, again if he refuses hold his nose and pour it into his mouth Let him breath but repeat the process to get him to swallow if necessary, and there are alternatives to holding his nose.

Husband Training Step 4: Breaking Balls So if you have locked your husband, and continuously teased him for several weeks, and forced him to swallow his cum whenever you decide to let him have an orgasm, you can move on to next step which are ‘Ball-Torture’ and ‘Edging’. This next step not a clear defined step, but more of a gradual process. It can be started along with the third step in parallel, but it is highly recommended that this step is not started until your husband had swallowed his own cum a couple of times. If you still have problem with your husband refusing to swallow his own cum, moving on to this step will not be that productive. However, there is also a possibility that if done right, combined with Ball torture and edging, your husband might agree on swallowing his own cum. But keep in mind, that making him gulp his own cum is a lot more important step than ball-abuse, edging or ruined orgasm. You have to show force and make him do step 3, and after you completed you will achieve a power over him, and that power is crucial for step 4. Edging is mainly a form of Orgasm denial, like Chastity. However, Chastity is a passive technique in which your husband is completely denied to have any orgasm whatsoever, Edging is more playful. Edging is done after unlocked the penis out of the cage, and stimulate it to the point of orgasm, and right at that point, stopping any and all stimulation, without actually letting him cum. The real art with edging is to learn exactly how to get him as close as possible to an explosion without actually allowing him to erupt. If you pay close attention while you fondle and play, you’ll learn precisely the clear warning signs of an imminent ejaculation.

There’s nothing quite like edging for subliminally building your husband’s libido and desire. Not only will he cherish you more, thanks to neurochemistry, but within a short timeframe his vulnerable and exploitable mind will be totally under your feminine control.

Make him always tell you exactly how close he is. Kind of obvious, but Insist that he tells you when to slow down and when to stop. Especially in the beginning while you’re learning how to read his body language. Keep talking to him, ask him how it feels, what is best. You’ll soon get the feel of it and he’ll love you even more for it. Feel for his body and muscles tensing, him holding his breath, arching his back or even tensing, all are signs he’s getting very close. Learn to read and understand the signs and don’t worry if you go over, you’re learning. Just be sure it’s a libido-building ruined orgasm.

Move from strong to soft strokes, from his vein filled shaft up to his tip constantly. Change it up, take your time and make sure you get him ultra-rock hard for maximum dopamine production in his vulnerable brain… I personally like lots of lube and oil and fast but not too tight of strokes, and then as he gets closer and closer, move to a looser grip and then focus on his hypersensitive head and frenulum (the strip underneath the head at the top where men are most sensitive). Also take breaks frequently. It’s better to stop one second too early than one second too late, stroke edge - deny – repeat. Make it ultimately his fault if he erupts. So again, if he does explode make sure you properly ruin it. Stop all rubbing and stimulation as soon as he starts to climax. Or if he’s tied down, you turn it into a post orgasm torture, after the ruined orgasm, where you use his slippery cum as lube to keep rubbing his hypersensitive Joystick, scolding him by saying: you’re so naughty, I didn’t give you permission to cum. When you do want to enjoy his pent up explosions, make that part of the tease too. When you’re planning to make him climax and erupt, this is a great time to also practice your edging techniques. Use it as an opportunity to see just how crazy you can make him, where you’re not worrying about accidently taking him over the edge. You can also add a wonderfully sadistic element with like promising him to not ruining his orgasm If you can hold on for just five more minutes. Routine is critical. Edge him every day. For best results: One short session (15 minutes) every other morning; one medium-length session (20-30 minutes) every evening before bed; and at least one long session (40+ minutes) every weekend. If this seems like a lot of time, consider how much time you spend alone doing things you wish he was interested in (like watching your favorite shows on Netflix). This is one activity he will eagerly join. Edging is addictive to male neurochemistry, and it very specifically addicts him to you, as long as you do it regularly. The more you do it, the more deeply he bonds to you, and the more he will crave spending time with you throughout the day. This

feeds on itself, and before long, your nightly “quality time” together becomes perfectly natural for both of you. Even if you’re already in love, married, and devoted to each other, your connection can still go deeper - and the fire of wilder days can be rekindled. No more going to bed alone! Also, any time spent having sex or pleasuring you can count toward his edge time. (at your discretion) Daily orgasms for you, his heat beside you as you drift to sleep, and an eager, attentive lover totally addicted to your touch - what’s not to love? No matter how busy or tired you are, you both have the time for this, I promise. Do it for a week, and you will start making time for it. Edge him more than once. For most, this is obvious. But for some new to edging, it needs to be said. Don’t just edge him once and assume you’re done. Depending on his stamina (and how long it’s been since his last orgasm) it can take a while to build him up to his first edge of the night. It’s important to think of it that way: “first edge of the night.” Because once you’ve guided him to his edge - and

stopped - he is still highly aroused, and edging him again becomes easy. All that build-up was time invested to get him to his most blissful state. Now “cash in” your investment and keep him there, by edging him over and over again. It should be easy. A single, slow, tight pump is sometimes enough. Watch his reaction and enjoy the show! (Women report that this is usually their favorite part guiding their loved one from edge to edge with subtle touches, watching him, and knowing the exquisite gift he trusts only her to give.)

Keep him guessing. Every single time you touch his cock, he should never know if you intend to edge him, ruin him, or give him a full orgasm. Lie to him. Tell him you’re going to stop, then don’t. Or tell him you’re going to ruin him, then give him a full orgasm. Or congratulate him on the orgasm you’re about to give him, then “change your mind” and stop for the night. This only works if you also sometimes tell the truth. Once he learns you are unpredictable, his body will naturally prepare for orgasm, (every time!) giving him the rush he craves - while his mind reels in fear of the alternatives. You are fucking his mind, in addition to his body - in a very good way! Watch how he reacts - from the curl of his toes to the flare in his eyes. It’s incredibly hot.

A “ruined” orgasm is when you let go and cease all stimulation, a split second before he climaxes. His cum will sort of just leak out, and it’s not as satisfying as a full orgasm. “Ruined” is a misnomer, though, because he still gets some small pleasure from it, so don’t be afraid to ruin him regularly. He might thrash, beg, or try to finish it himself, so this is a good time to playfully experiment with restraints - something as simple as tying his wrists together behind his back with a belt or necktie will do the trick. The important difference between a ruined and regular orgasm is that the male libido does not diminish after a ruined orgasm. He will stay horny, eager, erect, and attentive, as though he had no orgasm at all, and you can continue playing, if you wish, after a short break. You can even ruin him twice in one night - the second one is usually harder to achieve, though.

One importance is abuse to the balls. Most people will find it hard to take a couple hard swats to the balls before or after an orgasm. Your husband will obviously feel pain, but the point is to induce mild to severe pain or it can be used only to cause discomfort. It is important to note that the penis and testicles can be easily or permanently damaged and, therefore, caution must be observed when practicing this activity. The secondary point is for him to never getting used to the pain, and hence things should be changed frequently so he does not expect what to come. The testicles are perhaps the most sensitive area of man's genitals as well as the most fragile. Any activity involving the testicles should be undertaken carefully and with consideration given to the individual’s welfare. Mistakes can lead to

ruptures, tears, or other disfiguring and disabling results. One form of ball abuse is simply squeezing them between the palm of one hand, as if squeezing a rubber ball. By pulling down on the testicles before squeezing them, they rest at the bottom of the sack and can be squeezed more effectively. Start with a gentle pressure and work up from there until your partner has reached his threshold. Slapping is another painful method of ball torture. While the sack of the testicles hangs loose, gently but firmly slap them from side to side. The testicles will bounce within the sack when they are slapped causing immense pain so it is wise not to slap them with too much force.

You can also tie up the balls with a length of rope, tubing, or leather straps. To do this, gather the testicles in one hand and gently pull down. With the other hand, wrap the rope or other restraint device just above the balls and tie off. Once this is accomplished, tap lightly with the fingers on the now taut sides of the testicles. The testicles are subject to rupture easily when they are bound so it is important that you do not use too much force during this activity. Another possible way is to tie a knot around his balls, and pull them often. This will result in showing him that you have direct control over his balls, and you can inflict pain whenever you want. This is a great way to do reprogramming as he will do everything to not be subjected to pain, and in during so, his only focus would be to please you. Your dominance will be asserted and to him, his balls are now your property.

