Outter Game Hotseat Notes

You don’t win a frame battle by being defensive. You win a frame battle by just being yourself with consistency Biggest disrupter of game is walking away from your own sets Use Positive and Negative Expressions Our goal is to arouse the girl by making her comfortable and helping her to address her own stress Poking fun at them in order to better bring out their personality Rule of 4 – Be willing to reopen any given set, up to 4 times -Befriend the guys in the set: They are not a threat. Be the fun “Fun, Innocent, Cool Guy” Be arousing not attractive 1. Talk – Create Initiatives 2.

Test – The game is played in tests

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Touch – it doesn’t matter what moves you make, it just matters that you’re making moves

Deliberately Waste time Push through non-compliance -When you are enough, non-compliance and “tests” are really just the girl being weird- so nothing to take personally, instead you can laugh at it because the script is flipped- now SHES being the weird one… not you -By beating tests you create arousal -Beating Tests -“It’s fine, I like it here” -“I’m just freely expressing myself into the air like a paint canvas” -“You seemed to be the most relaxed and so probably more worth my while to talk to” -“Empathize with the girl in many ways” `

-“Statement of empathy with humor” -“By that you mean something else”

-“By that you mean [insert funny misinterpretation] -“I love you” -Never game the girl- game the group and the hottest, most single girl in the group will present herself to you and the other less attractive girl will back the fuck up -If you’re bored- fuck around with physical escalation -Holding hands is always good -“Brush and lead”- brush down her arm and then grab her hand -Ideally it’s not good to kiss girls in social situations- it’s more of a personal thing as opposed to a sexual thing- in the bar, you want to go for a neck kiss because it’s more of a “sexual tease” and she won’t feel validated until you’ve kissed her on the mouth -Deliberately don’t take the set anywhere- if you have too much urgency, that creates defensiveness -Don’t give her all the attention- give her some reaction but don’t give her the full attention-play with that arousal