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“Tease To Please” The Absolute Best Techniques To Talk To Women – Insanely Powerful Strategies To Hit A Grand Slam In Every Conversation

By Carlos Xuma Author, “Master Attraction Blueprints: How To Talk To Women” http://derekrake.com/carlosxuma http://derekrake.com/carlosxuma

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Introduction by Derek Rake Welcome.

You should already know by now that certain behavior in men attracts women to them like bees to honey. Once you’re committed to making your personality shine and letting go of your inhibitions, you can start practicing your skills around women.

You know all about being cocky and funny; or having the confidence to take the first step when approaching girls. Now it’s time to put all that into practice… using a simple step-by-step formula which you’re going to learn here in this short report.

Carlos Xuma will show you how you can meet more women in your daily life, and how you can turn any interaction into something that will lead to a romantic adventure.

Use his killer “Tease To Please” technique… and you will know exactly what to say to a woman to make her go head over heels in love with you.

Turn the page…

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“Tease To Please” by Carlos Xuma Your ability to strike a conversation with any girl is your gateway to getting more experience in the social scene, being more confident and getting laid more.

Soon, you will be unlocking more opportunities to meet more people. You see, it doesn’t stop with one interaction. If a girl you meet introduces you to her friends and they in turn introduce you to more people, it won’t be long before you’re neck deep in phone numbers and invitations to meet up.

On the contrary, if you choose to limit the number of women you will meet, you’re going to develop the tendency to hang on to these few women, as if your life depended on not being dumped.

You see what I’m getting at here? Guys who are clingy and needy are the ones with the mindset that they might never find other women to date, so they end up desperate for the girls they already know. Don’t go there.

Instead, do what you can to be the go-to guy for dates and lays. Be the guy who can make any woman smile in response with his irresistible charm.

Let’s start by understanding the principles involved in meeting women anywhere and anytime.

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You might be asking, “Anytime and anyplace? Do I have the time for that?” I hear you.

Right now, the general misconception is that guys have to beat around the bush before getting a woman to open up in conversation. The truth is, if you have about 4 minutes (or less) to spare, you can talk to women, build a connection right there, and open the doors to more intimate encounters later.

This approach will work ANYWHERE. And, no it won’t require a complicated hypnosis routine or a secret handshake.

What you want to do is to bust her resistance barriers early. What exactly are these barriers? First, we have the aversion to being picked up.

Women can sense that a guy is trying to pick her up and puts up a cold front because she’s bracing herself for what she thinks is coming. This is the factory default that women (particularly the beautiful ones) have.

There are ways to make her drop her guard and treat you differently from the 'strange' men who usually come on to her. And here are some of these.

Tip #1: Approach Immediately

Spotting a woman, approaching her and saying something to engage her in conversation takes only 3 seconds. Beyond this, her “Tease To Please” by Carlos Xuma

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guard will go up and you’re going to blow your chance of getting her while her guard is down.

What can you do in that short period? Do this…

Look for something to comment on. It can be something she’s wearing. Start with her footwear, her clothes and her accessories. Do not choose a physical trait like big earlobes or breasts. In particular, do not mention her general attractiveness. This is the mistake most men make.

That thing becomes your anchor. Once you have it, you can comment on it and smile. Make sure your eye contact is strong and your manner is natural. If you want to practice, do it in a mall. You know how interaction goes there.

You spot something of interest and you ask someone about it as soon as you can. There’s nothing threatening about the topic, and the most important part is that you’re making the other person feel “safe” talking about something that’s only mildly related to her.

Here’s an example. If she’s wearing bright orange shoes, say "Wow, those are ... interesting shoes. My younger sister might like a pair like that. Where'd you get them...?" If you don't have a sister, you can use 'Cousin' or ‘Mom’. You don't have to lie. You absolutely don’t want her to think you fooled her when after a time she asks about your ‘younger sister’ again.

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If she says, "Oh, I got it at Macy's", look at the item again like you can’t decide or something like that. If you got this far, you shouldn’t revert back to the old flattery routine like, “it goes so well with your eyes."

Tip #2: Involve Her in a Conversation Immediately

Acting like you want to flatter her will set off the alarm bells inside her head. It shows her that you’re screaming for approval and that you’re desperate to say anything to get her to notice.

A compliment this early in your interaction with a girl brings on a fleeting sense of thrill – it’s nice for a while then it makes her suspicious ten-fold.

At this point, your goal is to serve a PROMISE in front of her first. What sort of promise? The promise that you’re there to talk about something that isn’t sexual in nature.

You *almost* show her a look of inconvenience; something that she won’t relate to pick up, or to the sleazy hook up strategies that she’s so used to from other guys.

From her perspective, you’re simply someone who went out of your way to talk to her about her shoes, or her denim skirt. The more she thinks your motives for approaching are safe, the less resistance she’s going to put up.

