R.w. - Mens Guide To Women

Men’s Guide Table of Contents The Great (Dating) Paradox Your Greatest Breakthrough: Profound Universal Paradigm Why Mom Was Right & What Went Wrong Prehistory of Her Empowerment: Tradition Feminism: Double-Edged Sword What the Traditionalists are Missing Sexual Revolution: A Flock of Seagulls? Pedestal: The Pervasive Illusion of ‘Forced Reality’ Global Reality Check and Cultural Differentiation What Dating Experts & Marriage Counselors are Missing The Oppression of Modern Manhood Sex Sells: Pussytrance & the Stripclub Project The 40 Year Old Virgins Paradox Outlets & The Russian Bride Trend Denying Invisible Forced Reality & Your Oppression Compound Regression & Reclaiming Back Years of Your Life Opportunities of our Modern Social Dynamics Redefining Dating for Your Lifestyle Sex & the Modern Metro Woman Similarities Between Average Girls & Models: Take Your Pick Uber Player: AMP NLP, Pick-up Lines & Techniques vs. Your New Reality Your Secret Weapon: Indifference Return to Blue Lagoon Where have all the Cowboys Gone? Drama Queen: How a Beautiful Woman or Model Thinks Traditional vs. Independent Female Psychology What Women Want Being a Man & Her Take on “Nice Guys” Down Boy!: Your Emotional Control & Anti-Drama Solvency The Ba�le of Realities

Breaking Her Illusory ‘Weapons Grade’ Social Persona The Importance of Action & Without Fear Evasive Maneuver & Tactics Stealing Her Frame Fast Forward Power Technique A Shark Tale: Your Greatest Leverage for Wisdom & Action Money & Other Dynamics: A virtual non-issue Shy guy? No problems Diamond Clarity: Leading the Direction Natural Progression to Sex & Why You’re Already OK Techniques for Further Internalization & Grounding Interdependent Relations with Women Everywhere International Player & Interracial Dating Passion or Coincidence? An Objective View of ‘Bitches’ & ‘Ho’s’ In Our Society Pussy Control With or Without Her: Love Song Lyrics & You Sex, Lies and Videotape: When Stars Collide Long Term Relationship & Marriage Dynamics Ba�le of the Sexes for a Reason Taming of the Shrew? 50% Divorce Rate Divorce Prevention Center of your universe The Rules for Men Becoming Congruent with your Own Reality Empowering Incantations & Beliefs Manifestations: Proof of your New Reality Be Cool Be Her Hero A Whole New World Social Bu�erfly The World Is Yours: Recap

The Great (Dating) Paradox: FRUSTRATED MEN: “What’s wrong with women today? I’m a good catch.” FRUSTRATED WOMEN: “Where are all the REAL men?” This guide to women I’m going to flip it around all at the start right here. You can have the type of women you want in your life for the kind of relationships you want. It’s not about ‘them’ it’s about you and your choices and your lifestyle. You can get the higher quality of women you always wanted for Dating, sex, fun, short term relationships, friends, FTF, or even marriage. This guide is all about empowering you so YOU can have your choice and kind of women. This guide will give you the power to a�ract women naturally more than hundreds of techniques alone could because I’m giving you the most profound Universal Paradigm shi�. I’m going to educate you on why being a nice guy or even ‘great catch’ hasn’t been ge�ing you the level of women you deserve or desire. And then we’re going to look at the reasoning behind this based on historical evidence and profound truths which will open your mind even more. You’ll finally get the global perspective for the first time on literally everything that is going on with our modern society, it’s place in the world, female perspectives, feminism, traditionalism and your right to power. So again; this book is “Men’s Guide to Women” but what it really is, is all about YOU and becoming the man you have to be in order to be insanely successful with beautiful women in the United States and all over the world. You’ll realize power that you always thought you knew you had somewhere within but couldn’t explain. In fact the modern social dynamics I reveal to you actually allow you to carry on the life you dream where you couldn’t have before (100 years ago).

I will show you a new reality that any dating counselor is 1,000,000 miles away from because they’re in a completely different paradigm. An unhinged reality that goes beyond the context of even the best dating experts to date (and 99% of all counselors don’t even have a clue to what’s really going on). You will have a framework of personal power towards the women you want in your life so strongly that in many cases you don’t have to say a word or you could say anything at all to have them doing what you want. This Guide is about you and once you have your power it’s all about the women and lifestyle that you can consistently live to fulfill your fantasies and make it happen with beautiful women from all over the world. If you accept your mission to become congruent with your new universal paradigm you will experience a level of success with women that extends beyond even the best dating advice you’ve ever heard to date. If you use the rest of my advice and any other dating advice on top of this universal context and apply it in action and habitually, you will become one of the rare secret successes in the world of dating. Your stories will become legendary. Your conquests unbelievable to your closest buddies. You will be a more balanced and fulfilled man as a byproduct which will extend into all areas of your life. The Power beyond ANY other that women don’t want you to have (they have the sexual power in America and want to keep that power) but will secretly fall for if you have it. What is that power? It’s you. It’s you reclaiming the power and taking it back from them. They will be forced to your sexual gravity instead of theirs. It’s changing the balance back to it’s natural, biological ORIGINS. The most successful men with ladies are ‘naturals’. We call them ‘naturals’. This in itself is quite the paradox. Weren’t we ALWAYS naturals throughout history by our ability to find a mate and procreate? Aren’t all species alive because they inherently know how to reproduce without being told to her taught?

If we didn’t procreate we didn’t further our self-preservation through having kids. The naturals with beautiful women are just playing their biological role anyways. WHAT WENT WRONG? Something came into the equation along the line that caused us not to be natural with out counterpart women. I hope you realize that if you’re looking for the ho�est pick-up lines, for fancy ‘techniques’ you’re not going to find it here. But you will find something more powerful than you can imagine and even if you think you know what it is you don’t. You will find that everything busy busy that is going on with all the pickup lines and techniques is really just surface material that is covering something up. It’s covering something up that is deeper and larger in scope other than just ‘fixing yourself’ or ‘finding what works’...there are universal implications and dynamics that 100% of dating experts are missing until now. They can’t see why they’re doing what they’re doing, they can’t explain it, they accept it and ‘fight against it’. Everything I will reveal to you is the universal context in which ALL current dating materials and advice fits WITHIN and almost becomes useless. Good news is that although you have been seeing guys you would think are less desirable to these women yet they are going out with them; here is something about those guys. They are the ones who are not being traditionally or socially natural (it’s the raw biological process beneath the surface); meaning they aren’t really healthy or balanced if they really are a jerk or a badboy. You have a lot to offer women and can have some of those elements to appeal to her social persona as well but the profound truth is that you (and all of us men, including the 40 year old virgins) really are naturals. Always know that women are predisposed to respond to you biologically when you start the mating dance; o�en they cannot control themselves and ‘don’t know what it is’ about a guy. I will give you the answers to both sides of the paradox so that both men and women can have mutually fulfilling relationships from which you will choose and lead.

Your Greatest Breakthrough: Profound Universal Paradigm I think we’ve all felt that ‘something wasn’t right’ when it came to approaching and dealing with beautiful women. If you want the most leverage and change, it’s best to go right to the root of the problem itself..and I mean the very root itself in the context that no one has been aware of. The universal context. See, many dating experts have decided that it’s just the women and their behavior that is a natural issue we have to deal with so we just have to find techniques that work with them because they’re beautiful and usually bitchy so we treat them differently. We have to look at what’s going on from about a dozen different angles in order to see the elusive obvious global context that is even greater in scope than anything any other dating guru has covered. There are more things going on than what you realize that are completely invisible to the American man (until now). Why? Because it has so pervaded our society, this invisible false reality for the past decades that we can’t see beyond it. Especially with the inundation of dating this, dating that, online dating, American women all around us, in the workforce, we can’t really see the greater context or paradigm that we have been living in existence with. This paradigm is going to take a while to sink in maybe. Maybe it will hit you right away. But I cannot overemphasize it’s pure, raw power for enlightenment and freedom from oppression forever with women. Everyone’s so busy figuring out the latest technique or ‘how to respond to women’ without having a truly GLOBAL understanding of history, biology, other countries views, media propagation, tradition, cultural differentiation, workforce integration, competition, American history, marriage realities and divorce statistics, lawsuits, the cause of nagging and dissension, conspicuous consumption control, modern TV. shows, housewife

commercials, Susan B. Anthony, Biblical purveyance, foundational psychology, Discovery channel, women’s liberation, sexual revolution, evolutional psychology in contrast to today, female empowerment and many more factors down to such as songs “She’s so high above me”. Your understanding of ALL OF THIS has led to the single greatest power and leverage you can use to regain your power as a man and be successful with women. Here is the profound universal paradigm which will change your life and you won’t hear anywhere else unless it’s from me. Are you ready? Here is the profound universal paradigm: You have the right to be a man; a BIRTHRIGHT. Sexual favor and choice has always been in your hands. Today’s independent women and their behavior is PURELY a product of social and cultural programming in America that defies biological, universal, evolutionary, Biblical, inherent, traditional, natural and historical truth & causes. We have unknowingly empowered and EDIFIED the female beauty and given her equal rights and opportunity as men as like never before in history. Woman has become stronger than ever in the history of the world within the U.S. and only within the last 100 years and unknowingly has gained MORE power than men would ever like to acknowledge (and she KNOWS it). That’s it. Go ahead and re-read it again. > Just look at songs like “She’s so high above me”. All of this leading to the wussification of the modern man, acting whiny, begging and pleading to be with her. Now I’ll say more: This is why us men, who are NATURALLY playing our traditional role which always worked through all of time up through our own grandparents DOESN’T WORK ANYMORE. The power our society has given to women has become the fabric of our nation and culture itself.

We take it for granted. As much as feminists will hate to acknowledge but this is the real reason why we have a 50% divorce rate. They didn’t use to argue and nag at their husbands when they knew their role of tradition. Yes there are surface issues which women, media and counselors will blame for divorce but they can’t see the global context of what’s going on in the first place; women’s power and rise is competing with man’s biological inheritance. I’ll go on Oprah and Le�erman to stand up for this if I have to so the men in America can take the power back...however I kind of what it to be secret so that not all of us know how to be effective with them. But then again, it’s a world of abundance anyways. There’s MUCH more to the universal paradigm here than just a hardcore traditionalist perspective which you will discover. I’m not saying it’s right or wrong, it’s just the way things are. SHE IS WHO SHE IS because of how she was brought up. You can’t tame the shrew without drama in a traditional or 50/50 dating relationship (I will introduce you to AMP). Our women are acting unnaturally. Their biological urge is to not develop a man’s strength but to nurture and care for the kids and family. This may be quite shocking to you and it’s going to piss a whole lot of women off until they really understand everything that I have to say which is really just coming from a Universal perspective of knowledge. Strong, independent women are STILL a minority around most of the world. We believe, we KNOW that we have value and quality to offer women but can’t figure out what the hell is going on when they keep brushing us off. More power to you to realize that she doesn’t know either that she’s a product of our society and she’d be a completely different woman if she were born in almost any other country. She doesn’t know that but she does secretly know that she has power over men only because of the power that our society has given her. It’s all perception. It’s your reality vs. hers.

I will go into much more detail but I’ll say that this is really a double-edge sword. I will be the first to admit that women have added value to all of our lives (and I mean through business, invention, music, entertainment, etc.). It would be boring without them having this level of power but this is the whole discord between why you haven’t been able to be successful with the beautiful ones consistently. They have essentially in a way, become men (in all other aspects except physical and emotional) and they have taken the place of a lot of men, really. They have taken a lot of man’s power and man is confused. Man very confused. It took my massive powers for objective global thought, my own experience with countless women, going clubbing 100’s of times, international travels, investment in studying of social psychology, upbringing, questioning, If you find yourself instantly defending women in your thoughts, then it’s obvious why you could never see it before; you’re a part of this pervasive so called reality which is all perception in our society and DOESN’T EVEN EXIST IN MOST OF THE REST OF THE WORLD. I told you this would be hardcore. I had to come at it from a global angle a�er experiencing firsthand natural success EVERYWHERE I WENT WITH WOMEN, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN. 100 years ago if you were a good looking guy, you could talk to her without ANY drama or problems in America. One advantage: Ugly poor guys now have a chance with beautiful women. Before they never had a chance. How’s that for a twist? Why? These hardcore women need something else; a MAN..a real man. But more on this later. Either way, this ultimate power of yours will probably scare the living daylights out of most women. Why? Because YOU’LL TAKE THE POWER BACK. Remember in 40 Days and 40 Nights (if you’ve seen it).

Josh Hartne� refuses to have sex or even masturbation (the real kicker) for 40 days and his female co-workers corner him because he’s trying to take the power back to men (women know that they have the power and they DON’T want you to have it). About 80%+ of Men outside America have the power when it comes to beautiful women and maybe 1% in America (and even less of those who are healthy like you and me who they REALLY want). And it’s not because they’re inherently ‘stronger’ than you, it’s because their women are traditionally being women and playing their natural role without any illusional ‘added value’ or ‘display of assets’ ge�ing in the way or confusing their men. You have to show them you’re a man. You have to just BE A MAN in your reality and o�en that will be enough to a�ract women to you because they can sense your POWER. You have the biological inherent power that they are a�racted to, not the unnatural wussiness of giving them the power. Basically part of it is that you can’t be fazed by her beauty because it’s just a shield. 80 years ago women weren’t ALLOWED to make themselves look sexy or pre�y except on special occasion. The men understood this maybe for a reason. This kept things in natural order. Think of her 100 years ago right now today (you know what I mean, work with me here) and she wouldn’t be looking all sexy and wouldn’t be so damn ‘look at me, I’m hot’..so if you just see right through this facade and deny it’s existence you’ll speak straight to the real woman in her that WANTS to be a�racted through the natural biological process that is inherent in both you AND her. You are the one to lead the direction of the relationship. There are a TON of implications and dynamics involved if you’re thinking of marriage with a real beauty or with the first real 10 that you get with; stay cool, man and make sure you read my Chapter on Divorce Prevention as it’s imperative to understand the universal perspective to prevent future pain on both parties through the decisions you make now or don’t make now.

Yes it’s true many women wear the pants in the family in America today but they’re just being who they are and the men don’t understand what’s going on because they know that they’re supposed to have the power. If you’ve given average or above average women value to them in the past through sex, making love, making her laugh, experiences to remember, etc. you know you can do it with the most beautiful ones once you internalize the life giving information here. These women do need loving too and unfortunately guys who are ‘jerks’ are capitalizing on this by having strong male archetypal characteristics without ‘seduction’ tricks yet it’s the only options she has seen for finding a real man. Do beautiful women a favor and let them have the opportunity to be with you and what you can give to them instead man. You are probably more psychologically healthy and sound than a jerk. It always boggled my mind how much uglier guys than me could score hot chicks but now it all makes sense. If all of us good looking guys spread this word all the women in America would be like in a candy store of fulfillment and then the ugly guys or unhealthy guys would really have a hard time because women will have the choice of healthier men like us who they more rightfully deserve naturally anyways. Then the less desirable (socially) guys might be forced to accept the women who are more at their level instead. Hey, I know I’m going to piss some people off but I don’t care because I’m speaking from a global perspective so there’s always an angle that balances whatever I say out and cancels whatever that person’s objection would be; this gives me power. With this knowledge you also have the power of awareness too to transform your life from the true inner self on outward (not with gimmicky ‘surface’ tricks and techniques that misses the whole point completely of pure power and natural a�raction). Women are a�racted to bad boys like Tommy Lee and Colin Farrell because they are living in their own reality and are indifferent to what women really

think about them. Ok, maybe I’m assuming more average or less than guys are scoring hot women than really are. If you’re average looking and aren’t ge�ing hot women, you have no excuse now, none. There still aren’t enough real men to go around and if you look at the numbers of hot and usually horny women that are out there it’s like shooting fish in a barrel. Everything we see is perception. Those perceptions have been inundated into our social programming. Men have become very reactive instead of proactive. Why is it that women want a ‘real man’? These are strong, beautiful, successful women and they still want a ‘real man’. What does that mean? Why do they always complain they can’t find a ‘real man’? HELLO...that can be you. In fact, it probably IS and you will realize this you once you internalize this information. In case you didn’t know, species have always found a way to perpetuate themselves. We are born biologically with the skills it takes to mate, a�ract and reproduce BIOLOGICALLY. But in America today, of course people are reproducing (2 by 2, we make new people) but then look at the bi�er divorce ba�les. What I’m proposing is that men really are men everywhere (for the most part..though I’ve seen differently if you know what I mean). She is still waiting to be swept away by a natural (and I don’t mean granola kid) man who understands the inherent biological process of sexual chemistry and a�raction. You will continue and begin to learn about the powerful leverage that you now have to make the greatest change in your adult life when it comes to being successful with women. But before we get to the real good stuff, it is important that you understand a li�le bit about history and some other things first. So we’ll continue...

Why Mom Was Right & What Went Wrong Throughout all of this, the realization of the macro dynamics and the universal paradigm, I have realized that a man (in context of everything else that is included in this e-book) can still be a man but has to consider the modern dating ritual compared to the traditional courtship ritual. The reason why our mothers and grandmothers have taught us to go out with women to nice restaurants, by her flowers, tell her how much we love her, is because this is more of the mating ritual instead of the dating ritual. What mother wanted you to do was to take a woman out in a more traditional sense that would make her think that you were courting her and eventually leading to a relationship to possible marriage. Basically women today have changed because of the modern social dynamics, which includes the fact that they are now more powerful than before and have the power of choice when it comes to men. A woman’s reality is now that she has all kinds of men chasing a�er her with the traditional courtship procedure instead of just being a more social person and dating her. This means that there are many other heavy handed implications that are implied, which is a li�le too much for her to handle, considering that she just wants to be fun and free more like a traditional man. So your mother was probably right in the sense that she wanted a man to do traditional things and be nice to a woman. However because of a man is now usually under a woman’s spell, he has lost his traditional power as a man for the time that he is around her. This makes anything he does make him look like a wussy. So not only is he acting like a wussy unknowingly, he is going a�er her with the wrong approach of courtship instead of just taking a more social, light dating approach.

Maybe our mothers and our grandmothers do not realize now that most beautiful strong women would rather not have the traditional weight of a marriage minded mating procedure, especially from a man that is overly interested in them because she has the power of choice with any number of men. In a more traditional society, yes the mating procedure would almost seem more natural of course, but because the power has shi�ed in our society in terms of dating you are going to have to play by different rules. So even though you can be a real and natural man by living in your own reality and treating her like a real woman and not le�ing her get away with drama that crosses your boundaries, you will have to take a more natural social dating approach anyways. You can still find a traditional wife when you are ready though. This of course is to your advantage because it is what a woman is more interested in having anyways, and she does not have to deal with the additional ensuing implications of following the traditional route of courting her. Because you do not have to be as concerned about courting her for potential marriage (this now comes about in modern dating rituals through time in a relationship, for these independent women a�er they have go�en time to know you) at the very start of a dating relationship, you can take a more carefree approach and she will feel a live less weight on her shoulders. Of course you may potentially be interested in her for marriage but time will only tell as you develop a relationship. So just keep in mind that you really should be taking a more social and lighthearted or fun approach at the very beginning. And then it can develop from there if there is going to be any potential future between youths. Now the more traditional women in America, yes they may be looking more in terms of marriage potential with a man, so you may be able to actually date her and get away with doing traditional mating practices such as going out to dinner every day, buying her expensive gi�s to show your

affection for her, etc. Just keep in mind that the modern beautiful independent women today are loving their independent life and their freedom, and if marriage is going to develop its going to be in a natural way through a relationship without a man expecting too much by his actions out front through ‘wooing’ her. Our social dating and marriage dynamics have drastically changed in the past couple of decades so that now we have a 50/50 ‘power struggle’ essentially because we have had to make concessions for the modern, powerful woman even though marriage is still ultimately the ‘tradition’ or climax (ahem, in a different way) of a man and a woman’s relationship together or commitment to each other. Remember there is the very traditional ‘courtship’ (which doesn’t work anymore on our independent women who are fun focused and carefree as a balance to their worklife), and there is the 50/50 social dating context in our nation today and there is also the AMP (accelerated mating process or ‘program’). Just keep in mind historical and traditional dynamics and decide how you want to lead your life. When it does come down to marriage though, history, mom, biology and the Bible was right about keeping it traditional if you want it to last (choosing a woman who naturally is traditional and not one you would be arguing with every day) and best raise a family. Keep in mind we’re first talking about these issues in order to fully get you to see why things are the way they are. It is an important part of your Karate Kid training. It will all pull together as you read the complete Guide.

Prehistory of Her Empowerment: Tradition We are going to look at modern mating and dating rituals from all angles and perspectives in order for you to get the foundational global perspective of what’s really going on. Things used to be traditional and that has everything to do with this conversation. Traditional seems so boring and antiquated but hmm...let’s see here. Women used to cook, clean and support their husbands because that is what they were taught to do (and sorry modern girls but that IS the more biological thing to do). Ladies, everything you think and even how you act or react, is mostly coming from how you were brought up, how society has programmed you (and us). Really think about this. “Mona Lisa Smile”, “The Stepford Wives”, “Mr. Mom” these are all products of our modern society. In ‘Mona Lisa Smile’ (which I only saw the preview to) Julia Roberts plays this empowered teacher who is influencing her traditional female students to be independent in an age where there was the role where she would play the traditional housewife. You have to understand that this kind of thing ‘was’ fairly radical at the time because this was when the centuries old traditions started to change. Of course we all look on it now as of course they should be empowered and have their own free will but this is important for you to see the bigger picture if you really want to have full success with women. Hey, I just want you to be aware of this. It is part of the progression that has caused female empowerment which I believe is the only main cause of our high divorce rate (despite other advantages). But you say, nowadays both the husband AND the wife have to work just

to make it go. Here’s the deal and this may be a li�le harsh; yes times have changed and the economy is different but the man’s natural role IS the provider and protector. He just may have to provide more or find an ethical way to do so. Have you heard the saying...’Where men are men and the women are men too?’ Well, women have taken on ‘traditionally’ masculine roles. Of course we seem to accept this but you should be aware of it’s ramifications. And it started slowly, seepingly. Women wearing pants. I remember my mom telling me when this issue started. She was in school at that time. Women slowly opened up to the idea and liked the idea of having their own sense of stronger individuality and freedom. It would still take decades though for the real transfer of power to happen though to now it is common for a woman to think she is ‘the prize’. And everything, every WAY that women view it is ONLY from her current level of understanding of the world in which SHE was brought up in. A feminazi herself could never really FEEL or KNOW what it is like to be a ‘real woman’. Go back 80 years and be like that; it would be blasphemy and more than likely you would NOT be thinking like this because you would be growing up more traditionally and naturally - period. Also most cultures around the world are at in this term where we were 100 years ago where the relationships are more traditional. You know what? There’s nothing wrong with that. You want a marriage to stick together? The divorce rates are low around the world and lowest where it comes down to the man being a man and the woman being a woman in their traditional and defined roles throughout the ages. This is true and it’s even biblical. It is the price America is paying for the power that women get (our families suffer drama, confusion, arguments) all

really stemming from this. The past few decades things have changed and of course being led in America. But the femi-nazi’s no...they can’t see this. They don’t understand what its like to be a woman from another culture where it’s expected that she’ll raise a family traditionally and that a man will take care of her. It’s not in a femi-nazi’s reality and she thinks those women are ‘repressed’ when actually they are quite happy because I have met and know many of them; they don’t have a unhealthy social persona either and they know how to keep a family nurtured. For be�er or worse, the femi-nazi is an overstated voice and the rest of the world is the silent majority. Then I’ll take the media a�ention if I can be a voice for the American man. So if I can ‘naturally’ a�ract beautiful women in other countries, then WTF is going on in America?!?! This is the question I had for a decade. My best friend is very aware of this as well. In the 1960’s we had the sexual revolution and before that we had the baby boomers a�er the winning of World War II. Look at it this way. Women around the world are inherently looking to raise a family and have kids. It’s really why they were put on this earth and men are here to help with that process of course. In modern society we’ve been fortunate to climb towards the top of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs to explore areas just beyond our biological inheritance. Still...women and men know that they naturally want to have li�le people that are just like them to keep the cycle going. Here’s the thing, normal traditional women aren’t a�racted to jerks outside the U.S. They’re primarily looking for someone who can provide and protect but not someone who might even potentially ‘abuse’ them so they steer away from that. In America these traditional girls still do exist though are still being influenced by our social culture and mass media. But the ‘Americanized’ woman...no, she’s different. Because she is strong

and independent she DOES want someone strong and independent like her that can thrill her and that isn’t predictable and boring. Most ‘nice guys’ are so predictably boring it kills women; they all have the same ‘neediness’ and approaches. The problem just becomes a troublesome and power struggle marriage or long term relationship in which every day divorces are happening, and can she really help that? The only solution from one angle is for her to really accept a more traditional role and allow her husband to lead the family. Healthy, long term ‘nurture’ focused women steer away from the bad boys. There wasn’t even a place for bad boys 80 years ago for a woman unless you were really outside of society’s standards. But with so many ‘nice guys’ and men just being confused by women’s power and doing the things they’ll think would a�ract the ‘American’ woman, it doesn’t work. They are forge�ing that she is still a woman inside. Remember she has power and choice. She can choose many guys, the more beautiful and powerful she is; is ANY of this going to lead to her happiness? LIFE ISN’T FAIR. If you’re just ‘the next guy’ she may take you or leave. If you go the traditional ‘courting’ or ‘dating’ route then you’re essentially just ‘buying’ her affection through meals, etc. Is the fact that she is unknowingly defying biological order, causing some of the drama itself that she is so unse�led? An American woman wants more than just a man who can provide for her; nowadays she can easily provide for herself so regular men become boring to her. She needs a li�le extra ‘kick’. She wonders where have all the ‘real men’ gone? Not realizing that she’s part of the problem in the first place (though through no direct fault of her own). So they seek out a strong ‘real man’ who won’t give in to their demands everytime and hand their balls on a pla�er.

Guys, she WANTS to be put in her place once in a while though she’ll never tell you. Why? Because she is not biologically supposed to be leading the relationship (look at our 50% divorce rate because the balance of power has shi�ed because of her naturally modern demands leading to debate and higher expectations of sorts); it is still part of her to be a woman. However, you cannot really tame the shrew (I say this respectfully and divorced men may say worse) because it is who she is. An independently developed woman is more exciting, interesting, fascinating, intelligent because she is allowed to have the opportunities that man has had. There are some awesome, great women who have added a lot of value to our society which I greatly respect; however with that, when it comes to relationships, etc. there is just something that spoils the traditional nature of the biological equation, which leads to the general oppression of men (I see it everywhere). The thing is, you can’t make silk out of a pig’s ear (don’t know if that’s the right analogy...). What I’m saying here is, if she’s already so damn independent and can take care of herself, you’re not going to be able to permanently tame her. You could try to have taming of the shrew but she’s just going to resent it because you’re crossing ‘her line’ of independence. This independence and empowerment which she has gained through her life is not her fault. If she was born in another country, she would be a completely different person. You can’t change her is what I’m saying. If you want to try to make an unhealthy balance of relationship work and WANT that drama in your life, go ahead. Hey, it’s great for dating but for marriage. I predict the pa�ern, it’s a formula. When Rhe� Butler ‘took’ Scarle� O’Hara up the stairs in ‘Gone with the

Wind’, he may have tamed the shrew (through sexual biological process) but only for a li�le while. At the end of the movie he is being a real man. You can learn from him. Even though she probably will find him again, it just isn’t in her nature to repress herself down, so drama will be back again as it was throughout the whole movie with them. That was a predicator for American marriage life to come, except now there is o�en less passion, eh? I don’t know, I haven’t been married yet. If you can maintain real friendships or AMP relationships with these women you can avoid all of the drama yet truly experience powerful interdependent and mutually fulfilling value between the two of you. The answer? You want a life without unnecessary drama? Just want to relax in peace without nagging? Want to have a woman who does things that you thought she is supposed to without her complaining about it? In our 50/50 society today, we just take it for granted. We have grown up in this culture, but do not realize how most the rest of the world is still very traditional in nature. Marriages have become a balance of power in the U.S...a give and take. Roles must be known or there will be much more massive ri�s than should be. If you’re dealing with an independent woman, she’s going to have MANY more opinions (this is a blessing and a CURSE). She is more developed in all ways but really it’s a ‘traditional’ woman wife that already KNOWS her expected roles. This kind of woman is NOT going to complain or nag anywhere even close to that of an independent woman because she knows her ‘role’ - PERIOD. Here’s the thing with me. I’ve always found these kind of very ‘traditional’ American women boring. In fact I take it back to my college days. I was talking to this a�ractive blonde who I was kind of going out with and asked her, “Don’t you want to be someone when you grow up?” And she said that she wanted to get married and have a family. Now I look

back on that (I haven’t seen her in 8 years) with the global eyes of understanding and I realize that that is an extremely noble thing for a woman to want to do. It takes a LOT to raise and nurture kids. I don’t know how most mothers put up with that kind of drama. It is not only admirable but is the natural thing that they want to do. And all of these in a pen and women know that there’s something that just doesn’t seem right as they are staying single for many more years, they still have the biological urge to be a mother. It’s just that now there are these other opportunistic or relationship dynamics that have influenced this and the modern family. I’ve always found those kinds of women who are naturally ‘traditional’ in America kind of boring. Why? Because they’re not cu�ing edge, exciting or on my level psychologically as a general rule of thumb. But you know, they will care for you, nurture and raise a family without additional drama or nagging (of course there will be some things here and there). There is a world of a difference between a woman who cooks and cleans because that’s what she knows to do and WANTS to do and a woman who will start nagging at the thought of even doing it. Here’s the thing; I don’t cook that o�en and I don’t have time to clean. That’s not my role. I’m the provider and protector. I don’t and won’t allow nagging in my life from a woman. It is unacceptable and distracts me from my affairs. Now, are the woman I’m really INTERESTED in going to be tamed down? Not likely. There’s too much socio-psychological profiling and growth beyond her natural instincts that it’s covered it up reshaped her natural identity. So I maintain interdependent relationships with them instead of the drama of a long-term ‘dating relationship’ or marriage. Of course in modern society we men have more opportunity than ever before as well, but keep in mind that it is our traditional role to be men and had the household.

Also. I naturally know that I’m not going to be ‘Mr. Mom’. In fact, I don’t change diapers. Maybe in certain cases or as a novelty but really, I don’t change diapers. And I don’t care if women today want to judge me because of that. You have to set up your own boundaries of what you expect from a woman. If you are going to be in a 50/50 relationship with her or a marriage, be prepared. Times have changed and you’re right, things don’t feel accurate. Make sure you read “The DeWussification of the American Man.” Since men are so sexual in nature and always thinking about it, through much of time because women were repressed from sexual independence or freedom; there was a sect of society that has been apparent for centuries “prostitutes”. Prostitution was a way for men (and those women) to bask in something that was the opposite of sexual repression. It fulfilled a strong desire throughout time, but le� these women separated from mainstream society. That is all that I will say about this issue here other than that the sex trade continues. Now, women have their own independence, lifestyles, and can seek out sexual relations of their own if when they want (and they usually don’t want it from every single wussy that is at her feet), they want a real man. Who to blame for our transition from biological, religious, or historical tradition to where we are today? Make sure to read the rest of the chapters.

Feminism: Double Edged Sword

Pedestal: Defiance of Universal & Historical Proof ‘Feminism’. What does it mean? Basically women have the same rights, power and opportunity to develop themselves as men have. Interesting when you consider it’s only happened in the last century a�er thousands of years of human existence where things DID work. I’m not saying whether it’s right or wrong. I do think it’s great for women to have that opportunity in the U.S. (which we now take for granted). The fact is: it’s a blessing and a curse. Most people are not aware of the curse that it has brought. I’m aware of it and I have real relationships with strong women but I just cannot accept their level of drama to interfere with me really being me, a man on my path. I don’t want to get divorced 6 times I’ve been married to an equally or near strong and independent person. I am naturally a�racted to strong, intelligent women who are like me (see ‘When Stars Collide’). This may be an interesting look at things for you. But I want to give you all of the universal knowledge that I know right now so you have the power of understanding and choice. Her power is not biologically founded and has thrown the natural balance off in recourse. When it comes to the initial meeting, women are missing men that are being a real man. I’m not saying that a man should ever control a woman but just naturally she would know her role of nurturing (and cooking and cleaning if there’s no maid). Now there’s many that will say a woman should be barefoot and pregnant over the kitchen sink. You see up until now, the American male has been confused. He’s thinking that this level right therr is a li�le too extreme (unless he’s one of the hardcore traditionalists);

Well the news is...you’re not going to tame a real shrew. So really, if you’re still single I suggest you look elsewhere for a long term (hey I am) and just have FUN FUN FUN until then. The level of understanding and clarity I will give you will help you realize that you have the strongest power ever. You will find the answers to why women don’t make any sense and why you are confused with what’s going on between men and women today. Why do you keep trying and beautiful women keep turning you away? Well there’s a psychology and something even more powerful than that behind it. You can learn ALL the techniques in the world but if you don’t understand the dynamics of what is REALLY going on in the big BIG picture you’re not going to have NEAR the success you could otherwise. I’ve struggled with this for years and maybe you have also. I’ve noticed recently also that people are talking less and less to beautiful women and those that do are ge�ing shot down. This means to me that women are ge�ing more and more hardcore independent in their definition of who they are. Of course there are benefits to feminism which we’ll talk about in other areas as well but it has changed our relationship dynamics drastically. This newfound power and freedom that women have too developed and live life in their own way, is really just covering up their natural and basic instincts. This is what is throwing you off and confusing you when it comes to relating with women. You see it’s all perception. And when you can ‘get’ the perception of the REAL reality; you will see the Matrix and it will empower you like nothing else because it describes the foundation and pa�ern of human behavior in women and why men aren’t successful with them anymore. You’re not going to find it in relationship counselors. What a field to be in

eh? A strong percentage of them have divorced as well. They grew up in this society and they can’t see beyond these walls or the big picture of what’s going on. Is the relationship really going to be resolved, when they are trying to repress the woman more? No. The man is being oppressed by her inevitable power, there will always be bickering if they are around each other all the time unless they have really clearly defined duties or roles. Bluntly put: The power our society has given to women by empowering them has led to the degradation (or ‘role reversal’) of Biblical and traditional foundations built around the natural role of family with the man as the head of the household. Families are broken. And is it because the man isn’t providing? No, he is almost always doing his role. It’s usually because the woman is more independent than her counterpart in other countries or her great grandmother was leading to a basic daily power struggle. THAT IS WHY. There’s nothing wrong with what has led to female empowerment except that it is the main reason why families fall apart and no one can see this. A man is still being himself and actually being weaker because of her strength, THIS IS NOT THE PROBLEM. It’s the 50/50 nature which is a misbalance of biological inheritance itself that is the consequential strife. People say it’s money why people divorce. No. Money’s neutral. Money’s a tool, a thought. Most people make enough money to cover their family and surviving, hello. It’s arguing over money. Let’s see here...independent woman who loves to shop and naturally make decisions on her own, and isn’t as ‘content’ as her counterpart great grandmother versus the husband who in most cases is trying to keep it together. THE REASON FOR DIVORCE ISN’T MONEY. Like I said there’s something invisible going on that no one can see until now. It’s ‘crept’ into our entire society and way of living.

Not only that, we’ve glorified this empowerment and most of the men aren’t doing anything about it except being oppressed because they aren’t being their natural self because the woman isn’t being her natural biological self. Of course it’s expected an American woman will have her way because she knows how to ‘take care of herself’. Then comes the power struggle in a relationship because the man knows how to do that naturally so they bicker. And the drama ensues and households are broken. Let me say again; I love independent women because they are strong like a real man (mentally) except still feminine in their ways. I can ‘talk’ with them. They have interesting things to say. We’re on the same level in many ways. Would I marry one? Not unless I want to bring SUPER drama into my life. I’m talking unnecessary drama that would happen over the smallest stupid things that a traditional wife would handle. I am an alpha male provider and I don’t do certain things period. Someone like me should really marry someone who is my opposite and I don’t mean opposite as equal. I mean polar opposite. So this means that if you are a strong man with a strong purpose and do not want unnecessary drama in your life, pick a life partner when you are ready that just isn’t going to bring that up in the first place (a more traditional, accepting wife). So if you’re a strong male personality for the LONG TERM it might be easier on you to get a wifey that will not give you additional drama about the roles YOU expect her to have and do. A man’s inheritance IS to lead a family and provide for them. Our nation of wives don’t understand the oppression that the man is going through with all he has to put up with that he just doesn’t feel he deserves. Do we as guys NAG and COMPLAIN to women about work and our jobs or whatever? For the most part NO. We are doing our biological role. Then

why in America if men are being men and ‘providing’ without complaining are so many of our women just nagging and complaining about every li�le thing? She has born into a society of female empowerment (once again which has great pro’s and great con’s). It IS a cultural thing and I will be talking about this subject a lot in order for you to fully understand the macro dynamics of our society versus the paradigm of what women really want anyways. Her independence is so permeated into our way of living that we don’t even see it anymore. But it just hurts marriages. A woman in America today..it’s just naturally going to be harder for Her to go back to a traditional role because she wasn’t brought up in it. So much of American marriages really are a power struggle which is taking place on the instinctual, biological level of defiance. We can start a movement here. We really could. We can bring back power to the American man. Then what would American women do? It’s not going to make marriages any be�er because we have an inherent daily issue here. But as a single man, you can take the power back through living in your reality and living out your destiny without being thrown off by too much drama and be responsible for the decisions you make which will affect your future. I didn’t realize how much power women have (in America)...it’s more than you think. Are you aware of this now? Of course it didn’t make sense to me because it didn’t seem natural but it really is true and most women know this. They know that they can get things from men when they want by using their feminine power and beauty. Marriages that work traditionally you could say we were a 90% to 10% balance, but actually they were 50% with the dynamics as the wife being the nurturing mother and knowing her traditional role, and the man as the head of the household.

Popular culture has continued to pervade this reality of female empowerment to the point that it is now so pervasive, it is in a escapable. From Madonna’s “Material Girl” to Destiny’s Child “Independent Women”. As a man who is wanting to be successful with women in dating or however you define that, you should really understand everything that I’m covering in this e-book and apply it to your life how you see fit. The feminist and feminazi’s can be all hardcore but it’s really just the American family, marriages and the kids that are suffering because of it. American men are confused and know that something doesn’t seem right even though they’re doing their part naturally. If you’re an American man that hasn’t gone out of the country to try your hand with women elsewhere, try it! BELIEVE ME...you DON’T know what you’re missing. You’ll be surprised at how easy it is just to be normal and women will actually respond. You will be in touch with your biological and natural self that you really did have all along. There only has to be a shi� in your paradigm when it comes to dealing with beautiful women because you understand this. The dynamics have shi�ed and vastly changed in America. Women do have a lot of power. And how dare feminazi’s say that traditional women are whatever they are saying about them (hey, I said the stereotypical traditional blonde was boring to me). Aren’t I just stirring a hornet’s nest!? But now I realize that all traditional women who their main goal is to be a mother, I just really respect that even if we don’t share other interests. I know of a lot of families where the woman in the house DOES have the power. Really..she’s become the head and controls the money and decisions. Is it right or wrong? You can decide where you stand for yourself. Each family for themselves.

And as long as there is a balance between the two to make decisions and work things out a marriage between two independent people could work out. Now if you’re an American man and married to an independent strong minded woman am I suggesting that you all of a sudden start telling her what to do and expecting more out of her? No. There is a balance of responsibility. I really DO think that if you can’t hire a maid, that the woman should do the cleaning and cooking and be a housewife in a marriage. Does that account for all of these independent women? No. Mostly they’re not going to in their words ‘stoop down’ to that ‘level’. If it’s not naturally in them to do those tasks without complaint or nagging then they’re just going to resent. So many women now are like, “Don’t cross my line buddy.” Am I saying that women are supposed to be weak? No. Just naturally as in most cultures around the world, they know what their role is to nurture the kids and stay home to take care of the house and to be her biological role of being a mother, so the man can focus on what he needs to do and they will live a much more happy family life. I would encourage you to develop an opinion on this (feminism in modern society) and take your power back when it comes to dating and living your life; it’s up to you. If you don’t stand for something you could fall for anything. But relating to women, you have to be able to see that what has been developed is just a shroud over their real biological self which wants a real man more than ever. Am I proposing a nation of Stepford Wives like a hardcore traditionalist would?

There’s so much I can say about that. I strongly recommend you either read the book or watch the movie. There is a lot going on here. Ma�hew Broderick plays the ‘nice guy’ husband to a strong independent wife ‘Nicole Kidman’. Without saying, she’s wearing the pants in the family and the power is swayed her way. They move to Stepford Connecticut and without giving away all of the details, the main thing going on is this; everything seems perfect. Too perfect. All of the wives are happy, good looking, respectful of their husbands, supportive, stay home to cook and clean, etc. All of the husbands meet at the country club. Eventually we find out that all of the husbands were ‘nice guys’ and they’re women were really strong minded. All of the men were just trying to be their biological selves and take their power back, which was RIGHTFULLY theirs in the first place (evolutionarily speaking ;). I understand that you shouldn’t in reality change a woman who is really strong back down to the more ‘basics’. You just might have to start off with a woman who never gets all of these ideas of domination in the first (from just growing up) and then she can grow from there if you want while still remaining a mother. But that movie makes it appear comically like the idea of a traditional wife was just plain wrong when it isn’t and never was with the extreme contrast between modern ‘accepted’ society and how it used to be 50 years ago. Who is going to hold a be�er house? A nagging, complaining woman (who complains about everyday drama) or a more traditional wifey who WANTS to play her traditional role because that’s who SHE is? You know the answer to that. What we have is really a pandemic crisis in our country. Our 50/50 dating scene leads to the power struggle called a marriage, (which never used to by the way) be a ‘ball and chain.’

The last of that generation is now disappearing in our honored senior citizens, and is there any hope for America a�er that to keep the families together? My last grandmother is still alive and she talks to my grandfather (who has passed away). Of course there always smaller issues that were worked out, but how can they stay together beyond death (even when she was the more dominant personality) for over 56 years together when we now have a 50% divorce rate and even some women who will try to take everything a man has in the divorce? America is outspoken. And I’ll speak for the probably 1.5 billion housewives around the world to say that you should be proud of what you are doing in your of being a mother; it is your biological privilege, right and duty. It takes a lot to dedicate yourself to raising a family and keeping house. It is a NOBLE thing and don’t let any American outspoken feminazi tell you otherwise. Am I also proposing like The Rock says (I almost met him and Seann William Sco� once b/c I was in the same VIP lounge as they were), “Know your role!”? Well...actually, yeah but it’s trickier than that. Unfortunately you’re not going to be able to take a developed woman (mind you, who has very many positive a�ributes; double-edged sword) and take her back down to the basics as happened in Stepford Wives. So as a single man, these are some heavy issues here but have EVERYTHING to do with how you deal with women and how you are going to live in your own reality. All of these issues must be brought to the table here (such as feminism) in order to have a full understanding, wisdom and power of biological favor on your side if you really want to be successful with women. Remember that this is going to the very foundation itself if you really want

to be successful with women; and this is not just about pickup lines or techniques, this is groundbreaking stuff that is 1000 times stronger. So feminism does exist, how you view it and relate to it into living your life is up to you. There are many advantages as well because you can have relationships with women just as friends who are just as intelligent as you an interesting. There is no doubt that feminism has brought about a tremendous level of value to all of our lives, from women that were strong and added value to society or entertainment.

What the Traditionalists are Missing I understand that the traditionalists are biologically correct in where they stand as far as what makes a relationship work and how it should be. What they are missing is that American women really do have their own independence and have these rights, so it is hard to just go ahead and take it away from them at this point. Developed, mature, intelligent, smart women have added a lot of value to society. Hard-core traditionalists just do not think that any women should go beyond the power of motherhood alone. There are now independent “Americanized” women not just in the U.S. but in large metro areas around the world. Just name the biggest cities in each country and you have an idea. Generally there will be more of these strong independent women who are surviving in the workforce and making it go on their own because all they have are themselves. That’s awesome and there’s nothing wrong with that. This is where I differ from the hardcore traditionalist who just think that no woman should have power beyond motherhood. Well they don’t know what it’s like when you have to survive. Especially when you’re talking about single mothers. That’s really a lot of pressure in America. A single mother who the baby’s dad le� her. And she has to work AND raise a kid? I have a ton of respect for that. My half sister is in that situation. Now she did make a decision which ended up to be like that but she is making it work. That takes a lot of guts to do that and she does want to find a husband who can take care of them eventually but she’s pursuing college education and a career of her own as backup. You could try and say what’s right or wrong in view of how America is today. But Americanized women really are who they are. Many of our men

just aren’t as accountable, responsible and willing to commit as they used to be perhaps. Maybe part of that is because they’re afraid of the women? I don’t know. Personally I’m a li�le scared of commitment and I think a lot of guys are, especially when it comes down to ge�ing in a ‘ball and chain” position or power struggle with this type of women. Actually marriage looks like a decent thing with a very traditional life, without all of the making or drama that an independent woman brings to the table (despite her many positive a�ributes) from our cultural experience. In terms of single motherhood and a man’s responsibility, ge�ing a girl pregnant..that’s a whole different ball of wax. However now I know that commi�ing to marriage itself won’t be that bad because I have figured out the formula that works and I think you can see it too. My weakness is that I always have a roving eye for women and I’m afraid that won’t change when I get married (but hope it will). But if you just want to have FUN, independent women who are beautiful and desired are a great answer. And there are millions of them in the U.S. alone. Don’t ever get hung up on just one woman. Don’t get yourself trapped into that scarcity mentality way of thinking. You can avoid the 50/50 scenario which entails compromising in a relationship if you are strong, or traditional dating (less sex oriented upfront anyways), and go for the AMP (Accelerated Mating Process) if you want. AMP avoids all this drama and heavyweighted discussion and gives a woman biologically what she wants (and with contraception prevents the consequence of becoming a mother just yet until she is ready); to experience the natural process of the mating game and sexual a�raction and to express her own femininity and sexual fulfillment. It is biological. So if you can keep the relationship on these terms alone you can avoid all of the other drama or issues.

There is a world of abundance. Even if she does turn you down there are so many more that you KNOW want to get with you. Don’t put too much weight on one outcome. I f you’re going to play the game, play the game and have fun. They’re out to have fun. The independent women want someone they can have fun and be themselves with, not having someone who keeps calling them 12 times a day. Hey, I’m telling my Sikh girl-friend in Malaysia (divorced and 35) to go out and use men. Have fun with them. Use them instead of smoking so much and you can get rid of your habit. She now calls them ‘patches’. She is a ‘real friend’ to me. It’s a priceless relationship. Of course I have several independent women who are ‘just friends’. And that’s OK. Strong men who really know who they are and where they’re going understand that this is natural and healthy in today’s societies. I know again that more ‘traditional women’ are boring to me and I’ve never been excited or fascinated by them however they do know how to make a family work and don’t bring all the additional drama to the table. You want to balance your life out some more? First of all know who you are but then also develop relationships with the types of women you want to attract but actually be real friends with them with no other motive than to be ‘just friends’. You can also get used to be comfortable around these types of women as you go through your shi�ing and aligning your congruency up to your new reality. This has it’s benefits as well. Think about going out to clubs with them as compared to with some dudes. This is an opportunity guys to actually have real relationships with women who are at our levels and in some cases ahead of us.

The traditionalists separate this. They think more on the lines of ‘guys should ONLY have guy friends and girls should only hang out with girls’. That really is just a li�le boring and unrealistic in our modern society today. Despite all of the negative drawbacks I am supposedly covering, there really are many positive a�ributes that we can experience by having both independent men and independent women. Today, you can mix it all up. I hope that this viewpoint of understanding both traditionalists and feminists sides of the table, will give you the universal understanding which extends beyond all of them, connecting you directly to your own biological power. Girls have BECOME interesting as PEOPLE not just as more boring housewives. In fact, these independent women are FASCINATING. And it’s ok to make real friends with them. They can tell if you have an ulterior motive or not. Once you understand all of this, you NEVER have to let another women control you (ahem, if you’re single) and you don’t have to give into ‘her’ reality or her perception of reality based on the type of relationship you choose with her. Let her know that you’re not one of those guys (wussy). This is the single most powerful thing you can do. BE A MAN. That’s what they’re looking for to have fun (and sex) with. Have the authority to BE yourself. They really don’t want the wussy man they see on t.v. YOU have to be the answer to their strong womanhood by being a strong man who isn’t deterred by her social persona. That’s who they’re a�racted to. A man who takes care of himself and has a strong reality. I’ve seen it firsthand, fat pudgy balding men are not only ge�ing hot women overseas but they’re taking some of the ho�est women in the states as well. If you’re not one of them are you going to let that happen?

Here’s the thing..you don’t need to compete against anyone. Just be yourself. It’s a world of abundance. There’s women everywhere. They are my equal and they should be yours as well. It’s up to you to decide. I KNOW that all these hot women are my equals, not above me. I am the best of what they could want in a man and the most they could ever hope for (as long as I don’t stray..). When that becomes YOUR reality as well and you develop yourself to be someone these women would want your experience of life becomes a lot richer. Doesn’t mean who I do choose as my wife is going to be ‘boring’ though. She will probably be quite traditional though so there won’t be additional drama. She would be more like my ‘babygirl’. There are so many options available today that you should have the power and choice to live the life that you want to, whether it be combining the 5050 type of relationship or finding a woman who is more traditional, or more dramatic, it is all up to you for the long-term (and short-term). If you expect the traditional or according type of relationship with a beautiful Americanized woman, you probably will not be around her long enough because she will get rid of you, because it is not what she is generally looking for unless you are very rich or handsome. I can put up with and tame a woman’s drama short term and maybe you’ve tried it but a�er a while (or long term) it gets quite exhausting. So understand where you are at when it comes to the traditionalist view. You do not have to discount the fact that Americanized women are independent, however this actually gives you several advantages when it comes to dealing with them. Understand that there is value in feminism, despite what hard-core traditionalists may say. (Understand it is also the reason for a 50% divorcé and a lot of drama).

Sexual Revolution: A Flock of Seagulls? When we had the sexual revolution in the 1960s, this actually ended up giving women even more power because it was now OK to go ahead and express ourselves sexually. It actually became a part of mainstream culture with the social stamp of approval. This did further change the dynamics of male and female relationships from the more traditional approach that existed before. So is the current state of our country going to change? You can see that hard-core traditionalists will argue against what is happening in America from an objective perspective, and you can also see the polarized liberals and feminists say that this is a good thing. Either way it really is the media that continues to promote and propagate the sexual revolution today. Sexual freedom of expression has just become a part of who we are as a nation. And because of the daily pervasiveness, continued promotion and integration of feminine beauty in our culture and everyday wardrobe and lives, there is not going to be a change anytime soon that would be a backlash against what is going on. Even the traditionalist women have too some degree than the affected by the changes in our society. Because women have found their own independence and because they are not integrated into modern society with equal rights as men (generally speaking), they will continue to fight for even more rights and will not give up on their newfound independence. This empowerment of the American woman also includes the ability to hold the kind of relationships that she would like without having to be stuck in two a traditional courting procedure from a man who might be interested in her.

She has the right to live her life the way she wants to, and this includes her sexuality. Everything she sees in our media further inspires her to continue looking beautiful and work on her image in order to uphold the standard which our society has expected of her. And this is the, part of her daily life. She knows that she will look good if she wants to, and she hopes that this will a�ract the type of man that she is interested in. Because her women really are empowered and living their own lives with the ability to express their sexuality they are not going to give up this right, therefore the American men are going to have to deal with this in whatever way they can. If you look at the byproduct of the sexual revolution, a woman can now do whatever she pleases and this is only purported in the media le�ing her know that yes it is okay for her to have her own power over her life and sexuality. Because she really has this now and she never did before in history she is not going to give it up. If all the men in America stood up to this, it would just be like taming the shrew in a sense perhaps, because we cannot turn her back to her original traditional self or that of her grandmother. She is still going to have a lot of independents in her no ma�er what you try to do, and this is now become the fabric of who we are as a nation and it is not going away anytime soon unless our entire nation goes back to being very traditional. This means that the media would have to stop promoting sex itself. This is very unlikely to happen because men are now so used to the edification and glamorization of the female body and her energy. The way we are in America not you are not going to be able to take sex away from him and the way it is shown to us, because there will always be someone who will be there to prey on the weakness of man (for profits) to get more and more of this sexual energy which can in no way actually be

channeled effectively into their own lives. Woman’s place in American society today will probably only grow stronger and further away from its traditional roots, primarily once again due to the propagation of the media and the rising rates of women in the workplace and the realities of single motherhood. It really is a balance of power now between men and women in America. Women know that they have power and men will acknowledge that they do but rarely stand up to her for being afraid of who knows..? The way I really see it is, I really respect independent women because they are more interesting and mature (basically more like me) than traditional women (in America), I would just think twice about marrying one but otherwise they are a part of our interdependent reality. You can choose the types of relationships you want. I like them for AMP and for ‘real’ (yes real) friendships (and I don’t mean the same girls necessarily). Women today are empowered and they are still wondering where the real men are?! (ahem, that’s you). You’re on the scene and on the prowl because the sexual revolution is now under the sheets. This is where it picks up from the blueballs promotion of sex in our social programming. Women are very aware of their sexuality and are dressing very feminine. Because most of them (that are single) are looking for a real man, you can view it as they are dressing up (yes for social approval) but primarily to a�ract a strong man like you.