While squeezing his balls you can manipulate them in your palm, causing them to rub slightly against one another. This rubbing presses on nerves that lie on the outsides of each testicle and causes a sharp shooting pain which travels up into the abdomen. The skin around the testicles is more sensitive while bound and pinching them with fingernails or tweezers can also prove to be very painful. Scraping the nails or other implements over the tightened skin of the sack is also deemed painful. Use a ball point pen to write or draw on the bound testicles. This produces sensations that vary from sensual to painful, depending on the amount of pressure applied. You might also try a tracing wheel (can be purchased at sewing centers for under $2.00) to trace over the surface of the bound testicles. Again, the amount of pressure used determines the reaction you will get. You may even try placing the tracing wheel in the freezer for a few hours before hand. Any instrument may be used in this manner, however, you may want to avoid anything that would cut or puncture the skin. A ball stretcher can be used to elongate the scrotum and provide a feeling of weight pulling the testicles away from the body. Alternatively, a ball crusher can also be used that squeezes the testicles slowly by turning a nut or screw. Both are particularly enjoyable for the wearer as it can make an orgasm more intense, as testicles are prevented from moving. Of course he should be locked in chastity right back again. It is important that he spend as less time as possible without the chastity locked. Hence it is highly recommended to invest in some electronic stimulation toy. Using electronic stimulation toys have an added benefit that it makes it easier for you to ruin your husband’s orgasm while he is still locked in chastity. Another is, if you have electronic stimulation toys, use them to make him come, but after orgasm keep turning up the power until he obeys. There are a lot of options really, any sort of pain should do the trick. When using pain, I always suggest it be something erotic in nature to make thinking about it afterwards a more positive experience for your husband.

If you notice your husband hesitating or otherwise struggling with the command, I suggest telling his punishment if he doesn't obey. Pick a punishment he won't like, and up that punishment with each attempt. For example, by this time, your husband is locked in a cage, and is being teased constantly, so internally he cannot wait to just have a release. Deny him orgasm for a week then tell them if he doesn't follow through you will deny him orgasm for another week. If he still doesn’t budge then try again in a week, but next time threaten two weeks punishment. While I imagine this will eventually work with anyone, it might be hard to find the right punishment. Don't start out with the worst

punishment you can imagine though, build up to larger and more serious punishments. Someone refusing to eat their own cum at the cost of no orgasms for a year, might actually be willing to do so at the threat of not coming for a month after suffering through two weeks of no orgasms. If it's not working, try not to get frustrated. Some husbands just have a hard time with this. Instead, think of it as a game to see how much your husband will suffer through before giving in. Your husband should know by now that you are in-charge, and he is locked in the chastity, and you are the key-owner, hence indirectly owning him. He should be continuously reminded that his manhood is now in your hands, and he is basically a sexual slave for your entertainment. It is a battle of will, and it is very important to not give in during that time. All the work done up till now, and hoping to be done in future will be undone. A really important thing is to show him that you control his orgasms, and wear his chastity key around your neck, so you could display it to him from time to time. Desperately wanting to have a release, and seeing that you are the only one that could make it happen, he will eventually agree to your demand.

Husband Training Step 5: Discipline & Reward Do not advance to this step until you have completed all previous steps. Your man should be considerably better behaved by this point, and you should have stealthily found a way for him to be permanently chastised except when you want to tease him, play with him or occasionally give him release. There is no set time for release, but I would recommend the beginning, no more than once per week. As you progress, the level that you can make him wait will significantly increase. You have to be careful though. There will be frustrating times for your man, and since you are taking him somewhere that you want him, and this was not his idea, you must be more flexible in his training than if all this was his idea. So, the next step you need to do is to incorporate real punishment into your lifestyle. The affirmations are nice and an introductory way for him to get used to you spanking him, but now I am talking about real discipline. Your husband needs to be disciplined in order to be corrected so that he becomes a better husband to you.

A normal punishment is a judgment or a sentence for the violation of the law that the you have laid down. If your husband knowingly has violated one of your commands, he should be punished to pay her retribution for his unlawful behavior. An example would be, say the you forbid your husband to masturbate. If he violates your known rules, he then would be punished to learn his lesson and to pay you retribution for his infraction. But here the dynamics are entirely different. Contrary, your husband has to be regularly disciplined, whether he has violated any rules or not. He is discipline because you are training him. Any pain causing activity like a whipping or a spanking can be either a discipline or a punishment. But the purpose and the severity will vary depending if it is for training or for rebuke. A punishment would be more severe than a discipline. Discipline is a good thing and your husband can be taken to subspace by the loving yet authoritative hand of correction from you. Discipline is necessary for the you to properly train your husband. A man without regular discipline is usually a disobedient husband who becomes self-centered and lazy. By nature, men need to be disciplined by a woman. The more a man is disciplined, the less he will need to be punished because he will be more obedient. Punishment is a negative and is not intended to be submissively fulfilling. It is intended to punish wrong doings in a manner so that the wrong doings do not happen again. A punishment is also an act of love but its purpose is to rebuke and reprimand. The terms discipline and punishment are easily intermingled and sometimes people refer to a punishment as discipline and vice versa. However, the terminology is not as important as the purpose of the correction. If it is to train, guide and alter a male's behavior and attitude, then it is Discipline. If it is to reprove, penalize and chastise a male for disobedience, then it is Punishment. When your man does something that does not please you, let him know that he will be disciplined or punished for it. If you are able to do it right away, then do it. If not, then you must still warn him that when you have a moment that he will be disciplined for his disobedience.

He will likely think this is a game at this point, and will be looking forward to the spanking. When the time comes, this is how you handle it.

Your tone is different. Your attitude is different. You put him over the knee and you use a belt, slipper, or anything with a hard surface, or if you must your hand. You spank him for as long as it takes, and it is important that when you are spanking him you are talking to him about the behavior you are trying to correct. If he starts to resist or tries to get away, you must let him know that if he refuses his punishment, that the chastity will stay on for an extra week.

If he still does not comply, then let him be disobedient, but live up to your commitment. No playing with him in any sexual way for another week. If he agrees to the spanking later, you still make him wait a week from the day he turned the spanking down. You can subtract one day for him coming around to show that good behavior does have it rewards.

You make sure you spank him for as long as it takes to produce real pain. Pain that makes it hard for him to sit down. His ass should look like this when you are done. Your husband’s ass should look like this when we started to incorporate real punishment into our relationship. I also make him wear underwear that is sexy to me with no regard on what he wants to wear, but we will talk about that later on. You are not ready for that just yet. I completely submit to my wife and my life is better because of it.

Now this is the most important part.

Aftercare. After you are done, you must hold him, caress him, and love him. Tell him that you think that it is incredibly hot how he submitted to you, and that you think is the ultimate man. It is important for you to build his ego to support his compliance at this point. If you do this right, you have him right now. You now can bend and mold him into anything you want. You have broken him. But to be broken that man needs to know that you have not lost respect, but have actually gained respect. That you love him more. That he means more to you now that he ever has.

If you feel that you are deeper connected from this experience, then you have executed perfectly. If there are tensions, and/or things seem a bit weird, that is ok too. Just make sure in the aftercare that you love up on him, and show him that you think he is the manliest man ever for submitting to you. Wait 1 day, then invite him for a conversation in your bedroom. Tell him to remove his clothing. You keep yours on. Tell him to kneel before you at the foot of the bed while you sit at the foot of the bed. Tell him that you very much like the way the relationship is going, and that you would like to make this a more permanent arrangement. Let him know that you wish to lead the household and for him to follow your lead and to comply to your wishes. Let him know that his life will vastly improve under your leadership, and that you will both be better off. Listen to his response.

It is very important that during this discussion, somehow remind him that he is still locked in a chastity, and you have the keys of that lock. Simple way would be to play with your key until he notices or check if his cage is still locked. This will mentally give him some hope and help him associate his chastity to agreement of your demands because he would want to do anything for you, so you be pleased and eventually unlock him. If he is resistant, then offer him a trial period. The trial period will be one month and the terms are that he must listen to everything you say, and do what is told. If he does not like what happens in the month then you can sit down and discuss what you will do next.

Do not accept no as an answer here. Do whatever it takes to get him to agree. Once he agrees, you need to commence your authority right away. Stand up, remove your clothes, and remind him that he is still locked up for the remainder of the time of his punishment. However, that does not mean that you cannot be pleased. Get him to orally service you and bring you to orgasm now. This is very powerful in exchanging the power in the relationship. If he is not good at it, then that is even better. He will feel a bit inadequate and realize that he has been a shitty lover. This is a good place for his mind to be at this time, but do not humiliate him over it. Be a good leader and teach your man how to eat pussy properly. Put the time in now as long as it takes for him to learn how to make you cum with his tongue. Do not belittle his efforts, or get frustrated when his tongue is not in the right spot. Just keep on leading him back. Show him with your finger, and show him his target and keep on bringing him back to that. Once he has made you cum, if that has never happened before, tell him that this is just a sign that your relationship is going to be better than ever. It will take several tries before he could make you come from his tongue alone, so it would be better to set up a face sitting routine for him to practice. It could be any ranging from 3 to 10 times a day depending on free time, and his current oral skills. First thing you want to remember - Men are visual creatures. Face sitting is about using your feminine parts to seduce and control him. It’s a good idea to stand over him and let him get an eyeful of your crotch and butt cheeks before you sit. You might like to put your hands on your hips or touch yourself as you tell him what you are going to do to his face before you sit, for example; it builds anticipation. It helps to get him excited about the prospect of having his vision obscured if you give him some visual teasing beforehand. You can’t just plop down on a face as if it’s an actual seat, no matter what he says. The human face was not designed to withstand the pressure of an entire torso’s weight. You have to counter balance with your legs and arms in order to exert the right amount of weight that doesn’t cause damage. What you can do is to sit cowgirl or reverse cowgirl on his head. Position yourself so your knees are not touching him. Not place full weight, but enough of it to distribute your weight throughout your legs. Only wear heels if you are physically fit and have powerful legs that you can hold yourself upright on; you’ll injure your ankles and getting a comfortable position will be hard.

