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by Mateo Navarrete Monday, 23 February 2015
So far in this series, we have discussed a customizable conversation starter that we can implement right now as we focus on internalizing the attractive behaviors women desire. We have also explored the five fundamentals of conversation: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.
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In addition to conversation, we have learned three other ways to escalate an interaction: physically, logistically, and emotionally. You have been learning all this so that you may become more effective at creating spontaneous conversation with a woman to whom you are attracted. open in browser PRO version
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Over the next several posts, we will dive deeper into the social value matrix to explore and get a better understanding of the method behind the madness of attraction and communication.
For now, we will continue to build and customize this “bare-bones script”, which will not only give you something to say to a woman to whom you are attracted, but will also assist you in finding cool things to talk about in your future interactions with other people! Indirectly you will also discover cool places to go where you will actually be able to meet those people. Look at this conversation outline like it’s a sort of ‘Choose Your Own Adventure Book’. The more you implement this conversation outline, the more experience you will gain. Over time, your game will evolve, your conversation skills will open in browser PRO version
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improve, and you will be better at ‘Choosing the Best Adventure’ during your interactions ;-)
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Also understand that internalizing this script is not so much a memorization task, as it is a conversation guide. Familiarize yourself with it for sure, however, don’t feel like you have to quote it word-for-word. For now, remember to look at this script, and your behavior in your future interactions, as acting. Your interpretation of this conversation outline will be most effective when it seems like you’re reacting to your environment genuinely for the first time – so beef up those acting chops! So implementing what we’ve learned so far, let’s focus on the next component of our conversation outline: ADVERTISEMENT
Prompting Her to Bond: Requesting Effort As you should have already learned by now, a successful interaction involves active participation from all parties. In other words, you cannot be the only one giving effort to build a connection with an eligible woman to whom you are attracted; she must also give effort to bond with you. This next component of our conversation outline gives us a chance to work on our tone and delivery fundamentals. Although we will be asking a question, we want to make sure it sounds like a statement. Here is the request for effort we will use:
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“You seem(ed) cool. Tell me, what’s a good place to go to on a (insert whatever day it is here -).” (For example, at a club on a Friday night)
“You seemed cool. Real quick, tell me, what’s a good place to go to on a Friday night.” (For example, at the coffee shop on Tuesday afternoon)
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“You seem cool. Tell me, what’s a good place to go to on a Tuesday.” Notice how you can customize this request for effort by adding a time restriction, as well as inserting whatever day it happens to be at the end of it.
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This request for effort works for several reasons: 1. Without getting too deep into it (although in the future we’ll get more indepth), this request for her effort communicates acceptance of her ‘coolness’ (read: approves of her social value) while challenging her to support this perception.
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2. You can easily add a time restriction if necessary. On a side-note, using the past tense of verbs (like saying seemed instead of seem) creates a bit of a time distortion itself, which can also come off as a time restriction of sorts. 3. Due to its phrasing, any effort she gives can be perceived as her attempting to impress you. This means that if she’s an eligible woman, her communication can, and should, be perceived as her attempting to attract you – because she’s trying to impress you with her social value of knowing where to go out. 4. You could easily transition into getting her phone number here, and this is, open in browser PRO version
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Now let’s combine this request for effort with our customizable conversation starter to obtain a better understanding of how this works:
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(For this example, you’re at the grocery store, and a woman catches your eye as she throws a bag of chips into her cart) You: I’m glad I’m not the only one who can eat the hell out of some Nacho Cheese Doritos! Her: Haha yeah I feel so bad, today is my off day though so it’s okay! open in browser PRO version
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You: No worries, you actually remind me of a girlfriend of mine. She can devour a whole bag and not gain a pound. To be honest, I kind of hate her in a way. Don’t tell me you’re like that. Her: Haha I wish! I’m super jealous of people like that! You: You’re not the only one! (act like you’re about to leave, but then seem like you just remembered something) You: Actually, real quick, you seemed cool. Tell me, what’s a good place to go to on a Tuesday. Her: What are you in the mood for? You: Surprise me. Her: Well if you want good music then try (venue). If you’re just looking for something more low key, then check out (venue). You: Why do you say that? What is it that you like so much about (whatever venue she said). Her: (her feelings about that venue). You: Cool. Did you notice the effective implementation of the fundamentals of conversation in this example? In the conversation starter, the words, girlfriend of mine, she, and her, were used three times to indirectly, and nonchalantly, communicate an abundance mentality. open in browser PRO version
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Also, notice how a follow-up question was asked after she stated which venue she felt was good that day. Be sure to take note of her answer after prompting her to explain her feelings about why and what she likes about a particular venue. This will come in handy very shortly!