Pedestal: The Pervasive Illusion of ‘Forced Reality’ & why she is the way she is

Throughout this there are going to be many mind stretches that are going to be so profound you may not feel the full impact of them right away. In America especially we have idolized female beauty. We have put beauty on a pedestal with the beginning of media in the early 1900’s and it hasn’t stopped from there. In fact it’s just been in the past 30 years that it has really taken off. Women have basically realized with the encouragement of popular culture that with their beauty and bodies, they can have power over most men. This is because of the development of feminism, the sexual revolution, popular culture, man’s interest to ‘see more’, economics, etc. and is now ingrained into our everyday lives through all forms of media. Do they want power over men? What they do one is equality, unfortunately many men are not acting traditionally or naturally like men anymore. Where did the women’s movement start? In America of course. I want to put in a li�le disclaimer before I get down and dirty; (strong, independent) women have added unparalleled value to our society in nearly all fields of endeavor. Could you imagine if there were only male performers? Really, think about that. In fact, the value that women (American women as our focus here and especially) have added to people’s lives has been absolutely immeasurable. This goes back to the days of Be�y Boop and Marilyn Monroe. You see, there’s no denying the power of sexual energy and hope that a beautiful woman can bring to a man’s life even one that he can only dream of if he isn’t in a relationship. we do idolize that beauty and hope. That alone has caused male soldiers throughout centuries (back then the woman they knew and loved because lack of media) to have the inspiration

to carry on. Being a veteran soldier myself I know the importance and power of that hope or desire has given me because sometimes it was the only thing that got me through the psychologically trying times. We also just cannot deny that sexuality is part of who we are as human beings. Men used to look to each other for intelligent (sometimes) conversation. Now there are women who are at and sometimes surpassed in our level of intelligence and other a�ributes. So looking at it from the female perspective. She’s brought up the way she is and the way our society has taught her to be; makeup, Barbie, nice boy ‘Ken’, Mean Girls, fashion mags, etc.. Of course at that certain age, girls no longer have cooties and shortly a�er that they start exercising their ‘right’ to get favors because they realize it is being offered to them for free from all of the a�ention they are ge�ing from guys; this further shapes their perception of their reality. She will instantly classify him into a category if he does any of the things that she has seen men do before. The forced reality in which our society lives in, gives women a lot of power because of their ability to express themselves and show off their physical beauty or assets. This really takes the focus and center away from most of a man’s life. But if a man can really realize and understand that he does live in his reality and that he is interesting and has a life going on and is not going to give in to a woman’s physical front, then women will gravitate towards him. More on this later. Women in today’s American society have adapted themselves and taken on traits which are more masculine in nature so now we find ourselves as men

competing with women in the workplace, and it is so apparent to me and I hope to you that you can see the dynamics of what is going on. As long as you are aware and really understand why women are the way they are and how they got there, you will be a long way towards having true success with women. Understand that society has forced them into this starting with Barbie when she was a li�le girl. If you can remember back to kindergarten and first grade in the playground, you will notice that as a boy you did traditional boy things and sometimes you may be playfully shoved girls, stuck your tongue out at them, and reluctantly he cited to let them play in your game of wall ball. In fact it was not really until around seventh grade or so, that you as a young boy started to take an interest in though women that were in your classroom. The downfall of the modern man began when women discovered makeup and that she could a�ract a�ention from men. I remember this quite well, it was the first day of eighth grade and I noticed that all of sudden the girls that I knew were a lot be�er looking and pre�ier and I started to take more of an interest. Can you remember when this happened to you as well? Can you also remember that you were a natural boy before that and that women did not interest you and you treated them naturally? All of a sudden the table started to turn. Remember that throughout much of the world today women do not have the same rights as in America to express themselves with makeup and sexy clothes. In fact many schools use uniforms for this particular reason; so that men are boys do not take an interest in women and shi� the traditional balance of power. Empires have fallen over the beauty of a woman.

So remember that there was a point in your life when you knew there was a power shi� basically and ever since then that power has only grown stronger and stronger. Throughout all of time the opposite sex has been interested in the other. The traditional opportunity to date between man and women has almost become polarized in that there is all this sexual tension in energy going on between both sexes, yet the people that deserve to match up are not been matched up, so this creates a lot of frustration on both the beautified female and the frustrated and life directed man. Women from when they were the age of 13 on up especially, realize that if they fit the excepted social standards, they had power over most men. Let me remind you that in most countries around the world this is not true. In the words of a feminist from our country, she would say that those women are being repressed. Well what she does not realize is that those women are being traditional. And traditional is the biological and natural selection process of mating and perpetuation of society in which a man and a woman stayed together usually for their entire lives. So women and men alike do not really fully realize the global implications or dynamics of what is going on because we are so inundated by our multimedia social society that perpetuates feminine beauty, continues the blue ball nature of selling sex or almost selling sex itself without fully giving men what they want which in turn makes them more frustrated. And this also makes them week when it comes to dealing with women because they are seeing the same beauty that they see glorified and that aside universally on TV, in print, in photos and in movies and music. A woman’s show of beauty and her newfound independence is a blessing and her curse. It is preventing her from having a real relationships with real men who are her counterparts. She has so much independence because it is just a part of who she is now (without her knowing that it is only because

of her societal upbringing) that she can o�en not help arguing, bickering, testing, controlling men in her interpersonal relationships, especially when the men don’t stand up to anything she has to offer because they are intimidated or just feel repressed and do not know how to handle it (because it is NOT natural). Naturals are successful with women because they are only doing what is biologically their birthright without le�ing any of the forced reality interfere with them connecting with who she really is. And I am sure that most naturals who are successful with women, would not even be able to explain it like this or even understand all of the global implications that you do now. This means that you have at least as much power as them as long as you internalize everything and live in your own reality. It is important for you to be aware of this perceptional dynamic in our modern culture and dating society, because you will soon find out more about what it means. If you’ve seen the movie ‘Boat Trip’ (it’s not that great but, Roselyn Sanchez is in it), these two guys end up on a gay cruise. Cuba Gooding, Jr. is acting like your normal pussytranced guy around Roselyn and he pretends to be gay just so he can spend time with her. My favorite part of the movie is when they’re dancing together, anyways. She complains how all of her boyfriends were ‘jerks’ (but obviously she was a�racted to them). Cuba’s acting like a ‘nice guy’ but is really just giving his power over to her through his ‘gay’ facade to get near her in the first place. In the end of the movie when he parachutes back onto the cruise ship, you know it’s not going to work out because heis still a wussyboy as you can obviously tell that even though she kisses him, he has gone under her control and agrees not to screw up. This is all part of pu�ing women on a pedestal. This means that you’re going to have to treat Roselyn different than other guys do when you meet her; look past the ‘forced reality’ which gives her the power if you really want to have a chance with her..

Global Reality Check & Cultural Differentiation Let me ask you another question which should open your mind: Are all the ho�est in the world actually bitchy like many American women are perceived? The answer is no. In most cases they haven’t developed a social persona like this, however this trend is spreading globally in larger cities around the world. However tradition still rules. You really have to take yourself outside of our society (which in itself is sometimes hard to do because we are so caught up in our a�ention deficit media co-dependency), just in order to see a larger perspective and to get a global reality check. When you can compare our mainstream dating society to other cultures and relationship paradigms around the world you could consider this as cultural differentiation. It could even be called ‘Macro Sociology’. You can find a woman who is just as beautiful in a different way or look in another country who hasn’t been brainwashed like this and doesn’t live in a virtual bubble of untouchableness. You can even find CELEBRITIES from other cultures that haven’t been ‘brainwashed’ with a bulletproof social persona like this. You want to know who keeps it REAL? Find yourself a Thai singer or actress and she’ll still want to raise a family at some point without all kinds of additional drama, because she is founded on something more biologically sound than a culturally produced social persona that defines who she is. Looking at it from a global perspective you could say a woman is “Americanized”. Go to another country and meet women and you will be refreshed just

by the fact that they are normal and don’t live in a fake cosmetic centered ‘glamour’ reality. Now they may look good of course using those accessories but they are so much more real than the fakeness or front that American women put on. Furthermore though, America’s beautiful women are not that bitchy for the most part once you get past their barriers of illusional ‘defense’. They HAVE to have this barrier to protect them from the everyday wussbags that come up to them. Why? Because they just CAN’T take every opportunity with every single guy. Bitchiness becomes a time management tool for them so they don’t have to feel they owe something back for every leech that pays her a compliment. Unfortunately because of these unhealthy characteristics with our type of independent, beautiful women you’re going to be in for A LOT of drama whatever you do especially if you keep one for long term. In America there is so much focus on beauty. Oh you might see some ‘real people’ advertising campaign come along but it always turns back to the sexy people. Hey, I’m a proponent of this as a graphic designer and photographer myself. Like I said, I don’t plan on marrying one though. My tolerance for drama is about 0 meters at certain times; otherwise I’ll invite it in for a short while as long as I have the upper hand just to go along for the ride in a very short relationship. If you just want to have fun and just be a real man, these women can handle it (drama and heartbreak). American women are strong, they love drama, they feed on it. Break some hearts if you want, it’s up to you. But just be careful..because once you get past a woman’s outer defenses the tables sometimes turn and she becomes the wuss and ends up loving you and then you get bored and leave (I’ve done this in almost all my relationships (granted it was never with a true 10) :S). Ah, but they love it.

Going back to our global reality check again, there’s a lot of women especially in Asia (and Eastern Europe or Russia) who would love an American man and prefer them over their own male counterparts in their country. Courting used to be traditional and worked. Now since the dynamics have changed it’s become challenging for both sexes in America. You can take the more traditional courting approach usually with women from other cultures, and they will probably be likely to be interested in you without giving you all kinds of sighs, yawns or drama. You can be the perfect gentleman with a�ractive women yet they can still brush you off if you still don’t get it with our type of women in America. You can be a gentleman anywhere else you go on the world and for the most part women will respond more naturally to you without pu�ing up a bulletproof social front. These are profound and dramatic differences that I have through personal experience, that allow me to give you this insight which I think it’s priceless. When you can look at cultural differentiation, you will find that you are not so bad as you thought you are as a man or when it comes to dealing with women. In fact you are actually a natural. My international experience with women has proven that; It is not us men who are the problem. We are only the problem in the sense that we are letting the forced reality get in our way of being real men. Because this forced reality for the most part does not exist in most other cultures, you will be able to realize that we are different from the rest of the world. This really is an American thing, which is now spreading out a li�le bit. What I’m talking about is this social persona which happens when a woman allows herself to gain a level of independence were she does not need a man to the point that it damages any hope for a real relationship, and she focuses

extremely on her beauty to the point where that distracts men and she develops a more beauty centric focused social persona primarily gained from our social programming and expectations of her. I’ve got a li�le bit of a different story and it’s important you see this angle. I’ve noticed that yes there are differences in a�racting women in America and in other countries. I’ve also noticed this: it was ALWAYS hard for me to ‘meet women’ up front but in about two dozen relationships (except for two where I purposely went along for the ride) they ended up really liking me and wanting to stay but I was the one who called it off and le� them. O�en calling me months a�er we’ve broken up. Why? Because I am a natural. And I think most men are natural. A�er the initial ‘meeting point’ I had the upper hand except twice where I let them be themselves. One was a cornfed blonde girl from Oklahoma and I didn’t have a relationship for (choke) 3 years (so I can relate to ANY of your pain). I was so anxious to have a relationship or something that what should have been a short summer fling I just let her hang on and drug it out longer than it should have. She then joined the Navy to try and get stationed in Hawaii but ended up marrying someone else instead. The whole time I wasn’t really being myself, I was being someone who I thought she would like, smiling in front of her parents, etc. I didn’t let her know the real me nor did I crack any of my jokes. I let her say, “Hey honey, what’s wrong”...stuff like that. So I’ve BEEN there. I’ve been the wussy nice boy. But you know what? I WASN’T being myself. Guys will always say, but “I’m just trying to be myself”. I hear this cry and when people say it at seminars or to Dave DeAngelo the full context hasn’t been revealed until now. GUYS, you’re NOT the problem here.

But there is more to the issue as well from these universal viewpoints. You may think you are acting natural but you are only le�ing her smokescreen get in the way. And of course because of her strong social persona and how men perceive her she will have a different response than her traditional or biological reaction to such an approach. She has adapted to her social identity and what our society expects of her, and she has integrated into her lifestyle. Our social programming is really so pervasive you have to look at it from a different angle in order to see what is really going on. And if you can understand what’s going on you’ll realize that you just have to deal with these women differently if you WANT to be successful with hot American/independent women. They’re not acting historically or biologically accurate either. It’s all a perception. They don’t have any power unless you give it to them. They just ‘think they’re the prize’. As a man you have to have your own set of standards so you aren’t thrown off every time you see a beautiful woman. Fortunately for many men, American women are now bending those standards because they can now be a�racted to guys that aren’t ‘at their level’ of physical appearance or beauty as long as they meet their biological sexual response nature in the woman and she can’t resist the real man in him. This gives augly guys or jerks a chance for once in history to get a hot woman. Otherwise, traditionally it would rarely ever happen I believe in your same country unless there was a forced marriage. Why? Purely traditional women know that they should stay away from men who are emotionally or psychologically unstable because it will lead to trouble further down the line, and that they will not be a perfect husband. Actually now, I’ve seen fat balding old guys get hot young women from Asian countries. Now part of this a�raction does have to do with money and opportunity but really the foundation is that he’ll ‘take care of her’; and that’s her way of surviving and perpetuating.

Here’s the thing; basically don’t look at ‘foreign girls’ and stereotype or judge them because once you get to know them, they really are of the highest quality and those guys are keeping it a secret. Well up until now maybe it has been a secret but if you haven’t been to Thailand you just have NO idea. No idea. I’m not just talking about bar girls alone either. You’ll find that the entire Thai culture is about the happiest people on earth as well as the most respectful and real. They have a level of respect that I haven’t seen even in America. It truly is the land of smiles. There are hidden droves of real Thai women that aren’t bar girls who would really make perfect wives I think. Filipinas are also a another option. Now feminists would cringe at the word ‘perfect wife’ but why? Only because they’re not going to be the perfect wife. That leaves something amiss with them and they can’t figure out why they can’t hold a relationship unless it’s with a wussy guy who isn’t being his natural self either. All of this information may shock you in its full context. It may bring to you tears. It may cause you to beat your chest and scream like Tarzan and it may change your life - really. Just know right now that when you can get a global perspective (which in itself almost never happens in America) you will see that there is quite an extreme level of cultural differentiation. You can find deals on airfare and it is VERY economical to travel or live in Southeast Asia. This has everything to do with you realizing that you have always been a real man, and that it is your right to be a real man and initiate the process of sexual a�raction with women. Fat bo�omed girls make the world go round? No, they make Wisconsin go round. Hey, they’re leading their lives and they can find guys. My recommendation to them would be get yourself a good looking Italian man or something seriously.

Many Europeans would love to have an American wife. I’ve seen it happen. They have to expand their thinking maybe or else find a match for them. Hey I’ll stand up ‘against’ the media. Men need to hear this.

What Dating Experts, Authors, Relationship & Marriage Counselors are Missing Completely (which can actually deter your success with women)

Our whole modern dating system and its leaders are a part of this society and our cultural history including progressive women’s rights. It’s all integrated and it caters towards continuing women’s rights and power and essentially balancing the power in a relationship between two independent people. When people ask: “Should a man ask a woman out? Is it ok if a woman asks a man out?”, etc. It’s ALL (our entire dating world context) coming from this societal reality of where we are at now (basically a 50-50 balance of power). You CAN’T escape it PERIOD unless you have the universal paradigm shi� of absolute knowledge in order to be aware of that and see possible effective alternatives. It never was a problem for a man to ever think of being afraid of talking to a woman. Back then women didn’t ask men out (except maybe rarely) because the roles were more natural and traditional. We are now living in a defiance of those times where guys like us (or any guys) could ask women slightly above their level of looks to go out on a date or to do something. There was also less competition because there was less media and less transportation options. This way a girl could decide to go with a guy or not from there but he never dealt with drama up front unless he was really asking a girl out of his league out, then he might feel some ji�ers. I’m talking about our grandparents generation. Remember that men naturally had the sexual selection and choice. Remember that all of the other dating experts, gurus, and coaches are all fo-

cusing on the ‘micro dynamics’ of the only perception that they see and the paradigm they are in. They are working almost ‘against’ natural enemy to try and trick the girl into going for them. It’s this ‘forced reality’ that we as a nation and culture live in which denies and violates evolutionary nature itself by placing added value on a woman’s sexuality. This has thrown a wrench in the system. You can go out there and you will hear, see, and you will find in America today ‘looking in’ is a perpetuation of the female beauty, her power, and how to somehow balance the relationship or a dating scenario 50-50. For dating experts that focus on being successful with women, all they are doing is focusing on the micro minutiae of trying to win her over, to somehow get through her forced reality barrier or’ trick or’ into going with them, when they do not see the Universal or macro dynamics or context of what is going on that really answers, even bypasses everything that they are fighting against to be successful with beautiful women. NLP techniques or seduction methods, all focus on rewiring your way of thinking in order to somehow counteract and connect with her energy and is really missing the whole point entirely. You do not need any rewiring, other than to realize that everything you see is not what is really going on underneath the scenes (or bedsheets if you like to think of it that way). This should be a huge relief to you knowing that you do not have to try and work against a woman’s power with some fancy pickup lines or seduction technique; it is so important that you understand the foundational paradigms see you can come from a position of true power and be a man who knows how to a�ract women naturally. And because of the leverage of information I’m giving you you will be able to make this change and be far closer to success with women than you ever realize. This means so much more than just going out there and trying some new pickup lines and may be experiencing modest success; this is a

whole new world! Our pool of applicants that we’re stuck with dating in the United States we take for granted and we can’t figure it out. We search and search and in every relationship we have, most all of them would lead to nagging, arguing and power struggles or much concession and resentment down the road if you realize the signs and see what she’s like. It’s just part of her nature and o�en find that out in a long term relationship. This is also why millions of men are so confused and frustrated; the only women we’re generally looking at dating are near us or within the U.S. and because this independent empowerment permeates throughout our entire culture we can’t escape it. It’s everywhere we go. It’s with us on every date...’her power and decisiveness, an inherent byproduct of our social culture and upbringing.’ What about online dating? Same thing. It’s all we know as a nation of men, to naturally date women who are near us and part of our culture so that’s what we look for online as well. We’re stuck in a bubble and instantly rule out international women just because it seems so ‘far away’. And you’ve got women online taking the power to look for a guy herself (partly because they’re scared of her) which they never used to do 100 years ago. Dating specialists, experts, coaches, they all accept this; today’s American women are strong and independent of course so let’s just try to get her dates with nice guys (who don’t get it) and coach things out when there ‘somehow’ happens to be more relationship problems than ever before in the history of the world. They’re dealing with it from the perspective of even yes we know women have more power than ever before and it’s changed dating dynamics but because the MEN don’t really see what’s going on they have become intimi-

dated and pussy whipped because of her power that essentially violates their evolutional nature. You just really have to see everything from the macro dynamics and be the natural man you are. Once you really have go�en rid of the invisible force field that she holds up you can just be yourself. If there is still some of her energy seeping through then yes you will need some more technique work possibly. But when you can really, truly live 100% in your reality, you can say anything to her and your odds of success have quantified and increased beyond most other men who don’t understand or are giving their power away to her reality instead of keeping it for themselves. So be wary of everything that you hear us see in our modern society when it comes to dating, because it will all be coming from the 50-50 approach from which we all live in and take for granted

The Oppression of Modern Manhood In understanding women we not only have to understand their perspective and psychology, but we must also look at the other global implications that are involved whether she realizes it, you realize it or not they are involved and very much a part of the equation. Women really must be ge�ing frustrated with American men. WHY? The men have been confused (until they read this) because it’s the woman who has all of this power now; that she never would have had before 80 years ago. The American woman is STRONG. She’s healthy and independent and can take care of herself. This has thrown the natural balance of biological nature itself by pu�ing something on top of it, shi�ing the dynamics while the underlying necessity lies beneath (AMP fulfillment). Sexual communication has to be done differently with these women. I don’t have a high tolerance for drama in a daily relationship. Could you handle it? This new breed of women ultimately wants a real man. If, however they are so developed and independent (think diva’s and actresses) and they want to se�le down it is best that they just find a man who is naturally more on the sensitive/wussy side of ‘nice guy’ and who doesn’t have a problem catering to her demands. Really. The tradeoff is they get to be around a beautiful, independent woman in their life to give them excitement and drama (which may work out if they don’t have a purpose in their life otherwise) and can put up with it. Look at celebrity marriages; they almost never last when two stars collide. Yet you’ll see a trend. You’ll see a famous actor and you’ll finally see his wife’s name mentioned

but you don’t know who she is..hmm...they’re managing to stay together, interesting...Maybe it’s that she WANTS to raise a family and not control the world herself. That’s a formula that works and is biologically proven and accurate. That way, the famous director can keep doing his thing without worrying about the family when he’s busy because his wife ‘has it handled’. That’s peace of mind and that’s a formula that is not only biologically natural, but it works. When you have developed your future goals, think about all of this. If you have an American girlfriend already, what you do is up to you. Feminazi’s don’t realize that tradition works or they feel it would take away their power. You see their prime ‘argument’ is the case for female power and ‘equality’. That is the double edged sword and can be viewed as the problem itself. They know that it’s right in their mind for women to have as much power and opportunity as men. What I’m saying is not that it’s right or wrong. It’s just that it’s the marriages that fail because of it. The kids, the divorces, the lawsuits all stemming from their main purpose. So essentially feminism IS a double-edged sword. Why do marriages crumble? Like I said, it’s not money. Money is neutral. Too much of anything can be toxic. Money only exacerbates whatever the people were like in the first. More money with a person who does good with small money will do more good with more money. Somehow who didn’t know how to manage or control money in the first place with more money is just going to be a huge mess. If both want control over it, then... For the money case you could say it’s really a lack of financial intelligence. People thinking there home is an investment when it’s really their banker’s

investment and I’m not going to get too deep into that right now (just read “Rich Dad Poor Dad” by Robert Kiyosaki). The problem could be a�ributed to lack of financial intelligence, overspending, buying liabilities, improper cash management but perhaps a big part of that is the bickering and arguing that goes on from a strong woman in the household (in many cases) who wants to control the spending herself. Essentially the heart of what I’m saying here is going to piss off a lot of people but it needs to be said. You should single handedly regain your masculine power, purpose, clarity and understanding because it is your biological inheritance. Women are literally forced to respond to a man who knows the natural process of a�raction because it is wired into her and she cannot even control it for explain it. This biological premise cuts through all of the social programming garbage that is on top of it and clouding your vision. You should be able to see the world as it really is, finally being able to explain what the hell is going on. Women will notice something is different about you. They’ll see that you’re not needy and that you do not have a high tolerance for their unnatural drama most of the time. Hey, have fun with American women and date a lot of them if you want (AMP)...just be careful when it comes down to marrying. If you can foresee the pa�ern or look for clues in her behavior or personality a�er you’ve been together for a while, you could potentially predict a disaster. The only viable option for an Alpha male like me or my father is really to marry a very natural and traditional woman. Where do you stand? I know it may not be in your plan right now because you may just want to ‘pick up chicks’ but this global understanding is priceless and is important to your becoming effective with women on a level few are. Divorce is not a pleasant thing..I don’t even need to tell you because it’s bad on both parties, the kids and also the man who thought things would work out because he was marrying a woman he loved.

Yes I am a li�le biased here (although not when fundamentally speaking) but I’m going to stand up for the American man. Why? Because it’s not him who for the most part has been doing ANYTHING wrong. It’s the power of the American woman that has led to all of these issues. Is it a woman’s fault on her own? Of course not. She is who she is because of how she’s been brought up and our cultural and social programming. My youngest sister has entered the teenage years. She’s had men cater to her ever since she started ge�ing breasts and because of the open, sexual nature and acceptance in our media, some have become ‘mankillers’. Understand that is an extreme of course, but it is virtually inescapable in our country for even a traditional woman now to have some idea that she deserves power and choice in her life as well, so even they are taking on a more empowered role. All of this has led to the oppression of the American man (who is in relationships for the long term or marriage) with our independent and empowered women. It is ge�ing to a ridiculous point. More and more focus on beauty and sex, more and more repression sexually because of the great paradox implicating both sexes. And the fact that American men are sometimes portrayed as bumbling idiots on TV. shows and most people will laugh. Now with all the power I’m essentially giving to you by you understanding things and enlightenment coming from within, I don’t want you to ever abuse women and I think you wouldn’t allow that of yourself. Everything you do is your responsibility and you need to take accountability for your actions. With this knowledge comes a new sense of power, yes...but with it also comes responsibility. I have felt power in many MANY circumstances with

women because I am an alpha male, but I don’t abuse that power. I respect them always. Most men really are ‘good guys’ and they’ll help a brother out and want to end up ge�ing married to a good woman. Now, I’m taking things right here beyond even the #1 dating guru in my mind (David DeAngelo) on a certain level. I have learned a lot from him about biological ‘a�raction’ and what’s going on because most of the other dating stuff out there is just JUNK that’s coming from people who don’t have our deep level of knowledge of what’s really going on. However, he is only talking really about American and developed independent women and that point cannot be overstated. He has stopped just short of releasing the greatest thunderball of knowledge that really and FINITELY explains what the hell’s going on in the ‘big picture’ and why men have been so confused when it comes to meeting and approaching women. Basically he reached the top base camp (and he took me to the top base camp) but I took it to the summit. He would have come to the same realization but he never said it; if he only looked at the 50% divorce rate and steps a�er ‘dating’ and also what else is going on in the world.

Here’s the thunderball which I started this eBook off with from a different angle now:

AMERICAN WOMEN ARE ACTUALLY THE MINORITY IN THE WORLD YET ACT SO DIFFERENT BECAUSE OF THE POWER OUR SOCIETY HAS GIVEN TO THEM OVER THE PAST 80 YEARS.

IT’S DEFYING BIOLOGICAL INHERITANCE AND RULES OF NATURAL PRESERVATION ITSELF. THEY HAVE BECOME MAN’S EQUAL. NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS BUT IT EXPLAINS WHY AMERICAN MEN ARE SO DAMN CONFUSED. Basically because there is an even bigger picture of what’s going on. Back to Dave D., he’s the man but he stops before the engagement level of relationship and doesn’t talk about relationships beyond that (and understandably so because it’s a whole different ballgame). I have been able to look beyond that to start to piece things together. I have also looked at the rest of the world which is something all the dating guru’s NEVER talk about and I talk from firsthand experience too. I am bringing to you the global perspective that took me $1,000+ of dating resource investment, study, worldwide travel, out of the box thinking, cultural observation, family and societal awareness and a decade of asking questions to even get to the point where I was finally hit by the blinding light. Have men figured this out yet? Of course not. They just know that something isn’t right. They ‘feel’ oppressed and wonder why their women nag them. With the information in this Guide you will be able to experience a level of success with women that you never had before and you will have no excuses anymore. You don’t have to worry about whether the latest trick should have a certain effect or whatever. There’s so much going on in the world today and we’re brought up in the society we are brought up in. It’s because of my extensive world traveling that I posed this question almost a decade ago. “How can I be successful with beautiful women outside the U.S. when I am just myself and I can’t be successful (with the most beautiful women) inside the U.S.?” I am serious about this too. Everywhere I go, when I step

outside the U.S. I am still myself but everything is natural in a�racting women. This got me thinking and wondering for many years. Here’s another thing..if you have trouble ge�ing women elsewhere in the world or even not as good looking American women, then you may really have some problems of being over affected by the ‘forced reality’ (unless you’re dealing with metro independent women). Because no ma�er which angle you look at it. YOU were put on earth to procreate, despite being a 40 year old virgin if that’s what you are. It is your biological birthright and duty or you will not perpetuate and further your generational bloodline. If everyone was affected like a 40 year old virgin society would cease to exist. We are all born with the ability and knowledge to procreate. So what I’m saying is that all men are men. Even if you feel that you can’t get any women, please leave the United States for a vacation and realize that you are ok because women elsewhere behave more biologically accurate, trust me. Don’t let the idea of just the beautiful women in America who we have given this ‘screentime’ to, stop you from being a man at all. If you haven’t had any success with women in your life, this should be the most important thing you’ve ever read. Stop le�ing this crap of their ‘added value’ get in your way of being a man because it is also leaving them resentful when it comes to the dating and mating game. If anything try more traditional women and serious get outside the U.S. for a while to see what I’m saying. Most of the world isn’t like us. Remember that our beautiful, independent women really DO want a real man anyways.

The ironic thing is you may realize that you don’t want to put up with their drama in a longer term relationship. This will buy you even more natural leverage and power to live in your reality. Do not be oppressed. You see, when a guy used to go up to a woman in the school gym and she thought they were a good match for the time being, she’d say yes to a dance. Go outside the US. and natural sexual a�raction/mating process happens. Back in the age of our grandfathers, you could date. People would find someone who was their ‘match’ and maybe end up with them for a lifetime and focused on the family. But nowadays in the U.S. a woman has POWER and she has CHOICE especially the more beautiful she is. She can turn down a dozen guys back to back if she wants. Why? Because the men are le�ing her shroud of beauty get in the way of biological and natural a�raction which they inherently have in their blood. Here’s a li�le known secret; I didn’t even date in high school. I didn’t date until college! With this power that is now a part of a woman’s entire state of mind and being comes different dynamics as a result. She can now compete with men for jobs, start her own business and pursue her own goals. This I say is GREAT for her. You go girl, seriously. I’ll be true and REAL friends with other women like this and I have many of these strong independent women as friends around the world (large metro cities), true friends but I just wouldn’t marry one. It’s too much drama. What about you? It becomes a power struggle because I am an alpha male with a very strong purpose and direction. I have li�le patience for nagging drama.

How much drama you want to put up with that is up to you, but with all of this knowledge in this e-book you no longer ever have to be oppressed as a man for the rest of your life. You are about ready to just live your life fully as well as a man that naturally a�racts women. Your awareness will lead you to empowerment as you discover the elusive obvious that has been going on. Once you ‘get all of this’ you can really laugh at your lack of previous success because you cannot be stopped anymore.

Sex Sells: Pussytrance & the Stripclub Project It never used to be such a challenge for a man to play his natural role and talk to women. Remember that we are all inherently natural. Men have become scared to do their duty because the women in our society have this perceptual power of beauty. Yes, they are independent but this doesn’t mean that they are any less of a woman when it comes to her sexual nature and biological urges (she wants you more). So what is it that completely throws off a normal ‘put together’ kind of guy? It can accurately be described as ‘pussy trance’. Yes her apparent power of beauty and sexual hope gives us life and sustenance in the warzone and in lonely times. Strip clubs are extremely popular in the U.S. especially. It seems a very male thing to do. But what is the psychology here and why is it important? Because who we are as a society edifies a woman and sexual beauty and because most men can’t break the invisible ‘forced reality’ barrier that you could call ‘Brook’s shield’ they want a way to become closer to this extreme sexuality that they see in our media that is just keeping us ‘a few steps’ away. Basically pussytrance (call it whatever you want) is that she’s supposedly taunting us with something supposedly that we are so excited about and emotional that it drives men to do stupid and crazy things when it comes to dealing with them. Going to stripclubs (which isn’t stupid) allows men to soak in the pure sexualness of everything that can’t seem to get fulfilled from with the media. Media is basically giving men the blue balls (mostly psychologically and psychosexually) with it’s prominent display of women’s appearance and beauty.

We WANT MORE. Yes I said it first: our ‘BlueBalls’ Media. Make sure you spell my name right. ;). Ok, not all of our media (family programming) but so much of it (music, movies, music video) emphasizes a woman’s sexual assets versus her traditional ability to nurture and be a housewife. Basically ‘sex sells’. A woman’s powers of sexual energy is really a form of currency (how else do you think Paris Hilton will sell ANY records? (ok, Sco� Storch can produce thats why)) Here’s the formula: Pussytrance = blueballed men wanting more = More Sales. Repeat. Our male media archetypes are characterized generally as strong men who live in their reality and have a purpose, whereas a woman’s main virtue is her sexuality now (instead of ability to nurture and stay on the downlow in the house). There is a trend on TV. programming though in recent years which I will discuss shortly. Her sexual power used to only be for procreation but now it’s become something much more. Casual sex and the hope for it from both sexes is something that has been repressed for a longtime and now is out in the open without all of the heavy consequences. One way to repress or just prevent her ability to distract men is through the use of school uniforms which still go on in private schools and countries around the world today. Sex and the hope of sex is upli�ed in our society more than any other and right now more than at anytime in history. I agree there are a lot of advantages to it and it makes life a LOT more interesting. We ‘feed’ upon this sexual energy called pussytrance. A positive form of channeling sexual energy that we see in the media around us is into what Napoleon Hill called ‘sexual transmutation’.

This is just the channeling of sexual energy (usually from a woman) into a positive and inspirational force in your life. It can give you hope, motivation, energy, willpower and can even cause soldiers to survive in ba�lezones. How can we deny this power which speaks so deeply to man? It’s so pervasive in our society. O�en times men will do ‘anything for sex’ and feel so emotional about the issue because of the drama and hope it brings to our life. Sexual transmutation is a more positive use of this energy than staying in a pussytrance. Pussytrance is where you are stagnated by her beauty because it synergizes with everything you’ve seen and know about through our popular media and it’s biological; man’s need for sex. You can use and channel this energy how you see fit, like Yoda taking a fireball and redirecting it. Being less dependent on it or even purposely denying it’s existence can get you laid more than you would think. When you are in a pussytrance you may stop and stare at a woman. You are based on a shaky and weak foundation which isn’t even natural, traditional or biological. You may lose all of your cool and start thinking about ‘how to approach her’ or ‘what pickup line to use’ while you’re still coming from no foundation at all except hers. Remember that when you are in a pussy chance it is just the ‘forced reality’ of added value and a�ention we have given to her sexuality that is covering up the basic biological process of a�raction of you being a man and her being a woman. A woman knows when you’re in pussytrance and she KNOWS how to flaunt it. She’s trying to a�ract strong men but 99% of them are in a pussytrance and skerred. They know that she is universally a part of everything they desire: sexy,

beauty and sex itself. They can’t see beyond it to know that she’s a real person just like you are. It’s just that her sex appeal is more apparent ‘up front’ whereas your a�ributes may be more subtle which she can find out through ge�ing to know you. I will show you how to use this to your advantage...she’s really just looking so damn sexy for you dude. Why? Because you’re probably the only real man she’ll meet that day, week month or even year. All the other guys are pussytranced and it is so strong you can’t try to break it coming against it because you’re just going to bounce off it. Her spell over you will probably become stronger the more you think about it and edify her like you think about your favorite actress. Moving in then with a technique, you’re still probably going to get ‘show down’. That’s why almost everything you’ve been taught is wrong and doesn’t really come close to pure and natural success. If you’re in her ‘pussytrance’ and captivated by her sexual energy you may think that you’re automatically ‘a�racting her to you’. This is not the case. When you’re held spellbound by her beauty, you’re actually objectifying her without even knowing who she really is (beauty is a blessing and curse for women). Feminists want to complain about the objectification of women. How are we supposed to respond when it is in front of our faces all the time (I don’t mean at a strip club)? Hah. Most of our women love it and accept it that they can sexually express themselves and keep themselves busy improving their image as part of who they are in a competitive environment as well as hoping to a�ract men. If anyone’s objectifying women, yes it’s our media but women and teenagers MILLIONS of them are living up to this standard. Women have developed from grade school onward into this ‘surreal reality’ of unknowingly objecti-

fying themselves in front of men. How the hell are we supposed to not be turned on? Of course we love to look at beautiful women. They’re everywhere. Don’t blame us that we’re looking at what’s being shown to us everywhere. Men objectify women. Please...hah. Women are objectifying themselves to fall in line with the social standard but don’t tell a feminist that. A feminist or feminazi doesn’t realize that in other parts (most) of the world a woman isn’t purposely and culturally objectifying herself towards men by vamping up her sex appeal. She would rather se�le for tradition although she might be curious about expressing herself more freely. It’s always been kept under control through all of history up until the 20th century. Men in other parts of the world and our grandparents never had this opportunity whether you think it’s good or bad. Who do you think of as a male rode model? Liberace? I hope not. We usually think of James Bond, Clint Eastwood, James Dean, Marlon Brando (when he was younger), maybe some rock stars and Donald Trump for example. Ask yourself though, are these men living from their reality and universe or are they giving in to any nearest woman who might be hot that is near them? There’s a lot you can learn from this. And, these type of women will generally make women swoon, woo, or coo or something. Granted going to a strip club may result in blue balls too, it gives men a way to really put them directly in front of sexuality and the energy itself and BASK in it so that they can be close to extremely beautiful women in a semifantasy environment. This is taking it beyond the teasing nature of our mass media. These women can fully exploit and capitalize on their pure sexuality while keeping things in that environment from going over the edge (in most environ-

ments). There is also a growing trend of buddies going out together to get away from their girlfriends (wha?!) or wives to bask in this pure sexual fantasyland where they can be up close and personal to this energy. Another reason why it’s so important is that the men are the ones who are being ‘catered’ to. They can get the personal a�ention from women whose bodies they idolize or rather idealize. I’m ge�ing turned on just thinking about it...(I’m a very visual person). You need universal strength and grounding to ‘compete’ or fight against her pussytrance. I will give you what you need in order to be able to with a li�le practice over the pussytrance of any hot women. Our media is so good at continuing to propel this myth, that in just about every movie we see a man being a wuss and talking about what you would do to be with their, how he would do anything, blah blah. Use all of your awareness and knowledge to your advantage. You will have universal experience and truth on your side when dealing with a beauty so her pussytrance doesn’t even phase you, you don’t even see it. Women are so flexible and can be a chameleon in different situations? Why? It’s in their biological nature. They can adapt around them to those who have strong realities which through history could provide protection for them. If you stand for ‘something’ you have a be�er chance to ‘a�ract’ a woman even if she disagrees with you. I’m listening to Daddy Yankee and Pitbull right now and I can see it. The women in the club will fall into a different state of mind and if they were actually there, because of their STRONG REALITY (that doesn’t ‘give’ any fake respect to women) they will flock to them even if they weren’t celebrities.

Take celebrity out of the equation and you have strong reality le�. So keep this chapter in mind when you read the other ones and understand that our society will continue to propagate this and it will be very easy for you to become distracted again indefinitely (like all of our other men), if you are not grounded in something stronger. This way you can put aside any emotional triggered response on your part and remain indifferent to her beauty which is desperately trying to get your a�ention. This whole eBook is really your baselin, fundamental Jedi training. Or Karate Kid training. Watashi-wa Miyagi-san des. Anatawa Padawan des (you are Padawan).

The 40 Year Old Virgins I want you to think about this for a minute here, whether it includes you are not, we really do have a dilemma when we have men who have not had sex or been in a relationship with a woman until the age of 40 or beyond. Can you really see what is going on here? Is this not just a violation of our biological nature or what? Because that is all that it really is. These men are living life under a unempowered perspective of their own manhood, in response to all of the a�ention and drama that the forced reality smokescreen has brought about. I haven’t even seen the movie and I know everything it represents and can predict the plotline. Our society has now produced 40 year old virgins. If you’re an American 40 year old virgin I understand and am explaining the reasoning behind this. Because women have sucked up the invisible power, you’ve felt powerless (if this is you or know someone who has). 100 years ago you would have been fine and able to marry or mate with someone about on your own physical looks level without a problem; because she’s looking for the exact same thing. I just came from Wal-Mart (ain’t that some Americana right thar) and saw a tabloid with ‘Stars Revealed’. It was photos of actresses without their makeup on. Hello. Can you see how ridiculous it almost is? These famous actresses almost looked augly without their makeup on. Cindy Crawford and Paris Hilton looked no be�er than average. Just think about this...strip all of that ‘facade’ away and then what? Granted there are some that will still look ok when you wake up next to them in the morning, but it just goes to show you the alleged importance of this ‘illusion’ that is so pervasive in our culture.

Is there anything there without the makeup? In many cases, who knows but the implications of what this has done..! Think about all of that; and these are supposedly our ‘best’ looking women? They’re le�ing this illusion called ‘makeup’ prevent them from even trying. I have friends that are 40 something and 50 who I think are both virgins. They’re both single men who won’t marry American women so have stayed single. They have seen the pa�erns of other men and how relationship drama and statistics turn out inevitably against their favor, so they have held off. It’s because of this power that she has become who she has, but it’s her ‘makeup’ or ‘added value’ that prevents men trying having the type of relationships that they want with them in the first place. Our whole cultural history in the last 100 years has done more ‘damage’ than we think despite the many positive benefits it brings (Destiny’s Child, swimsuit magazines, fashion models, T&A, sexual gratuity, etc.). We have American men who refuse to date any women, have never even had sex by the age of 40 or 50, maybe turn gay?? And all kinds of irrational and unbiological effects are products from this ‘Forced Reality’. All of a sudden, men are ‘sensitive’ to the more demanding female. The psychosocial aspects of giving women ‘the power’ and edifying their beauty has had profound implications straight into the very thread of almost everyman’s life (single or divorced). How successful do you consider yourself in the past? I’ve still been a man by dating 8’s and 9’s instead of the 10’s I know are more my level (sorry girls ;) and have gone outside the U.S. and have naturally had success with beautiful and real women but what about those guys who haven’t had any ‘relief’ from the underlying biological function? How frustrating is it when our society psychologically and economically

centers around sex and the beauty and power of women, edifies it so that a man can’t stand it anymore and never ‘gets any’ of the thing he craves the most because it was flashed and waved in his face all the time? This is quite unhealthy yet all of us have struggled with it to some degree? Have you? This really is an unnatural reaction due to a perceptual paradigm that only exists on top of our biological reality and inherent nature. Maybe you’ve had many relationships with less than your ideal quality of American women (or had the benefit of dating international or ethnicAmerican women), but it’s been the creme-de-la-creme that we’ve had the hardest time because they have the most drama, a�ention, power, control and favor with almost all men they want. So even if you have a lot going for you all of a sudden it’s hard for you to have a chance if you’re just le�ing her know you’re edifying her beauty as well. 40 Year old virgins, who have also never been married either. If you’re anywhere else in the world in a more traditional society you must REALLY have something going on bad for you dude like smelly pits or something. Remember it’s women’s traditional and biological nature to procreate and naturally have some casual sex as well (in more and more countries) and women generally want sex more now than ever before in history. With this information in this e-book we can prevent this from happening to other men in America. I hope YOU can help me spread this word to our fellow American men because we can start a movement together. A movement to reclaim our power and rights based on universal understanding that allows us to stand up to and beyond any feminists. It is not in a man’s biological nature to be controlled by a perception of

women and allow himself to be repressed or oppressed for life. This is going on in every town in America. So just make sure that you understand where the 40 year old virgin fits into the macro dynamics of our modern society.

Paradox Outlets

& The Russian Bride Trend Paradox outlets are byproduct of American men being oppressed, depressed and confused (the same as our counterparts choosing badboy jerks instead of us) from social programming and upbringing. Many men are just rightfully looking for a woman to be a (traditional) woman who doesn’t have all the additional drama that comes to the table. With the Russian bride trend, many of these men are older and in their late 30’s or 40’s and 50’s and look at ge�ing a much younger wife who is good looking and still very sexual who will hopefully not challenge them the way women do in America. Like stripclubs, porno, mid-life virginity, divorce and traveling as a sexual tourist, the Russian Bride trend is just another way for American men to try and biologically and traditionally just be themselves. Remember the paradox: American men don’t understand our women and American women can’t find any real men. So these are the natural outlets they take to deal with our current realities. Beautiful women possibly become gold-diggers because it is a shallow beauty focused outlet where they can use their powers to ‘land a big one’ and then get everything he has, end up controlling their husbands or his money which o�en leads to his oppression and then divorce, or she can also choose unhealthy relationships with men that at least are being real men around them even if it’s in an unhealthy context of controlling too much or even abusing her psychologically or emotionally or even physically. However women (on a lighter note) love drama, gossip, romance novels, fashion, beauty upkeep, etc. These things have become a part of many independent women’s lives because it’s an outlet of expression. They can live their fantasy of being swept away by hmm...a ‘real man?’ (no

kidding) in romance novels where they be the natural feminine woman (that they still really are at heart) yet that she isn’t in real life because (she’s been told to by everything she knows and) taken on what were traditionally more masculine qualities of self empowerment, expression, personal growth and independence. They look for these outlets to vent because of their frustration with not finding real men or also just balancing out their hectic work life. You can tease her about these things if you want.

Denying Invisible Forced Reality and Your Oppression

There’s opportunity now to experience relationships with potentially 1,000’s of women where before you only had to think about ge�ing married and raising a family. Times have changed and our world is closer together. Remember that this invisible forced reality of giving a woman added value is only a perception and does not accurately portray who she is and it also prevents you from being who you are, so what is your choice if you want to buy into it (what the media and our society says it is) even though it defies tradition and human nature itself. Throughout all of time man has had the power in relationships and this has been what worked and kept families together. Just because she can wear makeup now and look sexier than in other countries or in our grandparents time, doesn’t mean that she is any less or any more of a woman who has the same basic fundamental needs and desires. You really need to be aware of this and what is going on. The interesting twist is that it kind of means that she wants a real man even more now than she would have before (at least for short-term relationships). This is because all of the men are acting more like women when it comes to relating to them and they are ge�ing scared and feeling lucky the way women used to feel lucky when and eligible bachelor came up to them and started courting them which could lead to a lifestyle of her childhood dreams. The women are acting more like men too, because the men used to have all of the choice because they were the leaders and playing their own biological role. Because of this invisible force reality, you have only seen what society itself has put on top of what’s always been there throughout all time. She still reads her romance novels, she still dreams of male role models that are being men, she still has the same sexual desires and she really wants to be a woman deep inside, because that is who she is and she cannot change

that. Just because she has more independence and choice not today than ever before, she is seen that men have become weak and scared because of her faux front. This prevents men from seeing who they really are inside and from starting a relationship that can actually be fulfilling for her. It’s up to you to not be aware of and choose to reject and the night is invisible forced reality, because all it is doing is stopping men from being man and it is leaving our women confused and agonized. In fact it is almost ridiculous. You really have to get the big picture, which I am giving you, in order to be aware of its existence at all. You don’t have to accept it. Otherwise, if you are living in the only paradigm that you know which is this forced reality you will always be on a shaky ground when it comes to her because you will be giving in to her beauty; it will control you and you’ll never have the amount of success with these women as you can ever dream if you continue to buy into this forced reality, in which you unnaturally or unknowingly become weak in the presence of her beauty. Because this is not natural, and it defies the biological order of natural selection, it has led to the great paradox of our men being confused and our women wondering where the real man went. They are still waiting for you to come up to them, just like other species in nature. So I encourage you to really embrace the fact that this invisible ‘forced reality’ is only a perception, because she still is a real woman beneath the exterior she just as makeup on, some lipstick and some sexy clothes. This goes back to the great paradox of her being unable to find a real man, and you will find that this is absolutely true. But she is still the schoolgirl within and she begs to just be a woman (de-

spite the strong social persona). Because all of these feminine aspects of her are very prominent and she spent so much time on them in order for social approval (eventually integrating it into her lifestyle) she has actually become even more sexual in nature than ever before in history. Remember that this ‘forced reality’ is not natural. The reason why it is not natural is because we now have both unnatural behavior from both men and women, thus that alone explains it’s place as only a cultural paradigm that is set on top of, or to the side of the underlying biological reality that is still there within each of us. Because men cannot control their emotions when they see such beauty in person, they are really just buying into this invisible forced reality and forge�ing the fact that they really are a man (remember that this has happened to both you and me and happens to millions of other men who do have their lives pre�y well put together as well until they come in contact than they lose all control of emotion). You can choose to accept the traditional, biological, historical, sexual reality and paradigm of Truth instead of buying into this forced reality which is just covering up natural selection itself. Despite the fact that everything looks different, the only difference is that women are now li�le more independent but still want the same thing and just look a li�le sexier than they used to be for, this does not have to throw you off as a man you can use this to your advantage; hey, they got dressed up and pre�y to find a man like you has a really still are a girl inside, and that has never changed throughout all of history. You can now armed with this information easily deny this forced reality which has been leading to your old depression and suppose the demise.

Compound Regression &

Reclaiming Back Years of Your Life Have you felt this repression from women building up over the years? It’s an equal an opposite reaction in all way. I’ve held some of this blame against women for acting the way they did, and now I’m using to all advantage ‘against’ other women or on other women to be effective with them. Their invisible force and lack of understanding of it held me back from independent American beauties for over a decade and now I’m going to have to make up for that lost decade with those type of women. And I’m not going to make any excuses for it because I was so ineffective and felt so lonely and frustrated for so many years of my life compounded. Maybe you can relate to this, it really was one of the biggest problems are struggles I was having, and it was always a distressing issue. I remember going out to nightclubs dozens and dozens of times and not getting any response from beautiful women. How about you, where do you stand? Maybe you’ve felt a lot of resent towards them...you don’t have to channel it like me but I just want to be involved with a lot of beautiful women, it’s part of who I am and a�er being in the Army for four years that compounded it on top of years worth of dry spells at some points..so wherever you’re coming from I understand. In fact it can really be looked at as one of the very central aspects to a modern man’s life, or one of the most important things that he could get handled. We’re not talking about violating women’s ‘basic human rights’ here. Deep within you have a respect for them especially the strong ones because they’re more like you but doesn’t mean you have to put up with their behavior which they don’t even understand.

Anything a woman says to you that is defending her right to independence, or blah blah in a bitchy or ma�er of fact way just further showcases the point that she IS a product of our modern society. Repeat, OUR modern society...and not another one. It’s just who she is and there’s nothing inherently wrong at all about it except it has flipped the social dynamics in the workplace, everyday living and dating and especially marriage to a degree that still doesn’t even compare to most societies in the world today. Don’t even try to take this power ‘away’ from them if they’re going to defend it so strongly. You’re just asking for drama. Well you can refuse that their fake reality exists or is as strong as your reality, but in a longer-term relationship with her, you’re still going to have to deal with additional drama and emotional responses from women which may include immediate kissing, disbelief, shock, horror, tears, you name it. A strong woman feeds on drama. Why? Her social persona is based on something that is not very natural or close to biological truth. This is my take on it and why everything else stems from this. It is on shaky ground and isn’t principally founded. The accentuation of female beauty has been around centuries in other forms, though usually repressed but it hasn’t been until the past few decades in the U.S. that it’s really gone straight out almost exploited. She identifies her beauty with her definition of herself or character in order to gain social acceptance. This will o�en keep her from pursuing more grounded or enlightening studies. Always looking for ‘the next thing’ shop shop shop as some way to vent her inner lack of discipline or core. Gossip becomes another outlet and sharing feelings with other women. She is always seeking further proof of her acceptance by society.

If she is feeling weak, she may go out to regain a sense of power by ge�ing a�ention from wussy guys and this will validate her once again. You have deeper values than this so don’t be thrown off by it. It’s the more traditional ones you have to careful with damaging their hearts more easily if you have a Casanova nature. Basically the rule is, when you are dealing with women as a single man, don’t let her get away with ANYTHING that will violate your independence in your full reality as a man. Buying her flowers, saying she’s pre�y; basically you will KNOW what you shouldn’t do when you understand that you are not giving in to her forced reality a�er you finish this book and internalize it. You won’t do the wussy things that other men do to try and ‘win her approval’. Winning her approval is more aligned to courtship and she is not looking for that right now unless you are a really rich, goodlooking guy. By being a real man in your own reality you can defy all of the superficial B.S. of drama that she lives in and speak to her naturally, heart to heart in a way when you communicate. As long as things stay interdependent and relational then you’re good and she’ll actually respect you a lot more basically because you balls to stand up to her (for once compared to other men). This means that yes, you will be making most of the decisions in a relationship about what to do, where to go, etc. but it’s just a responsibility you’re going to have to accept because that is the real traditional historical inheritance you have to live up to (as well as approaching her first). I learned from Rick H. that if you do anything with enough authority you’ll basically get away with it. Now the balls are in your court dude but this generally is TRUE when you’re living in your own reality.

So well you may still have to work around independent women you can still treat them with tremendous respect without giving in to their unreasonable demands. Do not be afraid to gently put your foot down if something doesn’t match up right in your mind. You don’t have to go out of your way to please them because it usually just makes them run. If you’re working with independent women, become real friends with them if that’s allowed...respect them because they’re on you’re level. Now you can actually talk to women and not be as likely to be bored unlike in the olden days. If women today are like they are, many are looking for men like you to have shorter term relationships with. This is a feature of our modern society and mating dynamics that you can take advantage of that men weren’t supposed to back when things were more traditional. Women have grabbed power from this (all of their power just about) so why not you take advantage of our modern society’s tendency towards lots of dating. The way I see it ANYWAYS and coming from this state of mind is that I have to go out with hundreds of women before I get married just to find out who I should marry and not have any regrets (and that the women I want the most and my lack of understanding of the Realities has held me back repressingly so there is some tension to be bought back and repaid for there). With the personal power that you are not privy to, you will be able to the design and live the lifestyle you want to; this will allow you to make up for all those years of ineffectiveness give you so choose to view it this way as well. Remember now that you are the catch.

Opportunities of Our Modern Social Dynamics Remember that in a traditional life partnering (back 100 years ago and earlier), less good looking men weren’t ge�ing the most beautiful women unless they are forced into a marriage by their parents (in some societies) or have a LOT of money which can provide a strong sense of ‘security’ for her to balance out her good looks. Now, since our social dynamics are basically flipped around this is a huge opportunity for men who normally didn’t stand a chance of scoring a woman to actually have a chance. How? If they can portray characteristics of being a real man and really just be themselves and comfortable around beauties this alone will a�ract this beautiful women primarily because their question of what happened to the real men? They’d rather have good looking guys naturally but since they’ve seen consistently on a daily basis daily that these men aren’t being ‘natural’ with them they are drawn towards the remaining ones that do have the other natural biological qualities besides looks. There is what she says she wants (be�er looking guys, tall, dark handsome, rich) and what she wants when she is with you, because now she is so desperate just to find a real man. It may not appear like natural selection, but if a woman goes with a man to his place, she goes with a man to his place; the natural selection (on the surface level) may appear unnatural with unlikely couples but underneath it all, it is the biological a�raction process (mating game) going on because the two could communicate with each other. The woman can’t ‘explain’ why she is with him instead of a more feasible option. “There’s just something about him.” Yeah, he’s being a real man who is being biologically accurate and communicating with that part of you (that you can’t explain, you feel).