Seat yourself on his face so that the softest parts of you are in contact with the hardest parts of his face. So for example, your ass crack and cheeks should center on the nose and upper jaw. Lean forward or backward depending on the position and use your hands to balance the rest of your weight on his chest. It’s important to lean and move so that he can get some type of air flow to breathe during the play session. The bigger your booty, the more cognizant you should be to lean forward or backward or raise yourself up periodically so he can breathe. For licking, you’ll need to raise yourself up. Using your leg strength, balance back more onto your ankles, knees off of his shoulders. This will allow him to move his lower jaw and head freely underneath you to pleasure you properly. You can also just kneel over him and let him reach up and earn that pussy or ass, but know that your knees will eventually start to hurt from being in one position for so long. Also, his neck will eventually give out because it’s not designed to crane, only to pivot. For full weight face-sitting, you can lean back more to restrict the breath, but make sure your softest parts are what you’re smothering him with. The same for a human seat. While sitting on his face, you should not block any sensation. You must be able to have any experience at this point, and should not think about your husband, but only about you. So if you squirt an orgasm, or do take a piss while sitting on his face, so be it. It is for him to deal with. He might find this disgusting for a first few times, but after continuous practice, he will be anticipating for you to squirt or piss, and will be desperate to drink any liquids that come out of you. Be realistic. He may want you to squish his face but good. You have to remember however that you are the dominant and you set the tone for what is safe to do. Squish his face for him if you like, but don’t do it with reckless abandon.

Husband Training Step 6: You get a penis, he gets a hole. If you have completed all the prior steps, ONLY then resume reading here. By now you should be experiencing a newly formed relationship where your man is the most attentive and obedient man he has been since the beginning of your relationship. In this next level of training we are going to intensify, and lay down some deep subliminal programming to help transform him into your knight that will follow your orders happily, obediently, faithfully, and love doing it for you. This is where the relationship truly will start to blossom beyond anything you could ever imagine. Make sure that you are doing your training with him every day. As another rule, during this period, it would be very helpful to your cause to have your man naked as much as possible in the home while you remain clothed. If you have kids, establish a date night once per week, where your kids are taken to a babysitter, and establish a no clothes rule in the house. Or put the kids to bed if they are young enough, and get your man naked. Teach him things like bringing you a drink. Preparing snacks for TV shows, etc. You should also at this time, tell him that the remote is now yours to decide what the two of you will watch. If you like sports, or programs he likes, then by all means, but you are in charge of the remote now.

Fondle him often, kiss him often, and learn to take on the dominant role. Your man will want your touch often, because he is unable to touch himself, so you must keep the level of anticipation high for sex, and keep him in a very aroused sexual state. If you have done this correctly, it is now time to take this to the next level. The next thing you will need is a strap on harness and dildo. I would recommend this one because you can use the harness with different dildos and graduate in size as you train your male. Since you don’t usually have a cock, you’ll need to procure one. There are a ton on the market, and they come in a bunch of shapes and sizes. When planning a cock purchase, there are a few considerations to make. One is whether you want something inside you while you’re pegging —

there are a bunch of options that include an internal piece for you. There are also dildos that vibrate, which isn’t all that realistic but hey, it feels fantastic! Another consideration is visual. How cock-like do you want your cock to be? Are you okay with something that might feel better but look less realistic (because it’s hot pink, for instance)? Another thing that’s really important to think about is the shape of your cock. In-the-flesh cocks attached to humans are super versatile and can go in all sorts of directions. Not so much with plastic. Many toys are set at angles that are optimal for certain positions. If you feel

comfortable going to a sex shop to talk about your toy’s radius with a salesperson, go for it! If you’re of a shyer nature, read some online forums to figure out what sounds most compelling to you. And of course, there’s always experimentation, because everybody is different and who knows what is going to work best for you and your lover. A perfect way would be to try out as many dildos, strap-on or butt plugs, you could try, before you could find the right ones that you like. Even if you aim to train your husband to take the biggest strap-on or dildo you find available, you have to start with a small one. Also Remember, choosing the toy s your decision, not your husbands. You have the power to decide. Something really important to know about butts is that they’re not self-lubricating. This means you need lots of lubrication to make pegging work. Depending on what your toy is made of, you can use different types of lube.

Water-based lube is the best lube for toys, because it doesn’t degrade silicone or jelly and it’s the easiest to wash off. It’s also condom-friendly, which is good if you’re using condoms to keep your toy clean or if you want to use it on multiple partners without washing in between. Many people prefer silicone lube for anal sex, because it’s more slippery-feeling and lasts longer. Silicone lube works with certain types of toys, but it degrades silicone and jelly, and it’s not condom-friendly. Oilbased lube degrades most toys, including those made with jelly, plastic, and silicone, so don’t use it with your new cock. Lube gets everywhere, and butts are butts, so sometimes it’s a good idea to put down a towel. Because it’s really not sexy to be worrying about your sheets (or making your partner worry about your sheets) when you’re getting down. So here is how you initiate strap on sex with your vanilla husband or boyfriend. Tell him to strip naked if he isn’t already and completely and securely blindfold him. Take him to the bed, and lie him on his back on the edge of the bed so that is feet are touching the floor, but he is lying back. This should have his ass in the right spot. Proceed to make him hard with your hand, teasing, and play a while getting him into a very sexually aroused state. Before you put him down in this position, you have put on your strap on though so that you are ready to take him. When you have him hard, put some baby oil all over his cock, and smear it all around and let it drop down over his anus. Start rubbing all over while stroking his cock. Then when the time is right, and your strap on is lubed, gently ease it in

while you are stroking his cock. If he is hard, this will be easier than you think. He might start to protest as he feels the edge of your dildo pushing against his anus, but at this time, just show him lots of love, and encourage him and tell him that you are about to give him the best orgasm of his life. It won’t be so easy to induce him. He will try to convince you that pegging is an absurd practice, unnatural, strange and shameful to him. He will think that the idea of being penetrated will seem to him an atrocious act, and he will describe the scene of you fucking him as something horrible. Those are just excuses. Ignore them! Sometimes the “Macho” hides away the strap-on not to be fucked. Finally, his rejection from his fear to be identified and catalogued as “gay”. He will

always find excuses to take your attention away from his ass. Don’t hesitate, use discipline and corporal punishment, if needed, to prevail. This will work best if he has been locked up for a week. The protesting will be small, because at this point, he just wants an orgasm so bad, that you can pretty much do anything you want to him. Slide it in, and gently for the first time fuck his ass, while you are stroking him. As he is getting closer, pick up your tempo with your thrusting, until you time it so that you are fucking his ass pretty hard at the time he blows his load. You have just changed the dynamic of the relationship. This first time he will feel very awkward after you did that, so just tell him to lie there while you clean up. Clean him up nicely, and take all responsibility of cleanup

this time. Later on down the road, you will of course make this his responsibility, but for now, you need to lead by taking charge of the whole situation, cleanup and aftercare. When it is all over, lie with him and have a deep discussion about what just happened and let him know that the exchange in power was the most erotic thing you have ever felt, and you feel more in love with him than ever.

From his point, he will have experienced the most intense leg shaking orgasm he has ever felt, and will pretty much be putty in your hands. In a Femdom relationship, it is important that you fuck him regularly during the first months of the strap-on training. By expert opinions, several times a week. Repeat this practice now several times over the next 4 weeks. From the female’s perspective, pegging can be enjoyable for the reasons of control. Being on the giving side of sexual intercourse can be empowering and enjoyable for many women who wish to know what it feels like to ‘give’ sex. Additionally, many advanced strap-on that are used for pegging will have some form of stimulation platform for the female’s vagina, with the constant motion being mutually pleasurable for both parties involved. Lastly, Remember, In a Femdom relationship, getting the strap-on is not an option, It is a necessity. No Femdom relationship can work without the role reversal of sexual activity.

He’ll scream like a little bitch the first few times. All of that’s very normal. But just keep at it. Your goal is to make it a very normal part of his experience. After a while some pretty wonderful things will start to happen.

His selfish, argumentative masculine edge will dissipate. He will become much more cooperative and attentive to your needs. His submissive side will come out and blossom. He will become much less concerned with his orgasms, and more focused on yours. His erogenous zone will slowly start to shift from the head of his penis to the opening to his asshole and his prostate gland. It is therefore very important to make sure your partner receives a good fuck session one a week. When not fucking his ass with a strap-on, a butt plug should be inserted in his asshole, to keep it stretched at all time. This is for his benefit as it will reduce the pain for the next time you start to peg him with a dildo or a strap-on.

Pegging is usually best done in the doggy style position for maximum mutual pleasure and to minimize the potential risk of injury or discomfort. However, other positions should be tried afterwards, once a rhythm has been achieved.