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Basically, you’re structuring the interaction so that her next thought will be: "I wonder if he’s saying he likes my dress. He didn't say."

From there on out, you will be able to get into the Tease portion of the conversation. All you need to do is keep her into the conversation for a minute or two. Do this as confidently as you can, and you will be able to walk off with her number in your hand.

Next, you might be asking, "What if there's remarkable about her? She’s wearing nondescript clothing and there’s an absence of any accessory that’s worth mentioning."

The answer is simple: make something up.

Tip #3: Make Something Up

Remember, you can tell at a glance that there is ALWAYS something on her that you can comment on. Don’t worry if you can’t see a brand name anywhere. Find an item to comment on, and make something up along the way.

Think about it. She's got clothes on, and you can bet she will be wearing something else (shoes, lipstick etc). Don’t be picky with the item to talk about. Remember that it’s not about the item, it’s about getting her in a conversation.

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If you have to be really specific about something, I recommend looking for jewelry first. This is because every woman puts more effort to pick out a piece that goes with her ensemble.

Tip #4: Use A Negative-Hit

Resistance and defense mechanisms are higher and tougher for very attractive girls. Because of this, you have to adopt a slightly different strategy when approaching an extraordinarily attractive girl.

Wondering how to classify what’s plain and what’s really gorgeous? Look at one spread of Cosmo and take a good look at the models on there. These are the women you really want, and if you see one like her, you have to pounce with your arsenal of approach skills.

Let’s talk about the combination of negative-hit and the method we described above. I recommend that you use this method exclusively on hot girls, or the ones who are used to being approached.

When you're relaxed and can use the combo method at will, it makes everything you say more natural.

You just remember one thing, and it's so simple you won’t be able to forget it:

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"Your dress/shoes/blouse/jacket/purse (whatever) caught my eye. The style is great, but I think it’s better in black.“ (modify the color accordingly)

You say this while meeting her eyes full-on.

Her head will be filled with all that she heard from others about the certain color she chose. "Really? But everyone said this is the best color for me. What do you mean?"

By using this combination of approaches, you flip her resistance switch in your favor. She starts wanting to find a reason to trust you, and she quickly responds to you like she would a friend.

She lowers her guard some more and begins smiling back, discussing the benefits of mauve shoes and whatever else is in season with you. When you get to this point, you’re in.

Posing as a non-lover for now will make your whole approach neutral, and get her wondering whether you’re safe or not. The more you argue your point, the more she feels that you might not be as interested in hooking up with her as she initially thought.

In conclusion, she thinks you’re safe enough to talk to, for now. And, from here on out, you’re going to focus on how to be INTERESTING to her.

Maybe for the first few times, you’re going to be awkward with using these approaches. But work your way until you reach a comfort “Tease To Please” by Carlos Xuma

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zone that will enable you to use the line I taught you effortlessly, like you’ve been doing it forever.

Heck, I would even recommend the first part ("Where'd you get xxxx, my sister might like that ...") to practice with, and thank her then walk away.

The point is to get used to just talking to any woman up front, without putting pressure on yourself. For the first week or two, do this and I can guarantee that you will get use to the reality that will not reject you like you’ve always imagined.

Witty and clever conversation need not be your goal for now, just take whatever comes to mind after you’ve looked her over and found something to talk about. Take any topic and turn it into something unique or interesting and expound on that.

In a sense, you take her mind off the mentality that you’re picking her up. And, in turn, making her want to validate her likability to you. This is the foremost concept that the whole "TEASE TO PLEASE" method is built on.

Keep it simple and workable. While other guys will spend all their time and energy thinking of conversation starters, you will be using a very effective method that will build initial trust and get you going.

One more thing… I suggest that you practice as you go along. You see, most guys will take an approach try to negate the benefits of “Tease To Please” by Carlos Xuma

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the method before finally putting it to use. Just apply the concept in different scenarios, and you’ll find out that it works every time.

Just remember to keep things light, and allow yourself to be funny. Women will notice your sense of humor and go along with it, as long as you aren’t insulting, and you’re comfortable with being funny.

Humor and a well-mannered stance are universally effective. All you have to do is to search around for a girl you like, find something to talk about (anchor) and start a conversation. In a few minutes you’re ready to TEASE…

Tip #5: Make It Fun

We learned the very basics of interaction when we were kids. Remember when you used to tease girls while playing in the sandbox? Remember how they teased you back? It may be a long time ago, but the principle of teasing still holds for many of us. We’re all kids at heart anyway, whether we care to admit or not.

I'm willing to bet that all throughout middle school up to high school, the girls you loved to tease were the ones you liked best. Of course, the initial reaction is that the girl will stand her ground and tease back.

You may not have realized it at that time, but this is the very foundation of what we call a challenge.

