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Mens Secret Technique 2.0
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The Men's Secret Technique 2.0 Shhhhhh!!!!
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Let’s dive in. Here’s the deal. The technique that you are about to read in this report falls under the sneaky category. You’ll see for yourself. I’ve had many guys test this out and they all love it. But first… If you ever try to change a woman’s deep down beliefs in any way, you quickly discovered that it is close to impossible. In a few minutes, you’ll discover a way of changing her deep down beliefs with ease. In fact it only takes about 35 seconds to say what you need to say (to send the powerful message). I am 100% convinced that 80% of all guys have used the core principles of this technique accidentally and unintentionally and they either benefited from it (unknowingly) or was hurt by it (unknowingly). Again this is something that takes about 35 seconds to say and you could easily see the evidence that it worked in as little as 40 minutes later... And you WILL know with certainty that it worked! Here is what you do.
You are going to tell her that you are about to provide her with some inside secrets about how men really think. The bottom line is women obsess over this type of information. © Copyright. All Rights Reserved.
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Look at the cover of magazines. The proof is everywhere. As I stated before getting a woman turned on is very easy once you shift your focus from 'trying to get her turned on' to doing a series of things such us: 1. Creating feelings/emotions 2. Leveraging a commonly held perception 3. Shifting a belief Those are 3 simple vehicles for getting women turned on... because those 3 things can be used creatively to: Increase sexual value Increase sexual tension (In other words, those are methods to make her perceive you as more desirable as well as make you more effective at moving her from Not In The Mood to A Mindset of Sexually Craving....) Before we get to this technique, let's make sure that you fully/completely/absolutely understand those 3 extremely simple things... As far as Creating feelings/emotions, that's the simplest of the 3 concepts to understand. For example....
1. Creating feelings/emotions ...if you give her a (good) compliment it's going to make her feel good ...either about herself and/or what she is capable of. You've done this before. © Copyright. All Rights Reserved.
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If you say something hurtful, it will negatively affect how she feels. Being cognizant of her "emotional state" is an important Awareness Tool for the guy who operates at an advance level. Obviously, we're concerned with saying/doing things that make her feel positive emotions/feelings, such as: Feeling Sexy Feeling Special Feeling Womanly Feeling Needed Feeling Appreciated Feeling Like she has an advantage Feeling Understood Feeling Like an Exciting/Fun Person Feeling Part of Something Special Feeling Assertive Feeling Creative Feeling Like A Fair Person Feeling Intelligent Etc. (And we don't just do this for tactical purposes ‐ we do it because it feels good to be someone who positively affects others.) Let's get to the next one.
2. Leveraging a commonly held perception. Let's say your wife or girlfriend (like many women) believes that the best
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way to understand how to please a guy better in bed is to listen to sex tips from 30+ guys. Of course it's a fallacy. Right? ...because the best way to really understand how to get better at pleasing you sexually is to 'study/pay‐attention‐ to/question/analyze YOU!!!
Fallacy: In informal logic and rhetoric, a fallacy is usually incorrect argumentation in reasoning resulting in a misconception or presumption. By accident or design, fallacies may exploit emotional triggers in the listener or interlocutor (e.g. appeal to emotion), or take advantage of social relationships between people (e.g. argument from authority). Fallacious arguments are often structured using rhetorical patterns that obscure any logical argument.
However, it's 1000x easier to leverage a false/semi‐false/irrational/partially‐irrational belief than to create a new belief. Besides there's nothing harmful about her having a not‐so‐logical belief.
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Our manly job isn't to turn her into a female Einstein. Our manly job is to honorably inspired a mindset of desire (among other things)... So let her believe that it's the best way. Some guys will argue with her. The lovely tender soft lady: I'm reading a book where 50 guys reveal sex tips. The dumb-ass husband: (arguing tone of voice) Why don't you just ask me?!!! I can tell you exactly what I like!!! The lovely tender soft lady: (sighs and throws the book down) The dumb-ass husband: Are you OK? As you can see, (ironically) he's trying to give her the 'logically superior' way of pleasing him. Magazines (that market to women) understand the concept of leveraging "her viewpoint" brilliantly. For example, here's a magazine that I just grabbed off of my bookshelf.