Also be sure to make him orally service you and keep on your training with him during this period of time. This is a good time to institute an orgasm rule. Something like he does not get to cum, until you have come 3 times. This will teach him the importance of pleasing you first, and him secondly. He mustn’t have “conventional sex,” during this period. I recommend you not to offer him “vanilla sex”, at least during the first months, until he understands his dick is not necessary anymore to give or get pleasure. Sex for him, must be limited to serving you orally. You can masturbate him some time in a humiliating way, or with lack of interest. Better if you do it with your feet. May be I don’t need to say it, but your mouth will never touch his penis again. Chastity is not really important in the beginning when you are fucking with him a strap-on or a dildo and your husband faces a problem in having an orgasm, Chastity can be taken off temporarily, and should be locked back up as soon as he is finished cumming. Make it a rule to not let him cum unless he has a dildo or a strap-on in his ass.

However, it is very very important that after a few times of fucking his ass, in which he had orgasms, Chastity training should resume. Immediately cage his penis in a Chastity. It is important that, the fact of not touching himself, nor seeing his useless dick, will teach him a lot. This is because he can’t disconnect his mind from you while wearing the Chastity, The CB, or cage, as most call it, will keep him in a state of perpetual excitement and obsession for his sexual needs and pleasure. Having his dick caged, has no real effect on him giving you pleasure with his mouth, but while being frustrated by the fact of not coming for weeks, his sexual tension will arise dramatically and, of course, his desire towards you. This produces his wish to see you get pleasure and sexual satisfaction many more times.

Make it a daily routine to stretch his asshole with a dildo or make him wear a butt plug, and with each week, increase the size of that dildo or butt plug. Remember, not to start with a huge dildo right up front, but instead start with a small, as it takes a longer time for male ass hole to stretch. Even let him cum more than once per week as you are training him to be your anal slut. Do it in a way that he will never know when you will do it: before he falls asleep, or early in the morning, before he gets to work, after work, even in the middle of the night, and most of all, each time you will feel like drilling his ass. With the pegging practice when you fuck his ass, but also his mind and you reinforce your authority. Ignore his complaints. Reward will come soon. His body must get used to the new situation. Receiving the dildos and strap-on on daily basis will change from being painful, to being uncomfortable, and finally just a strange sensation. His asshole will stretch and will soon be able to fit really big dildos. Make weekly goals for him to fit a bigger size dildo in his ass than before, and Take your time in order to stimulate his prostate when you are fucking him, it will be very pleasant for him, even if also humiliating, and he will not recognize it easily. While you increase the size of

your dildo, his stimulation will increase as well. He is enjoying a strange new pleasure, humiliating, but for sure milking will help. The male’s prostate acts as a rudimentary G-spot and provides heightened levels of enjoyment when it is stimulated. What you will really do is milking his prostate and, remember, keep his penis caged. During the milking process, he must feel relief, but something really different from his usual pleasure with his precious penis. Milking is necessary to drain his prostate, that will be extra full of his seminal liquid almost for sure, because of the level of continuous excitement you provoke in him. Remember, once you start fucking his ass with the strap-on, you won’t see him the same way. You will not see him as a man, he will be your whore, a slut you take by his ass, each time you wish to. A strap-on dildo is no doubt, an essential tool for role reversal in a relationship. Why role reversal is so important? The traditional sex role models are where the male is dominant and the female is considered submissive, however these are reversal through femdom relationship, and nothing is more visual (men are visual creatures) than bending him over, and fucking his ass. During this time, he should also be referred to as a female, typically by changing his name into a similar female name (Like John to Jennifer). There is little better for reversing roles than making your husband kneel at your feet, take a large lifelike dildo into his mouth, and perform oral sex on it, the deeper the better, with a hand on the back of his head for encouragement. The only thing better is to flip him over, put his submissive ass high in the air, rip off his clothes, and force him to receive anal sex from the strapon dildo.

The couple relationship dynamics will completely change once your husband will be underneath you and you will fuck his ass with a strap-on. From that moment, you will stop seeing him as the “leader” of the relationship and you will be stating a precedent for having things done your own way, not his. And the best thing about it is that he is going to love it too. You will discover yourself soon making decisions he used to make before, or for which you needed his approval. You will feel much more self-confident, Dominant, and at the same time, he will start feeling and showing himself more submissive, more sensitive to your needs, wishes and whims.

Very important: you can add some humiliation to the training. Take profit of any occasion to show him you really have all the control and all the power. You may need other dicks for your pleasure, not his, and you may use them or not; anyway, you decide. If you use other dicks, don’t feel guilty; on the other hand, tell him your intention to do it and your experiences. Refer to his asshole as his pussy, and his penis as his clit. The first time you will call his ass “hole to be fucked” or “male cunt”, he will be shocked and ashamed. Ignore him. You will see he is dripping, excited, only because of your words. This humiliation is somewhat necessary, and is helpful in achieving full impact of this role reversal. He must learn, and understand, that your pleasure is the most important thing, NOT the source where it comes from. He will have to make an effort then to be the only source of pleasure. You know, they always love to be the Alpha “Macho Man”. Use his macho-ness against him. Your authority will grow, while he gets used to have something inside his ass: make him use a butt-plug, of a good size, when you are not fucking him.

You can also enjoy making him feel always full. During a meal, surprise him ordering him to go to the bathroom to introduce himself a butt-plug you have prepared for him. He must get used to other physical things. But mental and psychological changes in him will be very deep and definitive. Little by little, his resistance to be fucked will start to decay, as it will happen with his sphincter in the same way. The combination of forced chastity, corporal punishment and pegging will make your man a new creature, unselfish and submissive. The power dynamics of the relationship will change. Remember always that your authority will grow more the more you apply it. He will soon understand that he does not control anything _not even his penis_ he will not be able to have something as private as an erection without your consent. He will realize he can’t have what he wants, when he wants it, without your approval.

Finally, your man’s brain will end by associating the anal penetration with your pleasure and orgasms, he will want his strap-on treatment, and will beg for it. He will be your whore, always in disposal to please you. He will need to be fucked by you, and he will do anything to get it. If the man receives the strap-on regularly, his body and mind adjust to the new situation, and he experiences some physical and psychological changes. Fucking him turns into a “normal” experience, and he will even need it. This happens because you succeeded to change is erogenous zone, by ignoring and caging his penis and by constantly stimulating his prostate through his anus. His own pleasure becomes secondary, and he starts to enjoy the pain, and he prefers to make you enjoy, gets excitement and joy when you ignore his penis, but you use more his mouth, tongue and his asshole for you to enjoy as you please. he discovers a richer and more exciting world in which he is not the center anymore, he does not even decide. After three or four months of chastity treatment, pegging, discipline and humiliation… Being selfconfident, firm, strict… he will stop resisting and fighting. He will bend over for you, will hug and

hold you after you have fucked him with love, and will desperately need to lick your cunt to give you pleasure and thank you for what you do for him. After weeks of daily drilling of his asshole by your strap-on and dildos, your husband has finally accepted his place now in the household, but now you also must be sure to continue with making him do more and more housework, and nude at all times when doing it. If not possible because of kids, then still make him do much more housework. By now, he should be doing laundry and doing most of the dishes, every time. We will work in bathroom cleaning and other chores later on. For the next 4 weeks focus on increasing chore load mostly around laundry, and dishes, and strap on fucking him at least once per week, and him orally servicing you at least 3 times per week. Even if you don’t want orgasms as that much, it is good to make him do it anyways for periods of time. You don’t even have to cum, you just have to get him used to dropping and orally servicing you when you ask for it. You can tell him to stop too. Things are truly starting to be all your decisions now.

Husband Training Step 7: Adjusting to his role By now, your husband should be doing most of the dishes and laundry, leaving only the deeper clean stuff for you. Don’t worry, when we are done, he will be doing it all if you wish. You also are fucking him in the ass regularly and he is pretty much full time in chastity unless you have a need to tease or play with his cock of have sex. Many people that have discovered femdom leave their relationships right here. The goal was to have a more attentive husband that paid attention to you, respected you, helps you around the house, and has become a better lover. At this point you should have all that. For some though, they can’t help but keeping to push the boundaries. Often these types of relationships are initiated by the man, but the woman is the one that starts to embrace the power, and keeps pushing limits. A word of caution. If you want to go further than where you are at this point, be careful. Some actions cannot be undone, and if you are thinking of doing anything that you

will lose complete respect for your man, I would caution you. It is a gift he has given you in his submission. Especially since in your case, you were training him to do something he wasn’t really up for in the beginning. Fortunately, many of these sissy femdom stories you read on the internet are not far from reality, and most woman still crave their men to be very feminine and obedient. The things you have done up to this point only intensified your feelings towards each other, and that was the goal in the first place. However, if you keep the next steps to fantasy, and stay monogamous in your relationship, or bring in other people and both people are willing and excited about it, then by all means. The exercises that are told to do here, are not for any other reasons than to intensify control for the woman, and increase submissiveness of the male. These things can be an incredible turn on for both parties if both consent fully to what they will experience. Now I will divide the 3 major things in an average life, and how each should be handled at this time.