If women didn’t have this biological predisposition for a�raction to a natural man, maybe we actually would be screwed but we aren’t, because it’s there beneath her ‘added value’ front. All animals instinctively know the mating process (do they ‘talk’ to each other?), yet we have the 40 year old virgin...somewhere along the line here something went amuck and I’m going to let you in on the profound truth. We have placed so much important on her beauty that it throws the context of the relationship off. She never had this power on a massive scale before in history. But let’s go back to yesteryear.. Women and traditional ‘dating’ in America...the courting process. Of course good looking men hold favor in the courting process but if she still finds out he’s accepting her level of power and shying away because of the illusion of her forced reality of beauty and it’s pretext, then she may not call him back a�er the first date or two and he’ll wonder what’s going on and keep calling her. Remember, she wants a real man despite her mirage of beauty. She is so sick of men pandering to her ‘Oh you’re so beautiful, let me take you’ that she even turns out most good looking guys who are like this. Our modern social dynamics have encouraged a frequency of dating like never before. In the olden days most people usually didn’t date for a few potential prospects before they got married. Now there is choice and frequency for both men and women...unfortunately men seem to lose sight of this fact also when they see a real ho�ie. they lose a grasp on reality and enter ‘her reality’ meanwhile forge�ing that there are beautiful women everywhere (ok, not in Wisconsin). You KNOW that you’re funny, intelligent, sharp, intriguing so keep that power and don’t enter the forced reality when you see a beautiful woman by le�ing her soak up your energy. Keep it for yourself.

She’s probably just another pre�y face. Go up to her and say “hey, what’s up?” and don’t hang around too long or ever enter her reality, stay grounded in yours. See if she’s got something special to offer or if she’s so soaked up unhealthily into her own perception of beauty reality that it’s all she is. No longer do you not have to be an unhealthy, emotionally imbalanced bad boy or jerk in order to get this quality of women that you so desire. These women will connect with you once you ‘get it’. Of course if you have a sarcastic, funny edge that can amp up the a�raction and progress with her faster. Dude, you know that you are a great catch (before this Guide), and now with this foundational knowledge and application women should be drooling all over you and calling you all of the time, just to spend time with you because you really are a great catch and you are a natural. You can finally a�ract the women that you know you deserve, and now even more if you want to have that in your life because of our modern social dynamics with very li�le strings a�ached in a win-win relationship. Let her know that you don’t give in to her demands. When you’re coming from your hardcore and natural reality it will be EASY to pass all of her ‘tests’. She’s testing you to see if you’re a real man. She has to ‘qualify’ you in many cases just to really open up to you and then she becomes more vulnerable so you can naturally do more work and both act as normal human beings in an accelerated mating process. Yes, your whole view of life will change with the paradigm shi�. You’ve always got interesting things going on in your life anyways. In fact, you DON’T make ‘ge�ing women’ unhealthily a priority yet rather let it flow naturally. I’m saying that you don’t need to be obsessed with seduction and all those gimmicky tricks to have her transactionally (not transformationally) agree to go with you just to appease some of that growing sexual tension (dude, they’re all phreaks to me).

Women today will do things that they were never able to before in history; they will actually sleep with a man in a win/win situation on the first night or within a few days. Why? Because of their freedom and ability to express themselves (formerly man’s right..sound familiar?). This is way different than before. The sexual revolution actually worked because women were repressed for all of history and it was in their genes and blood to get it out. And it’s still going on stronger than ever today although it’s more of a challenge because not everyone is a Mr. VanDreesen. These honeys are hardcore psychologically and physiologically and just want a real man o�entimes in cases where they just express themselves sexually and feel pleasure that you can give them (think Sex and the City). “Sex and the City” is further propagating this reality. This show is actually about the best thing that has happened for men like you and me. It’s telling women that it’s socially acceptable to live your life and express yourself in this way. Yes women love sex, they just do not want to admit that to all of the was the man who keep dragging along at their high heels. In fact remember that these women are o�en frustrated because they cannot find a real or natural man in which to express their high awareness of their own sexuality. This is also to your advantage. If you both can have that kind of relationship and still respect each other without mistreating each other it’s truly win/win. I used to think that men love sex more than women but a�er understanding all of this and the knowledge that women ‘CAN’ have stronger, more frequent and powerful orgasms then men it just leads me to believe that women love sex at least as much as men. Especially with these poor repressed beauties who what they are defined by is primarily sexual in nature yet they can’t find equal counterparts to share that with. They might find boytoy wussies who can fulfill that need or settle for less with badboy jerks, or uglier guys who are not giving into to their

power so they can be women around these guys and be fulfilled sexually. Independent woman is so pervasive in our society that we’ve forgo�en what anything else used to be like. We work with her, we compete with her. With this power comes a responsibility to initiate contact with beautiful women and get your options started. Those women deserve this opportunity to start to get to know you in any situations. If you don’t take action with the power, they can still come to you but you’ll faster and more direct success by being the shark you are. She wants it to feel like it is a natural process, of course this is not difficult at all because you are speaking directly to her biological and sexually responsive inner female and build the sexual tension as you go naturally. She will not be able to understand why she is able to feel such incredible in motion and sensuality because it is so connected to her biological core. She is expecting you to know what to do as a man and she will experience very pleasurable benefits. With this knowledge though you will be empowered more than any time in your life before this to take action. If you KNOW for a fact you’re a great guy with a lot to offer and you’re living in your reality and the doesn’t get to know you by blowing you off you know for a fact that it’s her loss. It is still a game. Don’t let it even alter or budge your reality. You don’t care what she thinks because you have higher standards than that. Remember YOU are the center of your universe. You’re not going to accept to be in orbit around her; it’s unshaky ground that you wouldn’t base yourself on anyways in the future even. These hot women WANT a guy like you because they’re not seeing anything out of the ordinary even. You see right through them straight through the force field because you know they wouldn’t be like that if they weren’t brought up in this society.

You can see clearly now because the clouds are gone and you don’t have unknowing forces holding you back from your full power. Things are be�er now for the ugly, nerdy man than ever in our history. Because if you can just BE A MAN before the rest of America gets this ebook then you’re going to experience your dreams with these hot women who would ‘prefer’ be�er looking guys but as long as they can have someone who can communicate with them sexually and be their challenge to them, you’re good to go. That’s just how are society is with women; it’s who they have become. Fortunately ‘less desirable looking’ guys even have a shot with beautiful women in many other countries as well and I know this for a fact. Just being American alone can hold you at a strong advantage because the women there are looking for someone to take care of them and in poorer countries there will o�en be a larger trade off balance exchange between beauty and even average American financial success for marriage. It’s really almost unfair that I see such a disparity going on but it allows any man to live his dreams. Those women respect themselves but there’s a lot of leverage in what a less than average American guy can offer her. If you’re acting ‘needy’ or ‘clingy’ or give girls that ‘instant ewww’ then you’re probably coming from a state of mind of dependency. A beautiful woman doesn’t want to have to drag you around if you’re hanging on her like a whipped puppy. A woman like this, she wants someone on HER level that she can have FUN with but won’t be clinging on her so there’s not that pressure. International women are where it’s always been at for me until I finally broke open in this profound knowledge (a WHOLE new world has opened up of women who KNOW they look good since my great breakthrough); however international women will always be a part of my worldwide domi-

nation (hehe), umm until I’m married when I will probably choose a traditional woman from another country. How about that? American women couldn’t keep me if she did catch me, and I’m using this as a part of my reality. If you didn’t even get this book and are a ‘good catch’ yourself you can without much trouble find a real wife or have relationships with 10’s from another country if you’re having too much frustration in America. Be aware that millions of women around the world love to be with you and make that fact part of your reality. You will have more success by implementing everything in this book into your paradigm and reality than I think you could have with any of the other seduction techniques, or tricks that are out there. If you’re trying to ‘throw a pick up line on her’ it is obvious that you are coming from a point where you’re ‘trying’ to get her a�ention or approval. She is aware and knows when that is happening. WHO YOU ARE and how you communicate is much much more important than the words you say.l It’s almost everything in fact. You almost have to do the opposite and just be indifferent but be natural and cool around her and she will be forced to respond. Back in the traditional time, we could easily look for a mate with in our hometown and be se�led. Our forefathers and also our foremothers. Maybe only had to date of few people at the most. In order to be ready for marriage. Remember because that things were traditional, both the man and the women were looking for marriage. back in those days of our forefathers, the focus was to find a spouse or a mate and then think about surviving and making it work out through life together, because that was the expected thing to do. One amazing advantage of modern civilization, is that we are now aware of and connected to millions of people around the world. With the empower-

ment of the modern woman and the sexual revolution, it is now acceptable to date as many people as we want on the path to finding a potential marriage partner. Let me look at it from another context, as an empowered man. You can now use and repeat the same a�raction and mating process hundreds or thousands of times. Instead of just looking to get married, or find one mate and focusing on how to survive. Let me restate that again because it is so important: You can now date an unlimited number of women and repeat the same process that is used to create sexual a�raction naturally without having any consequences of marrying her or raising kids, as long as you both know where you are at with that issue. Remember that as men and women, we already inherently know the natural process of a�raction as well as the mating process itself all the way through consummation. With the advent of the condom, as well as new standards in our society and new freedoms for especially women to express themselves. They can experiment and explore an area that has been repressed for a millennia. This means that they can fully explored their own sexuality, without much consequence other than their own conscience. So once again, our modern society gives us opportunities for men and women to basically accelerate the entire mating process, because we no longer are dependent on finding someone to take care of us right away early on in life. All of our basic needs are taking care of and survival is actually quite easy in most civilized countries around the world, and this allows us to work on further self-actualization as well as gives us these opportunities and freedoms. Whether it is right or wrong is up to you, but one thing is for sure, that this is a time in which so many things are happening and accelerating at a pace that has never happened before in history.

We are going through literally many different revolutions, all within the last 100 years. Remember that nothing has really changed beneath it all, we are still men, and they are still women (with a li�le added value and a�ention). It is only that the perceptual dynamics are released surface level and you can choose to accept or deny them. Things that have only got in the way of our understanding of who we our within ourselves no longer have to hold us back. The opportunities of our modern social dynamics are quite plentiful to have quality relationships where both parties can have fun and fulfillment without the heavy commitment of marriage yet.

Redefining Dating for Your Lifestyle It is up to you to decide what kind of dating lifestyle you want to lead. There are different approaches you can take when it does come to dating and dealing with beautiful women. There is the traditional or courting procedure, and then there is something in between which is actually the most common thing in America today. This kind of relationship is more of a 50-50 relationship where there is going to be more compromise than in a traditional courting relationship. If you have dated American women before this is probably what you have done and it is so hard to even escape the idea that this is the only way to have a relationship today. There is the other alternative of AMP (Accelerated Mating Program) which you can choose instead. 50/50 is our modern dating scene which includes doing such things as splitting the bill, doing some of the things that she wants because she actually has interests, giving in to what she wants to do some of the time but not all the time, etc.. This kind of half-and-half relationship really is a product of modern society compared to the hard-core traditionalism of our great grandfathers. Basically there is and has to be a more give and take nature to the relationship due to the fact that she is more independent and can take care of herself. It can lead to marriage, yes but generally a woman is more open minded in the beginning than her traditional counterpart. This kind of relationship can start off from a traditional or recording approach, or it can also be started off a li�le more casually. But either way it will result in a compromise or balance of power essentially between the two people in the relationship, due to the acceptance of the woman’s independence.

The hard-core traditionalists which still exist in America will have a relationship where the man will court the woman, usually in a smaller or rural area, and if she thinks that he would make a good husband than perhaps she will marry him. This is a kind of woman who has less independence and just was not given the opportunity or didn’t want to, to develop her own independence, so naturally she is a li�le more in line with le�ing the man lead in the relationship. Most of the dating that is going on in America and all of the dating that relationship or dating experts are counselors talk about is really coming from more of this 50-50 approach when it comes to dating. And this is just become an accepted way of living and dating in our modern social society, and the men are just having to live with this and except this. One other thing this means for American man is usually this is with women who are not necessarily the most beautiful ones or the ones that they really want to be with in the first place though. In fact a man may be se�ling for a lot less than he wants to because he has found that this less good-looking woman is a li�le nicer in appearance and not as so-called bitchy as the real beautiful ones. Keep in mind that even if you do land a beautiful woman this way, either through casual social acquaintance, a friend, or any other method that if you are going to have a real relationship with third there is going to have to be compromise on both parts in order for their relationship to work. This is just how everyone in America expects it to be, Li�le do they know that the woman’s empowerment is actually the reason why we have a 50% divorce rate. Also very few people realize that traditional marriage does work, but it is just hard to see when all that we know is that we have to unknowingly compromise a li�le bit and go half-and-half in a relationship with an indepen-

dent woman in America today. So this really isn’t looking good for a man anyways right now, even if they do land a beautiful woman and have a relationship with her, they are just going to have to accept the fact that they can not be 100% a real man all of the time, in order to accommodate her drama and her own independence and development, which is who she is and cannot really be changed at all. My father always said, “(It’s) Be�er just to look.” So many men are just accepting this that they will now have to compromise because it is a part of our society and how we all live together. That o�en makes American men overlook the fact that they could still get a traditional wife, usually which would have to be from another country, but that would allow them to be the man that they really are in a long-term relationship where the focus can be on the family and the woman can do her job, her biological role of excepting her place in the family as the nurturer and be the mother for their children, without all of the additional drama that in any pennant American woman would bring to the table. So if you have your mindset on actually having a long-term relationship or a real dating relationship with one of these beautiful women, you will have to accept that you will have to put up with her drama and her energy and her independence, and it is going to cause you probably more strife than you can deal with. Unless you are actually a man who has become weaker (or ‘sensitive’ by always listening to a strong woman’s ‘feelings’) throughout your life due to essentially the power of women, then maybe you can go ahead and accept the fact that you can have a beautiful interesting woman in your life but she will probably wear the pants in the family and you will not really be the man that you really were meant to be and really are. Please understand that I want you to look at our society not in a negative light but in a ma�er which really explains everything because I know that you know marriages for couples that are going through all kinds of prob-

lems, and I know of many myself and I see it everywhere, we’re really just is a power struggle. So in defining what kind of relationship you want to have with beautiful women, maybe you would want to not put up with all of that additional drama and retain your own masculinity. That choice is up to you, and the way that you do that is just to be a man living in your own reality and you really just have to se�le for shorter-term relationships with these women. Let them know your boundaries and don’t see them more than three times a week. Do not have to play the normal relationship role if that is not what you want. Remember that women today would love to express their own individuality and sexuality, and they do have a lot of drama that they carry with them. By you defining the relationship early on that it is only going to be a drama free relationship where you both can essentially partake in physical or physiological aspects with each other, then this leaves most of her drama out of your life and you can control the relationship. Basically if you do everything right you can have a lot of sex, and a lot of wonderful strings free relationships with beautiful women who are looking for essentially the same thing. If you are going to have a normal or 50-50 relationship with one of these kinds of women understand that there is going to be a lot of compromise, so you just going to have to deal with it no ma�er how strong a man you are. But if you go with the approach I am showing you, you can live a life of drama free mutual experience with these beautiful women without all the heavy implications of being in a relationship with her or expecting the traditional path of marriage with her. If you ARE married or know Americans who are (duh), don’t even think that I would try to break them up. The man chose her and they should

be living together in harmony, so it is up to them to be happy and make it work. They ideally should stay together, balance different issues out and they have a fulfilling modern day marriage. Communication is very key in this type of marriage. Just thought I’d bring that up quick. Back to ‘dating’...don’t have her thinking marriage by the things you do with her if that’s not what you want. If you want just a on and off sexual relationship then you’re going to have naturally get that across to her (dude, you already know how to do that from your experience with not as beautiful women). Want to a�ract supermodels and actresses? Understand that most of them are not looking at ‘traditional’ or ‘courting’ behavior unless it’s with a really rich and powerful man (which they will usually play him). 50/50 will be hard to work because of her strong level of drama and how much you will have to concede in that kind of relationship. However, AMP works nicely which I’ll talk about soon. If you want this level of woman in a normal or ‘real relationship’, then you’re going to have to be a real man but you’ll also have to have other things going on that can at least her help take part in the social proof and validation she is used to and needs. This may include you having money (you don’t have to ‘give it to her’), direction, and fame helps but just keep in mind that with these ‘top’ women in the world they’re need for social validation is quite strong indeed so you’re going to have to at least have some things which can appease that part of her without handing over your power. Remember there are rare few real men le� (until they discover their power within from..um, me or realize it for themselves). In fact even international men are entranced o�en by a showcase of a woman’s preening nature and they’ll give her the power right up front as well to. Remember you hold the power.

Of course I can’t guarantee you will get supermodels; that’s on you. Things that can help are; not leading a normal average joe lifestyle, having money and resources, great looks, sense of humor, social status and communication skills, pu�ing yourself in the right places (usually metro cities), having a solid direction and purpose that even she can’t sway, social proof from other women wanting you (leverage in your favor so she has to work to keep your a�ention), intriguing interests and intelligence, etc. Develop yourself as a man and live in your reality. If your focus is on seducing women through techniques but still coming from a frame of where she is in control than you’re not tapping into 1/10 of your inherent dormant power. You just have to understand that power within like I’m giving you the knowledge of here. Unhealthy, less than average looking, unstable, hard edged guys have been ‘scoring’ with beautiful honeys for the past couple decades because that’s all a woman is seeing. This guy is not an uber-player. An uber-player is a woman she would want to be with who does all the right things naturally anyways and can hold any type of relationship of HIS choice with her. If he wants a one night stand and she doesn’t, he walks away without circumstance. He knows that he’s not going to let her try to put him under her sway and drama where she withholds sex and he just can’t be himself around her. So with a 50/50 relationship which you will not be able to escape it’s ‘clutch’ because of it’s ubiquitousness (ie. match.com, cosmo, men’s journal, TV., etc.) you can still have a be�er chance with a beautiful woman just by living in your reality but be aware that she usually comes with more drama and baggage than women who aren’t as image centric. Consider the AMP method.

Sex & the Modern Metro Woman A beautiful, independent single woman is not going to be as traditionally marriage minded when it first comes to meeting men. This is because she is finally able to express her own sexuality and independence which has been repressed for most of time. What this basically means to you is that if you know how to just be a man, you can reach out to the pardon her which just wants to be a woman. This means that you can experience a different type of relationship without much consequence than you were ever able to before in history. With the invention of sexual protection, and the mass marketing of sex in our country, a woman is looking to express yourself and be able to get in touch with all of these feelings that she dreams about with her vibrator or when she reads their romance novels. It is important to note that it is now acceptable for a woman to be with many men, because this is just another one of the things that isn’t part of her own independence and ability to express herself and her own power. This means that she is really going to be open-minded about experiencing relationships that are a li�le more casual in nature without all the heavy drama of the mating procedure leading straight to a commi�ed marriage type relationship. It is now her ability to be able to express yourself and seek out these kind of relationships, and it is now very accepted when she does so. A modern-day metropolitan woman is going to be very independent and leading a life of her own (think ‘Sex and the City’). She can take care of herself and she doesn’t need you to buy her things, or to take care of her. In fact it is kind of a backlash against the traditional thinking in which she was more repressed by having to listen to a man (even though she doesn’t realize perhaps that those are the marriages that really worked).

And without all of the strings a�ached or drama that goes along with traditional courtship, or even a 50-50 dating relationship, she may be very open to having a sensual relationship with you where she can fulfill her sexual desires and really be a woman. This is best done with the AMP approach. When you are FULLY congruent with just being who you are 100% of the time and not le�ing illusional perception change how you react, women will be magnetized by your sexual gravity. Extend out your sexual energy just by being a confident man, grounded in your own reality. They will pick up your body language and read the nonverbal signals. It’s up to you to initiate (if they don’t). Just be cool and yourself. She WANTS to meet a natural and cool guy, ‘naturally’. And if you do have high social status or value that is a plus as well to get it started. There’s no reason to change anything about you when you are around sexy women. When you can be this natural, you DON’T need pick up lines or techniques and you don’t even have to qualify for what they ‘say they want’ (their high level of social values speaking). It’s all about how you communicate with them directly. She may just be ready for an AMP style relationship and even if you aren’t the ho�est guy, she will be drawn into your reality. This sometimes works even be�er for the ho�est of the hot women and you don’t even break a sweat or anything; less than 1% change in response of your physiology. That is your goal. And then just talk to her and be your normal funny, cocky, naughty self. Because most men are either scared of her or are in her reality right away and lost control, she may be ready to have a sexual relationship with a man who doesn’t qualify as her ‘social ideal’. The closer you are to her social persona’s expectations (tall, dark, rich, handsome, etc.) the more you’ll be at an advantage but you really have just be congruent with who you are. When you are supernatural like this, you aren’t sending her “Oh, he’s a player” vibe either. Everything moves along naturally.

Similarities Between Average Girls & Models: Take your Pick

Once you understand and internalize the information here you can have your choice of women. The way I see it without trying to sound too harsh is, let me put it this way..there’s women that just plain don’t even come close to my physical expectations first and I will yes completely rule them out for ANY possibility of a sexual or personal relationship. Remember, it’s a world of abundance and they have options too. Don’t feel like you owe less desirable women (if you don’t prefer them) ANYTHING. Let them want you and be nice to them, don’t be rude but if they’re just not your type then they’re not your type. Remember you will also have to cultivate in difference around beautiful women because you are living in your own reality; and you also realize that that is what a�racts them anyways to you because you are different than all the other men, so they want to see what angle you are coming from. You’ll find that women that don’t fit the societal standard of beauty o�en become outcasts socially in some way and struggle to find their identity because they don’t ‘fit in’. They may have to make up for their lack of physical beauty in other ways, knowing that despite pre�y girls seeming to be ‘mean’, these fuglier girls or average ones will make up for that by being really nice and treating people really well. Men find this a relief because finally there are some women around them that are acting normal. What do average girls have in common with super beauties? They’re both women, duhy. Other than breasts and a vagina they both still have the inherent biological ‘need’ to eventually procreate by finding a man with good genes (relatively in relation to their physical status) who can perpetuate their order and produce handsome (relatively again) healthy offspring.

You really have to look through the social persona and see that in any and all women they are all the same and have the same biological desires no ma�er what their social persona may show you otherwise. Essentially all women are the same and if you have had sexual relations with women in the past you’ll realize that it is inherently the same or similar process of progressing to intercourse with each of them. All women are biologically predisposed to go through these certain emotions when they find a man that can speak directly to that sexual inner being. She may not be able to understand it or explain it (or even want to because she is so full of the emotional fulfillment) but it is there and real. Ok, so we have both women with this underlying need but one group has 10 times more favor than the other one. It’s obvious which side I know you want and so do I. Why? Because we deserve it in order to find a healthy woman from which we can produce good looking offspring that will survive as well. The world isn’t fair. The auglier o�en do fall behind whereas the strong and beautiful are generally more likely to survive. Women who take care of themselves can make themselves look be�er as well. They’re all going to generally ‘survive’ and procreate but now there are all these other social implications in place primarily the ‘forced reality’. What ma�ers to you is that, you probably have been a healthy natural man who has been trying things with women that worked on the lesser good looking ones and trying the same things (same words maybe but in a different reality: hers) with the more beautiful one and it hasn’t been working. If you just cut straight right through the B.S. exterior of a pre�y woman’s faux social persona which she was forced to develop she’s generally just like the average girl once you get to know her. In some cases, case by case, she will be less interesting actually than the

more average girl, she might be unhealthy and emotionally unstable, she could be neurotic (because of her obsessive focus on her beauty as her foundation), or she could be the most intriguing woman you’ve ever met and actually be really intelligent. The only way to find the real her is to just find out. Apart from her faux force field defenses she actually could be more desirable as a real person as well than the average woman but it’s up to you to find out. If she’s neurotic, have a short timer and move on. Stay drama free but keep it win/win physically then. She may want to ‘latch’ onto you and even become obsessive because she found a man that has higher values and stronger principles than she does (forced around her beauty) but I’m talking about a percentage of them. I am generally a�racted to the beauties who ARE actually intelligent and have a life going on and generally are ravens (black hair). Ok let me get something also in here. I’m single-handedly right now declaring that all women with black hair be called ‘ravens’. The cover most of the world yet we only have definition for ‘blondes’ (yawn), redheads and brune�es but not black haired women (when they make up the majority in the world anyways)? That’s just been changed. It’s up to you though what you want to call black haired women but I suggest ravens because that’s what I use (and it has nothing to do with that overweight girl called raven). Ok but since survival is generally easy nowadays what else do these women have in common (average vs. beautiful)? Beyond the basic of wanting a real man for whatever kind of relationship they’d be open to, these days you can never tell. It’s up to you to find out. That’s what it comes down to. Each woman has had different influences in her life and experiences that make her unique stemming from our a�ention deficit society. If you only like beautiful women, go for them and cut straight through the

invisible crap and speak to her directly (and feel the sexual tension while you do) then you can find out how she compares to all your other beautiful options as well. They’re order of natural selection will be to compete for you and give you the best they have if you’re a ‘natural’. Do you have to have anything in common with them? No. These days women are so unique and have their own likes and dislikes (a sign for the road ahead). For short term relationships as long as she’s damn fine who cares? Do you? Do you even have to listen to what she’s saying? Just look at her mouth move, wrinkle your eyebrow or do a Steve Martin listening impersonation. She’s sometimes just happy that someone will ‘listen’. She may actually talk her way into bed with you as long as you’re natural and leading the relationship. This is great for shy guys. So do you have to ‘listen’? If you’re supposed to pick up key information like her phone number or name, yes otherwise not necessarily though that becomes essential in long term relationships to really actually do listen. Wait a minute I’ve o�en forgot a girls name and said it in just the right wait (from MY reality) that she only wanted me more. It was like I had to remember all kinds of girls names that night. Do you have to pick up every word or understand what she’s saying? Heck I listen to friends and I’m only 1/4 there sometimes when they’re talking because I’m doing something else. I also remember yawning when I was in bed with a girl and she was telling me her life story..I think I fell asleep actually. Hey, but the big picture is that I’m in MY reality and she’s a�racted to that. Always come from your reality ALWAYS or she will gain control and then it will go to crap. When you’re in your reality she is biologically a�racted to you and she can’t get enough of you.

The opposite is where you’re a�entively listening, learning forward (a wussy sign) and floating around in circles in her Umlau�ahn. Yes you can listen and take interest (and really do ANYTHING) as long as you’re in your universe and she is the one invited to spend time with YOU. It always comes back to this frame as the context for successful dating, and relationships of your definition with women whether they be average or supermodels. Once you can really see women with the force fields down and that they’re normal people too (well...maybe but you have to find out), you’re not afraid to talk to any of them if you want. You’re not at all threatened by anything. You’re radiating sexual energy which has a gravitational effect on them which is stronger because you know their force fields are down. You melted their defenses. This may not make sense...hey, women seem illogical but I think we can start to see why; they’re just confused because they’re the ones who aren’t acting natural and men are (trying to) but it doesn’t mesh with anything because the context is the woman’s reality is stronger. It also may not make sense just because they have extrasensory perception and are very kinesthetic (feeling oriented); so I don’t know how to explain it but a woman ‘just knows’ and feels your power and gravity so just capitalize on that because she wants to find out if she is right about her senses finding a real man. All women have the same biological functions and when you know how communicate with the ones that YOU want sexually, well..that’s it. Take your pick (they’re everywhere!).

Uber Player: AMP Let’s look at the objective perspective here on an uber-player. This is a new approach to dating which actually works for both parties that are looking for it. It is also known as the accelerated mating program and best accompanies the information in this e-book. I’m going to fit you into the uber-player (above or beyond player) description because when you complete this ebook you will have the knowledge to fully (and without limits) be able to live this life if you so choose because you won’t have ANY of the previous calamities pulling you back. More important than teasing her or challenging her is really coming from your reality. You can be a normal ‘joe’ almost and if you have a strong reality that doesn’t acknowledge pussytrance you will be far ahead of much better looking guys who don’t get it. An uber-player does not go by the rules of traditional (courtship) dating, nor does he abide by the ubiquitous and expected 50/50 American standard of dating today. He is playing an entirely different game which focuses on the biological a�raction inherent in men and women without bringing in the additional drama that she presents. It is a no string’s a�ached kind of relationship that gives him power and choice with women, about 10 times more sex than the average man and also allows women to be fulfilled in a very important way that they are missing and desiring (and it’s not marriage anymore in this short term relationship). If you choose, you can live this reality which I call the “Accelerated Mating Program”. It’s not even dating really, especially by our society’s definition, yet it contains the entire a�raction process from start (meeting) to finish (sex). I will reference this AMP later as well.

Everywhere you go women are naturally a�racted to you and you understand the reasoning behind this. You always expect that crazy things are going to happen. Every time a woman comes up to you, you naturally end up ge�ing her information and adding it to your blackbook; it’s a never miss situation and actually, they usually do come up to you when they stay away from the other guys. You are always natural even in the midst of the most beautiful women and this is the one thing that turns them onto you the most. You are the opposite of all the other men they are around. You have trouble remembering all of your girls names and for some reason they all keep calling you to try and get into your schedule. Because you have mastery over yourself and self control, other men look on in disbelief as women come up to you in every environment or throw you an inviting look or smile. They stand near you and brush up against you. Of course you take advantage of these opportunities. Currently you are seeing about a dozen women. You are rotating them into your schedule and don’t even have time to pick favorites. There’s no strings a�ached and your girls know it. They’re aware that you’re probably seeing other sexy women as well but they don’t mind... they just want to get whatever time they can with you. Sometimes you just have to take a night off from ge�ing laid by different beautiful women just so you can refocus and recenter your energies back on your work and catch up on sleep. Since you are starting to travel more, you have women lined up in every city that you go. Anytime you leave the country you have guaranteed (free) sex even if you don’t have someone lined up.

You expect it and it happens every time. You’re thinking about changing your policy of ge�ing women’s numbers to just giving yours out permanently so she can get a hold of you just like the others ones. You’re ge�ing rid of the less interesting or intriguing ones and sticking with the ones you like the most; maybe they’re taller than average and have great fashion sense, beautiful skin, model like bodies and black hair with a few blondes thrown in as well. You almost have to beat women off with sticks because they pick up that you’re a wanted man just from your energy even when you aren’t with other women. There’s no way you can tell your buddies of the things you’ve done with some of these women especially when you travel because they won’t believe you. You’re starting to get opinions on which of your ladies would like to do a menage-a-trois and you match her up with one of your other girls and see if they hit it off. Li�le does one of them know that you’re going to get rid of her a�er it’s over. And if they leave you for each other; what’s be�er than that? You’ve got the ho�est women around you all the time. It’s no different in the club situation where you o�en just taken women right home with you and get it on and these are the women who don’t normally do that either. You have a new project coming up so you’re going to have to cut your sextime in half just to get the project done. This is a taste of the life you can live. Of course you can tailor it to yourself and add fast cars, explosions, guns, bling, music, rubber duckies, whip cream whatever you want. Sometimes you’ll be like ‘all right, let’s go’ to a 9 instead of your usual choice of a 10 for a one nighter. You tell your women what to wear when they come over and to bring some food over and they do.

This is just a taste of the life you can be living which is what women, beautiful women would possibly be open to. Because you are indifferent you let them know what kind of frame the relationship is going to have upfront and then you can take them or leave them. Throughout the rest of this e-book you will continue to realize how you can be this kind of man if you want to, because you will have the knowledge to apply it. But before we go on, let me throw some other thoughts in here first.. A li�le about me? Yes I’ve dated 3 women at the same time before on several different occasions. This was when I was like most American men though and still confused. What’s important here is the energy and vibe you’re throwing off. All of a sudden you’re not throwing off a needy vibe. It is more important than you’ll ever realize because a woman can sense this even when you ‘aren’t’ with any of them. This was before the huge breakthrough though. I’ve had women approach me and start new relationships during period like this easily. Why? Foundationally, I was living in my reality and they were naturally a�racted because I wasn’t giving in to their power and sometimes not even acknowledging them. Have you experienced this before? Granted these women were hot but they still weren’t ‘top shelf’ because this was ‘before’. Have you noticed that o�en you might have ‘spells’ or periods where you’re dating several women and then you have ‘dry spells’ where you’re needier and ‘looking’ for someone you can have a relationship with. This understanding is really like a 6th sense that women have. Sometimes it travels across thousands of miles and they can pinpoint down to a moment when you’ve moved on or gained your independence of thought from them and THAT’S when they’ll call. I’ve had it happen to me several times.

In the movie Swingers at the very end of the movie it just sums it up perfectly. Because of that profound sixth sense in our lives and that universality, I think that movies become a sleeper hit just because it includes that. How does ‘T’ Trent get all the women and Mikey has a hard time? Because Mikey scares them off with his needy vibe that every other guy is giving them; he’s showing too much interest when she has the power advantage.in the social situation. It’s really quite simple. What happens in the trailer of the Vegas girls is not only very funny but it says a lot about our modern social dynamics. Mikey’s afraid to be a real man and he’s still stuck on his ex-girlfriend. Trent ‘checks in on him’ and it looks like he’s kissing her but he’s being a wuss and ge�ing her into ‘friend mode’. A friend mode where he’s showing his wussiness and not coming from his own reality...he just doesn’t get it. When you’re in a situation like that and at that point, she’s ready to go as long as you’re natural in being a man. Trent (Vince Vaughn) says it perfectly with: “You start talking about puppy dogs and ice cream, it’s going to end up on the friendship tip.” Just because you’re now dealing with ‘beauty exemplified herself’ doesn’t mean you have to find a channel or way to divert the energy by becoming a wuss and finding an easy way out once you understand the content of this eBook. Remember, you’re already a man and you know inherently what to do in that situation especially if you’ve already made out a few times and had sex. I’ve also found that when I know I’m going to have sex with her (a�er we get things started), it just naturally happens. Now it may not be the first night because o�en they’ll want to not be seen as a ‘whatever’, but it will almost always happen with a strong intent as long as you’re on the AMP approach and not the 50/50 or when stars collide. I remember being in Rio de Janeiro and somehow I just felt hardcore ‘pimp’ and clear in my purpose and energy (basically like a badboy) so I went in

a club that night with a dominant reality KNOWING and expecting great things to happen and within two minutes I had the ho�est girl kissing and hanging off of me in front of the bar. Do you think I gave in to her reality? She wanted to be in mine. You’re going to have to look at the Universal evidence of what I am giving you. You will also realize that all men that are successful with women share the same commonalities that I am teaching you..so you are covered, all in one place right here for your foundational paradigm shi� and new reality. If it hasn’t been working, do what does work if you want to get different results, and follow those who are successful. Throughout the rest of this e-book you are going to gain a tremendous amount of information which you can use to get in touch with the man of power and effectiveness that you really are when it comes to dealing with women.

NLP, Pick-up Lines & Techniques

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Your New Reality Why technique almost doesn’t even ma�er - really. If you’re in the wrong paradigm in the first place, you’re just not going to experience anywhere near the level of success that you could. This is because you are still on shaky ground in her reality and not understanding the biological reality of the power you deserve and that she responds to. This eBook will not even talk about pick up lines because you can now just approach her normally, like you would when meeting guys because you are indifferent in your own reality. This is the foundational reality which is worth more than all of those other training programs combined if you really internalize everything here. How you talk to her will come to you naturally and you are closer than you think with the enormous leverage and wisdom here. NLP and seduction is trying to speak to her on the biological level (if they are good at what they are providing) but it is still based on a frame of shaky ground. All this ‘technique’ energy is almost wasted time without figuring the universal truth of ‘why’ they’re doing it in the first place. It’s hit or miss. This whole eBook is dealing with the universal paradigm, context and foundational psychology upon which everything is based. You can see why most men are hi�ing the wall, and perhaps understand why you have in the past with them (as well as I have realized). Women, beautiful women respect honesty. You can be 100% yourself and if you like sex and that’s where you’re coming from you can let her know

(from within the frame of your reality) right at the beginning of the relationship. She won’t deny it if you are congruent with that belief. Then it’s up to her and you’ll take her or leave it doesn’t ma�er. But if you can just be ‘honest’ with women you’re more aligned to your natural’ self anyways and it will stem outward from living in your reality and universe. It’s when you are pussytranced (later down the road leads to pussywhipped) that you will start doing all kinds of techniques that appear dishonest to her. Be the Rated “R” guy where she doesn’t know where you’re coming from. If you can just approach her WITHOUT having your balls on a pla�er, she won’t know what to do or where you’re coming from. This provides a natural challenge for her to respond instrinsically. You can’t be rated be a rated ‘G’ wussy whose got rated ‘XX’ thoughts on his mind. This isn’t honesty and they can see right through it. Be the direct approach Rated R guy with her who clearly sees through any sign of social persona and you don’t have to deal with that drama anyways. Don’t be a Lenny (more on this later). Like the terminator you can walk into any environment especially a socially status powered one and you visualize for yourself their force fields just by glancing around and you can take your knowledge and ‘power down’ their illusional forcefields so they completely disappear. Now you will see friendly approachable women who really are your equals. Eye contact: who do you think looks away last when you’re in YOUR reality. She does and I don’t care how beautiful she is, don’t you look away first because it’s a sign to her that yep, she does have the power. When you’re coming from your reality it’s not even a problem. It’s almost

like you’re ‘daring’ them or provoking them a li�le just with your look and showing that you’re not afraid and are a real man. There’s not even a ‘staring’ problem that creeps her out with guys that are pussytranced. You’re not focused on her breast or her beauty...you want to see if she’s more than a pre�y face and see if she has some value to offer or is an interesting person behind the facade that other guys see and you don’t. Yes I will have more techniques later to add on top of the ‘mastermind’ state when it comes to approaching women. Really your paradigm of universal understand and reality of power allows you to live your life more fully and in harmony with natural congruency (instead of trying to be someone you’re not).

Your Secret Weapon: Indifference to any outcome

Remember that you are living in your own reality and you’re not going to succumb to the forced reality which society has placed so aptly in front of you. You really live in a different reality and paradigm; it is like seeing the matrix one shoe really become congruent with the, because you know that women are still women and they want you more than ever to be a real man. This is all just a fake front that has held men back for about 30 years from doing their natural part to approach and a�ract women to begin the natural biological process they inherently know to do. Because you are living in your own reality you are really in different to any response that she can have. You really can’t take her or leave her it does not ma�er one bit to you. You should never put too much focus on any particular outcome, because none of it ma�ers anyways. You know that you can get women everywhere you go and in fact they usually come up to you. The beautiful women will not be able to figure out how you can be so indifferent towards out when all of the other men would do anything for them. This means that you are naturally a challenge to them and so they are pulled towards your own sexual gravity. Any man that is a challenge for them they are going to be a lot more interested in finding out if he is really a man. And if you really are a man acting naturally through the smokescreen, their biological response (which has been built up and is repressed because they can’t find a real man) will forcefully pull her into your reality, and she won’t

be able to control herself from your leading naturally; she’ll be glad someone finally ‘gets it’. And because you really are indifferent even when she is in your reality, you now have her in your orbit. But you really must remain indifferent. If all of a sudden you have a beautiful woman at your side, and you “lost it” than she will resent you for not being a real man, because you have lost your indifference. Remember that the only thing greater than your indifference (as a general technique or rule of thumb), is the fact that you are living in your own reality and you are not giving in to the forced reality that has been built up by our society to prevent you from communicating with her to start the natural accelerated (no strings a�ached) mating process. So when you’re out there you should not be having to think what technique you have to use because you are living in your own reality, but just remember this if you’re in the transition phase to becoming fully congruent, is just to remain indifferent. This means that your energy should not go either way; remember that she is aware of your energy. So if you can remain completely neutral by being indifferent, she will want to try to figure out what angle you are coming from and the sexual communication between you two can take its natural course. So do not forget to remain indifferent, but you really have to be congruent with that and it is a lot easier when you have accepted the traditional paradigm of biological existentialism and you are living in your own reality. The moment you become too ‘anxious’ or realize how hot she really is, watch out, she can sense the energy and wants you to retain the power. The magnetic magic pull. Magic stick, whut, whut? If you are really indifferent, and are congruent with this belief (which eas-

ily manifests itself all the time), it alone will a�ract beautiful women everywhere you go. In fact the most beautiful women will wonder why you are not interested in them so they may be more likely to be interested in you, and take things to a physical or sexual level because of the high leverage of repression that they have gone through recently.

Return to Blue Lagoon Have you ever seen the movie “Return to Blue Lagoon”? I remember seeing it well over a decade ago. Basically the whole premise is there is a young man and a young woman (both pre�y good-looking I guess) who were dropped there as children and had no contact with any civilization. They learn how to survive. And guess what one may reach the right age? Exactly you know what happens. Is this a coincidence? They were dropped there when they were kids there was no way they could know how to do what they were doing or discover it. It is biological that they were able to figure out how to have sex, which would lead to procreation. I want you to think about this for awhile. Because if you take away all of the additional junk that we are inundated with in our daily life, and go back to our basic routes without anyone to tell us what to do, we would know NATURALLY how to go through the sexual a�raction or mating process. Now I want you to contrast this with our society today where we end up with something like the 40 year old virgin. And this is sad and true because I know there are many men like this in America. On the island in the blue Lagoon, they didn’t discover anything new; I guarantee they would have figured it out anyways (once wardrobe was off the set) because it’s in their evolutionary nature to. Just like all species on Earth, we are prewired to know how to reproduce. This is how we all got here. Now we do not need sex ed to teach us this, because if you do strip everything away it is a natural and biological process; inherent in all of us.

Let me repeat we are pre-wired to know what to do when it comes to attracting and mating with the opposite sex. But what has happened is all this additional junk has got on top of it to screw up the process (or our perceptions have stopped us from living are real biological inherent nature and knowledge of the process). We are just le�ing added value crap get in the way. Sure you could fantasize about some supermodel in you on an island, but eventually of course you would have sex anyways. But the whole point is that no had to teach you because we all know how to do it from birth when we reach the age; both men and women are prewired for this biological mating procedure or mechanism. What would happen to animal species if anything of superfluous value would interrupt the natural biological process of mating? You’ll have male monkeys that don’t mate with the females and would thus eventually lead to extinction. What if a shark doesn’t eat its food in nature and instead refuses to eat it because it has become a ‘vegetarian’? Species would not perpetuate themselves and our whole biological order would through time die out (if all of them were like this). I’m not saying that no people are having sex in America (nature finds a way) but if you seriously look at the implications here you will realize what is going on in America. The unbiological reality of giving extra value to women’s beauty is throwing the biggest wrench in a man’s ability to approach, a�ract and begin the mating sequence properly. Would you know what to do? OF COURSE YOU WOULD. It is inevitable unless she’s really ugly. You’re viewing it from the paradigm of the forced reality.

Of course you would know what to do (especially now), but because it is biological, natural and instinctive. Nature finds a way. You may have to make diapers out of leaves though. Or use a jellyfish for a contraceptive (ouch). Society today and the role reversal has got men all screwed up, even to thinking that they wouldn’t know what to do with a woman if they were the only two on earth on a desert island. Once you figure out what works (the information here) and apply it by just reclaiming your natural inheritance and exercising it you’ll realize that women are generally the same. You can create spark sexual a�raction, passion and sometimes obsession (more dependent oriented) in the exact same method over and over with different women everywhere you go or with every relationship you have. You’ll notice that women naturally act exactly the same when it comes to sex and ge�ing turned on. Unless you’re a 40 year old virgin you probably have noticed this. I want you to think in retrospect back; have you noticed that you went through the same basic process each time you made love to a woman? From the one you took for the home team (ok maybe that was a li�le different) to the best looking ones, it was always the same basic process. Some sexual tension, some making out and things led from there you know the deal. A�er you had your first couple of times it became ‘natural.’ For women, they know the process too and this goes for all the beautiful women as well. Why would there be anything different when having sex with a beautiful woman as compared to an average woman? No...if you’re thinking she expects ‘more’ out of you than you gave to other women then you’re entering into ‘her’ universe and that’s the wrong answer.

You’ll always be fine, stud, when you’re in your reality. Then everything continues to pursue along the natural progression that it was. However, make sure you read my Chapter on ‘Down Boy’. Also, once you know how to create passion in your first 10, then you have a new standard of personal experience to back up future spelunking tours. When you keep the whole process NATURAL because that’s what it is (and that doesn’t exclude doing all kinds of phreaky things once you’re both hot and horny) then the sexual progression culminating in sex is just a normal thing. She gets to feel the passion and heat as well. She wants it probably a lot more than the slightly above average girl because she has all this pressure built up in her and her expectations to stay beautiful. Once you’re in, you’re in like Flynn. A�erwards you’ve broken down the major relational ‘barrier’ anyways so you can relax more (yeah right a�er) but you were relaxed anyways because you were natural and you’re not le�ing her beauty get you too out of control. Ok, it’s all right to do a li�le 2 step a�er she leaves for a few seconds but this is an important point: true naturals are like, yeah so what? Why not always sleep with beautiful women if that’s what you want and you both communicate that together? She’s looking for it too. She is repressed. If you’re thinking like ‘dammnnn’ she was the ho�est one I ever had sonnn.. just keep it within your reality. NEVER let her know that EVER. Don’t profess your feelings for her or you become an instant wuss and a satellite in her orbit. BE COOL. We got here because our ancestors ‘found a way’ to reproduce. Life simply ‘finds a way’ or in the words of beavis and bu�head, “just think...all those kids are here because two people..’did it’”. They didn’t have to put up with the drama that American women present

today which makes it more challenging. As men we are roaming, reluctant warriors, we are survivors but since all of our needs are taken care of there is so much stuff that is covering up the natural a�raction process between men and women. It’s really in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. People in poor countries and economies can’t develop like we can because they are still struggling with the daily basics of ge�ing food, shelter and clothing. Few resources are provided for them to move on and there is not an abundance or development of quality of life they can sustain. In America, Europe, Australia and other civilized, developed countries we now take this for granted but we have been able to climb up Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. We’re concerned about whose IM’ing us when many people struggle to survive. It may not seem feasible to us that people could live like that but they are. What’s also interesting is that many of those people are the nicest people and happiest you’ll ever meet. We have so much overwhelming drama, choice and opportunity that comes with the expansion of technology. Why is it that Asian women generally are more loyal, faithful and devoted than almost any other women? Because it’s part of who they are; it’s their culture and how they were brought up. It’s natural to them and they don’t nag or complain about basic tasks. Inside not only do we men feel confused because of all this but I really think that women feel they’re missing something too. It’s in their biological NATURE to want to raise and care for their family (kids) and to be a mother. So you see Nicole Kidman and other powerful independent women either they use men as boytoys, find men on their level and then they both get divorced, or just end up in solace wanting to have kids.

A woman naturally WANTS to have kids. It is her biological duty to become a mother. Remember even the super independent women and celebrities have this ‘natural urge’ to be a mother on top of the power of choice they have now of other distractions in life. There really are different roles. The reason I have focused so much time on this big picture of relationships is to explain what is going on fundamentally. A woman now lives in a world that is not aligned to her biological purity (despite all of her advantages and other opportunities to live her life and add value to the world now). In a way you could say this is a ‘Forced Reality’ from your perspective in that it is only covering up our biological basics. Funny how woman always still has the urge for motherhood; Sarah McLachlin, Britney Spears, you name it. Yea, it is not the traditionally raised woman whose main goal is motherhood to therefore be a bitchy woman. Most of our women can’t help it. Men give in to their demands, society has placed so much pressure on them to be ‘beautiful’ and maintain the standard (and compete with one another) that a whole invisible shroud has been made that is covering the underlying biological reality of the mating process. The best thing is just to change your entire state of mind of where you’re coming from. You really have to see the underlying paradigm and essentially ‘deny’ her illusional front or ‘forced reality’ or ‘shroud’ when it comes to the mating game. Because she still is a woman, and remember that the paradox is; she is wondering where the real men are. And you will study this more throughout this eBook. When you are playing the game of “AMP” (Accelerated Mating Program),

you are aware through knowledge and continuing experience that the sexual a�raction and communication process is basically the same with all of the women you encounter. They get turned on in similar ways, and actually you can get them to a point where they literally become paralyzed and say ‘take me now’. Your knowledge of everything that is going on here and knowing they all women have these biological sensibilities and desires will allow you to fulfill their desires when you can systematically lead them (as a natural man) through the process (without the commitment of having a kid every time). She may think it is coincidence, but it didn’t ma�er because you are being natural and you are a man. You can sweep her off of her feet and give her what she biologically and psychosexually desires. And you can do this over and over again. If you ever forget, just remember to go back and Return to the Blue Lagoon; where you have the birthright and so does she to know how to naturally go through the mating process.

Where Have All the Cowboys Gone? When you go back to the original paradox, women are saying, “Where are all the real men?” O�en it is even the feminists who are really wondering this inside themselves as well. They are finding that less and less men will actually stand out to them as their equal. A beautiful woman is very aware of her sexual power and choice with unnatural acting men. This is why you really have to be cool and remain in your own reality. If you start doing things that are more natural of a woman (to do) and start acting like a girly man, you could be seen as a desperate man. This is the trait that is more commonly associated with women traditionally, although it may be hard to believe. You’ll o�en noticed that a�er time in a relationship, a woman really becomes the wuss and real emotional. You do not have to fall in to any perceived notion that you have to question whether it is okay to approach a woman; of course it is. It is your biological right. A woman is generally more emotional in nature inside (despite her hard edged exterior or social persona). Today in America the dynamics have changed and woman is stronger so many men will naturally do things that without knowing that are really more feminine, because a woman has a lot of power over them. Remember that you always have options, and that there are many fish in the sea. Once you start ge�ing too caught up in one while many emotionally and with all of your energy, historically, she will want to run from you because

you are not being a real and natural man anymore. Maybe you notice that she didn’t return your phone calls, in situations where you really started to get too interested and thought about her, all of the time. It has happened to me also. Just think of it as a transfer of the balance of energy in the relationship. Once you start losing control and falling in love with her, that is most likely when she will want to run away. Why? Because naturally she is a woman and doesn’t really want to have that level of power and responsibility on her part, she may despise it and really resents it inside. Because she wants you to be the man even though she won’t tell you because of modern society has got all this garbage and junk on top of it that is confusing her. This really explains the dynamics of probably millions of relationships in the past three generations that we have all experienced here within the United States alone. A woman today, especially a very beautiful woman, is aware of the relationship dynamics and very sensitive to who really has the power in the relationship. She is very aware of this and if you tell her your feelings for her, she will get ready to run away. Because the power and direction of the relationship will be under her control which is biologically unnatural. That is why she resents it. Women are still women. If you are going to be friends with a woman, you had be�er really just have in mind that you are going to be real friends with her. Women can sense if you have another motive. They are very aware of a man’s intentions and his energy.

Also, if you know that your idea isn’t friendship with a woman, by living in your reality you won’t appear to ‘nice’ to her. I used to have the problem of being too nice to women. This was primarily because I was confused and didn’t feel ‘worthy’ to be with them sexually or know what to say. Nice guy is a form of wussy where primarily you are just giving in to her energy instead of being grounded in yours. As I grew more in my strength of individuality and purpose, I became more effective with women and wasn’t just ‘a nice guy’. I don’t want them to call me a ‘nice guy’. When you become congruent with your reality and new paradigm you will find it will ‘fix’ just about ALL of your problems that you had before. You can’t act natural and say that you are, because what you are basing everything on is her energy, and her reality. You have to be natural and your energy has to come from your own reality. It is not enough just to try and act natural because, although you are doing the natural things traditionally that would have a�racted a woman, the only thing that is ge�ing in the way (and this is a huge thing) is that you are shi�ing your center of power from yours to hers even without being aware of it. Because of our constant edification and upli�ing of pu�ing beauty on a pedestal throughout our society, it has become an unnatural response for a man to shi� his energy from his center to hers. I know you have experienced this before, and so have I as well, but men will save the traditional unnatural things, if they aren’t too nervous but don’t realize that they are approaching and talking to her, knowing that she is the one with the power because they are in a pussy trance. What men don’t realize today is that even though they are doing that traditional things which they have always done throughout all of time; which may include asking her what her name is, if she would like to go out on a date, or any other kind of normal things, what they don’t just realize is that

he used all about, who has the power in the relationship from the very beginning. It is all about who is in frame control. Because they are actually in a pussy trance (when approaching that shorty with beautiful skin in the tight jeans), they think that they are acting normal and can’t figure out what is going on. They will say normal things to her (or so they think), but you’d really be is all about their body language, and where they are coming from as a man. The fact that they are coming from the wrong frame of mind completely, (which is actually an invisible thing to them) explains everything that is going on, because the woman can sense every ounce of that energy. She knows that he is basically handing his balls to her on a pla�er, and seeing if he be so lucky as to get a chance with their. Of course this means that he is just going to get shot down. So now you can go ahead and laugh at the other men, who will always keep doing this, but you now know be�er. And you may have to have a moment of silence for yourself because of all the past screw ups you had in the past. Remember that it is okay to be a man, and though we think that we are acting natural by saying the things that are traditional and inherent to us, remember that the dynamics have changed and that she has this forced reality of power, which puts us into a pussy trance and essentially gives her the power right from the very beginning. As men we do not understand this power of what is going on with this invisible force, you just have to take my word for it that a beautiful woman knows what is going on exactly inside of you. So this really answers the main issue of what men have a problem with: “Why is she acting like this or turning me down right away?” Another thing that you must understand is that every other average Joe or even good-looking guy that goes up to her is saying about the exact same things as you.

The fact that you are actually trying and doing something or have in the past, he is a somewhat good sign, but it really doesn’t help much if you come in from the wrong place in the first place. You also cannot be self-conscious about yourself, wonder what she’s thinking, trying to figure out if she likes you, thinking you’re not ‘good enough’ for her...none of this is evident when you are congruent with your reality and centered in it. I remember looking into the eyes of a latina a�er we did something and I put on some music and almost became a wuss. I told her, “I think I’m falling for you.” The reason she didn’t run away (although she was very beautiful especially her skin and face) was because she had a self image that was 10 times lower than mine of myself. I understood the power I actually had over her once I was in. This is the same thing that happens to people when they don’t have control over their actions it may lead to domestic abuse when they are in a traditional relationship (usually) where the man is very masculine and the woman is feminine and quite weak and dependent. A small percentage of men will abuse their wives and of course this is wrong because it violates a basic human independent right. Marriage is ultimately interdependent or a balance of both sides (different dynamics and roles in America’s 50/50 and pure traditional marriage) but he may abuse his right over her dependently. Don’t ever do this to a woman even if you are aware that you have the power. I’ve used the fast forward technique and saw that if I married a woman so weak the polarized strong side of me would want to come out even though I know I would never abuse a woman physically. Just be aware of your power and respect it. Hold on while I put my wifebeater away. (Come on, that was funny).