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(Note: It's always ultra‐embarrassing as a man to walk into the local Walgreens and buy a magazine for women, because you know they just assume you're gay or something.) Anyway... Do you see the smooth mastery of leveraging a commonly held perception at work? And by the way, of course she can learn 75 sex tips from guys, but what's at work is the subtle implication that this is the superior approach. In some cases, the exploitation of this is stretched to ridiculousness. For example, we know (because we're smart) that most neuroscientists understand the mechanisms of the human brain more so than a crazy uneducated woman with a brain disorder.
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Another example, if you spent 10 years testing and tweaking ways to get a woman to laugh to the point where you were instinctive at getting a woman to giggle like crazy... Who would be better at teaching other guys how to make women giggle? A) You B) Or an actual woman who giggles more than another woman. Answer: You! ...because you understand the MECHANISMS that create laughter ‐ which is something you have to understand if you're going to teach others... The funniest example of this 'misconception' is when a guy will interview an extremely hot chick about what she likes about a guy and what gets her turned on ‐ as a means of suggesting that she KNOWS more than anyone. The Subtle Message is: If you want to learn how to attract Hot Women, then listen to them explain what they are attracted to... In most guy's mind, the deep (scary) belief is the hotter the woman, the more she knows about the processes. False!! In fact, that's actually 2 levels of dumbness! (and I'll example WHY) For example, there are many comedians (guys who are gifted at making others laugh) that can not explain (or teach) other people how to be funny. They may even believe they understand, but they don't. The reason has to do with skills that exist in our unconscious processes.
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Someone (who may not be as funny as the comedian) could actually be better at teaching others than the comedian! Why? Because he understands the processes better. If you understand that, then pat yourself on the back because the idea 'that the hotter the woman' the more you'll learn from her is WORSE than learning 'comedy tips' from a comedian who can't teach it. We say it's worse, because it's actually the equivalent of trying to learn 'comedy tips' from the guy in the audience who laughs the loudest!!! (That's what I mean by 2 levels of dumbness.) As a tip: If you're trying to learn ways to get a new woman turned on and you have the (smart) belief that the more you analyze what actually WORKED to get her turned on in the past, then it would make more sense to get the information from her the right way. It's ok to ask (directly or indirectly), what did the guy do to get you turned on, but deep down inside understand that you are really analyzing her 'belief' (correct or incorrect) about what the guy did. That means you're not going to stop at a question like that. You're going to continue to figure out 'stuff she may not realize' is a factor (i.e. things that created impact, the guy's traits, the situation, where she was emotionally at that time, was the guy giving her "under‐signals" (from thelaughableanswer.com), the persona of the guy, the relative persona (i.e him vs ex ....or him vs. 'current men in her life')... Any way, let's get back on track...
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For your purpose, you always want to take logical approaches and get your beliefs as close to reality as possible. That will make your approach more superior than a lot of guys out there who teach this stuff. And you definitely want to be analytically superior to: C‐Plussers, Guilty‐Guys and Angry Guys...
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C‐Plussers [See‐PLUS‐Sers] ‐ are Average Guys. They're not interested in learning new stuff. If they discover that the average human male only has sex twice a month, then that's now their goal. C‐Plussers are only interested in scoring a C+ [C‐plus] in all areas of life. Guilty‐Guys ‐ feel guilty for turning a woman on. Even if he does something to get a woman horny, he'll feel guilty afterwards as if he actually done something wrong to her ‐ even if it's his wife. His fatal flaw is not understanding that you can't trick your partner into getting horny. If she ended up getting horny it's because you're a desirable (to her) and you pressed her buttons ‐ which is what you should do as a man. Guilty‐ Guys are pretty ironic because they have no issue using pressure tactic, begging, arguing about sex, making her feel worthless for not having sex when 'her mind isn't turned on', etc. Angry Guys ‐ are miserable guys who actually believe life is unfair. Show me an angry guy and I'll show you a guy who can't go one day without complaining about something he can actually control. Super Desirable Guys ‐ are guys who enjoy improving and get a kick out of doing stuff that most guys will never do. They have the ability to feel guilty, but it would be something like if he told a woman that he loved her to get into her pants, when he actually doesn't love her....THAT would make him feel guilty or if he made a girl he was dating believe that they had a future when deep down inside he just wanted her for sex. THAT would make him feel guilty. Being 'tactically superior' than the average guy doesn't make him feel guilty. Taking the time to study his partner doe not make him feel guilty.