Household Chores. You should be referring to your husband as your house bitch. In the beginning, be careful not to say this to other people. His ego is still there. You have not removed it completely yet. So during that time, in your privacy, you should let him know that he is your house bitch, and that all chores that you want him to do, he will do, naked, and butt plugged, and he will thank you for the privilege. Here are chores that he should master during the next few weeks. 1. Dishes, and counter cleaning 2. Laundry, whites, darks, bedding. 3. Bathroom cleaning, mirrors, tubs, showers, toilets. 4. All floors, vacuuming, and washing hard surface flooring once per week. (preferably by hand on his knees. This actually does a better job, and makes him feel more submissive) 5. Grocery Shopping, errand running. 6. Taking kids to school if necessary. 7. Anything else your household requires.

If you still want to participate in doing chores and helping out, then you should. However, if you are getting turned on by the control, then you should not. Your man wants you turned on. It makes him feel good, and it makes it easier for him to take on all the chores. It makes him feel wanted, loved, and appreciated when you are horny for him. If making him your house bitch makes you horny, then have him do all the chores. When he is doing a big clean, and he is on his hands and knees cleaning the hard floors, it’s always a good idea to wear your strap on fully clothed and walk around the house. This will make him go crazy. Then take him when you want to, as often as you want too. He is your bitch now. Make it so. All of this is completely private, However, slowly, this needs to be taken out from privacy and introduced to friends (yours and his) and eventually out in the public.

By the end of this training, you will be able to invite people to your home, and your husband will be doing household chores and serving the guests, completely naked, locked in a chastity, while wearing a butt plug. He will absolutely feel humiliated and embarrassed during the first few times, but with proper training, he will adapt into his new role, and will find it totally normal. Similarly, your friends and other guests will be shocked to see a completely naked man doing house chores too, especially the ones who have already seen him as your husband before. Here you can elaborate that you are taking over the decision making in your relationship and are training him for a new lifestyle where he will do whatever you say. Some guys will not accept this and will cause havoc, hence it is very important to not let his past friends see him like that, at least not initially. You need to make him comfortable, and make him think that it’s the norm, and it is much more feasible if you only invite women for the time being. Women will understand what you are trying to do, and will either admire or become jealous of your lifestyle.

At this point you can treat him anyway you want, and he will still be loyal to you, and will do anything you say. You can also make your friends jealous by making him to take orders from them and do whatever they say. You can also allow your friends to humiliate your husband, by showing the effectiveness of the training you have put him through and now that you have such an obedient husband in the end, who does all house chores while placing women on a pedestal.

Discipline. By now, the constant chastity and the daily spankings should get him in the habit of wanting them. He will actually miss them when he does not get them.

However, it is time to take this to a whole new level. First part is humiliation. You might be humiliating him before whenever he does something bad. Now, humiliate him regardless of if he has done anything wrong or not. Make him feel embarrassment and shame. Also, it is time to humiliate him front of other people. Invite friends and guests, and humiliate your husband in front of them. Keep him completely naked while wearing a chastity and a butt plug. Make him show these to the guests. Also display the key to his chastity to the people around you, enforcing the point that you own him. Take pictures of him and post them online. Strong discipline is necessary to remove any sorts of rebellious thoughts that might be thought by him. Discipline is not supposed to be fun. It is supposed to correct unfavorable behavior. Therefore, at this level, it is time for you to correct behavior you are not pleased with. Teach him now that if he displeases you with his behavior, you will spank him as hard, and as long as you feel it takes to correct the behavior. This is not when he is pleading you to stop. It is when his ass is beaten to a pulp, and if you can get him to cry, then it is there. Some men will not cry from physical pain, but you will certainly know when he has learned his lesson. Then provide the aftercare that is needed with a severe beating. If you have done this right, sitting down should hurt for a couple of days. Save these types of spankings for when he has really done something to piss you off.

Sex. By now, this is all about your pleasure. Your pleasure is his pleasure. In fact, he will get as much from your orgasms as you do. He will feel like a man knowing that he is finally being an extraordinary lover with his tongue, toys, or anything else you have taught him to do to please you. His orgasms should be minimized. He should never get more than once per week, and many experts say even as little as once every 3 – 4 months. He will appreciate them more the less he has them, and he will also remain under your spell the more cum he is full off. However, it is unhealthy for sperm buildup to go unreleased for more than a month. It can actually cause prostate cancer, so it is a good idea to become a master at prostate milking. For the purpose of this article, we will not go into what that is or techniques. I will write a different article later on and link to it on this page. Basically it is the process of draining the cum via prostate stimulation from anal penetration. It is important that your husband cums without touching his penis, that should be locked in chastity.

The man does not experience an orgasm, but you keep him healthy and drained from time to time. This will keep in submissive. Also, you should practice the art of ruined orgasms. You can also choose an electric dildo, which sends periodical electrical shocks/ This e-dildo can be inserted deep in his anus, and will keep your husband totally disciplined.

The main point is that you will find the perfect blend of you getting sexual pleasure vs his sexual pleasure, and in any femdom relationship it is clear that yours is more important, frequent, and your husbands main priority besides his chores.

Here are some goals for you to accomplish that will make him truly your house bitch sex slave. 1. When he cums, make him eat it, no matter where it is. If it is inside you, he cleans you up. If it is on the floor, you make him lick it up. The first time you do this, it is best he is tied up, and you feed it to him by scooping it off his body, and putting it in his mouth. Re-inforce that you are very happy when he does it, and use triggers that you know that make him very happy after he has done this. Do every time he does this until he automatically goes to clean it up without you asking. 2. Eventually teach him how to cum when you are spanking him. Keep on edging him until he is close while you spank him. You do this long enough, he will eventually associate the pain with pleasure, and you will be able to spank the cum out of him. 3. Teach him to cum with anal stimulation only. This may mean a long time in chastity, and daily fucking in the ass, but eventually if he does not have release, and you are fucking his ass daily, he will cum when you fuck his ass. Use a feel doe, so that you can cum every time you fuck him, and this can become your new sex way. Eventually he will crave to be fucked in the ass as much as any sex activity. You may like it more, especially if you do not cum from traditional vaginal intercourse. 4. Get him a hollow strap on to go over his cock to make him be able to fuck you as long as you want without him getting any pleasure. This way you to get to have a cock of any size you wish, as often as you wish.

You have trained your husband. Congratulations. There is one more OPTIONAL step, but a word of caution…. DO NOT DO THIS UNLESS YOU ARE ABSOLUTE SURE. This step is IRREVERSIBLE. Just understand this next step consists of some mental conditioning and some actual blackmail. This step will completely break your husband, and you will be able to build him into a new person that will always be loyal and loving to you, even if you are not. This STEP is not mandatory, but highly recommended.

Husband Training Last Step – Sissification Warning: Proceed only if you want to. This is optional and should only be done if you understand fully the implications of these actions.

If you have completed all the prior steps, then resume reading here. Proceed with this step with caution. Beware: If you lose respect for your man at this point, turn away from this page, do not attempt this. If you are a mature enough woman to get turned on by your control in turning your man into a sissy maid, then continue on. If you man has a hard limit and will not do this, I would suggest backing off, and working on this for several months by introducing panties first, then stockings, etc., etc. EXTRA CAUTION: There are women that will ABUSE this power, and there are women that will use this power. Abuse of this power could end your relationship if not done properly. Using this power could intensify it beyond belief. It is a delicate balance, and we encourage you not to do anything on this page without truly understanding this and by respecting hard limits of yourself and your husband. Limits are meant to be pushed, but some lines you definitely do not want to cross. Listen to your husband on what these limits are, and take him to the edge of them, without crossing.

Having said, that, if you still want to resume, read on but the one last thing you need to make the below information able to work, is for your man to have not cum in 2 weeks. This will make him more agreeable to just about anything you say. First off, why would any woman want to feminize their masculine man into a sissy maid and why would any man allow it?

There are many reasons why so many women dream of making their husband into a sissy. A sissy is a perfect husband that does all the things taught in previous steps perfectly. Some of them are discussed here. · No more “alpha male” bullshit. He’ll be nice, won’t cheat and won’t take advantage of you. Of course he won’t smoke or drink if you don’t let him. · He’ll pay attention to you. It’s a matter of time

of him becoming more sensitive, honest and respectful. · You could have as many lovers as you want. You don’t want to have sex with him. And you know it because he’s a terrible lover and never satisfies you because of his tiny dick. · Doing the house chores? Never again. He’ll do all the house work, the laundry, cooking, cleaning, serving you and your lovers if you want. · He’ll satisfy you with his tong. No more penetration for him and he’ll become a great pussy licker while other men have sex with you. · And essentially he’ll obey you in every possible way This is not about being gay, or having gay fantasies, it is merely an extension of your control. If you love the power of your control,

and your submissive is responding well and has taken the bait on everything else, then you simply need to experience this level of control. It will blow your mind, and obliterate his ego. Sissification takes its time. Don’t expect to have a sissy husband the next week after reading this step. It takes several months to transform your husband into a good sissy. However, you can enjoy and give your husband a one off sissy experience before you decide to permanently transform your husband into an obedient sissy.