One advantage you could say of feminism is that more independent women are less likely to be abused in relationships where they have the control and power. Unfortunately the man gets oppressed. But if you realize the nature of our social dynamics are that we can be interdependent with each other, the AMP method provides a way for you to purely have a relationship on the sexual, sensual biological nature within two people (you and her). So back to our main subject here of retaining emotional control and solvency; when you are coming from your own reality and understand the universal paradigm and underlying biological factors you know that her ‘added value’ (which you used to blow way out of proportion) is just the only smokescreen from you having a potential relationship with her. It also the one thing that allows other men to be turned down before they even start with her. How? Remember that she can sense a man’s energy and can tell that he is bewildered or in a pussytrance from her. That is the man (most all American men) who is focusing on the ‘forced reality’ of the screentime we have given to beauty and they are throwing that perception onto her. You know that it is just a screen and you want to find out what she is really like by being indifferent and coming from your own reality. You know that you deserve beautiful women in your life and because you are so strong in your own reality and have boundaries, you are on unstable ground where you would be subject to her perceptual powers. She may seem like the Queen Bee to other men with all of her drama. I have realized that I am not afraid of real bees when I am around them..they are less likely to a�ack. You cannot show fear. You are the predator. I have killed bees or swa�ed them away if they interfere with my independent reality. Most men let this ‘buzzing bee’ around them get them all flustered.

I know you have seen how most people react around bees. Be conscious of how you react from now on. It is not going to kill you. You are above it in the food chain so maintain your center. I am not afraid of bats anymore either because I have experienced them close up and killed them. Yes, it will slow me off for a li�le bit when one comes ‘swooping’ into the room all of a sudden, but then I regain my composure and grab the near swinging object to kill it with. If it’s violating my independence or zone, it’s got to be handled. If something is in your reality that do not want to be, then tell it to leave (if you’re married, that’s another story). A bat’s natural habitat is not in my energy zone or reality. I will not live in fear or have it ‘taking over’ my reality, period. If I do not kill it, it will remain and keep trying to haunt me while invading my reality; but I will not live in fear. If you can cultivate this strength within, women will be very a�racted to your reality of truth and lack of compromise. You have to be a real man and stand up to your biological inheritance without le�ing any superfluous ‘perception’ get in your way of what women want anyways. Do not let there in the pennant scare you away either. They are more feminine than ever on inside, and are dying to express themselves with real men. And if you set up the right kind of relationship you can avoid most of her drama and she will be happy as well. If you can develop this conscious state of mind of knowing your boundaries and being impervious to ridiculous energy, it will really help you when around beautiful women. You are very cool in the face of a perceived threat or dramatic distraction. The queen bee may look like she may harm you but she can’t as long as you are a natural and interdependent man. Bee the man that she wants inside.

Drama Queen:

How a Beautiful Woman or Model Thinks A woman who takes part in this perceptual reality of added value to beauty itself, and always has men whining or baking at her feet, she is going to live a li�le bit differently than a more traditional woman. A model is a woman who gets the extreme level ‘do anything for her’ treatment from men. This causes her ego to skyrise and you can kind of understand why. She gets a�ention all the time and has the power of choice. Because so much of her time is spent around maintaining her image, she is not as grounded as a more traditional woman, and therefore will have a lot more drama because she is basing her entire paradigm on a superficial reality that is not biologically accurate. It is all of this ‘added value’ or a�ention that she is receiving that allows her to supposedly treat men the way she does. Li�le do most of the men realized that this is just a social persona, and that she is still looking for real men who will not give in to her every desire or demand just to be with her. She is so sick of men who are just always pandering to her, and literally drooling to be around very and within her sight, that it just sickens her. It is boring her to death. So when a guy like you comes around she is going to be almost relieved that you are unlike every other guy that has come up to her. She can finally let down her guard a li�le bit and relax because she knows that you’re not going to hang onto her coa�ails. Of this is the thing that actually a�racts her to you, because you are finally being natural and you are being a real man. Beneath all of her physical radiance in this invisible forced reality, men always seemed to lose their own centers, even if they are a man every other

minute of the day itself. You have to live in your own strong reality and understand what is going on in order to be able to see through the false barrier that has been holding you back through all this time. Don’t think that just because you are interested in her that she is going to be interested in you. Remember that she is the one who is always ge�ing attention from men. Everywhere she goes, everything she does in public, she is aware that men are probably watching her and thinking all kinds of crazy things in their mind what they would like to do with her. You must really understand that a woman like this is not going to be interested in down just because they are interested in her. Remember that she has a perception that she has all the power and all the men are ge�ing into this. She does resent this deep down. She is not trying to be a bitch, rather that is a time management tool to keep all of these needy clingy man out way from her and out of her life. She just wants to go out and have a good time without men having to be so “lifedraining” or bloodsuckers. She cannot stand the energy drainers, although she tries a pond of service level of a�ention. She is becoming more and more lonely and sexually repressed because she cannot find enough real and healthy men who are attracted to her. This point is so important. You must really understand it and internalize it. This means that you are going to have to do something else, because the tables have turned. Remember that she is the one who has social status and leverage with the power that society has given her. She gets favors and a�ention from men all the time.

If you are just going to give her a tension that is really just handing over your own power, you may as well just write it off, along with the millions of men who are doing this daily in our country. Now, you may have a be�er chance if you are a good-looking guy or has something else going on. Then she might look into seeing if you are really a man are not. If she senses that when she approaches you, and it turns out that you are in awe of her beauty, she will very shortly therea�er leave you. Can you see why women are so frustrated today? All they see is that men are just so in awe of their beauty in this ‘forced reality’ that our society has produced, that even when men think they are being man, they are not being men (if only for the reason that they are unknowingly giving her the power through how they are reacting inside of them). So it is important for you to remember that you must always come from your own center, and be aware of all of the different implications of the social dynamics. A�er all these years, she still wants you to be a man and a man is not being a man anymore when he goes up to her and is basically handing over his power to her. Nothing has changed in that sense, from tradition, a woman is still a woman even if she is as beautiful as she is. She does not want to reject all of the man that come up to her, but she almost has to just to keep them from sucking her energy and draining her like a leech. There is no way that she could possibly be with all of those men. All she wants is a real man, and this allows any man now in this modern society, who is being a man to actually have a chance with her even if he is less than what she really wants tall dark, handsome and good-looking. There is a difference between what she wants and what she wants when she’s with you because you communicate directly to her and have the power of biology and history in your favor; she has to respond or feel something

and will o�en put aside your other aspects. You see to a woman, your personality and how you communicate with her is more important than your looks or money for ge�ing her to respond to you a�er you start the process of natural a�raction. She will literally put aside your other factors (this explains why pudgy, older men o�en score ho�ies). She has leverage to find a real man in today’s society building up in her to make her emotional response stronger or sometimes uncontrollable. She may want Tom cruise or Brad Pi�, but no ma�er where you are in the looks department if you can show her that you are a real man then you stand a much be�er chance of against her. Actually, it’s not even that you stand a chance when you are coming from your own reality is that you just can not lose and she is the one who is in your orbit. And she will go into a normal regular girl mode. You have to communicate with the part of her that he is beyond all of the beauty and that is still just a li�le girl that has her own li�le issues in her own li�le life. As Vince Vaughn said in Swingers, “I don’t know if she’s talking about how hard it is to be adopted or how her stepfather is treating her...but deep inside there’s this special dream..” Let me reiterate this from another angle: In the global context of our social dynamics, it may appear that she has the power, but this is only an illusion, because deep inside from your own reality, you know that you are a man and you just have to communicate with the part of her that is a girl that is beyond all of this external crap that society has built up. Gwen Stefani sang, “I’m just a girl.” Think about it. She is a feminine species who has inherent biological response mechanism when the mating game starts with someone who knows what they’re doing and could be a potential mate (nowadays it’s jsut someone who knows what he’s doing often because of her repressed leverage). ‘Underneath it all’ she is still a girl. She has feelings (umm...I guess, and a

lot of them) and daily issues and probably has done a lot more dorky things than you would guess. If the rest of the natural world was allowing something superficial to get in the way of natural selection, all forms of life would not be able to perpetuate themselves and thus go extinct. Keep in mind we are the only species that replicates the mating process for sexual pleasure; these dynamics allow opportunities for both sexes to experience the process without consequence (in most cases). Hey, it is our gi� and curse in a way and we are at the top of the food chain. Sex guarantees our survival and perpetuation. Remember though, that this ‘social persona’ she puts up is really just an illusion, this forced reality that our society has given her. Really, she is waiting and wanting just to talk to a real man can speak to her normally which can be sexy in itself; you see all kinds of guys will go up to her, when they know that she has the power and they might try to say some kind of sexy mind and think that it will turn her on. This is not recommended anyways unless you have used it several times effectively and know how to do it. She gets so disgusted with all of the men being the same and really just handing over their power even though they are a strong man in possibly everything else. It doesn’t even ma�er what you say, it is all about how you say it. There will be all kinds of guys that go up to her in a social environment, and will immediately get rejected even if they have something unique to say if they are coming from the standpoint of giving her the power. Once again, because men aren’t aware that she realizes she is the one who is in control of the relationship, which is against her biology (she doesn’t want it to be like that dude) when you go up to her feeling lucky to be able to be near her presence or her highness, then you are just not ge�ing it.

You can do the traditional things such as introduce yourself, and you are a nice guy, but it doesn’t ma�er to her. What she sees is that you are just another regular guy, who is just handing over your power to her right from the very beginning. Lets look at a scenario like this; let’s say that she is approached by a 100 men in a weekend. Lets assume that all of the man asked her the exact same question such as, “Hey, how’s it going?” It can be something as simple as that, but what she is obviously aware of is where each man is coming from. Do you think she is going to go for all of the guys where she naturally senses that they are feeling lucky to be near her? Or do you think that she is going to be more interested in a man like you, who is going to come from your own center? Remember that especially because of our social programming, a�ention she gets, emotional nature, opportunities for expression, and many other reasons, she has become full of drama. There are unlimited factors now which may lead to the development of her personality and she is unique. She stands apart. Beneath it all though, she is still just a girl and wants to be loved (not from dependent seeking wussies either), but from a real man.

Traditional vs. Independent Female Psychology (& You) Remember that there are two ‘general’ categories of women in the world as far as social dynamics go. I will purposely polarize these though many women have a li�le bit of the other in their foundational personality as well. Traditional women are generally thinking in terms of landing a man for marriage. This is their general precept when looking at the dating scenario. O�en an independent women will be ge�ing older and then realize that she be�er ‘get a man’ because it’s her biological duty and then she may try to take on more traditional aspects and promote those in front of prospective candidates (men). The real traditional stereotypical woman in America is for some reason actually blonde. She’s not super-smart (nor does she need to be) and she is quite a girly girl. She was on the cheerleader squad and is still marriage minded. She was probably brought up in a rural community where she went to church a lot. In other cultures, tradition and conformity to societal standards is generally expected of women so they naturally don’t develop too much to become too independent. American popular influence has transformed even these women into expecting more of their own opportunities of distraction other than just motherhood, but they can still be a really good wife. If a woman can be a good housewife in a traditional relationship? We already assume and know the man is being a good husband (and he should be). There is nothing wrong with this. I respect traditional women for wanting to live their biological role of motherhood.

Though they are living their life, they are looking basically to end up with a man who will take care of them so that they can do their biological role of raising their children and staying at home and cooking and cleaning. She is against the idea of dating too many men and is averted from the idea of promiscuity. It’s just not in her nature to try and challenge a man or try to compete with him in the work environment. She is generally trying to find a man that is her equal or maybe a step below in physical appearance and a step or several steps above her in terms of economical status. It’s very important that a man she finds can provide for the family so that she can do her part of raising her young in the future and feeding the family. The traditional woman has been the standard throughout all of time up until America in the early 1900’s. The traditional woman still exists throughout most of the countries in the world. However times are changing and more and more metropolitan cities are opening up to American influence within the last 25 years. Now the traditional woman is sometimes forced into competing for men in the workplace in order to ‘make it go’ in a metropolitan city once she leaves her family. Work becomes a priority and soon she turns into an independent woman and develops a strong state of mind in order to survive in the workplace and keep her job or be promoted. In more rural areas, tradition still rules through the rest of the world. In Japan the traditional women are feeling discords of repression from their naturally strong men in their fast-paced economy with growing Western influence leading to such things as Harajuku girls, and Cinderella wedding fantasy trips in Austria. In Europe, there is a different culture that is distinctly European in nature however has traces of Western influence and consumer dynamics as well. The formation of the European Union ideally keep the different countries interdependent while still retaining their own individual culture.

The traditional woman is still for the most party remaining traditional and not ge�ing too many ideas of independence except in larger cities. Certain parts of Europe she can still be distinctly traditional however with the age of the internet Eastern Europeans are opening up to the internet and ways to promote themselves for the propagation of their traditionalism by maybe marrying a man from another country, otherwise they may just marry one from their own country. In India, despite the popularity of Bollywood, most of the country (like all countries that are steeped in cultural tradition) is still akin to maintaining tradition except in larger metro’s where there is more influence of media and where a woman may have to work alone to survive. Thailand is still very traditional in nature except for something really interesting going on which would take more time to explain than I have now; nevermind the fact that even the most developed or socially adept woman is still very traditional and nature. Once again this is cultural differentiation. Generally most of the countries in the world despite influence that is coming a lot from America and then being reforma�ed and integrated into their modern culture the traditional woman still has her place. Countries like Singapore are more of an exception where a single woman maybe easily have to work to survive and compete and then henceforth becomes independent and gets rid of her more traditional past of just looking for a man to provide for her. Now, when dealing with traditional women in America it’s slightly different than with international women. Make sure to read my Chapter on interracial dating. You will probably find though that international women despite cultural barriers will actually more help you naturally ‘be a man’. It’s strange but true.

I have firsthand experience and I’ve had friends from 40 countries as well; but importantly I can see generally what an American woman just is. She is drama, she is ‘light’. She is way more drama and light than a traditional woman (anywhere in the world); it’s not just ‘because she’s a woman.’ If you’re a hardcore traditionalist or just lean towards the traditional woman, sorry if I’ve been stereotyping but here I go again...I’ve always stayed away from these type of women yet they are embraced by the likes of Playboy and Maxim. The girly girl who will watch your football game, is blonde (or society thinks so), likes so�ball and cooks American apple pie. I can tell who these girls were and I always thought they were boring. You know what? Generally they are compared to ‘the drama.’ However what I didn’t realize until now is that I have a tremendous respect for these women because they NATURALLY allow a man to be a man. They will do their biological role to raise the kids and hold the house together. So as far as DATING goes. Remember generally that traditional women have marriage as their overlying pretext to your relationship with them. There’s nothing wrong with this but you’re going to have to be more careful of ‘breaking her heart’ especially if she’s expecting a long term relationship and you aren’t. If you go into dating relations with her you need to let her know somehow what kind of relationship it’s going to be. Though independent women are drama exemplified and may seem heartbroken they are more likely to get over you FASTER than a traditional woman who you may leave ‘scarred’ for life even. She’s just not up to the fast pace world of power dating and she will also

generally be a lot more closed to the idea of having sex until a�er many dates...it’s her way of naturally wanting to keep you around because she knows you want to sleep with her. International and traditional women can be the flavor and excitement that can add to your life instead of just having a normal boring wife...it’s kind of how I see it in retrospect on this issue. Since I have a lot of interest in other cultures (and pop cultures) as well as language I’m intrigued by their women especially. These women are more exciting to me (much more and it might have something to do with black hair) than American traditional women. They are more interesting (to me at least) AND they are more traditional and will even do things that American traditional women won’t like rub your feet, massage you, etc. Feminists cringe, go ahead because a man wants to be a man and relax once in a while. These women are real women. I’m talking eastern European, Russian, and southeast Asian countries especially. They want to love and support their husbands, raise a family and take care of the house and food because they know their man is providing for them (a huge leverage point in poorer countries) and keeping them safe and comfortable. Many times they will o�en se�le for ugly European or American men for the chance just to play their biological role of having a family and continuing their survival. Not surprisingly, their divorce rates are MUCH lower than American couples. Tradition is what has worked through all of time. There was even a time when divorce was nonexistent. In some countries their men take traditionalism over the edge by abusing their wives within the marriage and these women see what’s going on and want an American man because they’ve heard he is ‘nice’.

Women are friends with gay men because they are not afraid of the women in making treats him like a normal human being, however there is something missing in the equation there and that is sexual a�raction. A gay man is not turned away by a woman’s beauty, he will easily go up to her and treat her normal but obviously she may find out that he does not know how to create sexual a�raction with her so they can not even go there. This is not good for American women when they see that only the gay man can approach them and treat them normally, because they are wondering what is going on with the rest of the real man who are the ones who can fulfill them sexually. But now you know that you do not have to be afraid to approach women, and even if you stand less of a chance with them supposedly because you aren’t as good looking at someone that they would really want, just because you went up to them you stand a be�er chance than all the other men who are afraid and sunblind from her beauty. This gives you a huge advantage over all other men that are either gay or are just plain terrified to go up and treat her like a normal human being and/or start some sexual tension. Isn’t it interesting how when you have a girl that other women automatically are more interested in you when they don’t even know? Why is that? And why is it when you don’t have any dates you may have found that no women are interested? There’s been times when I’ve been high and dry and other times when I’ve ‘dated’ three women around the same timeframe. Interesting.. The answer to why women just ‘know’ is because...they just know. My best friend said that when he has a girl all of a sudden ‘out of the blue’ he’ll get PHONE CALLS from women in different area codes. This is weird

but o�en true. Women generally have a super kinetic sensory perception. They are approximately 10 times be�er than men at reading and receiving body language signals. Yes, 10 times. Here’s the thing, I have the uncanny knack for knowing if a performer in front of a large audience of people is being effective or not; I can naturally sense what the audience is thinking and feeling EVERY TIME. An women are 10 times be�er than THAT? They’re living a virtual freakzone of emotion and sensory perception overload all the time. So naturally they build up systems to protect themselves in certain situations. So whether you know it or not a woman is NATURALLY ‘reading’ you. So much so in fact that it almost doesn’t ma�er what you say. It’s your state of mind and how you say it. So you can look for all the techniques and pick up lines but you’re going to be hit and miss or playing ‘fools mate’. It will work hit and miss if you just keep trying on American women. Women can sense where you’re coming from. So they may not know that you’re going out with another girl but they ‘sense’ that you don’t have a needy air of ‘desperation’ around you. I’ve had women come up to me all the time in cases like this just because my state of mind was different. Women can really sense where you’re coming from. You can’t really fake it, so it’s important to be the real and natural you. This is more important than any number of techniques for pickup lines that you can use when you’re just living in the wrong paradigm itself. With all of this knowledge you can be able to choose and understand the differences between how a traditional and Americanized woman thinks; as well as how you can fit it into your definition of a dating lifestyle.

What Women Want Freud struggled with it and there was even a modern movie with the title (though remember it’s going to come from the current modern reality of confusion and opportunity where they aren’t even sure what they want). It’s really actually simple so I’ll give my take on it from the universal perspective. (Cue science room film reel and cut the lights:) Women through all of time and evolution (even females in other species) have biologically been predisposed to raise a family and nurture their young; basically motherhood. It is how we all got here today including most animals (that’s another freaky topic right there though). Throughout all of human history this has been the basic precept until the last couple hundreds years there have only been instances where a woman was allowed to shine (Joan of Arc) or realized her power of beauty over men (Delilah and Sampson, Cleopatra, etc.). Women have only KNOWN and inherently known that they must raise and nurture their young and in most societies take care of much of the housework or shack work, or hut work. Because they haven’t been developed beyond the basics of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs (food, shelter, clothing...clothing optional) they haven’t felt any desire to all of a sudden compete with men. Remember that sex was repressed and kept within marriage though long ago we figured it out that it was also for pleasure quite fun. So the answer to what women want is to simply continue their survival through raising their young and caring for a family....BUT WAIT...THERSHE MORE (Scary Movie reference).

A�er the industrial revolution women could live more civilized to raise their families with modern conveniences (dang I feel like I’m at Epcot center or something). However she remained a good housewife despite ge�ing the right to eventually vote and she would always socialize with her lady’s group while the men did their thing together. When the information age hit a�er the sexual revolution of the 60’s she was starting to really realize that she had some power with her body and image over men. By seeing role models like Madonna she really started to change. The propagation and acceptance by men and women to view women doing more and more risqué things started to shape our culture. So what does a woman want now? Now that she has stepped up for the first time in history on Maslow’s hierarchy of needs to the top being self-actualization there is no answer. Before a woman could know and want one thing; to raise and care for her children and husband so that they can further extend their generational line. Now what does a woman want? It could be anything from the latest sale at Jimmy Choo’s, to a triple la�e espresso, to a romance novel to a pay raise. There really isn’t any single thing other than the fact that beneath all of this surface ‘culture junk’ she still has the need for a real man and ultimately a man that will allow her to still procreate so she can be a mother. It is a biological instinct that she is born with that she can not depress or deny. What women say they want is almost always different than what they end up with. You can be her dream come true for both. Modern day, distracting, a�ention deficit society has confused and ‘changed’ the mind of the modern day woman so that she doesn’t even know what she wants therefore she never fully reaches self-actualization either in many cases because it was inherently a man’s right to self-actualization while a woman stayed at home cooking before.

Yes, some pre�y hardcore stuff that will draw controversy, but look what country has the highest divorce rate by defying traditional nature of the man leading and woman not even wanting to develop herself beyond her expected and biological role? You will see that even the most independent of women will still come back to their need to hear the ‘pi�er pa�er of li�le feet’. Just read the MSN entertainment articles. That is what women inherently ‘want’ (motherhood), despite all of the other options and opportunities they have available to them today which may distract them. On a lighter note what a woman wants when it comes to men and dating... just read the rest of the eBook. She wants honesty and a man who can naturally be a man with her so she can continue the mating (or now the casual dating or sexual exploration without consequence) process ‘naturally’. She wants a man deep down who is still traditional in that he DOES hold the upper hand and doesn’t let her get away controlling him because she developed into this even though she biologically wasn’t supposed to necessarily. Deep down, it’s still her inheritance to end up with a man who will provide her with children, security (economically) and protection so she can be a mother and ‘nurture’. Remember, motherhood is 100% biological and a necessity to the continuance of our survival. All of us have the inherent need to procreate to spread our seed through future generations for a�er we are gone. Keep in mind though, that if you marry an American woman there is going to have to be compromise and probably a lot more of it than you would naturally want. Make of that what you will but the decisions you make determine your outcome...personally I don’t want anything to hold me back from my destiny such as a wife who unknowingly tries to control me. Despite the “Mean Girls” social persona of most of these beautiful American strong women, they all have the same biological similarities. And this means that they are predisposed to respond to a man who can be a potential

mate DESPITE what they say they want in a man. What they say they want in a man is just a reflection of their social persona speaking (tall, rich, etc.) This also means that they have sometimes no control our choice over whether they are a�racted to you; stemming from the fact that you are a man who is playing his biological role as a man to a�ract her, and start the mating dance. You don’t have to be Tom Cruise, Mr. Moneybags, etc. once you start the relationship. Connect with her and she will put her persona aside of what she wants because you are fulfilling another part of her. Let’s expand upon this a li�le more...You know a woman really wants when it comes to dating? Well first let’s define the two basic categories of heterosexual women: 1. Independent, empowered ‘American’ influenced women 2. Traditional supportive housewive women The first group wants a real man to stand up to them because they have this power they’ve grown up with. Now that you understand what’s going on, you’ve reclaimed your power (and you can help me spread the message). You can be a bad boy or a li�le more provocative and be successful with these women in fact VERY successful with these women even if you aren’t that good looking. They just want a man to be a man despite all of the ‘screentime’ their sexuality has received. They are more like us and more sexually aware than ever in history. Can I answer for American women and marriage? I almost feel sorry for them. Most have too much power that they don’t want to just do ‘housewife’ stuff (ahem, ‘Desperate Housewives’) so they naturally (from their state of mind) lead to nagging and griping. What other solution for American women is there? What if we all stood up and said NO (the single men)? Maybe women would start to realize that

their power actually is pu�ing THEM at a disadvantage, maybe they would respect men (generally) again...hmm...think about that one for a while. But it is going to be hard to tame someone who is already independent. If you’re single, just think about these implications an think ‘outside the box’ to what you could be ge�ing into that you just take for granted in our 50/50 dating society. The second group of women which makes up the silent majority worldwide (probably 90%) is seeking a healthy relationship with a man who will support her and provide her security and protection so they can raise a family together. She will naturally stay away from ‘bad boys’ and I have seen this in action. Isn’t this interesting? A traditional woman is looking (biologically) for a man that can protect her yes but not potentially abuse her. I have seen American bad boys not get women in other countries whereas in the U.S. they would, this is interesting. Traditional women are I must admit, healthier. They are healthier mentally and they ARE more stable. They aren’t as developed so they just can’t have the level of drama that other women would. Also, they do not have the glorified a�ention of their sexuality that connects them to this economical powerhouse of a sexual society as in America. Traditional women are more aligned to their biological roles WITHOUT having a smokescreen in front of them of the warping ‘forced reality’. They will act more normal towards men whereas some American women focus so much on their image and beauty that it defines them completely (and they are actually quite shallow). This is sad in a way. Focusing on something without much substance. Guys, think about being around a really loud overstated lady. Now look into the future. Fast forward...think about how things are going to be. Can you really put up with that all the time? Maybe you can. To me it’s too distracting. I prefer tranquility.

It’s not healthy to be a�racted to ‘bad boys’ for women. But then again...are they really ‘healthy’ if their whole perception of reality is just based upon this invisible power which society has only until recently given her? American women are not very emotionally stable. They are the light and they are drama. I remember Eric from Hypnotica.org saying women are ‘the light’ and the man is this ‘nothingness’. Now he’s on my level and I respect him. He’s also a dominant man. But I’d like to bring some more clarity to this issue. When I heard him say that I knew something wasn’t ‘right’. You see, because to me, I AM THE LIGHT. A woman’s drama is not ever going to throw my life path off. But he’s right in that there is a balance. What he was talking about is the American woman and not THE WOMAN. American women only represent a small percentage of the women on this earth but the dating guru’s never touch upon that because they’re catering to American guys (and so am I but it’s important you realize the global perspective). A woman is the light and drama in his mind. He really means the strong, beautiful, independent (American) woman is the light and drama and the wussified American man is the nothingness who sits on his couch and soaks up her bickering. Unfortunately that is the sad truth of what’s going on. Why is it sad? Because men aren’t being men and they know that something is just plain OFF or WRONG; we have been repressed by this invisible force that is covering up the biological reality of what women really want. I don’t know about you but I’m not ‘the nothingness’. However if I want to have a long term marriage that works and raise a family my wife will have to be more of the ‘nothingness’ to soak up my sporadic energy, ego A class personality and drive. As long as there is a balance that will work. Unfortunately some guys may start to accept that they are perhaps wussies if only because of how (American) women respond to them.

Being a Man &

Her Take on Nice Guys Remember that you can still be a nice guy (great catch) as long as you’re living from your reality as treat her indifferently or as an equal without kissing up to her. But for further sake of description I’m talking about ‘nice guys’ that have a dependent air of desperation, awe, and subservience to her beauty in her presence (due to social programming & cultural development) We are engrained to react in ‘awe’ to a woman’s beauty because it’s part of our programming hand is a triggered response to something that has been given exploitation and added value or a�ention from its natural place in life. Remembers sex sells. All of us have edified and viewed women as on a pedestal because it’s inundated around us in our culture (magazines, ads, TV., fashion, etc.). We become enthralled and obsessed just with our idea of ‘beauty’ that we connotation that and label ‘her’ if she qualifies or matches what we’ve seen in media and all around us. Because we edify it so much we start to treat women differently, Li�le do we know that giving them a tension and showing our interest for them just turns them off because they get it from all kinds of men or boys. Not to mention it’s imprinted throughout our behavior pa�erns from the time they start wearing makeup and growing breasts. When they start realizing their power at this time, the dynamics change because before that if you think back we had all the power and playfully pushed them on the playground and we’d reluctantly allow them to join in on a game. In other countries a woman’s beauty is almost completely hidden and repressed (think most traditional Muslim nations).

This is because of tradition yes, but the men have seen American and what happens when a woman’s beauty becomes exploited and capitalized upon. Sex becomes her power and the power shi�s towards women if they become liberated yet she still resented because she is looking for a real man despite the positive aspects of all the a�ention. What we take for granted EVERYDAY, we can’t explain our behaviors for but people in other countries still look on in shock and disbelief and the power we have given women by allowing them to express themselves. You may not fully understand it yet but this explains so much of everything in itself that is going on. What our women don’t realize is that they WOULDN’T have their power if we didn’t give it to them in the first place. But then again, DO they have the power? It’s all in your perception and if you want to buy into the bogus crap of a seemingly bulletproof social persona that wasn’t either your or her fault that she’s like that in the first place. To a large degree she resents that she has to keep up and stay beautiful to perpetuate society’s standard of her. It’s a lot of work. She has to continuously compete with other women as well. Hey, it’s to your advantage she (women) always takes care of herself and looks damn hot. Because remember she is still looking for a real man despite her social persona or your perception of it Just think if she grew up in another culture, there wouldn’t BE this invisible freaking barrier. How do I know this? Not only from my global perspective of observation and thought but from firsthand experience of naturally ge�ing beautiful women around the world everywhere I go without hardly trying; in fact they usually come (close) to me. This is how it used to be 100 years ago in that if you wanted to talk to a woman you did and she didn’t give you any stupid drama. She would be

happy to. This IGNITES something inside of her. A flame that becomes so powerful of emotion and hope. Because she is so strong and feisty, she responds innately (to her) to challenge or to a REAL MAN. The spark of real sexual a�raction and chemistry has begun in her. And as a natural you can dial up the sexual chemistry quite easily. In fact, because she’s so hardcore in her ways and DESIRES a real man, she will respond STRONGLY and naturally to those men that can ‘match her’. Inside even though it’s not the same reaction in super traditional women ((who may actually run away from a challenge (because they are weaker and want someone who will protect them not challenge them)), she will feel that FINALLY here’s someone that has an answer to my sexual and inner desires. Her fire needs some stoking from a real man. She (women like this) being beautiful and desirable has yes sometimes fallen prey over the decades to ‘quick fix’ guys, seducers, NLPer’s, supernerds, ugly badasses, jerks, not because she wanted them over healthier, be�er looking guys like us, but because they met the answer to her inner complexual physiological restlessness. And o�en she’ll sleep with men like this just to answer that internal calling from men who have un-naturally found ways to communicate sexually to her inner (traditionally inaccurate) unnaturalness. She doesn’t really want these kinds of men but she is biologically responding to them and she accepts there other behavior mishaps. The process of natural a�raction is actually so easy because you were born with it to automatically know how it is done in order to prepare future generations. Now you can use this to have casual sexual relationships instead of kids every single time if you so choose. They’ll o�en go out of their way just to answer this inner societal developed

biological and sexual calling to men that communicate with it on that level (by standing up to her, treating her bad, giving her a challenge and questioning or just violating her persona). These guys have to try harder to vamp up the sexual communication but have learned to create sexual tension with her through undying devotion to learning and practicing technique a�er technique. Think about yourself. Can you imagine even trying anymore? You’d have all the beautiful women in a major metropolitan area at your doorstep if you had their tenacity a�er you’re done with this eBook and some congruency training. You really almost don’t have to try like that. Biological a�raction is natural. These guys (hate to break it to ‘em) but they’re not supposed to be ge�ing our beautiful women. But they are. Hey, you don’t have to hate them.. they’re taking advantage of their shot and living their life. They’ve defined their reality around communicating sexual tension and sparking a�raction albeit a bit unhealthily but effectively with these women. View the world as an abundance. I’ve been in places where I could have more women than I know what to do with and they’ve all wanted me. By the way, if you are one of these guys (“hey, how’s it going?” -beavis) welcome but fortunately it doesn’t ma�er what I just said (unless yo momma said you augly) but you can now FULLY take advantage of the opportunities that present yourself because you have the most cu�ing edge knowledge right now to live in your reality. Yes, you can still score hot women of course BECAUSE OF our society and the way women will respond to a REAL MAN. There’s more to life than looks anyways. You can be a man with purpose and vision that lights the way for everyone he is near (beer, what?) So really with this training, you can be effective no ma�er where you’re coming from and even with women way out of your league only because

our strong independent women respond in positive ways. You see, the underlying reality of everything we’re talking about here is also that SHE (beauty herself eh) gets to finally have an awesome relationship which you control and just gets to be around you because you give her what she’s been dying to find, a REAL MAN who has a lot of value that you can naturally ad to her life. A guy who doesn’t have ‘weird angles’ or NLP that he’s coming from just to try to seduce her. More than likely she’ll be happy to take things to a sexual level ANYWAY that she’s met a good looking REAL MAN but that depends where you’re coming from (just be natural dude...it always happens for me when I’m coming from my reality). You have to define whether it’s going to be a relationship or short-term one night stand or you’ll have a stalker. This has happened to me before. I had what should have been a summer fling but I kept it going because I was coming off of a dry spell so I hung on and I knew I should have broke it off. She’s just going to get more hurt down the road so define the type of relationship you’ll have with her. Don’t call her more than a few times a week or see her more than twice a week and that will set the guidelines naturally. GIRLY MEN. A product of our society. You have inherited a biological knowing of how to a�ract women for the mating process; now you can see this as casual sexual relationships or attraction. It only takes a few times of having sex itself in order to know how to do it for the rest of your life. All women know how this is done as well a�er a li�le experience. The more experience you have in your past, let that exude confidence that you know how to please any woman. So it is up to you to claim your biological birthright and fulfilled that desire and a woman or women if they are looking for it as well.

Down Boy!:

Your Emotional Control & Anti-Drama Solvency I think you know what I mean when I say, “Down Boy” (the Ace Ventura reference, not you succumbing to her command). So, first let me talk about the initial shock that happens when a guy sees a beautiful woman. What is it exactly that throws us guys off? Maybe we are in public doing our thing and all of a sudden we see and sense a shi� in the energy in the room, maybe we just get a li�le sniff of perfume or glance her out of the corner of our eye. It’s like the instant internal (sometimes spoken) “DAmmmmm” factor. Instantly we forget who we are as a man, lose our center (which was open to being swayed by any kind of this energy in the first place) and we suddenly feel weak around her and get this feeling in our stomach like we would almost do anything just to be with her, or it would be a miracle to sleep with her. Remember I’m not an average frustrated dude who never scored in his life, of course, I’ve been with many women. I don’t know about you, but it just seems that many of the so-called dating gurus are not that good looking of men themselves and have finally discovered techniques that they have found to work for them so they can finally get some kind of action. Part of the equation is that I have realized that I have always been a natural with all women (except the 10’s). But we all inherently have this instant “Dammm..” or “Whoah...she’s BEAUTIFUL” emotional response that is triggered. Why? Because she is accentuating or ‘adding value’ to her ‘assets’ and it is natural to respond to this. The problem is, we give it WAY much more weight than it is worth. The 40 Year old virgin is a result of this, and despite how sad it is, that is a serious byproduct of our new society which men have not been able to ‘handle’ properly. You’re giving it way too much perceptual ‘value’ dude.

Yes, even despite how important the idea of sex is to you, it is really screwing up our relations with women everywhere by le�ing that overweighted perception control our ability to ‘give her the power’. Remember this has only happened for about 60 years or so, growing more and more openly accepted in the past two decades. How are we not supposed to respond to a beautiful, sexy ass honey? Well, keep reading. So, this is our emotional response and I know you understand what I am saying. The key is to come from a different paradigm where you don’t give this ‘added value’ any a�ention that people think it deserves. You will be coming from a stronger reality in which your response is not founded in her energy (shaky ground to be man). If this is a ‘natural reaction’ from a man, what we aren’t doing is communicating to her naturally ‘a�er’ that first front-end loaded ‘damn factor’. We’re le�ing the forced reality that this added value has grown from, get in our way of being ourselves. You don’t need some fancy tricks or techniques to fight against this, because you will still be on shaky ground. You have to be able to control this by coming from the understanding that I am giving you in this eBook. Eventually you will get to the point where you will always be around beautiful women and it won’t phase you anymore, because your principles are based on solid biological evidence and your own reality and paradigm. When you come from your reality, you can really be ‘indifferent’ and not let your perception of a woman’s beauty get out of balanced control; in fact you won’t even really care, while other guys are ‘tripping over themselves’ to go talk to her. She cares about what’s in it for her; not what some drooling creep is thinking or a nice guy suitor says while she gags inside. She is really looking for a real man like you.

And if you can just be natural and be yourself around her, she will instantly know that there is something different about you. If you are a joker with your buddies, guess who you can also be a joker around? Of course, it’s with the beautiful women you meet everywhere. Remember that a woman’s beauty is also a double edged sword. If you take away the whole façade, we as men are survivors and killers. We are the ones that would provide for and protect the beautiful woman. If you take her and put her back 600 years, her beauty would not be an issue, nor would it be glorified as it is in modern society. The focus for all people at that point in time would be to survive and procreate. Understand that this could be her ancestors, who maybe were even be�er looking than her, but do you think that through any man off? If you can just see through it all and realize that a woman is still traditionally a woman, and if you can remember that you are a man, this is a start to understanding how you can see through her force reality. It is all about coming from your own reality and understanding that she still has the same inherent biological and physiological needs on the inside of her. Learn to see right through her social persona. All women are created equal biologically. No ma�er if she is the most beautiful woman you have ever seen or she is on location at a circus sideshow, she has the same biological functions and the same basic sexual nature. All women have breasts and a vagina. In that way they are all the same, with the same instinctive response to a man who can speak to her on the deep inner level sexually. With this knowledge you can more clearly see right through her social persona and forced reality straight through to the real woman that she is. You are also aware that she is biologically predisposed to respond to a man whether she can control it or not. If you can see all women as equal in this ma�er and focus on the process of sexual a�raction itself and sparking

the inside of her, sometimes she can not control her instincts are response (which is coming from her social persona exterior) which can lead to a mutually fulfilling relationship for both of you. If you go back to the caveman days, all of a sudden, the men became a lot more important, as they could defend the woman against Captain caveman and other natural threats. In our society today, our biological needs are still the underlying factor, which seems to have been looked over by the forced reality which is the paradigm 99.99% of us see. Despite everything that we have built up in modern society, and that he have been able to climb up Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, there is still the same basic physiological function that has been ingrained within us for hundreds and thousands of years. Everything that we have built up is just covering what has been there through all of time and history. It’s only been in the past, 200 years that everything has really begun to accelerate. It is important that we look at everything that is going on from all possible angles in order to really and fully understand it. When you realize that man has always had the power over women and can see that he was the protector and the provider for her, you must really ask yourself and look at the situation and think, what is really going on here? When I go into and the establishment, a restaurant or a nightclub, I automatically think to myself that this is my reality and I am here now. I extend my mental energy out into the room, covering all corners in every inch of the room that I am in. If you can learn to do this, which is really just a part of being in your reality, women will be able to pick up your signal and recognize your presence. Indifference is kind of like your salty peter. You are not sensationalized by the presence of beautiful women. You are VERY comfortable around them and do not let their energy and beauty ‘get to you’. You know that there are many women everywhere that

are interested in you and that you have solid values and qualities as a real man. This helps ground you. You have entered her reality and let your feelings get in the way. If she was not as beautiful, or rather if she was tamed down in appearance or if she was full of less drama, you probably wouldn’t be acting like this. Yes it is part of life to experience all kinds of emotions, but if you want a relationship to last you are going to have to be the one who is always in control. This is why it has worked through out all of time and why there have rarely ever been any divorces before modern times, especially in America. Never before has women had this kind of power over a man, so he would never even think of these things before anyways, because she was always aware of him being the head of the household. Now if a woman feels that you are too interested or into her, and you become really emotional and tell her your feelings, this is not a natural reaction or is it a biological reaction of a real man. So she will resent you and know that she has the power. This is a huge tip: Remember that you can ‘please’ yourself. You are not dependent on her for sexual gratification, so don’t act like it. Remember it is interdependence. This alone should help tame that ‘added value’ energy because you’re not needy are dependent on her just because she’s so sexy. You can take care of yourself just fine. Remember to be indifferent to any outcome to start the process naturally. And if you’re trying to ‘please her’ too much with your humor or comments and coming off ‘doofy’ (What are you doing here? - Scary Movie reference #2) then you are just swaying too much of your energy into her reality. Remember you have to stay centered in your reality and when you communicate it will all become more natural and be likely to turn her on even. She doesn’t ‘owe’ you anything if you’re just all drooling over her lap.

The Ba�le of Realities

& why you must naturally win immediately ...and especially maintain with a real beauty or she’ll be gone. Maybe I should retitle this Chapter: The Ba�le of Realities and why you WILL win immediately because you just have to accept and take on your new awareness and birthright (but that’s kind of long). When you are congruent with your own reality and you understand the macro dynamics (which you are learning here) of biological a�raction, you will be able to be extremely effective in any social environment when meeting women. The fact that you never bend or extent out of your own reality, can be the most empowering and powerful thing that will give you success with women. She will be able to read a confident, strong body language from you. This is more important than 100,000 different pickup lines or techniques, so it is really important for you to understand this and become congruent with it in your reality, if you really want to have the success that you dream of or even beyond that. You are on shaky ground if you are giving in to the optional and perceived forced reality which is really just a front that has been a byproduct of our own society over the past 30 years or so. A woman does not want to be bitchy but she almost has to when so many men just do not get it. The man may think they are acting natural but they’re acting on natural because they are unknowingly giving her the power again here. She has to do something to turn them away, because there’s no way she can just have even the drama of one of those needy clingy guys on her tail let alone every single one that talks to her.

From a woman’s point of view, her bitchiness is really a time management tool in order to keep away men that are not being men. But if you can approach her and just be real and natural, she is most likely going to let down the bitchy exterior because you are finally a real man who understands how to play the inherent natural mating game. Use her bitchiness as an example of keeping away the men who would cling on her and actually does you a favor because it gives you more of a chance to see who the real she is (while keeping away all kinds of other dudes). This way she is not going to be able to start something with everyone; so this really just puts things in your favor anyways. Do not let her bitchiness turn you off, because it is just a byproduct of the force reality and nothing more. If you find that she really is bitchy a�er you find out a li�le more of who she is as a person, either take her home that night or don’t put up with the drama and just walk away. Because you are not going to deal with that level of disrespect for your reality. The bitchiness factor on her part is really a guard and a pre-requirement for her to test and see who the real men are. Remember that she can see a man who is already given in to her reality and she may o�en put up the bitchy or uninterested front, but we know why now (she’s waiting for a real man like you). Basically you just have to not even acknowledge the existence of the forced reality, and then you will find that there’s not even a ba�le going on because she wants to talk to interesting, intelligent, real men like you. At that point you can find out a li�le more about her and have for chasing you or whatever you want to do. The upfront forced reality is blown way out of proportion that men are giving into and does not represent the real her or the biological reality of what is going on. So when you go up to her and speak to her directly beyond what other

people would perceive as a beautiful figure or face, and you are in your own reality than you have made the most important breakthrough of all and the accelerated sexual mating dance has begun. Remember that she wants to meet men who can essentially see her for the real her and breakthrough that barrier but none of them are strong enough to do it because there based on solid and shaky ground (the forced reality which defies natural order). When you say ‘Welcome to my reality’ you actually MEAN IT and feel it. “I’m here”. It’s not unhealthy cockiness it’s foundational confidence and strength and women can’t HELP but notice because it is a biological trigger to the natural man that they have been waiting for. She’s got her sexual powers (or so she thinks) and you’ve got all kinds of other powers such as purpose, direction, humor, intelligence, balance and protection and much more to offer her. Women these days (independent ones) are obviously flaunting their beauty (sometimes modestly sometimes flat outright) and it’s just part of who they are and their way to express themselves and hopefully that will a�ract the right type of man. See, they really are ge�ing ready for men like us. However, It’s also o�en seen as a competition from her perspective to look be�er than the next girl and to uphold the societal impositions which she feels are demanded of her. If she were to live in another country and purposely do what she knows to make herself pre�y she might even be arrested or frowned upon, or even raped by some men. She has great freedom in America to express herself this way and has enough independence and power to usually protect herself in cases where a psycho would try to take advantage of her without mutual consent. So she has a strong mind in these areas to express her beauty and uphold

what she thinks is society’s mandate and also her way to hopefully a�ract healthy strong men. It has also become a part of her physiology and day to day personality to be concerned with her image and physical appearance and fashion. She will o�en spend at least an hour a day on her appearance whereas men spend usually a few minutes on average. Other countries around the world are slowly opening up to women’s freedom of expression and sexual display of prowess especially in major cities and throughout media. What may surprise you is how traditional most of the women remain in those countries (for example India despite the glamour of Bollywood). Well in America, our media has taken over and defined much of who we are as a social group. We easily look up to celebrities and figures of power or fashion. You HAVE to come from a foundation so STRONG and understanding in order to be really congruent. You may think you have a strong reality but you still don’t fully ‘get it’. Heck, I thought I was strong before this. My power is at least tenfold, that’s how serious this dude. I now LIVE and SEE everything in a different context and reality. Where are you going to get THAT level of strength that a�racts beautiful women to you without even doing anything? You can’t FAKE IT. Everything you know and have done in the past is based on a fake and shaky forced reality. If you want the ho�est women in the world or those close to that quality, you have to be ‘real’ and come from a foundation of being connected with understanding and reality that is so strong it extends and radiates out from within you. They can sense ANY faltering on your part. But why are we so easily thrown off when we see a beautiful woman? I’m going to enlighten you and change your entire reality around so you can ROCK THEM. You have to REPRESENT yourself as a man. A REAL MAN. Beautiful

women flock to real strong men. No, you don’t have to be someone you’re not but there’s something very important you have to understand that will give YOU the power to be an uber-player instead of unhealthy, homelier jerks. It is an amazing paradox and I will give you a clue which won’t yet make sense to you. You DON’T have to try to be someone you’re not because that’s defying nature anyways. As weird as it sounds you will be connected with the universal and historical knowledge that will empower yourself like nothing else before. The universal paradigm shi� you have will give you more strength and non-wussiness that no amount of money can buy (except for ge�ing this eBook) you just have to open your mind to take in all the different realities and contexts that are going on that will allow you to see your inherent strength. You will be connected with universal knowledge of your power as a man. What does this have to do with ge�ing beautiful women and living the life with them that you want? EVERYTHING. I am an easy going guy but I don’t let people cross my boundaries of independence, why would I let a drama queen violate my boundaries? That is just an example of how grounded you should be when dealing with them. There will be more opportunities to put your foot down than with normal people because of their heavy social persona until you break it. It will be a sigh of relief when you can communicate to each other naturally, nonverbally through body language and start the mating ritual. TELLING HER YOU LOVE HER is just a blatant ‘relationship’ sign so use it carefully unless it really is what you want. Don’t let her know all the inner feelings of joy going on (still there because of our cultural edification of beauty). Keep it on the down low and be cool. Sex just used to be for procreation but now, you can not only have casual sex in consenting relationships if you so choose to, but you can experience

even greater euphoria by bedding the women that you’ve always dreamt of and the level that you see edified in all of our media. But like I said Be cool and come from your reality. You can never ‘lose it’. If you slip outside your reality, tell her ‘your feelings’ she’s going to realize that you weren’t as much of a man and though she may resent it from a guy like you who she really does want, she may naturally go back to playing games and using her much -accustomed to power. You must come from your own independent reality with her in your orbit because she is skilled and strong in dealing with men and she knows what’s going on. The more beautiful society and her thinks she is, the more likely she is used to her power, but also the more she desires a reprieve from it so she can be a woman again. You have to BE strong. If you’re weak (meaning you’re catering to her reality), you’re fluctuating and no amount of technique or trying to be strong (she knows where you’re coming from because she senses and feels it) will work in most of the cases unless you hit fools mate, are a li�le be�er looking and she’s ready to go anyways. That’s a lucky draw there. You want consistency. Give her that gut level a�raction by just being yourself in your own reality. If you really want to spice things up go to taco bell but a�er that...you can easily and naturally flirt with her and tease her to turn her volume up and really get her hot and bothered. No ass kissing or swaying into their reality which is based on the misperception of added value. Women are so sick of ass-kissing or pleading guys. They are just pandering to the smokescreen that prevents them from seeing the natural reality and process of a�raction. So you don’t have to do that anymore and can just watch them bounce off her persona. When they want a real man that is acting in their biological nature. YOU are supposed to lead and initiate the chemistry Mr. Lover Lover.

With all the junk that’s been added on top of it with out fast paced societal evolution they now want a real man more than ever. Oh, do they yearn for one (you). When you’re in your reality and congruent with it you obviously DON’T have to the best looking guy; just don’t let it bother you AT ALL. Because all they see is men who may be ‘nice’ and even good looking but are still pandering to them and basically ass kissing and handing their nuts on a pla�er for her to have. And EVERY guy is doing the same thing with everything he says, every approach because it’s all coming from this state of le�ing her have the power and control and allowing her to be subservient. Please be aware of this when you go anywhere and you’ll see how pervasively ridiculous it is. But you know be�er. We have been programmed their ‘added value’ beauty as a byproduct of our modern society and it has made us weak in emotional response through all stages of a relationship with Cleopatra and why? It has caused relational havoc because we ended up under her control or her just not calling back and we kept calling because we wanted to be with ‘beauty’ etc. American or independent women who are REAL beauties or models live in this fictional ‘alternate’ reality but where most men do just hand over their nuts for the whole relationship because they are just happy to be around them. Li�le do they realize their own life (or control of it) is slipping away. It’s not even like we were being used...we let her use us and she resented it! Maybe you were strong upfront but then buckled to her pressure and demands and obvious experience of control?! Men get into marriages like this and where do you think it ends up? My dad has said several times and he’d rather be single than to live with a real nagger and ‘put up with that’. He keeps picking an opinionated (the older

they get the more opinionated they get) Americanized woman. The more beautiful your target downrange is, the stronger your reality and your congruence to that reality has to be so that you can stay in your frame and control at all times without le�ing her get away with stupid drama which she will be inclined to do anyways. But she’ll have finally found her match! Now it’s up to you how long you want to keep her! The whole state of mind is that we’re accepting this faux ‘Forced Reality’. It’s not until you ‘see it’ that you can laugh at it and push it aside while you now watch other men bounce off of it and tragically let it run most of their lives this way. But these women don’t WANT to keep using men that throw themselves at their feet, they so desire a strong real man that will stand up to them. They have to uphold society’s standard of beauty and a�ention and she is in competition with all other girls for this. No ma�er who she is or how she looks, all women are biologically the same. Once you’re really acting ‘natural’ and communicating to her directly and naturally I don’t need to tell you ‘what to say’. Just be normal like you always communicate to other people. The only difference is that you, yes YOU used to let some fake crap be in the way (call it lipstick, I don’t know). Millions of other men will still let it get them all flustered up though. But live in your reality. Me? Once I ‘have a girl’ I just do things like even ignore her, look around, take pictures, etc. I look back and ask myself why don’t I ever take pictures of the women who I was with even? Maybe because I was a natural when I was with them...my focus wasn’t on them; I was in my reality. Now keep in mind that these were good looking women but they weren’t the 10’s but they always stayed a�racted to me when I was like this.

In your situations, if you’re struggling between your and her reality of her social persona and your view of it, fast forward and ask how you would be acting around her if you were together for a long time (ie. in a cross country road trip), would feel so wussified then? No, you’d be a normal man. It seems that if a woman reaches a certain point, even when we’re with her we give her all of our focus and o�en submit to her every request. If you can see from those small examples above, when you’re natural even with a 10, you’re still living in YOUR reality. You’re always in your reality, not just at the front when meeting her. You’re always in your reality. The more beautiful, the more she’ll respect it until her social drama starts to try and enter and you have to warn her again. Have your own stuff going on so when you think you might be tempted to enter her reality you know that you have your own things going on to get back to. Remember that when you’re in your own reality you do have your own life, and don’t let any beautiful woman’s way that. I am trying to get you to completely look pasture beauty because that is what she wants you to do anyway. And by training yourself to live in your own reality you can completely look beyond her beauty because you want to find out if she really is more than other people think she is from her appearance. Get past her social persona (it’s unstable and shaky ground) as fast as possible so you don’t have to deal with that and start dealing with her directly. Your body language will be forcing HER into a trance. And you will not be thrown off by the forced reality in which she lives. You live in a natural reality where it is OK to talk to any woman or any person you find that you think might interest you or add value to your life, because you know that you have value that you can and do their life. So since you are a natural, go grab a granola bar and celebrate.

Breaking Through Her Illusory ‘Weapons Grade’ Social Persona A.K.A. “It’s always on.”