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He doesn't apologize for wanting to have sex more often. He doesn't think that having lots of sex is evil. An SDG would feel guilty for misleading a woman. Outside of that, he has no interest in being average. He doesn't apologize for getting results. If you have a buddy who is a C‐Plusser or a GG, watch his face when you tell him about a time when you done something cool to get your woman turned on. If you tell a buddy that you and your girlfriend have been screwing like crazy over the past two months.... If he's a C‐Plusser, he'll look at that as an anomaly. ("That's more than what the average guy experiences.") If he's a Guilty Guy, he'll make it seem like you did a "trick" to get her in the mood. He'll try to make you feel guilty. If he's an Angry Guy, he'll get mad at his situation. I wish Karen would want to do it that often. (It's almost as if he's not giving you credit for understand women better than he.) If he's a Super Desirable Guy, he'll be happy for you. He'll try to learn from you. He'll ask what did you that was so successful. He'll be inspired. In reality....whatever guy he is....he is capable of remembering a time when his partner was fun and horny. And that's because she's capable of getting horny. That's because she's capable of getting horny. That's because she's capable of getting horny.
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That's because she's capable of getting horny. That's because she's capable of getting horny. That's because she's capable of getting horny. That's because she's capable of getting horny. Of course, he doesn't realize that he has to switch things up. If she likes Oprah that doesn't mean she wants to watch the same exact episode over and over again. C‐Plussers don't understand this. They can only sexually survive when the relationship is new. Free Sexual Tension points. Their switch‐up skills are F‐ They keep feeding her the same episode even though her brain has adapted to it.
You're a Super Desirable Guy (obviously)! That means you're interested in being more analytically superior to C‐ Plussers, Angry Guys and GG's (and you're interested in getting close to reality as possible). However, it's important to realize that you don't need her to be analytical. (And that brings us to the MAIN POINT!) Let her believe that she can learn more about turning you on (from other sources) .... Let's move on....
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So far, we've covered the first two things of: 1. Creating feelings/emotions 2. Leveraging a commonly held perception 3. Shifting a belief Let's cover the last one:
3. Shifting a belief. There are many ways to do this and I'm thinking about creating a report in the future that talks about cool ways to do this (for those who are interested)... At a minimum (even if you're not interested in learning about this completely) you can do something really simple such as increasing mind exposure. I'll explain, because we're going to talk about that right now. Let's start from the beginning. You see, if you decided to watch 10 sad/depressing movies every day, what will happen? And by 'a sad movie' I'm referring to a movie that makes you sad (not a movie intended to make you sad). If you watched 10 sad moves every day, over time, you would feel sad and miserable without needing to watch the movies anymore. You would have been 'shifted'. It's like the training wheels are now off. You would feel miserable all day long without having to introduce the stimuli (movies) again. © Copyright. All Rights Reserved.
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Another example that really explains how this works is when you learned that the first planet is Mercury. You studied via repetition. Day 1: The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. Day 2: The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. Day 3: The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury.
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Day 4: The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. Day 5: The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. .... .... .... Day 20: The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury. The first planet is Mercury.
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And then BAM!!!
The belief is now stuck!!! Today, you BELIEVE the first planet is Mercury and you don't have to go through this process any more. Shifting a woman's belief works the same way.... Strategically, you can keep feeding her brain a positive message over and over again (on Day 1, on Day 2....on Day 20)....until it is now stuck. Let's dig deeper... If she currently believes that:
‐ She isn't sexy ‐ She isn't sexually fun ‐ Women don't view sex in a fun way ...then you need to shift her belief!!!! Because, even if you have sexual value (+ you know how to build sexual tension) if she has one of those negative beliefs about herself then YOU MUST focus on shifting her belief.