Here is how. If you have kids, plan a day to get them gone from early morning to the next morning on a weekend day. Clear your calendar, and understand to experience this fully, it will be a 24 hour experience that you will never forget. Things you must do prior to your big day. Shop for a dress, nylons, any makeup, wigs, nail polish, high heels, corset, and anything else that you would like your man to wear on sissy day. So you don’t spend a fortune on things that you may only do once, or possibly a once in a while thing, try Value Village or second hand clothing stores. You should be able to find big sizes and it should be very affordable. Once you have that, and your kids planned to be away for the day, then you can let your husband know that you have a full 24 hour exciting day planned for him, and build up the excitement, and let him know that he will love it. When you are alone, tell him that for the next 24 hours, you want him to be your lesbian girlfriend. (this will help him accept it more, by you using lesbian instead of him being gay, It puts the awkwardness on you, and makes it more acceptable for him to play along) If he resists, thinking you have some plans of bringing in some guys to stuff his throat with cock, let him know that this is not true. (unless you have pre-talked about this and is something you both want). We won’t go there on this site, because this is something we definitely don’t want. Assure him, this is just role play and that it will be fun. That is what it is, and yes it will be fun, for both of you. If your man’s body is not shaved, then this is the time to do it. Shave his legs, bum, armpits, chest, and if you want leave the hair on his arms do it, so he can at least look normal at work. You don’t want to ruin your lives over this, you simply want to take the last measure of ego from your man. Once you completely remove his ego, the rest of your relationship and life will be bliss. It is man’s ego that keeps relationships from being all that it can be.

Once your man is shaved, apply a nice feminine body lotion to his body to make him smell like a girl. Then have him sit next to you naked, while you apply his makeup. Apply lots of foundation to give him a very girly smooth skin complexion, and then the rest. Eye shadow, lipstick, mascara. Make him the prettiest girl as you can. The humility of this will be the biggest turn on for him, and the control will be something you would have never imagined being such a turn on. Now apply nail polish and toenail polish. Pink is a nice touch. Then put on the wig. Next help him put on the rest of his girl outfit, complete with high heels. You will get a kick out of him walking in heels. Now it is time for your day to really begin. Explain to him that you really like the way he looks, but the one last thing you need from him is to be your sissy maid, and for you to be his employer. (more roleplay). Spend the rest of the day being pampered by your sissy maid, having him prepare lunch, tea, do some cleaning up with a duster. I would also suggest you staying clothed and wearing a strap on for the whole day. If you want to completely crush a man’s ego into nothingness, you HAVE to experience this. Make him your slut. Talk to him dirty, and say things like, “now I have made you my sissy maid slut. Go on girl, take it. Take my big cock, and say thank you.” “You will be my sissy bitch for the rest of your life. I have turned you out. You are mine, and you will listen to me from now on. Drop down to your knees and suck it. Suck my cock you sissy bitch.” Force his head down hard on it. Make him gag. Face fuck him hard like he has to you in your previous life. Make him understand now, that the rules have changed, and there is a new boss of the house, and that you will obey, listen, suck, and fuck as your told. Make him suck your strap on.

Bend him over multiple times throughout the day, lift his skirt/dress up, and slide his panties to his knees and make him your sissy maid slut. Truly turn the tables on him for what men have been doing to women for years. Today is the day you take completely control. Today is the day you push him past limits that you have not done yet. Today is the day you will let him cum, but he will eat it, no matter where it falls. IN fact, today you should make him cum many, many times, and make him eat it every time.

It will be very hard for him to do, especially 2-3 orgasms into it, as all desire to be wearing womens clothing and participating will go away after the first orgasm. However, you will be taking pictures before he loses this desire, and you will be in COMPLETELY REAL control. Not the pretend stuff you were doing before, but the real stuff. That is why I said proceed with caution. That is why you need to be emotionally mature enough to handle this power, and not to ruin your partners life over it, but use it against him to control him for the benefit of both of you . Make sure you get a picture of all the nastiest things you do that day. Of him bent over with his dress up while you are fucking him. Him licking his cum off the floor. Whatever there is, you get proof of it. (Be very careful of this not to fall into the wrong hands. Immediately put this on a thumbstick and lock it away after this day is over. Or use a brand new micro sd card, that you can take out and keep somewhere.

There are women that will ABUSE this power, and there are women that will use this power. Abuse of this power could end your relationship. Using this power could intensify it beyond belief. It is a delicate balance, and we encourage you not to do anything on this page without truly understanding this. Spend the rest of the day, and evening as you like, but he wears the sissy maid outfit all day, and the makeup and nail polish all night. Make him your bitch as many times as you can, and totally drain him of all cum, ego, and attitude. Just randomly drill his asshole with a dildo throughout the day. Now if you waited for the above experience, performed it, and liked it, OR alternatively, you had made up your mind before, and wanted to permanently sissify your husband, and such experience is a turn on for you, the following will explain better on how to train your husband properly to be a sissy.

Training. The process of sissification is like a psychological battle that you have to -and you will- win as long as you take it easy and you don’t force anything. If you have successfully completed your previous steps, then this will be relatively easier. If everything flows everything will be fine and you’ll end up having an obedient sissy boyfriend. Remember that it’s essential to keep calm and not to raise suspicions on what your end goals are. To sissify your husband, the first thing to do is to change his physical appearance.

Nowadays it is perfectly normal to ask your husband to shave his parts, legs, beard and even the arms. On the other hand, it’s normal to see men with a long hair. Start by saying him that you would like him to shave his legs and penis, or any other hair of his body and encourage him on letting his head hair grow. Argue that you’ve come to be not very comfortable with hairs. Tell him to shave. Explain him that you prefer hairless men over hairy men but you think that men with long hair are sexy. You can even argue that this way is more hygienic. To make your point explain him that you too are doing some sacrifices for him. This phase will last more or less depending on how much resistance he opposes. Wait a few weeks until it is a normal thing for him. Insist on the fact that he has beautiful legs, that you love him and that it doesn’t make him any less sexy. Remove every single hair from his crotch area.

When it’s a normal thing for him to shave and not going to the hairdresser, it’s time to begin with the next phase.

This phase is crucial and delicate. The goal is to get him into wearing panties, no matter how as long as it works. Find some innocent way like playing a game or just for fun. Of course you have to know the nature of your boyfriend and how he’d react. Say to him that it would be fun that he tries one of your panties, just for fun. Then say him that it turns you on and make him love like never. Make him keep them during sex. He will associate him wearing panties to the pleasure you gave him. Try this again one time every 3 or 4 days. Every time he wants to have sex insist on the fact that you would like him to wear them because it please you and that you would do the same kind of thing for him. After this, encourage him to wear them if he likes it. Tell him that’s not a shame to wear panties and it won’t make him less man, and that you love him more than ever. When you’re sure that he likes to wear your panties, or at least he’s not refusing it, tell him to wear them while both of you have sex.

Explain him that it turns you on. If he loves you, he’ll do it. At the end of the phase, ask him to wear them every day at home. Depending on how much he’s into wearing panties he won’t refuse wearing them permanently. Until he’s not wearing them permanently, do not try the next phase. Increase the times you two have sex per week. After getting him into wearing panties this phase should be easy. Make him to paint your nails -hands and feet-, and to makeup you. Teach him how it’s done. Do this for a few days before trying to makeup him. In principle he won’t resist. Say him that he is very good at it and that it would be fun to try on him! If he resists tell him that it is just a game and that it doesn’t mean anything. When it’s done make him love. Please him. Then ask him if he would keep them a while for you. Like for the rest, make it more and more frequent until he even starts to make him by himself. When you’re there insist on the fact that he keeps his toes painted every day.

Encourage him to wear makeup and paint his nails. If he keeps his toes painted and wears makeup every day, he’s ready for the next phase. It’s time for him to wear dresses, bra’s, stockings, skirts, tops and even heels. Use the same techniques you have been taught on the previous phases. At this point he won’t resist. Remember to ensure him of his manliness and express your love. He has to feel that you love him more than ever. It would be recommended to make him see the progress, by doing that in front of a mirror, so he can see the work you are putting into to make him look like a sissy. Make sure that he feels comfortable wearing women’s clothing and makeup. Once he’s been feminized, it’s time to move on to the bigger things.

The real training starts. You already have control over his orgasms, now you have to extend it to everything. Once again, like a teacher to a student, make him admit that you make better choices and that having you in control of the relationship is for the best. You should decide everything for him and he should always obey. Everything you do is for his own good. Beside if he loves you, he should only think about your happiness. If you have followed all the previous steps, that job is already done. Remind him that he won’t be ever a real woman but that he could become a fine sissy. Make him wear woman clothes, make up, a wig and high-heeled shoes at all time while at home. It would be a good time, to take a lot of pictures of him dressed as a sissy, and keep them safe. These pictures will come in handy later.