Girls Chase Challenge #2: Explore and Discover! Strengthen your ability to improvise spontaneous conversation by using what you’ve learned in real life! Remember: your conversation outline is only good if you actually use it! To blatantly quote Nike on the subject, “Just Do It!” Successful completion of the Girls Chase Challenge #1: Walk the Path provided you with a list of conversation starter variants to help get you in the habit of approaching a woman to whom you are attracted by providing you something to say (check out that post here if you need help creating your customized list of conversation starters). Now we are going to take the next step in our interaction blueprint: Plant the seeds for an active and quality social life by documenting what you discover during your experience! In a spreadsheet, skip the first column, and then type out this request for effort at the top of the next column:
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“Real quick, you seemed cool. Tell me, what’s a good place to go to on a __ (today).” Then, going back to the first column, skip a row, and fill out the next 7 cells in that column with all the days of the week in descending order (read: Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, etc.). Now in the right column (to the left of each day and underneath your typed out request), recalling what you learned in your interactions during the day, list the best venue for each day, AND a brief note about why you were told it was so amazing! Do this until you have a complete list of the coolest places to go to, for whatever reason (music, dancing, socializing, dinner, drink specials, etc.), for every day of the week (with alternates if you feel up to the challenge). If you approached just one woman a day for a month, you will have learned all the cool spots to go to in town, as well as the exact wording of why and how those spots are so appealing to a woman –because a woman told you, and in her own words! How do you like them apples, baby!
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Remember to focus on your fundamentals and practice your delivery and tone. In the beginning, to make it easier, you don’t even have to continue having a conversation if you don’t want to. Just make sure you prompt her to bond with you by delivering this request shortly after her response to your conversation starter, then take note of her reaction and move on! And of course, as a bonus and a benefit to you, I challenge you to challenge yourself to make sure that you actually do apply the knowledge you’ve gained from your newfound discoveries:
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I cannot approve of deceiving girls, however, I can look the other way when you refer to a previous acquaintance as a friend – I mean, the terms are so similar right? ;-) In other words, since you’re harmlessly sharing the perspective of a former friend (read: acquaintance) that this woman you just met may actually appreciate, you can now add the following piece to your conversation outline: (adding to our interaction example, at the point after she has told you what venue she feels is good that day) You: Why do you say that? What is it that you like so much about (whatever venue she said). Her: (her feelings about that venue) You: Cool. Actually a friend was telling me about (venue for that day). She said… (her feelings she shared with you about why she liked that venue). What do you think about that place? Her: (her feelings about that venue) This bonus challenge will assist you in strengthening your conversation skills by giving you something cool and exciting to talk about, and also help you fill out your ‘cool venue’ chart by providing you with an additional perspective on other venues! You could even take it one step further by actually going to these venues yourself (if you haven’t yet) and socialize there. In the future, we will create a social calendar to nurture those seeds we planted, so that they may blossom into an active and fulfilling social life! In summary, continuing to evolve and adapt our conversation ‘script’ allows us open in browser PRO version
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to focus on our fundamentals while we strengthen our conversational skills. And as always, the more practice we have at making conversation, the better we will get at creating conversation! Until next time, Keep Kickin’ Ass Brother, Mateo Navarrete
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Comments HI MATEO! GOOD PIECES FROM Posted by moolar on Tuesday, 24 February 2015
Hi Mateo! Good pieces from you. Been keeping a tab on your writings....and I can tell you this without equivocation; you know how to spin words into something meaningfully substantial and relevant. Well done. Sorry to digress a bit.... In an earlier post(the ad about GC needing new writers and all) by Chase, I had suggested that, considering the very rigid perspectives of seduction in Africa, West Africa precisely, he creates platform here on GC that specifically addresses pick-up among the black population of Africa. I do understand how very hectic and strenuous his schedules are, and the likely possibility of his not having the time to have revisited that post for review of comments. I was hoping that, perhaps, you could help relay this suggestion to him. I'm sorry for the for the troubles this request may cause you. NB: in that post, I had indicated my interest in actively contributing to such a platform, even if it should be for free. Please, we would appreciate if GC gives this some thought. open in browser PRO version
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