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Think about it... Fun Quiz Time: If she currently believes women shouldn't be sexually fun... What should you do? A.) Keep getting her to watch a bunch of sad movies everyday (over and over and over again). B.) Keep telling her that the first planet is Mercury (over and over and over again). C.) Keep making her laugh with comedy jokes about Uranus (over and over and over again). D.) Keep introducing her to stories/movies/concepts of women enjoying sex (over and over and over again). (Again, that's the reason why I had my secret "female erotic author" friend custom‐build stories where women are the sexual aggressors (along with other things)...because those stories can be used [IN SO MANY CREATIVE WAYS] to shift a woman's sexual belief...for the better...
If you're interested, go here when you're done reading: http://superpowermedia.com/superstories.html Use stories strategically (as tactics for Belief‐Change) can: ... get her to see something as being acceptable/normal ... get her to realize what it means to be 'sexually desirable' to a guy...
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... get her to realize 'lots of stuff' (This is really just scratching the surface....) You have to remember: Boring women are boring because they have been programmed to be 'sexually boring'. They've been brought up in an environment where the message is: Day 1 Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Day 2 Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. ... ... ... Day 100 Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing.
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Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. Being sexy (including with your husband) is a bad dirty thing. And then BAM!!!
The belief was stuck!!! Dot Dot Dot until a Super Desirable Guy (like you) comes along and OVER‐ RIDES this Belief‐File with a Better One.... Women like this need their beliefs shifted!!! When you 'feed' her mind with the right messages (over and over and over again) pretty soon you will SHIFT her beliefs (because you are OVER‐ RIDING the existing belief).... you will unconsciously give her permission to 'be free' and initiate when she's horny and things like that...) Super Desirable Guys understand this. Angry Guys are confused by this. C‐Plussers won't do it because that most guys don't take this approach. Obviously, you would keep introducing her to stories/movies/concepts of women enjoying sex. Day 1: You would do this a few times throughout the day. Day 2: You would do this a few times throughout the day. Day 3: You would do this a few times throughout the day. Day 4: You would do this a few times throughout the day. Day 5: You would do this a few times throughout the day. ... ...
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Day 10: You would do this a few times throughout the day. BAM!!! The belief is now stuck!!! And the cool thing is you can kinda tell when a woman now believes she's sexually fun. You can tell when she has tapped into her Inner Fun Nympho. If you tell a friend your girlfriend is a nympho... If he's an Angry Guy, he'll get angry that his girlfriend isn't a nympho. If he's a C‐Plusser, he'll call you lucky. If he's a Guilty Guy, he'll want you to get her help. He'll assume that she was raped when she was a little girl. If he's a SDG, he'll ask you what did you do to UNLOCK her sexual thirst because he understands that women are capable of getting horny and (2) the frequency of horniness can increase. At any rate, that sort of approach is ONE WAY to shift her beliefs... Now that we covered those 3 things (1. Creating feelings/emotions 2. Leveraging a commonly held perception 3. Shifting a belief) ....let's give an example of 2. Leveraging a commonly held perception. The rest of this report will focus on ONE TACTIC that is based on Leveraging a commonly held perception. We already hinted at what it is....which is the belief that she can learn more about turning you on (or being sexy to you) by studying the opinions of a
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group of guys... INSTEAD of the "logically superior" approach of studying YOU. Again, that's fine. We don't want to be like the dumb‐ass husband in the beginning of the report. We don't NEED to turn her into a female Einstein. As a SGD, we know that it's easier and more fun to LEVERAGE a belief (whether it's true, false, or partially false)... You see, you could be in a committed relationship for over 20 years and she could know you inside out, but for whatever reason she will have this thing where she has to know what most guys think – or the things that men secretly talk about – in an effort to know you better. I’m sure you already know this. But now you are going to use/leverage this knowledge. We’ll dive into the details of what is taking place, but first let’s jump right into what you could say to her. Here is an example: You: [first part] I was just talking to some guys at work, and we all agreed.... [second part] that the women that are the greatest at turning guys on are the ones that will walk up to a guy and grab his cock and say let's fuck!!!" ...[third part] most women who think they are good at turning guys on will 100% of the time do what the average woman does which is being passive and dropping subtle clues. They think they are good at
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turning men on, but they are not. Secretly, all guys love and go wild when women have the courage to do all of the things that most women don't do --- and just approach guys in a direct way. Most guys aren't use to that, so it always has a greater affect. Me and the guys were talking about this at work and we all agreed that all women think they know how to really turn women on, but when they try, they tend to do what every single woman does which is to act passively - that's the nature and the instincts of the average woman. blah blah blah..." Do you see what's going on? Guilty Guy: I don't want to trick her into getting horny. Angry Guy: That's not going to work. C‐Plusser. That's too much work. Super Desirable Guy: Oh I get it. This is something designed to introduce to her a "new way" of looking at things, because if she looks at me differently and if she looks at sex differently and if she looks at the PROCESS differently, she'll BEHAVE differently!!! Here’s the deal. It's more powerful when the woman you are talking to: Cares about being more than just an average woman Cares about turning you on Cares about being perceived as sexually desirable Cares about what you have to say If that's not the case, then you need to do stuff beforehand that achieves those things, and then leverage perceptions. If you don’t have the perception that you have sexual value, then get it.