Explain him that being a sissy is not only about being feminized and chastised. He need to understand that as a sissy his only goal is your pleasure which mean serving you at all times and by every possible way. Be firm and confident. When you ask, even if it is said in a kind manner, it is an order. Being a sissy is fun. It is high maintenance, expensive, fun but ultimately you get to experience the most mind blowing girly things. Girls like men. Girls are sexually active with men. So when your husband is a sissy so therefore he must and want to experience everything exactly like a girl. This includes learning to like, even crave only what men can give him. Girls are fascinated with cocks and now as a sissy he will also be fascinated by cocks. It has cum to the point where just looking at men will make him horny. They are rapidly becoming the object of all his sexual satisfaction and his girly fantasies. He would want to play with them, taste them, lick them and feel them deep inside him. Just like a girl he will see a good firm hard cock as an object of lust. It represents sexual excitement for him. He will train himself to cum from penetration alone and it is mind blowing. He will only cum from other cocks, as far as his mental conditioning is concerned, he does not have a cock anymore. When he will have penetrated like a girl, the more his lifestyle becomes normal and the more he will love it. He will be happier and satisfied and feel amazing whenever he gets penetrated. Even in chastity, he can experience deep orgasms and leak profusely without his penis swelling up at all.

Once he learns to orgasm by penetration alone and the practice continues over time, he will find that it becomes far more satisfying than anything he may have tried prior. Psychologically, it will alter the thoughts about his sexuality, bringing him closer to the feminine side of the gender spectrum. Maybe, he'll come to the conclusion that he very much prefers being penetrated and from then on he'll think about men and what they can do to you in a completely different way.Because he is no longer a man he needs to train his pussy every day. So if he had a routine for strap-on and dildos, that has been raised to maximum. Make sure that he practices at least 2 hours every day with a big dildo and wear a plug when his pussy is not in use. The only sexual pleasure he will get will come from there. After a week of training, take his boy-pussy every day. Tell him that as a good girl he needs to get used to it. Make him sucks dildos every day because a real girl needs to know how to pleasure. When you decide your sissy has earned an orgasm, bound her arms, remove her cage and make her ejaculate directly in her mouth. It will be the only way she will be allowed to cum. Then lock it again. His pattern would be: “unlock, anal, let him cum in his own mouth, lock". Once he gets used to this way of having sex with you now it’s time to keep him in permanent chastity, meaning without unlocking him but don’t stop penetrating him with the strapon and dildos. He will cum while locked in chastity.

However, in this scenario you need a shot glass or a cup under him to collect his cum/pre-cum, or you bend him over with his cock over his mouth and then make him swallow it (as discussed in earlier chapter). Now this is the only kind of sex you two will ever have. He will never penetrate you, and will serve his life for your pleasure and amusement. He will be addicted to drinking his own cum, and will beg you to penetrate him with your dildo/strap-on to make him orgasm from anal alone, and will swallow all of it every time.

. Since the dynamics of the relationship has completely changed, and he is now a sissy husband. It is time to introduce other people. Now You both can have male friends and female friends. A good place to start would be to introduce your sissy husband to your female friends.

For once, women are a lot more acceptable and understanding of sissy men, and even though some might not want a sissy husband of their own, they surely will admire you for training one. It is indeed a great milestone, and after introducing your training sissy husband, most women will be envious of you. There is a lot of trades in sissy men that women like. A sissy husband is a lot more feminine, and understanding of the female feelings. His machoism and ego has been demolished, and he places the desires of women before his own. His masculine sex drive is gone, and replaced by sissy urges, which are dependent on your mood and wishes. He rubs your feet, massage your back, even eats your pussy without wanting anything in return. He will cook for you, clean the house, do all the household chores for you. Even he will share the same fashion as you, and will be a perfect partner to do shopping for skirts, shoes/heels, panties. He will also do your make up and prepare you for parties and dates. He will never question your orders and will accept whatever punishment you give him. You will have full authority over his body, and he will face any and all humiliation you throw at him.

A great opportunity would be to throw a party for your girlfriends, and let your sissy do all the work. Make him prepare and serve food, and entertain all the guests. You can even let your friends have fun with your sissy husband, and order him to follow their orders for the night. He will take all the abuse and humiliation from your guests. He will be a perfect amusement for your friends at the party.

Introduce your sissy husband to your friends, and let them have their reaction as weird as they seem. Most will be shocked, especially if they knew your husband from before. To them explain them carefully that why you did this, and that your husband is satisfied in this role. Others will enjoy and laugh at your husband, and might make humiliating jokes. You should not only let them, but encourage them to interact with your husband. They should see the appeal of having a sissy husband, and easier way would be to have them involved. Let your friends have turns sitting on his face, and order your sissy husband to bring your friends to orgasm would get popular quickly among the ladies. Most girls would love the idea of a party where they can not only receive an orgasm, but orally by someone. You can also use this moment to get feedback from your girlfriends on how to improve his oral skills, and make him take notes. Another moment would be to take pictures and selfies with your friends, and upload them on the internet. If your girlfriends really enjoyed your sissy husband, there is a chance that they will share it a lot in their circles, and might help it go viral, and make you famous

in the process. This might give you many advantages for later, if you willing to start some training school, and train other men to become sissies. But for now, it would be a great confidence booster and will help you stay motivated to continue training your husband. Another good game would be to ask your friends to choose their favorite among the different kinds of butt plugs / anal beads, and use their pick on your sissy husband. Then take pictures and share them on social media to get the best voted on. You can also invite your girlfriends to come and let them try your sissy husband for a day. You all can together start your day at your home where your husband will prepare breakfast for everyone, then you can all go shopping outside, while your sissy husband will stay at home and clean the house, and perform other household chores. Before you return he would have an evening meal prepared, and will serve you

obediently. Or you can stay home all day, just sit and relax, and he will be there to serve you. Ge will give you and your friends great massages and foot rubs. Your friends obviously will have a lot of questions on how you were able to train your husband into such an obedient sissy. At this point, you should share your husbands training with your friends. You should show your friends how you penetrate your sissy husband, and how the power dynamics changed completely between you two. You may even let your friends penetrate your husband for a change. Why is it necessary? There might be an inclination to not share your sissy with your friends, as clearly you have put in the effort and trained him, so why would they get to use him. But remember, a good sissy needs to be shared, and it’s not only good for you, but good for your friends, and for the sissy. After serving several people, he will become more and more obedient, and will value you more. This will also help your friends to get inspired to train their own husbands/boyfriends into a sissy of their own.

When your friends start to train their own sissy, they will definitely need your help. Since the training takes a lot of time and practice, some of your friends might have a lot of questions and answers, and might need hands on experience of such thing. It would be recommended that you let your friends try different things out on your sissy, and test certain techniques themselves, before they test them on their untrained sissy. This will help their training go a lot smoother, and faster.

Sissy husbands even though totally dedicated to their wives, like to be socially active. However, having them social interaction with anyone is not suitable for them because of their training. They can be misguided by other people, or taken advantage of by someone you do not allow. Hence it is better to have control over who your sissy husband meets and hangout with. A great solution to this would be having sissies socialize with other sissies would be a great improvement, and will result in more satisfied and content sissy husband.

This will help open new experience for you and your sissy. You can now compare notes with your girlfriends over each other’s sissies and how to best train them. You can You can also exchange sissies with each other for short time or a weekend. You can also take photos of your sissies in training and share them over to each other or in the group over social media. Sharing your experience would increase your insight, but will have an added advantage in humiliating your sissy husband. Another good exercise would be to do a joint session with your sissies. Invite your friend to your place along with her sissy, and you both train your sissy husbands together. Joint training sessions are not fun, they are highly rewarding, as explained earlier, Sissies are much more likely to comply to their training, and are more satisfied when in company of other sissies. This sort of brotherly / sisterly bond between sissies is due to their caring nature, and it also helps their mental reconditioning as they get to see another husband now adapting to the role of sissy, which results in their acceptance of such role.

However, at this point, it is not all about your sissy husband, but it’s also about sissies of your friends. They need some training as well, so it is expected to be a good friend, and show up to their parties, and help their sissies to get trained as well. There is strength in numbers, and training a sissy with your friends will have double the effect. It’s clear that if multiple women together train a sissy, he will definitely get the best training. Remember, that having a well-trained sissy does wonders for your life, that is why it is important that you should enjoy his training more than he does, and on regularly basis. Do not let your plans come in the way, either make time for it, or if you have company, involve them in your sissy husband’s training too. Another game you can play is to make out with your girlfriend while training your sissy husband. Since watching two females kissing each other and making will definitely turn him on, but due to locked in cage, he won’t be able to orgasm. There you can make him cum through anal drilling with a dildo.

It is a lot easier to do with your girlfriend than with your male friends, which is next.