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You challenge a woman into responding to you, and more often than not, she does (with more passion than you can imagine).

Teasing is all about making her pride rankle a bit, so that she’ll try her best to prove herself to you. It’s also a way of showing her that you’re no sissy when it comes to exchanging banter. You’re confident that you can keep at it without crying to mommy.

And, in the end, both of you will think the whole exchange is kind of funny, somewhat stupid, and over-all, a lot of fun.

Tip #6: Stick With a Simple Strategy

By teasing a girl, you show a boatload of self-confidence. You demonstrate that you’re someone who can dish a joke, and take one in stride.

Some call this attitude cocky. Some call it humorous. And, some others call it cocky confidence. Call it what you want. It’s an attitude that works.

You’re calling the shots; you’re leading the way to progressive, seductive interaction, and skillfully showing her you have the attitude to pounce back and not roll over and pant like a whipped dog every time a woman like her says so.

So let’s suppose you delivered your introduction and now you are in a position to keep the conversation going. You've disarmed her tendency to be defensive and opened the doors to getting her “Tease To Please” by Carlos Xuma

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interested in you. You can crank up the attraction by making her feel that she has to prove herself to you. Do this through Teasing.

For instance, she's got a huge pair of red shades on. You say: "Wow, that’s and ... interesting… pair of shades. My sister might like a pair like that. Where'd you get them...?"

She might say: "Oh, these? I got them at Macy's. They're really old. I was looking to get a new pair."

You can tease her by saying: "Well, my sister is pretty young, but she'd love that style. For an OLDER lady though ... (PAUSE) ... you're pretty trendy."

Next, you smile at her as if to say "That’s a joke."

You can use this template for now, but you'll have to think fast on your feet if her response varies. The point is that you can customize this to fit your conversation and tease a girl the way she likes to be teased.

You can deliver any line with a sly smile. Here are some examples.

If she’s wearing stiletto heels, say…

"Well, with elevated heels like that, you’d better be careful not to bump your head on a low-flying plane."

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"Those heels are sharp. How many feet have you crushed with those things? "

If she’s wearing an ornate ring, say:

"Well, my sister loves those types of rings, too. Do you also own a mood ring? I bet you have one to suit your mood.”

“What is it about having cold hand and wearing blue rings?”

"My sister wears a toe ring like that. Girls who wear those are pretty cool, except when they have a matching pair on their pierced butt cheeks. (pause) Wait, don’t tell me yours are pierced.”

"Wow, that ring is HUMONGOUS. It’s pretty hard to swim with that thing, I bet.”

The list goes on and on. You can probably think of better ones when you’re on scene and eyeing a girl who’s wearing a pair of hoop earrings or feather-patterned fishnets.

Now, tell me. Doesn't it feel awesome to have something to dish out whenever and wherever you meet women?

Remember, the key to this thing is to stick with what’s fun, not with what could insult the other person.

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Anyone who is said to have a tongue-in-cheek sense of humor can pull this off easily. If your style isn’t like that, give yourself a few weeks to practice.

You want to banter with her. Spend a few minutes talking to her like that to increase rapport. You’re making fun of her and she’s doing the same with you. You’re both smiling and laughing at your antics.

Because you’re making her feel great, there’s no chance at all that she will resist when you ask to continue the interaction sometime later. You see, it’s rare to meet men who can pull off something like that in a jiffy, and you can bet she will want more of that from you in another place and time.

So here’s the “Tease To Please” method in a nutshell…

A) Get a conversation started B) Challenge her and get her laughing C) Offer to meet sometime to continue your chat

If after you joke with her for a while, you think she’s worth dating, go for her number. But do this in a way that will make her wonder if she will ever see you again. Smile and start to turn around as if to leave, then turn right back and say "Hey, write down your number for me. We can talk more about this some other time."

Alternatively, say "Hey, you know, I might like to continue this conversation sometime. Write down your email address for me." “Tease To Please” by Carlos Xuma

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If she asks for a pen, give her yours (make sure you have one). If she says she doesn't have email, tease her by saying, "No email? You must have been living under a rock in the internet age" Smile.

As she starts writing, say: "That’s your REAL number, right.” Smile and leave. Leave her wondering whether or not you will call.

That’s all there is to it. Make her feel that you’re a great guy, make her understand that she’s going to put up with your fun teasing (and that you can take it when she teases back), have fun with her and get her digits.

You can do this off the clubs during the day, when all the women are around you in coffee shops and shopping malls. You’re going to get ahead of all the men around just by learning this method. It won’t do to simply limit your game in bars, at night. What matters is you have something to use on women whenever an opportunity to meet one opens up for you.

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Here’s to your success with women,

Author, “Master Attraction Blueprints: How To Talk To Women” http://www.derekrake.com/carlosxuma

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