Yes. The most important thing for you to remember it is to come from your state of mind, to be grounded in your own reality. And also to be aware of course of the universal and global dynamics. When you are solely congruent with your own reality, there’s no way that any woman even the most beautiful woman in the world’s power can throw you off balance. This is more important than trying to get a quick fix of surface ‘pick up lines’. It really is so much more powerful. And because you are already a ‘natural’ biologically you are closer than you realize to achieving a re-alization of your full empowerment and ability to a�ract women. You know that you are a man of strength, you know that you have value and a lot to offer to any woman, you are a real man. When you really are grounded in congruent with your own reality, it is always on. What does it mean to be always on? Anywhere you go and everywhere you go in the world at any time of day you are in control of your own destiny and your own reality. “It’s always on” means that you can get women anywhere you go, but you know, all kinds of awesome things are going to happen to you, and that you are not afraid to talk to any woman, because it is always on. O�en, you will find that women will come up to you, start touching you, and maybe even kissing you, because it is always on. The concept of “it’s always on” I got from Craig or Rick H. (friends of Dave D.’s). Your ability to be grounded in your own reality and to be never and the fact that you are ‘always on’ allows you to talk to an approach any woman anywhere without any fear, and more than likely she will respond very posi-

tively to you. It is in her best interest to be open to you and to find out more about you because you have so much value that you can give her. He never let her sexual aura influence you or make you any less of a man, in fact, because you know that it is hurting the other men and their success. Plus the fact that she is your counterpart, seeing her will only give you more strength and power to be a real man. Because you’re always in the mode of anything can happen and that everything is possible, and more than likely, what you want to happen will happen without you even trying, somehow, the law of a�raction and the lawful favorite is heavily on your side in any interaction with any woman. And because you are grounded in your reality, anywhere you go you are never nervous because you are independent and a natural man (bean burrito eater you). Your energy extends outwards naturally and a�racts women. Because it is always on, you are not afraid to talk to an approach any woman anywhere you go, and you’re not afraid to get her phone number or email if you are interested. Because you are indifferent to the outcome you have absolutely no loss anyways; she don’t know you, does she know you? (Another Swingers reference). Your real personality, reality and knowledge is grounded deeper than her perception of your social persona anyways. Women, some I’ll are always magnetically a�racted to you, which only seems to make things even easier for you to get the results that you want. In the rare circumstance that you are actually what some people would call ‘rejected’, it never deters you it never even raises your temperature or does it even faze you. You can handle anything that a beautiful woman could dish out because you’re so grounded in your reality. In fact, what she did was actually kind of cute and funny. You can walk away from a woman at any time you think

that anything is not going in your favor. You can just walk away, that is right I said, just walk away. Here is a technique that will allow you to always have the upper hand in any situation when meeting a woman. Just throw out what I like to call the seed. Of this leaves the power always in your hands. Even though you are coming from your own reality, it’s always a safe bet. Just to go ahead and throw something out there at her to see if she is interested in you. Just say something like, “Hey, what’s up?” If you can sense that there is something more going on between you, for example that she might give you a smile back or start telling you about her day, these are just signs that she might be receptive to you. Remember that you want to be the rated “R” guy (Swingers, again). You are always a li�le mysterious and women can not tell where you are coming from except they know that you are living in your own reality. This will almost force them to be drawn into your reality in order to find out more about you. What you are not doing is going up to her like a wussy and being dependent on her response. Actually you could almost care less what she says, because it really doesn’t ma�er to you. You understand anyways, that you cannot appear too interested in her otherwise she may feel that yes she does indeed have the power in her favor. That is not what she wants to feel. We’re men, they’re women. We’re all here for a reason. Remember the social dynamics now allow us to explore the mating process many times (and love) without having the dependency of certain outcomes “wahhhhh...” (with protection). Women want you to notice and you do see how they dress when they go out. It’s easy to approach her so don’t make a big deal about it anymore after you’re understanding here and internalization of these principles.

When you are throwing seeds (of communication not sperm) out, you are just basically going off to women and just giving a li�le comment on something. You might say a short li�le joke or something funny. Maybe you notice something else that is going on in the environment, and you just pointed it out her, just something. What this does is allows you to maintain control without fear of rejection. How is it possible for her to even rejects you if all you are doing is throwing a li�le comment out at her. Plus you can walk away from her before she responds. A good idea is to always leave the conversation first; this way you don’t appear needy (and of course you aren’t anyways). Get her info and move on if it’s appropriate but be indifferent and casually cool. This is so important because it will allow you to gauge how interested she is, and you can leave at any time without fear of rejection or loss. But more importantly than that, you are doing the single most important thing by instigating action. By fishing instead of hunting and overpowering women, you will be actually more likely to ease your way in to the li�le girl inside of her that can respond to you as the biological female that she is. Keep in mind that you are just throwing li�le seeds out there in a social environment, and not only does it increase your social value, it makes sure that she is aware of you even if she didn’t pick up your strong reality to come to you. Keep in mind that although many women today will still go up to him and him talk to you, that the traditional role of men going up to women first is still pre�y much the standard. So if you are not thrown off by her sexual energy in the first place, and then you go off up to her and just throw out a li�le seed of communication to instigate something everywhere you go, you are not only increasing your

chances everywhere you go, but you are compounding them. You are about 100 times further along than other men just by doing this when you are in your own reality. Do you realize how important this is? I just saved you several hundred dollars worth of investment in pickup lines, seduction methods and neuro-linguistic programming. Why on earth would you even need those pickup lines or seduction techniques if you are coming from your own strong reality and you are a normal guy anyways? As long as you stay in your reality, you can do ‘anything’ just about. It is in your best interest to be an interesting, intriguing, directed man yourself in your own life if you really want her to take more of an interest in you anyways. Look good, smell good (don’t overdo it), have nice shoes, fresh breath and be ready anytime because ‘it’s always on’. It’s almost counterproductive to study pickup lines seduction techniques, and so forth when you can just be a natural man coming from your reality, and you realize that you can just throw li�le seeds of communication out there at any time to any woman were ever you go. When you come from this state of mind instead of trying to somehow ‘trick’ her into falling for you because you don’t naturally ‘get it’, then you are just being a real man and she can appreciate that. The only time when you might actually need to use some pickup lines is during the transition phase when you are still being mostly in your reality, yet still feeling some of her energy that is still a li�le bit distracting. So now when you see women you should not be afraid of them wants to finish this information and have a full internalization, but if you can just come from the state of mind that you are just sewing some seeds and that there is nothing wrong with talking to her because she is your counterpart and she is like you.

O�en she will just ignore you on the outside (despite the inner creature..try to look for these signals, a small glance your way to see if you’ll be a man) so it is up to you to initiate the contact and you’re not afraid because you’re not le�ing any superficial ‘added value’ or crap get in your way; you are natural. Beyond the forced reality you know that she is a normal human being, well at least you are going to find out. See if she is just another pre�y face are not for yourself. You may find that she is a li�le neurotic, or you may find that she might fit into your reality because she is a li�le funny, quirky, demure, sexually repressed, or anything else that you may like. To her, and by her I mean a beautiful woman,it is so rare for her to actually meet a real man or to communicate with a man on a normal level or even any level can really turn itself into a sexual adventure because you know how to naturally leave the progression has a man. To her this is so refreshing and she may actually go further than other guys would dare to believe just because you are a real man and this is one advantage of this forced reality that you can completely turn in your favor and capitalize on because the women, the real beautiful ones are actually quite repressed. You know that it is always on and of course she would want you once she gets to know you. And by throwing out li�le seeds of communication with any woman who you find might be of potential interest to you, you have already surpassed most of the barriers that it takes because you are a natural man. Remember that she may try to test you and see if you really are a real man. So it’s important for you to always come from your own reality. Once she is assured that you really are a man, it is up to you of course to take the next step. This will usually mean that you will go ahead and get your information such as a phone number or e-mail address.

Don’t say that you are going to call her or not, leave that completely up in the air and in your reality. Act in a ma�er of fact sense knowing that she will yes indeed to view her phone number. And also that it is not a big deal. It is a very natural process which your grandfather would be proud of. Remember that there really are millions of women out there in the world that would love to be with you. You know that you are a strong, desired and wanted man. Not every woman may be interested in you when you are indifferent and approaching her, but that’s the point; you don’t really ‘care’. If you show too much interest the game can be over before it starts. It’s always on because you can approach any women just casually and socially. If something does develop, you’re still naturally indifferent and take it from there. Have her in your orbit. So the key to being a natural man is really just to see through the invisible force field and treat her as if we would throughout any other time in history. Remember all animals don’t get scared when it comes down to the mating process. In humans its more enjoyable than doing it like they do on the discovery channel but otherwise it’s the same thing; don’t be nervous. Always be ready to just talk to women wherever you go. Make it a habit. You are comfortable with yourself and they are comfortable around you and interested because they don’t know where you’re coming from.

The Importance of Action Without Fear When you take action, you know that things will work out in your favor. Your whole state of mind is that Yes, of course she wants you; and if she gets the chance to get to know you of course she would probably in love with you and she will turn into a wussy and mushy girl that is such a part of her inherent nature. This is the state of mind I have; you can use this to your advantage to take action when you have strong beliefs. That belief has manifested many times for me; in fact about everytime in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. A woman does want to be a woman still in fact now more than ever. Anytime that you can go out in public you should always have the a�itude of “its on” and that you know women will react positively and biologically to your natural approach. Your ability to take action will put you ahead of all other men. When you come from your own reality without fear, and know that women are looking to be social creatures as well and that they are on the lookout potentially for meeting a real man like you, you will lead a very healthy lifestyle. You can be funny, cocky and funny, but just be yourself. If you’re doofy then they won’t take you seriously though. Hey, I know what it was like to never take action. The reason I never took action was because I was still in awe of a beautiful woman. I always let that energy really detract me from what was essentially there behind the forced reality barrier: that she really is a woman just as much as you are a man. But this always threw me off, and I always came from the state of mind that her beauty was too overwhelming and too overpowering to somehow affectively breach. I know that if I would’ve tried a lot more o�en than I did that because I am

be�er than the average looking man in already seem like an interesting guy that she would have a be�er chance of taking an interest with me than with someone else. But any time you come from that state of mind where you are not grounded in your reality, you are just le�ing her have the power because you are faking your own strength. O�en men who are the strongest man in the world are weak now in our society when it comes to dealing with beautiful women, and that is the only thing that will throw them off of their center. Pure fearlessness comes from your own grounded reality as well as the knowledge that you are gaining of all of the universal implications into why she is the way she is. You never need to be afraid of any beautiful woman again, even if you are a li�le bit ugly or overweight. Remember that our social dynamics dictate that she wants a real man, and because of her lack of options she will be open to anyone who can treat her naturally like the woman she is well he can be the real man that he is. Now because of a woman’s strong social independence, that relationship may not last very long dependent on the level strength of each person. Remember that a beautiful and socially accepted woman can have all kinds of men who will do anything for her which increasingly makes her board, however she may find in other real man has come along and leave you for him for any reason especially if you are giving out to her powers of perceived authority. Your ability to take action will put you in the best favor with a�racting beautiful women into your life. Yes, I used to be the guy who’s also held back and never approached most beautiful women (with the social persona exterior) either a�er I realized the drama but was really just seeing the forced reality (mind you I have had many relationships with dozens of very good-looking women but just not the best of the best in America). It is very important that you internalize what I am saying here and make it

your own reality as well. It does not take much to go off to a woman and just throw a li�le seat of communication out to her. A�er you do it a few times, or even a dozen times then you will start to realize that they are actually real people to and you can focus more on the traditional and real woman that is behind the ‘fronted’ exterior. The more beautiful she is, the more she is actually like you (this is the way that I see it) because you are a strong man and her visual aspects are shown up front; you know she could be a child-bearing mother down the road (inside of you, this is why you are a�racted to her). You can use that to your advantage when approaching women. Also, a�er a li�le bit of inner work you will be able to see that all these women (who are biologically LOOKING for a man like you) are looking be�er than ever; they are ge�ing ready for you and they are everywhere! It confused me because I generically fit the ideal of what women say they want anyways but couldn’t understand it until recently. Just remember to be indifferent but do approach and sow some seeds which can lead to a different kind of sowing, anyways.. You can almost laugh at society with what you have seen is done to women today. You can almost feel kind of sorry for her that men are unable to communicate with her because of these barriers, this forced reality that has been put there. When you’re out in a public environment or when you are in a place where there is mixed company between men and women, take a look around and feel the wussy energy of the other men and you may also notice that most of them do not even approach the beautiful women because they are to in shock of how beautiful she is and her sexual energy is too strong they are on such unstable ground that they cannot even approach her. Don’t you think that this makes a beautiful woman frustrated? Why do men just stay away from her? It’s almost like a curse. Now do you think this might possibly build up some sexual tension? Can you also see

how why she may choose a more psychologically unhealthy man instead of other men that are more like her physically? She will lower her physical appearance standards in a man more than she would traditionally just because of the leverage of it being so hard to find a real man, that she will se�le for something else as long as he knows how to naturally bring out a�raction in her. I think personally, that this is just the hard edge inner core that is just being repressed than just wants to be a normal woman (and nothing special more) that she will go ahead and sleep with guys that are not good looking at all but who do understand the exact same natural process that you understand. By being a natural man you will speak straight through to her just as if you would speak straight through and communicate normally in a sexually descript way with other women around the world (take it in the face if you do not believe me or have not experienced this year sell) or that you already have with lesser looking women. And if you’re still ‘nervous’ when you approach you understand why. You still are le�ing the ‘forced reality’ from before still seep in. Once you completely rid of that you will be on max effectiveness. It will probably take around a dozen approaches or so (depends on you) to completely become congruent and get rid of that former fear now that you really understand how stupid it was. Otherwise with other ‘tricks’ you’ll still be fighting against society’s paradigm of that illusion of glamour. The only thing that stood in your way when dealing with the average looking women in your past was that they did not have the forced reality of beauty that is so evident and pervasive throughout our society. That did not get in your way because you have always been a natural. So as long as you can get past her forced reality, and live strongly in your own reality so that you are not swayed over by this false sense of whatever you want to call it, you can have natural success with the most beautiful women

in the world. Of course you do not even have to have the money, the looks, or even the personality to maintain a short-term relationship with a real beautiful woman. Why? Remember that she is just so fed up of not dealing with real men (when the only thing really stopping down is the sexual barrier that she is pu�ing up and fronting) that she will o�en se�le for a li�le bit less of a man for any kind of relationship. When you go out in public and realize that it is kind of true that not many men approach her because she is so beautiful, well you now know where you stand and can see why your chances are about 100 times be�er than any other man just because you’re taking the action so some seeds and throw her a comment, make a joke, tease her a li�le bit, play with her and reject her yourself and walk away and have her chase you, or anything else you want to do as long issue are in your own reality. But another way I like to look at it is that there are so many 10’s that I have seen in magazines that kind of look exactly like her or very similar and I also know that I have a live to offer them as well as a real man who has a real life put together. So what does she have to offer? You have to find out and take the action yourself remember because you are acting traditionally, but not you have nothing to be afraid of. One good technique is just to ask her opinion on something. Believe it or not, you can even say “Nice weather, eh?” AS LONG AS you are natural, indifferent and don’t care and this can be 10 times more effective than a pick up line. She wants to meet a man ‘naturally’ and not through pick up lines anyways. The whole psychology of the pick up line is that it’s almost unnatural and working to appease her social persona to accept you and give in. When you come from the core, you can really say anything.

You are not afraid of rejection; because it rarely happens anyways when you are natural, and you can also just turn away and laugh at her and walk off. Understand that you may have to do some things which can be considered hard-core against the more beautiful or apparently bitchy women. So many men would be afraid to offend the li�le princess herself (I usually have made up nicknames that I start calling them right away like ‘Lo�y’ for Leticia, ‘Elma’ for Karen because I did tickle me Elmo impersonations, etc.), but you know that she really is a woman beneath her fashionable exterior which jokingly scares off so many men. She is probably a dork as well, so reach out to that part of her. Even call her ‘dude’. Give her a silly name (a�er a li�le while). She’ll wonder where you’re coming from. Just say anything but be grounded in your universe. There’s so many opportunities for you. You’re going to be comfortably you anyways down the road as a man, so just be yourself upfront. If you can just be yourself upfront and casually direct with women, they’ll be relieved. You know you have a lot to offer...give them li�le insights into who you are and don’t care about the outcome. Stories are great to start off with. I’ll imitate the voice of a girl the entire time I talk to her, I’ll IM pretending the bad boy version of me is out and the nice guy clone is talking to her to relay messages (that was with a white girl whose cat talked to her, but anyways). It’s not a bad idea to actually tease her a li�le bit when you meet her and as the relationship goes on to build sexual tension. Keep in mind that do not have to necessarily do anything different throughout the sexual a�raction process other than maybe increase the level of sarcasm, wit, humor, teasing, stealing her frame, etc. in order to more swi�ly move to the process of a�raction and prove that you are a real man yourself to her.

But the most important part is that you just come from your reality and never give in to hers because that is a violation of traditional principle and natural selection anyways. Yes, you will have to be able to reject her if you are not interested or if she gives you too much drama that you just do not want to take on in your life, or if you think that she is going to try to keep violating your own reality too much than you can go ahead and reject her flat out right with no remorse. This will o�en mean that she will come chasing a�er you because it is so rare that a man would actually turned her down, so just be prepared to deal with her from their (and maybe just take her back to your place reluctantly right then and there). Beautiful women I see as my equals and they are just like me. They are my biological equivalent and balance. I know that they are really dying to meet a man like me on the inside. When you can believe this and know it for a fact, rock force. When you can believe this with all of your heart and know that you have value stay within your frame and reality, this will become so evident to women and they will be a�racted to you more than any number of pickup lines or techniques that are meant to try and win her old verve from the wrong frame anyways. With their independent power, they are basically alpha females; hey, I’ll admit that I bring a lot of firepower and drama to the table as an alpha male but I want to prevent when stars collide in a long-term relationship. In fact all of my adult life I have known that these beautiful independent women were my equals, and it has always confused me up on two very recently. Maybe you have had this feeling as well, because you know that you are a man of quality, integrity, and value. The good news is that you can now finally experienced the level of women that you know you deserved in your life.

They will be more happy to be with a man who is healthy, a�ractive, fit, good-looking, who has his life together and is going somewhere rather than someone who is the emotionally or psychotically unstable. Just remember that it is up to you two defines the direction of a relationship. When you approach your think of finding out what she is really like anyways (remember that you do not even see her false exterior you are just being natural). You are also aware that you are not naïve to fall into her demands, because she may try to test you, but your reality is so strong that anything she says does not ma�er and you can and will lock away if she gives you too much drama are tries to violate your reality. A beautiful woman’s inherent desires are no different than any other woman in the history of the world. She still is a woman, and she still wants the thing that all women want which is to experience what a man has to offer her in terms of sexually and ultimately to raise a family with him, although these dynamics are ge�ing flipped around in America today as you well know from reading my other chapters here. But inherently she still does want to feel what it’s like to be a real woman I’d been with a real man. This is in her biological nature and it will not go away a ma�er how much social distortion report on top of it that may only appear to change on the surface of what she really wants that is still inside. You really have to appear and REALLY BE independent and indifferent, and not care what the outcome is. You can not be dependent on whether she will or whether she won’t. If you are counting too much on the outcome or hoping that she will say yes, then you are pu�ing the power in her hands and she will unfortunately resented so she will not tell you. Just casually ‘talk to her’, make her laugh, it doesn’t ma�er. We just build up all this perceptual fear (false evidence appearing real) because of the way

our society allows her to express that part of her. Women expect you to be a man, and they are so disappointed in that today because men will not stand up to them and be a real man. And this includes the men that they know are their counterparts that traditionally they would be essentially mating with. So if a woman expects you to be a man are you going to give her anything less? Yeah, it’s funny when Clark Griswold is looking at the lingerie saleslady and throwing out all kinds of Freudian slip quips and sweating, but he’s coming from the ‘smi�en’ angle of giving into Forced Reality, which isn’t natural communication to women (National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation). Or even when he digs himself a grave of complete lies by saying he owns the hotel, an airline, used to work in the CIA, and is borrowing his brother’s wedding ring and taking that family on an inspection tour in a station wagon all just so he can appear like he’s single to have a chance with her and impress her (Christie Brinkley in National Lampoon’s Family Vacation). Just understand that as hilarious as it is, you don’t have to lie but primarily don’t get trapped into the pussytrance because it is based on shaky ground, where he was coming from. Remember that a man thinks he is being a man and this is kind of ironic because he may say the things that to work a hundred years ago that really are traditional, but the only thing that is ge�ing in the way is that his natural power of being no one in authority in the dynamics of the relationship has shi�ed to her because of his feeling that he is unworthy or on shaky ground because he would do anything for her because of her beauty. She really just wants to be a woman, and you just really have to be a man. Don’t let them scare you, don’t let their beauty scare you. And you come from your own reality it does not even ma�er because she will respond naturally to you. There is nothing surprising or unexplainable about her reacting to her natural biological process of being a woman because you have the balls to be a

man and living your reality and play your own natural role. You really have to see what is going on when you look around at meant today and what you and I did in the past. While we were doing is essentially giving up our power whether we knew it or not because of her beauty. Remember that our society will never escape this it perpetuates beauty, it puts it on a pedestal and is so pervasive that you just have to see what is going on and understand that beneath it all a woman is still a woman and a man is still a man. If you can see through all of this and be a man and keep your power, you will realize that you can still be a natural with women all of the time because it’s your reality. Make ‘taking action’ and initiating a habit. It will lead to opportunities of ‘fulfillment’ for both of you. I didn’t waste time with pickup lines and seduction techniques though I found them interesting, but I always knew there was something that really explain what was actually going on. There was something going on that is much deeper than anything that this service information talks about our deals with. All of the techniques that you are seen are within the context of the information that you now have in your hands. Visualize this. All wussy men you can grey out in any public situation because even if they talk to the beautiful women there, there chances are slim. So now you can survey the field immediately and see if you have any real competition, which doesn’t ma�er anyways. If you’ve got things going on and you’re in your reality, just go ahead and talk to most of the honeys there for a li�le bit each; introduce yourself without giving away the power and sit back. O�entimes they’ll have the same vision you do of the other wussy men ‘grayed out’ who they choose not even to acknowledge in many cases even if they approach or not, but they’ll see you. If you go into a club, just go up

and say “Hi” and smile to all the women you see and then sit back with a beer at a prime location, and stay centered in your reality. Sow seeds of communication may lead to sowing a different type of seed (not from Jung’s garden center either). Socially she may not be out ‘looking’ for a guy. This is actually your best time to casually and naturally take advantage of opportunities. This way it won’t feel like it was forced. One of the honeys I met was at a club where it was a meat/meet market. The level of game being thrown around and forced reality of beauty’s persona was at it’s usual all time high. Women in that environment can sniff out ANY weakness in a guy because the dynamics are hyper active and polarized. She knows that most men will try to hit on her. What did I do? I was upstairs of course being confounded at how hard it is to get women in a club (especially this one..World Cafe in Honolulu). So I was si�ing there with my beer upstairs looking down at the dance floor. And there were two girls who sat down at a table near me. They were obviously perturbed by all the game being thrown at them from downstairs by men who knew they had the power so they were seeking a desperate reprieve. I noticed the ho�er skinny one and she kind of gave me a li�le smile or look and a�er another sip of beer I went over to her. I asked her (without giving her the power), “Are you Brasilian?” And she said, No...she was actually Portuguese Hawaiian (I later found out she loved Brasil). A�er I asked her name, she was smiling and they said something like it was just so ‘hot’ down there but you could tell there were just so many guys. So I asked her for her email and phone number and she wrote on a cocktail napkin. Anyways, I went out with her on the eve of the Bush/Gore announcement of a draw. She’s the second or third girl I know that just puts her head flat

down on a table for like a minute. Have you ever seen this or had this happen? I can’t explain it yet but I think it’s a good sign. Maybe she was struggling with the thought of taking me home or not (lol). This was at a Jamba Juice in Waikiki. I went back to her place a�er that. I never gave her the power...I was just cool and laid back and actually didn’t talk that much. She told me later that she thought it was great how we met and how I ‘approached her’. We made out several times but eventually the power swayed her way because I drove her to work in the morning. I called her out half jokingly that she was using me and we made out some more later to make up for that I guess but eventually there was a dry period for several months. And then something profound and surreal happened where I knew she was thinking (we’ll leave it at that) and she called and we went out again, but dammit she was looking be�er than ever in those tight jeans and I was still playing cool but I think she had another boyfriend anyways so we ended it. All girls love my sidekick kermit puppet. I’ve used him as a tool or ‘prop’ to break barriers before I understood the real dynamics. He would allow women to ‘open up to me’ a lot sooner. He was and is a tool of leverage. Anyway that you can get past their social persona (usually by just being a strong dominant centered man). I guess you could use puppies or dogs in this way too, hehe, of course. But you be�er know what to do right away kimosabe when she’s talking to you (get her email). Women today will come up to you not all the time but this is a great opportunity. Li�le do they know now that you really have control of your reality so you can just ‘reel ‘em in’. ‘Git’r done.’ And with this knowledge you can start to pick out men who are weak around women because of not understanding the ‘forced reality.’ Be ready to just strike up conversation anywhere you go with women.

So just start practicing talking to women. You don’t have to have a motive to begin with..just get used to maintaining control and being indifferent but start talking to beautiful women all the time and make it a habit. It ISN’T a big deal. We think about ‘what will she say or think?’ Dude. Bitchslap yourself... you’re not like that anymore. It doesn’t ma�er what she says. Throw seeds out and really be indifferent and carefree, centered in your reality. You don’t think about what she’s going to say or build a mountain out of something less than a molehill. And you don’t have to se�le for Deuce Bigelow’s level of women like a guppy humping the scuba man at the bo�om of the tank. I find references to succumbing to a woman’s beauty (read=power) even in GQ and Maxim..it’s pervasive. It’s imbedded into our cultural society and you will be inundated by it unless you are grounded; you can ignore it or use it to practice living in your reality and not being responsive to it. Make it a non factor; when you’re coming from your reality you know that you have more values and substance than that. Make her prove herself to you. Do you think that in the future you would pander to her demands? No? Then just be more who you really are up front with her. If you’re accepting her manipulative behavior with what you’re doing right now you’re going to have to change some things. Just be congruent with who you really are. Don’t put on a front with women. Guys will go out of their way to get a woman’s a�ention...look at it this way. Think about the future. Picture her old and gray and you not pandering to her then. Relax it’s going to be ok. But there is a difference between ge�ing out there and actually interacting with women and not doing it. Nothing’s going to happen if you don’t interact.

In the rare case they might come up to you if you are the socially most desirable dude in the house or are famous but otherwise for the most part you, the man is going to have to take initiative. Nature finds a way. It’s your biological duty to procreate. Even when the odds are stacked against the normal guy in the U.S. what with our independent beautiful women you’ll still find a way to procreate. Remember we’re dealing with something else here; the ‘forced reality’ of added value which is only a perception because the real her is right beyond that (and good for you she already looks sexy). Remember that we men are front end loaded; in the split of a microsecond we’re a�racted to a woman and we want to maybe ‘let her know’. Dude, you go�a chill back. That’s what it’s all about. Keep that within because most of the time once you find out what she’s REALLY like you maybe wish you didn’t meet her or tell her that. Just because she’s fine so what? There is an abundance of other women out there anyways, you DON’T need that one. And don’t use the word ‘need’. That denotes dependency and you are an independent strong man. Just think of it to your advantage that we have all of this additional a�ention and value to woman’s sexuality (because they look fine) but you can see right through it that she is still a woman so you can approach being a TRUE natural. Here’s the thing; you KNOW she’s going to fall in love with you to some degree once she does get to know you (if you are a great catch) and then SHE’LL become the wuss and you may want to run (that’s been my experience). So don’t show her your cards up front. Play it really cool. I’m going to have to save techniques for something entirely different because this is the foun-

dational groundwork here. Take opportunities everywhere you go just to throw seeds out at women, and let them know that you are an interesting and funny guy. You can easily be a li�le bit intriguing as well just by the natural things you say. If you appear like you are frightened or thinking about what to say to her, or worried about the outcome she is going to sense this and know that there is not something natural about you. So of course in the American workplace you will still have to ‘cope’ with strong women. This is not a problem; it’s our way of life. You can’t change American women but you an change how you proact and react towards them. You can still live in YOUR reality. You can perceive that most people are doing the 50/50 dating scene but you can see that and maybe just prefer the AMP instead. Don’t get involved with women at work..well, this is all on you I guess. With AMP you are just being up front with women about the type of relationships you have and they can take it or leave it. You might want to just tease them and joke around like you do with your buddies but in a li�le more taunting way when the time is right. Become friends with them if you’re not interested. Most likely strong women are friends with other strong beautiful women and they can introduce you, etc. Remember that you are not afraid of women because they are like you. You have a lot to offer them and are not at all distracted by their beauty; they just got ready to meet a man like you, so make it happen! She’s just a woman and you’re just a man, exemplified in both cases. In future products I will talk more about the process of sexual a�raction (beyond what’s all in here) but remember, with all of the perceptual garbage out of the way, you should naturally know how to tease, flirt, and spark sexual attraction with her.

Make sure you meditate on and implement the ‘Shark Tale’ analogy. It will help you take immediate action...a shark who sees it’s ‘tasty’ bait. In fact a�er you watch the very beginning, the opening sequence of the movie, that is a perfect example of how men in America are acting. We see a li�le worm on a fish hook which represents the female and then we see a blurred shark in the background approaching the worm and you know of course the shark is supposed to do its biological role and eat the worm. But what happens? The shark becomes a wussboy and lets the worm get away. This is exactly what is going on when a man is leading the added value of a woman’s social persona or appearance throw him off from doing what he knows he is his natural and biological function. Let this be an example of leverage for you and make sure you read the whole chapter and internalize it. It will help you take action and fully break through any remaining barriers when it comes to approaching any women. It’s worth buying the movie just to let that sink in. There’s other things going on in Shark Tale too. How Will Smith becomes an instant wuss when he sees Angelina Jolie’s fish; a real partaker in the ‘forced reality’. She gets mad at him when he finally turns her down ‘you turned ME down?’ Just be prepared for a short period of drama if you do leave a girl who thinks she’s on that level. The rest of her personality is quite unhealthy. I’ve got more coming up on the Shark Tale soon.. With your new understanding, be able to pick out how society continues to perpetuate this illusional reality; it’s EVERYWHERE, where we cater to a woman’s beauty and let it throw us off. This level of knowledge is tremendous leverage for action as you shouldn’t even be skerred ANYMORE to approach.

Evasive Maneuver & Tactics If a woman is turning up the heat or drama on you at any time when you are approaching her first meeting her, you are probably not doing something right in the first place. Coming from your own reality and taking the safest natural approach of throwing seeds out there without expecting a serious answer from her and pre�y much been indifferent, you shouldn’t have any of these problems anyways. If you are just going to act naturally around women and get something going and maybe get their phone number (naturally because you could really care less), they should never be rejecting you in the first place. The safest thing you can do is just ask for her e-mail when the timing is right, and then tell her to put her phone number down as well. When you are really coming from your own reality she should be interested enough in order to do this, because the fact alone that you are unlike any of the other guys she has met in the past week or month. If you feel that she is pu�ing on too much drama, or is crossing your own boundaries and lines which you have set up in your reality, then just walk away. You can just walk away or laugh. But if a woman really is being bitchy to you, either let her know that you expect first-class behavior or you are not going to put up with that, or you could just say something like, “flibberdejibit” and walk away - it’s up to you. But you must never lose your cool, because these women can sense anything and everything. If you walk away from a woman who is giving you drama because she crossed your liner boundary, and you really do not care she will sense that you have already forgo�en her and you really are walking away and you could care less; in this circumstance there is a chance that she may be pulled to you magnetically because of your sexual gravity.

Buy of experienced this before when a woman just came up to me and started yelling and debating with me and I could hardly hear her because the club was so loud; basically she was just given me a lot of drama because I was with seven other women or something, and then she came back later and asked me to dance. So what did I do? I stayed there for about three seconds and then walk away and she didn’t know what to do. But I could see her watching me with wanting eyes later on the side of the dance floor si�ing at a table. So if you can get some kind of drama that really is not life-threatening from a woman, it can actually be a good thing so you need to be able to develop a sense of perception to see if she is starting the accelerated mating game with you. Of course I will go up to women and say all kinds of crazy things now, but it does not hurt to go ahead and just throw some seeds out there and let her take the bait if she is interested in you. Remember that you can always just walk away and because you are living in your own reality you will be unfazed by any drama that they present. And remember that you have millions of women around the world that would love to be with you. And since it is always on, and you are so cool, you can easily start something with any other woman that is in the same establishment. But none of it really ma�ers because you are centered in your own universe. You are just going out there been an interdependent social person to get things potentially started with women who you think might be able to add value to your life because you know you can add it to theirs. In fact you’ll o�en find out what a woman is really like when you talk to her. So you just have to go out there and be a li�le social, but being your own reality at all times and you may even have to heighten your reality to be more hard core of who you really are, because you know that her illusory energy is not going to distract you. All you want to do is see if she is someone who

is more than just another pre�y face. If you express your feelings for her too soon it may make her run. It’s a balance of energy...a rubber band. She demands you save you love her a dozen times a day (in a relationship) and you say it rarely but in your own ways it’s going to mean so much more and have more value because you are leading the relationship and aren’t giving into her conscious demands to try to sway it her way (because of her independence or connection with overly wussy love songs). Let her keep wanting more. Where the men are men and the women are women. The women still are women despite what you see in their strong personalities. It’s just that most of our mainstream society may not be as polarized as say the import car industry (where the women are very feminine and the men are quite masculine in their roles), doesn’t mean that mainstream independent women aren’t girls either; they are just as feminine inside and pre-programmed to respond (sim:1) to a man who is real and understands the process. If you come off as a wussbag, you may be asking yourself, “How’d they know we’ve been wacking?” (Beavis&Bu�head reference). Because that’s the kind of guy they can sense probably has all kinds of uncontrollable and ‘creepy’ fantasies (her social persona response) about her right from the get go. When you act naturally you cut through her social persona and what she says and you say is less important than how you are communicating nonverbally.

Stealing Her Frame There is something that is called stealing her frame. cab this technique came from Rick H. This is just another technique that you can use, but it really doesn’t ma�er everything and anything doesn’t ma�er as long as you’re coming from your own strong center and never giving her the power. Remembered that she doesn’t want to have the power in the relationship. Basically it means you are just acting like her, a high drama, picky, prick. Just look at some of the beautiful women and how they react when a wuss man approaches them. You can go ahead and steal exactly what she is doing and use it on her (or even turn it against a woman who is acting like that to you while having fun). For example you could say, “Oh my God, don’t touch me, ewww.” Or just anything else a ‘mean girl’ would say from her elusively bulletproof social persona. It may appear that she is flaunting herself and her beauty, but this is really just a way of competing with other women to hopefully find her counterpart of a really strong man. Because she is so beautiful and preens herself, it is just one of the ways that she can express your newfound independence in this modern day and age; just as much that you have developed yourself in other areas and have been able to expand and grow in value that you can offer her. She is looking for a man that is her equal and opposite. What she has in beauty, you can make up for in many things. But if you are giving her the power without consciously being aware of it at the start, it will never get to where you want to be anyways. Remember that you are a man who does have a lot to offer her, you just have to keep and retain your center throughout the beginning and throughout all of the relationship in fact, throughout all time, because you are the man.

Remember, you may not think that a woman knows where you’re coming from, but she knows. Being aware that you are coming off as a wussy is 10% of the problem though most guys will never realize it even though they think they’re ‘saying’ the right things. The other 90% is being in your reality with a universally strong center and never being swayed by her beauty barrier. You will notice a considerable difference, in fact all the difference and the women will be happier and MUCH more likely to take it further from there once you ‘are this’. Even if I could tell all guys so they understand what’s going on, they still have to get in their own reality so that they aren’t swayed and instantly transformed into a wuss with her presence. In the future I will be coming out with some more technique based stuff, even though I am one of the few dating gurus who really focuses on the natural process itself. The techniques that I will get into will be based on top of being a man who naturally a�racts women and your foundation here.

Fast Forward Power Technique The wisdom of ages and your awareness and knowledge of it will allow you to see the signs and prevent future drama. Most men can only see what’s right in front of them and they are sunblind by her ‘beauty’ because we have upli�ed it as a society and we honor it to the point where she resents it because we’re unknowingly giving her our power. Basically just try and pick up clues from what you sense about her right now, or a�er you start talking to her. And then you can use this and think ahead into the future and see what kind of drama or troubles that you would have if you were in a real relationship with her. This thing you can use to your advantage to be less interested in her, which will actually be much more likely to pull her towards you because all of the other men are always so interested in her. You can use this to your advantage...just think of something that you are aware of about her that can cause great distress in the future. Examples of this could be; she is very picky, she likes to spend too much money, she considers herself a ‘bitch’, she has way too much emotion for a man to maintain his solvency in the long run, were she just might end up nagging you in the future. Whatever you can think of, use it to your advantage and use it against her in your mind as this will give you even more power in the dynamic of the initial encounter. This will help keep you from becoming a needy man (or even wanting to without your control of your emotions due to her beauty if you’re not fully living in your reality yet). Just know that there is going to be something

about her that is probably really going to annoy in but you if you spent too much time with her other than what you have planned, and use that against her. If you can ‘fast forward’ from the signs you are ge�ing from her (she would try to spend all my money, I’m not going to deal with that level of drama, etc.), if they are obvious, you may be able to prevent great distraught in your life. When keeping the fast-forward power technique in mind, remember the entire frame of the kind of relationship you might want to have with her or the lifestyle that you are leading. This all helps keep the power in your hands, because you know that it probably wouldn’t work out in the future anyways. I am really strong when it comes to this because I know that there is only a 1% chance in reality that I would marry an American woman, so really she has no chance against the anyways, even though she probably will fall in love with me once she gets to know me. Just use something like the fast-forward power technique to your advantage. Fast forward and you know you’re not going to be acting like this around her anyways down the road. You have a busy lifestyle and career so just remember to stay in your reality and look at things objective; it probably wouldn’t work out with her. The last couple ho�ies had all kinds of different issues, etc. This will help keep the power and force on your side where it belongs (and she wants it to be). Remember in the AMP relationship style you don’t have to put up with her drama by le�ing her know ahead of time and framing the relationship. Let her know when she gets out of bounds. She can still have those ‘trouble signs’ but because you are not in a 50/50 relationship you can basically bypass all of that drama about what it would be like to have a real relationship with her (wouldn’t last).

A Shark Tale:

Your greatest leverage for wisdom & action This is the most powerful technique I’ve come across which really explains all of the dynamics between modern day men and women, and the perceived paradox that most of us are stuck with. The fact that we are biologically predisposed to know the mating process of a�raction, makes in this one all of the most elusive obvious elusives there is. In the animated movie Shark Tale, Lenny is a shark who is basically an unnatural wussbag. He actually reminds me all the lot of Americans sensitive men, which somehow seems to be a commercial byproduct of who we are as a nation today. A shark is a natural born killer. The rest of his family are natural born killers. There are some very interesting things going on in this animated movie which I encourage you to at least watch wants to really see what I am talking about here. When I was watching that I understood that something really deep was going on here, that was almost so ridiculous; but I realize the most profound truth I could ever realize was epitomized in this movie in one scene. This will help you more than anything to realize perhaps what I’m saying about the macro dynamics of what is going on. This scene is they are in a restaurant; Lenny (played by Jack Black) is at a dinner table with his brother and his father (who is played by Robert DeNiro). His father just cannot figure out why he is not a natural shark. In the scene there is a bowl of shrimp that is on the table in front of them. No notice or a�ention is given to the bowl of shrimp that is on the table in front of them while they are talking. Finally the father shark reaches down to pick up a shrimp from the bowl and this is where the surreal thing starts to happen.

All of a sudden the shrimp starts defending itself, by giving a ridiculous rant or rave about his family and how he had to save them so please don’t eat any of us. The daddy shark almost gets to appoint himself where he believes the shrimp, but then comes back to his senses. He tells Lenny to eat the shrimp, but Lenny disagrees and will not eat the shrimp. Lenny is not only afraid to eat the shrimp a�er his father tries to force him to, but he grabs the shrimp bowl and protects the shrimp and tells them to get out of here and puts them out through a li�le hole in the restaurant glass. Can you start to see the dynamics of what is going on here? Are you asking yourself what this has to do with you and successfully meeting beautiful women? And the answer is it has EVERYTHING to do with meeting women. You have to realize that a shark is a natural born killer, it is its biological duty to eat many things much larger than a shrimp. What’s really fascinating about this scenario is that there was no value to the shrimp when they were just talking as men, and they could’ve just picked up the shrimp and eaten it because it is their biological duty and birthright. What happened is all of a sudden there was all of this nonsensical value added to the li�le shrimp who was supposed to be in by the shark. Basically the shrimp got its screen time, and that is the only thing that threw off the biological and natural reaction of the shark. But can you see what Lenny did? Whether there was value given to the shrimp or not he still would’ve not eaten it. Man, it is your biological right and duty to relate to and a�ract women. Everything that has happened in society now (this invisible and perceptual ‘forced reality’) is just giving women screen time just like the shrimp. And

this is the only thing that is ge�ing in the way of a shark been a shark or a man being a man. And it is so ridiculous that you would allow anything to get in your way from fulfilling your biological purpose. At the very beginning of the movie of very similar thing is happening. A little worm is given a lot of added and perceptual value because of the screen time, so all of a sudden we feel sorry for itself if anything would happen to it (mind you in a biological unnatural fashion). This is so profound I recommend you see it for yourself from our angle and paradigm here. And Lenny lets it get away as well. My question is how the hell does Lenny even survive?! A ‘vegetarian’? Shark’s aren’t vegetarians. The only reason we have such a thing as the 40 year old virgin is because were leading this extra screen time or perceptual value of this forced reality get in our way of fulfilling the biological process. Everything that Glamour magazine and Cosmopolitan, and all of our media, including the empowerment of women is doing, is just making women more frustrated because they are not being fulfilled either because all the men are being thrown off by the screen time that is ge�ing in the way of the biological process of a�raction itself. If all of us gave too much perceived value which violates nature itself, and everyone became a 40 year old virgin both men and women, and this was spread across all people, then we would defied nature by no longer being able to perpetuate our entire humankind. In ‘Swingers’, Vince Vaughn is telling Mikey that he is a bear with these big fangs in big claws and is ba�ing the bunny around he’s got these big fangs and he doesn’t know what to do with the bunny. The bunny is just si�ing there in a corner shivering and he doesn’t know what to do with these big claws. Don’t be a Lenny.

If the bear did not eat the bunny or kill it essentially the bear would not survive and perpetuate the natural order. Understand that these are natural and biological realities that are parallel to exactly what is going on here, except instead of actually ‘killing’ a woman you are starred in the natural biological process of mating (or going in for the kill) to perpetuate our natural order of humankind. If this was not done we would not be able to survive beyond ourselves, nor would we have go�en here in the first place. All that is going on is you are seeing a perceptual and emotional ‘added value’ that is simply violating the biological nature of sexual a�raction that leads to reproduction and our human life. This beauty that you have seen before that is making men weak is just a forced reality that has been built up over the past couple decades that is now denying all will meant to be a woman and a man to be a man because men are seeing the added value that is ge�ing in the way of claiming what is rightfully theirs. Remember in the natural way of things you really do have the right to be a shark when starting the natural a�raction process with women. You have just been le�ing this added value or screen time get in your way of sparking a natural a�raction response or emotion in women which starts the mating cycle. So if you can really look at the scene from that movie and understand how ridiculous it really is, that a shark would be fighting his own biological order he would not be able to survive, nor would he be able to take care of his future generation if you let something as stupid as some added value get in his way which is only a perception anyways. It is so ridiculous because a shark is not a vegetarian, a shark is a meat eater. Capsule understand if you are not going to play your natural biological role than you are really just being a Lenny and le�ing something so stupid as a shrimp pleading its case get in your way. Remember that a woman natural-

ly wants you to spark the biological mating process itself is your role, traditionally it has always been your role so it is up to you to be the shark that you really are and not let their screen time get in the way. In fact it is again so ridiculous when you look at it, how a li�le shrimp could plead its case with a huge close-up in front of the camera in a ridiculous whiny voice that you are almost tempted just eat it just for daring to let some stupid extra added value get in your way of fulfilling your natural duty anyways. It is so blown out of proportion that I think this is the best leverage you can use for really encouraging yourself to instantly see what is going on as well as take action. The more that she is flaunting her beauty, the more she just wants a real man to come along and take care of things. If you are a real shark or a real man, you are going to do what it takes in order to survive and fulfill your biological role or duty. If there were only beautiful women and they all acted like this, how on earth would we be able to continue our civilization as we know it? Can you see why women are so frustrated why men are just been man because they’re le�ing their own screen time which they o�en regret get in the way? Remember that the forced reality of her screen time is just giving additional value that is all fake in the first place. It is just a shallow front that is standing between you and having success, and fulfilling her as a result as well. You think the shrimp is going to get mad at you? You can go ahead and laugh because you know your own reality and your purpose. You can also go ahead and find other shrimp or woman (please use these in a parallel analogy, but purposely view them however you want in order to live in your reality and get the job done). Even if in nature a shrimp pleaded its case and what it lets you need its, this is just unacceptable anyways because it defies the biological nature of evo-

lution, you can always find other shrimp anyways who are ready to fulfill their part in the circle of life because it’s not up to them anyways. It is not a woman’s role to go out and seek you; though of course in today’s society that has changed because it is unnatural and untraditional. So keep this in mind it is your duty to go ahead and take the action to start the natural process of accelerated mating. It is not the shrimp’s role to stand up to the sharks. Why on earth would a shark or a man want to defy his own biological right? Which really has more value in any scenario here; A shark eating so it can survive or a shrimp ge�ing unnatural screen time and value that it wasn’t supposed to deserve which would maybe try and prevent the biological nature of things to happen so the shard that survive? If you want more leverage on the situation understand that the shark would not survive, or the bear bad in the bunny around, or if it really was like this all of the time we would not be able to perpetuate our human order because a shrimp or a woman is not going to seek you out, you have to go to her (and if she did seek you out, who do you think has the power in that relationship which defies biological order?) Know your role! Women want you to know your role and expect that you know it. It also does not ma�er where a shark finds its shrimp, as long as it is tasty. Think again about the value that is being placed which is just so stupidly ridiculous from stopping you to start the natural and accelerated mating process which you can now have with as many number of women as you want as long as you are a man (and accept responsibility for whatever consequences may come from that). Actually a woman is just making herself tastier for you to go ahead and fulfill your natural role. Can you really ask for more? Can you see why some men are so successful and natural others are not? Most of the men in America are leading the shrimp to plead its case and they actually listen to

the shrimp...this is a serious thing because what if the 40 year old virgin becomes an 80 year old virgin and is not able to perpetuate itself? American men are leading the shrimp prevent them from what is inevitable. And the women are resenting this because they cannot find a real man who will put aside the screen time that society has given them in order to fulfill their biological inheritance. The men in America have become Lenny’s. They have become weak when it comes to dealing with women only because they’re listening to the shrimp were looking at the screen time of added value that is given which is only a superficial front to prevent them from being the man that they are and that is it. That movie is so incredibly powerful, that I encourage you to buy it and think about what is going on and let it sink in. You can use this exercise this technique as your greatest tool of leverage when you see a woman. You can be the shark and she can be the tasty shrimp, however you want a look at it, you are really doing a woman a favor because finally she is meeting a man who is not afraid to be a man and who can fulfill her sexually and in other ways as well. Remember that she is tasty and she is very repressed and frustrated. All women have this inherent biological function that works were made in long-term, nevertheless it will still work just as strong or even stronger when she can connect with that centuries old biological instinct within her that she can not explain and achieve sexual and natural fulfillment. You can be the natural man that you are or you can look at this added value that we have given them and allow that to stop you from being a truce success. Why on earth would you let the shrimp pleading his case get in your way? The American men are actually listening to the shrimp plead its case and they are becoming so emotional and tied up in the shrimp’s case that they can’t see that they are not doing what they’re supposed to anyways and the

women are frustrated. Do not be a Lenny. When you start ge�ing out there and using this exercise and living in your own reality you will realize that women all along have been wanting and waiting for a man to be a man. Than it does not come down to money or necessarily looks; because she is so frustrated she can not find a real man she will o�en make all kinds of compromises just to be with you because you found someone who can play the natural mating game with her. I guarantee that you will find this to be true when you go out there and exercise your right to be a man without le�ing the forced reality of her screen time get in the way. This is more powerful than about a million techniques, so I hope you can really appreciate the value of this. I would really love to hear your success stories so feel free to let me know about how this information has affected you and change your life. You can be in the reality of being a Lenny and looking at the added screen time and value that you are giving to her by focusing on the allusion itself, or you can cut straight through that crap and fulfill your biological duty. Use this technique as a powerful tool leverage if you are still feeling that you aren’t yet completely congruent. And now that you have this information understand if you do not take action you are just being a Lenny. By really hope you can understand the universally profound impact that is in this parallel analogy. 40 Year old virgins...le�ing the bait get away and the bait is resenting it too. Which reality are you choosing and which do you want to be an? If you do not go out there and be a shark or a real man with all of the information you have now been there is no excuse for that action; you have a greater leverage than almost all men realize when it comes to dealing with beautiful women, because this is everything.

It doesn’t even ma�er about pickup lines and that’s why not even focusing on them because this really is everything. You could even view it as every time that you go out, you have to feed yourself as a shark and you see all of this beautiful bake in front of you just have to go out and in RK start the process of natural a�raction. There beautiful women everywhere (except in Wisconsin), so your opportunities are truly endless and plentiful. Don’t change your standards for any level of ‘beauty’. Have the ho�est girl in the world but still be yourself man. That’s most likely what would keep her around once you have her (not giving in to her demands and drama). I hope you can start to see the world with new eyes, but remember that you are in your reality and are in different. A shark does not get super excited when it sees food everywhere, it stays cool and goes in for the kill naturally. Never let a woman’s energy or drama throw you off because it is the only thing that is testing you (this additional screen time and added value) that is ge�ing in the way of what you want and keeping hundreds of other men away from her so you can have her because they are being all any. The advantage today of course is that you can accelerate the mating process without much consequence; and this is also what the woman is looking for. If you ever let her ‘screen time’ (connection with the universal and sexual energy of beauty pervasive in our society and connected with your own secret emotions) get in the way (which never used to be evident before) Just see her as tasty bait if you want (I think you know what I mean). Women will cringe at this thought but it’s really about ‘starting’ the natural sexual a�raction process with her because you do have a lot of value you can offer her. It’s up to you to make it happen and get it started because they will thank you and possibly fall in love with you. And this essential process is how we

ensure our survival (though now you can use the accelerated mating program for socially and interpersonally accepted near-consequence free win/ win relationships that women are looking for just as much as you). Women are not at the top of the food chain, men really are as much as the empowered woman would like to think today. All this a�ractive bait out there and other men just aren’t biting, HELLO! They can go hungry as long as you take care of yourself, but I now feel it is my duty to share this information with men who would really like to have success with women being one of their ongoing and habitual accomplishments or part of their natural life. If you let ANYTHING stop you, you’re just being a Lenny and le�ing her added value of perceived ‘screentime’ get in the way. She ain’t Beyonce, and there’s no difference in approaching anyways..just be real, be a natural man. You don’t have to be Jay-Z. There’s millions of beauties everywhere; just be yourself. Don’t try to be someone your not by giving into a false illusion which denies biology itself. You don’t have to let bait get away or swim away, just be natural and throw out your fishing line instead of coming at her with your jaws open. Yes, Lenny can change his stupid unnatural ways and ensure his survival by not focusing on the pleading case of the shrimp and just go ahead and play his biological role. You should now be living in a new paradigm right now. Deny it in the first place, because this ‘added value’ of perception WASN’T here before and this dynamic does not exist in most countries anyways. The bait is there being dangled in front of you and you are surrounded by Lenny’s who won’t bite. Another key to this is being natural. Most Lenny’s who do approach are le�ing the shrimp swim away because they are biologically being swept off and missing the bite. A real ‘bite’ is not just approaching but being a natural and starting the pro-

cess of a�raction instantly. Some Lenny’s may try to take a bite are never successful. But you have to be in your reality and the right frame. Otherwise other NLP or technique guys who are fighting against the forced reality still, they’re never scoring or biting effectively almost most of the time because they are not in the biological role..they are listening to the added value and succumbing to it and the bait is still ge�ing away. I don’t know if they even knew how important their script was (to us) when they wrote it! Thanks DreamWorks! We are all natural ‘sharks’ you could say because of our inherent nature to a�ract the bait in the parallel biological process. We as men really are at the top of the food chain. As another note, I remember si�ing in the huge beer city store in the sunroom (I forget the name of it) across the border of Ohio in Tennessee with some other college students a�er our ‘Free Love’ party for AIESEC 8 years ago which I promoted. A girl named Dee who was cool and their leader; she was saying, “You just get all girls don’t you? You’re just a player (respectfully).” And within I knew it was true but because of the social programming I almost didn’t want to accept it because I wasn’t at the time. Even then I was fighting against the Americana of the ‘forced reality’ which was always stopping me from having full success. Align yourself with biological proof and experience success with women that you want and she will love it as well. You ARE a natural. Everything around us has been holding us back (tough defense) from that but you don’t have to let it anymore. She will respond unconsciously from the inner self.

Money and Other Dynamics: A Virtual Non-Issue When a man is acting more traditional in nature by going through the courting procedure, instead of just the more casual and focusing on having fun with her and just having a blast, she doesn’t like it because she feels that something isn’t right because it’s not in line with her more independent and free nature. A strong beautiful metropolitan woman can pay for herself and pay her way, so if you are focusing on buying her everything and giving her all kinds of a�ention as if you are courting her, obviously this is and what she wants and although she may go all with you for her reasons such at she thinks you’re you, she will usually leave you if you’re going to courting procedure when she just isn’t that serious or heavy minded yet this early in the relationship about marriage with you. Remember, my focus or purpose here isn’t on ‘dating’ or ‘relationship’, but if you are so-called ‘dating’ one of these independent women, what is expected is that it is going to be a 50-50 relationship. This is just what all of the dating coaches and everyone will teach you, because we are dealing with of course a woman is strong and independent and can take care of herself now (and in most cases she can for the type of women that we are talking about). To try and repress the value that she does have as a woman, and all of the exciting drama that comes with her, would be like taming the shrew. That’s why I believe that it is be�er to just have this level of woman in your life for shorter-term relationships, real short-term relationships if you know what I mean, or to have as real friends. When you start going into a traditional or according dating mode with her, you’re going to have to put up with a lot of compromise that is going to make you feel like losing your power as a man.