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Review Time: In order for sex to take place (at any given moment in time), you just need to know the: CR James' Super Simple Seduction Strategy.
This is the only point in my life where I wished my name was Sam Simpson! At any rate... The Super Simple Seduction Strategy is.... 1. She needs to perceive you as being sexual desirable (you must have sexual value). 2. She needs to be the right frame of mind (at that time). 3. There has to be an ideal (or close to ideal) sexual environment (for you and her). Let’s get back on track…
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If you can go to the supermarket and read the cover of those female magazines you’ll quickly discover that women are obsessed with finding out what guys really think. Do you see where I am going with this? Do you see the connection between that and the example dialog above? Do you see how you can use this information? (because you are a guy) Do see how you can insert a custom message as the secret topic that men discuss? The example dialog is just one way to sexually benefit off of her desire to want to know the secrets of men. Let's break it down right now and make it crystal clear. Remember part of the thrill for a woman is the idea that she shouldn’t know this information. Women are nosy. Let’s look at the first part of what I said to her in the example. This is your SET UP PHRASE: First part: "I was just talking to some guys at work, and we all agreed.... You can also say something like: "Years ago, me and a whole group of guys agreed that... "I was reading a book that explained that guys really... "Most women don't realize this, but guys secretly...
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You get the point. The bottom line message that you are sending (what you are trying to get her to think) is that you are getting ready to provide her with secret info about what guys secretly think about on a particular issue. So the first part of what you're going to say to her is your Set Up Phrase. You are about to warm up her mind to receive some real exciting information. Have you ever been talking to a woman and you can just tell that she has just spaced out on you? Well that is not going to happen if you execute your Set Up Phrase the right way. She is going to be so tuned in that her eyes may even get as large as door knobs! I’ve given you a few examples, but it is basically anything you can think of saying to her that is going to let her know that you are about to hit her with some deep, insider, “what guys really think about” stuff. Very powerfully, you can tear down an irrational belief/perception that she has about men in general (or you specifically) in seconds by the words that follow your mystical and magical Set Up Phrase. In our example, the "message" (new belief) was THIS IS WHAT REALLY TURNS MEN ON... In reality, the message can be whatever you want. Think about what your message is and then set it up and send the message. You want her to feel as if she is going behind closed doors. 1. Set it up (your set up phrase) 2. Send the message (the secret that you and the guys were talking about) 3. Give her the explanation (the reason) so that it STICKS INSTANTLY.
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Instant Belief Change! You see, when a person's mind is WIDE OPEN to receive information, the impact is huge!!! Let's dig deeper into this... For example, if your girlfriend told you: GF: I have bad news. You: What? GF: I stopped by your house last week. You: Ok... GF: Your neighbor opened his door and told me you weren't home. You: OK... (Your mind is now WIDE OPEN!!!) GF: Well, you didn't tell me you had a cute neighbor. You: What the hell are you talking about? Why would I say something like that? GF: Well, he was nice. He invited me inside and we had sex. Let me ask you a question. Would that be something you would REMEMBER instantly. You wouldn't forget that kind of information because the IMPACT is so huge!!! The first time you were told that Mercury was the first planet, you forgot it. The impact was soooooo small, that you had to use Repetition.