Now that you have conquered the female partnership in sissy training, next step is harder. Now if you have male friends or companions, this gets a little tricky. First Now you are entering the cuckolding territory, which is more of a psychological training than it is physical. Your sissy husband, even though trained to your wishes, would still have a hard time accepting other men in between your relationship with him. This is incredible hard thing to overcome, may be the hardest we have discussed so far. However, the good thing is that, at his point of the training, if you followed regularly and to the letter, you have broken your husband, and he will conform easily to his new role as a cuckolded sissy. You can go out on dates with other men, he will prepare you before that, taking out your dress, and putting make up on you will be his obvious duties. He will even wait for you to tell him all the juicy details of your sexual experience. At this point, you can either stop proceeding, and be content with such dynamics, with you having sex with other guys, and your sissy husband waiting desperately at home for you to come back and fill his holes, or you could go ahead and make your sissy husband share the experience. However, there is a drawback. Now this is the hardest thing to overcome, to comply your sissy husband to be with other men. Luckily the reason is obvious. Because to your sissy husband, being used by a female friend is still the same routine as before, when you trained him. However, to be used by a male, that will light some sparks in your sissy husband’s mind. He will see it as being gay. Now it is perfectly normal for men to have these thoughts, and blindly agree to the conformity of letting another man touch them is borderline gay, but you have to remember, this is what you exactly trained him for. As a sissy, he is not allowed to have a say in what he does. He cannot agree or disagree with any order you gave him, instead he has to just follow him, and a well-trained sissy will definitely do that.

Now why would you want your sissy husband to be with other men? There can be multiple reasons, but first is a major reason could be that since you locked your husband in a cage, and not letting it unlock that often, his penis would have started to shrink. Now it is a good thing that results in him getting less sexual urges, but at the same time, it is not usable anymore to do any sort of penetration. Others are that he will share the same experience as you, as both of you will be with other men, and in result will get closer to each other. You can discuss your experiences, exchange notes and feel closer than ever before. Another one would be that it also plays a part in his training, as he will not do that on his own, you will make him do it. This ultimate act of submissiveness, to be agreeing to the thing he is probably disgusted by, but still going through with it, just because you wanted it, and ordered him to do it. There can be nothing more powerful than that for a woman. Hence If you are at this stage of the training, it is highly recommended that you go through till the end. After this, you will find your sissy husband closer to you than ever before, and will share a bond unlike any other. Now how to approach it. First if you are already dating other men, and bringing them home, it would be no different. However, if you are not, you have to give your sissy a little bit of relaxation before announcing that. He needs to feel that if you bring home a lover, he will be treated better than before. Now you don’t necessarily have to treat him any different, but such small things can make a huge difference. He will definitely be more accepting if you told him in advanced, and tell him that you will make him part of your love making. He might get confused, or discouraged, or excited on idea of possible threesome. You do not have to explain that, instead just get his agreement to go through with it. In reality, you don’t need agreement, but it will make your sissy husband go through with it much easier.

Before you put your plan into action, your sissy husband might need some visual therapy. As explained earlier, since men are visual creatures, they get influenced by visual imagery much more than any other source of information. Best way would be to train him by forcing him to watch cuckold or gay porn. He will probably be disgusted by it, and refuse to watch it, but you have to force him to watch it, till to the point he starts to get pleasure. Also during that, unlock him so he could masturbate to gay porn. This is a way of reconditioning his brain, by associating his sexual release of pleasure to gay porn. This way, he will subconsciously find gay porn arousing and sexually pleasing. Continue that for several weeks, before going practical. Getting a lover is something you do as much for yourself as you do it for your partner. As a woman you deserve hot steamy sex every once in a while and you deserve the freedom cuckolding your sissy husband (whose penis might have shrink a lot because of being locked up most of the time) gives you. It serves as an important outlet and opportunity for you to further explore your sexual fantasies (as well as fulfill those of your partner) and desires, and to quench and fulfill sexual needs that your partner cannot possibly hope to satisfy. That being said, if you don’t have one yet, you better start searching. After a few weeks or months training your sissy with gay porn, she’ll do anything for you. If you want to, you’ll be able to make her participate into a trio with you and your lover. Before it, teach her the following: “You’ll always do whatever your masters say”. Make her repeat it: “I’ll do whatever my masters say”. Make sure that your sissy swallow and pleases your lover or lovers in any way. Now you can always start with a blowjob. A blowjob is the best way to get your sissy husband started with your lover, without thinking about any other thing. It is also the first mental hurdle that your sissy husband might have in his mind. Once get over this hurdle, it’s all smooth sailing. These can be described into 3 small steps.

First is it’s your job to explain to him that it is not gay, but only submissive, and he doing that will be a sign of love to you. He is only doing that for you, and you alone. It’s a connection that you two have. Of course, you cannot say the same thing for ever. So second is to soon have to change the shift in tone, and make it about your lover. Like he is waiting, he wants to get his cock sucked, and as sissy of the house, it’s his job to do that. Make him comply to your orders, discipline him if needed. In the end, the third and final would become all about your sissy husband. Taunt him, make fun of him that he is actually craving that big cock, and wants to suck that cock, and gulp all the cum that comes out of it. Draw him a picture, make him hungry for the cock, and make him want to suck it for himself. When he is sucking on your lover’s cock, unlock him and order him to masturbate. Once again we are using the mental reprogramming to associate sexual pleasure for him with him giving a blowjob to your lover. This is very important, that he sees sucking another man’s cock as sexually pleasing for himself. Of course, later he will be denied letting out of the cage. Very Important. At this point, take a lot of pictures of your sissy husband, sucking another man’s cock. This is must for later.

If you have able to achieve to step 3, and have made your sissy husband suck cock all by himself, now you are just one step away from total victory. Now he is ready to get his ass fucked by your lover.

The first time is massively important, and you have to be not only present, but make your present known by staying involved. You should be the one constantly touching your sissy husband. Spreading his ass cheeks, allowing your lovers cock to penetrate him, and giving him a pep talk to enjoy it and take it. After your sissy husband gets his ass fucked, you can join in on the fun by

wearing a strap-on. Now you are fucking your sissy husband’s ass and your lover is getting a blowjob by him. This is normally known as spit roast. You can keep switching places with your lover, and give your sissy husband a good fucking. After this milestone, you should no longer call your sissy as a he, but now call her as a she. Tell your husband that he is no longer a man, but a sissy whore, and she is your property, for you to use her as how you please. You can now use her in any way you want.

After a few other weeks of training, if it suits you, you can offer a friend or two to fuck your former boyfriend. Your sissy will fully integrate her new role by being used as a whore. Help her while she is performing. Make her spread her chicks. Push/Cuddle her head while she is giving her first blowjob. Make her show her mouth full of cum. She need to wait until your friend say she can swallow. Make her thanks your friend. During the whole act, speak to your sissy. Tell her how proud you are of her. Don’t hesitate to speak to your friend about how you would never have imagined that your boyfriend would become such a fine slut while she is getting fucked or giving a blowjob. You can make fun of your former boyfriend: “After all he never was a real man. Have you seen his little clitty ?”, “Are you enjoying stretching her ass ?”, “Is the blowjob fine ?” When your sissy disobeys or protests be strict but always explain why you have to punish her. It is for her own good. To make her better and happier in her new life. Some ways of punishing your bad sissy - a bigger butt-plug - a barefoot spanking, panties down then 30 min in the corner hands on her head.- a barefoot spanking, panties down then an enema with cold water - all the pegging during many days without any lubricant. - increase more days before release

- a barefoot spanking, panties down then an enema with cold water and bondage for few hours. - if you have a friend whom you have said the truth about your former boyfriend/sissy invite her so she punishes your sissy for you. it will be even more humiliating. Or lend your sissy to them for a day or two.

- If any male guests arrive at your house, make your sissy service them, suck their dicks and swallow their load. - Invite your male friends to come home for ‘all you can do sissy buffet’ - Invite your local guys, and make them a queue, and have your sissy suck all of them off. Also Rent out your sissy’s holes, and charge by the hours.

When your sissy behave good, always compliment her. It will reinforce her implication in the process. You can pet her head/cudle her and use such expression as : - “Good girl !” - “I’m proud of you” - “Very nice !” - “Good job !” - “You’re the best !” - “You’re so cute ! If you are very satisfied by your sissy you can buy her small gifts as lingerie, wigs, make up… Every day, make her say that she is a sissy and that she love it. Never forget to say your sissy how beautiful she is, how proud you are of her and how much you love her ! If you have followed this guide, and have correctly implemented each step, by now you have a loving sissy husband that you can control in any way you want. Your previous husband is no more, he is now a broken sissy, ready for your commands. He is used to getting humiliated, disciplined and punished by you, used as a sissy by you and anyone you allow to use, and yet still in the end he will love and cherish you, and always be by your side. Now for the rest of your life, if your sissy husband ever gets out of line, by some coincidence breaks his training, or think of leaving this lifestyle that you have forced him into. Remember, for this moment, we have taken pictures at different steps of the training. Remind him that these pictures exist, and you can always distribute those pictures to the people, your sissy husband definitely do not want to share with. Now you have true power over him. Keep these pictures safe and keep up with the regular discipline you have been doing, and make him do sissy chores, and drill his asshole, and make him swallow his own cum on the daily basis. What happens next is up to you ! :)

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