This is only because she is very independent. I’m talking right now about when you are in an actual dating relationship. When you’ve usually got past the initial beauty barrier, and now you are relating with her, you are going to find yourself still in a power struggle more than you want to be. That is why you must really come from your own reality, however the dynamics of the modern dating world, really do state that you are going to have to make a compromise and there is going to be a li�le more input from her basically then has happened in traditional. This is just the reality of what you are dealing with when you are in a serious dating mode, or eight type of relationship that is considered as courtship or potentially leading to marriage. If you just look down the road a li�le bit further, you will realize that you will have to put up with this the rest of your life if you are with their, so just keep this in mind. If you choose a more traditional woman, yes you can have and retain a lot more of your natural independence as a man. Like I said I am very aware of this nature of the independent woman, and that she does bring a lot of interest, intrigue, value and excitement to the dating equation, but I’m aware that I will not be able to fully be myself as a man due to the compromising nature and ensuing power struggle that will daily take place. Are you ready to handle this kind of drama? Just the even more in different and then maybe she will want to hang off of you who are around you and maybe turn the relationship into an AMP. If you do not want to deal with a high level of drama, and I mean worldclass drama, that this level of womanhood brings to the table and into your life, then you be�er think about what kind of relationship you really want to have with her. Remember is going to be very hard to repress the independent and free spirit within her, or to get away with telling her what to do all the time be-

cause she is not going to accept this. So the recommendation I would make is that you have a different kind of relationship with this level of woman. Make it more free natured and free-spirited naturally. Don’t go into the relationship as if it is going to be a courting more mating dance, go into the relationship very drama free and short-term focus. You will let her know that you are not going to put up with their high level of drama, and this basically means that you’re not going to have a serious relationship with her where you would have to deal with this on more of a daily basis. This allows her to be the woman that she is around you, and allows you to define your boundaries and her to recognize those boundaries much more easily, otherwise she will be out of your life. She will be more accepting of this kind of relationship because you are being an honest man, and are still le�ing her be the rest of the woman she is with all of her drama and emotion when she is not around you. She will know what your boundaries are and that she is not to act in an unfi�ing manner around you. The benefit for her is that she has finally found a real man with which she can have a social or sexual relationship with without the heavy-handed drama that comes at her from all of the other man that she is around. As far as money goes in the relationship, you are not taking the traditional or courting ritual anyways, so this means that you really do not have to buy her things or pay for her a�ention. Paying for her a�ention and buying things in order to win her approval is a trademark of the traditional courting ritual of which our forefathers did with women when they were interested in specifically marrying them. Do not feel that you have to buy her anything or old for anything other than your own personality and sexual a�raction. This is what women want anyways.

When you can just be a man and take the focus off of the money, it’s not that you are cheap but rather that you are focusing on the more important things anyways that directly relate to her femininity. When you start buying her all kinds of things she will instantly categorize you and put you into the ‘suitor’ classification. In a 50/50 it’s ok once in a while (I’m not ge�ing into that stuff), but retain your gravity that she is pulling and staying with you and not the other way around. She is much less likely to go ahead and sleep with these kind of man, because the traditional approach anyways (even if she wasn’t so bored to death by them and all the men coming a�er her like this) doesn’t include giving up sex until a long time into the relationship, because that is more her way of keeping you if she is interested in you for marriage. So when you can come out the whole relationship angle from where she really wants a real man to come from in today’s society, you can throw all that other garbage out of the way. And it is not uncommon for her to want to sleep with you very soon a�er she meets you. Because you are leading a whole different kind of lifestyle, one that is really kind of like hers, without all of the drama and long-term heaviness associated with the suitors that are chasing a�er her. If you are going to go a�er her with a traditional approach, (there is a problem in that term just going a�er her anyways, because she should be coming a�er you because you’re a man who naturally knows how to a�ract her) she is likely to just ignore you because you are like all of the other men who will are taking the approach of they will do anything for her and by her things just to win her a�ention. I hope that you can really realize that this is what is going on and millions of men in America are doing this and the women are just fed up. You don’t have to qualify for her social persona’s expectations of what she wants in a man as long as you can communicate on the biological reality and paradigm that sparks the mating process unconsciously in her.

Shy guy? No problems If you are a traditionally shy guy, as long as you understand everything that is in this book and you really realize that the world is yours and that you can live in your own reality, you will o�en find women will just come up to you and you don’t even have to make an approach. So if you really are a shy guy, as long as you are not like the other men who are giving up their power right away when they see a woman and entering her reality, you will still have a lot more success. In fact, I have found that o�entimes women will approach me because I am sometimes really shy and I have taken it from there. When you really understand and apply everything that I am teaching you here, you will still be able to have success with women even if you are a shy guy. It would be in your favor to just go ahead and throw out seeds if you are a shy guy, because remember you are not afraid of her anyways even if you are shy. You should learn some further techniques which I will teach you in the future of how you can specifically approach women or get them to come to you more by sending out your energy, however I don’t think that you are so shy that you can even go up to her and just say, “Hey, what’s up?” are you? If you are living in your own reality it’s not can be that much further or more for you to just go up and be a normal person in her. Are you shy because you are really shy or is it because you are or have been scared by women’s power? Do not let their power ever intimidate you because it is only part of this forced reality in that same power is actually a weakness for women you can turn it to your advantage or deny completely because you want to find out the real woman in her. If you’re coming from the state of mind that you are shy because you are

afraid of her, then you still don’t get it and you need some more work from this training here. But if you are naturally just a shyer guy and not an outspoken person, you may prefer having women come to you, but at some point you’re going to have to talk with them anyways. I would recommend that you just throw some seeds out there if you are naturally a shyer guy. You can just go up and say something and then just turn and walk away and really have her energy off of your mind and then she will very o�en follow you and then you can take it from there. Remember that you do not have to be afraid to approach women so do not let been shy be any kind of excuse for you; you are living in your own reality seat can do whatever you want. Let me ask you: Are you funny at all? How are you when you are just being ‘normal’? Loose and relaxed. You’ve just found another breakthrough. You don’t have to perform or have ANY anxiety around women now that you understand what’s in this Guide. As long as you are a funny or cool guy anyways, and don’t let anything more than 1% of the environment or situation change that (most guy’s it’s 99% of acting un-normal), women will start going crazy. All we’ve been doing is le�ing this perception get in the way of talking to another human being (THAT’S IT...a million dollar secret); which from that point we can start communicating with her past her social weapons grade persona and base it on more solid ground; your great and natural personality as a cool dude. If you are a cool dude ANYWAYS, just let 0% of ANYTHING change who you are. You just have to work on ge�ing it down to 0% change of who you are in any environment and when you can be this ‘real’ to women, they’ll be all over you and lead the direction teasingly and a bit sexually or naughty. Say hello to my li�le friend.

Diamond Clarity: Leading the Direction Remember its YOU who holds the sexual power (inherently, biologically and naturally) by refusing to accept her un-biological claim of extra a�ention, which she doesn’t necessarily want but has been forced into through her upbringing and cultural ubiquitousness. She can’t even explain it other than she always wanted a real man deep inside and now wants one more than ever because none of them will stand up to her. It is your right to lead the direction of the relationship from the very start, without being thrown off by her proposed beauty. She is still a woman and you can find out a li�le more who she is beyond that social persona. But it is your role and she expects you to know this, how to naturally progress the relationship and set the frame up from the beginning. Because you are indifferent, understand that not all women made the response of (although more and more they will), you can take them or leave them either way. But you do things from your reality and take it in the direction that you want. Do not put up with her drama or her proposed idea that the relationship goes or it will be as set up for failure. Her beauty is almost a disadvantage at times because it only a�racts unhealthier men who aren’t like us. Imagine her innate pleasure, joy and how happy she will be to see YOU. It will be a dream come true. Women that are the kind you really want are dying to find a REAL MAN, who looks good and has his act together who still knows HIS biological role to not let her get out of hand even though her tendency may be to. Remember they will disqualify traditional ‘nice guy’ behavior because it’s been programmed in to them; they can’t just take every guy that comes

along. In fact, men like this are so hard to find, that’s why these lonely beautiful women will flock to you once the secret’s out and they will compete over you. You just have to come from your reality; your ‘center’ knowing that YOU do hold the sexual power and that you are a great catch. When you know that her ‘barrier’ is fake and not even real you can cut right through all that B.S. even if you’re acting like a nice guy just by awareness alone of the global dynamics you will be a refreshing change for her. It’s recommended that you show her part of your personality naturally so she can get an idea as to more of you but she will FEEL that you’re coming from your reality even if you’re a nice guy. Then she could be onto the opportunity of a lifetime. You can go up to her and just say “hey what’s up” if you’re coming from your reality of not needing her, this can make all the difference. Other guys put out this desperate ‘vibe’ of neediness and that they would make her the center of their universe if they ‘just had a chance’. Now, good looking guys like us who are great catches finally have a chance with our real counterparts, the strong, beautiful independent women we know we deserve. And just by coming from your own center of reality and not needing her, this can make ALL the difference and it doesn’t even ma�er what you say. You can get her number, email, take her with you right there, leave her and come back a li�le later and her info, it doesn’t ma�er. An actual healthy guy who is not intimidated by her? This could be her luckiest day ever! Everywhere you go is your opportunity just to invite women into your reality by ‘fishing’ and not ‘going out to meet chicks’.

Tell her a joke, nudge her elbow, it’s your reality and if you’re congruent and I mean 100% congruent with your independence, living in your reality and really having an indifferent outcome to anything she says, she will not only let her guard down but can become a wuss herself. You’re just being yourself man, being direct and cu�ing like a diamond straight through that social persona of junk that’s added up over the years. The words to say will come to you because you’re just treating her like another person and this to them is like ‘whoah’. Because all they get is ‘I’d do anything for you’, ‘Do you have a boyfriend?’, ‘Can I take you on a date?’ from wussy, needy, dependent, insecure guys (only because they have not yet realized what you know). You know you could have been at any scale along there because I used to be one of the ‘nice guys’ but I actually laid off on approaching 10’s because I didn’t want to get rejected. I never really came from a dependence on ‘her’ but I was in awe of her beauty but could sense the invisible force field that our culture has edified so much. Once you realize the big picture of where all of that really stands, It’s healthy guys like us that have been confused and come off as ‘needy’ to them only because we’re being traditional. And being traditional with these untraditional (hello) women, just doesn’t cut it. Why? Because we’re (as a nation) giving in and accepting the fact that they do INDEED have the power to squeeze our balls unless you don’t accept that false standard. If you can just really be ‘normal’ and not acknowledge her fake reality which has been propagated and idealized/idolized by our media, you don’t even need a technique or to know what to say. Why can’t you just treat her like anyone else; like your buddy? You have

no idea how refreshing this is to them. They can easily sense when men are ‘watching’ ‘creeping’ or ‘stalking’ them. Just go up to her as if she’s on your level. You already know you have a lot to offer but just be cool and nonchalant and direct with her. Be honest. Your reality and universal paradigm is more important than any number of techniques you tried to learn without knowing this. When she’s aware that you can talk to her normally and socially she’s going to breath a sigh of relief and let her guard down and she can’t just ‘shoot you down’ like all the other creepy guys that she can see coming. If you still feel nervous about seeing and immediately approaching a beautiful woman you’ve still got some work to do to expagate the false reality and flush it out of your system. I recommend my Shark Tale exercise. You’re already most of the way there (and millions of miles ahead of your desperately techniquing competition) just with the information you have now. It’s really a piece of mind knowing that you can approach beautiful women easily anywhere you go which naturally leads to ge�ing their email and/or phone number and taking it from there. Just start collecting and get it going. We are the guys who are natural to begin with remember? Just do the same things you’ve done when you got things started with your less good looking x girlfriends and you’ll be fine. Just try to control your emotion and keep it inside when you’re sleeping with women of your dreams and pre�y faces next to you all the time. Say it with me: ‘Stay cool....Be cool.’ It’s just your reality. A woman will o�en stay with a man because she feels she can never get enough love or hear him say, “I love you”. Keep this in mind if you are in a

50-50 relationship. You know you deserve these women and you probably have more to offer them than they have to offer you. They want to find a great catch like you and they’ll probably tell all their friends too (heheee...). If you know how to make her sexually satisfied you may have a stalker on your hands. Like my dad says jokingly about me, “He likes to sow his seeds but hopes for a crop failure everywhere”. Don’t forget protection, heck for YOUR sake. See how natural this all really is? 99% of the dating advice out there is JUNK next to this, the true and pure universal paradigm and reality which leads to you reclaiming your rightful power as a man to get women of quality. And, fortunately because the modern day social dynamics have changed, now you can have an unlimited number of women without drama consequence as compared to the more traditional days and when there wasn’t protection. A big part of this is because women aren’t just looking to get hitched, they’re looking to express themselves sexually (more like a man’s nature) because they’re leading a life which has predominantly male traditional characteristics. Hey, it’s an advantage to you that you couldn’t get away with 100 years ago because then you’d have 100 wives and children. So just remember that you will are expected to lead the relationship in the direction that you want and she can either comply or you’ll get rid of her. Remember that is part of the process of natural a�raction. At its best to let her know very near the front (especially if you are playing the accelerated mating game) so she doesn’t think it is a 50-50 relationship; either way you will set your boundaries.

Practical examples of this could be just going ahead and ge�ing a woman’s number, calling her, telling her to meet you for coffee at tax time, and then walking with her through an interesting part of the city and then taking it from there. You could call her out and invite her over for dinner. You could say like my friend Brent says, “I’m feeling kind of tired tonight, at a long day...why don’t you grab some ‘item’ and come on over for dinner so we can talk and get to know each other.” I will have a lot more techniques based in the future because I know that you will want to hear some of those as well. I will be leading the front on this edge, but no ma�er what you do live in your reality, don’t put up with drama that violates your independence. And just frame the relationship properly from the start. have this means don’t be a wussy and calling her every day of the week. If you want to take the 50-50 dating approach, there’s all kinds of advice you can get on that and you already have experience I’m sure with that, just now you will be dealing with more beautiful women so you’ll have to put your foot down and let them know that they are close to being let free (half jokingly) if they violate too much of your independence. Remember that we are no word near the courting ritual because the women away are interested and it bores him to death. No ma�er how much you hear that this is the way to do it know it isn’t. Those dating counselors are wrong for these type of women. And do not buy her flowers. I will get more into this in the future as well as techniques.

Natural Progression to Sex & Why You’re Already OK

People have a tendency to only see what is in front of them. I remember going with a staff sergeant to his church in Honolulu and then going to his apartment a�erwards. There were people there and we they were laughing and joking around. I could choose to really become a part of that environment in the future or not but I chose not to go back. Think of this as an example of only being able to see your reality; you get caught up in whatever you are doing without being able to see the other possible scenarios. Most people can not see that could choose to be somewhere else at that time and not be involved with whatever people they are with. The choices you make will determine a lot of your outcome. I am teaching you to be globally aware of what is going on in the modern mating game and that you have power and choice. Remember that there is inherently nothing different between an average looking girl and a really beautiful one. Deep down they are still a woman and they need some loving too. I would assume that you have had some experience with women in the past, maybe it hasn’t been the level of real beauty queen that you would like it to have been, but unless you are a 40 year old virgin yourself you already have the inherent skills to take a relationship from basic sexual a�raction all the way through to the physical consummation. Just because she’s beautiful, does that mean she has any different biological urges within her? Now, all women are inherently the same. This also means that sexy itself is pre�y much the same process with any of the

women that you have been with or will be with in the future. Now when you start going out with the real women of your dreams here, the most important thing to remember basically is to not enter their universe through becoming a was he by giving in to her perceived sexual power. You may realize that she is more screwed up inside, and maybe even way more shallow than any of the other average women that you have been out with. In fact many of the slightly above average women that you have been with possibly would make a much be�er long-term relationship. But back to the process that leads to sexual intercourse, it is not going to be any different with a beautiful woman than A’s with other women you have had in the past. This is as long as you are staying in your reality and not le�ing her beauty get in the way. It is important for you to focus if on anything about her, make it out about her personality itself. She will be a lot more comfortable with you and the ways, because she is always self-conscious about how she looks anyways. If you can just take that self-consciousness away from her and actually focus on her which is what she really wants you to do anyways; she wants you to realize that there is a real woman behind their bed is quite interesting and intelligent and has more to offer you then her looks. She just wants men to realize that there is more to her than her looks (despite all the a�ention and screen time that is given to it). If she doesn’t want you to realize that, then she is a very unhealthy woman and one that you would probably not want to be around for a very long time. Remember that the main problem women are having is that they can not find any real men, you will find in your near future that these beautiful women are not only the same as the average ones when it comes to the sexual a�raction process, but they will probably be even more sexual in nature because it has been repressed.

What you think about that cowboy? It’s up to you to naturally lead her through that process. Another advantage that you have is that she may be so sexually repressed that she is just dying to express herself and the beautiful body and image that he spends so much time preparing yet it’s almost like a blue balls for her because she rarely gets to be with a guy who is in creepy, who can bring out the sexual side and her that she has made so much a part of her life. A beautiful woman is very sexual in nature and self-awareness. This is also to your extreme advantage. She likes to flaunt it and most men get pussytranced and frozen; she’s just trying to a�ract a real shark, I mean man like you. I guess we’re up to bean burrito eating sharks; your new reality. Keep in mind the upfront that you have to be a real and natural man. This means that you cannot ever be a wuss of course, but it also means that you have to start off semi normally a�er you break through the barrier (which is before you even meet her) and then you can naturally increase the sexual tension and a�raction between you. This may include teasing, joking, nudging her, giving her a hard time, making her laugh or any other things that you naturally do and have done in the past with less beautiful women. The reason you are okay with leading through to the ultimate result itself, is because you have already done it before. If you have not had sex before, I don’t know what to tell you there because it just takes the few times and then you have it down for the rest of your life for the basics of it. As you gain more and more experience sexually, you will find that you can please women in more and different ways. When you actually have a strong sexual history built up, it will naturally make you more confidence to ‘perform’ when it comes time to actually

‘git ‘r dun’. Of coarse women want someone who is experienced. And they respect the fact that you know the female body and how to please her. She does want a real man. So since you already knew what to do cowboy, just don’t let her extreme beauty get in your way of doing what you know naturally and that’s it you’re fine. The process itself (generally speaking) is exactly the same. You will find that different women have different positions were things that they like done and even in terms of frequency, but otherwise everything is just a natural process. Let me restate that you have a lot going on in your life, and you have a lot of value to give a woman (which I know you do), than what is stopping you from leading the life that you want with the women you always desire? They are looking for a real man just like you, who can fulfill their traditional female fantasies and desires. So go make it happen and have fun. In the future I may have more specific techniques based things for you to just be a ‘natural’ around a woman to progress the relationship along. Also do not get over excited when it is time for sex when you are connecting with your perceived value of it; just be a real natural. Animals in the wild to not get ‘nervous’ when it comes to sex. Why? Because it is a natural and biological function that they were born with. Anything else that gets in the way is just ridiculous if you really think about it. Who let the dawgs out again? So don’t let it stop you at any point in time from progressing a relationship forward that both of you are interested in a�er you get it started.

Techniques for Further Internalization & Grounding Just re-read the eBook as o�en as you have to. When you go out, live in your reality and be indifferent to the outcome of any interaction. Being indifferent doesn’t mean that you hesitate to take action. You can use the leverage of your Shark Tale if you want when starting out to help you initiate action (from your cool reality), and then just be normal and cool around her by throwing out a seed of communication to see if she bites. It’s all about your own reality and universal paradigm which you understand and know to be true. Even with just a li�le bit of congruency to this reality you will notice remarkable response and increase in success with women. Your mission is to keep internalizing these beliefs until you become fully congruent in your reality when you are around beautiful women. You want to be able to not even see their sexual energy or a�empted distraction; in fact they’re just waving it right out in front of you dangling on the line, hello. Don’t be a Lenny. This will take a li�le bit of practice maybe to fully get rid of the other paradigm of mass reality, but you’re training has been of the Jedi mind level (here) and is far more powerful than any kind of techniques training. See it on the biological reality, not the forced reality. It is not about positive thinking, it is not about complimenting her (in her reality), it is not about unnatural ‘seduction’, it is about being a real man who speaks directly to the real woman inside of her without any outside or perceptual distraction. You can be so much of a real man just by approaching her from your reality that she trembles, becomes nervous, stumbles on her words because she knows she has found a real man.

All these women are looking good for you man. They only look good because of our cultural society and history, otherwise they wouldn’t; but you are aware of this process (other countries would be in shock if there women were like this). You know that most the other men are being Lenny’s so you really don’t have any competition. Your ability to really be indifferent and not even acknowledge her drama or supposed ‘beauty’ takes you directly to the female that is within her as you can both commence the natural (accelerated) dating or mating process. Think of how can she tell if you are an interesting and great guy if you are coming at her from the angle of creepy un-trustworthiness of being intimidated by her and hiding your agenda? If you can see the universal paradigm of reality, cultural differentiation, the rise of feminism and the ‘forced reality’ of ‘added value’ that is temporary holding you back from success from women, you are ahead of almost all of our men. Realize that even those RARE men that are good catches (without being jerks) that are good with women probably don’t understand as much about what they’re doing as you do. This is power in your hands, so use it for your life. When you connect with women directly, it is o�en an unconscious response on their part that they are compelled to be a�racted to you even if you didn’t meet their social persona’s standard of Brad Pi� looks.

Interdependent Relations With Women Everywhere

Once you are living in your own reality and fully, you will know that you’re not afraid of any beautiful women anywhere you go. You see them as on your same level, no ma�er their level of beauty. You are not afraid of them because although their emphasis may be on beauty, you have something real to offer and bring to the world that is within you, and you know that you are worthy of the women that you want to have in your life. Remember that these women are so anxious to find a real man, that when they do find one they will o�en go with someone who is even the mostly unstable or almost abusive just because he will treat her like a real woman despite her social persona (Tammy Faye Baker level of mascara piledup). Hey, that’s actually pre�y good. If you’re still seeing remnants of ‘forced reality’ that will show you off. Think of Tammy Faye Baker’s level of makeup just covering up who she REALLY is and the biological a�raction process that you know she will respond to. And I think you can see this everywhere, and maybe have known people like this. You do not have to be unhealthy or let the less good-looking or less to offer guys get all of the beautiful women. In fact they would rather be with a be�er looking more normal guy, as long as he does his job of being on man and lets her be a real woman. Remember the relationship dynamics though; if you are going to have a real relationship that lasts through time that is more than just a sexual thing, you are going to have to make more compromises in both of your lives in order to continue to be together because of her given independence because of our 50/50 relationship dynamic. But as long issue are willing to have sexually healthy, fun, value driven, in-

telligent relationships with women who are looking for the same thing, it’s really up to you how many of these type of relationships you want to have in your life. Because I guarantee you there are so many women out there that are looking for men that will just be a real man and bring to the table someone they can just have a good time with without worrying that he’ll be knocking on her door every single night. This is the same reason that so many of the most desirable women will se�le for unhealthy guys (because they are just being a real men), and she can’t wonder why the guys who are more like her in terms of looks, balanced lives, are acting like she would own them; so she se�les for less is long and she gets a real man. This is kind of sad, but remember that this gives opportunities for you or other men if they aren’t as good-looking as what she said she would like in a man. The reason there is this disparity or divergence, is because she’d really cannot find enough real man so she will se�le for less. Because most of the man that she ideally describes, she may see them but she will find out that they are not being real men and will cater to her every women desire; and this is just so frustrating for her. She will still say that she wants a tall dark and handsome man, who has his life together, who has some money, but what about us guys who are like that? Are we not really what she wants anyways (some of us)? It doesn’t even ma�er anymore because she is so desperate to have a real man be a man around her without giving into her reality despite her buzzy beeness. If you can just be yourself and have your own boundaries (no ma�er what your looks are like), you can easily land beautiful women especially when you take the casual relationship approach without giving them too much of a feeling that they are being hitched or have to respond to you or try to get rid of you because of the your nagging impetuosity.

So, as long as you live in your reality and have your entire frame set of how you relate with beautiful women, you can just go ahead and start collecting e-mail address and phone number is everywhere you go and just casually start a relationship. She isn’t as concerned about looks as you are; don’t even let it be an issue but always do be ‘primed’ so you can have everything else work in your favor as well. Than you do start adding these up, and if you want to rotate women you can do that it’s up to you it is your reality. Remember that your women are a part of your orbit and you are not going to put up with their drama. What they are looking for is a real man like you can give them what they want in the short term until they are ready to se�le down and fulfill their biological duty of becoming a mother (this is a whole different ballgame here with these type of women because of the dynamics of sharing a more split relationship). If you go around and start having relationships with all kinds of women and you are taking the 50-50 type of dating dynamic that is ubiquitous throughout America today, you are going to limit yourself and you are going to put up with a lot of drama, and not nearly as much sex. Plus you’ll have all of your girlfriends asking you about your other girlfriends with this kind of relationship. This is not going to be healthy. If you are going to really be an Uber player, you are going to have to keep your relationships light and no strings a�ached with the women you are associated with. You know that either of you can come or go at any time, although she will most likely want to stay in your orbit. Remember this means that you are not going to play the boyfriend role with her and be buying her things and doing anything that would appear like you are according her; this will make her run.

It is important that you make this distinction, and not live the life that you have lived before with 50-50 type relationships. This is a mandate for an Uber player if that is what you want to be. No woman is going to control my life or work against my destiny, why would I let any of them up front either? How about you? Or are you just allowing yourself to bounced off of ‘Brook’s shield’? Learn to see beautiful women as just being who they are, women. You should be excited that they look so hot everywhere for you. If you’re having problems approaching her, you also know that anywhere further along the road (fast forward technique) with her you would not always be acting like a smi�en boy, you would be comfortable, relaxed and sometimes bored even around her because you’re being yourself. You will see opportunity everywhere and not be afraid when you become congruent with your new reality and there’s no reason to be afraid of approaching any beautiful woman. The fact that they always look hot is to your advantage; it gives you someone even more beautiful to approach naturally than 100 years ago like your great great grandfather did; plus you can accelerated the mating process because of our social dynamics without the consequences of having to raise a family together or pu�ing up with each other 24/7. YOU are the one that sets the tone or context of the relationship and shortly a�er you meet her. If you talk about puppy dogs or ice cream then you’re going into a friendship mode that isn’t empowering (I’ll tell you another way this is), if you comfortably bring up sexual topics and get her opinion on them, that leads in another way. If you ask to take her out for dinner, you’re paying for her a�ention and putting things into a courting mode. She will respond accordingly. Women are very flexible because they want to respond to you being a man because it’s your reality that’s dominant anyways. Not domineering and dependent but dominant, has lines and boundaries and structure to it.

You’ve probably seen guys get turned down by women in a social environment (maybe it’s happened to you as well), yet you’ll see the girl instantly agree to go with someone else instead. This was probably because the man was acting the part of a real man without any distraction. Just think of the disadvantage that primarily ‘caucasian’ women have with me, I’m not going to pander to their silly demands or fall prey to their unbeknownst habits unless it might serve my interest. You can use things like this to your leveraged advantage, ‘Well I usually don’t date ‘XX_women’ but I’ll make an exception with you but watch yourself girl because three strikes and you’re gone.’ Because now I realize that I’ve always been a natural (and if you’re like me so are you, we all are except something has been clouding that reality) and that when trying to get hot women in the U.S. it wasn’t ME that was the problem (it’s a social dilemma this ‘forced reality’ that is destroying or frustrating millions of American men’s lives). Maybe you haven’t had the opportunity (or taken it) to experience women outside the U.S. and maybe you have an idea of what it might be like. You’ll realize that you would have been successful anywhere you go by just being yourself (more than likely) with women at your level and above without hardly trying. This is an understated point that I still haven’t heard any ‘dating guru’ even bring up and maybe it’s why they could never ‘break through’ to the ultimate reality of what’s going on. If you’re just against the whole idea of dating women from another race or from another country ask yourself why you’re thinking that in the first place? Did society say that you must only date American women or women of your own race? So many millions of men will just expect to do what their parents without really expanding their mind enough to see what other limitless possibilities are out there and half of them will end up in divorce partly because of this

and the decisions they made. I don’t want to or need to change your beliefs on that issue but it’s important that you realize a bigger picture to understand the pure power that you have to a�ract ALL types of women instead of the mass produced status societal quo. Hey, dating different ethnicities within America is one route you can go where you don’t have to leave the U.S. but keep in mind that most of them (especially the pre�iest) that weren’t sheltered in a very traditional family are going to be quite Americanized hence having some of the traits you may naturally grow to resent throughout a longterm relationship (although o�en less than the majority of American women). International women can be polarized between traditional goody goody relationship/marriage types and the more upfront risque yet even those will probably be more traditional than the Americanized woman. My best friend has this global view because he can’t understand what’s wrong with the women in America around Ft. Hood right now and he’s a pre�y good looking guy when he gets dressed up. In fact he doesn’t even deal with (American) ‘white girls’ because that is where most of this bass ackwards drama is coming from. He prefers traditional type Asian honeys and he only likes Asians because he has found that he can be himself and still be successful with women that way as well. Hey, if Bai Ling is free send her my way. The ideal solution? Well for me, I’m going to have as many relationships as I want with these beautiful strong women either as friends or lovers (rarely 50/50 girlfriends); and the fact that I’ve been repressed most of my adult life because of being confused and feeling something was biologically wrong it’s only made my desire for having more women even stronger. Maybe you can relate to this? There are 40 year olds virgins and they must somehow deal with the onslaught of sexual propriety in the country.

Going through 4 years of Army with no women even near me in that work environment and the stressures there (stress and pressure) has only compounded the ‘need’ (though it’s not a dependency) for me to just ‘get with’ literally hundreds of women and at least dozens more before I get married, otherwise I’ll know something still won’t feel right because all these years of repression. Maybe you can see that too, it’s kind of like a donkey eating a waffle; I mean like holding a carried out in front of a donkey (the blue bowl syndrome of never enough sexual satisfaction in American culture). In fact we would not even be so aware of it so much if it wasn’t so capitalized on. What turns you on more a pair of play jeans on a honey or a traditional skirt and school uniform? Okay maybe that was not a good analogy, nevermind. If she tries to force money as an issue; that’s a sign, stay away from a golddigger and refuse to give in to her demands. There are much healthier women out there. Turn it around and have her buy you stuff if anything or steer clear. I’ve had women buy me stuff instead of me buying them stuff. When you base a relationship on ‘buying or paying’ for her ‘a�ention’ or time it’s just a losing proposition if she ‘expects it’ yet will run off with another guy (like me) who thrills her but doesn’t have to ‘buy’ her a�ention. If you sense that you’re having to pay for her a�ention through meals, flowers, gi�s, etc. with this type of woman who now has ‘THE POWER’ in society and gets it from all the guys, how are you any DIFFERENT from the same boring thing? It bores princess to death. As Dave D. said it really is ‘sexual currency’ in our society. This is actually what makes this “Forced Reality” work. The reason I call it ‘forced’ is because it isn’t natural. It defies biological evolution and stems from the empowerment and idolization of female beauty which was until recently repressed for all of time (and still is in half the world and most of the world doesn’t live in the forced or

fake reality though I’ve seen firsthand int’l metro cities are culturally accepting it). Remember our American society is the epicenter of this revolution which has since spread. But nowhere is it as strong and permeated than in the U.S.A. itself. Why? Because other cultures have been developing on their own independently of the U.S. for longer than us. Their cultural tradition are steeper and deeper. Most countries are slow to change. In Italy there is an interesting mix going on. They are a traditional country which naturally polarizes and typifies men and women. Think of ‘machismo’ and the women, though popular in modeling via Milan are still very feminine and traditional themselves. They still expect a man to be a man even though they may say they don’t like it (from ge�ing influence from America). Women really want a healthy, emotionally balanced, fit, funny man with a plan who can be a man. You dont’ have to become a jerk to land 10’s, although certain personality aspects you can vamp up to correlate and also fingerfeed her social persona. In America women are stronger than we realize and that has slowly seeped away the power and balance of power in everyday work, dating and marriage life. It’s all around you and if you can’t see that then you’re blind or living in a very rural, traditional community. This independence of women has still permeated throughout small towns in America due to the progeneation and influence of our media in print, news, film, radio and television Dude, the dynamics have changed from our biological expectancies in this new forced reality if we’re dealing with the strong, independent women. She may get bored of your courting tactics unless she really thinks you’re a catch and is ready for marriage (and has motives there), or if you’re really rich.

If she is a traditional type of girl who refreshingly doesn’t have all the drama and is more of a ‘real’ girl that you can relate to (but usually not AS good looking I’ve found in America) you can still date in the courtship manner, understanding that she is going to be thinking about marriage. Are YOU thinking about marriage right away? Then don’t be ‘courting’ girls if that’s not what you want. If you’re not aware of it, just ge�ing caught up again in the 50/50 female/ male friendly dating scene, what you see online and the seemingly normal society we have now you’re seeing it from the eyes of the ‘forced reality’. It is what you know. I’m going to show you what potential hardships and trouble you may be into in the long run (which most of these other dating experts don’t even give a second thought to). You probably haven’t realized yet but someone from another culture can instantly have culture shock in coming to the U.S. and be in gasping disbelief of the power that women have and how much liberty they have (which is a double edged sword). Whereas in most countries, women just aren’t allowed to develop, mature themselves and have the same opportunities as men for self-actualization. NO, the rest in fact MOST of the world is NOT like us. That when you deal with women from another country it actually seems more natural than dealing with American women despite the language barriers (how ironic, eh?) And they have much lower divorce rates and the families stay together because a woman knows her role for the long run and biologically. Not only that but most men can come home to peace without nagging and get home cooked meals all the time and support. Think about YOUR long term plans as well here (boy I hope you’re single). Underneath the American dating scene you take for granted, bluntly put; most of these women you’re looking at dating (in America) have WAY more

power and ‘independent mind’ than you may like to bargain for when you look at it for the long-haul. Understanding this fact and avoiding it completely could prevent hassles in the future by you just choosing not marrying one. Hate, think about your own independent reality and how important that is; you want someone who will support you are constantly trade you are put you down? Although alpha males may be a�racted to alpha females in today’s modern society, it just leads to high passion, high crimes, roller coaster of love, baby mama drama, bi�er resentment, etc. It’s just an idea I’m throwing out there for you that is such an out there kind of thought but when you look into the future and step aside from ‘what everyone else’ is doing you just might prevent a ton of drama and nagging that doesn’t have to be there. Look at the pa�erns and statistics. She can’t help that she’s who she is at this point in her life and you can’t change that or make her something (like part of a more traditionally oriented culture) that she’s not because she loves her independence. This independence is going to create decisiveness and she will become very opinionated once you further get know her. Hey, this is the real stuff beyond the beauty if you plan on ‘being with beauty’. If you’re a strong man which I think you are, then it’s a formula for a lot of arguing, bickering, debating, difference of opinion, and building up of resention on her part that leads to many marital issues and a ton of mostly unwanted drama in your life and her nagging when you’re just being yourself. Please just consider what you’re ge�ing into and look at the statistics and other men you know that have been married and then divorced. Look at the ones who ARE married and see what’s kept them together. It’s not that a more traditional wife is ‘weaker’, it’s really just that she holds true to those values and for be�er or worse hasn’t had the opportunity (or took it) to ‘grow herself’ and take on more masculine traits of independence

and breadwinning. Provided she has a strong husband who knows his role and can do whatever it takes to win enough ‘bread’ then she can stay home can take care of the kids and the house and without giving you drama over things you would expected a wife to do (because it’s been a historical standard along with most of the countries today). In “Swingers”, it also took me a long time to realize why on earth would Trent rip up the girls phone number a�er he got it? Then a�er countless times it finally hit me FINALLY that HE has the POWER and control...he’s living in HIS reality where he can always get women and do what he wants. Have you seen that movie? Let that moment sink and it took a long time for me to really get it, but when I did it was like a big “Aha”. She’s an independent woman and I’m an independent man. I KNOW that she would long for me once she gets to know me and I KNOW that I can add value to her life. In fact a lot of super beautiful women are looking for men just like that to fulfill the shallowness of their superficial reality. If they can get real excitement, love, drama, humor, challenge and sexual energy that you can give them (and you know it) it’s what they’re aching for beneath that shallow exterior. Keep in mind the type of relationship though and that you are going to have to compromise part of who you are in order to be with her in a 50/50 unless you go AMP. Well 100 years ago you could have walked to her and been fine but something dramatic has changed and it’s integrated into our society. A practical exercise for that is to really see it from that angle that there isn’t any of this other invisible stuff that has built up since then. If you’re not nervous, she’ll be at ease. Women want a man who they say is “comfortable in his own skin.” Really, it’s just being natural anyways; not le�ing your perception of their added value get in the way because you don’t care what they think.

They usually care very much what people think. Get it? And when you’re coming from your reality, you are confident and smooth and undistracted. This bugs them and they want to find out why you’re different. Even view the whole approach in that it’s a traditional style of relationship.. refuse to acknowledge her beauty but you have to be prepared for different responses which I will teach you in the future more specifically but really just coming from the frame of mind that you don’t accept her games or acknowledge the fake power then whatever she says that might be drama-ful is ridiculous and doesn’t even ma�er. Don’t let it throw you off no ma�er who she is. Women have sexual fantasies too. In fact, you and I KNOW they do. They long to fulfill those fantasies with a man who ‘get’s the whole process and speaks to her biological part. If you can increase your social value, you will have a be�er chance of keeping one of these women to appease that part of her as well, but if you are just a strong man...get it started and take it from there. Tag team off the ropes. But you can’t show her interest in the way of peddling to her reality...starting it off naturally is enough for her to know that you’re interested. If you’re really coming from your powerful reality she’s going to ‘test you’ anyways so you really have to be congruent and the answers to those tests will come naturally if you just have the right state of mind living in your reality and refusing to accept hers as being more dominant. Sadly, most American men just aren’t living in a reality where they can fully be themselves naturally (which they really are within) BECAUSE our perception of women has changed (yes they are stronger but they are also more sexual and desiring of a real man than ever before too). Many men are just plain be oppressed by their wife’s inherent power and ability to control many outcomes of things that they want should be doing

instead, yet they accept it or stay together because of the kids. And that may be fine but it’s just the reality of millions of men. One thing I respect about many African-American men is that they generally just really live in a strong independent reality that is theirs and they usually get what they want and the women get what they want. They don’t let as much drama get in the way from both sexes playing the biological mating game. What feminists won’t tell you is that women are now using men both blatantly obvious and in millions of less obvious ways, women are using men and sometimes controlling a man’s life. How do these women have the right to say that men are using women? Ultimately it comes down to exchanging and adding value to the other person’s life even if it’s just a short-term sexual encounter for both parties involved. This way no one has to be ‘using’ no one. However in our modern society 50/50 balance has become the norm for real relationships. Remember that women have brought up in this society and that they are independent now so you have to compromise if you choose one for a ‘serious’ relationship. What options would she have le� if we all said ‘no’ (for marriage)? As a great catch yourself you know that you can add value to any woman’s life no ma�er her level of beauty (because they all have the same basic needs so you may as well go for the ones you want anyways) They even try to make us think that God is a woman. But that is a whole different point. You can read my “Dewussification of the American Man.” It’s up to her to try and keep you because she wants a good man and a good catch So some guys get to have ALL the fun while the others don’t and wondering what that guy is doing? Well maybe you can be assured that whatever he’s doing he’s womanizing them and bringing out her natural femininity. So you can fall for that excuse if you want to.

I think women want to be women and explore their desires. Funny thing is, those women who were ‘womanized’ never complain about it. They usually loved it and talk to their girls about it and the next time he’s back in town she has to keep her friends away from him. Just to iterate a point: as adults it should always be consensual relations (of course)! If you’re being natural you won’t have to face rejection with a woman once you’re doing the right things in the right place at the right time. It’s the American women that may be a li�le more of a challenge. The American women have no cards on the womanizing argument with themselves since they get to do the choosing (guys do the picking) and the relationships would be PURELY consensual. If they’re trying to defend more ‘hapless’ women from a womanizer, nah, they’re just jealous and probably want that guy If you are specifically interested in sexual relations you could see it like this; they all have a pussy, they respond biologically the same in the natural attraction/mating process, they may just appear all different on the surface level. As a natural man living in your reality you can easily communicate with them on a sexual level. If you are having trouble because of our societal reality, take a trip outside the U.S. to re-understand that you are a real natural. You KNOW how to communicate with people, you know how to make them laugh, when dealing with women (with the barriers aside grounded in your reality) it doesn’t ma�er what you say, because you are communicating naturally straight to her and past the persona. You are not doing anything different, just being natural. You’ve just let all the junk get in your way before, and now that you know where it comes from, whooheee. The power is yours. Don’t ‘expect’ too much though even though you want to view yourself as Casanova or Romeo.

I’ve gone in public places for example the Full Moon Party where it was mostly Europeans and I just realized...no one’s going to get laid here; it’s in public, it’s a party. You really just have be indifferent and take random opportunities that you want. Once you can ‘break past’ any social persona exterior of a woman ignoring you (because you have to start it, remember? Then you can take it from there and some cases you might be expecting too much. Remember not to put any importance on the outcome or she may sense that you ‘want to hook up’ and she might stay away from that energy of a man on the hunt. Be concerned with your affairs but throw ‘seeds’ out there just naturally and when she responds, take it from there. Say something cooky, doesn’t ma�er. Understand that this e-book is probably unlike anything you have ever heard or read before. In fact it is probably the opposite of what are 50-50 dating relationship seen represents. I think you can understand the value now of this investment that you have made, and how that the traditional dating counselors will get you nowhere towards further success with women. You can have interdependent relationships with women anywhere and everywhere you go in the world because you are a real man living in your reality and you are not afraid to be yourself and see tell potential opportunities just by casually starting them with no strings a�ached.

International Player & Interracial Dating What kind of life do you want to live? What if you knew that you could have women anywhere you went in the world wanting you? What if this was already a reality that you were not aware of but does exist for you. It is a reality that you just can not see right now. Are you limiting yourself? Are you thinking just because you are in the America that you should only have relationships with American women? I hope I can expand your mind here because you really do not know what you are missing. If nothing else, this chapter should help expand your mind as to the reality that you actually do live in. Do you realize that there are women all the world that would love to be with you and even to sleep with you? It is true. How do I know this is true? Ha ha ha ha, shhh.. Let me remind you one of the major things that led me to this universal realization. For over a decade I questioned how I could be a natural success with women any time and every time I went outside of the United States but not in the homeland. It was even a challenge to start a relationship with above average women here. Can you relate? (A lot of this Chapter I may talk about me, but just use that as some insight into your own opportunity expansion). This confused me of course, and I wondered if there was even something wrong with me. I am sure that many American men are asking themselves if there really is something wrong with them when it comes to dealing with women. We know they are usually saying the right things but they are coming from a subservience to her reality because of her of parent beauty well meanwhile giving up their own strong reality that they live in otherwise all the time.

What I have realized is that almost all women outside the U. S. are not like this, in case you didn’t know. During my international travels I really did find out that I never had a problem a�racting women sexually. In fact I found out that they usually came up to me. I wonder if other American men have been made aware of this. Have you? It is such a relief to know that you are still a wanted man in that you can be yourself and act normal and women will actually respond to you sexually because they didn’t in the United States and they still don’t but now we understand why. But in case you don’t have the resources for otherwise to go and experience this for yourself anytime soon, please be aware that you really have millions of possibilities (and by that I mean beautiful women for relationships of your choosing) all over the world. And let me reiterate beautiful and interesting as well. In fact I o�en found international women a lot more interesting than American women because they made sense, you could communicate nonverbally quite easily and they didn’t have a hardened social persona. I tended to notice that beautiful American women were so shallow and stock up on themselves (or that was my perception because I never truly found out what was behind there before then) that it was such an polices for me to experience international women in many different ways. I could express myself biologically, and so could she because it was always a win-win situation. So let me say again that you really would have a mind opening experience if you when to any of the countries I would specifically recommend, and maybe you have experienced some of this yourself. Maybe you realize that international, ethnic or exotic women in the United States are just a li�le bit different than the independent Caucasian women in

terms of treating you. Granted, they are still Americanized a bit, but to me they always brought something original fresh and different to the table, but I always knew that we all have the same interests in the global sense. I prefer ‘exotic’ women (actually I’ve never used that term before because I see them as my equal and opposite...hey, I’m exotic!) over caucasian women. Here’s what America has that other countries don’t with women. From a man’s perspective who doesn’t get it yet, our women play games and mind games with men all the time only because they are just living up the image of what modern society wants them to be (it’s really just one part of who they really are)...you can match that and have a lot of fun. In other countries you don’t have to try as hard because it is closer to the pure natural process without any superficial ‘additives’ that define a woman’s social persona. You’ll be fascinated that you can communicate easily without knowing the language of another woman if you’re exercising you’re natural right to attract and ‘reproduce’. Seriously. In fact, there’s something fascinating about the process because there is less verbal and a lot more nonverbal communication (which is most of what goes on anyways but in the U.S. the focus is on verbal) and when you do have a ‘connection’ verbally there’s so much energy and it’s so much stronger. This is something that is a pleasure to experience because we men are not used to nonverbal communication but you become a lot more aware of it and how important it is to the sexual a�raction and ‘mating’ process. A relationship like that could work long term because through time you can learn each other’s language or she can learn English more; but because of the language so called ‘barrier’ you can actually slowly get to learn more about each other through time.

It keeps becoming more and more revealed and mysterious instead of knowing all about each other up front. I’ve discovered a few secrets. There are a few hidden treasure troves around the world...try looking at most of the expats and where they go. You will find that most of these women are refreshingly ‘real’ and inspiring. Also they make a man feel like a man. It’s not always a money thing. Everywhere I go outside the U.S. I’ve a�racted women without trying and you would probably find this too if you haven’t yet. What other dating guru’s fail to point out IS the other women around the world. I want to expand your mind on this. They almost either ignore the issue completely, brush it off, or look at it as something lower class. If I can get you to open your mind to see that the world can be YOUR backyard too and that the woman of your dreams may actually be from another country, well...just think about it. A refreshing step away that does not just have to be for frustrated men anymore. You can incorporate it into your lifestyle for balance if you want. I find that I almost have more in common with a completely different culture once I get into it than the constant desensitization (oversensitization) in American culture. So don’t close off something you haven’t got to know yet. I’m fascinated with Japan as well. With women are so giggly and sound so cute, very feminine. Up until me right here, international women have either been a secret that many American men have hid and kept to themselves; stereotyped only as a mail order bride kind of thing or just never thought of it other than a short fantasy because they’re ‘so far away and supposedly different’. You would not believe how incredible these women are if you didn’t experience it firsthand. I’ve had several girlfriends in other countries and they don’t bring the social persona ‘front’ to the table. They are very sexual and

hold my hand in public if I want them to. So I might be an around the world heartbreaker? So what?! Women love that drama (all women). It’s part of life. They’ve got some great memories and me too; it’s all about interdependence and adding or exchanging (transformational) value and giving hope. The ‘Womanizing’ Issue. Isn’t it kind of ironic that most women secretly desire to be with a man who is successful and wanted by other females? Interesting. Here’s the thing, I have girl ‘friends’ but when it comes to certain lines there’s certain things I don’t need to or want to hear from her. It actually takes quite a strong man to have real strong women (similar in type to the ones you want to ‘date’ or ‘AMP’) as friends. No you do not have to be gay in order to be friends with them. Do you have any girl ‘friends’ of the type you would like to date? Make it a goal to get a couple of these real women into your life, get their viewpoints, have them help your fashion sense, and really be ‘friends’. I went out in J.B. with let’s see about 9 girls (I lost count). The d.j. said, “to the guy with half a dozen girlfriends...” You certainly get a�ention from the benefits that may come about. Be an interesting an independent man. If you have girls in other countries, your life becomes more interesting, especially when you do start caring about other cultures. That night in Malaysia, this local girl came up to me and was pissed. She was ge�ing in a heated argument with me except because the music was so loud I couldn’t hear what she was saying. Quite drama-ful but later she came up and apologized (I think she was just really jealous that I was ‘hogging’ all the girls) a�er she saw me with the promoter who I knew from a few years ago. Then she wanted to dance with me and then was staring at me.

Hey, if you can bring out ANY emotion in a woman upfront (esp. with strong women) you ought to do well as long as you know where to take things. If I wasn’t with all those girls and going somewhere else a�erwards I could have taken her to my room. Social proof is important. I can teach you about being ‘the guy’. This is just the beginning. I’ve been a nightclub promoter and I don’t pay to go in any club anywhere I go in the world. See, if you’re going to learn from me I hope in your mind that I would be someone that you would WANT to learn from. I’m hardcore funny too once I know a woman. But with strong independent women, you have to show these qualities upfront much more. I can be downright mean to real beauties but they always be thinkin’ then.. I have an Indian American girl-friend in Chicago who is desired by men and I asked her if she’s seen a proboscis monkey; so I sent her a picture of one. It has a really big nose and I was le�ing her know her photo (with a slightly big nose) reminded me of that monkey. That’s just the kinda guy I am (-Beavis). But you have to work it right; when dealing with people you have to know their boundaries. I’ve been friends (she’s an X) off and on since college so we joke around. That’s what I like about strong women, they take more and meet you at your level when it comes to that. I have another X girl in L.A. that I have to stoop down to her level because she’s not as developed and mature socially or adept. This is also a problem you may find if you travel abroad (a-broad?) to meet honeys. On one part because of the language barrier things are actually more interesting and exciting and you can communicate on a different level much mores because you have to. However, I’ve found that I can’t verbally spar with them near the hardcore level I can with functionally developed American women.

Keep it win/win though. Hey I’ve gone out with traditional (American) women too and they’re generally a lot more BORING and marriage minded. They don’t provide the excitement that strong independent women can to me or an exotic international (and more traditional) woman can. Now that the game is on with beautiful American women though, all possibilities are open for you and me. They want men like us. Try not to actually ‘care’ what a woman is thinking or what she may not be thinking about you. Chill, dude. Get comfortable with the unknown; if she’s still around you, you’re doing good. Don’t tell her your ‘feelings’ (especially in AMP). Dont’ seek her approval or enter her zone by listening too much (over your boundary) to her drama. She knows you’re naturally interested in her but her social persona can’t figure it where you’re coming from when you live in your own reality and she’ll want to stick. ‘Telling her’ you’re interested in any way has too many connotations to wussboy trigger from her already “on-edge” social persona that the power shi� may change very suddenly and then she’ll be gone. Our women are so independent today that if you try to find one with the same interests, none of that ma�ers because you aren’t going to find one that’s going to agree with you on everything. If you have a more traditional or international woman she will be more likely to mold more into what you are interested in instead of disagreeing with you on it.

Passion or Coincidence? So is your physical relationship with a woman passion or coincidence? It is never quite coincidence because it is in your nature to proactively seek out that which you are hunting or fishing for. It does not happen by chance, nor does it just usually fall into your lap. Granted that when your energy is strong enough it will automatically start the a�raction process in women around you. The process of approaching her does not have to be as violent as a bear with clause, thanks and a shivering bunny rabbit (I hope it isn’t that violent when you approach women), but women today just respect honesty and someone that doesn’t give in to her illusional barrier to biological a�raction that lies within that cannot be denied. This barrier keeps other men out and it will allow you to get in because you know how to deal with it. This will save the real men for her to experience passion with. It is not a coincidence. You can make her feel like it is coincidence because the whole process will be natural to the part within her that is predisposed to respond. But she will feel as if it is natural because it is; the entire process is natural once you started because it is inherently part of your genes. She will love and enjoy the passion and sexual fulfillment (if the process leads there which it probably will) that you can give her to let her get in touch with her sexual nature. You do want to give her a lot of value when it comes to the physical stuff; and she will be saying she doesn’t know what it is about you and she can I explain the feelings of passion that he is having when she is around you and especially intimately. She will also respect the fact that you do not keep calling her 50 times a day. Sexual tension is like a rubber band or a magnet. If you give up too much

of yourself or her energy or reality, the equation doesn’t work and the a�ention and their relationship fall flat. There has to be enough sexual energy in push and pull that balances out between the two of you. Remember that women are very sensitive to reading and receiving body language and sexual signals. They are also very good at flirting and also naturally now very well how to increase the level of sexual tension with a man that they are interested in and that also knows how to naturally take them together to that level. If you do not think it is a natural process and you have a hard time experiencing this, then you need to either experience this with above average looking women so you know what is going on or you need to get out of the United States entirely to experience this. You are a man and a view these your inheritance to know how to procreate. All of our forefathers and foremothers obviously knew how to make it happen because we are here today. It is such a relief to be around beautiful women who are interested in you without their own issues of upholding their front (although now you are in a different paradigm to break through it). Remember that I said though, that you can actually go through the entire sexual a�raction process through consummation (AMP) in today’s society without almost any recourse as long as you and her are okay with it (and also that you wear protection). In fact you can now go through this entire process thousands of times in your life. It is up to you the number of partners you so choose to experience this process with. This is something new that is a byproduct of our society and the sexual revolution. It is now almost okay and of course accepted socially that a woman can express yourself sexually. In fact our media encourages this with TV shows like “Sex and the City”.

Never before in our history have women been allowed to have this level of freedom and who do you think they want to experience it with? Well sometimes yes it is with other women. But mostly it is with a real man who they feel is their counterpart, who can sweep them off of their feet ideally but knows the process of a�raction and how to make her feel good so that she can feel all of these things that she has been reading in her romance novels. This is a huge advantage to you that our society has basically approved of a woman’s right to have sexual relationships with as many men as she wants. Many times she will want it just as much or more than a man well. You can make it to your advantage to try and repress her head build the sexual tension so that she wants it so bad and then a�er much pulling back you just give her what she really wants. This whole process can be done in a ma�er of hours from meeting her. This is just known as the accelerated dating process. A�er she gets to know and feel that she is comfortable with you and most importantly that she can trust you, when the time is right easily and naturally you can take both of you to the bedroom, or the countertop, or the bathroom, etc. You see when you are a natural, you’re not le�ing any other superficial drama get him away. This allows her to trust you because you are being honest and real with her. That when she does trust you she will be more likely to follow your direction and leading all of the relationship to the next level. Do you think she is going to trust a nervous, fidgeting wussbag who looks like he has some kind of agenda and he’s just hiding it that looks like he has some trick up his sleeve? She cannot trust him and sees him coming from a mile away. You just have to be real and when she can be comfortable with you she can trust you easi-

er as well; because you are pu�ing your reality out there without any questions asked, and she will assume that yes it is the truth. She respects this. Modern day women look at a super traditional female and almost cringe because she doesn’t have the ‘liberties’ that she does. How selfish is this really? The empowered woman can’t see that this woman is happy and simpler and is 5 times less likely to divorce. Desiring beautiful women (top shelf) and not effectively doing anything about it for so many years myself (in America) of course made me question what is going on, as I am sure that you have also felt. Everywhere you go there’s beautiful women (almost everywhere) and they’re aren’t finding enough real men! The world is yours. All these honeys which most all men don’t know how to ‘communicate’ with and you know why. She walks tall and proud basking in her sexual front waiting for a guy like you and then may really be open to a relationship. There are no enemies in women, only those you haven’t met yet. Most American men may not have been able to experience a full progression to the sexual level of consummation with this apparent quality of woman (10’s), because of the invisible forced reality unless they get this e-book is well. You know that the sexual a�raction and accelerated mating process is not a coincidence because you know you have to start at naturally, and she can feel swept away by how natural and biological it was she cannot explain. She cannot grasp be ethos or explanation of how everything just went along and she got swept up and wanted to do what you wanted her to; and she loves it.

