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Teasing & Banter 57 Phrases For Building Attraction
What’s The Point? The point of banter, teasing, being playful, challenging her; it’s all about building attraction, and then turning that attraction into sexual tension, and then later sexual arousal.
What’s The Point? There are a million different ways to tease or banter, but I’m going to keep it really simple for you by breaking them down into Simple Categories. !
If you’re just starting out, then you can use some of the examples I give you, but if you’ve already got some success talking to women, then pay attention to the structure, and not the specific examples.
Reframing Her As A Child 1 - “You remind me of my little sister, adorable, but a little annoying.” 2 - “You must have driven your parents crazy.” 3 - “Isn’t this a school night?” 4 - “Do your parents know your out?” 5 - “Bartender, you might want to check her ID again.”
Judge Her Behavior 6 - “You went drinking last night, didn’t you?” 7 - “You don’t get out much, do you?” 8 - “You’re so outside the circle of trust.” 9 - “Your last boyfriend must have hated that about you.” 10 - “Is she always like this?”
Judge Her Behavior 11 - “Are you at least rich?” 12 - “Did you forget to take your medication today?” 13 - “Oh, looks like someone forgot to take their nap.” 14 - “Does anyone around here speak nonsense/gibberish. I need a translator.”
Judge Her Behavior 15 - “Wow, I’m impressed. Lets everyone give "name" a round of applause!” 16 - “Now are you just making this shit up as you go along?” 17 - “You know you’re still talking right?” 18 - “You’re a nurse? Fuck. I was hoping maybe you were a stripper…”
Judge Her Behavior 19 - “Ok, now you’re starting to scare me…” 20 - “Bartender…I think you need to cut this one off.” 21 - “You are so fired!” 22 - “That’s it! We’re getting a divorce!”
Bad Girl vs Good Girl 23 - “You look like trouble.” 24 - “You are, evil.” 25 - “You are bad girls. I have to watch out for you.” 26 - “I give you a 7/10 on the trouble scale. I’ve got my eye on you miss.”
Bad Girl vs Good Girl 27 - “You’re a shy girl aren’t you? We need to get you out more.” 28 - “Awww…you’re so innocent. I bet pink is your favorite color.” 29 - “Does your mother know you’re talking to boys?”
Reverse The Roles 30 - “You’re such a player.” 31 - “Stop flirting with me.” 32 - “I’m so out of your league.” 33 - “We need to find you a man.” 34 - “Don’t get your hopes up. I’m not easy.” 35 - “Stop undressing me with your eyes.”
Reverse The Roles 36 - “You’re looking at me like a fat kid looks at a muffin.” 37 - “Stop trying to impress me.” 38 - “My mother warned me about girls like you.” 39 - “Did you come all the way over here just to flirt with me?” 40 - “What else do you like about me?”
Reverse The Roles 41 - “You’re hitting on the wrong guy. I’m totally not boyfriend material. (point over at some dorky looking guy). He looks perfect for you.” 42 - “Did you roofie my drink?” 43 - “Look. You’re cool and all, but it’s not going to happen. I don’t fuck on the first date.”
Disqualify Yourself 44 - “We would never get along.” 45 - “You already had your chance with me.” 46 - “Guys like me are overrated.” “I hate you.” 47 - “Ok, note to self…don’t date her.” 48 - “I’m definitely not your type.” 49 - “We could never date. It would be just fights and make up sex.”
Push - Pull 50 - “You are, so feisty! I love you!” 51 - “You are soo hot…shame you’re only 5ft!” 52 - “You are completely bat shit crazy. I love girls who are nuts” 53 - “You are either the coolest person I met all night, or a total fucking wierdo.”
Push - Pull 54 - “I know that beautiful smile. You are totally evil.” 55 - “Shhhh…don’t say anything. You’re cute, you’ll mess it all up.” 56 - “You’re awesome, I like you…You can help me pick up girls.” 57 - “I really wanted to fuck you when we first met…what did you do?”
Final Words Your delivery has to convey a sense that you’re sure of yourself; you don’t care what she thinks; you’re doing this for self-amusement; and that you live in your own world. !
If your delivery is not spot on, you’ll come across as forced and unnatural, which will kill attraction