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A person smoking cigarettes has to use REPETITON to get addicted. They have to smoke over and over and over again to FINAAAALLLLY get addicted.... That's because the impact is so small. A person smoking crack cocaine has to use IMPACT to get addicted. They have to smoke it once to INSTANTLY get addicted.... To remember Mercury is the first planet (as a 7 year old) you have to use REPETITON to remember it, because the impact is soooooo small. Remembering that your slutty girlfriend banged your neighbor is based on IMPACT so it happens instantly because the impact is soooooo huge. It would be pointless to ingrain the information via repetition... Day 1: She banged my neighbor. She banged my neighbor. She banged my neighbor. She banged my neighbor. She banged my neighbor. She banged my neighbor. Nope! All it takes is one time, because the impact is huge!!! That's something to keep in mind. If you're ingraining a new belief in her, you want to use a combination of
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Repetition & Impact to accelerate the process, because you don't want to leave anything to chance. You see, it makes it easier to convince her of something or to tear down an irrational belief, when you set it up the right way. You end up magnifying the impact. She could have the popular irrational belief that "all men are dogs" (meaning 'all men cheat'). And the words that follow your Set Up Phrase can tear that down that irrational belief in seconds. Why? Because women over the years have been brainwashed into accepting non‐sense messages via repetition... So all you have to is simply approach her the same exact way those magazines approach her (using a skillful blend of repetitive messages)... Fortunately for you, you are going to benefit from the fact that most women regard the 'not‐so‐logic' information in those magazines as truth. The second part is simply what you want to her to believe (or the message that you want to send). If she already agrees with your message (that is contained in the second part), then it will magnify her belief to a degree. Have you ever explained to a young child something they knew nothing about and they give you that innocent "Wow I never knew that. That's amazing!" look ... that's the same look you are going to be looking for when you tell her your second part which we will call the The Mens' Secret. In the example I used:
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[second part] "that the women that are the greatest seducers are the ones that will walk up to a guy and grab his crotch and say let's fuck!!!" ..." The obvious message is clear. It is important that you are crystal clear. And it is best if this is an action she can visualize herself doing. The signals are: Signal 1. Most women don't know this. Signal 2. This is how you really turn a guy on. Ideally, it should be as close to something she can see herself doing as possible. If not, there are other things you can do that we'll talk about at a later time.... Again you can use it for purposes outside of letting her know what you enjoy sexually. In this example, the message is: If you want to be sexually superior, then do this. You could (as mentioned before) use the structure to shift her belief about herself. If she believes she isn't sexy, then give an example of something she did ‐ and just tell her that you think it's sexy. That's it. For example: You: [first part] I was just talking to some guys at work, and we all agreed....
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[second part] that the women that are the greatest at turning guys on are the ones that grab your ass when you're making love to them. [third part] I haven't told you this, but I love the fact that you do this. My past 3 girlfriends never did this. You don't need her to believe it makes her sexy. You're goal is to convince her that YOU THINK it makes her sexy. And the more you keep sending the message, the more she will FEEL sexy about herself. C‐Plusser: I've told her that she's sexy before and it didn't work. Super Desirable Guy: Then try something else! Have you ever tried saying something that links a memory‐based action [her grabbing your ass during sex] to how she feels about herself in a sexual way, repetitively? C‐Plusser: Can you say that one more time? Super Desirable Guy: Have you ever tried saying something that links a memory‐based action to how she feels about herself in a sexual way, repetitively? C‐Plusser: Umm... I don't think so. So there you go. It's very simple.
Recap Time:
The quickest way to get better at turning a woman on is: increase sexual value + increase sexual tension The method of achieve both: 1. Creating feelings/emotions 2. Leveraging a commonly held perception 3. Shifting a belief
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Mens Secret Technique 2.0
CR James
The complete break down. This is cool! 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9.
You can create feelings/emotions You can leverage feelings/emotions You can shift feelings/emotions You can create perceptions You can leverage perceptions You can shift perceptions You can create beliefs You can leverage beliefs You can shift beliefs
The best way to shift her belief (so that she sees herself in a more sexual way) is through the creative use of stories. Past stories that involve you and another woman Past stories that involve you and her Past stories that involve her and someone else.
Stories that involve two other people
http://SuperPowerMedia.com/superstories.html The (repeated) message can be designed to:
Give her more confidence Make her feel sexier. Make her perceive you as being sexier Make her perceive sex as being more fun
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CR James
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