An Objective View of ‘Bitches’ and ‘Ho’s’ in our Society So what is it about bitches and ho’s in our society? Why is it that so many women actually fall into this? Is this demeaning to them? Well, when you think about what is really going on here, a lot of these women are the cream of the crop as far as sexual beauty and images concerned, and they just want to be a real woman. If you look beneath the supposedly degrading exterior of calling her such a thing, you will realize that it really is the traditional dynamic that is going on underneath it all. These men that call them ‘bitches’ and treat them the way they do are only playing a heightened version of our traditional and biological sexual nature or reality. The women actually like it because they are finally around real man and can be a real will men themselves, and this especially means sexually. I’ve been through this experience myself, and it has been one of the most empowering things that I’ve ever done, and here is the real interesting part is that she loved it so much and she could not get enough and she wanted to be treated like that. Granted we had an underlying respect for each other, but we were just plain purely sexual in nature. Looking and this from another angle, it really is just the accelerated mating process which has been deemed acceptable by our mainstream society, that it is okay for a woman to express herself sexually for this process to happen. So how is it that rap stars and rock stars always have women around them? Is this just something we see on video or is it really their reality? It’s both. It is hyped up on the video’s because those people are all ‘working’ even though it doesn’t look like it..but don’t be surprised if there’s an a�erparty where close to the same stuff happens.

Those guys do live in that reality and I now believe it. So what is going on here with the rap music videos that you are seen, and the high level of game that is being played in night clubs around the United States, is that men are really amplifying the fact that they are masculine and living in their reality and they are really reaching out to be woman inside of her. Granted this hard-core level which may seem unacceptable by some, is just bringing to the forefront what it is apparent within these people anyways. Meanwhile, those that do not take part in this are ending out to be really repressed and that includes the men and women, because they are not reaching out to each other and experiencing what is there especially with all of the emphasis on it in our mainstream society. Some people are downright jealous but are keeping it to themselves. You can really say that the man (sometimes called a ‘playah’) and women (aka ‘bitches’) are almost taking an extreme rebu�al against the apparent sexual repression of men and women in the mainstream despite the fact that it appears that everyone is having sex all the time in the media. These people know that there is no additional drama such as raising a child or starting a family, so both parties can really partake in their inherent sexual nature without recourse. It is really like these people are living their own lives and define the fact that the rest of America is secretly jealous because the woman is being a woman and a man has been a man. It is just the underlying nature that is coming out with and people. So many beautiful women see themselves as bitches, partly because the man who cannot get with them call them ‘bitches’ and that has become part of her social persona.

It is almost a good thing for a woman to be called a bitch, when you look at it from a certain angle. If a woman is defined as a ‘bitch’ she will emotionally go into a role where she becomes a very feminine raw person under the authority of a man who has the congruency to live in his reality and connect with her sexually in this nature. In fact so many of these women who are superfine, are looking for relationships where the man can really treat them like they have control over them sexually, just in order so that they can let out the real schoolgirl inside (mind you in a respective sense from both parties). All of these people are just really aware of their own sexuality and do not make any excuses for it. This really is a whole different level of reality for most men to even comprehend that it exists, yet I assure you that it does exist. The women that you see in music videos almost define themselves sometimes in this category as being a bitch herself. And she is looking for a man who can really be a strong independent man who can respect the fact that she just wants to be a real woman. The term ‘bitch’ is almost a term of endearment, because a woman is really ge�ing what she wants from a strongman, when most of the other man make her their queen. Hopefully now you can understand that this is real and that millions of people in America are doing this in a healthy way. Yes it can be unhealthy if a man really is out of control and treats her with too much authority and his domineering, then it is wrong. But when they can both really sexually connect with each other on that level of pure, raw unadulterated energy, then it really is a win-win situation for those type of people. However these women are going to need a real strong man, one who can

really put up with her and really show her that he is a man because the second that he loses his composure around her is the minute that she will leave. And these women are some of the ho�est women in the world also by the way. Buy of especially notice that in the African-American subculture, that this term is used a lot. But what is really going on is that everyone involved with this part of the game is really just basking in and not being ashamed of their own sexuality to be a man and to be a real woman. This makes people look away in shock, or be secretly jealous because it is what they are missing out on in their own life. So why do rock stars, rap stars, and celebrity men really do get laid more; they do don’t they? The answer is yes. Not all of them but most of them really do and here’s why: They are living in their own independent reality. THEY are the center of their universe...now their mission might be to give more value to more people around the world but all of that stems from their ‘center’ or their ‘core’. Beautiful women do not throw them off their path. The women throw themselves into their path. They don’t ‘cater’ to beautiful women’s reluctant expectation of having the power they do. Women are so relieved just to be around a man who is a man (and of course the high leverage of social proof alone as well as other women confirmed to profess their love for him helps). Women have to have their real life dream beau’s as well. Why not you? Why not give her an unforge�able experience even if you don’t end up marrying because you have to go through the experiences to potentially find the one anyways. See what SHE has to offer, YOU’RE a great catch. You do not have to be a so-called ‘player’, nor does she have to be a ‘bitch’. Treat it as an interdependent opportunity for both of you to explore the more sensual side of your nature.

She might just be another pre�y face that’s unknowingly falling into the forced reality of beauty’s power which she never asked for in the first place. It doesn’t feel biologically accurate to her (that’s why beautiful, intelligent and independent women are so frustrated and relieved to find real men who ‘get it’ because they’re so rare). I‘ve had a girl in Hawaii accept to be my ‘mistress’ while she knew I had another girlfriend. She was my ‘bitch’ as a term of endearment which she thought of first. This was a�er she called me on the phone professing her love for me and crying while I was yawning while driving on H-1 (true story). And I didn’t buy her anything...she was buying me things while she had other ‘nice guys’ buying her all kinds of gi�s. Which guy do you want to be? I don’t make it about the money because I know I’m a great catch and I have higher standards and requirements than ‘selling out to her’ and expect that in a woman too (hey she wanted to buy things for me and kept surprising me ie. porno videos). It is up to you to decide how you want to ‘treat’ them. Being that she was viewed as ‘my bitch’, yet in a respectful manner allowed us to carry on a certain kind of relationship that not only appeals to her social persona but also to her biological and unconscious desires. This is fulfillment on both of those levels for both of us. Not all women though aligned themselves with the social expectations that society terms as ‘bitches’ so just be careful. You’ll just have to find women that are like this and just be a li�le more appealing to their social persona because that is a lot of what defines who they really are as an extension of their natural and sexual nature. Always be respectful in the sense that you never degrade her; make sure that it is something that she wants to partake in as well. And you can see these women out. The best thing might just be to just be upfront about everything and just the natural and congruent, with a take it or leave it stay of mind.

Pussy Control:

One night stands, girlfriends & area codes: Don’t feel threatened that a woman is now strong and independent like you, she wants you to be with a strong man more than EVER despite the apparent dynamics having been changed that appears to make her more intimidating. You will find that just being a natural, cool and real man around her; a man who has his own boundaries and rules, will naturally a�ract her towards you. Remember one advantage of our modern-day society is that a woman is now more sexually expressive in her nature and is looking to unleash a lot of the tension that is building up from all of this focus on her sexuality, yet without ever experiencing pleasure and fulfillment from a real man. When you start ge�ing the natural order of things going here in your new reality on the accelerated mating program with different women, you are just going to have to be able to manage and handle them. Usually you will have the women calling you to try to fit into your schedule. Any time you meet a woman you are in different and you are open to a possible outcomes such as ge�ing her e-mail address or phone number, or taking her out on a mini dates right there, or even taking her back to your place if she is ready. You are leading a drama free life as much as you can because that is your reality. The fact that you are always surrounded by beautiful women does not even faze you, in fact that is one of the supposed secrets that other people notice about you, and you just accept it as that is how you are. And you know that you are giving a lot of value to these women because it really is a win-win situation. Because you are on the accelerated mating program (if that is what you have chosen) you are now more able to juggle or manage relationships with

potentially hundreds of women on a yearly basis. If you like to travel a lot this is even more of a possibility for you to exercise and expand your reality. If you want to fully exercise the life of your choosing, you will probably even consider relocating to a metropolitan area if there are no women around where you are now. This will allow you to have a plentiful feeding ground to choose from, as well as a high number of high leveraged, stressed out, beautiful women who are looking for a man who is honest, direct and will be real with them. You are not afraid to let any woman go at any time, because you are in control of your reality. This means that you’re not going to let women get away with stupid things that are outside of your reality. If they even try to do such a thing you will let them go at the drop of a hat. This means you can put them under pussy control considering the dynamics of the relationship on are that she is in your reality and she is a�racted to you. Because women are so strong and independent these days, and the perpetuosity be of men playing the traditional woman’s role and being Lenny, this means that you want her chasing you instead once you begin the relationship. At no point do you lose your cool and all of a sudden start to give up your own guidelines and boundaries of your reality and enter hers, by starting to become a wussy, or acting needy or clingy around her. Understand that this will probably destroy that relationship with her. You accept what you do, know that you are adding value to other women’s lives in giving them what they really want (short-term passion and fulfillment without the heavyweight expectations of marriage or raising a family), and you do not make apologies for it. You are living in your own reality where women are actually further down

the list because you have your own goals and life going on, and you never make any excuses for it because you are a real man. You do not need to apologize or pander to any woman no ma�er how beautiful she is. It is up to you to shot call the relationship. This means that you will not only set the frame of what kind of relationship that is right from the start, but you will also lead the direction as far as when you are available, when she can see you, where you are going and what you’re going to do with her. If anything you will give her a few options at the most, but usually it is be�er just to disagree with their (remember that she is in your reality and about to get cut loose at any time). But it is you who is guiding and controlling the relationship in the accelerated mating program, and calling out the shots. This is because a man is biologically predisposed to do this, and a woman is biologically predisposed to respond to a man who is taking control, despite what she may say socially. And respond she will. If you start feeling wussy around her you are not truly ge�ing it. She is a�racted to you in a different way; her initial value on your looks is not as important as how you communicate with her nonverbally and sexually. It does not ma�er how beautiful she is, you must always retain your center of power and she is in your orbit; it can not be any other way or the relationship will crumble because it defies natural and biological predisposition. Although it may look can appear as if a woman has the power because of her sexual beauty (that we are only really aware of because of the screen time we have given it in our popular society), she is still the li�le school girl within that has the same biological and sexual response functions as her grandmother did. She will have a strong response and will not be able to resist your sexual gravity because she is finally met a man who is bold enough to commence

the accelerated mating program with her. You must fully be congruent with your reality, and your understanding of where she fits into your life if you are going to really be successful with her. You must have a diamond level of clarity and belief in your reality and that you are doing naturally what it takes to a�ract women, o�en without even trying because you are aware of this absolute biological truth. In fact you see more and more proof that you are right about your reality because women will o�en automatically respond to you through this process of natural a�raction. In fact she cannot even control it because she is biologically predisposed to respond. You will find out through experience that (as David DeAngelo says) “A�raction isn’t a choice”. She cannot control whether she is a�racted to you are not won her biological impulses take over in response to year commencing of the accelerated mating program. She cannot choose whether she is a�racted to you or not a�er you have all ready started the process of a�raction on its path. Before this process is started she has the choice of turning down all of the landings that, to her. She doesn’t even give them a chance for her to be attracted with her because she knows that that is not what she wants (a man to be traditionally acting more like a woman does). Because she is literally forced to be a�racted to you from her biological response, this is one of the things that can work in your favor more than you can imagine. You can lead her through the sexual mating dance or ritual and she may feel as if she is being swept away, and that it is happening naturally (which it is now) and that she almost has no control over her feelings but feels as if and she really wants to comply with your every natural direction. Because she is forced biologically to naturally respond to a man like this (it

is not her choice consciously), she will o�en make compromises in other areas as long as he is purely following along the process of sexual a�raction. This means that you know that you can instill this feeling in many different women (especially a�er you have had even a li�le experience) because they are all biologically the same. This is an incredible amount of leverage in your favor, and it will almost seemed to make the entire game of sexual a�raction unfair. However you now have the greatest leverage in the world in order to really be a man, because you have wasted too many years of your life in the forced reality of her sexual power keep you from being affective with women. It is time to regain all of those years back, because you are now all where of exactly what was holding you back. And now is the time for you to decide if you are going to live the life that you know you deserve, and bring the women into your life that you deserve, and that you know you can fulfill as well. If you are not aware most men will still go throughout their entire lives never achieving the level of success with women that they so desire. It is only made worse by the constant media propagation and the blue balls syndrome that is a byproduct of men never fully feeling affective or strong enough to be a part of that which they desire and deserve. Unless men also get this information which you are privy to right now, they will most likely go on without ge�ing anywhere close to the level of success that they deserve with women as well. And from a beautiful woman’s perspective, we already know what she is missing. She is almost resenting the fact she has so much power, and just wishes she could find some real men to share experiences and memories with. It really is sad when it comes down to the 40 or 50 year-old virgins that are in our society. And clearly you understand where this has come from now. But I must

warn you that this forced reality will continue. In fact you may have to fight against it at first until you really become congruent with your own reality and are able to completely tune out all of that added value that is just getting in the way of you playing your biological role to start the a�raction process. By going along with the accelerated mating program instead of a 50-50 dating relationship which is so pervasive in our modern society, you will be living a life of effectiveness with women that other men cannot even comprehend. And society will go ahead and still continue to propagate and build the perceived value of the illusory importance of her beauty that is throwing a screen that is right on top of the inherent sexuality and natural a�raction process that is right there anyways. So be aware that you will continue to see the pervasiveness of beauty everywhere in our modern society, so I would recommend that every time you see an image of a beautiful woman that you use that opportunity to think about what daily issues she is having, wonder if her dog died, or just see if she is actually a person of substance in value beneath a façade, etc. You will not be able to escape this inundation of added value in our society. However this will allow other men to continue to be ineffective with the women that you now have available to begin relationships of your choosing with (and whether they take it or not you don’t care because you’ll find other women that will). It is up to you to choose how you view and handle its. You can look at it tongue-in-cheek, knowing that it is only allowing these women to be looking at their best so that they are ready to meet you everywhere you go, however you want to see it because you understand that it is just a smokescreen. Do not fall prey to falling in to this forced reality, I would say at any time, otherwise especially when you begin dealing with women right away here on the natural level.

When you live in your own congruent reality, you will be able to look at the propagation of beauty in our media and it will not even faze you because you understand it has its own role and is really essentially the same as the shrimp pleading its case to try and throw off the biological reality of what is inevitable anyways. A beautiful woman has in her mind that she has to ‘owe’ something to every guy she accepts something from (understandably so) so she tries to turn down all of the wussies to prevent a dependent situation where she has the power. That is also why the traditional ‘courting’ behavior bores these independent, fun seeking women. Why do these ho�est American women seemingly become bitches? You have to find out who they really are beneath their hardened social persona in order to see for yourself. Usually you will find a different social person completely, although not in all cases if they let it define who they are. But beneath all of that is the biological inheritance which she was born with that you can connect with as a man to initiate the modern-day mating sequence, that she is compelled to follow when she finds a man who knows what he is doing.

With or without her:

The truth even YOU won’t want to believe about love songs & how it hurts your success You may or may not want to read this information because it is going to reveal something that you may really disagree with and find unfortunate. Keep in mind that this is just an observation or maybe an opinion of mine, that I have recognized throughout the years. Have you ever noticed how sappy love songs really are? Have you really listen to their lyrics? For years I have studied and observed something called the relational formula; which includes dependence, independence, and interdependence which defines the relationship between everything in existence. Anyways if you just listen to a love song you’ll realize how dependent it sounds. Think about it. Without naming any specific songs list just look at, quickly at these words that are being spoken are sung: “I’d rather die than be without you.” “I’m nothing without you.” “I’ll never live without you.” “I would do anything to be with you or have your love.” These are lyrics that are being sung by both men and women recording artists, in countries throughout the world. In fact about half of all of the music ever wri�en deals with the issue of love or relationship between a man and a woman. But can you see what is really going on here? Do you realize how neurotic these lyrics really are?

It implies that a man has no control over himself and his completely under her spell. This does not help men when they are trying to approach women, because it is only acknowledging that she does have the power from their frame of mind (hey, they side in the movies and they saw it in magazines and they also hear it in music). So really what these people are saying is that they have nothing going on in their life other than to submit to her demands. If you really listen to the lyrics and think about it sounds so pathetically sickening it makes you want to puke. But most of the love songs are all about themes of dependency on the other person. I understand that this makes it more emotional and can maybe express a li�le more dramatically the feelings that are within. But please take these literally. In fact some of my favorite songs I have had to relook over again and realize how wussified they really are. This almost spoils my favorite slow or love songs just because I realize how pathetic they really are. The way I recommend that you see this and I know that you are aware of it when you look back and think about the songs that you listen to and really hear their lyrics, is to just let that be a silent extension of any possible trace of the motion le� with and you. Remember that you are a cool man, and you would never do anything as pathetic as what most of the lyrics are in love songs, because the reality is she will just run a can run away as far as she can like Lola. Just view it as a way to still maybe experience some emotion in your life, and maybe as a way of representing anything that is le� that can be a li�le melancholy if you lived in a world of sappy melodrama. I understand that this will really destroy a lot of people if they take what I am saying to seriously, because it will break down a lot of what has meant anything in their lives. So just think about what it means to you and hopefully it did not destroy your view of truly beautiful music.

If you try to take the lyrics that you are hearing and apply them to success with women, and grow faster undying love for her she is going to turn around and run. So don’t say I didn’t warn you about that. You could play love songs near her in a more serious relationship, and maybe let that be the spoken word for you or representation of how you really feel about each other inside, but otherwise don’t ever tell her something like you will do anything for her, because then she knows she has you at her control, and she will resent this because she wants a man to be a real man. Now women themselves will always love love songs, because it speaks to the really emotional part of her as well which she is not usually experiencing. But just keep in mind that she will always end up with a real man because it is her biological and sexual nature, because she does not want a man to be professing her undying love for her because that means that she doesn’t have her freedom anymore stand she is almost trapped because he will keep following her around and doing anything for; she really does just want to be a woman. So just remember that beautiful love songs can hold a place in a woman’s life to also represent the motion that she idealizes. With the way that relationship stay together is where one person in the relationship has the power and traditionally and biologically that is always the man. And part of the reason she will end up staying with you is because you never profess your undying love for her (hoping that someday you really might) and become an emotional broken down wussbag who has no control over your life or hers; this means that she will have to lead the relationship and possibly protect YOU in a life-threatening situation, this is what is going on in her biological response when you tell her your feelings for her. Traditionally a woman would respect this and feel upli�ed, but since the dynamics have changed she will resented because she does want you to be a

man. So do not take this information or go ahead and destroy all of your favorite love songs and burn them, rather a just want you to see the big picture of how they really represent the emotion that is going on between two human beings. Hopefully you can put aside the dependent and pathetic lyrics and just use it as a representation or extension of something that really might be there between her and you. I can hardly think of any love song where it is truly interdependent. The only one I can think of is by the group ‘Live’ and the lyrics go, “I have all will, but I am lost within your eyes.” This is about the only song off the top of my head that I know that isn’t just reeking of sappy wussiness. Ok maybe the song, “Girl, Girls, Girls” as well. You can to understand that what these lyrics are doing is speaking to the biological and emotional part of us that longs to express itself. Just because you hear a woman profess her love for a man, doesn’t mean that he is a wussy man. If you want to be a man that a woman would sing about, you have to be a real man. If a man is wussy for her and giving her the power (which defies biological law itself except for maybe the praying mantis) by professing his love she is going to resent it. It may be quite emotional at first but something won’t feel right for her and she won’t return your calls. She should be more a�racted to you than you are to her. So if you listen to love songs, listen to a woman’s instead of a man’s lyrics because it can be the reality of how you affect women when you are a real man and keep the power and a�raction in your favor in the relationship. Just be very wary of lyrics and don’t let that be the guideline for your success with women because a lot of it is the opposite of a woman’s biological and unchangeable nature.

But by all means ‘try’ not to let it destroy your perception of love songs (I’m struggling with this). For example I used to love the song’s by Savage Garden but if you listen to most of the lyrics, yikes. I still want to love the song but I understand the dynamics now of how that just doesn’t work. I recommend, again to view it as an unspoken testament of your longterm commitment to each other, which in Hope that is within you (without ever professing it and screwing the relationship up) so let the music speak for you. Marriage or a long term relationship is a commitment and requires concession on both partners in the relationship (in our modern society) and music or having songs for each other can help things out. “Who let the dogs out”.

Sex, lies and videotape:

The Phreak in her, the Phreak in you Remember that she is just not going to have sex with all of these potential suitors, because she knows that they will want her even more a�er that is done because they are already truly in over her to begin with. She just wants a real man to be a man. You can be that man for her and offer her the type of relationship she really wants to have which is a more strings free dynamic where she knows that she can just have a good time with you without you calling her 100 times a week. A man that is always at her heels and begging for her, is not being a real man and that is not what she wants. Now she may go ahead and go with a man who is like this if she likes him for another reason for example he has money or is good-looking, but that would be a fools made and she will get rid of him pre�y darn soon because he is not being a real man. A woman does not want to have the power over a man, in fact it is the opposite of what should be going on biologically; she should be a�racted to you and chasing you stay around you so you can protect her. When all of these men are offering themselves to her and would do anything to be with her she has a lot of power and she may pick and choose once in awhile to please herself sexually but she resents that all of these men are not acting like real men. There is a part of her that is still wanting to be unleashed and to experience pleasure without consequence. Because she is not going to put up with all of these men that are coming a�er with their balls on a pla�er and trying to take the courtship dating approach of buying her things and basically paying for her a�ention, she is not going to sleep with these men. And if she did it would most likely be when she does want to have this kind

of a relationship or when she is ready for it and then she will still withhold sex for a long time. It is important that you understand these dynamics from her perspective. But when you come at the angle of meeting her where she wants to be in a relationship you throw all of this other heavyweight drama aside so she doesn’t have to deal with it and can just be the in the pennant free minded woman that she is with a real man, you!

When Stars Collide ...& consequential expectations of high powered a�raction between two very independent people (you and her). Because you’re being a real man, and because you are always working with real women what you want to do is focus on the inherent biological and sexual chemistry that is going on between the two of you. If you know you are not dealing with a very traditional woman or a woman from another country, you know that she is an independent woman. It will appear that the strong beautiful and independent women will have their own boundaries when it comes to certain things in their life. This is a natural part of being a now independent woman in today’s modern society. If you are trying to win her over through showing her things are doing things for her that you think will win her approval, you are not being a real man to her. And we know all of this right now, but what is it about you being in a dependent man and her been a very independent woman that could possibly go wrong? You really have to look at the relationship dynamics in the way that you are framing it from the very beginning. I have learned from firsthand experience how I screwed this up. I expected too much from her, and I expected that she would comply with me to essentially become closer, get to know each other, accelerate the dating process and maybe end up in bed with me. On that particular trip to Asia I had no problem ge�ing any other women and they were always a�racted to me throughout the entire accelerated mating sequence.

But I was dealing with a very independent woman who can take care of herself, and because I did not frame the relationship properly from the first place it was like two stars colliding. She was coming from the 50/50 frame of mind were we would take it slower and get to know each other be�er. She led me around the city and we did things and met up with her friends, and more and more I felt that yes she did indeed have the power here, which I resented. So I just went along with it and we did everything, but I felt the power slipping away from me. All of this power that had slipped away and basically allowed me to be oppressed throughout this whole time frame of 48 hours, I had stored up on till the very end. I let out all of my demotion in drama on to her, in which I was very much the dominant person in the situation and I think it even scared her a li�le bit to finally find out she was dealing with a real man. But none of that ma�ered, because the whole relationship was set up on a mutual 50-50 via e-mail contact over the previous year (although not that o�en and even that now is just being a funny and taunting kind of guy). This is the kind of relationship that a lot of men are dealing with an America, and that I experienced near Singapore when dealing with a very independent woman. Understand that it is going to be hard for you to control the frame when the whole relationship is set up on a 50-50 or modern accepted way of dating between two people. This is essentially what happens in all or most American long-term relationships, because the woman is inherently strong, in fact stronger then the man would like. No ma�er how strong of a man that you really our, when you are dealing

with the woman that you are really interested in because she is beautiful, yet also independent, you are going to have to make some compromises. This is just the way it is if you go with this type of relationship style. Or you could choose a more traditional woman, and have a more traditional role where you can be a man and she can be a more stereotypical less-developed (psychologically) woman. Otherwise the only way you’re going to escape this, is through the entire relationship approach that I’m talking about (that of being and uber player). This relationship approach, because it speaks directly to the woman in her with consequence free outcomes (because you are in different, whether she goes for this type of relationship or not doesn’t even ma�er to you because you can find other beautiful women who will and you have to be willing to walk away) will all allow you to bypass when stars collide. The relationship approach that I’m talking about is the one that the most successful men with women take. They are not going to traditional route and expecting every woman to want to marry them, because that is going to provide a lot of drama and heartbreak, as well as not enough sexual action for the man along with the other heavy-handed implications involved. So if you are dealing with a woman were the whole relationship frame is set up (as in America today) worthy approach is going to be more 50-50, give and take, compromise, a man is going to have to put up with a woman’s independence, therefore naturally losing some of his just in order to continue to be around her. This is exactly what happened in the scenario with me because the frame control for the relationship was taking a 50-50 approach. Yes she was giving all kinds of signs in fact more than I have ever heard that she was interested in me (“hmm...you’re taller than I thought.”...”THAT’S interesting (note noted)”, etc.) but it didn’t ma�er because I was not

willing to put up for a potential long-term relationship even though it possibly would have worked out, because I know I do not want to put up with that much drama and competition. I am a strong and independent man, the problem with the women that I’m really interested in is that they are strong and independent as well. And I know that I’m going to live in my reality and I’m not going to lead drama interfere because it will throw me way off from my purpose in life; it’s too much of a compromise for me to have that kind of value yet drama in my life because it crosses too many boundaries of my independence as a natural man. I can go on to more details there but I think you see what I am saying. So it is up to you to frame the relationship properly from the very beginning. Although I told her my mind it was ultimately really my fault for frame in the relationship from a different standpoint to achieve a different result then I actually did. So if you are going to be dating one of these beautiful independent women, you will have to put up with so much drama you may not be able to handle it because it will interfere with your independent life, there is no way to possibly avoid that unless you are married and only see each other three times a week. Just look at where the future is going to lead because that is a sign. Do you want to fully living your own independent right? Or do you want to have a woman who is beautiful and has a lot of value to offer you, however knowing that it will take away from your own masculinity and goals or purpose to have that level of compromising your life? The stronger a man you are and the stronger the woman she is the more sexual tension, passion, energy you can have. But because it defies biological tradition, there will be inescapable drama and instability. You cannot really tame the shrew, you are going to have to make some kind

of compromise. If you do not want to compromise, you will probably have to take either the very traditional approach and get a woman who has not been allowed to develop herself as a independent woman or just stick to the uber player approach of just having a relationship that is really focused on her sexuality and expressing herself without any strings a�ached. This way by having this kind of relationship you can really avoid the drama of a more serious relationship where stars would collide, yet still experience the benefits of your natural and sexual a�raction to each other. You can turn the great paradox around in your favor because our basic sexual and biological roles have not changed. What happens when two powerful independent personalities come together? Stars collide. Lots of passion and hope at the beginning and then reality sets in. Maybe an American couple gets married and all of a sudden, the guy is always naturally being himself then a�er the chase is over and they’re se�ling down he starts being more and more normal like leaving the toilet seat up, etc. Let me ask you, if you’ve been married you can probably a�est to this. Why do women nag? Be�er yet, let’s narrow this down a bit because that is what it is really about...why do ‘American’ women in particular nag? Many of our married men may think that it should be a crime against humanity. On a different note, I lived around poor people but every night I was reading, learning, dreaming, going to business seminars when I could even though I lived at a poverty level income and working paycheck to paycheck. You see, it’s up to you to want more. I want to be the best MAN I can be. In fact one of the reasons I’m still purposely single at 29 is I want to get the

financial and other aspects really squared away BEFORE I get married. Then I can be the ultimate provider for a real wife. I figured the pa�ern out. I could marry an awesome, exciting, beautiful intriguing and independent woman but really where it would lead is divorce or turmoil. Why? Because I am an A class personality and she would be too. Stars collide. It’s not going to last long. You want to talk about DRAMA? Oh sure, the highs would be high but the lows would be low and that’s just before lunch; starting a�er the honeymoon when realities set in. So how DO two A class personalities stay together? By staying apart much of the time. Really. Give each their own independence and space where almost always the guy will want more space so they can keep the relationship on interdependent terms. Seriously, you can make a relationship like this work if you’re both ‘really busy’ because you’re not always around each other. But you’re just going to have to work a lot of things out and communicate all of the time or resentment will build up very fast (particularly on her part because you’re being a natural man anyways). I would go as far as ge�ing separate bedrooms. Now this is an extreme thought. But if you’ve got a wife who can get pre�y wound up, why not a�er an argument sleep in your own spaces (not on the couch unless YOU want to). It may take a while to naturally forgive each other and work it out and if you’re in the same bed at that time you’re just breeding some more contempt and dislike for your girl. Take the time out and each get your own space. Soon enough you’ll both get a ‘distance’ on the issue, cool off and then have interdependent ‘make up’ sex. The perfect marriage would be an interdependent harmony (of traditional

nature maybe 80%-20% in terms of control and 50-50 in terms of she is being a mother, cleaning and cooking and you are doing everything else) but in our modern society unless you have a really traditional woman, it is going to be 50/50 and our nation generally accepts this (or do the women accept it and the men are just allowing themselves to be repressed). Anyways, just be aware of a really strong woman and how that may affect your future as a man because it will be a lot of conceding. Can you put up with her drama and emotion all the time just to have her around you (with a girlfriend)? Or would you resent it? I’m talking about the 10’s basically. Keep in mind the type of relationship you want to have with them. About the only formula that actually works with these women is AMP (Accelerated Mating Program) itself because it doesn’t carry the drama or string’s a�ached in any other type of relationship with her. We can be (and have been) more natural with less be�er looking women who didn’t have a superior, highly developed social persona (of beauty) and that is why we’ve had success with them instead; we could be more natural. Yes, it may seem like a tradeoff for the long term where you might have a li�le more peace in the home but if you’re not married yet I want to give you the full power of realizing that there are 10’s around the world who are traditional who would make near-perfect housewives so you can be a man without compromise and lead the family. Just think about your options, if for no other reason than it gives you more choice and power in your reality. I can see women throwing high-heel shoes at me on Oprah already! Be careful when stars collide (two independent and powerful people). With AMP you can have the best of most everything without any other drama or heavy associations involved (marriage, chores, sharing responsibilities, etc.).

Long Term Relationship & Marriage Dynamics American women are finding this all out when they get married..all of a sudden they’re usually expected to do the traditional things which their grandmothers did such as cook, clean, chores, etc. while they’re husband ‘doesn’t seem to pick up his slack’. I don’t get it. My grandmother was a stronger personality than my grandfather but she knew her role anyways and somehow, gee they NEVER got divorced. What’s wrong with America today? Well the relationship dynamics have changed since a woman has gained more power. Is she happy? Statistics will tell you that most American men are not. Old-time may seem too stereotypical but you know what? That’s how families work and worked best; tradition. That’s how families have stayed together for millenia. It may be hard for you to see this. It’s interesting how the media will spin things. Of course they’re going to sway in favor of feminism as it really has just become a way of life. In order to really explain to you what’s going on I’m going to have to come at you from a non-politically correct angle at times. The reason no one else has been been able to have this insight or really understands what is going on is because they’re a part of the system, culture and drama itself. Having this understanding can give you more insight into drama prevention or even divorce prevention by the choices you make. Now international traditional men may have this insight much moreso than us but it isn’t profound to them like it can be for the American man who has suffered and lived through constant rejection by hot women. Understanding what is going on is something that can literally change our

lives. In fact being an American man myself I’ve been a part of this society yet it’s only because I went outside our borders and looked at what’s going on and started to question things that I began to realize what was going on until recently when it hit me like a ton of bricks. My brother is married and he’s a ‘nice guy’. He’s busy working most of the time but his wife is nice of course and their marriage seems to work and I think it’ll stick together. They have a balance. He’s a nice guy but he doesn’t change diapers, he lets her do that and she accepts that role. Anything perhaps everything I say here will be exploited and twisted by the mass media and feminists (hey put this sentence in too). But they’ll be missing my point that feminine power and opportunity is a good thing...it just is the underlying #1 societal cause of divorce that’s all. I’m trying to keep this related to being single but there’s just so much that affects married life in America that I have to mention a lot of it because it affects your long-term relationship dynamics and your entire life of being a man who is on his own path. Traditionally, a wife should be allowed to focus on raising the kids most of the time. If she has a job and has to raise the kids in order to make both ends work then the husband needs to pick up his slack and ideally produce enough cashflow income so she doesn’t have to work and/or he’ll have to do some of her duties for not providing his perfect role of being the provider (no economics excuses permi�ed). If a woman wants to work and have a career (how American is that?) then just keep in mind what you could be ge�ing yourself into; there’s going to be a lot of ‘meeting in the middle’. Why do you think the t.v. show ‘Desperate Housewives’ is such a hit? I

knew it was going to probably be something good because of the name. I saw a big billboard for it in L.A. a year ago. I’ve never seen it but there are twice as many women watching it as men. ‘Desperate’ Housewives. Hmm...independent American women having troubles coping with being a traditional wife or stuck in that position. And all of the millions of frustrated American housewives can relate to it (being repressed to such a ‘lower status’). And voila, you’ve got a hit t.v. show. There was a need and that helped fill it. Hopefully I can be just as big an answer for the American men. Hey I may be the first one to really look at it from this angle, but I’m just doing it objectively because I have seen many men’s lives destroyed because of strong independent women. I’m trying to avoid that myself. If you’re going to have a serious relationship with an independent woman (the 50-50 relationship dynamic, essentially a power balance struggle), there’s going to have to be a lot more catering and concession on your part than you are used to. It’s going to have to be a lot of tradeoffs. Many American men have found this out a�er they have got married. Getting married should not be a ball and chain or ‘ge�ing hitched’ where it is only in the woman’s best interest or favor. Fortunately the whole relationship counseling and relationship experts have a multi million dollar industry that can help assuage your heightened difficulties (hey it’s true). Respecting women doesn’t mean pandering to their every whim. Not at all. So if you want to ‘deal’ with American women for casual relationships, sex, dating, even potentially marriage you have to do different things that aren’t natural. Really they AREN’T acting natural in their own personality in that they are not aligned with their more biological self like many other women are

around the world. These women are not a product of natural selection. It’s even become harder to mate and of course retain relationships with them. We’ve fabricated ALL of it over the last 80 years and they have ‘power’ over the common man. It’s all perception and the media exacerbates it (hey, I love to view beautiful women too but I treat them differently). Media allows an image to be unleashed to potentially hundreds of millions of people, but that perrty model is still a human being. What does this do though? She gets a huge ego now because she has this power over men (or so she thinks). And when most men prove that yes she DOES have this power over them by handing their balls on a pla�er, ‘do anything for her’ kind of men then what is she supposed to think? Would you just be one of those guys? Here’s the thing...I’ve fallen into that trap ‘feeling’ like I would do anything for a beautiful woman like that (years ago) but when I view it in context of who I am and where I’m going then it is seen in a whole different light. You really are the one who is in control of your destiny, and is up to you to make the decisions in your life that will support that and not hurt it. So just keep long-term relationship dynamics in mind in contrast with the other information in this e-book and decide for yourself where you stand on the issue, and how you would relate to different women.

Ba�le of the Sexes for a Reason Would you sacrifice being yourself just so you could ‘have the pleasure of’ being around a beautiful woman? For the long term? Unfortunately so many American married men are in this situation today. Do you want your own dignity and self-respect at 100% all of the time? The women that you really want are a�racted to men who know what they want and where they’re going. You know what is really ge�ing irritating? The way that American men are now portrayed in television on some shows. What you think about this? I don’t even fall into the trap of watching that crap. I watch movies and if I do watch t.v. it’s for an event or 1 or 2 shows I’ll follow each year. But I’ve heard that it’s ge�ing worse and worse. American men are being portrayed as bumbling stupid imbeciles who are weak, can’t make decisions and the women are strong and save the day?! This is pathetic. But the women are ge�ing so used to their power and still wondering where have all the real men gone that will stand up to them or provide a challenge, instead of le�ing them be stepped over. I do not let any women treat me like this because I know it is unnatural. Where do you stand on this? This is preposterous. What does this say about our nation? Where are the real men to stand up to this crap?! I will. How about you? So where I stand is I’m going to continue to capitalize on opportunities to build friendships or short-term relationships with as many hot, independent, intelligent, sexy and desirable women I want to. And they will appreciate it too because we are sharing an equal level of value. I’m not going against my own word here. Remember I said I’m just not going to marry one unless I predict or would accept a possible divorce or if

we’d never be around each other much. Oh, a lot of guys have fallen into that trap though...met a beautiful woman who was everything they thought they wanted and there were sparks and romance because she was a strong desirable woman. Then the honeymoon is over and they realize what they’ve got themselves into and she’s happy. It was her goal to ‘snag a man’. That’s not a bad goal because it’s traditional except there’s a whole underlying subtext in which you may find yourself struggling for power, handing over more money to her than you thought you would, etc. Independent women can provide short term passion, drama and romance at the level that more traditional women just can’t. And of course men like you and me can give them this much desired emotion and drama or fulfillment that they crave. The more traditional women though...they’re more stable...they have to be to raise a family. The downside is they’re not going to be as exciting and this is something I’ll probably have to concede in order to have a stable, happy family. Hey if you’re a guy who doesn’t have a life plan and doesn’t want one...you might enjoy the drama that a beautiful American woman can bring to your life. She can be the light and you’re going to have to suck up that energy of hers and it will be an ongoing ba�le as happens in most of the households in America today; just be aware of this.

Taming of the Shrew? American women in our society today do not even realize how much power they have, they just take it for granted. You take her and put her into a more traditional culture (say, rural Chinese or most of the world) and look at how different the dynamics have changed; she expects her independence and empowerment. I like to call this cultural differentiation. While we take for granted is not necessarily the case. Because she is so strong and independent in our society, and the men are giving in to this perceived forced reality of added value, there are cultural and relational consequences that have developed. American men are just having to deal with this and think that of course they should marry an American woman, just because they are around them or part of their society. The disadvantage of a woman’s freedom and independence in today’s society, is that she becomes very opinionated, o�en very judgmental, inflexible and even a li�le more unforgiving than her traditional counterpart in other countries or her great-grandmother. Of course we just take this for granted that women are around us and part of our daily lives, though we usually cannot see where this power came from or why they haven’t so we just kind of accept it. This as long-term implications down the road in almost all relationships. Now in many marriages and relationships the woman really does have the upper hand, although this is not necessarily how she really wanted to be. The men are confused and are just not being themselves when a woman like this is involved in their life. This is almost a national pandemic and away from the man’s perspective, because he is really being oppressed without understanding why. Is it

really a man’s fault that she is the way she is? Now it is not the man’s fault she is the way she is or for how she got that way, it is just a historical, cultural reality (and he chose to marry her maybe because he was also surrounded by other strong independent women as well, so maybe he didn’t think he had much of a choice). Remember that I’m speaking from the universal perspective here, and I’m not trying to say anything against anyone’s particular relationship, rather I am just noting the foundational evidence of what has led to our current state. In fact the woman herself isn’t sure how or why she got all this power in the first place, she just accepts it the way she is because it is the way that he was brought up and raised. She is not going to change and she is independent and can take care of herself. She is not going to want to tame herself down to a more repressive state, like her traditional counterparts in the rest of the world or her grandmother. So. this is the issue that almost all married men in America are dealing with; marriage has basically become a power struggle. The real problem lies in that the men are not being able to fully be their biological self because the women have gained too much power and independence. In Shakespeare’s book in the TAMING OF THE SHREW, the lead woman is a very strong and independent person who is doing whatever she wants. This was in a time where of course things were very traditional. It took a strong man in order to so-called ‘tame her’ towards the end of the book. Eventually we do see her tame down, however because of her strong independent nature, you can already predict the rest of the story with the book doesn’t tell you (more drama). Just look at American society today in our divorce rate. You may be able to tame her for a li�le while, as in “Gone with the Wind” but she is still going to be a feisty one, and there is going to be a lot of drama in that relationship.

If you want the relationship to really work out, no ma�er how strong you are of a man, you are going to have to live in your reality and you are still going to have to make some compromises. You will have to make way more compromises than with a traditional woman. Yes I have had relationships with very traditional women (from other countries) and it is like a strong peace of mind and a real natural balance that is actually quite relieving being around them. Keep this in mind if you are thinking about marrying one of these really strong independent women. Yes she is exciting, she is interesting, and she has a lot of drama and values she can add to your life, but unknowingly she is going to train the life out of you because she is ‘the light’. Just be prepared for this as millions of men have already discovered this, and are being oppressed by this light. Guess she may be really beautiful, but if he is not a traditional woman and is more independent in our names are, you can simply predict drama and lots of a�ention in the future because this is not the natural order of selection; it is a formula for instability. If she is really strong, and you are a really weak man then it may work out. Yes a woman may wear the pants in the family and this is the case for many families in marriages across the US, but as long as the man accepts this and his own repression, then there is a balance in the relationship. It all comes down to making the right decisions for your long-term. Are you really prepared to handle that kind of drama in a long-term relationship where you know that you will be less of a man because of what she brings to the relationship. It will never be boring there will always be some kind of drama going on, this I can guarantee you. Don’t expect that you are going to name her, it is in her independent nature. To look at the reverse side yes you can say that women have been repressed

throughout all of history by the more dominant man, however this is the natural way of things. It is only up until recently that the equation which has worked for all of time has been switched around. Remember that the woman was never allowed to develop herself as much as a man, and a�er all these years of repression you could say on her part, she is naturally going to be a stronger woman, so just keep this dynamic in mind when you are thinking about a long-term relationship with an American woman. You are going to have to be willing to accept a lot more compromise and this is just the way of things. Hey, all of this is information you can choose to use to regain more of the inherent power that is your biological right as a man. Maybe even American women will be begging you instead of anything else, and saying that they will do anything for you, however if you see the signs, well that is up to you. I’m just giving you the power of knowledge for you to use to your benefit and regain your power with women.

50% Divorce Rate You may be thinking to yourself of course I’ll date American women, it’s our society and culture and what else would I do? Before you get caught up in too much thought about diving into a longterm relationship with one out your new beauties, I want you to really think about something. I just would like you to be ‘aware’ of the unseen implications that really has led to our 50% divorce rate. It’s up to you whether you want to heed any of this insight or not. Hey, I’m not saying American women are ‘bad’ it’s just that there are a lot of things you’re going to have to accept and deal with that work frictionally against you in the future (longer term relationships). From one angle you could almost say it’s a trap when you see that most married men nowadays are more miserable than ever and silently know that she has most of the control. I’ve heard people say if a relationship is 50/50 that means ‘she owns you’. It’s important for you not to hold anything ‘against’ American women, but it’s important for you to consider and realize all of the implications in which your future may be not as ideal as you would like because they really are the way they are in that they expect more, are more opinionated and demanding than their counterparts in most of the world and our grandmothers. If you do choose to marry an American woman and she does have elements of strength, silent demands, a feeling of an ulterior motive to push the relationship along, feeling that she’s repressing something upfront until you really find who she is (every American woman my dad has dated in the past 15 years has found out what she’s ‘really like’ and regre�ed it), invisibly asks you to do things for her, seems opinionated or hard edged these are just signs, my brother.

Just be aware of what you could be ge�ing yourself into. This awareness alone can give you a level of insight that could be called wisdom or at least personal power and choice. An average American marriage (read: IF you marry an American woman) now virtually requires that a man compromise more of who he naturally is (hence becomes resentful and more wussified himself) just in order to balance out the relationship of living with a naturally more opinionated and demanding wife. Just look around and at the statistics. This is now a given in our 50-50, balanced our society. I’m not saying don’t marry one or don’t consider strong independent beautiful American women for wife potential, just understand the implications of what you’re probably taking on and ge�ing yourself into. That you will have to compromise a li�le more than you thought or than it appears in the whirlwind romance of dating her. A more traditional American women (there are still a lot le�) isn’t going to be as exciting however she will be a much more stable, loyal and supportive wife who wants to do her biological role especially as long as you can provide and protect so she can primarily raise the kids when you’re working. Oooh..doesn’t this just PISS the feminazi’s off. And that’s the whole point; can you see it now? Most of our strong women have these feminist points ingrained into them so if you can’t read ‘trouble’ and ‘drama’ then I don’t know what to tell you. It all comes down to your choice as far as a long term partner...it’s your life. I don’t want you to have to get divorced if maybe you could have prevented it in the first place by seeing the bigger picture, just not ‘going there’ and choosing someone else in the first place.

There are millions of women to choose from and even more outside the U.S. so don’t think that ‘she’s necessarily the one’ even or especially if it’s hightime romance and passion up front. It’s so common and easy for people not even to see that YES they could be in a different relationship, they could have a DIFFERENT wife and hence a different life with different kids if they made different decisions. This may really turn you off and may not seem real but if you can really step outside of things and turn back the time machine or step into the future each decision you make (especially one like WHO you marry) is going to have compound directional effects a�er that and because of it. And you’re normally just going to take it for granted and accept who you’re with without realizing that you could have chosen someone else. This level of thought is almost dangerous to married men because I don’t want to give them advice as it may potentially lead to a divorce; of course I cannot and will not be held responsible in ANY way as its your life and your decisions, but if you’re single just having this global perspective can save your future family from divorce, can save you from nagging, drama and financial destruction all based on the decisions you make...this is just power in your hands for your to decide what to do with. Consider it almost ‘life counseling’ to a degree that I don’t think ANY marriage or relationship counselor has. They just look at what’s right in front of them; strong American arguing woman and hapless man and try to ‘make it work’. If this information isn’t opening up your eyes you might need a pulse check. Now, are you going to be happy about hearing this and how millions of our fellow American men are falling into troubled times and unnecessary drama? You may not like hearing this and I’m sure most women REALLY aren’t going to like it but I’m a man and I’ll stand up to all of them because this is

Universal knowledge. So I hope you can accept that it is for the most part the truth and reality of what is going on. Maybe this isn’t what you bargained for but it’s important you really understand the global implications and see it from all angles because what I’m doing is giving you the absolute power to have success with women. Most men are confused because they don’t know what actually is going on. And millions of men still can’t see what’s going to happen (even those who get remarried), they can’t pick up the pa�ern and are too closed minded (though not their fault) because it’s all part of our society and culture. Now because I want to look at everything and teach you from many angles; here is the maybe only legitimate argument feminists will have which it actually cancels right out because of all the power they now have...tradition is you’re supposed to find a wife and raise a family. I believe that women are naturally more mono... but you can take advantage of these times that have changed and have relationships with the strong women who have taken on the more masculine role of having many relationships instead of just looking for a marriage partner. So if you were ‘really’ a traditional male then you’d just be looking for a wife and only having sex with one woman your whole life. Because of the importance our society has placed on sex, we men have definitely become more aware of it (the sexual currency). And now we can have relationships with women who are looking for the same a�ributes without long term commitments. This power and ability becomes more hard edged when you take a traditional woman and just ‘use’ her for sex because she will be more heartbroken if she’s expecting a relationship. The way I see that is she still’s winning and you can’t tame a man who wants to sow his seeds biologically with many women. Value was added to her life and she has a memorable experience she can remember.

And it may come full circle because you may end up marrying a woman like that who provides you with less drama and ‘challenge’ in your married life. Just an interesting note here...men through history have had multiple wives and harems in different cultures. King David did I think even. Anyways the power and choice is all in your hands, but hopefully this will bring a higher-level awareness of our interpersonal society.

Divorce Prevention Marriage counselors, relationship experts can’t grasp the real underlying problem of what’s going on. Yes, but how do we solve these problems? That is some tough answers because like I said you can’t really tame a shrew or a woman who her whole life has been expecting things and using men (who gratefully pander to her) to all of a sudden return to her biological reality for a longstanding relationship (AMP reaches this sexual reality without the drama and implications). Am I talking bad against American mothers? Of course not. They are who they are. They are fulfilling their biological role as well as leading interesting lives and taking on more work o�entimes. I’m just looking from the universal perspective. All I’m saying here is that without modern social dynamics, it just makes marriages more of a challenge than it would otherwise. There has to be a lot more communication and compromise. This is the case with one of my best friends. He is married to an alpha female; a very strong go-ge�er personality. At times it may seem she is in control because she can be so authoritative. This is a 50/50 scenario that is prevalent throughout our society, except for the remaining hardcore traditionalists and Christians or other traditional religious groups. What goes on behind the scenes in America is probably a lot more arguing and debating than there should be. Marriages that look put together are crumbling at the seams, barely holding on. I must tell you, the Church is right on this one and so is evolution itself. Tradition is what works for marriage and the passing on of generations. The 40 year virgin is a byproduct of our modern culture and this power shi�. Now some relations are sometimes more parallel to a praying mantis woman who bites the head of her ‘wussboy’ mating partner.

So how DO YOU explain to an American mother that she should just ‘give up’ more of her rights and independence? You almost can’t. It’s been ingrained into her. It’s just more of a challenge. Speaking for myself I say, I’m just going to avoid that whole scenario all together because of the additional drama it will bring to my life. I do have the right to speak on this a�er seeing my father divorced 5 times and traveling to other countries which are more traditional. I have observed this for a decade or more ‘outside the box’ when I could. I could marry a woman that’s strong, intelligent, beautiful, desirable but then what? Two stars collide and it gets augly. I always believed in the sanctity of marriage and wondered America has so many problems here? It’s so accepted to get a divorce nowadays. It’s also the kids who end up getting hurt. My parents divorced a long time ago. Well unfortunately it should have happened just because they are both who they are, separate and independent people. My dad is a li�le too stubborn and domineering and my mom was nurturing yet independent and didn’t want to put up with his more stubborn nature. I’m like my father in a lot of ways (and in many ways the opposite) but I see the pa�ern of what’s going on in America and I don’t awnt to get into that trap. I don’t want to get divorced like he did many times. You’re not supposed to get divorced but sometimes it’s just so hard to make it work in the first place. I’m not blaming either one of them and it actually worked out be�er. So just be aware that your decisions will determine your outcome. If you want a beautiful, strong, independent wife, just be aware that it is a double-edge sword or you will find out for yourself.

It’s kind of tragic and bad for our women that they don’t want to just se�le down to be a wife or be a real traditional woman without nagging because she has her independence burnt into her. What hope is there for her? 50/50 co-marriage at best? Have her husband step up? He could but she will probably resent it, who knows..it is a societal issue. Single men now have some knowledge and choice in this situation but a woman who is reliant on her image or social persona alone isn’t going to live a healthy or balanced life (only a % of them). The answer is for our women to really be women in terms of se�ling down and really being a mother WITHOUT nagging her husband. But I can’t answer for you if they will do that. The men may have to step up and I don’t know what the results will be as each case is a different scenario. It’s not that traditional marriage was a dependency, but it worked. The traditional wife doesn’t demand as much and she knows her role, to keep the man free to do his role without nagging him. When thinking about dating and future long term relationships you should ask yourself how much of your own independence do you want to sacrifice in order to be with a beautiful, strong, independent woman? Really. It may not be you, but I could potentially save future strife on many of my readership base by avoiding a costly and oppressing situation which they were just being herded into because of popular social programming. She may be beautiful and passionate and exciting and intelligent. Can you really handle that long term the other drama she brings to the table when you are always near each other? You do realize you will have to make greater sacrifices than you realize? Why? A guy just wants to be a guy and also needs his space.

Dude, if a woman is giving you drama in a relationship, or is not returning your phone calls, I think that you might be missing something in the picture here. You are going to put up with her drama in a 50/50 style American relationship because of her independence. Remember that as a strong man with many options of women everywhere you go and all around you, you should never placed too much importance on one woman when you are playing the AMP game. It may seem kind of harsh, but which reality do you think that you are in in this situation? If you want a relationship with a beautiful woman, accept that you are going to have more drama than you bargained for. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. The AMP approach is something that works and keeps it drama-free if you play it and live it properly. I want to give you the power of understanding, foresight and choice when determining the types of relationships you want to have and the types of women you want to have them with. And I’ve found myself ‘going along’ with what our society is and preaches (on feminine power; it’s just a given). But not until I realized what dire problems this really reveals did I understand why it’s so important. Millions of men are confused when it comes to dealing with women and relationships and especially marriage with our 50% divorce rate. What is the reasoning behind this? There IS reasoning and up until now it’s just been invisible. This information will help you decide where you stand on the issue if you choose to accept it.

Why It’s All About You: Center of Your Universe Who you are before you even meet a woman is more important than when you meet her or any number of pick up lines. You must come from a congruent and strong reality and she will ‘pick up’ on your masculine traits and be compelled to respond and start the mating game. Be grounded in your own reality or ‘universe’. Here is some advice on this. You can’t be a boring guy. Develop yourself, have interests and pursue them. These also help keep you on track and your energy away from giving in to her beauty facade or the fake reality. When something’s going to happen you just have to be cool and natural. Don’t give in to the dark side of her power just because you’re with a beauty. If nothing happens you can spank to her later (that part was the only part of Pulp Fiction that I liked when Travolta went back to his pad). Don’t expect too much either..really remain indifferent yet natural and she will be pulled towards your sexual gravity by your denial of giving in to her power. I can tell you that what went wrong in potential relationships that almost started was that I did give her the power. From a tall blonde in college to another girl at that same club who I danced with at the end..I called them showing my ‘interest’ (giving her the favor of power in the relationship) and it never worked out; she never called back. Can you relate? Don’t let a woman tell you what to do if it would violate your independent reality. You can find someone else easily. You have your own independence. Other men know and respect it. You will never be dependent on ANY woman so you may as well not even think about it upfront during the emotional surge of seeing her beauty and her

flaunting it. Your reality is a slow and steady control and cool response to the instant biological and mental euphoria. She knows that men are weak during this stage and she can sense it before it even happens. Women sense this energy. It’s not about ‘just being yourself’ it’s about being yourself in your reality with the paradigm that denies the “forced reality” that everyone else is living in and causing them to be unsuccessful. If you try other techniques without living in your own congruent strong reality of understanding the global context of the forced reality, you have that thing called emotional response and fear which are unpredictable variables. When you see a hot woman and you all of a sudden feel bu�erflies inside and then fear creeps over you on how to approach her? Hey, I used to feel this about a minimum of 2,000 in the past 10 years and I’m sure you have too. When I see published ‘top 100 women’ or ‘top 10 anything’ I understand that I know that this is just someone else’s opinion and that when I look at it I disagree with almost all of their choices. I flip through GQ magazine and I realize I wouldn’t even buy 90% of what they are showing because it’s not my style. I know specifically what I like and what I don’t like. If you can develop this discernability and not be afraid to be like this (picky) around women, they will respect you. Why? Because all of the other men who are unnaturally acting like wussies will agree with a woman on anything just in order to maybe have a be�er chance with her. She can she through this. She will respect YOU if you have an opinion. Remember that she is the one who is one step away from you dropping her if she really screws up.

From the age of 18 you didn’t know it but you officially became ‘independent’ in basic nature (not necessarily financially). At the age of 18 you can really do your own thing. Do realize that it IS your life. YOU have to take care of YOU. And if you’re a man, when you get married you’ll have to take care of your wife and she will help nurture and support you. Did I walk in fear when I went to Indonesia to visit my foster children? Hell no. My best friend was in Iraq for a year living with drama and B.O.B. everyday. I blended in and tried not to stick out mind you but I’m not going to live in fear anywhere. Those that I met were surprised with my courage and most had never seen an American. All people should be allowed to live in freedom of fear and oppression. Cultivate your own strong beliefs and reality. Meditate on it. Don’t just let any woman throw you off your center. You have be coming from somewhere that has higher values than her perceived social value in that instance. Think about down the line anyways; she may not be anything like she looks like she is cracked up to be (that’s not the best analogy is it?). You’d probably get bored with her anyways. It’s all about whose reality is stronger. Yours is naturally stronger once you tap into it. Make sure you read ‘A Shark Tale’ and ‘Return to Blue Lagoon’. These will help you get more definition in your reality of your inheritance. I’m the most jovial fun loving guy with a very high tolerance level but when it comes to certain issues I don’t budge. Fortunately I guess, most people never get to see the hardcore me but rather the fun-loving guy. There is a certain line every man should have that people just don’t cross and that you won’t allow.

I am a walking breathing independent. That is essentially what you are to, you just need to be aware of it some more because there is so much power within it. We aren’t just walking around randomly on earth (well it seems like it sometimes). I don’t give up that mental energy or cater or pander to anyone. I treat others with respect and will not ever tolerate anyone talking down to me or telling me what to do. What I’ve noticed is that I always a�ract people that are like me; always had the respect of the leaders and the people and repelled B.S. low class drama. When you live in your reality and expect good treatment from others (because you give it) you a�ract a higher class of people. Be honest, be upfront, and fun-loving but be real but live in your Universe. That is all that ma�ers to you; your universe and experience of life Jedi in training. No one else is going to do it for you. You may have people that care for you but you are independent since the age of 18. Why would a guy like me or you act wussy with women AFTER we know what’s really going on? Hey, it’s not her fault (there there...you should almost feel sorry for her the way she’s acting); it really is how she was brought up. If she was born into another culture, a completely different woman GUARANTEED. Nature vs. Nurture..the dispute can go on but the American woman has been nurtured differently and then wonders why things don’t feel right. She can get all the success in the world, be a diva or whatever and something won’t naturally feel right. Our basic biological roles are to reproduce. Fortunately life is more exciting that now and it’s advanced way beyond subsistence but when you’re living in your reality congruently you won’t ever appear to be a wuss at any time.

With the information in this ebook you will realize mostly EVERYTHING you may have done wrong in the past with women. EXERCISE: A�er you go through the rest of this book. Look at magazines and photos of the type of women you want to a�ract from your new reality. Be impervious and indifferent to the drama it presents. It doesn’t have to interfere with your life, however you can invite it in if it behaves. Be strong in yourself and your self-respect; “I am the most interesting, funny and fascinating guy you will probably EVER meet girl. Of course I’ve got women a�er me and I’m not ashamed of it. The strong will survive, fine with me. All women would fall in love with me a�er they know me and they consistently do.” Say and believe things like that. KNOW that you are a great catch and a natural when it comes to meeting and a�racting women to your reality. They are in your orbit and not vice versa. The other model doesn’t work because it isn’t biologically founded. You don’t live on shaky ground of a rollercoaster of her reality; you are more grounded than that in principles and strong belief systems. You have depth, intelligence and real value. You are decisive when it comes to certain things and indifferent when around the drama of beauty queen bees. Do you have ANY idea the abundance of beautiful 10 women you can have? When you are grounded in your reality it doesn’t even become an issue because you will naturally a�ract them because you are unlike other men who give in to their universe and beg and plead to ‘a�ach’ themselves like leeches to her. Ick. It’s true a lot of feminists or a percentage of them are real life lesbians. Because they are so hardcore in their thinking (esp. the feminazis) they’re

missing something. They’re taking on male dominant characteristics and something doesn’t seem to fit for them deep inside (duh). O�en these type of women who promote women’s rights, etc. o�en end up with a strong man anyways. Now ain’t that somethin’. They were still biologically a�racted to a real and strong man now they have a be�er chance of a lasting relationship with a wussboy though otherwise there’ll just be drama unless she really submits to the strong man. Nice guy. Why doesn’t this work with American women? Because this man is falling into her universe and orbiting around her reality. Really take these clues seriously because so many American men end up in frustration and then get kicked into the ground a�er a bi�er divorce. Why? Because they didn’t see the signs. Not all but many women who are independent are gold diggers, feminazis, psychotic bitches, or even stalkers that are out there looking for men to ‘prey’ upon who are not strong enough to be a real man. You have to understand where the drama is coming from and then bypass it completely while being centered in your universe. Anything she does wasn’t as cool as what you were doing. The party wasn’t a party if you weren’t there. Be the guy everyone wants to know that is cool, funny and natural with women. Look at the movie “Cocktail”. Here’s an independent man working to make it go (Tom Cruise). But for a whole section of the movie he tries to “play” a strong American woman but ends up ge�ing “played” himself as the subservient wussboy. You can sense and feel that it’s just not him. It’s not worth selling out like that and it doesn’t feel right or natural (because it isn’t).

He wakes up and she’s bouncing in front of the TV. is an effective scene where it just starts to really sink in what he got himself into. I LOVE that soundtrack by the way. Eventually he can’t take it anymore and punches out a guy at one of her public events...a real man can’t be tamed like this and put on a leash. Can you be put on a leash by a woman’s drama in a relationship? No? Then don’t do it up front with them either. Have standards. Be picky. You can please yourself when it comes to gratification and you are not dependent on her. Become indifferent to their expected a�ention and the tables will turn. Heavenly ‘bodies’ will start to gravitate towards your universe and sexual gravity. Another sign I keep control. I always keep pictures of exes. It’s my life and I like to look back. I’ll be ‘darned’ if some b*tch is going to take my pictures and burn them. That is way outside my boundary line. Also, I won’t get rid of them for my wife either. And when I get married she’s going to have to accept that. I’m a visual person who documents everything and is a pack rat who wants links to his past; that’s all. If women tear up pictures of their exes because of their emotional drama let them. As an objective producer myself that’s nice symbolism right thar but I keep all my pictures. Sometimes I even have shown pictures of my exes to current girlfriends at the time. It’s all about your life, YOUR paradigms, your beliefs, your reality and your absolute control over it and knowing your boundaries.

You are an independent force that extends sexual energy (naturally) outwards and communicates naturally and easily with women because you bypass their social persona and are impervious to their ‘added value’ of drama that pulls weak men into her orbit because they are not grounded in something solid, their own reality. This is so important that it can triple your success with women in a short time. Be congruent with who you are and a woman will o�en follow your lead, naturally and despite what she may be saying because you will be communicating on the biological level where she must respond to your strong masculinity (living in your reality and path).

The Rules for Men Here is a summation of the advice which is corollary to the ebook itself: These are general guidelines and not a step by step technique formula. They are foundational rules by which you should align yourself with in order to refresh your power of effectiveness with any women. Understand your birthright as a man to initiate the process of natural a�raction that ensures our continuance on earth Be aware of her social persona as a byproduct of our social culture Reject the existence of her illusory ‘forced reality’ and understand it is only a perception She is dying to meet a real man like you View her as being in your orbit and reality if she is lucky enough Remain truly indifferent to any outcome and make her guess where you are coming from Live in your own reality which also includes universal awareness of why she is the way she is Retain your center always and be socially interdependent and go ‘fishing’ by throwing out bait or seeds Communicate to her naturally, directly and easily from within your reality and foundational center Tease her a li�le bit if you want and qualify her to accelerate the pace

Get her information and follow up later, have her call you, or take her with you right away You lead the direction of the relationship: Accelerated mating ritual and not the 50/50 boyfriend girlfriend or traditional suitor approach Don’t hand over your power or give in to her ridiculous demands or drama that violate your own independent reality and her know that you will walk If you question if you’re entering into her orbit instead regain your center independently and say “no” Become the man that any woman WOULD want and know that you are her best option

Becoming Congruent with Your Own Reality Remember in dealing with beautiful women or any women for that ma�er, you are an independent man and you have your own boundaries. If you let women know this they will fall in line and respect this naturally. If they do not respect this naturally that means that they have gained a li�le too much independence for natural selection’s sake, and you will either have to compromise, give her the power like most are many American men do, or just be willing to let her go. Always know that you are one step away from le�ing her go, and that you have no problems finding any other women. This will keep her more in check than anything else just about when you are in a dating relationship. It is not hard to tell when a woman is crossing your line. When you know that her beauty is not ge�ing in the way and you are just relating traditionally to each other in a natural man to a woman relationship (which used to be called in the mating process and now it is usually the dating process) then you will be able to tell when she is crossing airline. When you are an independent man you should be aware in your daily life if anyone at any time crosses your line. You have to let people know where your boundaries are and what is unacceptable. This is the hallmark of a real man (amongst to other things). Never let her have the power over you to influence your decisions that you know are not right or with in your reality. If you know that you feel uncomfortable with the decision is be�er just to say no and stop then go ahead and listen to her. Billions of dollars in divorce damage have been done because a man actually handed out listening to a woman, when things most likely would have been fine if the man just kept his own full control and she wasn’t so independent in the first place.

So it is up to you to retain control and a reign on your independent reality. Do not ever give in to her demands if you feel that they are not in line with your own reality, in any dating scenario this will keep her in your orbit, however may be damaging in a long term relationship (most American marriages) because of the 50/50 concessions you will have to make.. Remember that a strong independent beautiful woman, in this day and age will have a lot of fiery spirit within her that will o�en try to test you. It is not in the inherent traditional nature of a woman to test the man as much as she does in today’s society. She has taken on the traits of an independent man, so this is what you are dealing with. Keep in mind that it is a truth that women have not tested men historically (like they do now) when they knew their traditional role as much as they do in America today. You used to just naturally be able to start to get to know a person and see if it would work from there. Now, they may not even want to test you as much as they do but because they are so in dependent, they really still want their own counterparts are you really just have to step up and be the man that you already are by putting your foot down and not le�ing her get away with anything that is beyond your boundaries. If you let her get away with things she will end up presenting it anyways and she will usually stop contacting you and probably leave you. Does she want to do this? Not necessarily. But it is up to you to really be a man and have her know that you are willing to leave her at any time if she starts acting really full of drama (when you are dating). The minute you start giving your heart to her and telling her your feelings, because she is so strong and independent, she will resent that you are giv-

ing in to her power which she herself does not necessarily inherently want (because it is not biologically accurate). So if you can just understand this that she really does want to be a woman, then you won’t give sway too silly, drama full things or become a wuss boy. When you approach a woman, it is not fear, it is this additional value which you alone have previously ‘idolized’ that you are going to have to shi� your paradigm to be fully effective. You may not be able to look beyond our society where we naturally share relationships in a more give/take manner because of her gained independence. To understand something else, may be confusing to you. All you have to do is either look back at history or look at 90% of the marriages around the world and realize that men are being men and the traditional women may have (though don’t have as many liberties as our women) are holding a family together and do not have the drama we have in America. Most men when it comes to approaching a woman are completely out of control. Remember that these men (which used to include both of us at some point), are basing themselves on giving in to her reality or the perceived value of the ‘forced reality’. It is our emotions taking over, that most men would also go through as well around the world when seeing a beautiful woman wearing sexual and unappealing clothing. You will find when you actually do approach her naturally that she will not treat you like the other men. So don’t even worry about what she is going to say anyways, it doesn’t ma�er because you are indifferent. It is in our nature to desire sex, but when it is put out in front of us we can easily get so on edge about it and emotional that we really become a train wreck.

Most men in other countries do not have this problem in dealing with women because their women are either repressing their physical beauty and a�ributes or they are inherently so traditional as a nation anyways that it does not get into their way (a woman will still retain her basic traditional inheritance because that is how she and her family brought her up, unlike in America); it is still her social context. When you’re going to kiss a girl, there is absolutely no reason to freak out when you are in the right place at the right time (which is natural), because you know when you are in the right place at the right time. How does this work? As long as you have kissed a woman in your life before to the point of being comfortable with it, you are now natural and know how to do it with any woman in the world. There is no reason ever for you to freak out when you know that naturally she is ready and you are ready. If you are ge�ing nervous it is only and I repeat only because you are leading your perception of her beauty get in the way and that is it. As soon as we see her we go into a pussy trance. This is an emotional trigger that is linked psychologically, physiologically, socially, self historically to our own culture and upbringing placed on the blatant display of a woman’s beauty. This emotional and uncontrollable response is o�en a trigger-happy thought process that we men just want to ingratiate ourselves in to see if we can get ever closer to serve passing the blue balls syndrome of never ge�ing enough beauty and the ideal of sleeping with beauty herself. All of the emotions and internal hope, and sexual transmutation connect with the universal display and our knowledge of rampant sexuality...all of this massive the motion happens instantly we see a beautiful woman. Doesn’t she just looked like all the women we’ve seen an idolize? Men have go into a stupefied awe of the pussy trance. You see a kind of knew that

these kind of women would be more interested in men who weren’t begging at their fashionable heel. I kind of hinted and knew about this. But I never fully had enough self-control anyways to see it to fruition with a true 10 herself before I had this knowledge. You can’t just say something coming from the wrong reality in the first place that even may fool her into thinking that you are a man. And then all of a sudden you start to shake her show signs of weakness to her (and I’m talking about a real beauty) that is the point when she senses that you are uncomfortable, that you can just about predict that she’s going to split. You really have to be congruent with your reality, no ma�er how beautiful she is. You know that inside she is just the woman just as much as any other women and they all have the same desire to be with the real mad just like you. You are about ready to fulfill her fantasies because she is not found a real man in a long time, and the one she had before wasn’t as good looking or had as much going on as you did. Now is just between you two, and you can let natural progression of the mating dance take place in the more social and accepting ‘dating’ dance. In fact with a woman who really is a top shelf catch that millions of men would love to be with... I would strongly recommend that you maintain your congruency at all times, because she may actually pick up some energy that you are swaying to more of her power and she will resent that and be ready to move on and hopefully find in other men. Of course you have your own life going on as well and that is your center and priority and women comes second if anything, maybe third down the list. When you make it unhelpful Lee your priority to hunt down the women you just in the wrong state of mind anyways. Remember that she is going

to have her own life going on as well and she will spend time shopping and with her friends, and you need to respect that is well by leading the relationship and finding out what your schedule is and then giving her options off of that. Remember that you should be able to sense that things are really swinging her way when they overly push into your standards and you just kind have to put your foot down and say no. With the strong independent, beautiful women, one of the best things you can actually do is just to say “No.” Despite what the feminists say about trying to repress an independent woman, you have to let her know your boundaries so that she doesn’t control your life. It is the natural order for a woman to be around a man who is stronger than herself that is just the way it is as an evolutionary fact. Let her know that you are ready to move on at any time, if she starts to get out of hand. A woman will play hard to get, because she is really testing you to see if you are really a man and cannot stand a weak man; but a�er she finds a man she may feel that she has hit the jackpot (emotionally and potentially sexually). At some point fairly soon you will let her know that you are not going to just chase you, rather you will throw out some seeds to see if she will start the mating dance and ritual with you. You do not have time trying to figure out which of each of your women is trying to play hard to get. In fact if you see and know that she has started the mating ritual with you and gives you a sly look right before you both part that is a sign that she knows what’s going on and you know that the game is on. Remember that when you’re in your reality you’re not going to be calling her 100 times a day. In fact you should be having her call you, just think of the power dynamics of the relationship in that you are in your universe and she is a satellite remember?

If you know that she is obviously not interested in you, then it’s best just to walk away and that will put her to the test because you are now playing hard to get see you can see if she really likes you at all so you could take it from there. What you really have to do is walk away and give her up forever if that’s what it takes. Furthermore, this means that you have to get rid of all energy or thought about her in the atmosphere a�er you leave her. I have done this and I have seen a woman come back up to me and asked me to dance and wanted to get with me except that I was with six other women anyways. Remember that interpersonal relations here when dealing with beautiful women is not a dependency. So she can play hard to get just a li�le bit to keep the game going as long as there is some a�raction between both of you, but remember that you are playing the ballgame in your court and she is a guest in your reality. You are not going to go stretching beyond yourself or really going out of your way if she is trying to play hard to get. I, myself have generally notice this; I will not call women for a long time, and actually do forget about them until, oh hey they do end up calling me. And if there is a sexual tension or social dating ritual or dance going on between you, and you are the one with the power, she will usually be the one calling you. You almost don’t even need to work on your inner game, other than to realize the universal paradigm shi� and become congruent with the reality that is already yours and extend that into your relationships with women. It is so much easier to do this which I am giving you the information and power to do, then it is to try to fix all kinds of inner game things to match yourself up to playing a game in the wrong paradigm itself. All of the techniques about pickup lines and seduction are founded in the wrong paradigm completely. There are some are trying to work against her

beauty to trick her into temporarily accepting us. It probably perplexes women just as much that they can’t find REAL MEN anymore and that rarely will someone stand up to them that really ‘does’ have great value (like you and I) to offer her. This way she won’t have to se�le for the unhealthy bad boy ‘jerk’ just because he’s the only one who can tentatively make her feel sexual a�raction yet doesn’t fulfill her biological urge to have a man that will really care for her and take care of her. So as American men we just take for granted and accept that she’s going to have these independent qualities but this almost always causes resentment on our part and she can’t understand why we either won’t stand up to her or just want to be alone (which is more of our nature to have our space whereas women are generically more social beings). And the men still don’t really understand what’s going on and a�er a relationship is fully developed you can’t just change and take all your power back. You have to have the power to begin with so she knows where she fits in to your life. Some women will deny it even exists or that its just too harsh to treat women subserviently but more of a subservient a�itude and reality has always been her history throughout all of time and is still in 80% of the world. Yes that leaves more room open for potential abuse when she’s not as strong but if the men be men there won’t be that problem and there can be a family raised in mostly harmony as is done throughout most of the world without divorce. So, well you may have to accept the fact that women in America are independent and more empowered than they ever were in history, it doesn’t mean that you have to be ANY less of a man. In fact you may have to be MORE of a man or at least just be naturally strong and don’t give in to their false display and control of power. If every

other guy in the room is on auto response drooling and upli�ing her in their mind and you’re not..guess who has the favor with her, that’s right hero. Some of those guys will have an ‘upli�ing experience’. And her reality is shaky ground, that’s why when you’re coming from an angle of giving her the unnatural power your reality is shaky because it’s not biological. So some of these guys will come from a state of mind with even just a seeping acknowledgement that yes she does have the power and they may try ‘tricks’ on her, try to say something original, use pick up lines, etc. and none of it ma�ers. Because she can SEE and FEEL where they’re coming from is not a state of power in their own reality. It’s based on giving HER the power and trying to ‘get a chance’ with beauty herself, even just a ‘minute of her time’. It’s really pathetic. Hey, I didn’t understand what was going on before so I mostly just avoided talking to the women I really wanted to and just enjoyed the scenery. Either you take action or you don’t. There’s nothing in between. Can’t you see it? You’re a wanted man and she’s wanting you biologically she is programmed to respond to you. If her drama starts to violate your independent reality, let her know right away...”keep it for your girls, I ain’t your girlfriend.” Go out in public and watch men come from this whole state and approach of knowing that she has the power and see what happens. There is something PROFOUNDLY different about a man who just lives in his reality and knows he has the power and he’s not playing into the faux forced reality. Women can pick this up and strong. It really is an energy and state of mind. When you are really congruent with it, beautiful women will come up to you or notice you when you step in a room and want to be near you.

They are magnetically a�racted to you because they don’t want to have all this power which society has forced them into as well. It’s a wolfs bane to them. They ARE women and their biological instincts STILL want to be around a REAL MAN now more than ever despite this illusion of power we’ve given them. Women today, especially beautiful ones are frustrated more than ever (and so are the men who don’t have this knowledge). They used to be able to land a good guy. Now since the social macro dynamics have changed in our society, she can date more o�en than before without necessarily keeping marriage a priority as much as it used to be. Unfortunately the men which she used to be able to get (us) don’t understand the universal dynamics of this forced reality because we’re telling her with our body language that we know that she has the power and not us. This has prevented us from having relationships with the top shelf independent women who we would used to be able to get (and who we still can get if we just step outside our country because I’ve done it with dozens of women, granted most of them were traditional but I always came from my reality so I was O.K. but make sure to read the chapter on When Stars Collide). So remember just to be fully congruent with your own reality a�er you have an understanding of what you want as well as internalizing the rest of the information in this e-book, and you will be much further along than almost all competition. Take the time to go ahead and really visualize, in turn allies and make your reality how you live every minute of the day. You do not have to give in to a woman’s social persona at any point anyways when you are being a natural and real man.

You will learn to get away with many things and realize that women really respect that level of honesty anyways, as long as you are congruent with what you are doing and can take them or leave them because you’re in different.

Empowering Incantations & Beliefs I have to look beyond the shallow exterior with diamond clarity to find out what a woman is like and I’m not afraid to approach her. I am in different to a woman’s perceived social value or energy because I live in a different paradigm of natural order I am aware that other men are really acting scared of her because they are in the forced reality and are on shaky and unfounded ground I live in my own reality and am in control of my life and direction I know that I have a lot of value to add to a beautiful woman’s life She is frustrated because the added value of her ‘screentime sexuality’ is stopping men from being men and she is not ge�ing fulfilled except by unhealthier men whom she seems to a�ract instead who are capitalizing on her frustrations instead of the men she would normally prefer I am impervious to a beautiful woman’s drama and am supercool I know that I have boundaries of independence and that she will not cross them in the accelerated mating program (AMP) I understand that if I get myself into a 50-50 dating relationship (the common standard in America), I will have to compromise a lot of my own independent strength in order to allow for her own contribution (beyond just the sexual and fulfillment) of individuality, personality and spunk to the relationship. I am aware that 50/50 is also the general cause of the only 50%+ divorce rate in the world I truly am in different to the outcome in any situation; so much so in the fact that a beautiful woman cannot tell where I am coming from

I am aware of the three basic styles of dating or mating rituals and have chosen the one that I prefer best: AMP (Accelerated Mating Program), 50-50, or Traditional courtship. I understand that when I am ready for a potential wife, of course I will have to be responsible for the potential consequences from any of these mating rituals.

Manifestations: Proof of Your New Reality So on with all of this knowledge all you need to do is go out there and start exercising your right to be the man that you really are and that you always dreamed of becoming. Remember that this state of mind is with you always, oh Padawan. The power to be a man is something that you always carry with you. You are a real man in every other area of your life, why would you not be a man around women especially when you realize that there was just a li�le something going on that was giving you blurry vision from seeing what was there all along; that a woman is a woman and wants to be around a man who is a real man. This means that you will obviously not let the added value or perception of her beauty get in your way, and you will go straight through directly to communicate with the woman who she really is. Just because there is a power struggle in America does not mean that you have to be any less of a man if you are still single. Because so many of our men are becoming confused and leading unnatural lives of oppression because of a woman’s strength and taking on all more manly characteristics in our modern-day society, doesn’t mean that you have to fall into the forced reality anymore. If you keep the relationship on the accelerated mating program and only open that option up to women who are interested in being with a real man with no strings a�ached, drama free, mutually fulfilling short-term or sporadic encounters, you will be able to fulfill their need and desire for sexual fulfillment as well as yours. So really just go ahead and get out there and start living this new reality, which you’d now realize has been yours all along. This should really be a huge and tremendous release or li�ing of a burden for you.

To know that all along you were closer to being successful with women anyways, and also knowing that they still really do want a man who is real (and honest), should empower you to go ahead and create these win-win relationships in the accelerated mating program or process. They’re dressing up for social proof, validation and recognition (“se�le down beavis”), but also to find a real man like you. When you are around women you will see that there is an ever expanding manifestation and proof that everything that I am saying here is true and accurate. But you are really just finding or rediscovering your own natural ability to effectively communicate with women which has always been within you. The more practical experience you get (which will add up quite quickly) in communicating with women and a�racting them, the more you will realize that yes you are a natural and that the easier everything becomes so much so that in fact you are really not even trying because you are a natural. This will even take you to higher levels of success with women when you become 100% congruent with your new reality and your ability to be a man who naturally a�racts women for the kind of relationships that you would like in your life. Just remember throughout the accelerated mating process with each of your ladies, that you will always remain cool and indifferent, and you’ll actually act in a ma�er of fact sort of way. This means that you live your life expecting the outcome which is inevitable in the accelerated mating program. She does not even need to question it, because you will naturally lead the relationship there. Just understand these macro dynamics, and internalize your reality to become congruent with what you know. Women will be drawn to you everywhere you go; they are on edge and repressed sexually and are sick of men ‘giving in’ to their reality instead.

Just ‘be the man’ and notice the instant difference. Take action and talk to women naturally without seeing the ‘forced reality’ and start to reap the rewards of interdependent relationships that you direct.

‘Be Cool’ There is a class of ‘bad boys’ or ‘jerks’ in our society that have already proven they can get hot women. The only difference is that they are living in their reality and just being a man without giving in to her beauty front that is only perception anyways. She is going to be more lenient in choosing them instead of ‘nice’ (read wussy) guys because they speak directly to the inner natural girl in her. So are you going to keep le�ing these guys get all the ho�est ones? A woman is not as interested in your image or physical appearance as you might think she is. She is more concerned nowadays (because she is so frustrated) if she can just find a real man and she will accept some of his ‘perceived’ downfalls to be with him just because he is a real man and treats her like a woman. He may o�en tease her about her looks. If you are a be�er looking man, don’t think that it’s just these other guys. You know the truth now of what is going on. She would rather be with you as long as you are a real man with her. Traditionally men did not give in a woman’s ‘image front’. Otherwise if there enough 40 year virgins back in history you may not have been born. People always found a way; Return to Blue Lagoon. Do what is biologically accurate and be a real man. That IS what she wants. You really have to be cool and in different. As long as you are in your reality, you don’t have to do unhealthy things or some of the hardcore putdowns that these guys do. But it would be to your advantage to have some kind of all knowing cultural or social personality where you can understand what’s going on and make fun of things or her. Think of how you are around your buddies.

If you’re in a metro city, everytime you see a beautiful woman is a potential opportunity. Also practice eye contact and mentally ‘challenging’ women to approach or deny that you’re living in your reality. This will a�ract strong beautiful women to you like never before when you are congruent. In a modern dating scenario (50/50 style), it’s going to be harder to retain your full power because you will be spending more time with her and the dynamics are changing. She is naturally independent and strong and will struggle with you (more compromising) in this type of relationship. Glamour and Cosmopolitan magazines are just agents of the perpetuation of the ‘beauty’ front or ‘forced reality’. Women cannot just tell men to be or act like a man, you just have be one James Bond. Remember it is supposed to be a natural and biological process; this process of sexual a�raction and (now; accelerated mating). Try to become an interesting intriguing man if you are not already. Get on top of the social scene and be a man of high perceived social value. You can be the guy that is naturally cool and gets along with most everyone. Anywhere you go from now on, realize that you have the inherent power and right to live in your reality. You can notice the weakness of other men, bouncing like quarters off her perceptual ‘shield’. You can almost laugh at it now and it will make you grow stronger by being aware of it and seeing it happen all the time. In fact, you can even go up to a woman and ask her, “So what’d he tell you?” in a ‘knowing’ way. You can just go up and ask, “So what are your thoughts on men who are afraid of your beauty?” Say, “Interesting..”..get her opinion indifferently and then walk away and see what happens, but really remain indifferent. You don’t go out being dependent on an outcome or pu�ing too much thought or weight into ‘trying to get laid’ or anything. Remain indiffer-

ent. This way, women will feel it is more natural anyways, especially in our modern social dynamics. Don’t be overly ‘nice’ to them. Remember that sexual a�raction is a biological and natural process. If you have the feeling of wanting to be too nice to them then they may qualify you as a friend. Keep the options open at the front. Tease her a li�le as this will help set the tone and increase the sexual tension. Because you know it’s always on, you are not afraid to approach or even give a woman on knowledge and a sly li�le smile. Being in your own reality means that you are indifferent when you see (what you might have used to consider) a ‘beautiful woman’. You’re comfortable, almost too comfortable around them. No ma�er how beautiful a woman is and you can tell by looking at other guys and how they are fidgeting or acting. Remember you are in a completely different paradigm; the one of ‘natural a�raction.’ Because women can sense energy and where a man is coming from, they can pick you out in the whole room because you are indifferent to their ‘energy’ and ‘beauty’ and will o�en just come up to you because of this (and also because they have already disqualified the men they sense are in ‘awe’ of their beauty). You are ‘indifferent’ to the energy they used to have because you are grounded in a solid reality; the paradigm of natural a�raction and universal understanding. This is what it’s all about, because you are a natural. This means that you don’t have fall into the idea of learning tricks, seduction, NLP or pick up lines. Those are for people who are still in the paradigm of forced reality. Don’t be a slob, take care of yourself so she’d be interested in you right away once she realizes you are in the natural paradigm of a�raction where she is really in despite her exterior.

The more potential energy she has, cancel it out mentally. You don’t care. You live in a different paradigm and are grounded in your energy. Women who get a�ention all the time (the most beautiful, socially accepted ones) will be drawn to you even without saying a word sometimes just because you are the only one who is different. She’s knows she has found a potential real man. Think of how you would act around a woman you’re not interested in. If you can be like that around the ones you are interested in really, then you’re ge�ing somewhere. No, IT’S NOT LOGICAL, it doesn’t make sense. They’re ski�ish drama and flightiness has a reasoning behind it. You have to inherently ‘be cool’ when around this level of drama while other men who aren’t made of steel are melting. You’re not the problem. And it’s ok. You just have to realize all of this and then act differently if you want to a�ract and get with the hot independent women. Guys will say, “Well I just want to be myself”...Well you have to understand the women you’re dealing with here, realize that not all women in the world are like that and that it isn’t natural. And if you really want to successfully get independent American women then you’re going to have to act differently then you have been. And that primarily means that you will have to come from your own congruent reality and paradigm even if you say the exact same things that you have been saying, so you don’t let her added value or social proof get him away. You are a cool and natural man when it comes to dealing with women. You do not have to be emotionally or psychologically unstable like some of the guys you have seen ge�ing these women; you are their first choice anyways as long as you can prove that you are a real, cool and natural man who understands the process of natural a�raction.

Your goal is to be biologically congruent to your nature as a man, whose role is to seek out potential mating partners. You can look at the other men who go up to women but all of a sudden they are just blown off, and see why. This is because they have lost their own grip on their reality. I’ve felt the ramifications of this strong social persona as well, and if you have experienced it before, I’m with you. I’ve seen beautiful women before and completely froze up wondering ‘What would she think of me?’ Blah blah before. Those are real and legitimate issues that we as men deal with when trying to relate to our (us.) women. So if you’re being biologically congruent; here’s the news: she isn’t on the surface. Society has programmed her to have power and choice and control over men up front, because they have given in to this perceived power. But this is the way things are you might say. And I correct you by saying, this is the way things are in America. I don’t know about you but I’ve BEEN around the world to know be�er and see it differently. This has led me to the discovery that we men have always been naturals. If you’re trying to throw massive game at her that is a fake front you’re putting. It’s called a social persona. A woman also protects herself but with a very strong forcefield called HER social persona. It is meant to protect her from showing who she really is. It’s at it’s strongest in the club environment. It’s so strong you can almost bounce a quarter off it. If you can ‘break’ her social persona you’re in. Sometimes she’ll say “You got me” and laugh. You might find that the hot sexy girl isn’t as bitchy as you thought she was.

Let me warn you though that such a strong social persona is usually covering up something..a weakness in herself. It’s a mirrored reflection. This is a sign of trouble and instability down the road, however it can provide a lot of mutually beneficial excitement for the both of you (especially under AMP). And you may find out that she really is a cool girl like yourself, but just keep in mind that this level of similarity between you two will probably work against you in a real relationship. So just ‘be cool’ when it comes to meeting women and being your real self. You can handle anything. Think of this: When you see classified or online ads of people looking for people. Isn’t this really just a selfish thing? They don’t know you. They’re interested in finding a match for them, daydreaming of someone they would like. Think about that. swf seeks bdsmlsbnswm or whatever. And you’re interested in finding someone to have sex with (or whatever), you don’t know who that next person is; you just have an idea in your mind. So a hot woman anywhere you go is feeding off of social proof but she doesn’t know you. She also has the biological urge to respond and commence the mating sequence or some kind of relationship if you ‘match’ up with her in either her social persona’s perception of you as a match ‘for her’ or if she responds biologically. We all want to find someone to match ‘our needs’ and ‘our ideals’. Interesting. So if you can fulfill a beautiful woman’s desire of what she is really looking for; a real man through a natural process (starting casually and then moving forward fairly fast but with no strings a�ached), you can be fulfilling both of your selfish desires.

Be Her Hero Girls just want to have fun. You can be the man that gives them the fun that they are not ge�ing from all these other boring, ‘clingy’ men. That of man just ties her down and she wants to have fun without consequence. She would rather have it where she is calling you instead of you calling her, if for no other reason than the endless cycle of wussies that try to weigh her down. It doesn’t even ma�er that the man really might be interesting or good-looking when they’re coming from the angle of giving her the power and also taking the wrong approach in the first place of trying to ‘court’ her. This is almost a double disqualification for all of these men. If you can be a man and stay in your reality and let her be a part of your orbit (which means that you will be doing that natural biological process of attraction anyways, except in a more accelerated fashion) AND you just frame the entire relationship from the way that she wants it to be any ways which is more carefree, and if anything could develop over time a�er she gets to know you (which is where she will probably fall in love with you anyways), then you are just giving her everything of what she could want. And as long as you really are an interesting guy who has your life and your reality together with and you don’t give in to hers, and you can just keep the entire relationship light or sexual, she will be very relieved that she can express her modern female desires with a real man and still carry on her life without the drama of you begging at her feet for pandering to her every second of the day. This gives her the freedom and peace of mind to allow the relationship to develop further naturally, however you may just have something shorter term than that in mind, but this is the way that women want a relationship to developed anyways.

Women today want the relationship to start off from a nontraditional approach, they want to keep it light and fun and then let it developed from there to see if they are really interested in you for the long-term. Of course you will have to define what kind of relationship it’s going to be anyways, because it may just be a sexual thing for you and for her. But you can still give her all these other feelings and emotions when you are with her in bed, and interspersed now and then while still maintaining your reality, I have found that these things will usually make her fall in love with you and want you more so its all up to you. You can live in your reality and she can experience the type of relationship where she can be a woman, keeper drama to herself without interfering with your reality, so you can both have a very fun and usually sexual type of relationship where she can also lock away at any time if she wants. But because you know that she is in your orbit and you have the control that she will want to stay around you anyways. You can develop these kind of relationships and start them with women everywhere you go, and you can start living the life of your dreams if this is what you want. Remember, all women will have sexual fantasies they’re keeping inside and would like to unleash with the right person. All the time be giving these women what they’re looking for without the pressure on them to fall into everything that you say because you’re not around each other all the time anyways, nor are you calling her 100 times a day. It really is a win-win scenario that allows you to live the life of and ‘uberplayer’ and allows her to be a modern-day woman who can express her own sexuality without the dependent drama and pressure that suitors bring her. Hey, she can be just like Carrie on Sex and the City. It probably won’t really ma�er to her how many women you are with thing you do not have to tell

her, because you can just avoid the whole issue anyways. But if she wants to keep you around you or the one who has the control and can leave her at any time. She also has the right to be a woman who has relationships with many different men as well so you may have to understand this. Do not get too dependent, overprotective, checking up on, or controlling or thinking that she ‘is yours’. You cannot have this kind of obsessive or dependent mind control over her, because it defies the whole nature of the relationship anyway. Does James Bond ask her who she was just with? No, ChaChi. As long as she and you have a good time when you two are together that is all that really ma�ers because you have other women on the line anyways. Let me point out an understated angle on the situation. From one angle you can really say that you are ge�ing free sex. But of course you are ge�ing free sex for several reasons. Remember that money is not what this is about here, this is about being a man yourself and about allowing her to be a woman without any strings a�ached. This is not about buying her things and paying for her a�ention in order to win her over. Love don’t cost a thing you could say. This is a win-win situation for both parties taking place in the modern accelerated mating ritual or 50-50 dating relationship. Buying her things is not what a woman is looking for because it complicates that all of these suitors that are chasing a�er her would be willing to buy her pre�y much anything in order to win her over, when it is not marriage right up front that she is looking for. If she is going to be interested in marrying a guy it is not going to be from this perspective when she first meets him, it has to develop naturally for her as an independent woman.

Remember that it is also not about money for the woman either unless she is trying to land a good catch for a marriage, then she may be more flexible for suitors (although probably quite bored and pretending she is interested). She will be more relieved that you are not buying her things in order to win her approval because with that approach it feels as if she owes you something which is more aligned with the traditional courting behavior which will lead to marriage. She is not looking for a man to start off with the traditional ‘courting’ procedure because she is now a free, fun-loving and independent woman. Add to that fact that all of the guys out there are approaching her like this are doing it in the wrong way in the first place. This means that you can lead a more casual and sexually framed relationship by completely avoiding the whole courtship procedure in the first place, without even having to focus on money been an issue. Usually you can do things that are pre�y much free like go to interesting places or walk around in street markets etc., or just have her over at your place. When you start buying her things it’s starting to show her that you are interested and her and automatically a response will be triggered that will give her a red flag that you might be seriously interested in her from marriage. If you started doing this, basically it will mean you are giving over or into the dark side and she may be ready to leave you soon. Start it off by keeping it casual, fun, sexual and care-free. By keeping it drama free like this you can live the life of your dreams until you are ready for a woman for long-term, then that’s another issue. At the beginning a woman may try to grab a hold of your balls and squeeze...”by the way can you buy me this?” for example.

It’s just a sign dude; potential golddigger. Do not give into that kind of demand if it does not fit within your reality. A woman is going to respect you more if you don’t pander to her and give her the power like all of the other needy men. When it comes to the physical part of the relationship, well you just have be�er handled. It’s all about giving her value and what she wants to experience and feel. She is going to love this if you really know how to centrally give her what her body and emotions desire. This can keep her running back to you very strongly. That when you are in, she will probably compare you to the wussies that keep following her and respect you more for just being a real man. So go ahead and be her hero. If you are in the accelerated mating program with her, then just give her a lot of value and exciting yet interdependent pleasure (don’t pop up an engagement ring I guess). Remember you can also be friends with intelligent, beautiful independent women. They can add a lot of real value to your life and vice versa. If you’re in an environment where it’s best to be friends; hey, you’re indifferent and you’re cool. They can be relaxed around you. If you have lots of friends they can tell their friends and Welch’s grape? But don’t have an ulterior motive when you really choose to be friends with a strong woman. She will value that because she probably doesn’t have too many ‘guy’ friends. It just adds more zest to your life. I like my girl-friends because they are sharp and cool.

A Whole New World With all of this information on your side, you should be able to realize what you have been doing wrong in the past. In reading this, you should be aware of an entire new reality that co-exists beneath the one you thought you lived in. There is the biological, primitive, physical instincts within each and every woman that knows how to respond to you when you are being a man lives out the natural process of a�raction from your own reality. Your mind should really be open now to an entire new world and reality which was closer than you thought it was this whole time. This is a dramatic change, and it is up to you to claim this and just be the man that you want to be while adding value to other people’s lives (especially women) in the relationships you develop naturally. Your control over your reality and your direction in life extends to all areas ‘outward’; and now it extends to finally having the kind of relationships you want with women who want it as well. It’s a win/win and you know you are doing her a favor for those that you spark the process of natural a�raction with because she will get what she is wanting; a real man. Remember if you are playing AMP that you let her know very soon up front that you don’t like a woman’s drama to interfere with her and that you are quite a sexual man. You don’t control them but they are in your orbit and want to be around you. You are being the dominant archetype man that is the answer to her underlying womanhood and desires. Once you understand all of these underlying fundamental truths, you will see that most any other question you have you should be able to answer for yourself because we are all inherently naturals because of our birthright to make and procreate.

You are a man, you are strong, you know that you could kill if it came down to it; this is our inherent birthright to be men despite all of the added distraction, opportunity or ‘fluff’ which has been added on top. Our soldiers fighting in the war on terror are very aware and are closer to a fundamental baseline than most men in America can realize. These are real men, risking their lives who want to come home to loving women who won’t nag and destroy everything they fight for. Our biological roots are more ‘frontline’ in this situation and we go back to the things that really ma�er the most, family. There are differences between men and women although they may have easily seem to be clouded over, you just really have to look at history and experience and see that Men are men and women really are women. We no longer have to associate ourselves with more ‘primitive’ behaviors (which many people still do in the world) because of living in our modern and civilized society, however all of our biological instincts and responses are still intact. It is almost a sick joke when you can understand how women feel and how ridiculous it actually is that men would be afraid of approaching them. Keep in mind that she may forget that she is beautiful because she may be only spends about 20% of her day thinking about that and the other 80% she is just being a normal human being. When she is looking out at the world with her eyes she doesn’t see her own beauty unless there’s a mirror right there. She is wondering why you don’t just approach her as a normal human being. And when she sees all these guys ge�ing nervous, it is almost a tragedy inside of her and she may even question herself, “What is wrong with me and why can’t I a�ract normal, healthy, interesting, even good-looking strongmen that have a life of their own?”

All of these fears that you have had really are false. One of the most ironic things that I am teaching you, that all other dating experts will tell you is that you should just be yourself. Basically when you are thinking that you are being yourself you are not biologically being yourself. Remember that the social dynamics have changed, so that a woman is more used to ‘dating’ and 50/50 rather than ‘mating’ and se�ling down from marriage (the strong independent beautiful ones we are interested in). They don’t appreciate the drooling courtship approach and would probably love to have a no strings a�ached AMP relationship because they are so repressed (and yet so sexually aware) and can completely indulge in that part of their nature. This is an advantage of our modern social dynamics as well once you ‘get it’. This should INSPIRE you to action and because ‘it’s always on’ there are women everywhere to start things with. Always be ‘on’ and know that anything can happen; consequently this means that you should look good at all times in public as well. Be ready. So this information does not make sense with what is coming from all of the so-called relationship and dating experts in America who are telling a man just to be himself, to buy her flowers, and basically pay for her a�ention. This isn’t what women are looking for anyways because this is the courting procedure which leads to a traditional marriage. So many men in America are actually pussy whipped, because they give in to the demands of women even though women ultimately do resent that. Women know that they do have so much power, but this really comes back to their main problem of trying to figure out where have all the Cowboys gone? Your knowledge and understanding of this will allow you to have more

leverage to reject her forced reality (which she herself does not necessarily want), in order to further maintained your strong reality and give her what she really wants by bringing out the feminine nature in her. Understand also that women in America today, will be a woman (or actually be as aggressive as a man) sexually and in the bedroom, but will probably go back to her independent ways in the workplace and in her regular social interactions because that is just her lifestyle and her habits. It’s up to you in a dating relationship never to let her sway you over to her side, in that you start becoming a wuss and telling her your feelings for her, start buying her things all the time, or giving her too much a�ention. These women will o�en rejects the idea that a man should be so strong to go ahead and challenge your own independence; but, it is o�en the strongest women that end up having a real strongman themselves in order to balance out the natural feminine girl within that just wants to be loved, and to feel passion, pleasure and the motion. You have to know that it is in a woman’s nature to want to have a real man, and for her to be a real woman at least sexually. These so-called dating experts have to realize that we are in a more dating mode which is more social and a li�le more carefree than the intensity and high level of expectation of courting. So they are just teaching men wrong and the women are being frustrated from this. Why don’t these independent women just stand up and say that it is casual relationships that they are looking for instead of a more serious and heavy minded man? Oh yes they have or had “Sex and the city”. I still can’t figure out why dating experts are still telling men though to buy her flowers and basically court her. Maybe they are wanting to protect her somehow from her newfound independence when she can take care of herself just fine.

Men are still doing the traditional thing of taking a woman on a date which is more of a mating ritual which leads to the thoughts of, “Hey, maybe we can get married sometime soon...gee, you are so pre�y.” This is just not helping men out any and all, because these type of women are usually not interested in courting until they have been able to more casually start a relationship with a man without all that heavy expectation which turns are o�en the first place. But more importantly, men are told to just be themselves when it comes to women in dating. This is where I agree with the relationship counselors however no one is ge�ing it. If men would actually do more of a casual and social dating relationship instead of pu�ing on the heavy cording procedure which they are being told by relationship counselors (primarily women), then the women wouldn’t feel as much pressure when she just wants to experience some of her own freedom and what a man can offer her without much consequence. This is one area where I disagree with relationship or dating experts. I would think that women would agree with me on this one. Unfortunately it really is the man who do not get it. Granted there are some more characteristics that they may have to alter with their personality in order to naturally interest women of this high social order, but if men really were being themselves (and more casual when it came to the dating approach) women would be a lot happier because they would actually be dating men that were their counterparts. However we know that this is not the case. Men are told to just be themselves, and many of them are except for one major problem; they are le�ing their emotions get in the way an out-of-control because they are falling under her ‘pussy trance’ of added social value. So if men really could just be themselves and be natural (by living out of

their own reality and not le�ing her have control the situation which would be five the natural order) than they actually could have dating success and the women would be happy as well. So this is kind of where I agree with female dating experts (a li�le bit) when they say that men should just be themselves, because remember that these women to are looking for real men and they are wondering why they don’t just act normal despite their apparent beauty and level of independence. A woman will not feel a�racted sexually to a man who is an over emotional wussbag (despite popular love song lyrics or sappy movie endings). A man that can not control his emotions, is giving in to her reality and losing control of his for the time being, is going to find out very obviously that she is not interested in him. Why isn’t she interested in him? Because it defies the biological order, she just really wants to be a woman despite her overprotective, overhyped façade. She knows that she could control him if she wanted to, because he is already begging at her feet. She does not ultimately want a man that she can control. Despite what you may have seen with Madonna and other women that are using them as boy toys, it may give them a sexual rush for a time but it still is not what is aligned properly within them that they yearn for. How can she be a�racted to a man who defies the biological order of natural selection who she can easily control? She is not supposed to be the one who is in control. Can you see what is going on here? Women are so used to this that it has become just as much of a phenomenon that really sucks to them as it does for men to try to figure out what’s going on: go back to the Paradox.

Women are so sick of this and get it happening to them so o�en it has become so predictable and sometimes just plain outright nauseating. It is so apparent to them and happens so o�en that it is boring and they can see it coming from any man who does not have his center. Why do you think they’re a�racted to men who do not just give in to them despite their physical beauty? If you can be a challenge to her, where she questions where you are coming from and wonders if you are interested in her, she will be intrigued because you are different than all of the other men who are just handing themselves over to her on a silver pla�er. The fact that you are not like any of the other men sets you apart from all of them and she will want to figure out more about you. If you can play out this role and actually be a challenge to her and not really ever give away if you are interested in her this will fascinate her and she will follow you around in many cases. It is this perceptual value that we have placed on her beauty (because our society has encouraged and assimilated into our consciousness in plain daylight), that is really the only thing holding back any man from having true success with women (overcoming this 100%). I really want to have you see this from many different angles in order for it to really sink in. So it may seem like I’m sometimes being a li�le redundant, but I just really want you to ‘get it’ because you’re going to have to think differently and really be grounded in your reality in order to put aside the forced reality that is so perpetual in our society. You can really live in your dream reality and all the world of excitement, fun, pleasure, value and opportunity.

Social Bu�erfly: Alpha Male In the clubs and bars the ho�est women are looking for a�ention and then guys with the most social status. Women who frequent clubs all the time also are not extremely emotionally healthy (key: all the time). In the past I’ve found that when I’m promoting or photographing, I can talk to ANY women in any club but when I’m not I’ve previously been like a normal guy. Shy, up against the wall looking around. I can’t even count the number of times I went home alone (this was a few years ago). Now that I’m at another level I can’t wait to hit the clubscenes again but don’t live near any right now. If you want to a�ract these kind of independent women you’re going to have to accept that you’re going to have to do some different things that really aren’t yourself. Now remember, it’s ok to be yourself because it will work on the potential pool of 90% of the rest of the women in the world (from there...those who would agree to a potential match that you could be..). But if you’ve been ‘being yourself’ around independent women and ge�ing brushed off, no returned phone calls, no action, etc. Then you’re just going to have to do what I teach in this e-book and then you can throw some other aspects of your humor or cockiness on top of that real easily without even thinking. There’s a few more things I can learn and acquire (skills) that will allow that natural courage to truly be congruent and in place with who I am. And you can do this for yourself as well. When I met Bill Rancic the original ‘Apprentice’ at an airport on September 22nd 2004 I met him on equal terms. I talked to him normally as if I were on his level.. Why?

Because I ‘am’ on his level; you see all celebrities are real people. They just have vehicles of more leverage to get themselves out there. Other people were too scared to talk to him or didn’t recognize him and I was the ONLY one talking with him. I wasn’t like, “Oh wow...let me have your autograph” and acted unworthy in front of him. I treated him as an equal and he respected me. Had I not had to run to my plane I would have sat down and talked with him and exchanged information. He was a great, interesting guy. They were doing an intense security screening on him and I looked at his Gucci shoes which were on the conveyer to go through x-ray and I looked at my ra�y ones and felt a li�le stupid then but didn’t show it. When they were doing the treasure finder thing on him he looked over and gave me that knowing look of exasperation and I knowingly grinned back at him but for the perfect amount of timing. There are those who make their backyard the world and there are those where the world is their backyard. My two neighbors who mow their lawn every two days, well you can guess which category they’re in. On a random note;I have a S.F. buddy and when he was at Ft. Bragg he said even the average or ugly chicks think they’re hot sh*t. This is because there is about 80% men around that area. I will have a lot more information coming out on how to be a high social status man. Just to let you know that I have been a nightclub promoter and I never paid to go and nightclubs anywhere I go. And I have been to Miami, Chicago, Houston, LA, all over Southeast Asia and it’s really just beginning because I will be picking that up again in 2006 restarting in Houston. I can teach you how to be a high status male and what characteristics you should have to naturally be ‘the guy’.

The World Is Yours > Recap

When you can be congruent with your understanding of your rightful place as a man and when you know your boundaries and what you want with women, you will be several times more effective ge�ing women than ever before. You can have women competing for you. Be the man. Remember that as soon as you ‘get out there’ again you’re going to be inundated with Americanism. It will seem normal to you to all of a sudden be at online dating sites or going through what you used to go through. It all comes down to you. You are the man and natural evolution is on your side. Your reality is already changing because of this information. Engrain it into you; go over and over it again and practice really seeing the world through your new eyes if it hasn’t become you yet. It may take a while to shi� and gain that congruency to your new (and more biological) reality. It’s ok to be a man. You don’t have to apologize for it to ANY woman. Let me reiterate that if things seem normal to you once you get out there and you can’t get the bigger picture view, step back and think about what you’ve learned here. Here are a few steps on how to help you regain your matrix perspective which you can bring in and out of focus at anytime: -I am a man and don’t have to make apologies about it. I am at the very top of the food chain for a reason -I understand why America has the highest divorce rate in the world -I am aware of my historical, biological (and even biblical) right to be a man

-I am aware that independent women can be fun and want a strong man but are full of drama -American women are not acting the way 90% of all women do or are -I have seen the light -I am defining and sharpening my purpose as a man...women are peripheral components and not the center of my universe -I’m not going to be repressed anymore -I can go anywhere in the world and a�ract just as beautiful women naturally -I can get and keep naturally healthy women by being myself -I can adjust my techniques of strong manhood to match the game of powerful women players to do what works -I live in a culture which idolizes feminine beauty and am aware of the oppression of the modern man in the media -I dont’ need additional drama and am not dependent on ANY beautiful woman to get me anything because I can please myself -I almost feel sorry for American women for having to put up all this social persona just to deal with the wussies -There are women everywhere that want to have my babies -I have control over myself in situations where drama tries to blatantly showcase itself Thankfully we do have a freedom of choice. There are some countries where marriages are chosen for the young couple. I can’t even imagine that.

Dynasties have crumbled over the desire for a woman. Men’s lives have been destroyed by women when they have put above her in the food chain. Live in your reality, internalize everything that is in this e-book and live your life a power and effective success with women everywhere you go. At best any woman would be your equal in your reality. Despite our modern dating dynamics, women really do want a real man to reach the natural feminine part of her that will respond to your initiation of the accelerated mating ritual. Remember to be indifferent and ready for anything, but you do not have to let a woman’s perceived social persona or the paradigm of the ‘Forced Reality’ throw you off anymore. Internalize everything you can, reread and meditate on becoming congruent with your reality and LIVE IT. You no longer have to be afraid of any woman no ma�er what society ‘rates her’ because you are coming from a standpoint of wisdom, cultural differentiation, biological evidence and independence. Just get in touch with your true inherited masculinity and don’t let her energy throw you off. Gravitate ‘heavenly bodies’ into your orbit and fulfill their desires if they are so lucky. I’d love to hear your success stories. Let me know what you think and stay in the loop for future product releases and training on how to be a natural success with women. Rion Williams www.mensguidetowomen.com

-10/14/05

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